Don't Let Anyone Tell You Otherwise.

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We all have the ability in us to show others kindness

I don't think there is anyone without an iota of goodness

We feel as though we don't matter, forgetting and even dimming our brightness

Everyone turns bad eyes to their talents as though it's blindness

You matter and you have to reach deep inside to see your sweetness

But we always see and magnify others while focusing on our darkness

The world has been used to pain so we feel we have to be in pain

Even when our hearts thirst for growth and it comes amid the rain

We still have doubts because we lacked the will to sustain

We all have that inherent trait in us to show kindness

It has to be intentional so the world can see our goodness

Even when all others see is the glory without understanding the pain

Let's reach out to one another and never refrain

By being subtle and kind, we can help each other with the stain

It baffles me when most people think they are not equipped to facilitate a change

Whoever thinks he or she is small enough to make a significant change

It's obvious that the person hasn't been in bed with a mosquito before

There is always another soul that can use your subtleness and kindness

Life is many things and we can choose what we want to be in life

We have the gift of life and it's left to us what we do with it

We need to learn how to make use of our voices

But a lot would rather be sneaky with their vices

It's high time we all start acting and stop making noises

There is no one in life without the ability to make their choices

There is no one who can live in isolation

We don't have to neglect the law of love, let's desist from the violation

Don't let anyone tell you that you don't matter because you do

You do because you have that inherent nature inside you

Inside you it is but we allowed the pressure of the world to cave us in

Caved us in because we truly don't understand the power that we possess

Possession that comes naturally but we would rather use it for selfish gains

Gains that cannot outlast this world, so you wonder, why bother?

Why bother to ignore who you are for the acceptance of others?

Others that want to control who you are making you forget who you are

Who you are is greater than what you have

What you have is a result of who you are, never forget that

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The world is hurting but that's why we are here. We are the ones responsible for the ills we have seen in this world. We allowed the love of power to override the power of love. We would rather have things our day than to be of help to another.

A friend of mine called me last week and it breaks my heart to see that humans are the ones willing to drag another human down so they can feel good with themselves. We need to understand that in this life, we just have to focus on ourselves and no one else when it comes to doing what we can do to be better.

Most people would go against you when they notice that you are a "threat" to them forgetting that we all have our individual strengths which should be the only thing we have to focus on. Most people would rather focus on what you are doing rather than focus on what they can also do to be better for themselves and effect the changes the world needs. It's terrible to see how humans have degenerated from the highs to the lows.

My strength is different from yours so when I do things, I am doing it according to my strength and not to show off. As I said, a friend of mine called me last week and told me how some feel she is doing too much all because she has a heart to always want to help. It caused so much stir that she started doubting herself and she felt she is a nobody. It almost slipped into depression and that was the point she called me and I wasn't really happy about it.

Even when you walk on water, those who hate you would say it's because you cannot swim forgetting that the ability to walk on water is a miracle on its own. Others just want to see you fail so they can give excuses for themselves for not doing too much. Most people like their comfort zone and would never do anything extra but would still have the audacity to hate those who go the extra mile...that's how witchcraft starts.

You are important and you matter, never let anyone tell you otherwise. You are not responsible for the actions of others and even what goes on in their heads. You are responsible for what you say not for what others think especially when you do things in good conscience and never said anything to drag others down.

You can affect the change you want the world to see in your little corner. You don't have to become a leader of the world before you can make your impact in life. Most people focus on the wrong thing and that's why they keep chasing the wind. If we are not better humans ourselves, how are we expected to change the world?

Being a better person starts from understanding and respecting others' individual differences. You don't have to agree with anyone but you should respect their opinions to say their views because their exposure is their reality. To be a better person, stop hating on others just because you can feel good about your bad choices.

When others try to get you down, never forget who you are even when the world is telling you who you are not. You are important and never allow anyone to tell you otherwise. There would always be those who would willingly go the extra miles for you when others won't even jump the puddle for you and that's life. It's never about you but it's about them. Learn to rise above the tides.

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We always magnify others while focusing in our darkness, that line is definitely speaking to me, it can be a struggle to get out of that mindset especially when it has become a habit but I'm learning, learning to focus on seeing the sweetness as you put it inside of me. Sometimes when you are just being your authentic self, not hurting anyone or bringing them down but just being you, some people tend to always find labels or faults to put on you that would make you doubt yourself and your personality. It can make you feel like you don't fit in or make you feel like something is wrong with you somewhere, it does sometimes make me think whether people would prefer a fake personality or a façade rather than allowing you to be your true self. Those who see the truth in you would accept and love you for who you are, they'd add value to your life and not try to take value from it, that's what I tell myself when I sometimes feel out of place. I think we just have to accept who we are first, love ourselves and work towards growing, learning and improving in a way that aligns with our individual identities, beliefs and values and try our best to filter out the negative thoughts, opinions, mindset and energy.

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2 years ago

This is enough to make a post hahaha. I always enjoy your valuable contributions. Thank you so much and your words are spot on. 👌

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2 years ago

Thank you, I appreciate it

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2 years ago

Anytime.

