@Bisolammy

@Bisolammy 20 March 2024

Am I the only one who won’t be able to eat when my room is dirty? I’d have to clean the room before I eat because I love to eat in a conducive place. Is the the same as you?

@Bisolammy 20 March 2024

Human Differences In Relationships. What’s Your Take On This? I know each of us have one or two things we do that does not seem right. We may see it as the best thing in the world while someone else will see it as total rubbish. Also, we may appreciate one thing while another person may not even like it at all. This is why there is usually something to talk about or argue on in relationships. No matter how it can be, you and your partner will still have at least, two differences which may be causing issues between you two every now and then. Yesterday, I got talking with one of my male friends. He mentioned to me sometime about him breaking up with his girlfriend but we could not go into it because we had other things to talk about and we were also busy. So we decided to polish that part, yesterday. He finally revealed why he and his girlfriend broke up. Firstly, he praised the girl and mentioned that she is the best girl he has ever dated. I was glad to hear that from him because we’ve got so many people who say bad things about their exes just because they are no more together. He mentioned that she’s a kind of lady who loves attention a lot. She does not really want the money or other things but she always want to make sure that you are sparing your time for her. My friend on the other hand, is a man who is pursuing his career on a very serious note. He hardly has time for himself but he still tries to make sure that he creates little time for the lady but not up to the time she wants. He mentioned that the lady complains every now and then about how busy he usually get but there was nothing he could do. When it became persistent, he had to break up. He didn’t break up because he felt she was disturbing him. He broke up because he felt she was too loving and does not deserve someone like him or maybe deserves someone better than him who can always give her the attention she wants. He also mentioned that if he continues to to date her, he’d just keep hurting her feelings because he’s very busy and can’t give her enough attention that she wants. Unfortunately, the lady misunderstood this act and felt he jilted her so she always post negative things about men on her status everyday. Well, I understand how she feels since she does not really know why he broke up with her. Now, how do you think he can tell the girl and make her understand why he broke up with her? Or do you think they should come back together and maybe make things work again? As for me, I feel they can come back together and make things work but it is left for the lady to understand the guy’s working schedule and always know when she can call since they both love each other. What do you feel?

@Bisolammy 19 March 2024

The situation of things is really alarming. I’m spending too much money in a day and I can’t even account for it. If I decide to account for it, I’d realize that I have only spent it on transportation. It’s really crazy. Is there recession in your country too?

@Bisolammy 13 March 2024

Why Do People Go Back To Their Exes? I’ve seen so many videos of people who were either asked to do something difficult or go back to their ex. Mostly, those people tend to do that difficult task just because they do not want to go back to their ex. I understand and it can be more crazy when the so called ex is someone who treated them very bad when they were dating. Something like that is enough to make them dislike their ex forever. Just like me, I said I was never going to go back to my ex until the young man pleaded again and I decided to give it a try for the second time. But let’s talk about the matter of the day. Why do people go back to their exes? There are people who must treated their exes very bad maybe by cheating or by portraying some kind of bad behaviors. Honestly, these set of people usually know that what they are doing is not fair but they choose to continue with it and I’m sure that is because they are enjoying that wicked act and maybe their so called partner is gentle or loves them so much that he or she forgives them at any slight thing. After treating them that way and they eventually break up, they will now come back maybe after a year or two, pleading for the crazy things they have done back then. For them to must have decided to plead for the things they have done, it means they knew what they were doing and they knew they were not being fair but bro, you’re back again. Why are you back again? To continue to act crazily and make the innocent person feel bad, to change and act as a responsible person this time, to make up for all the bad things you’ve done earlier, you realized that he or she is the best for you and decided to go back into the relationship or what exactly? Anyway, if you are not ready for a relationship, do not bother to have one. Stay clear away from making people feel unloved. They are going through a lot already. I hope we all find the best person for us at the end of the day. Relationship is beautiful with the right person and you won’t be worried about the energy you are giving or getting from the person. Everything will just run smoothly and perfectly. Have a great day!

@Bisolammy 20 March 2023

Be There For Yourself. A few days ago, I wrote about something which made me depressed. I was depressed to the point of going to spiritual homes just to check if something is wrong with me or not. I am not a fanatic of things like that but some situations will just make you visit spiritual homes. I don't know if it has happened to you before. I am always part of those people who think that going to spiritual homes is trash but the burden and problem was too much for me so I had to go. This happened to me last year, in October. In the last article I wrote and I wrote about this, someone said he guessed that it was a relationship issue and I am sure that is also what everyone will think of but you all are wrong. It is never about a relationship. It is more than a relationship and it made me feel like I had a spiritual problem but I am glad that it was not. Hahaha What do you do when you are depressed? Some people talk to other people, some listen to music and some people do the other things that they love to do. I am talkative and I love music so much. I have always listened to music so I came up with the idea of making new friends. Talking to the so-called friend all the time will not make me think about what happened to me. This has worked for me so many times. But I realized that I still brood whenever my friends tell me goodnight. I will no longer be myself. The depression will just come from where it is hidden. It is crazy but that is the way it happens. I don't know if you have ever experienced this. If you have, you will understand what I am talking about. My heart will begin to palpitate which is not very good for someone at my age. I then realized that the method did not work. What other method can I use? Then, I thought of it and realized the greatest too that can help me fight this depression is myself. I need to do this. I then took enough time for myself and decided to stop talking to everyone to see if I can chase away the depression alone. It did not work and I had to come up with another idea of getting busy with other things. That was when I became very serious about Hive. I am still not making a reasonable amount of money but I have never closed the day with less than $1. I was even able to improve in some skills that I have got and I think I can proudly say that I was able to utilize the time well. That was how I was able to come out of depression. I got out of depression by being there for myself. I am the only one who can be there for me. I need me and it will always be. I am just glad that I am thinking about what made me cry now and I no l longer care again. This is the most beautiful feeling. Also, I have been single since last year June and I decided to give love a chance again. I met someone who I am getting along with and I have been taking my time to know him before I do anything crazy because I may be very clingy. Hahaha Well, I will give you a gist about that tomorrow. It is funny and crazy because I noticed something which is a red flag to me😂.

@Bisolammy 19 March 2023

Would You Do That To Your Sibling? If you read my article yesterday, I wrote about the election which is happening in my country. The governorship election too place in every part of the country yesterday and I mentioned it that my parents traveled to our home town to vote. I also mentioned that my uncle is part of the contestants. He was contesting for a position in our state so the majority of my family members had to travel to the village to support him. I think that is sweet. Well, not all of us went. My uncle has some other siblings apart from my mum and others. He is even closer to them than my mum but they refused to come. This man trained the majority of his younger ones. He gave them shelter, food and every other thing that an older brother could provide for his younger ones. Well, they had some issue sometime ago. The matter escalated and it was caused by our grandmother. After a few months, my uncle's daughter was getting married. She had to go to all of them and pleaded with them to come to her wedding ceremony. She went to our grandmother and did the same thing. As family members, we are supposed to have gotten to the venue a day before or even two days before but it depends on how close we are to the celebrant. That is mostly what happens in African homes. On the wedding day, we were already expecting them to come. We already cooked their food and reserved their seats but they did not show up. Honestly, if any of my siblings does that to me, I won't forgive him. They didn't show up including my grandmother. My uncle still had to forgive them even though what they did was very wrong because I wonder why you will not be able to come out to support your brother. We already planned to go to my hometown during the election. When my parents got to my hometown, every of my family members were expecting them but they did not show up. That is very bad. Why would you do that to your sibling. No matter what happens between me and my siblings, I will still find a way to unite with them. I will still find a way to support them when they need me. We are siblings because we need to be there for each other. We are not just siblings because we were born by the same parents but we need to hold each other tight. I felt bad and I can imagine how bad my uncle felt too. I won't even forgive any of my siblings if he does that to me. It will be the end of our relationship. Would you do that to your sibling? And how would you feel if such a thing was done to you?

