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1 year ago: commented on the article "No one is unlucky. Hold onto this. "
I would also like to read the book its sounds nice, I agree with you though, most times when things aren't particularly rosy for me, I look at other people having it all and I sometimes feel unlucky,...
1 year ago: published the article
Being an introvert
1 year ago: commented on the article "We've All Been There."
fear of the unknown is something that has the potential to completely crush dreams and hopes if you let it, it is something i have been dealing with, it can get worse if you do not strive to control i...
1 year ago: commented on the article "Dealing With It."
you're definitely talking to me, dealing with the issue of fear over the what ifs that may arise if i do decide to do something, you soon realize that you would never know until you try. To be able to...
1 year ago: commented on the article "Three Tune Tuesday Week 59 - Westlife."
thank you
1 year ago: published the article
Is there a manual for growing up?
1 year ago: commented on the article "Reputation and Character"
wow what a statement indeed, i agree with you though, nobody is guilt free but nobody is perfect either and sometimes media tends to focus on the mistakes of people rather than the true character of a...
1 year ago: commented on the article "Three Tune Tuesday Week 59 - Westlife."
These songs would always be classics, my goodness, even reading through the lyrics put a smile on my face. It's hard to pick a favorite though, they are all amazing love songs
1 year ago: commented on the article "Some Days To Remember"
I agree with you, recalling and remembering those moments and memories of happiness and joy help put a smile on a sad face, and even brighten a sad day too
1 year ago: commented on the article "Have you ever danced to a talking drum before?"
it is definitely fun hearing it in songs and at parties. it adds a certain type of sound to music that makes it dance-able, i give it to the yorubas for their skills and mastery in the instrument. I a...
1 year ago: commented on the article "Tatiana Manaois; loaded with motivations."
she is a great artist with an amazingly unique voice, i haven't really listened to a lot of her music but i do remember when i heard her song 'like you' for the first time, at first i thought it this...
1 year ago: commented on the article "This Crosses The Line of Stupidity."
i totally agree with you, we should go into a relationship with our head and heart, our head to help us till apply a sense of reason to things as well to help bring us back on track when we might be g...
1 year ago: published the article
Taking my own advice
1 year ago: commented on the article "Spiritual Exercise."
absolutely agree with you, God can surprise us beyond what we can even dream of
1 year ago: commented on the article "Debuting on read.cash"
Thank you so much
1 year ago: commented on the article "Sunday Self-Treat And Relaxation"
Such beautiful pictures, it is nice to find the time to unwind, once in a while its healthy to give yourself a treat, its a way of showing yourself some love and encouragement
1 year ago: commented on the article "Kitchen Knife, so sharp but teaches a great life l..."
Sharpening our mind with the right tools and habits is extremely important, the mind drives our reactions to and our interactions with people and situations, it even plays a role in our attitude towar...
1 year ago: commented on the article "Some Things I Want To Change"
I can totally relate to the issue of being too shy and introverted, I am so guilty of that, it does cause you to over think a lot of things. I am working on it though, it think coming to a place of se...
1 year ago: commented on the article "Spiritual Exercise."
As humans we can't help but worry when difficulties arise but just as you said, instead of dwelling in it for too long we can turn that worry to God. The lord Jesus Christ said we need not worry about...
1 year ago: commented on the article "Debuting on read.cash"
Thank you, nice to meet you too
1 year ago: commented on the article "Perfect Set-Up."
Wow, this is definitely teaching me to not be too trusting or naive as I sometimes tend to be, she wouldn't have imagined that it was all planned and its sad that she had to go through all that she we...
1 year ago: commented on the article "No Excuses! Now I read"
I can totally relate to being able to skip meals just to finish a novel, i at some point wouldn't mind staying up most of the night just to read a novel but when it comes to the other types of books l...
1 year ago: commented on the article "Debuting on read.cash"
Thank you so much for the encouragement
1 year ago: published the article
Debuting on read.cash
2 years ago: commented on the article "Just Do What You Can Do."
I agree with you, its best to decide intentionally to be good without high and unnecessary expectations of reciprocity because it might not come from the direction you wish it to but the hope that we...
2 years ago: commented on the article "To the beautiful you "
I agree with you, the beauty within as it relates to our character, attitude as well as well as our intellectual capacity does radiate through the outer physical beauty but it starts with us knowing t...
2 years ago: commented on the article "I Can Never Understand It."
