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"Don't Be So demanding: Always Say Thank You".

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There are two types of people in the world, the one who gives voluntarily from the will. And the other one will just give to be better known and to be proud of.

And there are also two people who know how to see whatever you give. The other one knows how to give thanks right from within them. And the other one, you will be told, "I hope you spent it on yourself,", "I hope you didn't give,", "It's just a small amount". 

Just a small reminder: we can't just pick up the money. 

There are no money-producing trees which we just pick up to use and spend.

You can't say, "It's just a small thing" if you know that that amount we can't just get from the internet where and to whom. Sometimes we really have to learn what the word gratitude means. We don't have enough knowledge, it's just like that, like that. The more we learn to be grateful, the more we learn to accept and give thanks with all our hearts.

It's so annoying for people who don't know how to say, "Thank you". Then they will tell others that you can only do that because of this thing. They don’t think you just want to help, that you give because you want to and not for yourself.


It is not bad to give, it is not bad to receive. Do you know what's bad? The one that someone gave you or helped and then you accepted but you didn't thank. It's as if you're expecting something higher in that kind of thing, as if you're thinking more, "You'll just give something like this, I hope you just put it in your pocket.", You know what they say, that helping and giving, big or not, it can innovate on something?

Why are we taught the right thank you? Why is it that we are taught the right way to say "Thank you" ? that is, to learn to be grateful for the things that are received and given to us, no matter how big or small.


We are often corrected when we are young when someone gives to us, don't our parents say to be thankful? They tell us that we should often be grateful for the small or large things we receive. It's also not good when we ask for something from others, and then we don't exceed the thing that we have high expectations of, we will get angry or disappointed. Remember, we are the ones who ask and we are the ones who expect so we cannot be disappointed inside. Expectation vs. Reality, that is.


So here I have a story, one time my friend from here asked me for a gift. At that time I was still in elementary school because they said that as long as you were from Manila, you were rich. That's one of their beliefs here. Of course, I'm not, I said that's not true. When we were in Manila, I experienced the hardships of life, often our dish was pure noodles and pancit canton just to fill our stomachs. Even with Malunggay, they don't give away because they sell it.

We have a kind neighbor, let's call him Kuya Lito. He used to give me food for my family, he would tell me "Here, bring it, take it home so you can have something to eat". At that time I just stared at him and took a run. The next day with my mother, we went to his house, she thanked Kuya Lito for what he had done and I saw how he smiled as if there was a twinkle in his eye as he listened. When we came home I asked mom, said: "Mom, why did you say thank you earlier?"

And the mother's answer, "My child, that's why we thank someone or something because we are happy with what we received from above that was passed on to those below. So you, make it a habit to say thank you to people who show good to you, and even to people who don't show you well. Be kind while you're young because it's not good to cultivate anger ".

So since then, I have become accustomed to being grateful for the things I receive here on earth.


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Closing Thoughts,

Hindi ko na papahabain to since di maganda pakiramdam ko ng ilang araw na, dapat lahat tayo ay marunong magasalamat. Kahit sa maliit na bagay andami na niyang maitutulong saatin, wag tayo maging sakim.


Date: 08-21-21
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Masarap mgpasalamat sa lht ng bagay.malaki man o maliit,maganda man o pangit,expensive man o cheapest dpt marunong tau mag appreciate and saying Thank you is not hard to do

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2 months ago

Yan talaga dapat. Dapat marunong tayong mag-thank you kahit sa maliit na bagay. One time nga sis, bumili ako ng mantika sa kapitbahay namin. Pagkatapos kung nakuha yung binili ko, nagthank ako sa tindera. Then she asked me, why do I always say thank you kahit bumibili lang naman ako. Then I answered her na it's my way of showing appreciation to you. At nasanay na talaga ako magthank you.hihi

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2 months ago

ako rin ate, madalas ako magthanyu kahit ako na nagbibigay. nakasanayan ko kasi saka parang di ako sanay na sakin sila nagpapasalamat xd

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2 months ago

Tama po dapat be courteous at humble po tayo. Tsaka marunong din tayo magpatawad sa mga taong may kunting nagawang mali satin. Ganda po ng article mo na ito. THANK YOU!!!

