@dziefem

@dziefem 6 January 2026

Sana magbayad na siya ngayong 2026 :) ilang taon naaaaa. Hirap maging mabait. Hays.

@dziefem 1 January 2026

Have a blessed new year, everyone! Nawa'y pumaldo and lahat! 🙏🏻😌

@dziefem 22 November 2025

Hello, everyone! It's been a while. How are you? Sana hindi kayo affected masyado nung mga nagdaang bagyo.

@dziefem 8 May 2025

hiii guys! kumusta kayo? active pa ba dito?

@dziefem 27 July 2024

Hello, everyone! Hope you are all doing well and didn't experienced the flood. It's sad seeing those houses that submerged and some people died. :( And to someone borrowed money from me, I wish you will pay this year! I need it badly! Mag 2 years na bhieee! Grrr

@dziefem 27 October 2023

Hmm. Nakakaubos yung nangyayari ngayon. Nakakaubos ng budget. HAHA. Judith nga naman.

@dziefem 2 October 2023

How's everyone? Do you still remember me? 🤔😆

@dziefem 26 October 2022

Training at BPO A month ago I applied for different jobs that I think are related to my course. Most of them didn't give a response and some rejected my application. I don't know why, maybe because I don't have any experience whatsoever.  With that being said, I decided to stop applying for a job that related to my field. What I did was, applied to different companies of BPO. Actually, I am afraid that I won't be able to handle this job because I find it difficult especially since most of the time, it's night shift work here in the Philippines. That is why I admire those people who work at BPO.  Me being afraid and wanting to challenge myself, I keep trying to apply even though I failed many times in an interview. Haha. In this case, giving up is not a choice, right?  As of today, I survived 2 days of training. Hmm, I can say that it is not hard but it is not that easy either, it is manageable. Let's see if I can still manage in the following days and weeks. Haha. Hopefully.  Just to share, this company gave me a second chance, they endorsed me to another account after I failed the first one. I only failed with their mock call (they didn't give me any idea about this unlike what I've heard from others from different companies, they have given a script), and the rest, passed. The initial and final interview and the assessment.  After getting an idea about what it is gonna be like, I gain the confidence to try again. So, when they invited me for a second chance, I didn't hesitate. I am happy that I tried. Here I am. Back with the training, on my first day, I befriended my co-new hire already. Friendly yarn? Haha. Though it was an exhausting day because I woke up early and traveled from one province to another and directly went to the office, I still can say it was fun. On my second day, we got fun activities which helped me to be energized and active in listening as I felt sleepy due to lack of sleep from the first day and the cold produced by the aircon. Well, computers need it. Haha. We were eating when sink into my mind to write about this. So, after eating, I went back to our room, took a shower, lay on my bed, and wrote this. What kept me busy the last few weeks was taking care of my requirements needed for this job. That's all for today. Good night. Thank you for reading!

@dziefem 22 October 2022

Buffet: Eat All You Can! Who would say no if you have been asked to come and it's about eating? Haha. I know, I know. Some of us don't like overeating even though I sometimes do not feel like eating at all or going out. A few days ago, my sister invited us - her siblings to come because it's her boyfriend's birthday and she will treat him. Note: Our parents are busy so they can't go with us. My other sister is busy with her homework while my brother is busy practicing for their physical education activity performance. So, it's only me and my youngest sister who is able to join. The place was less than two(2) hours away from our house if there was not much traffic. We left our house past 4:00 pm and we arrived at Plaza Leticia before 6:00 pm. It felt like we just attended a birthday party because we waited for the time we would be called to go to the buffet (as the waiter said). Haha. Because of hunger, I forgot to take photos of the food. Sorry for that. When I realized it was too late, I decided not to take photos of any food. Haha. Based on my taste, some foods are delicious and some are not. Well, they all looked delicious so what I did was get a large amount with every dish hahaha. Yeah, I regret doing that after tasting it, like the adobo, maybe because it was cooked in a different style. Next time I will have a taste first haha especially since the leftovers will be charged to us. But don't worry I am the kind of person who doesn't like wasting food even if it has a bad taste, as long as it's on my plate, I will eat it. I had a good laugh with my elder sister’s friends, yes, she invited others too. We have this scenario when my youngest sister and others got a hard nut chicken skin with many tiny feathers. Given that the Plaza Leticia have a policy regarding the leftovers food, they don’t mind because it seems that it is not edible. I tell you guys, maybe they didn’t notice that it still has feathers. Overall, I like the place. Foods I liked most in the buffet were the tofu sisig, chicken skin, bitter stew or *papaitan* (popular Filipino soup), and one of the side dishes, radish. They have lots of deserts too, different kinds of fruits, cake, and other Filipino delicacies. I can say that 299 pesos or $5.10 is worth it. That's all for today! I wasn't able to share this right away because I became busy with some important things after that day. Maybe I will share the reason on my next blog if I get some free time. Hihi. Thank you for reading!  Let's connect on the noise.app! 👉🏻https://noise.app/dzibee

@dziefem 19 October 2022

The current year in Nepal is 2079? Expect the unexpected, eh? Is there someone who knew about this? Or all of you knew and I am just late to know? Haha. I am looking back in my history classes but I can't remember if this was tackled but I'm pretty sure was not. The only thing that I remember, in Nepal, lies the highest mountain in the world which is Mount Everest. How I found out? I just saw an stream on Facebook, he is on OmeTv and he is talking about someone living in Nepal. I was shocked when he mentioned the current year in their place. At first, I thought he was joking but immediately my hand goes to the browser and search for it. To my surprise, it was for real! It picked my interest so I looked for more about Nepal. I did a little research and I will put some links if ever you want to know more. I actually like the humor that the guy has. I enjoyed the stream because of him. Haha. Just the part of him. XD They use Bikram Sambat Calendar and they are 57 years ahead in what calendar we are using ~ Gregorian Calendar. If we have a maximum of 31 days a month, in Nepal they have 32 days. Still, 365 days and 12 months. See here: Nepali Calendar. https://nepalidatetoday.co/pages/nepali-calendar-2079/ While listening to a Nepali guy he also shares about three(3) geographic regions in Nepal; Tarai, Himal, and Pahad. **Tarai** - he says it is where the super hot climate and people live there for agriculture. **Himalaya** (*Mountain*)- he says it is a place full of mountains and less population. **Pahad** (*Hilly*)- according to him it is where the weather is neutral, not too hot, and not too cold. And it is the industrial sector where people do buy and sell. You can learn more here: https://www.imnepal.com/geography https://www.imnepal.com/geography-of-nepal/#:~:text=Based%20on%20the%20geography%20of%20Nepal%2C%20it%20can,regions%20%28Pahad%20in%20Nepali%29%20is%20mostly%20average%20altitude. What is the reason why they are 57 years ahead? Simply, it is because they adapt the Bikram Sambat calendar instead of the Gregorian calendar which is widely used by most parts of the world. This calendar was based on their ancient ruler, Vikramaditya who defeated a certain tribe which was in 57 BC. So, it seems they just add it to the current year to symbolize victory. Haha. Later on, it was adapted by Nepal. For more information click here. https://lifeofus.net/blog/nepali-calendar-bikram-sambat/#.Y1ByG-QRVzA That's all! Just sharing what I have learned today before going to sleep. How's your day? Thank you for reading. Stay hydrated and keep safe!