This social media can be a craze place, it has its advantages and disadvantages as well, with what i eee these days I just think people need to be careful so as not to put up stuff that they might end...
2 years ago: commented on the article "“How Does It Feel To Love?”"
I agree with you basically the feelings must be mutual for it to move forward successfully but for both parties, it may not happen at the same exact time but it may eventually become mutual. As for m...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Take Charge, Don't Waste It Away."
Absolutely true, it is important that we do not let our time be wasted by not using it to all least try those things we have in our hearts to do. Just like you said sometimes we fail, situations and c...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Self Leadership."
Oooh I remember, thanks again for that it was really helpful.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Self Leadership."
Hi James sorry but I can't remember if I've met you or if we know each other from somewhere
2 years ago: commented on the article "Self Leadership."
Thank you so much, that really means a lot
2 years ago: commented on the article "Make It Private Today and The Year Ahead"
I agree with social media these days there's a tendency to have things all out there. I think its about the individual making the decision on what they want to be kept private and what they are comfor...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Escaping from reality...?"
Totally agree, I have tried to temporarily escape sometimes too, though in some cases that temporary break or escape is necessary to have a clearer mind but the problem always lingers and we would eve...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Self Leadership."
No one else can motivate you towards your goals the way you would motivate and push yourself, that effort is the one that has the greater impact. You are right instead of saying what do I want to be o...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Reading And Writing "
I absolutely agree with you when we read constantly it broadens our mindsets and helps us come up with great ideas to write on and also helps give us an insight into how we can improve our writing and...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Developing Through A Process Of Becoming Secure Wi..."
Thank you too
2 years ago: commented on the article "No more insecurity"
I can really relate as well there are some days where we wake up and are triggered by something or someone which leaves us feeling insecure. I have felt it really deeply before to the point where you...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Developing Through A Process Of Becoming Secure Wi..."
Moderation is the key, being secure within just as you've put it is important because with that inner security we would know how to do things for ourselves with ourselves I'm mind not the intent of im...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Dive Deeper Through Reflection And Rise Against Cr..."
Never let criticism cause you to bite, beat or get back at someone aggressively that is so true. There are constructive criticisms and some people know how to give it constructively but not everyone d...
2 years ago: commented on the article "I Have Imagined It, Have you? Guilty As I Am?"
Wow, Your pen does speak indeed. Our dreams and imaginations are really important, i mean why limit your dreams when it doesn't cost you anything to dream and imagine as big, wide and limitless as pos...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Some Of My Favourite Quotes Explained, III."
Wow that first one really got to me, my own idea of God would not only determine how I handle my worries, wants and needs which I have communicated to Him but it also shapes my relationship with Him,...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Relinquish Your Insecurities And Embrace Who You A..."
I for one know how powerful a deep sense of insecurities can be, they can hold you back as well as comparing yourself to others that's another means by which a person can become depressed and feel le...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Things To Know About Me."
You do have some really nice attributes, and from all these as well as what I've gotten from your articles, you're a good person. There are some similar things I can relate to, the love for words for...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Healing Is A Process."
Absolutely, we all react to situations differently, everybody's recovery time differs and we should learn to understand and accept the processes of people and how they go through it. Heal first to avo...
2 years ago: commented on the article "The Healer: "Just Breathe""
Taking it day at a time is important in order not to overwhelm ourselves but to instead enjoy, live and experience every moment with pure enthusiasm and desire to breathe and live happy and truly
2 years ago: commented on the article "Love Is Different For Everyone."
Wow, that poem is beautiful. Love languages are so important and shouldn't be overlooked, I agree with you first of all you need to learn yourself and understand your own language to be able to now kn...
2 years ago: commented on the article "A Humble Display of Monthly Summary In February"
Congratulations my friend, well done on all your achievement, more successes to come.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Your clothes speak about you"
I do agree with you, its all about choosing what describes and defines who you really are
2 years ago: commented on the article "Life and God's Wisdom."
Hearing from God is a really powerful gift, I have heard so many stories of his God has spoken to people and how helpful it has been to them. I do agree with you knowledge is power, we have Solomon as...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Are you willing to give a second Chance?"
It could be difficult to trust again after being cheated on, some people are to make it work but some aren't able to. In the end I think it depends on the individuals, their mindsets and their level o...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Time or money?"