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2 months ago

Yes tama, dapat lang talaga masi ayan ung nararapat

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2 months ago

We should really be grateful for all the favors we receive no matter how small.

Get well soon dear

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2 months ago

tamaaa, dina importante kung maliit o malaki importante alam natin maing thankful

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2 months ago

Yes basic life rule

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2 months ago

Pagaling ka, sis at salamat sa paalala ♡

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2 months ago

Salamat po ateeeee

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2 months ago

Very well said, be. We should always express our gratefulness to everyone. Even small help is still a help that we should be thankful of. I'm so glad because your mom taught you so well to be thankful for everything you receive.

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2 months ago

Ang saya kasi makita ate na ganon. Like nung ngpasalamat si nanay ibang klase ng saya ung nakkta mo sa mukha nya kaya parang naintriga ako 🤣

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2 months ago

Well said a good turn deserved another when you give thanks for one you get another

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2 months ago

Truee, and nothing is bad by saying it

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2 months ago

Get well soon po. You are right. need natin , anand dapat naman talaga maging grateful tayo sa mga narereceive natin sa buhay. And this poverty i am also experiencing, natuto din akong magpasalamat sa bawat bigay ni lord. amen.

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2 months ago

ameennn, ang bihira sa tao mapasalmat ng buong pusooo

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2 months ago

May ibang tao talaga na, nabigyan na, hindi na nag thank you, minasama ka pa. Kaloka. Manong magpasalamat nalang, napakadali lang naman ii. Hays

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2 months ago

AY TOTOO. Meron fin na kapag binigyan mo sasabihin e galing sa iba yas di ikekeento sa kamaganak kuno sa ibang bansa ganon. Naranazan ko sa tita ko ung ganyan

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2 months ago

Yes. Although "Thank you" Comes free of cost but it can't be valued with money. It's beyond that price tags

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2 months ago

truee, being thankful with a pure heart is the most best thing that we all can do

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2 months ago

Yun talaga Yung isa sa pinaka basic na dapat nating gawin , Yung mag "Thank you" kahit simpleng bagay lang yung ginawa Nila para sa atin. Pero may mga tao talaga na hirap na hirap sabihin Yun as if na ikababawas Ng pagkatao Nila yun. By the way, get well soon po😊

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2 months ago

salamat pooo, ganyan po kasi talaga yung iba e, di nila kaya lalo na if parag naaabuso sila kasi nakikita nilang mabait ka

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2 months ago

Kind gesture are a must in lodi, ist seßs3ñêjjj

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2 months ago

lods ano ung last part HAHAHAHAH

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2 months ago

I will always believe in this saying "Be kind to one and all". Kindness gives us prosperity and peacefullness. Yung iba parang commond words lang sa kanina ang thank you but for unique and kind people, it melts their hearts when they heard those words 🙃

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2 months ago

yes, isa pa hindi lahat kaya magsabi ng thankyou na buong puso. swerte mo kapag may taong magpapasalamat sayo ng buong puso talaga

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2 months ago

True po talaga. Yung mga taong na aapreciate yung mga simpleng bagay, mga one of a kind talaga yun

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2 months ago

Appreciation really goes a long way. The simple "thank you" word is a big factor which determines if we'd receive a favor or a gift next time. Saying "thank you" is a simple etiquette that should be learnt by all.

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2 months ago

everyone knows how to say thankyou, but not all knows how to value it

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2 months ago

Always thankful talaga ko sa mga natatanggap ko whether it's service, things, gifts, or help, kahit pa di ako tinulungan once I seek for a help, I say thank you pa din, kasi honest sila, tapos yung kapag mga nasa jeep ako pag bababa na ko nag papasalamat pa din ako sa driver, pati sa mga cashiers or staff sa mga malls and groceries or kahit san nag papasalamat ako kapag nagoffer sila ng something or kahit na sinagot lang jila tanong ko sa ganyan. Wala namn kasing mawawala kapag grateful ka sa mga tao na nakakasalamuha mo, just their existence is enough for us to be grateful for, kasi nanjan sila to help us. So we should be always grateful.

