Deal With Anxiety Or It Justifies It’s Existence

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Almost everyone who has suffered from anxiety never knew they fall under that category of people.. right now you probably have some thoughts going on in the background of your mind as to why this write up will not help you out. I understand how anxiety works and it has its certain way of taking full control having all the momentum built up, but how you can develop that degree of resistance is to know that it’s a developing prophesy and those thoughts are always there for a reason.

You create this massive resistance within you because you refuse to accept the fact that you have it, so this is the first colossal step in the right direction because you’re acknowledging the fact that you have it, but to acknowledge something and to accept something are two totally different things. So how do we turn this into a surrender of your current state of being, you need to be present in your anxiety.. this is a very uncomfortable feeling but it’s important to accept the problem because the next step is solution..

How can you fix a problem when you refuse to accept the fact that it’s even there, so how do we go about being able to solve this… make it a habit to ask yourself at the smallest instance “How do I feel at this moment and please ask yourself that and let me know down here” For you to undo the resistance, it takes this function but even though it takes time this is what will take you out of the pain and the hurt..

You may feel overwhelmed please tell yourself the truth, I feel stressed and weak; please tell that same truth for the rest of the day because that’s how you stay in tune with yourself.. How about you don’t view yourself how people perceive you as suppose how you truly feel, please do this from now I need you to get better.. The next stage is create the life that you desire for yourself..

We understand from a logical standpoint that anxiety induce the sane physical response in your body.. which means they are the sane but haven’t you thought why anxiety feels bad while the other feel’s good. If you want to transcend that anxiety into excitement representing positive pattern you have to shift perspective and start thinking positive.. You can’t fix this overnight, slowly you feel better and everyone around you can feel the change..

How can you be engulfed in the present moment?” You want to be aware of your thought angles, these aren’t you and don’t define who you are. Dig deeper to rediscover what makes you switch into a panic mood all the time.. Learn to do the little things that can take your attention, it’s hard to breathe sometimes taking all of this within.. daily jobs, daily routine, income line up and several things can enhance what’s already damaged but our ability to regulate is very delicate..

My prayer is for anyone under this influence and having a hard time to be free, I wish for everything you desire to be made manifest and then you switch up from being like this to a person who is happy… Please for your health and safety, stay away from anxiety. Fear of the unknown or fear of missing out should be a thing of the past..

Have a lovely weekend, treat yourself to the best meals.. put on your list beautiful attire and take a long walk where there’s unique nature to fist your eyes on…

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January 29th, 2022

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Often times, anxiety comes to us and we just can't control it. Just as you rightly put, it could be trigerred by fears. Fear of the un know, fear of the future, fear that an unfortunate event in the past would repeat itself. That's the more reasons why we have to talk to someone about these anxiety and make bold steps in taclking it

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2 years ago

Fear of uncertainty, fear of the unknown is common amongst humans... it's best that we all face our fears and overcome anxiety by simply becoming aware of the feeling

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2 years ago

"How can you fix a problem when you refuse to accept the fact that it’s even there" I admit, I am somewhat guilty with this phrase because I, myself also refused to face what the problem is, things that keep on bothering me for a long time. But sometimes we tend to not face it because we're scared of what might happen next. Will, it ease the pain and erases the problem, or will it worsen everything? But we wouldn't find if we don't take risks.

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2 years ago

I agree with you, it needs to be acknowledged and accepted. It does feel overwhelming when you feel like you've lost control of your own mind and thoughts and the direction it takes, isn't easy to deal with that but acknowledging and accepting that there's a problem, and being truthful to yourself are defiantly important. Thanks for this.

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2 years ago

Firstly acceptance then the fight to be free… it may take a while but if we equally take everything coming our way calmly with a positive mindset it will all be well… I agree with you that there are overwhelming problems and I’ve been in that condition to know that. Taking control is important

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2 years ago

I'll try, thank you

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2 years ago

True... If we don't deal with anxiety it will certainly justify itself. It also eats us up mentally, graduates into physical demoralisation then depression till what next? Catastrophe, death, stroke or what have you.

We should fight against it when discerned, it pays to win than to be defected to try again because the damage might be costly to try again.

Peace

OkanlaDavid

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2 years ago

It does eat deep and consumes us entirely so the best way is to deal with it right on time… I love your contribution thank you

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2 years ago

The best thing to do to ourselves is to be truthful to ourselves :)

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2 years ago

That’s a must for everyone… if there’s a way to be free that should be a solution to grab unto it.. thank you Bhargi

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2 years ago

When we've got problems we acknowledge and then encourage ourselves out of that problem. Acceptance is like telling yourself you'll never get out

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2 years ago

Tell the truth to myself? What does this mean?

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2 years ago

I think the writer is saying you should be sincere to yourself. Most of us often lie to ourselves. For example you know that a basket won't hold water yet you tell yourself that you can fill the basket up

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2 years ago

Owh this is the reality and we can't reveal it tooo

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2 years ago

I wish I can deal with it instantly as it cage me to the darkness.

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2 years ago

Something that disturbs our routine very badly causes anxiety. Its difficult to resolve anxiety but we have to overcome else we cannot concentrate on our routine works. As mentioned in the last para, we have to treat ourself with good food, dressing with the most beautiful attire, in short, give time for ourself.

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I can relate to this. When you couldn't do what you've planned but I've discovered beating ourselves up doesn't solve but deteriorate it. Showing up everyday (consistency) might help increase our consciousness of that activity

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2 years ago

I do fear the unknown but I'm working on myself. Thanks for this article

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2 years ago

You don’t have to be afraid of anything, regardless of how it may turn out to be always stay positive and not shaken.. the main reason why anyone who has achieved so much do that within a short space of time is hope and faith… From today let that be your slogan and you become unstoppable

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2 years ago

Thank you so much, this is very helpful!

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2 years ago

Anxiety is like a shadow brought to life mentally.. what we feel sometimes is what we see. There's always cure for what we see but there's no cure for regret

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2 years ago

It´s tough for one dealing with anxiety but as you have said, one needs to acknowledge that he or she is going through such phase and the next thing is finding solution with a positive mindset. Ihope those involved overcome it.

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They would with the proper care and mindset.. the next phase will be a solution and to handle it quickly to avoid long term crisis.. thank you Princess KP, have a wonderful Sunday

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2 years ago

Dealing with anxiety is so tough. Once you successfully deal with one of your anxiety, you will gain self confidence.

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2 years ago

I feel these words too.., there will be complete understanding to handle it when next it shows up

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2 years ago

Before we will be able to resolve anything, we should learn to identify and accept it first.

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2 years ago

You’re completely right, acceptance is the first step. Not having double conclusion or displaced whatsoever will help us to generate personal solution to them

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2 years ago

I only know that now the weekend is coming, it has been a very hard week.

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Sorry about that… my weekend has been crazy as well. Recently my rest days are my most annoying days.. Have a beautiful Sunday my friend

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