@dziefem 17 October 2022

Quickie for today's video Oooops, what are you thinking when you see the title? Hahaha. Are you expecting that? Just kidding. This is an adjective quickie and there's no video. XD I am writing this right now to share what happened in my day but of course, not everything. I woke up early today because I booked an appointment to get my NBI clearance. I tell you guys, it's hard for me to take a bath as early as that. So, what I did was boil water to lessen the coldness. Last night, I set my alarm for 5 a.m. because I want to be the earliest applicant though I am aware that it won't happen as I will travel for almost an hour, and aside from that there are lots of early birds like me. XD I left our house at 6:00 am. I arrived at exactly 7:41 am, argh traffic, maybe because it's Monday. When I got there, there was a queue already, but it was fine because every transaction was quickie. Approximately 30 minutes after I get done, sadly, I have a HIT, so they need to verify it first. I'll be back again in the first week of November. After getting my NBI clearance, my eyes went shining seeing the siomai cart outside haha, so I bought and ate it. And since I am already out of my cage, kidding haha I had a quick sneak in the Freedom Park. I just roamed my eyes and then took a few photos. My reaction was like "wow" my body wants to stay there but I need to go home to do my laundry. Unfortunately, when I get home, my father is doing his laundry, so better luck next time. On my way home, I decided to get my TIN ID as well. I already get my TIN number 2 months ago and I want to apply for a card. However, when I get there, the security guard told me that I need to be employed first before getting the ID. For real? I didn't know that. Well, I just thanked him and told him that I'll get back when I get employed. While riding in a jeep, I overheard the two students talking. Don't get me wrong, it's not my thing to intentionally listen to other people's conversations. Going back, they looked like a senior high school or freshmen college. I don't know if they are proud because they are talking loudly that they planned to just pee, but it happened they are riding in a jeep instead and *then laughed*. Hopefully, they have their reasons and not doing it often (pag minsan minsan okay lang, kasi masaya naman mag cutting class, nung high school lang ako kasi nung college, nawala ka lang ng isang meeting parang kalahati ngesson na namissed mo HAHA), and hopefully, students take seriously their studies especially if their parents is doing everything to support them. You guys are lucky, don't waste it and learn to value your parents' hardships! It was a productive day! Just quickly writing this one because of tiredness and my body wants to hug my bed. Argh. I need to wake up early again tomorrow to take a medical exam. Thank you for reading! Keep safe!

@dziefem 14 October 2022

S*xual Assault is not a joke! Yesterday, I stumbled on a piece of news about a s*xual assault that happened to a man. And it turns out that he is not the only victim. He is brave to speak up, I’m glad he did! This case should be investigated thoroughly, I am not sure if he is stating the truth or just for fame. But I don’t think he will ruin his name and career for this. Also, I somewhat agreed with the person who commented “*it’s better to believe in a lie, instead of supporting a potential rapist*”.  This is not only happening to women! Men are also experiencing sexual assault. **Let’s not invalidate this traumatizing incident! This is not a joke!**  Sadly, some are making fun of it and being insensitive to the point that they jokingly say, “*it’s okay you’re a man and nothing to lose*”, “*maybe he likes it too*” and many more nonsense comments. Why there are kinds of people like them? They are only good at laughing at others’ situations but not at sympathizing and supporting them. Tsk. Imagine you have a son, brother, or nephew and this happened to them or even to you, would you laugh too? Tsk. This is why most people who experience SA are afraid to speak up because of this scenario, getting laughed off, and so they are thinking no one will believe them.  I have read a lot of confessions and stories that they experienced SA, and the worst is they tell it to the closest person they have but ended up being blamed and laughed off. Much worse, in some cases, the one who assaulted them is one of their trusted closest relatives or friends. The thought that they are the ones who will protect you is the ones who will do bad things to you.   I may never experience SA but I know it is not easy to recover from this traumatic experience, it takes a lot of time. I just hope that they can fight and overcome it. As well as may have the courage to speak up and seek help.  To whoever experienced this, put in your mind that it is not your fault, and it will never be. We should not laugh at someone’s situation, we will never know that someday we will end up in the same condition.

@dziefem 12 October 2022

Matthew's true color. I suddenly remember this man. The person I thought he was. He was my suitor years ago, didn't remember exactly when it was. I'm not sharing this so Matthew will be bad at your point of view and curse him but for singles (only those who are ready to mingle or plan to build a family since some are happy and plan to be single until their last breath) to be aware and must give more time to get to know more about the person we want to be with us in our entire life. Just to be clear, I am not stereotyping men because I know personally that there are lots of good men. My father is living proof, he never hurt my mother or even swear her. Flex ko lang, bakit. XD As a further matter, we also know that there are women who mistreated or cheated their partners. Back to Matthew, when we first met up to months that he is courting me, he is so kind, sweet, caring, and loving. Well, I can see that, based on his words and actions. So, I started to feel interested in him. Sometimes I am like stup*d, kicking the leaves, stones, or winds while talking to him. HAHA. I did not know that until one of my friends teased me because I'm acting like that. I really thought that he was a man I thought he was. But I was wrong. (Nalinlang lang pala ako noon haha o sadyang magaling lang siya magpanggap. HAHA.) But then one day we had an argument. We can't get along, then he started swearing at me which he never did before even though we fight. He even wishes me to die. I'm shocked. As I said, he is always calm. When one of my brothers learned that, he get mad and want to see him. Of course, I don't want any trouble, so I convinced him to not be bother and it's already fine. Moving on... My point is, that let's not rush things when it comes to being in a relationship, let's give ourselves time to get to know more about these people who want to enter our life. I was so glad that Matthew showed his true color back then before we get into a relationship. I don't want to introduce someone like him to my family. And I can't imagine that I will be with that kind of man. If ever we got into a relationship back then, we will not last long. Ekis agad! Though I'm kinda marupok sometimes but I know my worth. I hope you do, too. This is just a friendly reminder that you're not obliged to do it since it's your life; to those singles out there, just wait for it, it will come along your journey. But of course, some people will be part of our life just to give us lessons and challenges that will make us stronger and grow. That's life. I am thankful for my exes that they are my exes now haha, I've learned from them. Now, I am happy with my loml. Yiie XD