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2 months ago

I make it as a habit to always say thank you on the people who serve us in fast foods, groceries, tricycle drivers. Simple thank you would really mean a lot. ❤

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2 months ago

ako rin ate, kahit tricycle driver or kung sino paman dyan, di nawawala sakin ung batiin sila at magpasalamat

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2 months ago

True. Nakaka lift yan ng mood eh. 😁

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2 months ago

Naging nakasanayan na tlga mag say ng Thank you...pro yung iba ay parang maapakan ego nla kpg sabihin ang simpleng bagay na yan lol

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2 months ago

ung iba nasaisipan nila "Bat ako magpapasalamat ano sya swerte?"

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2 months ago

Saying thank you or being thankful is a sign of gratitude and like they say, a grateful heart is an application for more. When a person sees how grateful you are, they would want to always be of help to you next time.

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2 months ago

When we say thankyou, it melt someone's heart to do more. And we shouldn't be selfish about saying it

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2 months ago

Masaya talaga tumulong lalo na kapag may natatanggap ka na Thank you galing sa tinulungan. Sa tuwing may tumutulong sa akin or nagbibigay di ko talaga kinakalimutan na magpasalamat kase nakakataba ng puso yun ehh.

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2 months ago

Oo sis, kahit simpleng bagay lang yan masaya na. Btw sis passnsya di ako makalagcomment sa article mo nakablock kasi ako sa community ni jonica

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2 months ago

Saying "Thank you" opens the door for more. People don't know how powerful the word is. It makes one feel appreciated or what one has done is appreciated.

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2 months ago

Yes, we need to be thankful all the time even if it's big or small. It doesn't matter already

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2 months ago

Pahinga sis! Yes we should always say Thank You and mean it and pass it on...

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2 months ago

Yes ate trueeee, masaya magpasalamat sa mga bagay-bagaayyy

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2 months ago

Whenever you say thank you to someone after offering you something, they will be willing to do more. Always appreciate even though what they offered you is insignificant.

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2 months ago

And saying thankyou is a best way for us to say that we appreciate them

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2 months ago

Saka pag nag thank you daw tayo, nag open si universe NG opportunity lalo na Kung yun maliit na bagay, na aapreciate natin.

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2 months ago

True sis, minsanan lang may mga gusto tumulong ngayon ng di labag sa loob

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2 months ago

We should always be grateful kahit pa sa maliit na bagay. Wala namang mawawalanif mag usal ng kunting pasasalamat ee. Ang saya din kaya s pakiramdam ng mapasalamatan kasi paramg naappreciate nila yong effort diba.

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2 months ago

Tama ate. Di maman masama magpasalamat kaso yung iba iniisip nila is bat sila magpapasalamat e maliit lang daw na halaga eon

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2 months ago

Ako talaga, matik na na lumalabas 'yung thank you sa bibig ko kapag may binibigay sa akin or ginagawa for me. Kahit kapag bumibili lang kami sa tindahan? Thank you muna bago umalis. Kahit na nga ba 2 itlog lang binili ko, thank you pa din. For the effort na pagbentahan ako.

Sarap kaya sa feeling na magsabi ng thank you. Feeling ko nga kapag 'di ko nasasabi 'yun, parang uusigin pa ako ng konsensya ko. Haha

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2 months ago

pareho tayooo HAHAHAHA. pag di ako nagsasabi ng ty parang kinakain ako ng konsensya HHAHAHA

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2 months ago

Truuu. Two words pero para ka nang di makakatulog sa gabi. Hahaha

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1 month ago

Thank you

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2 months ago

Exactly we should say thanks to the people We can't give back to someone who helps us in the difficult time but saying thank you we can made its day we should be thankful to Allah Almighty and all people are giving us in any ways

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2 months ago

Truee, he just using the people below to give something to us

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