"Just because you're struggling, doesn't mean you're failing.", When we talk about struggles, we struggle because we find something that is difficult to go on. We struggling doing our best, we struggling doing what we want, we struggling reaching our goals, we struggling maintining ourself, we struggling maintaining what we are. We stuggled, we all struggling.

People are meant to take us down but that doesn't mean we'll lose. No not yet we cant lose yet, they look down on us but don't be discouraged and give up because that's what they want.

They wanted you to struggle until you gave up but remember if you give up , thats it you cant step forward you'll stay the same. Its better if you don't listen to all their nonsense because that's your life they have no right to look down on you just because you're struggling and stressed about anything that's happening lately.

Don't say that you can't do it anymore or you're losing hope and faith thats part of your struggles and trials. Once you succeeded don't rest yet just because you succeed but keep on going until no one will be able to look down on you.

Instead they'll pay you respect as you walk passed them but dont be arrogant just because your now successful than them remember that you're once like that people that are struggling to be successful. Pay them attention, help them,give advice of how you reach your spot and how many failures you had just to be successful.

Help others to keep on going instead to look down on them don't let them experience the same thing you did you can change them.

Remember we all have struggles and failure in our daily lives that's just trial and doesn't mean to make u stop. Dont forget all those people who keeps you going, give advices and those who shared experience

Let Other Experiences Be Your Motivation.

• As part of youth before with my cousin, there are times where we always do Retweet Mass. There are times where everyone shares their experience with other people, most of them are family problems.

Okay let's start a story telling.

Let's call her Zy, she's my classmate when I was still in grade 9 and become my classmate again when I am on grade 10 already. She has a big sister who's become a close friend of mine when I was in grade 7 and her sister was on grade 10. She lives with her grandmother, and also with her grandfather.

It's all start when her mother was on abroad and working. They lost their communication to her mother because her mother said she was busy, they don't mind it since they were trusting their mother so much. Her father died when she was still a 7 yearold girl. She everyone that she has a miserable life because her mother doesn't seems to care.

She's so smart, and so attentive when it comes to the event. But sad to say, me and her were not that close during that time because I am the person who used to avoid everyone when they're not my type. We just become close to each other when we already on grade 10 because she's one of ny seatmates.

So the story is, after she lost her communication through her mother. They don't have any idea what already happened. They don't have any idea how was her mother to the another country.

Me and her was on the market she act strange, I was wondering why she act like that. I have so many self question that time, but when we reached the park she start crying. She told me that, she saw her mother with the another man when we are on the market. I just pat her back because I don't know what kind of advise I can give to her. Since I didn't experience it so it was hard to say a word.

Let's call her Angel, her mother were working abroad too. She gives what her daughter want, I'm her classmates and also one of her friend. I already saw angel be with another man day by day when she was skipping class, I always giving her an advise to take everything easy because she was still young.

But yeah, since I'm not the one who's on her shoe it was hard for me to tell her that. When the 4th grading hit, she got pregnant and make up stories like her father touch her even though it's not. Her father was sent to jail while she stopped going to school because of being ashamed of what she did. I feel sorry sorry about her father.

During the sharing, she cried and said sorry. She said, she didn't mean it and she feel ashamed about what she did. She even get an abortion, I can't judge her. Because all of us have our different stories, and different life.

Let's call her Eu,

They're 5 into her family, her mother and father seperated when she's a Grade 7 stident. She started being a working student when she reach Grade 8, actually she was my classmate and a sister of mine who's become my only one friend when I reached grade 10.

When she become a working student, she transferred school because that's what her boss want. Until when she was already on grade 10, she go back to where she was schooling before and she became my classmate.

She's a sweet girl with a sweet heart, her mother got into boys and didn't even seems care to them. They're 5, she's the oldest. Her 2nd siblings is also a working student and also the 3rd one, the 4th and the last one was on her side and she's taking care of them. The youngest one was already 7 yearsold and he's sweet and naughty. Yeah, her youngest brother was so naughty to the point where you will start laughing because of that child.

I was close to them and to the people who's helping her right now. Whenever I'm there at their house I felt like I belong to a family of what I am wishing for. I feel completed, unlike in the house where I feel incomplete.

Those struggles and confessions, is become a part of my life. I love listening into their problems, I love listening about what they've been through. It's like I'm listening to the stories where I can get a huge life lesson and apply it to myself.

Author's Note:

We all have a different problems, some make us feel like giving up some make us feel like keep moving. That's how exactly life works.

Some people's experience, were also the reason why we know what kind of choices we need to choose at.

By: OfficialGamboaLikeUs