@dziefem 9 October 2022

...when I was a working student While lying on my bed thinking what I'm thinking that I can't think what to think and should think. XD Forgive me haha. I suddenly remember the times when I was working at the wet market as a vendor in a chicken and pork meat stall. As I shared here, some of you already know that I've been a working student. I used to accompany my aunt to her meat stall every weekend or on days that I do not have classes. Here we go... Types of customers I encountered when I was a working student include but are not limited to: ****The "*********okay*********" type of customer.**** Never complain. "*sure, it's okay*", "*give anything available*". This type of customer didn't care whatever parts of chicken or meat. Sana all. XD One of the best customers we had! And I say, I'll never be this type of customer. Hahaha. ****The scammer****. These kinds of people are everywhere grrr. We've been encountering lots of scammers, there are times when some will pay fake money. Yes, their strategy is to join other buyers to confuse the vendor or to get a chance that their payment will not be able to thoroughly check due to busyness. ****The type of customer who doesn't stock meat****. They always want fresh ones so they will just buy them every time they want. I guess they are customers who live nearby or they just really don't want to stock meat even if they live far away. ****The snatcher.**** These types of customers love to put the meat in their baskets without the knowledge of the vendor. At first, they will pretend that they are customers who will buy but when they notice that the vendor is busy with other buyers they'll immediately get a slice of meat and turn around like nothing's happened. But when they are caught they will pretend and say that "*what? Oh sorry, I didn't know that it fell on my basket/bag*". The award goes to... Char hahaha. ****Once in a blue moon****. We have these kinds of customers who show up once a month and then buy a lot. It's for their one-month supply. They use to buy different parts of chicken and pork and cuts them according to what dishes they wished to be. ****Loyal buyer.**** To the point that they don't want to buy from other vendors. There are scenarios in which we ran out of stocks early, but customers keep coming, we have these loyal buyers that once they saw we had no display, would say "I will come back tomorrow" and they did. ****Type of customer who making us as storage.**** We have these customers who used to leave their groceries at our stall. After every commodity she bought in different stores she will come back and ask us to add to her huge bag. The problem is that we only have a small space but of course, we can't easily say no to our customers. ****Wandering customers**** (*known as window shoppers in malls*). From the word itself, they are the type of buyers who wander in different stalls. But damn, a wet market is not like malls where it is okay to touch the products. Imagine buyers pat all the products with their bare hands without gloves. It is fine if only touch what they will buy but nah they won't buy anything. Additionally, even though we initiate a conversation with them asking what they are looking for so we can help, we received no response. Aside from that, we also organized our display of chicken and pork to make it presentable then these kinds of buyers will just ruin it. Grrr. What type(s) of customer are you? This is just based on my opinion and observation. Feel free to add yours in the comment section! :) **Thank you for reading!** ❣️ This article was supposed to publish last night but while writing, I felt sleepy so I did sleep, it's more important anyway. Haha.

@dziefem 7 October 2022

Man died for a challenge worth $340 Most people will do everything for their family even if it means being in danger. Maybe some of you may not agree but based on my observation, lots of people got in trouble just to earn money to support their families. It's saddening because of the hardship in life some people do not mind what will happen to them, willing to sacrifice all for their loved ones. While scrolling on Facebook looking for something, I stumbled on the news about a man who **died because of a challenge**. According to the news, a man has heart disease which trigger that led him to death. **He may rest in peace.** A man straightly gulped one bottle of alcohol in exchange for **PHP 20,000** ($340 currently). If I were him and be in that situation, probably I will do it too since I don't think that challenge can kill a person (maybe he is not aware that he has heart disease). If you finished the whole video, you'll find out the reason why this has been done by a man. He did it to have money for the sake of his father's check-up and upcoming wedding. You can watch the video here. https://fb.watch/f_x9kXZWUP/ What makes me sad was that some people find the news funny or maybe that's their reaction because they didn't watch the whole video. Even if, do you think it's laughable? Well, I don't think so. Someone died and you have the nerve to laugh? Watta's inhumane reaction. Is it so hard to have a little sympathy? Tsk. Moreover, while reading the comments, there are several people who say that it was because of the man's greed for money. What the h*** is wrong with them? Watch the whole video! He is in need of money. Grr. They easily judge someone just because of the news headline. -.- (Parang yung mga taong mapanghusga lang din kahit pangalan mo lang alam nila, hindi pa nga full name at lalong hindi buong story mo. Don't mind me. Naalala ko lang 'tong phrase na 'to.) XD Hopefully, this will serve as a lesson for everyone to be cautious when drinking alcohol and stop doing this kind of challenge just to have fun. There are other ways, please. **Drink moderately as always!** Everything that is too much won't do anything good to us, remember that.

@dziefem 2 October 2022

Goodbye September, Welcome October! There are times that we made mistakes. There are times that we failed. There are times that we have to break down. What should we do? Should we stop or take a rest, be strong and keep going? I had good memories of September; you know why if you have read my trip to Cebu. But at the same time, I had not so good one, but it will serve as a motivation and learning experience. I must not stop because of it instead I need to improve myself and do better next time! On the very first day of October, I had a breakdown, but still, I can say that I had a happy birthday because I am with my family celebrating with me. Of course, our elder sister did an effort again, she bought gifts for me and even prepared for my birthday. I wasn't able to take a photo of what she prepared but it was *Spaghetti, Whole Fried Chicken, Puto* and *Buffalo wings.* Let me share the gifts that I received for my birthday. First, the cake and flowers from my love. It was an advanced gift if you have read her article about my visits to Cebu, she surprised me with those. Reminiscing those times can't stop me from smiling. My heart is so happy! Thank you, love! 🤗 The other gifts are from my elder sister, brother-in-law, and mother. Our youngest sister gave me a gift too, but I forgot to take a snap of it. It was a cute tote bag and ponytails. Mind you, I always use ponytails before because I have long hair and I don't want anything that disturbs me, especially while cooking, cleaning the house, or doing laundry, my hair irritates me haha. Aside from that, I easily get sweat that's why. Anyway, it’s a new wallet for the new month. After several months, just now again I organized my BCH wallet. Haha. But still, I am not setting any goals just like before. **That's all!** Hopefully, October will be good for all of us! :)

