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“Luck always seems like it belongs to someone else.”

David Levien

Happy new week people! I hope you are ready to grind more than last week? Yes, one thing we should never fail to forget is being grateful for everything that happened last week.

Those challenges, situations and circumstances, failures, blessings, favour, those friends who turned up, those who disappointed, the places you went to, but were turned down, places you went to and gave you that beautiful smile, the moment you woke up each day and realize all is gone, the moment you woke up and saw you hit the jackpot.

The moment you realized he or she wasn't truthful to you, the moment you felt great in yourself, the goals you worked hard on but met some unexpected circumstances, etc. Be grateful for everything.

Be grateful that you could wake up each day last week to eat something. Be grateful you could walk out of the house and see someone begging and you have something with you. Be grateful for the siblings you fought with. Be grateful for them because you laughed with them at the end.

Be grateful because you aren't hurt. Be grateful for the pains they caused you. Be grateful for the lessons you came across, the good and bad ones. Always be grateful. Be grateful for the one who is lucky now but you aren't. It doesn't mean you won't be lucky.

“Everyone is lucky, we are all lucky, but it comes at different times and ways.”

I am reading a book presently and there are many lessons I have jot down and would be explaining more in my posts later on. One of them is this I would be narrating so you can get a glimpse of my sayings.

Kate and Alicia have been friends for a long time. Kate stays in San Francisco while Alicia stays in Los Angeles. Kate has a boyfriend they have been together with for years but just a little issue separated them. She cried and talked to her friend about it.

Alicia suggested she comes to LA so she would forget about him completely. She arrived in LA and met Alicia and her fiance who would be getting married soon. The engagement ring she saw on her finger made her remember her break-up with her boyfriend.

When she took her home, she saw how beautiful the house is. It has a swimming pool on the rooftop of the house. As they were talking, Kate felt sad and told Alicia that she is lucky to have such a caring man who had it all and showered her with love.

Alicia said they have many times broken up and come back together. Those were her hard time but she chose not to get worried over it just like Kate.

“Alicia, you are very lucky.” Kate said.

Alicia said, “We all are lucky, it only comes at different times and ways”.


This is the truth about everyone. God has created us so well that we only need to be patient for our own time to come.

Everyone is lucky at different times and in different ways. Your way isn't my way and what I may achieve today and you haven't achieved, doesn't make me lucky and you unlucky. It's just that your time hasn't come yet and the ways with which it will be achieved haven't been made yet.

That is why I feel sad when people are trying to bring another person down just because they aren't patient to see what is ahead of them and understand that everyone is lucky at different times.

There is time and season for every one of us to make it and succeed in whatever we are doing.

When it rains, it sends down showers of blessing. The rain has its purpose and that makes it lucky but it doesn't make the sunny season to be unlucky because it will shine when the time comes.

Your friend made it before you doesn't mean you aren't okay or lucky too. It is your friend's time and everyone is different. Wait for your time and have the belief that your lucky time will arrive when you are being patient and trusting God.

Thanks for reading

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That’s a good way of looking at it. I don’t believe in luck of lack thereof 😉

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1 year ago

Well, I could say you are right but deep down we are all born into different advantages and disadvantages. Which can be an added bonus to make one's life at ease. Someone born into a poor family might consider another person born with the silver spoon lucky.

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1 year ago

And we can also consider being alive always a luck because many people born with silver spoon are dead and some are actually going through one problem or the other. The best is to have the mindset and realization that we are all lucky as long as we still living.

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I agree to this, we are different humans with different destinies and things occurs to us in our own time (season). If someone is jealous because Miracle it's happening to his/her then he/she should be jealous when death is happening to his/her Friend too

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Thanks for your contribution.

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1 year ago

More reason I don't have time to hold grudges or hate against anyone...but people would make you feel itsya competition and you have to compete to be where you ought to be. Life has seasons so ie every human being so no need to rush...if anyone is disturbing your peace of mind please let go...because as far as there's life there is hope

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Some people's mindset will always be a competition and so, they do things they shouldn't do but in the end, it bounces back on them.

