Why Am I Not Talking Back?
If you can still remember the article I wrote days ago, it is about the things I heard from someone I'd never forget. There are moments in our life when we experience receiving harsh and hurtful words from someone. Also, it is customary to get scolded by our parents too. My parents are not disciplinarian and strict. They did not let us experience getting beaten by them. I am glad we grew up with so much respect towards our parents, even if they did not discipline us through bruises and scratches.
On the contrary, my father talks so much when scolding us compared to my mother. We also understood that side of him because he would calm down after a few minutes of talking. But there is one thing that I am proud of about myself and my two brothers. We never talked back to our parents. I did not hear my older brothers disrespect my parents, even if they spoke too much sometimes. If my older siblings don't talk back, who am I to do it?
Let me share why I am not and will never talk back to my parents.
I have so much respect for them.
We, children, should respect our parents. And I am living with that testament until now. I have so much respect for them that I cannot imagine myself speaking back disrespectfully to them. I remember when my father got drunk one night and told his friends how he raised us with no violence, yet we had so much respect for him. He even mentioned that we bow our heads and listen to him when he is scolding us. And he is right. That's what we do when we hear him getting mad.
Also, he added that even at this age, we never talked back to him. But if there's one thing he's so proud of, it's because even if my two brothers are taller and more significant than him, they are still afraid of him. I cannot relate when people my age start sharing their experiences of getting hit by a hanger or wood because I did not have the same experience during my childhood. And I think parents have different ways of how disciplining their children. I admit that there are moments when they say hurtful words, and I feel like it's too much, but I still keep my mouth shut and learn from them.
I'm not too fond of the idea of talking back to parents.
It is a turn-off for me when I hear someone talk back to their parents disrespectfully, significantly when they raise their voice. I remember when I did not let a man court me because I heard how he talked towards his mother. You cannot blame me. Because if he cannot respect his mother, how could he respect mine?
My partner used to talk back to her mother too, but not in a disrespectful way. Then, I asked him if he kept doing that. I could not trust and believe that he could respect my mother. One day, I received a message from his mom, telling me that he does not reason out often anymore. I wouldn't say I like talking back to my parents, but I know it depends on the situation.
Before you comment on something contradicting to my views, I know that not everyone has the same relationship with their parents. Sometimes it depends on the situation too, and not everyone can control their emotions. I know, and I understand. Just know this is a personal blog based on my experiences and perspective. I do not have any intention to offend people. Thank you!
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That is right, look for a man who respect his mother, talking back to them rudely everytime they being scolded is showing their impatient side.
It's fine to reason out if it's done politely, walang masamang sumagot sa maayos na paraan lalo at tama naman pero yong makita mong disrespect sa mother e gagawin din sayo kinalaunan, wag na lang.