What Is Your Degree?

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2 years ago

When I came back here in my birthplace some people was glad and amazed when they saw us again. After almost 14 years of being away, they were amaze how we grew up..or how we glow up not just me but including my siblings. We used to look like a street children before, we look untidy and we have darker skin because we used to work in farms for our living.. the usual look of poor people.

We don't have nicer clothes before because we can't afford buying new ones, and our dress are usually faded in color. When they saw us they were literally amazed me and my siblings has different fashion sense.. well as you most know here I dress like a teenager, so I'm a bit fashionista than wearing plain shirt and jeans.

Due to that some of our old neighbors who have seen us before when we were young asked me, as I rode on his tricycle.

Uncle: It's been long years that your whole family left here good thing you guys came back here again?

Me: Yes, we decided to get back when mother decided to left Manila.

Uncle: Is your mom married again?

Me: Well she had live in partner in Manila and will come here too once he gets vaccinated and save up some money.

Uncle: That's good at least your mom and stepdad will never be back again. (They know how we struggle with my step father's hand before esp. mom as she's being battered.)

Me: Yeah..at least

Uncle: How old are you now?

Me: I'm turning 30 this year.

Uncle: Oh really? You look like Sixteen yrs old.. you're still beautiful.

Me: haha thank you.

Uncle: So you're my eldest daughters batch mates..

Me: Yes, she's my batch in here.. (while I mentioned some names that has the same age with us)

Uncle: So what did you finish? (He's referring to Degree)

Me: I was not able to finish my college, I am undergraduate..

Uncle: Oh! ( He sounds disappointed to confident) My daughter finish ..blah blah blah and she works in government blah blah blah..

Me: Oh, that's great at least they have stable jobs..

Uncle: Yes and the second to the last also works the same as her older sis backed her up after she graduated.. they both work in government sector and their wage is 700 pesos per day or $14.. (That is already good salary amount in our country and is above minimum wage)

Me: Wow, that's cool..

Uncle: What about you? What is your job?

Me: I don't have a job.. but I have extra income online..

Uncle: I see .. at least your husband is a seaman so it's okay if you don't have a job., I heard your husband is seaman right? (When we get back here, it's already known my partner is a seaman.. so many gossipers marites lmao.)

Me: haha yeah.

Uncle: So you'll become a donya sooner..

Me: neah, my partner just started his career and he still have some responsibilities to shoulder in his family so I don't totally rely on him in terms of financial so I am finding own income.

Uncle: Ah yes, little extra is good too.

(Probably he's thinking, I just look smart but I don't have a degree at all and that I just look like I have money because of my seaman husband)

In our country title matters

In our country title matters. People will give you great respect if you finish a Degree.. it's like they base their respect based on it. If you finish with good Degrees like Engr., Doctor, Teacher, Nurse and etc.. they'll treat you lovely.

So the uncle keep bragging his daughter's achievement, I was happy for them though because he was able to send her children to school and finish a degree through his tricycle driving.. I admire how he adored his daughters for achieving what they have, because that's what most parents feel when their children finished their studies from their hardworks.

What I don't like is that stating digits as I did not ask about it.. and even think I am earning a penny just because I don't have a degree, the sound when he said “little extra is good too.” giving me sense that he belittle me.

I can tell him I earn more than the wage of her daughter..with my extra's but I didn't do it. I don't brag what I am earning online since it is not a stable income.. although I'll be running two years in read.cash soon and exploring crypto, what I earned here is not permanent and even if I earned it permanently..I won't tell them.

Telling people how much you earn per day can attract danger, and is a form of bragging.. well in crypto space it's part of the journey especially crypto bloggers but I bet (we) don't show our whole portfolio.

Plus when you announce what you earn some people will come to you for a loan, hahaha! Lmao..so I am just low-key especially I don't have that much in my portfolio like others anyway XD.

I know Degree matters but I like what I wrote I don't get impressed with it especially if the degree holder does not have the right character.

In today's digital era, ang mahalaga may kwarta may title man o wala :)

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Yes, finish a college degree yet languish in some pathetic job totally not related to that degree because it's the only one you unfortunately qualify for. Isn't it funny? On the other hand, learn and be good at a skill (tech-voc) and you can be in demand and be making more than those with proper college degrees.