@Bisolammy 18 March 2023

Victory!!! Hello beautiful friends. It is a victory o clock here. Hahaha. Before I forget, I think there is someone we need to give thanks to. This person was there when Rusty took a break. He had to tip a lot of articles with not just an ordinary amount of money but a reasonable amount of money. Well, there was also an anonymous tipper but I ain't talking about him. I'm talking about @Coolmidwestguy . That man is one of the most wonderful people here. Even though he does not have so much, he still tried to put a smile on people's faces. He also put a smile on my face. I am grateful to him and I hope he gets to see this whenever he comes online. If he has put a smile on your face too, remember to say thank you. Well, I am very happy. A few months ago, my Uncle called my mum and asked her to pray for him. She did so and he told her that he won the primary election for a constituency in my state. He has always been aspiring to be a great politician. I think I can call him my role model because he never gave up even when he was supposed to. He just kept on believing. After he won the primary election, he was asked to buy a form which is for the state general election. The form was quite expensive. The form is worth $3000. Well, politicians have money and I heard that their money is always refunded to them even when they do not win the election. That was a big win for him and we all had to strategize how we can make him win. The majority of my family members had to collect their voter's cards so they will be able to vote on that day. Do you know the sweetest part of it? My parents are from the same village so my dad's family members were also able to vote for my uncle. God knows that I prayed so hard for my uncle to win. He spent so much money running campaigns. I was just hoping for the best and he is also from the strongest political party in my country. My parents already went to vote in the afternoon but they had to wait there till they finished counting the votes. My uncle won in most of the polling units and when they counted the overall votes, my uncle won the election. It is one of the most beautiful things that happened to me today. I feel so good and I learned from it. You should never stop trying even if it seems to get harder. My uncle has been trying this for years but he finally got what he wanted. God is so beautiful and I am glad for his kindness. I love you all❤️

@Bisolammy 17 March 2023

I'm Out Of It. Hello beautiful people. It is so sweet to be here again especially when the love of our lives is back. I'm sure you all know what I am talking about. Rusty is back and I think it should be celebrated. It is worth it. Someone like me has been praying for this day to come and it is finally here. I'm happy and I am back. It was just like we took a long holiday. The last time I wrote an article here was two months ago. I struggle to continue but all my efforts were futile. I could not continue. I had other things to do and some other things came up that I would love to share with you all. I have a lot of things to talk about. I am back here with full force and I experienced a lot of things. I experienced the beautiful part of life and the sad part of it. They are interwoven which means that they work hand in hand. We can not escape them. Out of all my experiences during the holiday, one hit me more. I was sad and I could not believe that I cried for months. I used to think that I was a hard girl. Hahaha, but it was not like that this time. I was pained to my bones. It is nothing much and I don't think I would love to share it with anyone. It is so personal to me that I sometimes feel bad whenever I want to talk about it but one thing I know is that no pain is forever. Nothing in this life is permanent. I just had to put it in my mind that the pain that I was feeling will not last forever and it happened as planned. I was just hoping to be free and get out of the pain someday and it happened. I tried to get myself out of the world and out of that realm. I had to stay away from anything that will make me remember such an event. Look at me today, I'm out of it. I'm so grateful for being strong-hearted and determined to be happy. Making myself happy is one thing I have always wished to achieve and I am glad that I got that. I am out of it and I'm grateful to the friends who were there for me and also trying to make me happy. It may be little but it affected my mental health so badly. I'm glad that I am back on my feet again and I can write like I used to. Also, I am glad that the love of my life (Rusty) is back. I wish I could welcome him with a million hugs. That is all for now. I hope I continue to see you all. I love you so much❤️

@Bisolammy 22 December 2022

People We Should Not Be Close To. I'm sure that we all are familiar with the popular saying " once beaten, twice shy ". The general meaning is that something is not supposed to happen to you twice. If it happens the first time, do not let it happen the second time. When I talk about the people we should not be close to, they may be the ones that we can't do without before but due to some circumstances, we just have to start far away from them. While staying far away from them, we should still be kind to them. The fact that we have promised ourselves to stay away from them does not mean that we hate them but we are just trying to stay away from anything that will affect our mental health. I hope we all know that our mental health is very important. • Learn to stay away from friends who hurt you: This is a very important aspect of life that a lot of us do not take seriously which we are supposed to. We let most things slide but trust me, you should not let some things go. Even though you will no longer talk about it or think about it, let it be in your mind that your so-called friend once hurt you, and such a person is capable of harming you again. I see no reason you should harm someone that you call your friend. If a friend does that to you, it means that he or she does not love you dearly and you need to stay away from the person. Also, do not make it obvious that you are trying to draw away from them. If you make it obvious, they may try something crazy again. • Your ex: When I tell people to stay away from their exes, it does not mean that a particular ex is a bad person. They may even break up on mutual terms and I can say that I have seen a lot of that. It may be because of genotype or other differences that may not be favorable in the future when they get married so the best thing they can do is to break up. Why did I say that you need to stay away from your ex? They remind you of the beautiful memories that you two have spent together. It is worst for you to be close to your ex when you already have a new relationship. You may cheat on your partner with your ex because of the love you used to have for your ex. I'm sure that you must have seen cases like that so I think we should just stay neutral with our exes. Not too far and not too close to them. I guess that it cool • People who d not believe in God: There is no life without God. A lot of people think that they are perfect and it is the things they plan for themselves that make their lives go smoothly but they are wrong. It is always with the help of God. This is why we always need to be thankful to him because he loves all of us dearly. God is our strength. I hope you know that there are sometimes when you may just need someone to pray for you but when you call all of the friends you have in your clique and they are unable to pray for you, you will be devastated. Fill your life with people who love to serve God. Fill your life with people who believe in God. God is wonderful!

@Bisolammy 20 December 2022

Do Not Waste Your Food! I'd love to speak about my country. We have a lot of religions in my country but the most popular religions are Islam and Christianity. It is very rare for you to go to a household where there will be no Islamic or Christianity practitioner is the household. Nigerians are deeply in love with these two religions. During Eid Fitr and Eid Kabir, Islamic practitioners kill rams and cook surplus food so that they can share with the Christians. It is a very beautiful act. Indeed, there is love in sharing. Even if you forget to take food to some people's houses, they will tell you or remind you that you didn't feed them on that day. I don't like that. I'm not like that! A lot of people do not cook on that day. If the festival has to do with Muslims, Christians do not cook, and if it has to do with Christians, Muslims do not cook. Why? It is because a lot of people are sure that they will get food from their neighbor or their friends. What if I tell you that I see festivals as an act of wasting food? Don't get me wrong, I would explain. I feel like there are better ways in which we can share food and it won't waste. I'm an Islamic practitioner and we all know that Christmas day is fast approaching. We cook in my house no matter what festival it is. The only time we don't cook is when our friends bring food for us early in the morning. Let me go back to where I said I see festivals as an avenue of wasting food in my country. On Christmas Day, my family gets food from different people. Over twenty households come to our place to give us food. Our kitchen will be filled with food and we are left with the choice of choosing which food to eat. I know the people who make good food in my area so I always choose to eat their food. Hahaha. Don't mind me. Then, when we are filled, we pour away the rest. It's not like we do not want to eat it but the foods are too much than what we can eat. Over 90% of Nigerian households do this too. They eventually pour away the ones they don't eat. It is not their fault but the fact remains that they can't eat all the food. It's the truth. Then, my mum's friend brought up the idea of sharing raw foods that people can cook. It was so fantastic! People won't pour it away because they can store it for a longer period. I love the idea. If we are to share food, we should share raw food so that they will cook in their houses. Also, some households do not like to eat other people's food. It means that they will also throw away the food. Why can't we share raw food? Why can we share just fried meat that can still last for some days? The level of recession is crazy and I don't think we can afford to waste food during this period. Let's find other means of showing love during Christmas. Do not waste your food🙏.