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2 years ago

We must choose to be a good individual. Don't interrupt and judge the others life. We should mind our own life. Respect everyone and respect ourselves. We don't need to be jealous, or sometimes there is an insecurities and we shouldn't. We have our own paths.

This is what I've learned friend. I never let my life to be down with others. I don't mind them since if I will give an attention for it, the situation will be worst so I focus my self only and my life.

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2 years ago

This is brilliant, my friend. Thanks for sharing these brilliant lessons.

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2 years ago

Thank you my friend. You're always welcome. ❤️

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2 years ago

🤗🤗🤗

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2 years ago

This one of the example of our famous saying here in our country that says" ang punong hitik sa bunga ay madalas binabato" Which means success a tree with lot if fruits are usually stoned. Just like in real life sometimes if you are successful there are some people who are not happy about it as they felt you surpass them. So they will start aiming your downfall. That's the reality of life!

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2 years ago

That's indeed the sad reality of life. Only when our lives are attractive can we get stoned.

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2 years ago

Yeah, i don't know what's with some people😬.

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2 years ago

Complicated folks.

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2 years ago

That's the kind of world we live in there.. people wouldn't want to do the right thing even though they know it. But when they see the next person doing good, they tend to discourage him or call him a fool for doing what his or her heart tells him to do

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2 years ago

Exactly and that's how witchcraft starts 🤣🤣😂

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2 years ago

The jealousy and narrow mind thinking always force people to be threatened from someone. We must have a firm belief that each one born with different capacities and different destiny. We always waste our energies by looking at others and by thinking negativity. Leg pulling & duality will never helps us . We must explore our own destination by our own wings.

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2 years ago

This is wonderful and true, my friend. Thank you.

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2 years ago

Only the people without job listen to others advice. Have you heard about kizz Daniel lie which say do tell me other wise if you stick to this words you can never have problems

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2 years ago

Hahahaha love how you started this.

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2 years ago

like the poem description of the sentence above. maybe if I have to conclude here is that we actually have good qualities because no one is born in this world with mistakes. but often we hold back on the good we should do. do good because you will also receive good. life is meaningful if we make it meaningful.

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2 years ago

Life is meaningful and we matter but it's left to us to do it. Spot on.

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2 years ago

That's why I never allow others to judge me. Because they only come to make me feel guilty. How on earth they do so!

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2 years ago

Hahaha that's right. They try to drag you down to make excuses for the things they can't do.

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2 years ago

We must show respect to ourselves and everyone else. We are all humans yet we are not all the same, we should help each other to rise above not to take them down. Know your worth and respect people, be the best versioof yourself what ever people say. You don't need their validation.

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2 years ago

Know your worth and respect people. That's true because we don't need anyone's validation.

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2 years ago

It's a crazy world my friend but just as you said, we should allow others to make us do or behave in a way we should not.

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2 years ago

Yes, we shouldn't let them.

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2 years ago

The greatest enemy of humans are humans themselves. No creature hurt humans like themselves.

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2 years ago

Sadly, that's true.

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There's a saying in our language "mga utak talangka, nang hihila pababa" in english "crab mentally dragging people down. Many people are actually like this. Just to feel they're better they'll destroy others image. No matter where we go or what we do there's always like them. That's why, it is us who must respect and understand ourselves more than anyone

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2 years ago

Crab mentality...you have accurately explained this.

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2 years ago

If we don't respect ourselves, we shouldn't expect respect from anyone....Nice article

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2 years ago

Simple, short and correct. That's true.

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2 years ago

Well said,we shouldn't let anyone tell us otherwise,we should remember humans hate progress but mock mistakes or failure they are just complicated,we should just ride on and we would find someone who would help us with the paddle not those who would find ways to make us sink.

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2 years ago

This is wonderful, Vic. You nailed it. Thanks for this.

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2 years ago

There is actually nothing you can do save yourself from the hate, jealousy and envy of wicked people in this life. You just have to do things regardless of what they might say or think, one should just believe in himself.

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2 years ago

Just get on with it and believe yourself because we can't control what others say or do.

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2 years ago

Happy weekend sir Olasquare hope your day are going good .hmm that true we are all importance and better we should never let anyone tell us otherwise . We can easy be what we want to be with ease

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2 years ago

Yes, we can do what we want while ignoring the doubters. Not easy but it's best for us to.

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2 years ago

This article has really passed a very vital message unto me, human being are really discourager they will always come up with something different always.

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2 years ago

Always and every time...it's what humans do.

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2 years ago

I love your message on this article. Do not let others dictate what you should be feeling because there is nothing wrong with you. Yes you might be different but that is part of being unique and being human.

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2 years ago

We are indeed different and we shouldn't let others drag us down because we are different. Let's learn to focus on our talents and gifts.

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2 years ago

No one will respect you. Until you respect your own self. First we should give respect to ourselves, other than we can't give respect to others. And off course we should respect everyone's point of view. We may have different views, we are not thinking similar we have thinking differences, but we must respect each other's point of view. ❤️

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2 years ago

That's why we are humans and yes, we should. Thanks for this.

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