You are right, sometimes we tend to sacrifice one for the other, it would be nice to have both and not have to do that sacrifice but it can't always be that way. Time though, that can't be gotten bac...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Best sites for freelancing online courses."
Thank you for sharing this information, I have heard of udemy before but didn't know anyone who's used it, this helps to encourage me to give it a try
2 years ago: commented on the article "A Dozen of Expressions With Real Warmth"
This is beautiful, we should learn to be true and honest in our words and compliments, I love words and the power they have when used beautifully with beautiful intentions as well. Sometimes a heartfe...
2 years ago: commented on the article "If I Were A Girl."
Hi semaj
2 years ago: commented on the article "Life's Tactics."
We can't know every single thing, nobody has it all figured out, we are learning as we go while also helping others with what we've learn so they too can learn. The sky is big enough for everyone so l...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Lessons learnt from Therapy..."
Therapy is something I've always wanted to do, I've heard about all the benefits and I definitely want to take part in it someday when I can afford it. Thanks for this, I've heard of that emotion whee...
2 years ago: commented on the article "If I Were A Girl."
Absolutely true
2 years ago: commented on the article "When You Go With The Flow"
Thank you too my friend
2 years ago: commented on the article "Wait for your turn"
Waiting can be difficult especially when it feels like everybody else is moving ahead and you are still waiting, you then begin to question everything and just like said self begins to come into play...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Plastic Is Dangerous!"
We do need to change our mindset on waste disposal, on climate change and proper climate care as it is absolutely necessary if we must save and create a healthier climate, environment and atmosphere,...
2 years ago: commented on the article "When You Go With The Flow"
Going with the flow is not bad but just like you said, do it with good intentions towards yourself, not because you want to please anybody by joining the crowd but because the trend or the flow appea...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Why should I care? "
Wow you just made me think about how people acting like they care about you is different from people who actually care about you. Yes life happens, people change and so does their situations and respo...
2 years ago: commented on the article "I signed out today"
Congratulations on thus great achievement and well done for your determination and fighting spirit.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Lost $350 in just a night"
This is sad that people don't his and get away with it, it can be frustrating when you know you work hard for your money only to have something like this happen to you. It does make me really distrust...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Can’t Let Anyone Steal All Of You!"
I do agree, I often hear the talks of leaving legacy, making impact and I keep thinking to myself his I can do that with what i have, my dreams, my vision, my purpose and talents. Its identifying what...
2 years ago: commented on the article "I am a new mommy of two"
Congratulations, they are really cute.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Could it be love?"
I can totally relate to that chore statement, sometimes if I know my mom would want me to do something, I would do it way earlier than necessary just to be able to say to her I've already done it when...
2 years ago: commented on the article "My Degree vs My Job; Am I on the right track?"
You are a fighter and a determined one too, for you to have been able to thrive doing something totally different from what you studied is a big achievement. I'm currently still in the university and...
2 years ago: commented on the article "If I Were A Girl."
I thoroughly enjoyed reading this, you were definitely as honest as you said you would be, thank you for making me smile with this but back to the topic, trust me when the cramps come up i almost wish...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Your Darkest Moments"
I too have done things that I'm not proud of and I agree with you that they sometimes weigh down on us and being able to speak about it to someone you trust does help
2 years ago: commented on the article "Survive this, you'll survive anything."
I have heard some scary stories too, I also went to a boarding school, there was talk of the bush baby, miss koi koi and so many others. I never experienced any of them in real life, thank God becaus...
2 years ago: commented on the article "What's Your Take From Life?"
My own take from life based on my experiences is to take it one step at a time, one day at a time and to make the most of that day doing those things that you want to do. Its alright to plan for the f...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Me, Myself & I..."
You do seem like a lovely person, and super talented too.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Be honest, what was your intention?"
This is sad that you had to go through this, I agree with you the intentions need to be transparent and clear between the two parties so that you're all on the same page to avoid somebody getting hurt...
2 years ago: commented on the article "It's Hard, Sometimes."
I hope your friend does heal and recover from this, its crazy what people do to those they claim to be in a relationship with and just like you said why bother to cause someone to commit to you when...
2 years ago: commented on the article "I just wanted to help."
I agree, I have heard a lot of people say that it is better to only lend out that which you know you can afford to loose as you may or may not get it back
2 years ago: commented on the article "Unrequited Love."
I agree with you totally, they are times when you'd feel strongly for a person and they just don't see you in the same light, telling them how you feel may not always guarantee a reciprocated mutual r...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Guys, Learn Patience."