@Bisolammy 19 December 2022

Greatness! Have you ever met a great person? Have you ever had time to sit and chat with a great person? If yes, how was it? Have you ever watched a live interview about a great person? If yes, how did you feel? Have you ever noticed the way they talk? Have you ever taken note of what great people do? Great people are consistent, visionary, hardworking, and determined. A great person is never dicey about what he wants to achieve. A great person does not hope for 50%or 50%. Great people always make their yes " Yes". This is why they always talk like they have something in their cupboard but they don't. The greatness is in them. It is what they can feel and who they are. Great people put so much work to do whatever they want to achieve. They may deprive themselves of the beautiful things of life. It may be food, sex, sleep, rest, parties and so many more just to attain a greater height. I would love to mention some great people here. I'm talking about the likes of Michael Jackson, Cristiano Ronaldo, Lionel Messi, Wizkid, Barrack Obama and so many people. This article is inspired by Lionel Messi. It is a beautiful thing to see that Argentina won the world cup. I didn't support them because I wanted France to win and I wanted Mbappe to win two World Cups consecutively but it didn't happen. Well, France tried their best. The first half was very tough and I thought that was the end until Mbappe scored two goals. I was glad. It gave me hope that France may win the match. They played an extra time and Lionel Messi scored one more goal. That was when I realized how great Lionel Messi was. I already gave up on the match until Mbappe scored another goal. That's a hat trick. I was amazed and I called Kylian Mbappe the next Cristiano Ronaldo. When it was time for the penalty, my heart began to palpitate. My mind told me that was the end for France and it happened. Argentina won the World Cup. It was a very beautiful thing to see. It was a great day to witness Lionel Messi being called the idol of football. He's great. I watched an interview some time ago when he said that the best form of retirement is for him to win the World Cup before his retirement. Look at it. It happened. I know that there was some form of misconduct on the field and a lot of people said that they were doing everything in favour of Lionel Messi. Who knows if it is true or not? Even, he tried. He fought hard for it. He has always been a determined player. Right from his days in Barcelona, he has been great. No one can dispute that. Lionel Messi is a great footballer. He is successful. So, let's get back to you. How do you plan to be a great person in life? How do you plan to achieve your aims? It is by working hard. Work hard and keep on working. You will get it!

@Bisolammy 18 December 2022

Value What You Have. Good day, beautiful people. I guess I have been telling you how my day has always been. This has been happening for a few days now and I think I am enjoying it because I do not need to start thinking about what to write. So I want to share with you all what happened yesterday. If you follow up on my articles, you will realize that I have been following my sister to her boyfriend's place. His place is not far from ours and most time, we cook together. Sometimes, he comes to our place to eat whatever we cooked, and sometimes, we go to his place to cook. Moreover, there is one fine boy that I like in his house. I love to see the guy every day and that is also one of my main reasons for going there. Hahaha. Don't mind me, I love guys who look neat, scent nice, and cute too. He likes me so I see no big deal in that. Don't laugh, please😂😂. In my hostel, we are always complaining about the service of our house. If there is any complaint, it takes the agent over two days to come check what is happening before fixing it for us. That's always the complaint and a lot of people are planning on packing out. Also, some people are planning to pack out because they have increased the house rent by $20 and the money seem to be too much for some people so the best thing for them is to find another house that is cheaper. A lot of us have yelled at the agent that their service is poor. The house service is so good that you don't need to fix anything with your money if it gets spoilt. All you need is to place a call to the agent and they will help you resolve whatever problem that you are having in your apartment. Let's talk about my sister's boyfriend's place. Their house is more expensive and it is a flatlet like ours too. The house service is so poor that if anything happens, there will be no one to report to. There will be no caretaker to come check the house and see what they will do about it. Their waste bin has been full for over a month now and there is no one to come pack the dirt. That should be the work of the landlord and not the tenants. The structure of the house is bad too and almost everything about the house is not enticing. The rooms are also smaller than ours. Presently, their compound is smelling very bad because of the waste inside it. They tried reaching through the owner of the house so they can get the guy that packs those dirts but all their efforts were futile. Also, they have no gatekeeper and we have ours. The saddest thing is that their house rent is more than ours but our house offers a better service than their house. Even though they want to increase our house rent, it is still not as expensive as their house rent. I wish the people that are complaining about our house can go check that house. I'm sure that they will just renew their house rent here. Sometimes, it is good to value what you have. All that glitters is not gold. The outer part of their house looks finer than ours and may be attractive to the people outside but everything about the house is not nice. Right now, my sister and I have decided to value what we have by renewing the house rent and keep on enjoying the good services of our house.

@Bisolammy 17 December 2022

A Beautiful Morning. Hi, my friends. How are we doing today? As for me, I'm doing very great. I'm very happy today. The happiness should have started yesterday but I was too tired to jubilate. I stressed myself so much, yesterday. Two weeks ago, I was containing about my phone to my sister. It gets hot easily and I can't press it for long. If I try to press it, my hand will begin to ache. It hurts so bad that she showed me a phone online and asked if I like it. I said yes. Moreover, her boyfriend has used that same phone some time ago and they confirmed that it is a very strong phone that I can always use for my online earnings. I had to check all the money I have in my online earnings. It was not up to the money to buy the phone. I waited for two more weeks so that the money will be completed but unfortunately, it was not complete. My sister and her boyfriend decided to add some money to the one I have so that it will be complete. I was very happy and I said thank you to them. The main plan was to sell my phone at a particular price so that I will add it up to get the new phone. Yesterday, we went to the store to put up my phone for sale. The price was favorable and even better than how much we planned to sell it but something unfortunate happened. When we opened the screen guide, we realized the screen has broken too. They had to bring down the price to one that is not favorable at all. I didn't like the price so I walked away from the store. I went to another store and they bought it. They didn't buy it at the price I wanted to. It was a $3 difference so I had to sell it. Immediately, we called the dealer to send her bank account number so that I will be able to send the money. The phone costs about $181. She sent the account number and we sent the money. She stays in another state but we patronized her because she sells goods and trustworthy products. We went back home and waited for up to seven hours before the phone was brought to the house. You know I stated earlier that she lives in another state so it won't be easy for them to bring the phone immediately. I charged it for hours and began to use it. Presently, I still have a lot of things and applications that I haven't put on the phone. My bad! I didn't tell you about the phone that I bought. I bought Samsung Galaxy S9+. I've always wanted to use Samsung because it is one of the phones that is highly ranked in my location. I'm using the phone presently and all I can say is that it is wonderful. I love the phone❤️. Thanks to my online earnings. Thanks to BCH for giving us the opportunity to earn money🙏.

@Bisolammy 16 December 2022

Dreams!!! I am very sure that a lot of us have experienced what a dream means. There was a time I asked someone here if he or she dreams regularly like me because I dream almost every day but I was so surprised to hear that she does not dream all the time and she can as well count how many times she has dreamt in her lifetime. I was surprised because I thought it is normal to dream every day or at least three times a week. There are a lot of times that the dreams or nightmares we have become true while some of them may not come to pass. This is why we are always advised to pray whenever we have a nightmare because we never can tell what will happen afterward. Also, I am very sure that there are some dreams that you do not need to be prayed about because it is always fun and that is what I want to talk about. Have you ever experienced dreaming about someone that you never thought you could dream about? This happened to me yesterday and I was surprised. The dream was a very funny one. Some time ago, a Nigerian celebrity lost his child and I think I wrote an article about that and I blamed the parents and also the nanny for carelessness. His death is close to two months now. Then I dreamt about it yesterday that my friend was able to reveal the secrets of the people who killed the child. It may not sound funny but it is very funny to me because we are not even related to the celebrity and we don't know him in person so why should I dream about the person? Why should I even dream that my friend was able to catch the person who killed the child? Funny right? Also, there are some times that I will dream about other celebrities or other people around me but whenever I wake up, I always find it hard to pick something reasonable from the dream because everything that happened is just fun throughout. This happens to me a lot. And there are some times that when I sleep and wake up at midnight, I would have a dream, and when I sleep from midnight till morning I would have another dream again. I dream a lot. Honestly, I don't know why. Or am I the Joseph they were talking about in the Bible? Hahaha. Have you ever had a dream when you are unable to pinpoint what exactly you dream about? It happens to me a lot. Sometimes, I may just be walking on the road, meeting someone, playing like we are babies, or doing various things and I will wake up😅😅. The second dream I had today went like that😅. I dreamt that I met two girls a the cyber cafe then a good-looking guy was staring at me and I woke up😅. I know that I have no reason to go to the cafe in the next three months so I know it is just one of those funny dreams but there are sometimes when the dream may look funny but it is trying to pass a message to us. It is trying to tell us to pray. Not all dreams are fun. Some of these dreams want us to pray. Let's be careful of how we disregard dreams. Whether funny or not funny, whenever we have a good or bad dream, we should always pray about it. There are times when your enemies give you things in your dream but appear in the form if your favorite person. Sorry that I'm going spiritual here. It is the truth. Let's learn how to pray whenever we have a dream. Remember, either a good or bad dream, pray about it!