@dziefem 1 October 2022

One Piece Film: Red We get to like and unlike something through our journey or as time goes by. They say, nothing is permanent except change which is the only constant in this world. Watching anime is not my thing, before. However, I have siblings and friends who frequently see that enjoy anime movies and series. They also encouraged me to watch, at first, I was hesitant because there was a thought that I wouldn't like it, but I gave it a chance, I watched then I found myself looking for other animes to watch. Haha. A week ago, my sister and brother talked about watching this anime movie but later on, we decided not to and just wait on the website or on any platform that will be available. To our surprise two days ago, our elder sister (the one I always mention here) ask about our plan and why we decided to not watch. The reason is it is not available to the nearest SM in our place (which commute is easy). Moreover, she asked us where SM was available, so I search again and took a screenshot of the second nearest one and send it to her together with the ticket price. Obviously, she has a plan to treat us so who are we to refuse and be nitpicky? XD Plus they joined us. She really spoiling us. Arghh. We're so lucky to have her. We love you, Ate! 😚 Thanks to her boyfriend too who drive us there.  So, yesterday, September 30, 2022. We watched **One Piece Film: Red**. On our way to Rosales, Pangasinan, I can't stop smiling because of excitement haha I even kept saying "***yiee one piece***" and our older sister like "***excited much?***" then she laughed. Haha. Before the movie started, we took snaps. My brother-in-law doesn't want to join so it's us, siblings, me, elder sister, Carisdaneym, and brother. I captured a few clips even though they said that it was not allowed. Hahaha. I'm a good girl, indeed. XD I made it a GIF to be able to share here. After watching, we ate lunch and forgot to take pictures because we were hungry. Haha. We are supposed to eat before watching but then we arrived at 1:00 pm and the start time is 2:00 pm. So, what the elder sister did was buy snacks to eat inside the cinema. I want to share what happened in the movie, but I don't want to spoil others. XD I know there are users here who are also a fan of One Piece who wants to watch this so just a few clips are enough haha. I had fun today, thanks to our dearest Ate! 💖 I was writing this and was supposed to post it last night, but I fell asleep. Huhu. Probably because of drained energy. Anyway, it's not too late pa naman haha. That's all! Good day, fellas! Stay safe and hydrated! :)

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@dziefem 27 September 2022

The Aftermath of Super Typhoon Karding People can't prevent any natural disaster; we all know that - a saddening fact. Every year there is always damage in some places caused by typhoons which bring flooding, strong wind, and landslides that lead to grievous destruction and thousands of deaths. Moving on, those who have read my previous article know that I've been to Cebu. So, yesterday, September 26, 2022, was my flight to get back however I thought it will be canceled due to a typhoon (as some flights got canceled). Fortunately, when I arrived at Clark International Airport, the typhoon is gone but then the damage that has been done was already visible in my sight. See the photo below. It was the hallway outside the airport and take note that this was built recently. For a few minutes, I stayed at the airport as I waited for a bus to ride going to the terminal where way to my destination. It came and traveled 25 minutes before arriving at the terminal. Going forward, when I was on my way home to my hometown - Nueva Ecija, I saw a great deal of damage done by super typhoon *Karding*. Broken and flooded houses, destroyed infrastructures, sunken crops, and broken trees. Seeing these while traveling gives me more heartbreak, aside from missing the love of my life. Grr. I don't remember how many times I mutter the word "*sh*t*" every time I caught the glimpse of the aftermath of typhoon *Karding*. Thinking about people who lost their houses, lost their loved ones, and those farmers (including my father) who got flooded/fragmented crops, makes me cry but thank God, when I get home I found out that my father's farm doesn't get major damage unlike what I see on the road and internet. I even asked myself, "why is this happening?" :( "why it needs to?" Hopefully, all of us will help to save the planet earth by doing simple tasks like saving energy and water, reducing waste, planting more trees, and more! I hope everyone is safe wherever you are and salute all those rescuers and LGUs whose dealing with regards to this matter. Mabuhay! Good night.

@dziefem 24 September 2022

Skyranch ft. my first few days in Cebu It takes time before I had the courage to ask permission from my parents if can travel to Cebu, alone, to visit my girlfriend. Haha. I booked last February and told them two weeks before my flight. It took me 7 months to tell my parents. XD Luckily, they allowed me coz if not, sayang yung pinambili ng ticket haha. My mother said, "*it's okay, just be careful, okay? Just give her number to me" w*hile my father said, "*it's up to you, the question is, if you can, that's your first travel alone (by plane) and it's too far*". I answered confidently, "*of course, I can! Haha.*" On the same day, I was planning to ask my older sister's permission too. Of course, she is like a mother to us - her siblings. However, our mother already called her and told her that I'm going to Cebu, and the fun part was that our mother misunderstood the day of my flight. She thought it was the day after I ask their permission, so my older sister was about to get mad at me. "Ura-urada?" HAHA Moving on, as I have a generous, kind, caring, sexy, pretty, and loving older sister, she volunteered to accompany me to the airport as I planned to commute. They planned that we would go to SkyRanch(Pampanga) the day before my flight. So, we left our house at 1 pm, we arrived at 3 pm and enjoyed the rides. I don't have lots of photos here on my phone as we used their phones and DSLR. I told them to send me the pictures, but my lazy brother won't do it. Kokotongan ko yun pag-uwi ko. Chariz haha. Ferris wheel is our last ride and we decided to eat before they take me to the airport. Exactly 9 pm when we get there, and my flight is 7 am. Haha. I tried to sleep but I can't even though I was sleepy. Are you wondering why they send me to the airport at night instead of a few hours the day my flight? It is because they want to accompany me, and it is only possible at night as my older sister is busy every morning. Another factor is that they want to enjoy the ferris wheel with lights on. Haha. Fast forward... I boarded at 5 am and at exactly 7 am, we departed. I arrived in Cebu, at 8:30 am and my girlfriend is already waiting for me in the lobby an hour before my arrival. Early bird, yarn? Haha. As I look exhausted, she can tell that I need rest haha. But of course, she asked me to eat first before heading home. Such a caring one. ✨ Days before, @MissJo, @mommykim, @Breadchamp, and I decided to meet for dinner the day of my arrival at Sugbo Mercado. Sadly, Breadchamp wasn't able to come. Wala pa po akong tulog niyan haha. While eating, we had fun conversations. As usual, they bullied me because I'm the cutest (in size) hahahaha. Opo, maliit lang po kasi talaga me. Haha. Later on, we decided to see off mommykim as it's getting late, and she will travel distant. MissJo and I took a taxi to go home as it was too late. On the next day, we went to Cebu Simala Shrine. We traveled 8 hrs back and forth. Grr but it's worth it. When we arrived, there was a long queue for those who want to touch Mama Mary. So, we just light candles and sneak in at the Church, buy souvenirs, and go home. That's all for now! Thank you for reading. :)