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2 years ago

I agree, skills are more in demand than those just having titles..

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2 years ago

What your uncle doesn't know is that you can earn a lot more money, working online. I have a master's degree and I earn more on the internet than for my degree.

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2 years ago

Pareho tayo madalas gusto kong takpan ang tenga ko kapag ang usapan nauuwi sa comparison kung magkano ang sahod ng mga anak nila o sustentong binibigay sa kanila. Tapos magsusuggest na you should be like this ija or like that, you are expected to be like this and that at my age, knowing the degree yet unemployed for a long time. They are putting more baggages than what I actually have already, I have my reasons of not applying. It's what's best for me pero wala silang pake doon, ang mahalaga manalo ka o maging successful ka. Ang sarap kaya baliin ang social expectations at maging unpredictable hahaha. If no one cares for you, take care of yourself and mental health more than anything. Your happiness matters too.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga, that's why I don't stress myself for societies expectations.. I just shrugged it off kasi tayo lang talo pag pinakinggan natin sila.

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2 years ago

Di naman lahat ng may degree ay maganda ang pamumuhay. Tulad ko, yes may degree ako pero hanggang ngayon wala pa akong trabaho. Thankful lang din ako dahil I met this platform. Kahit papano may kita konti.

May mga tao talaga na nagbebase sa istado ng buhay, which is not good. Naexperience ko yan nagyon sis. I can feel na maliit ang tingin ng ibang tao sa'kin kasi nga wala pa akong trabaho. Akala nila wala akong ginagawa.

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2 years ago

Yun nga eh, pag di mo pa na gamit yung Degree mo ganon din tingin nila minamaliit ka rin at e compare sa iba or sa mga anak nila.. haha nakakasura mga ugali 😂

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2 years ago

Same case po. Grabe talaga nung nagrent ako sa qc. Dun ko naranasan araw-arawin ibackstab ng mga kapitbahay dahil wala akong trabaho. Di naman ako ung tipong walang ginagawa dahil nasa bahay lang. Di nila alam dami ko din sideline, ang isip ng ibang tao ang tamad tamad at walang diskarte. Sobrang lakas nga lang ng boses nila madalas sa utak ko, hindi ko matanggal, nasasaktan din naman ako. Until now may ganun pa ding feeling na ang liit liit ng tingin sayo ng ibang tao kahit nanay ko, iniisip nila ang boyfriend ko ang nagbibigay ng pera sakin o bumubuhay kahit paulit-ulit kong sinasabing hindi dahil may ginagawa din ako. Minsan nasasanay nalang din ako sa sakit ng loob na nanay ko pa mismo nagkakalat ng maling info tungkol sakin. It's pinoy mentality na kapag sa bahay ka lang wala kang ginagawa, wala kang karapatan mastress plus the nakasanayan na dapat available ka lagi utos-utosan dahil hindi ka employed. If everyone is against us at our lowest, win ur battles everyday kahit pakonte konte, until maging successful tayo sa gusto tlga natin. Dadami ung kapamilya at kakilala kapag victorous/successful na tayo(sad but true).

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2 years ago

I'm so sorry to read your situation now sis. Ganyan talaga buhay eh, daming tao na mahilig mangmaliit ng iba. Kahit di naman nila alam lahat. Okay lang yan sis. Distansya ka na lang sa mga ganyang tao. Ako, kapag nag-aya sila ng outing, di na ako sumasama. Ayoko ng mafefeel na sinama ka nga pero outcast ka naman. Darating din ang time para sa'tin sis na magtagumpay sa buhay.

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2 years ago

Hahah thanks, di naman forever sa situation nato. Kaya yan shake it off lang😂

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2 years ago

in fact, not all degree holders are ended up employed or successful, depended ragyud na sa pag paningkamot, anha ragyud na mag daog tanan haha. Ang problema lang jud diri sa pinas is maliiton ka pag wla kay ranggo hays. I bet you earned way more than their minimum wage ate hahahha 1bch per month

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2 years ago

Gani dependi rajud na sa diskarte uy, dghan jud baya unemployed sa atoa kay walay saktong opportunity pd.