@Bisolammy 15 December 2022

What's The Scariest Decision That You Have Ever Made? What are the things you think of whenever you are about to make a decision? I mean, what comes to your mind? What are the questions that pop into your mind? Is it because of what you will achieve? Is it what you will benefit from? Taking a decision sometimes may even be because you want to satisfy some particular people. It may be your parents. Sometimes you know that the decision that you are about to make may not favour you but just because you want to satisfy your parents, you take that decision and waste some years of your life. What if I tell you that it is not a bad idea? Ever since I learnt that we all are different people and we handle situations differently, I no longer blame people for their actions. When it comes to me, I can never accept or agree to take a decision that will not favour me simply because I want to satisfy my parents. Remember that I said that it is not a bad idea but it is not my way. I always love to do my things my way and I have never regretted my actions. I took a very scary decision a few days ago and I would love to share it with all of you. If you have been following my articles well, you will know that I attend a film academy. I began the classes in June. The first phase was so wonderful. We went to the location to shoot movies with some of the popular actors. We had several classes. We had Yoga class, Acting for a film class, Improvisation acting class, Speech class, and Music class. Our courses were complete and it was also an advantage that the Academy makes a popular Nigerian movie. I was also lucky to feature in an episode of the series. I thought it will continue like that. We began the second stage last month and we are to pay another $100. A few weeks ago, my dad sent me the money but I was not encouraged to pay. Everything about the school changed. I mean, it changed totally. We no longer have the complete classes. The only two classes that we have are Improvisation acting and Acting for the film. Also, we don't get to have classes every day. We only do that three days a week. There are also sometimes when the lecturers will be very busy and they won't be able to make it down to the academy. Then I sat and ask myself if it is worth it. The second stage is lasting for there months. We have used a month and two weeks and I can barely pinpoint what I have benefited from the second training so far. Paying a whooping sum of $100 and not getting what you wanted is a waste of time and resources. Also, I will have to transport myself to the school. That's another expense, right? I am a person who loves to learn alone. Also, I love practical classes which we are not getting in school. We write more than the practice that we do and an actor is supposed to be trained with practicals. I know if I tell my dad about it, he may think I am not serious because I begged him to enroll me in the school but now that I am getting nothing from it, I find it hard to tell my dad the truth. Then, I made a decision. I stopped going to the academy. I began to read books online and offline, look for better ways to do monologues, watch movies and do what the actor has done. Post it up on my social media page to create awareness about what I do to people and attend auditions. I'm yet to tell my parents about this and this is why I can say that the decision is scarier. I know by the time I continue to do all of these, I will get better opportunities and better ideas for making money from what I do. It is a scary decision, right? But I have gotta do it because I believe that's the best for me. Have you ever made a scary decision, if yes, kindly share 🙏.

@Bisolammy 14 December 2022

Love Can Be Crazy. Do you all realize that love can be very crazy? Love will make you do the things you never thought of doing. Presently, I'm not in love with anyone aside from me so if I'm crazy, trust me, I'm only crazy about myself. Self-love is paramount. Isn't it? A few months ago, I wrote an article about my friend and her boyfriend. I mentioned that her boyfriend used to live with a lady that he calls his friend and I'm very sure that she's not his friend. I already spoke with my friend about the relationship. I told her to leave the toxic relationship. The guy is just taking her for a fool. He loves the other lady and it is very clear but my friend has refused to listen to me. She's adamant. She's in love and she loves the guy blindly. She has failed to take note of the red flags. Yesterday, we went to the guy's house. He told us that he was going out and left us inside. When he was coming back, he called my friend to know if we will eat Rice and she said no. After a few minutes, the guy came back with the Rice and I didn't want to behave like I don't want the Rice too so I took the Rice home. Then my friend texted the other lady by pretending that the guy told us that he brought the Rice from her place. With the response the lady gave to us, we realized that she cooked the Rice and her so-called boyfriend lied to us that he bought the Rice. Only God knows if they have poisoned the Rice because I see no reason why the guy should lie to us about where he got the Rice from. My friend asked me if she should confront the guy. I told her to carry on. It is nasty behavior. I saw her chatting with the guy while she was eating the noodles we cooked last night. We had to throw away the Rice her boyfriend brought. I saw tears dropping outta her eyes. Later, she became active again and started to smile. I know that the guy must have lied to her about something and she must have begged him again. I noticed that she begs the guy whenever they are arguing. She's treating herself less. I noticed that if you treat yourself less, people won't value you. She's not listening to me and not even listening to her parents. She has been warned t walk out of the toxic relationship several times but she's not listening. I care about her. She's my friend. How can I help? Please🙏. I would not want her to get married to that beast. Please help me😪.

@Bisolammy 12 December 2022

What's Your Opinion? I always visit my sister's boyfriend almost every time. He lives close to our home and we always try to cook together instead of him cooking alone. This has been happening for about two weeks now. I have always noticed that whenever I'm inside his apartment, the network server is always poor. That's why I always choose to go outside to sit in the compound. It is not convenient for me because some of the housemates may be talking and playing in the compound but I always feel left out because I'm not familiar with them. I continued to sit outside not because I wanted to be friends with anyone in the compound but because the network server is very good outside and I will be able to attend to all the platforms that I make money from. As time went on, I got familiar with a lot of them. They treat me like their fellow housemate too. Also, I have a crush. Hahaha. Don't mind me. The guy scents nicely and he's always looking neat. Last night, I was not feeling fine so I had to go home very early from their compound. They were having a house party and I was supposed to stay but I didn't because of my health condition. This morning, I heard that they fought. What caused the fight? A guy was making love to his girlfriend inside his car and two housemates peeped through the car and confirmed it. They came back inside the compound and began talking about it. This happened last night before I left. A guy and a lady were talking about them and acting like saints. They were mocking them for doing such a thing inside the car. How do you see that? I also see it as a very absurd act. Why will you both be making love inside the car when you can easily enter your compound to do so? He lives with his girlfriend so I don't know why they could not go inside to do such. I say no to it but since we're different people, we always have different opinions about everything. What's your opinion on that? Do you count it as a normal thing or abnormal? Well, a lot of people do it here so I'm not surprised by that act. The guy that they were talking about got angry and decided to pick up a fight with them, this morning. Hahaha. I wish I was there. I love to witness such kind of fight😅😅. Also, at the party they did yesterday, they played some games. They asked each other some questions and I heard that some people are talking in gibberish. There is a guy that doesn't talk much and I always see him as a responsible guy but he's not. Pardon me to say that he's senseless. Hahaha. Also, some of them lied about the normal things that they do yesterday. There's a guy that loves to increase the volume of his speaker. He loves to watch Yoruba movies. Whenever his speaker is on, you will hear outside the gate. It is always very loud and I wrote an article about it some time ago. So, he was asked why he loves to watch Yoruba movies and he lied that he doesn't watch them. Hahaha. That's my crush. Why didn't lie about that? Maybe because he was thinking about what other people say. He can't stand on his feet and be brave about the action he takes. Even though I was not there, I heard that it was fun. Let's go back to those making love in the car, outside. How do you see it?