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@dziefem 10 September 2022

You are cool for me if... People differ from each other however I know all of us can do all these but chose not to or really can't do them. Hmm haha. Everyone can be cool in different ways! *wink* You are cool for me if... ***You show gratitude.*** People who know how to appreciate things and be grateful even for the little things they have received. I like these kinds of people. Just imagine what the world would be like if everyone took the time to show some gratitude instead of taking it for granted. ***You don't brag.*** One of the coolest people I know. I have this classmate who is so humble! I can say that she is the all-in-one, swear! Never brag about her achievements. She is down to earth person. She is kind plus beautiful. ***You show up on time.*** Me, as a person who is always early on any occasion, I easily get irritated if you are late with the agreed time. Especially when I was in high school and college, these people who set and agree on the time for meeting are the ones who got late plus they are living near the school. It is okay if it is just 5 minutes or 10 minutes but 30 minutes to more than 1 hour? Nah. Sorry, I hate you already! Haha. ***You have good manners.*** Argh plus 1000 points! You got my respect dude! Respecting others, showing simple gestures, or saying simply sorry when you make mistakes or accidentally hurt others unintentionally or intentionally. Some people don't even care when they harm others physically or emotionally. I remember when strangers bumped into my back (so of course I didn't see her) while I am just standing because she didn't watch her steps and focused on her cellphone instead. Grr so I ended up saying sorry to her. "ay sorry nabunggo mo 'ko" HAHA. At parang wala lang siyang pake. 😆 ***You give without expecting in return.*** It touches my heart that a person is sincere to help or give others without expecting in return. And I know good karma always follows them. If you are the kind of person who gives but expects in return, I don’t think it is considered giving.  ***You don't respond to negativity.*** How to be you po? Haha. Even if there are people who are making them angry, still they are calm. I know deep inside it makes them frustrated or a little mad, but they can control themselves. Well, I am working on this one. Stay positive tayo 'wag lang sa covid! Uso pa ba? Haha. ***You are responsible.*** People who know and do their obligations. Many individuals are aware of what their obligations are but failed to do it. I'm guilty haha well I am not cool with this one. XD There are times that I am not responsible especially when laziness strikes me. I admit it. The one I can say who is responsible is our second eldest sister. She is cool 101%! **Being cool isn't about what you say but what you do.** We have a different definition of one person being cool and these are mine. What is/are yours? Comment down below! :) Anyway, as the new noise is still in development, the search button is not available yet, right? I can't see lots of familiar names there so I just follow some, please comment on your link. Here is mine: https://noise.app/dzibee https://noise.app/invite/keihut3e **See you there!** 😁

@dziefem 5 September 2022

Hello, everyone! Please support my best friend @yoshioka https://read.cash/@yoshioka/mobile-legends-secret-love-929eb33c She just joined yesterday. Hope you can give her a warm welcome. Thank you so much! 😘

@dziefem 4 September 2022

Trauma, malala. I am single for 4 years before I met my boyfriend right now. It's been so long since I feel loved. I miss this feeling. The reason why I have been single for a long time is because of trauma. My ex-boyfriend hurt me physically and emotionally, he wasn't like that when he was courting me. He never says hurtful words even though he was angry but then one day he suddenly changed, and it got worse. Then I found out that he has another girlfriend. I asked him why he didn't tell me that he no longer loves me and why he needs to cheat. Many questions were in my head, am I not enough? I give my all and he just said "I don't love you anymore. Please, don't come near me again." It really hurts ang magmahal ng ganito. XD I questioned myself for a year and I can't think of answers. It is not easy before I totally get over him. I've been wasted for almost every day felt like throwing my life. Such a fo*lish me. Back to my present, I told this guy that I can't be in a relationship, and we should stay as friends, but he waited for me to be ready. He came at my lowest. He kept saying that I'm worth it, that I don't deserve to be treated like that and my ex-boyfriend doesn't know how to be contented. He kept reminding me that, every single day. He is always there for me, gives me comfort, and makes me feel so special. So, sino ba naman ako para mag-inarte pa? XD Because of his consistency, I found myself falling inlove with him. We dated and became 2 years in a relationship. He took away my trauma. Fast forward... We were both working but in different companies. I was promoted and assigned to a project in another country. I discuss this with him and asked for his consent if it was fine. He said, "**of course, I know we gonna miss each other but it's an opportunity for you, and I don't want to be a hindrance. I'll support you.**" *then he smiled.* It's a less than 2 years contract. I can get back when we finished the project. From the time I get there, we seldom had a video call because of different time zone. But nothing changed, he was still consistent. He updates and greets me with 'good morning', 'good night', and 'I love you's and reminds me to eat. He never misses. In my mind, I was so lucky to have him. A year passed, and I didn't tell him that my contract was about to end. It is earlier than we thought. When I arrived at the airport, I immediately headed to his apartment. Luckily, I still have the spare key he gave to me. I quietly open the door and amble to not make any sounds but then I saw unfamiliar sandals, it made me stop and think. I shook my head and mumbled that maybe it was her sister. I continue to walk and saw his room wide open, he is naked, and there is a woman under him which he passionately kissed. I want him to surprise but I was the one who got surprised. (Wow, magic. XD) No more words come out of my mouth even though I am mad. I was speechless. I can't move. The river flows through my eyes. I trusted him. He then saw me and shockingly called my name. At that moment, my feet started to move. I ran away while crying. How long he has been doing this? A lot of questions ran through my mind. It is like a dejavu, eh? He took away my trauma... but brought it back doubled... the man I thought will be with me for the rest of my life. The man I planned my future with. I'm stup*d! It seems like he is a professional actor who has been acting since the first day we met, and I am like a kid who amazingly believes in a clown which in fact was making me happy by fooling me. I am not sure if he had been true to me all this time. That's all! Kapapanuod ko 'to ng kung ano ano sa Facebook e. 😆 Eyyyy! Annyeong, readcash pips! How's everyone?