Communicating is key in any relationship whether its with a significant other, with friends and even with family. Some people want to mask their true intentions just to get something that they're afte...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Forgiveness; why it is important."
Forgiveness is important and necessary through the journey of life, sometimes when we hold on to un-forgiveness for too long we end up being the one getting hurt the most in the situation.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Don't Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise."
Thank you, I appreciate it
2 years ago: commented on the article "Prolong A Promising Time As Ageless As Timeless "
I hope so, thank you for encouraging me.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Spent $6.64 only to be frustrated at the end. "
That's frustrating, I enjoy reading novels too and could easily have fallen into that trap
2 years ago: commented on the article "Career Making Advice For Teenagers"
Taking out the time to study and practice that skill which holds your interest is key, as long you have the capabilities, desire, interest and the determination to do so
2 years ago: commented on the article "Prolong A Promising Time As Ageless As Timeless "
Doing all you can to prolong and enjoy those precious moments is important because you don't know when you might have it again, making the most of those happy moments is amazing. I agree with you dee...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Don't Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise."
We always magnify others while focusing in our darkness, that line is definitely speaking to me, it can be a struggle to get out of that mindset especially when it has become a habit but I'm learning,...
2 years ago: commented on the article "10 things I love about myself "
I think truly loving ourselves is absolutely important because it means we love every part of ourselves, the good, the bad, the perfect and the imperfect. We accept ourselves the way we are and choos...
2 years ago: commented on the article "The power of choice and decisions."
I agree with you, our life is mainly composed of choices and decisions, whether its to eat or not, to shower or not, to go to work or not, to love or not, its all based on a decision and a choice. We...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Sacrifice."
Sacrificing and giving to those whom we may never meet or see again, to those who won't repay or don't even have the capacity to do so is more rewarding than giving to those who will give back to you....
2 years ago: commented on the article "1 BCH Unlocked: Celebrating Milestone With Gratitu..."
Congratulations, I hope you have more successes to share and celebrate, I'm barely one month here on read.cash and this is definitely encouraging, i hope i get to celebrate too.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Love yourself - it will develop self confidence."
Self love and appreciation is important in our growth, when we master the act of loving and appreciating ourselves it changes how we love and treat others.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Fun."
Absolutely
2 years ago: commented on the article "Love."
Thanks a lot, I do enjoy reading your articles, I learn from them too, thanks again.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Quick escape, my first hike."
I look forward to making out time for it and the opportunity too, I'm sure I will enjoy it
2 years ago: commented on the article "Adulthood is a Scam"
They are a lot of responsibilities that come with growing up, sometimes nothing accurately prepares you for the things that come your way. We do just have to find a way that works for us to push throu...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Questions That I Hate When Someone is Asking Me."
Some questions can be really annoying, like asking me for my picture out of no where, or asking me sexual questions or about my body type, especially when we aren't close and even if we are they are s...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Quick escape, my first hike."
These look beautiful and now I definitely want to go on a hike myself
2 years ago: commented on the article "Money! Need Of Everyone"
Money is necessary for a lot of things, we all aspire to at least be financially comfortable but we do always have to try to not let it control us and our attitude as well as our character.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Caution, II."
I agree we are what we eat, especially when I for instance know from my dads side there's a history of diabetes and hypertension, I have to start now to being to watch what I take in so as to form a h...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Things Only Introverts Will Understand"
I can totally relate to almost everything you're saying, I'm an introverted person too. I talk only around people I'm comfortable with, I feel awkward and uncomfortable in the midst of people. I find...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Caution."
Thank you
2 years ago: commented on the article "Deal With Anxiety Or It Justifies It’s Existence"
I'll try, thank you
2 years ago: commented on the article "This Time, We'll Love All The Pain Away. "
Experiences and situations can be overwhelming and really painful, it is hard when nothing seems to be working out the way you want it to and everybody seems to be expecting things from you. I do some...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Deal With Anxiety Or It Justifies It’s Existence"
I agree with you, it needs to be acknowledged and accepted. It does feel overwhelming when you feel like you've lost control of your own mind and thoughts and the direction it takes, isn't easy to dea...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Don't spread garbage"
We do need to consciously treat our environment better and be more intentional about maintaining a cleaner and healthier environment
2 years ago: commented on the article "Helping, II."