@Bisolammy 10 December 2022

Let It Flow Naturally. I know that we all have been in a situation where we want something urgently and forcefully. We want it and we already give it all it takes. It may be happiness, it may be money, it may be love, it may be relationships or something else entirely. I have always heard that it is good to fight for what you want but what if you let it come naturally? I think I am about to create a debate here because I also do not understand why we shouldn't let things come naturally or why we should fight for things we want. I think you should go for different answers in different situations so I think I should portray some examples here and let's talk about how you're going to deal with it. Should you fight for love or you should let it come and flow naturally? I have heard a lot of people say that they will fight for love. My question is, is it worth fighting for? Do you need to fight for love? Do you need to force it? I will give you an example of something that happened to me some time ago. I was in love with a young man and it was a mutual feeling. We got along with each other and one day, he changed. I tried begging and asking why he has changed his attitude toward me but he did not give me a relevant answer. He kept on talking in gibberish. At some point, I got tired of the whole attitude and I kept on nagging every day but nothing changed. I realized I was begging for love and it was not supposed to be that way. If someone is truly in love with you, you do not need to beg the person to talk to you. You do not need to cry because love is a beautiful thing. You do not need to beg for attention because someone who truly loves you will always want to talk to you. If you force a relationship or force someone to love you, such a person tends to disrespect you. That person will not value you because he or she will see you as the person who wants the relationship and that he or she does not want it. I guess some of us have been in that kind of relationship and at the end of the day you cry and walk out of the relationship. Then, when you come out of the relationship, you begin to ask yourself why you forced the relationship. You begin to ask yourself why you did not let it flow naturally as it should. Some people force themselves to have a property and at the end of the day it is either they lose the property or they do not get it at all. One thing I believe is that when it is time for you to achieve something in life, you will achieve it with no stress. Imagine that you took a loan to buy a property and after the due date you were not able to pay the loan. At the end of the day, the loan firm will take over the property that you forced yourself to have and you realize that you're left with nothing. When it is time for you to get the property, your bank account will tell you. The younglings of today are the ones I know so well. I'm a youngling too. Hahaha. We tend to want things very fast or immediately. We want money so fast, marriage, happiness, love, and even the good things in life. Who does not want the beautiful things in life? Everybody wants it! We all want it but can we chill? I have seen various cases where people force themselves to have things that are not meant for them and at the end of the day they regretted their actions but it was too late for them to get things right. Well, it is never too late. There is hope as long as you're living. Our generation is f***** up because we don't want to wait until the proper time. If it is possible to make Pizza in a minute, we will do it!! One thing I taught myself is if something is meant for me, I will have it and if it is not, it's not mine. I've promised myself not to force anything again. I'd let it flow. How? Naturally!.

@Bisolammy 9 December 2022

He's Not Your Friend. Sincerely, I know that we all are different people. We do things in different ways. We think differently and react to issues differently. There are some people. Whenever they have something reasonable or something huge to do on earth, if they tell people the plan, it will fail. It won't be successful. God knows I don't know if it is spiritual. I've tried getting to know the root of the matter but I still don't know why that happens. It happens to me a lot of times and this is why I don't tell people about my next step in life. Also, I have always heard that it is not good to let people know about your next step in life. People may be very wicked. Once people know about your next step in life, they tend to look for a way to make the plan fail. I know we have white people here but that's the general African mentality. Do not let people know about your plan. **What about your best friend?** Should we tell our best friend about our plan? Some friends may be very wicked. Some of them do not love you the way you love them. They are just being close to you because they are benefiting from you. Some people can be very deceitful. Once they are getting something that they need from you, they tend to stay and act loyal to you. I've seen friends poison their other friends because those are doing well in life. I've seen friends gang up to poison just one of their friends. Hatred is everywhere. I was always thinking that it only exists among old people but now, our younglings are also full of hatred. A lot of them want to get things very fast even though they don't work for it. **Should you tell your friends about your major plans?** Yes!! Don't get me wrong. I'm gonna explain how. I've seen a lot of close friends that got the friendship broken because of this. Imagine that your supposed best friend is having a wedding party two months from now. She created a group chat and added other friends except you. How would you feel? That's supposed to be your best friend right? What could have happened? It's sad and devastating. Let's take another example. Imagine that you have a friend. You both have been best friends for over ten years and you're about to travel out of the country for a few years and you didn't tell your friend. You may not tell the friend when you're planning to travel but you should let him or her know once the plan is set. You should let the person know when everything is positive. If you have been friends for over ten years and the person didn't poison you, why can't you tell the person that you will be traveling next week? This happened to my mum. Her best friend for over ten years was traveling to America in the evening and they still saw each other in the morning. They played and the woman pretended as if nothing happened. They lost one of their friends in the evening and they both went to the burial of their friend that same evening. The woman never told my mum that she will be traveling to America on that same evening. When they got back from the burial, the woman went to her house to change her outfit, and her children's. They passed by our house and told us they were coming and that was the end. My mum tried to reach the woman but her efforts were futile. After a few days, she called and said she was in America. My mum was devastated and was ill for about a year. She cried almost every day because her friend betrayed her. One thing I know is that, if you are my best friend and you have a major thing to do in your life and you didn't even inform me a day before, you're not my friend. You're nothing but a betrayer. I don't think there is a way someone will try to justify this act and I'll listen. No way! That kind of friend is a betrayer!

@Bisolammy 8 December 2022

When Life Smiles At You, It Frowns At Someone Else. I have seen different people. I know people who have dated ten guys before they finally got married to their husbands. I have seen people who dated just two before they met their husbands. At the same time, I have seen people who have been dating their husbands since when they were small and they eventually got married. It means that the husbands are the only men that they have seen. Also, I have seen people who dated up to twenty men, and none of these men got married to them. I have even seen people who married different men at different points in time but they always end up leaving the man's house for one reason or the other. I still know of some people who find it hard to get married because no one wants to marry them and at the end of the day, the only option left for them is to give birth to a child for one man and be a baby mama. I've seen people again whose past relationships did not work out and they ended up marrying an old man or a married man just to be called someone's wife. What can you say about all of these? Should we call them life challenges or what? I know one thing. Sometimes, when life smiles at you, life is frowning at someone else. Also, when life frowns at you, it is smiling at someone else. That's the irony. If it is sweet here, it is bitter there. I know that we all have a category that we fall into the ones I've listed here. A lot of ladies will be happy that they dated just their husbands and eventually got married to them. They will feel happy and blame people who have dated more than ten men. I guess it is easy to judge people when you are not in their shoes. It is just so easy. You can just say anything that you like and think it is as easy as that or it works perfectly the way you have said it. Some people are just so unlucky. Some ladies are so unlucky when it comes to having a man in their lives and that is why you see some of them who haven't gotten married at the age of forty. Not all of them are prostitutes. No! I was surfing Twitter a few days ago and I saw a post by a lady. She wrote, " Dear ladies if your body count is more than ten, you are so unfortunate". I was so sad because I'm very sure that the lady is ignorant of other people's experiences in life. What do you say about a lady who gave all her life to a man and the man ends up leaving her? Then it happens from the first man to the tenth man. Don't forget that this woman remained loyal to those men when she was in the relationship. What do you have to say to that? Oh, now that she has slept with ten men, you now have the right to call her a prostitute. Isn't it? Let's take another example. A lady is extremely cute and she met a playboy who just wants to sleep with her without her knowing that. This same thing happens from one guy to a countless number of guys and now someone will call her a prostitute because she has slept with numerous guys. Right? Some ladies out there are even dealing with spiritual problems that you don't know. Some ladies find it hard to get a husband. A lot of men just want to dupe the lady of her property. I've always heard something. A lot of people believe that if a woman is rich, it means that she is a prostitute. That's not nice. It isn't. I know women who have never found true love. Some women do not know what true love is called. All they have ever experienced is beating, sadness and hatred. There are some women out there that a guy has never told " I love you " genuinely. If you are part of those who are so lucky to get a husband or lover without stress, be grateful and do not blame other women like you are perfect. I've even noticed that this set of women always have the most wonderful behaviors that even the ones who are married do not have. Do not just assume that every woman who has slept with numerous guys is unlucky. There's a reason for everything and sometimes, you don't need to know the reason. It is not needed! Remember, when life smiles at you, it frowns at someone else😊.