@dziefem 17 July 2022

What happened during graduation? ***"Sa bawat wakas ay may panibagong simula."*** One chapter of my life has ended. I then now going to write the next chapter. I might have mistakes, breakdowns, doubts, and even need to start all over again. I am going to rewrite whatever it takes. I will keep on trying. I am now officially unemployed! 😆 I want to rest at least two months. Hopefully, my elder sister won't get mad at me. Haha. Last July 15, when I graduated. Believe it or not, 5:00 o'clock in the morning was assembly and 6:00 am started the procession. My father and I went to the University before 5:00 am. My younger brother drove us there. On the very same dqy of my graduation, during the procession, one of my earrings went missing. 😭 It was an advance gift from my elder sister. It was 21k gold. 😭 Actually, even if it's not gold, it will give me so much worry because it's from my Ate. At kabibigay niya lang yon. 🥺 Until the ceremony was done, it never out of my mind. Right after taking snaps, I tried searching it from where I sat up to where we started walking. I don't mind my feet aching because of the shoes. (Duh, it's been a while since I wore shoes with heels. Well, I'm not the only one. XD) I blamed myself for being so careless then my father tpld me "it's okay, things happened. You didn't want it." Until now, I can't move on from my earrings. Huhu. Here's a photo of it. It was a necklace and earrings. Even my elder sister didn't get mad, I know she felt little disappointment. 😞 Sabi nalang niya, magpagawa nalang ako nung ganon sa nawala. I will, pag may sahod na. Haha. Back to graduation, I felt bad for other students as some of them had broken shoes. I guess it was because of the rocks we walked into or they twisted their ankle. Well, the new shoes I bought seemed got damaged too.  Another thing, I felt sad for one student because he wasn't able to step on stage due to breaking a rule. It's in the rules that are supposed to be not. I will not say the very reason why. Fck that rule. Grrr. Okay, moving on. After the ceremony and while looking for my missing earrings, I messaged my brother to pick us up. I am so tired 😪 but got relaxed after I took off my shoes. When we arrived at home I asked them to take a picture before taking a bath. I want to share our family picture here but it feels like something is off. I don't know why. Haha. I will just share the snap of the mini celebration because the main celebration would get done on our father's birthday. Sabay sabay nalang daw para tipid. Yes namarn. Mindset ba mindset. HAHA. Later on, after drinking a few glasses of soju, my siblings laughed at me because they saw my face was getting red. It's the nature of my face turning red easily whenever I'm hot, shy, drunked, etc. Skl. XD That's all! Actually, I'm about to sleep because I'm tired and we were just getting home from my Aunt's birthday when I suddenly wanted to write about what happened last Friday. Haha. So, yeah. Sorry if there are typo errors, my eyes are giving up. 😁 Good night! 💖

@dziefem 14 July 2022

Sister's Birthday! Last July 10 was my eldest sister's birthday. This is the day I thought we will be completed again, I mean the whole family will be in one frame. Sadly, my sister-in-law tested positive in covid. (Kahit ubo lang naman). Here's what happened, July 6, she gave birth to our cutie little Zoey and that's the day she tested positive so they needed to send Zoey home. Finally, I have a niece! Puro kasi lalake yung dalawang anak nila tas ganon din si ate. Haha. So, my brother stayed with his wife together with their two sons while my mother and father took care of Zoey as my brother's family was in quarantine until now. Sister's birthday but we celebrated Sean's birthday! XD Sean is my sister's eldest son. His birthday was the 1st of July, so they decided to celebrate it on my sister's day. Actually, I thought I couldn't attend because I was busy with the council but I finished the assigned task early. I will just share my snaps during that day. Obviously, I am the one in the picture. If you haven't known, now you know. XD The weather at this place is so hot! The resort only provided two electric fans. Grr. I don't want to swim because it will hurt my skin hahaha charot but I swam at night. We got home at 8:30pm. Parang sasakitin ako nito kasi wala akong dalang pamalit pero nag swimming HAHAHA. We arrived at the venue, 1:00pm, we are early bird. The celebration is at 3:00pm. What we did was sang on the videoke while waiting even though I have terrible voice. XD We're having fun while waiting for the other visitors. XD I am not fond of sweets but I ate a small amount sometimes. I thought we could eat after arriving there because I'm a hungry bird haha I haven't eaten lunch but I restrained myself because I'm shy from other visitors. Chariz haha. That's all! Sorry, I was not able to read articles. I am busy with the council and other stuff for graduation which is tomorrow. For unemployed na ang ferson. 😆

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@dziefem 6 July 2022

Withdrew almost 1BCH! No choice! XD Life has been a roller coaster. Many times I attempted to give up due to challenges I've encountered. I've been disappointed with myself every single time that I failed but I guess God has a better plan for me. I'm not born with a silver spoon. I admit, before, I asked myself, "why was I born poor?" But as I get older, realized na ganyan talaga ang buhay, parang life. Haha. I always tell myself to do my best, not die with a financial problem and achieve happiness. And I believe, I will be happy if I become financially stable as I no longer have a concern with money. After I graduated from primary school our parents said "get to work if you want to study because we can't support you anymore". I'm lucky enough 'cause our eldest sister supports my studies in my first-year high school. She wanted to support me until college but then had a problem so she sent me back to our hometown. When I got back, I had never once asked my parents for financial assistance. I worked every weekend for me to have money to spend on weekdays. Sometimes I skip lunch, especially when I need to pay for school requirements. There are times that I just go home when lunch because I'm hungry and will be absent from the afternoon class because I don't have money (The money I earned every weekend has been divided by 5 days and brought the exact amount for me to not spend more). That is why I am so happy when there are no classes haha because I could go to work, earn some and be able to eat lunch for the other day. But if there is an activity on the weekend I attend seldomly(if I only have extra cash, na napakadalang lang mangyari noon haha) because you know, I can't give up half of my allowance for the weekdays. I've already shared about this, some of you have read it but I just can't help to reminisce about those days, the sacrifice, challenges, hard work, tears, and loneliness. Can't contain the happiness I have right now. It makes me cry. Haha. It feels like just yesterday when I doubted myself if I could make it through college but look I'm on the list!  When every time I feel down and unmotivated to study, I always think of my goals and that there is no reason for me to stop. Lalo't kailangan ng pera ang halos lahat ng gusto ko sa buhay. HAHA! Last June 12, I withdrew BCH as we need to pay some requirements as one of our clearance 🥴 and used it to buy shoes because I don't have what the university requires. 😑 They are so strict, I tell you guys. If the students will not follow the dress code, they'll restrict to go inside. Grrr. July 4, I withdrew again, worth $60 for our pictorial yesterday and for the cap and gown rental. It really hurts because of the current price of BCH haha. I don't have a choice since I spent my money on my laptop and my scholarship has no update if when we'll receive it. Malapit na tayo sa exciting part, sa ngayon puro gastos e HAHA. I'm so broke. So yeah. Fighting! 9 days to go!