Sometimes the assistance that leaves the greatest impact are the ones that don't require a lot of money; a simple text, a hug, words. It does make light up inside when I help out and the recipient get...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Living should be more than grateful"
I do agree with you, being grateful for the little things, the ability to meet basic needs and requirements is a luxury not everyone has access to.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Have a break, "Me Time""
Every now and it is important to check in with yourself and have some time to take care of yourself. I have never had a spa massage before, I do look forward to doing so, though I'd probably have the...
2 years ago: commented on the article "When things didn't happened as I had planned. "
It can be really frustrating when things don't work out as we plan, especially when we're trying to do something nice for a loved one. The thought does count a lot too but I get you wanting to the ex...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Listening."
Listening is a skill I think, it comes naturally to some people to listen more and speak less but for others it has to be practiced. Reading through this I realise I do need to work at that skill and...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Living."
Thank you for your wonderful writing
2 years ago: commented on the article "Respect Women"
Respect for women and their dignity is definitely important, its not always about which gender is better, bigger or higher. Its simply respecting a persons rights and dignity, sometimes people tend to...
2 years ago: commented on the article "What makes you happy?"
I agree with you happiness is very important and sometimes for me its the little things of course big things make me happy too just like you said but the little things also matter. Sometimes just hear...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Balance."
I agree with you, we do need to learn the act of balancing in all that we do, applying a bit of moderation to life is important.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Time to Heal!! But How much??"
Healing whether physically or mentally can sometimes be difficult, sometimes slow but the lesson learnt from your story is to try and maintain those relationships and friendships that are around to s...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Human trafficking"
This issue is really a serious one, especially in a country where economic situations don't help matters, some people get desperate and are forced into believing promises from predators turn out to be...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Clinging unto false hopes"
I agree with you completely, we all need a little hope to keep moving but abusing it can leave us completely frustrated and downcast. I guess we just have to find a way to be okay with what does or do...
2 years ago: commented on the article ""Confessions: Life Problems, and Struggles.""
Our struggles shouldn't define us, we all have our difficulties in life, all we can do is try to keep moving which can get really difficult at times but keeping in mind our end goal and blocking out a...
2 years ago: commented on the article "We found him - check on your friends"
Wow, I'm glad your friend is okay. I do agree with you, not everyone who is smiling is okay. Really checking up on friends and loved ones is very important
2 years ago: commented on the article "Love Thyself."
You're right, I look forward to getting there, thank you.
2 years ago: commented on the article "Love Thyself."
Wow, I've never really thought of writing a love letter to myself. Thanks for that idea, I look forward to writing it. Speaking on loving one's self, its definitely something I've struggled with. Fro...
2 years ago: commented on the article "An experience that still triggers fear."
Thank you, thanks a lot.
2 years ago: commented on the article "An experience that still triggers fear."
Absolutely
2 years ago: commented on the article "An experience that still triggers fear."
Health is really wealth indeed, I can totally relate to that. Life without health can seem pointless, it is important we pay attention to our minds and bodies, whenever something feels off. Healthcare...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Life's Observations."
Yes sir, its all about learning and growing
2 years ago: commented on the article "The Broken Eggs!!"
I agree with you consciousness in the present is important, and yes don't be in a rush to celebrate until you're sure it's all been completed
2 years ago: commented on the article "Life's Observations."
We learn every day, life is a process and we need to learn how to navigate our way through each phase. I don't know everything and I'm definitely open to learning so as to improve my self, that's life...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Can money buy Love? 2"
I agree with you, I mean of course its nice to be financially stable and all that, money does help solve problems but it isn't the sole essence of life and it shouldn't be the determining factor of ge...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Do You Think Life Is Fair Or Unfair??"
It is definitely true that when we think we have it bad, some people out there are having it worse and others are having it good. Our experiences come to us at different times, it can get really tough...
2 years ago: commented on the article " Understanding the purpose and meaning of life?"
The journey to find purpose at least for me can sometimes seem difficult, it often feels like the ones who've figured it all out are extremely wise or blessed people. I'm still on that journey, prayin...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Beyond The Life You Know"
Life is precious indeed, there's no duplicate to it, hence why we need to be intentional about what we do with our time, whom, we give it to and how to also make the most of it to do that which brings...
2 years ago: commented on the article "Reflection for Mental health problem"
The importance of mental well being and mental health can honestly never be overemphasized, the stigma needs to stop and in its place should be positive words of encouragement to people dealing with m...