@Bisolammy 6 December 2022

I Took Up The Challenge Hello, my beautiful friends. Today is a very wonderful day because I do not need to start thinking about what topic to write about. A few hours ago, @Amjad_Ali_Waince mentioned to me in his last article that I should take up the challenge which the year has just started and I'm very glad about that because I was thinking of what to write when I woke up in the morning. Let's go!!! **Who is your favorite author of literature and why?** My favorite author of literature is a Nigerian. His name is Ola Rotimi. Ola Rotimi is one of the most popular authors of literature in Nigeria. I chose it as my favorite author of literature because he writes about the ills of society, exposes them, and even tries to provide a solution to them. Also, I have never read a bad work by Ola Rotimi. He's a highly respected author of literature and he is also one of the best people that relate to the everyday life of a Nigerian that I am. I love the fact that I can relate to many of the poems and books that he has written. **What's one thing that your mum or dad does not understand about you?** I feel like my parents do not understand the way I think. They always want me to do things like them and always want me to think like them but it is not possible because we are different people and they feel like I am the most stubborn child among all my siblings. It has changed because I am a bit grown and they have already accepted me the way I am. I am very sure that they still do not understand me but they are trying to pretend that they do which is quite normal but I promise not to let them down. **Whose relationship do you admire and why?** I admire my parent's relationship but I admire my sister's relationship more because I see almost everything that goes on in the relationship and I think I'm in love with it. She and her partner are so wonderful together and do almost everything together, cook together, eat together, go out together, and do not hide things from each other. I don't have a relationship yet but I know that by the time I have a relationship it will be the best because I'm taking my time before I conclude to date, someone. **What meme represents your life?** Presently I do not have any meme that represents my life but I know there will be. I have not taken my time to find the meme that represents my life. I only have some quotes that represent my life at the moment. My best quote is " Peace and love every day ". I love to live in peace because nothing is above peace in this life and for you to be happy you need to be at peace with yourself. Ever since I learnt to be at peace with myself I no longer think about my friends doing well and I'm not doing well because I'm at peace with myself and I know that I am growing. **If you could marry a celebrity, who would it be?** I am going to get married to a celebrity. Hahaha. If I could get married to a celebrity, it will be Wizkid. I don't know if you have heard the name before and if you have not you can check out his songs on apple music or Spotify. He is such a handsome man that is good at what he does and that makes cool music that is soothing to the ear. If you see him I'm very sure you will say that he is every lady's dream. **How many capitals of the world can you recognize without the help of Google?** I do not know so much about country capitals. My bad! I only know the regular countries that we hear about every day but if I have to count I still know about twenty country capitals without the help of Google. There was a time I tried to learn it but I couldn't. Have a nice day, my people. I hope I did justice to this questions.

@Bisolammy 5 December 2022

He Visited Me. Have you met God? How was it? Mine has always been superb and God came for me last night again. He loves me so much and answers me whenever I call on him. God is so wonderful. Something happened to me yesterday and I would love to share the story. When I was very young, my family had a family friend. Our fathers work in the same place, our mothers have shops beside each other, we built our houses beside each other and our kids attend the same school. This continued for over ten years and God paved way for their family. They traveled abroad to work there and it's so sad that they didn't inform us even though we were together on that day they left. They're doing well. Yesterday, their first son called us to inform us that his wife gave birth. He got married a few months ago before he traveled abroad and now he gave birth. He's my sister's age mate. I was so happy when he informed us about his new child yesterday and when we cut the call, I went outside the room, sat alone, and began to cry. Why was I crying? I can't wait for people to congratulate me on something. I can't wait to begin to do beautiful things in life. I wish to move forward too. I wish to keep on doing better each day. The thought ruined my day and I was unable to have dinner last night. I thought so much about it and I was sad. Whenever I am sad, I love to off my phone and talk to God before I sleep. Last night, I could not talk to God. I was just saying " God please ". I cried and told God to calm my mind. I'm awake now and I'm very happy. Do you know why? It is because God visited me in my dream. I saw someone that I can't remember what exactly she looks like. She told me to calm my mind and that everything I want from God will be granted to me and that's why I woke up this morning giving thanks to God. I knew that message was from God. I've experienced this a lot. Then, I thought of it again I'm doing well in life. I remember last year, I'm bigger and better. I know!!! I'm not stagnant. I keep moving and that's the goal in life. I realized that it was supposed to be me vs me instead of thinking about other people's achievements. Though, there are times when such thoughts may want to weigh us down but we should try to pick ourselves up again. No matter how well other people are doing in life, don't feel bad. If you do, try to get over it and hustle harder. Take one step daily and you'll realize that you are close to making it in life. Don't brood. If you are sad, talk to God and trust him. God listens. I know that some people may not believe that such a thing exists but trust me, God listens to us all. He loves us and he doesn't want us to suffer. There are times that I tell God that I'm broke and sometimes, my friends just send me money for no reason. It is so obvious that God doesn't want me to suffer. God is everything I've got and everything I will ever have😊. Let's give thanks to the source that create life. God is wonderful and that's why I'm preaching God to you when God comes for you and tells you that it is your time to shine, it will be like magic. It will look like you bribed God which you didn't. In anything that happens to you, make sure that you hold on to God. I'm glad because He visited me. Peace be unto us❤

@Bisolammy 4 December 2022

How Can I Avoid Her? I woke up very lazy this morning. My night was very hot and I could not sleep well but there was light this morning and that was why I had to sleep because my fan was on. I dislike it so much when I do not sleep at night because it will surely affects my day. Instead of me to act sheepishly for the rest of the day, I just choose to have a nap when there was light. Yesterday morning I wrote something about eating your frog first which means that you should always go for the difficult task first in the morning before you do other things so that you will have a fulfilled day. If you go for the most difficult task in the morning, another task may not be heavy for you because you've done the major thing in the morning and you will even have the strength to do others in the afternoon. This is why I am writing my article this morning because if I don't write it, I will feel lazy to write it in the afternoon. Before I began to write this article a few minutes ago, I received a call from a housemate. She has been calling me since last night to lend me an amount of money but I do not want to. Normally, I always lend her money very well and she returns them but I don't just want to continue to lend her money because I feel like a day will come when she may not want to return my money. She called me again this morning and kept on pleading on the phone and promised that she was going to return the money. Out of pity, I had to lend her money again. I have seen so many cases where some people lend their friends money and the friends will fail to return the money. I'm very scared for that to happen. I will be so pained because God knows that I don't have much. Another thing that made me lend her the money is that she is so stuck with me and anytime she needs help she always comes to me but I don't like it because she feels like I have it all and I don't even have up to what she has. I noticed that she doesn't know how to spend money. She spent lavishly and that is why she keeps borrowing from people like us that don't even have anything. One thing I learnt is that in life, you have to be disciplined with everything that you do. You have to be disciplined in your financial aspect. If you don't spend money wisely you keep on going broke every day. Some of us buy things impulsively and at the end of the day, we will always realize that we do not need those things that we bought so why did we buy them? Another thing we should learn to do is to learn to save. If you save for rainy days you'll be able to look back on something even when you don't have money and it will save you from the stress of getting embarrassed by other people. But please, how do you think I can avoid this lady? I want to stop lending her money.

@Bisolammy 3 December 2022

What Can Be Done To Him? Hi, my people. It is a very wonderful morning here. I'm enjoying myself. I'm thinking of what to eat too. I discovered one habit and it has been helping me for a while now. For about three days, I have been eating my frog first. This means that I have been doing the hardest things I do every day first in the morning. If I do that, I will have little tasks for the day. I'm very happy about that. Last week, I was in the class with some of my mates and our lecturer. He told us that the best way to have a fulfilled day is by eating our frog first which means that we should go for the hardest task first. I've been doing it for about three days and it is making every other thing seem simple to me. The hardest thing I do in a day is to write an article. It may not be the hardest thing for you but trust me, it is the hardest thing for me. This is because I may not have the time to sit comfortably and write an article again after the morning. My afternoon is always busy and I'm very glad that I took the idea and put it to use. It is indeed working well for me. You all should give it a try too. If you do it, tell me more about it. For a few days now, I have been going with my sister to her boyfriend's place. This is because there are lots of times that I will be bored for no reason inside the house. I began to live with my sister a few months ago. I don't have a lot of friends here that I can call on to maybe go out or something. So, the best way I can just stay out of boredom is by going with her. Sometimes, I don't go with her. I will just stay inside the house and keep on listening to music. Eight days ago, I wrote an article about the things that I love in a man. I don't know if you remember vividly. In that article, I talked about loving men who scent nicely. I also talked about approaching a man who scents nicely and he bought me a new perfume. The guy I'm talking about lives in my sister's boyfriend's compound too. They are housemates. I noticed something I don't like about the guy and I would love to share it here. Even though he's everything that I may want in a man, there is a particular behavior of him that I don't like. He loves to make noise. I have been visiting that compound for over five days now and you will surely know if he's at home. He's always playing music and increasing it to the highest volume. I would not have complained if it was not disturbing but it is. There are a lot of times that he plays his songs and we will be feeling the vibration of the speaker in our place too. It's not only in our place but in other people's apartments too. The noise is very disturbing that if you even decide to on your television, you won't hear the sound of what you want to hear. You will still be hearing his loud music. It's not nice. It is normal to be a music lover but I think you should not disturb other people because of your pleasure. If truly you want to enjoy yourself, you do not need to disturb other people. It is not needed. I also heard that there was a day thieves were robbing at midnight but the guy didn't hear the boom of their gun because he was playing very loud music. It means he does it at midnight too. It is not nice and it is uncalled for. Sometimes, I just want to on our speaker too and play loud music to disturb him but that's not the solution. A lot of people have spoken to him so that he will reduce the way he plays loud music but their efforts were futile. He continues to increase the volume of his speaker. Apart from the fact that it is disturbing us, I always wonder how he copes with that kind of noise. Noise is not good for health and this guy listens to music from morning till night. That's so funny and annoying. He's not even thinking about his health. What can be done to this kind of person?