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@dziefem 28 June 2022

Does anemia cause death? Early in the morning, my bestfriend messaged on our group chat with the squad. She told us that something happened to her yesterday. So, I immediately ask her what happened and ensure she's okay. It turned out that she might have anemia causing her to fall to the ground. Mere speculation. Although it's speculation yet I want to check about it. The first thing I search for is about a *lacking of sleep can cause anemia*? Because my dear friend used to sleep late and I used to believe that it's one of the reasons. Google results say it won't be the cause of anemia. I'm relieved that is not the reason so she may not be anemic. As an overthinker, the next thing I search for is whether *anemia can cause death*? Sorry to think about it huhu. As I saw the finding, I can't help but become worried again. Even though it cannot be the reason for death directly instead it will cause organ failure which leads to death if left untreated. I told my bestfriend that I'll be waiting for the results of her laboratory tests. As her best friend, I advised her to make sure to follow what will doctor says. I am worried because she is hardheaded. Grrr. Further, right after our conversation, I quickly search about anemia and its causes. `According to what I found on the internet, anemia is not having enough red blood cells, hemoglobin, or insufficient blood supply.` *Some ways to prevent anemia, of course, eating foods that are high in iron and I found out that foods included are: dried fruit, beans, lentils, dark leafy greens, beef, shellfish,  mushrooms, and squash seeds.* I believe that my friend doesn’t want to eat most of the foods mentioned, especially, dark leafy greens. Actually, she really doesn’t want to eat vegetables. She is fond of meat only and junk foods. I always told her to eat veggies but she can’t take the taste. Grrr. There are times she will eat but just a little amount. Later on, in the afternoon, she messaged me and sent the results of her laboratory test. To be honest, I wasn't able to interpret it wahaha. But after I read her explanation which is according to her doctor, I understood the numbers on the paper. Haha. I am happy that she isn't anemic, though her red blood cells and hemoglobin are low, she just needs to increase them to avoid anemia. I discovered my friend is malnourished which is also one of the factors included in being anemic. Hays. She was advised to take ***ferrous sulfate*** to prevent anemia. I have taken that before and I hate it haha. I remembered, way back when I was in senior high school, the nurse explained about this ferrous sulfate, she said it was good for women to take it, especially those who have heavy menstruation as they are losing too much blood. It also helped if haven't gotten enough iron from what we eat, as it was an iron supplement. Argh, yung mataray na nurse na yon. Haha. Baka hindi lang talaga siya pala-ngiti. XD Not related to this post, you may not read hehe, just want to share. Yesterday afternoon, we had a meeting with our practicum coordinator regarding our narrative report -.-" we really thought that was done. Grrr. Sana last na 'to. Haha. Well, it's fine because some students didn't follow the format so they need to redo it. Sana lang hindi sila nahirapan sa pag-aayos kasi for sure magugulo yon. Hays. It is sad too because we found out that there are lots of students who will not graduate from our college. :( **That's all!** If you happened to find misleading information here, please do correct me. I did not do a deeper analysis of this matter but this is need an extensive study. Hihi. Thank youuu. **Two minutes of your time:** If you haven't seen this post my mine, please do check it. It's my way of helping a friend. :) Thank youu so much! https://read.cash/@dziefem/helping-a-friend-c2945b83

@dziefem 25 June 2022

Being a user or being used? Errr. None of these! Please don't be one! Okay? Okay. While lying on my bed and scrolling on social media, it stumbled into my mind these users/exploiters and people that are used by them. **Being a user**. I'm pretty sure we are all aware of what it does mean. *Manggagamit*. In some issues, we see on social media or even in some movies, some characters were using their advantages to use others for their personal gain. These exploiters, commonly use someone kind to them or worst madly inlove with them. I recall I have this classmate way back in high school. She is inlove with this fcking guy, who abused her physically, emotionally, mentally, and yeah even financially. That being said, this guy is getting money from our martyr classmate and material things. He always demands from the girl. We speak to our classmate, and she said, "I love him. I'm afraid that he would leave me if I will not give him what he wants." We responded, "there are lots of men who will love you without demanding anything." But then she said, "I'm afraid no one will love me and stay with me." So, she gave everything until nothing was left with her and the boy cheated. This is not the end though haha. But that's not our topic haha. It is just sad that these users taking advantage of someone just because they know that this specific person won't say no to them. **Being used**. Stop! Please, don't let others abuse you. I know it is hard to say no but learn to say it, for your own good and try to reflect and analyze things. You can certainly know when someone is just using you though there are people who are so damn good at pretending. But sooner or later, you will definitely know. Setting boundaries is a must too. Cut them off in your life if necessary. Mostly, you can identify if a person is just using you: (1) they just contact you because they need you or they just want something from you. In short, because that's the only time that you are convenient for them. (2) for me this is the worst - they are manipulating you, making you feel guilty when asking a favor. Like saying, "Hey we're friends right? please do this for me" (*'parang hindi naman kaibigan.* Familiar?*'*), "If you love me, you will do what I say" and so on. `(I know you won't read this). You, yes you, you are being used yet you cover that person because you love her? Come on, man. That girl is literally using you and playing with your feelings. She continued doing that and you still haven't learned? Know your worth. Focus on what makes you grow(wow, coming from me? haha) and your goals. Stop fooling yourself. Stop being used.` You gave all of you. Now, nothing is left to you. Ay dsurb! Chaar. Hirap magpakatanga no? Haha. Been there, done that. Don't be confused, I'm not the one in the story, ha? Haha. Ibang case yung sakin haha. Hey, fellas! I'll try to read more articles later after the meeting. We, graduating council officers, were given a task for the graduation. Gagraduate raw kami na haggard sabi ni ma'am. Haha. Kaloka. Pahamak nag nominate. Huhu. See ya!!

@dziefem 22 June 2022

Helping a friend. Got some business idea a few days ago and I have this certain friend in my mind who has a business related to it so I messaged her and explained the idea but then she told me that they don't have enough equipment, time, and manpower to do it. Hopefully, they will do it someday, I'll be the first customer. Haha. Anyways, this friend of mine is from noisecash. I was even fooled by her looks at that time and thought that she was my age when I met her. HAHA. Some of you may know her. She is my Ate AJ, @aj_u2 here in readcash. Hopefully, she will get time to write here again but she is currently busy with her business so let's see. This post is mainly to help her to get more subscribers on her YouTube channel and potential customers as well 'coz I told her that I will help her by promoting her business and YouTube channel at the same time. Here is the link: YouTube. If you have time, kindly watch her uploaded videos too. Hihi. https://youtube.com/channel/UCP77DLrBpDjgHOeyug9iPYA Your subscription to her account is a big help and much very appreciated! She also has Facebook Page, click here. Other platforms: Instagram and Shopee. Guys, gals, please check her shop. Thank youuu! Baka may mapusuan kayo, pwede rin panregalo. https://www.facebook.com/revivebyyou/ https://instagram.com/hey_you3323?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= https://shopee.ph/heyyou144?smtt=0.0.9 Here are some products that they offer: Visit their shop for more! Skl. If you can see the wooden crate box there, I have one. I ordered from them so that I can lessen the mess on my table or I can say to be more organized or nah. Haha. I tell you guys, it has a good quality! It's worth the price. I'm not saying this so you will buy(I don't have a commission or anything haha just to be clear). I'm just saying what kind of product I received. That's all! **Thank you so much! ♡**