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2 years ago

True jud na sis. Ang ilang pagtagad magdepende sa kung unsay imong ranggo. Hahayyy pinoy jud uy. Hahaha sakto-sakto ra pud c.e sis. Makasupport-support gamay sa mga needs. Kanindot c.e anang 1bch per month sis,hahaha magdilang anghel ka sana😊

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2 years ago

Disagree ako sa ganyang mindset ate kasi kahit anong degree payan or walang degree sa diskarte yan nagwawagi. Yun ni lang² ka sa extra without knowing na kaya mo ng bumili ng house and lot🙈 hahaha

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2 years ago

Kaya nga kung mahina rin talaga tayo dumiskarate wala rin yang degree papel lang din haha..

Haha parang di pa naman kaya isang bagsakan bumili .. kaya low-key na lang talaga yaan na sila.

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2 years ago

Totoo ate, diskarte is the key❣️. Patunayan nalang sa gawan, ganorn HAHAHA

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2 years ago

I hate people like that. If only he knew how much you actually earn in your grind hays. Plus, they probably did not know much about how to make money works for them if they are only focused on the monthly income from a certain job.

Good on you for thinking of your safety first instead of bragging about the money you have. Better to have them think that the money is from your husband so they will not be able to bother you for a loan.

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2 years ago

Yeah, and what's funny is that their house way back still looks the same.. I mean di naman sa nang aano wala rin kami bahay haha but kung mag brag ka dapat kita rin diba..

Oo hinahayaan ko na lang thinking nila kasi wala na rin talaga ako panahon makipag usap matino sa kanila busy kaka grind haha

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2 years ago

Gosh, he sounds soooo ano., Yong mahahalata mo talaga na minamata ka nya. Banggitin paba ang achievement ng anak nils. Ee di wow. Well maybe they are proud pero kasi, duhhhh. Di nila alams mayaman kana 👀 pakitanong nga if may ipon anak nila 👀 paki ask if may investment din 👀 chorrrr hahahaha. Pero sa totoo lang talaga ee no. Pag may title ka, mahalaga ka. Like seriously, yan ang pamantayan nila para lang magbigay ng respect da iba. Naniii the fck! Duhh

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2 years ago

Hahahaha grabi naman sa mayaman ang layo pa sa katotohanan pero sana mag dilang anghel ka 😂

Kaya nga eh, okay lang naman yun..mag brag sya pero alam mo yung bahay nila ganon pa rin sa dati. Tsaka wala pa naman asawa yung eldest nya na kaedad ko.

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2 years ago

Eheee if pagbabasihan mga investment eheee 209k sa wallet is mayaman na for me HAHAHA lalo nag mula sa dugot pawis hahaha.

Nag sstart palang kasi ata peo parang nang ano.

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2 years ago

I am also an undergraduate but I really don't brag how much i earn although I work online. Naa lang mangutana, "asa naman ka molaag dai?" because they kjow LAAGAN ko. Hahaha

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2 years ago

Haha sana all laag laag na lang ..kana maoy sakto ka dako ug kita ba

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2 years ago

Actually, di ako lumalabas sa bahay. Lalabas lang pag gagala. Iwas marites. Hehe

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2 years ago

It always matters, not only in your country. These days, people ask your title or level of education just to calculate the amount of respect they will give to you, like we really give a damn about their opinion of us.

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2 years ago

Yeah, it's really funny that respect is now being calculated based on our level of education.

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2 years ago

An academic Degree certificate is something most parents aspire their offspring earn than their sons/daughters knowing/learning how to earn a decent living. I applaud your thinking for not bragging about the 'extra money' to a community 'uncle.' I had quit a permanent government job because there was no work! Those 'uncles' would mark me a fool or mad.

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2 years ago

Hahaha I laugh at “there was no work” in government.. I can see mostly government employees are lazy haha not all though but mostly.

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2 years ago

In my country there is also this kind of people. Who have government job,their parents have a lot of ego and mood.I really don't like it. I appreciate their work but expect that kind of words.