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1 year ago

Lobatan 🤭

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😆

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I would also like to read the book its sounds nice, I agree with you though, most times when things aren't particularly rosy for me, I look at other people having it all and I sometimes feel unlucky, it's not like I haven't had good times in the past it I feel like when you're in a bad place it's very easy to forget that you were very lucky and fortunate at she points too. Just like you said we aren't unlucky, the good luck just may come you us and our friends or family at the same time

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1 year ago

It's titled Room Hate by Jennifer Reginald. So interesting.

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We are all blessed. No need to be worried. We are not in competition with anyone. We got our blessings. We just have different timezones. Different times to bloom and shine.

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1 year ago

That is it. Thank you for the comment.

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I agreed to the words of Alicia that we all are lucky things come to us in different ways and different times. We should be grateful to Almighty God for everything that we have in our life and that happened to us.

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1 year ago

Yes, being grateful will bring more to us. Thank you 😊

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1 year ago

I agree with you. We are all lucky. We should not grow depressed by comparing our lives with others. Because the creator gives us with good understanding. Our luck is not bad.

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1 year ago

Yes, exactly. Thank you

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1 year ago

This is well said. To be honest, we cannot compare our lives to other people because we all have a different journey and different struggles. If they are lucky into something, we are also lucky towards the other things.

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Exactly the right word from you. They are lucky in other ways, we are also lucky if we are able to open our eyes clearly to see the truth of it.

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1 year ago

This is very true, we lost an uncle this week at 50 years of age, makes you realize how lucky you are to be alive!

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1 year ago

Everyone is indeed lucky.

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1 year ago

These lines sister looked stronger we are all lucky. Just we need to wait with Patience for our time. It was good and motivational article for all people who are disappointed from life events.

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Thank you

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1 year ago

This is really true. We are all lucky but we all have our own time. Everything under the earth have seasons and once each persons season is due. What was kept for him or her must come to manifest.

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Thanks for agreeing.

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There is indeed a time for everything. There is a rainy season and a dry season. There is a season for sowing and a season for reaping. Finally, there is a season when we will be lucky. However, the most important aspect of time is patience, and obviously our time will come sooner or later and that luck we seek, would appear when we least expect it

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That is the word.... Patience. Many of us do not want to wait but in a hurry to get things we want but it doesn't work like that. God wants to try our patience first.

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What’s the title of the book, I would love to check it out? Alicia said it all. “We all are lucky.”

May God make the wait easy for all of us. It’s good to wait for ones time. Thanks for sharing.

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The title is “Room Hate” by Jennifer Reginald. Though I used a random name not from the book.

Amen. May God give us the strength to keep waiting for Him. Thanks

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Smiles. I was just reading your article and smiling. I know no one is unlucky via what you said but sometimes, some people bad luck are just way above the roof. Everyone has their time, I remember one time like that I wanted to withdraw, and the money finished, about to go out, it started raining, got to the bank and was about to get to my turn and the bank closed for the day.. I had to go on prayer and fasting o.. But glory to God, luck is on my side.. Good things everyday

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😅😅 Well don't you think it is we humans that made it bad luck though? My thought is that everything is being planned and whatever happens is like coincidence and so, the only thing is to be positive about all things and believe things would work for our good.

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Hmm.. Wisdom for the raw source

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Most of the times, it is said and believed that luck comes to who wishes more for it or invests more in it and as much as we believe so much in it, then we could fancy our chances of being favoured luckily too coz it's just an everyone's thing but the feelings we have towards it is all that matters and spurs the big massive differences amongst we individuals good morning aunty mi

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1 year ago

Great. You have said well and I love this comment. Thank you

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Patience is hard to build.. But that's the only way to get what we truly want. Things always come at the right moment and right place. We just need to wait. 😊

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Exactly right. Patience seems a long moment but it actually worth our waiting. Thank you 😊

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1 year ago

We are all lucky indeed, it just comes in different ways. They are some situations that are blessings in disguise, I'll await your post on telling more on the lessons jotted down. Do have a nice day ahead Princess!

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Thank you 😊 I just posted another one though. You might want to take a look 🥳🥳

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Hell yeah!!!. My feet right up 😄😄

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😅

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