@Bisolammy 2 December 2022

Was She Right? I know two jolly friends who are always together every time. One of them is my housemate while the second one comes to the house to see her friend. I am sure that you know that it is a beautiful thing to say two people being friendly to each other and having their backs. They go out together, wear the same clothes, play, and do all other things together and they know almost everything about themselves. Also, they do the same work and work at the same place. At some point, the friend started living in our house and I guess it was because they could not do without each other. The main thing I love about them is that they are friendly with everyone in the house and they are not proud because they seem to be the richest in the compound but still play with every other person in the compound. A month ago, the friend traveled to another state for a program. There is a program in Nigeria that every University student must do whenever he or she graduates from the University. It is called the NYSC program. This program is the period when the students serve the government and the nation as a whole. Always been paid a little amount of money and it can help them to set up something whenever they are done with the program. It lasts for one year. The lady was posted to another state which is very far from ours. She had to travel down to the state and the journey was about nine hours. She spent three weeks in the camp and she came back to our state but not to her friend's place. Last night, when we were about to sleep, I heard her voice in our house. She was shouting at the top of her voice. Shooting at her friend and calling her a thief. I wanted to go outside but I had to stay back since it was not my business. She kept on perambulating the corridor. I was wondering what my housemate could have stolen from her. At the end of the day, we realized that my housemate was owing the lady an amount of money and I think it has been for over four weeks now. I got very angry because I did not expect her friend to shout at her like that because she's owing her some amount of money. At the same time, we are different people and we are going to address issues in different ways but no matter what it is I feel like the lady should not shout at her friend like that. If we are friends, I think we should learn how to settle issues amicably amongst ourselves so that outsiders won't hear us and know what is going on between the two of us. Also, it is not easy to earn money and this is why I don't even lend people money. I guess the lady was thinking about how hard she worked for the money and feels like her friend does not want to pay her back. If it was me, I won't shout at her. What about you? Do you think the lady was right?

@Bisolammy 1 December 2022

Jingle Bell. I had a long night today. It was longer than I could ever imagine. It was longer than a June solstice. My sleep was very peaceful and tranquil. As tranquil as the world itself. I was draped in my cozy razai. One thing about me is that I can never sleep without covering myself. If I don't, I won't feel sleepy but the moment that I get draped in my duvet, sleep comes so easily. I'm gonna sleep like a baby, wake up like a new person entirely and become very strong for the day because of my level of cortisol. When I'm alone, I don't like to sleep in the dark. If I try it, I will be so scared. I am suffering from nyctophobia. If I sleep beside someone, I prefer it when the light is off. It helps me to sleep very fast. Last night, I slept beside my sister. We both slept in the dark. During my calm sleep, I went on a journey. How many us of have gone on a journey during our sleep? I've done that countless times. On my journey, I was walking an enchanting paved surface. The road tends to be smoother than Japan's thin silicon crystal. I think I can compare it to Ha Long Bay. This is for you to know how beautiful it was. Have you ever walked through a strangely beautiful place? How did you feel? In my case, I was lost. My emotions were mixed. At first, I felt awe and joy. Again, I was nervous. I began to ask myself why I deserve to be in such a beautiful place. It was too beautiful for me. My doubt began to linger. Is this the right place for me to enter? I asked myself the question because I was confused and dumbfounded. Even though my doubt was lingering, I would not want to leave that beautiful place. I kept on moving forward. I realized that my cloth was very much heavier than my body. I was about to roll it up when I saw the costume. What!!! I was dressed in a sophisticated red and green dress. The dress was clean-cut! The fit was so perfect on me. I was dumbfounded again. Who wore this on me? I checked the shoe I wore. It was so shiny and more beautiful than Cinderella's. I knew that if Cinderella was there, she might have stolen my shoe. I touched my hair. It was curly hair and it looked so gorgeous. Thanks to the anonymous stylist. Seeing my costume, I then realized that I deserved to be in that beautiful place. I was strutting! I didn't care about anything again. I walked happily. At some point, I stopped. I heard a very loud drum coming from somewhere that I don't know. I paused to listen attentively to know where the sound was coming from. I got that and tried to move closer. I saw a lot of people. I saw the blacks, whites, albinos, and many more. They were singing and danced happily. I wondered what event they were having. When they saw me from afar, they ushered me to the event venue, and I met a lot of people that I knew. So interesting! Guess what they were singing! They were singing Jingle Bells. They stopped the song and played another one. A beautiful lady came to me to tell me that all she wanted for Christmas is me. When I looked at her very well, I realized that was Mariah Carey. Then I got the point. I was dressed in a red and white dress which symbolizes Christmas. While I was dancing with those people, my phone alarm rang and I woke up😊. The alarm was a sign that we are in a new month and Christmas is coming soon. A happy new month to you all and I wish you a merry Christmas in advance🥰. Love You All❤. Cozy Razai - Duvet. June Solstice - The longest day in the world. Nyctophobia - Extreme fear of the dark. Ha, Long Bay - The most beautiful place in the world. Strutting - Walking boldly. Japan's thin silicon crystal - The smoothest thing in the world. Clean-cut - Having a neat appearance.

@Bisolammy 30 November 2022

Happy Birthday To Thriller. I am so tired of apologizing all the time but I just have to do so. It is not my fault. I have been off here for a week now. I was jumping from one task to another. Firstly, our electricity is very bad so there is nowhere I can charge my phone. Secondly, I worked throughout the weekend. I went to my parent's house and I had to help my mom in doing her home chores. Also, I went to the market to buy the groceries that she sells for her. I can't watch her go to the market because it will be very stressful and that was why I volunteered to go. When I got back from the market, I helped her to cook different kinds of stew. I made them and kept them inside the fridge. I'm very sure that it will be enough for a month or more. When I finished that, I cleaned the whole house and went back to my place yesterday. When I got home yesterday, I didn't know where to start. I was feeling lackadaisical to work on my phone. Does this happen to anyone? I'm sure that it happens to a lot of us here. There are a lot of times that you just want to sleep and not do anything. The only thing that you may want to do is enjoy. One thing about me is that whenever I don't feel like working, I don't work. It is not about laziness. If I work when I don't feel like working, I may do nasty work so I was offline throughout yesterday. All I did was just listen to music, eat and sleep. I woke up forty minutes ago and I planned to write this article when I woke up and I got a reminder. I got a reminder that Michael Jackson's Thriller is forty years old today. That's a lot!!! I was so happy because I knew I was going to write about it today. Let's go!! Michael Jackson's Thriller was released on November 30, 1982. Thriller is the sixth studio album by Michael Jackson which was produced by Quincy Jones. There are nine songs on the album and Michael Jackson wrote four songs on the album. Michael began to record the album on April 14, 1982, till the release date and the length was 42mins and 16secs. The album spent 37 none consecutive weeks on Billboard which from February 26, 1983, to April 14, 1984. Thriller became the best-selling album of all time with 32 million copies sold worldwide for two years. Presently, it is still the best-selling album with over 70 million sales of copies worldwide. Would you believe that this album won eight Grammy awards in 1984 Grammy awards? No one did that before Michael Jackson. Only one person collected that number of awards after the death of Michael Jackson. That's a lot!!! Also, in the year 2008, the album was inducted into the Grammy Hall of Fame, and also the Library of Contests added it to the National Recording Registry of aesthetically significant recordings. I know that some of us have not listened to the album. Why? C'mon listen to it and come back to give me feedback. I'm so sorry guys, I should have mentioned the list of songs that were in the album earlier, but I can't remember all. I remember the likes of Thriller, The Girl Is Mine, Beat It, Billie Jean, Wanna Be Starting Something, Pretty Young Thing, Human Nature, and the other two that I can't remember. Have you watched the video of Thriller? The exceptional thing was that Michael Jackson made allusions to horror movies. Back then, I did not like watching the video because it was too scary. The video which was directed by John Landis was a very creative one. My favorite live performance by Michael Jackson is when he sang Thriller in Munich, in 1997. As far as I'm concerned, Michael Jackson is the greatest artiste in the world.