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2 years ago

Yeah, we do appreciate them having a better job position but their attitude are annoying..

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2 years ago

Over here in my country, there is the same attitude towards the title one has. The truth is that even with the title most of them earn very little compared to those who do not have.

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2 years ago

Well yeah because not all who had titles really works on their chosen fields.

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2 years ago

That's very true..

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2 years ago

Yan yung nga klase ng tao na iniiwasan ko ate eh. Yung binabase yung treatment nila sayu sa degree mo or work mo. Like, as in? Baka di nila alam malaki pa daily mo kaysa sa anak nila. Charot2 lang 😂

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2 years ago

Haha kaya nga nakaka disappoint mga ganong ugali nang tao.. mga lamang lang din ata isang daan pag pinalad hahaha

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2 years ago

Ateee sinabi mo sana na kaya mo din kitain 'yung 700 pesos na 'yun in just a day. Hehe~ awit sa mga taong may ganitong mindsets eh. Kaumay din sila~ si Mama nauumay na daw kapag tinatanong s'ya kung may asawa na ako or nakatapos na daw ba. Something like that, bakit daw ganun palaging tinatanong. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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2 years ago

Hahaha bakit kaya noh? Bakit ba hilig nila magtanong..tayo naman di nagtatanong sa kanila? 😂

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2 years ago

Mga pasimpleng Marites, Ate. Haha

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2 years ago

Your uncle was being insensitive. They thought it was all about being proud of the achievements of his children, but it's downright boasting! Toxic Filipino Trait

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2 years ago

Haha yeah really a toxic Filipino trait.

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2 years ago

To get any skill or work online is better than to do a job wage at 14 $ daily. It has become the mentality of our society that we go for the degrees that worth no much then a piece of paper without expertise and perfection in art

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2 years ago

Yeah, mostly cannot apply what they have finished because they lack skills.

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2 years ago

Yeah in our country title really matters it is sad thing that most of us embrace this kind of thinking or point of view. Most of the people judge who we are on what we achieve in life like if we didn't reach their expectations on us they will think that we disappointed or something.

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2 years ago

Yeah, as if may ambag sila sa buhay natin hahahhaha

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2 years ago

Funny how I'm about to write on degree recently, in my country, title or place you finish don't matter, its what you can offer that matters, you see people who study medicine working in bank.. So it doesnt matter what you study, your innovation and thinking is what matters

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2 years ago

Your country is cool then.. yeah just like here too, some did not pursue what they finished and work in different field instead.

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2 years ago

this may have been reversed for my area, in the past when I was a child and seeing people who already had a bachelor's degree many people respected them and they were often involved in big events and activities in the area but now someone's title is no longer like it used to be often worshiped, me too I have experienced this when I got a bachelor's degree, people just congratulated me, but for this respect it is no longer because what has happened in my area is that there are many scholars in my area.

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2 years ago

So people in your area now does not show respect to degree holder like it used to because they are scholars?

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2 years ago

Yes, they already think that ordinary things are different from before. That's because there are already many scholars in my area.

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2 years ago

You said it well ate. Before, lakas maka intimidate ng mga degree but now, naappreciate kong maging lowkey sa kung anong meron ako, Tama kasi ung pag nag brag ka eh uutangan ka wahahaha uso pa naman yan dito sa Pinas. Shake it off na lang pag may mga nagtatanong na ganyan.

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2 years ago

Oo nga pag alam nila na mdjo angat ka uutangan ka nang uutangan hahaha.. ako sinasagot ko naman na di talaga ako nakapagtapos, and I am not ashamed of it dati intimidated din ako sa mga Degree holder but as I grew mature I just realized na it's not all about titles dependi pa rin talaga sa diskarte ang pag unlad.

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2 years ago

A degree does not totally measure one’s success. You may have not finished your dream degree yet you are so wise in handling life. How much more if you have finished your studies. But I know deep within that you are so brilliant.

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2 years ago

Thank you for believing I am brilliant hehe. Yeah, I could've excel in many ways if I was able to finish my studies.. just that situations didn't allow and is a very long story to tell.

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2 years ago