When I came back here in my birthplace some people was glad and amazed when they saw us again. After almost 14 years of being away, they were amaze how we grew up..or how we glow up not just me but including my siblings. We used to look like a street children before, we look untidy and we have darker skin because we used to work in farms for our living.. the usual look of poor people.
We don't have nicer clothes before because we can't afford buying new ones, and our dress are usually faded in color. When they saw us they were literally amazed me and my siblings has different fashion sense.. well as you most know here I dress like a teenager, so I'm a bit fashionista than wearing plain shirt and jeans.
Due to that some of our old neighbors who have seen us before when we were young asked me, as I rode on his tricycle.
Uncle: It's been long years that your whole family left here good thing you guys came back here again?
Me: Yes, we decided to get back when mother decided to left Manila.
Uncle: Is your mom married again?
Me: Well she had live in partner in Manila and will come here too once he gets vaccinated and save up some money.
Uncle: That's good at least your mom and stepdad will never be back again. (They know how we struggle with my step father's hand before esp. mom as she's being battered.)
Me: Yeah..at least
Uncle: How old are you now?
Me: I'm turning 30 this year.
Uncle: Oh really? You look like Sixteen yrs old.. you're still beautiful.
Me: haha thank you.
Uncle: So you're my eldest daughters batch mates..
Me: Yes, she's my batch in here.. (while I mentioned some names that has the same age with us)
Uncle: So what did you finish? (He's referring to Degree)
Me: I was not able to finish my college, I am undergraduate..
Uncle: Oh! ( He sounds disappointed to confident) My daughter finish ..blah blah blah and she works in government blah blah blah..
Me: Oh, that's great at least they have stable jobs..
Uncle: Yes and the second to the last also works the same as her older sis backed her up after she graduated.. they both work in government sector and their wage is 700 pesos per day or $14.. (That is already good salary amount in our country and is above minimum wage)
Me: Wow, that's cool..
Uncle: What about you? What is your job?
Me: I don't have a job.. but I have extra income online..
Uncle: I see .. at least your husband is a seaman so it's okay if you don't have a job., I heard your husband is seaman right? (When we get back here, it's already known my partner is a seaman.. so many gossipers marites lmao.)
Me: haha yeah.
Uncle: So you'll become a donya sooner..
Me: neah, my partner just started his career and he still have some responsibilities to shoulder in his family so I don't totally rely on him in terms of financial so I am finding own income.
Uncle: Ah yes, little extra is good too.
(Probably he's thinking, I just look smart but I don't have a degree at all and that I just look like I have money because of my seaman husband)
In our country title matters
In our country title matters. People will give you great respect if you finish a Degree.. it's like they base their respect based on it. If you finish with good Degrees like Engr., Doctor, Teacher, Nurse and etc.. they'll treat you lovely.
So the uncle keep bragging his daughter's achievement, I was happy for them though because he was able to send her children to school and finish a degree through his tricycle driving.. I admire how he adored his daughters for achieving what they have, because that's what most parents feel when their children finished their studies from their hardworks.
What I don't like is that stating digits as I did not ask about it.. and even think I am earning a penny just because I don't have a degree, the sound when he said “little extra is good too.” giving me sense that he belittle me.
I can tell him I earn more than the wage of her daughter..with my extra's but I didn't do it. I don't brag what I am earning online since it is not a stable income.. although I'll be running two years in read.cash soon and exploring crypto, what I earned here is not permanent and even if I earned it permanently..I won't tell them.
Telling people how much you earn per day can attract danger, and is a form of bragging.. well in crypto space it's part of the journey especially crypto bloggers but I bet (we) don't show our whole portfolio.
Plus when you announce what you earn some people will come to you for a loan, hahaha! Lmao..so I am just low-key especially I don't have that much in my portfolio like others anyway XD.
I know Degree matters but I like what I wrote I don't get impressed with it especially if the degree holder does not have the right character.
In today's digital era, ang mahalaga may kwarta may title man o wala :)
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Date Published: March 6, 2022
Yes, finish a college degree yet languish in some pathetic job totally not related to that degree because it's the only one you unfortunately qualify for. Isn't it funny? On the other hand, learn and be good at a skill (tech-voc) and you can be in demand and be making more than those with proper college degrees.