@Bisolammy 27 November 2022

Things I Like In A Man. I'm sure that we all have our specs. We all have the things that we love in the opposite sex. Some people love the height, face, or any other thing we can see first or feel when we meet people. I'd love to list the things that I love in a man and I want to know the people who will love the same thing. Let's go!! • His Scent: This is the first thing I love about a man. No matter how ugly a man is if he scents nicely, I will like him. I may not like him to the point of dating him but I will surely have a crush on him just because of the way he scents even if he is not my spec. There is a guy I'm crushing on. The first day I met him, I didn't notice his scent until I met him again. Immediately I perceived it, I had to tell him that he scents very nicely. I asked him the name of his perfume and went to search for it on jumia but I couldn't get it. I told him after three days that I could not get the perfume and he gave me a new one that he has not started using. I was very happy. I wish you could perceive the scent on phone. You will surely like it. Let's get to the next point. • The way he talks: This is a very important factor. If a man wants me to date him, I will think about how he talks. I love guys who talk gently. I'm sure you know that some guys talk as if they are in the market or they lack manners. Some guys can be very loud and you would not want to relate with them. There are different guys everywhere. I can't relate to a talkative. I don't like men that talk too much. Normally, it is not good for you not to be able to control your mouth especially when you're a man. Trust me, I don't expect him to be perfect but I can never accept a man that doesn't talk gently or a talkative man. For your information, I'm talkative and I would not want to date someone who talks too much like me😅. One of us must be calm. I had a guy who wanted to date me but I didn't accept him because he was talkative and he was too forward. • How organized he is: I love clean people. I love people who do things accordingly. I don't like people who rush. I'm a very observant person. I am observant of a lot of things like the way someone lays his bed, tidies his house, writes, wears and irons his clothes, scoops butter to eat bread, and eats and does almost everything. Have you ever met an organized person? I have met two organized people and I fell in love with their lifestyle. Organized people do things accordingly without rushing. They are not the type of people who rush to work and later find out that they forgot something at home. This set of people does things at the right time. If you meet an organized man, you tend to realize that they are very gentle and calm. Most times, they are always healthy because they care about their health. I love organized men. They tend to be very neat. • The way he handles things: The way people handle things goes a lot way. It speaks so much about them. Some people are very rough. They don't know how to handle things appropriately. Some don't know how to handle the issues at hand. Some don't even know how to handle and manage their life. It is very bad. A man that handles things roughly including things that are very precious to him will also handle you roughly. There is no magic that you can perform. If a man lacks some of these things I mentioned here, I won't date him. It's a red light to me. I'm not saying that I'm perfect but at the same time, I want someone with that we are compatible together. I want someone that I can be able to cope with. If you find someone like you, you won't have a lot of arguments all the time. That's my belief.

@Bisolammy 24 November 2022

Just Do It!! Out of all the people on earth, you will surely have a favorite person. In your family, you will have a favorite person. Amongst your friends too, you will have a favorite person. That is very sure. I attend a Film Academy. Out of all my lecturers, there is a particular man I love so much. He teaches us very well and he's not harsh on us. He is the kind of man that you can walk up to and tell your greatest fears or even talk to him about whatever problem that you are facing. He is a good listener and someone you can talk to. Since we resumed a new session, he has not been around and we received a message that he will come around today. We were so happy and I got to school very early because of him. I was sitting and chatting with my friends when he came in. We all were happy and he hugged us all. He is our best lecturer as I have said earlier and I hope you know what it means to see your best lecturer after some months. Today, he asked us what we have been doing so far. Some of us have been working while some have not been doing anything. Then we got to a topic. He advised us not to be idle. No matter what happens, we need to keep doing something. I'm an acting student. As an acting student, you should have some monologues and dialogues in videos that will be on your social handles for people to watch. It is to create awareness among people that this is what you do. If you don't post or tell people what you do, no one will know what you do. That's how life is. He said that there are sometimes that we may feel reluctant to do so but we should keep on trying. It won't be easy. A lot of us are so scared to be criticized by other people and that is why we don't want to showcase what we have got to the world. Some of us are waiting to be perfect at what we want before we begin posting to our social media pages. No!!! It didn't work like that. No matter how poor you think you are in something, just do it!! Just try to do it. It made me think of my writing skills. I've been writing since I was little but I was always waiting to be perfect but I never got perfect. I was hiding my works from others instead of proving them to the world. I'm grateful to whoever introduced me to blogging sites. When I began to write here, my writing skills improved. I began to get better each day. No matter how bad you think you are at something, just do it! There are a lot of times that I won't have anything to write about. All I just do is begin writing anything even if nothing reasonable comes to my head and at the end of the day, I will begin to make sense out of the nonsense I think I'm writing. Also, if you think that you are scared of something, keep on trying it. It means that you know how to do that particular thing but you are very scared of what the world will say. You are scared of how people will criticize you. Rome was not built in a day. It took years. You can't expect yourself to be very good at whatever you do when you are just beginning to do it. Accept that you're not perfect but make sure that you are good at what you do. At the end of the day, you will realize that the people you were always thinking that will criticize you don't even care about you. No one really cares and this is why you should do your thing your way. Do not wait for anyone to embrace you. Just do it!!! Do it!!!! Let's switch the topic. Where are my football lovers? What can you say about the match between Portugal and Ghana? I knew that Portugal will win. I supported them because my favorite player (Cristiano Ronaldo) is from Portugal. Moreover, my country didn't qualify for the world cup finals. At the same time, I don't think Portugal will win the cup but they may do the unexpected. Who is enjoying the world cup finals like I'm doing?

@Bisolammy 22 November 2022

What Can You Say About Unmarried People Living Couples Life? Hi, my people. It is a very beautiful day from this side. I'm having a wonderful day here already and I'm enjoying it. Every morning, I always come to sit at the back of the house not because I want to see everything going on in the compound nor because I want to know the affairs of people but because there is a spot I always sit at and it is so cold. I love that place and that is where I have been writing my articles for some time now. Every morning, I go there. Sit for like two hours, work on readcash and some forums where I can make money, and then go back inside. If I do all of these, it means that I'm free for the rest of the day. When I say I'm free, it does not mean that I don't have other things that I want to do but it means I only have little things to do at the end of the day. At the front of where I sit is my neighbor's apartment. For weeks now, her boyfriend has been staying with her. The guy goes to work and comes back every night. The pretty lady came to my place last night and began to gist my sister and me. She said that love is very sweet and that she's very loyal to her partner. She then said that there are some things she does when she was staying alone but she can't do it now because her man is already staying with her. In a nutshell, she is trying to say that she is not free. The way I see them, they are deeply in love with each other. They don't fight but I don't know if they quarrel. Even if they do, I'm glad that their voices would not exceed just their apartment. I know there is no way two people will be living together without having any misunderstandings. I don't think it is possible. Something popped into my mind. I'm sorry. I'm not the kind of person that sabotage things but if I see something that is not right, I always love to talk about it. In Africa, a woman goes to her husband's house when they get married. Even if they have not gotten married, the woman is the one that goes to the man's house. If a man comes to your house, it means that he is not coming to sleep over. Then, I made my rule. I have always said that I don't like it when a man sleeps over at my place. The only reason a man should sleep at my place is if he paid my house rent or he is footing my bills. I will know that he has the right to stay for as long as possible. Since I don't know what transpires between the lovers, I can't know if he is the one who paid for the house rent but I just had to remind myself that I can't let a man sleep over if he doesn't pay my house rent. Also, I cannot live with a man that I have not gotten married to. If you ask me the reason, I may not give you a valid reason. There are some things that I dislike naturally and I don't think anything can change them in my head. I don't just like it. Don't get me wrong. I never said it is a good thing and it's not like I'm living the best or righteous life but it is something that I've promised myself not to do. The only thing I can do is to go during the weekend and go back to my house during the week. Also, I've seen the negative effects of unmarried people living together like getting pregnant, having a child, and refusing to get married to each other after the birth of the child. I've also seen cases where the guy beats up the lady as if he has paid her dowry. I think ladies should learn to respect themselves. Do not let any man take you for granted. At the same time, there are some guys that you will live with and they will give you the peace that you have ever craved. One thing I tell people is that, if it works for you, do it. If it doesn't, stop it!!