@dziefem 13 June 2022

Just Give Up! Here I am, started writing this when I am thinking about what to do and how to waste my time again. Haha. I do not have a plan to write today as well for I do not know the reason aside from being busy with other kinds of stuff, maybe being lazy too, again and again, haha. Another thing that troubles my mind now is that our graduation is approaching and the university policy is that graduating students must have their booster. Arghh, hopefully, they will allow it if just fully vaccinated. Additionally, my older sister is expecting me to have a job right away, which is what I wanted to do. I already searching for a job before we had a conversation about it. But most of the problems I encountered must have at least 6 months of experience which I don't have hahaha c'mon. I need work to have an experience haha but I think I will try a different career from mine. I am happy that I already have a valid ID(postal) haha and got my TIN too last month. Next is SSS then will apply for the job I'm eyeing once I graduated. Okay, enough with this, lezzgo with the real agenda. This is for the people like me who bring down themselves because they are focusing on the negativities and what might others say. **Give up overthinking and worrying.** We all know overthinking and worrying won't do any good to us. It will affect us mentally and emotionally which leads us to experience anxiety, stress, fear, and so on. It may be the reason to stop us from achieving what we aim for, so don't let that ever happen. If we are not going to act right now because of our overthinking and worrying, nothing could happen. So, please give up on this. (Coming from me?) HAHA. https://www.bing.com/images/search?view=detailV2&ccid=mr89fOMT&id=5193165AEA3C08DA362BB9536B6627E08315B08E&thid=OIP.mr89fOMTO-S-kVSnCsQKOAHaFH&mediaurl=https%3a%2f%2fmedia1.tenor.com%2fimages%2f9abf3d7ce3133be4be9154a70ac40a38%2ftenor.gif%3fitemid%3d10247679&exph=344&expw=498&q=Stop+It+GIF&simid=608021735689105277&FORM=IRPRST&ck=C5080A21AE82365062965347F6CDBE27&selectedIndex=0&idpp=overlayview&ajaxhist=0&ajaxserp=0 **Give up regretting and holding to your past.** What's done is done, you cannot move forward if you keep going back on what happened in the past. For us to be able to move forward, we must accept what we have done in the past, let it go, forgive ourselves for the mistakes we made, and let's take it all as a learning experience. **Give up getting caught up in the negativity surrounding you.** Let's always look on the bright side and be positive as well as remove negative people. For example, you have this certain circle of friends(?) that is full of negativities every time that you are sharing your wants or goals to achieve. That instead they are lifting you up, they discourage you. Ekis agad sa mga nega, shuuu. Haha. https://media.giphy.com/media/GBTBBV2ex8bxEqI7v7/giphy.gif **Give up letting the judgment of others control you.** Yeah, wala naman silang ambag sa buhay mo. HAHA. (oo, may ambagan, charr haha) Whatever we do, people have to say. So, why bother listening to them? Aside from that, if you let others' judgment control you, it's not like you're living for yourself but for them. Don't let them dictate your life. So, just give up with these and lift yourself up. I know it's difficult to stop thinking negative thoughts but try not to instead focus on the bright side. Don't let others' opinions bring you down. **Comment your opinions too! :)** Aww. It's been a month again since my last post. Haha. How are you, people?

@dziefem 14 May 2022

Is it hard to do all these? Eyyyy. It's been four weeks since my last visit here, feels like a year char. I was busy with my OJT (24 hours to go to finish my internship, yay!) and when I have free time, I used to watch anime and play online games. (I've hooked with Mobile Legends again! Grrr and worst I spent money now to buy what I want at that game(just some). Now, I promise not to spend anymore but still play the game. Especially when my siblings asked me to play with them. Haha. Okay, that's enough for an update about me. HAHA. Anyways, I hope everyone is fine. Mukhang balik lockdown nanaman tayo ayan na. Nakakaloko sila aa. Moving on, these behavior skills can be applied in our home, school, work, and so on. https://media.giphy.com/media/3o7TKsh9sy1Az5gOKA/giphy.gif **Always listen.** I remember when we were in senior high school, there is this one professor who told us about the 80-20 rule. Meaning, 80% listening, and 20% talking. Simply, we must focus on listening when someone is talking so we know what or how to respond. In school, we mostly listen for us to learn. (But me, always have a seatmate who is talkative so alam niyo na. Haha) This also applied to two people who are arguing. Have you noticed when your parents are fighting over something and the other one is do more talking than listening? It happens that it leads to misunderstanding than fixing the problem because the other one does not want to listen. Sana all nalang sa mga parents na malumanay mag-usap. XD **Be kind.** Before, I find this hard. Haha. Why? Maybe because I was still young and there are people making me mad, bullying me, or whatever. So, in my mind, why should I be kind to these people? Why?! Haha. Hindi naman nila deserve e haha chariz. But as time goes by, I learned that this is also for my own good. Sabi nga ni Selena, kill'em with kindness. HAHA https://media1.tenor.com/images/44915bb28fd899dc072a942c0472689c/tenor.gif?itemid=5045255 **Smile.** For me smiling is so easy and it can attract positivity. But you can read it through my face if that was fake or not. I can't hide it, especially when about family problems. But as long as I can, I smile at people close to me or someone I know instead of showing my grumpy face so they won't have a bad day because of me. Hahaha. Because based on my experience, whenever I see my siblings' irritated faces, it makes me irritated too. 😆 **Control your emotions**. *For example:* Before, I can't control my emotions. You know, I easily get mad over simple things, hot-headed in short. So, it happened that I usually get make mistakes or say hurtful words which sometimes I didn't mean to (yes there are times that I mean it. Haha). Moreover, being able to control our emotions, will not lead us to misunderstand others and avoid mistakes. https://media1.tenor.com/images/7d04dd96170cfd4e69016b1fbc73312f/tenor.gif?itemid=4448881 **Avoid gossip.** In school, at work, and even with your neighbors, avoid gossip. (Mahirap lang talaga i-avoid pag mainit pa chismis chaar haha.) When you be in a situation where there is someone making gossip with you, just listen. Don't say anything 'coz it might put you in danger and don't tell others even if it's true or not. Cut it on you. It's nothing to do with your life. Don't involve yourself. Even if you are mad with the person. Just don't. **Responsible.** Be responsible for the things you do and should do. I know all of you know your responsibility as a son, daughter, sister, brother, mother, father gentleman tururututut, or whatever. XD. When it comes to school, of course, to do our assignments. At work, to do our job right with integrity. At home, to help clean the house. **Integrity.** Ever since I always have had integrity. Whenever I do, I do it with integrity. Just do your work right even if no one is watching. That's all! There are lots of behavioral skills that I haven't mentioned. Maybe will share on the other day or not. Haha. Anyways, I am still working on some of the behavior skills mentioned above because I know myself still making mistakes but continues learning with it. **Thank you for reading! :)** Kumusta kayo ditooo?