There's no good without bad and this is why.
Good evening readers, how did your day go, it's been a while, and it hasn't been easy at all, the stress of taking care of children and teenagers is no joke, parents are indeed trying for real, imagine having 2 teenagers and 3 children at home, that is something else for real, still man gat to do what he gat to do.
That's not what I will be talking about today though, let's talk about something else, why do Do people do evil or perhaps bad? I know that we might say it's in human nature to do so and all other things, yeah which is partially true but why do people do it, like are they not afraid of the consequences, like the Bible said, the wages of sin is death and people still do more evil because good people die too and it's no big deal.
Some months back, I came across a video on instagram, I don't remember the name of the page I saw it, but I remember what he said about why the world is like this why do people do evil? He said if the world was like a mirror that when someone does bad, bad things will happen to the person and when someone does good, good things will also go to the person.
He said that a lot of people will pretend to be good in other for good things to happen to them and no one wants bad things to happen to them and the world will just be a place of fake people and pretenders smiling every day when they have different things running through their mind.
In other, for the world to be functioning and humans to be doing what they were created for? No one will have to pretend that they are good for good things to locate them, that is why we see people doing evil around, wars happening, countries going against another country that is less powerful than them, they don't care about human lives anymore, the good people usually die young and the bad people usually get favored over the good people like they are cats with nine lives.
I wasn't there when the whole earth was created but there's one thing I know for sure is that everything happens for a reason and humans can any existent to get what they want, even if it's to hurt everyone just to get it, they won't even give it as second thought like if they were in the person shoe, they will rather say it doesn't fit and then continue with what they are doing, life is not easy out here.
Talking about life and easy, recently a house was discovered in the city I stay and in the house were a lot of dead bodies, male, female, children, the bodies are very dried because the people died a long time ago but they were preserving the body, the place is not a mortuary, it was discovered that the place is a ritual house where some people that want to do money ritual goes.
There was a bed in the middle, while the dead bodies were just standing by the four corners of the house, according to someone that firmed it, he said the bed is where the people use to sleep with the dead bodies so they can get rich, when I heard that, all I could say is that, don't these people have fear for the dead, what if the bodies were to start walking or talking.
A lot of big boys must have been there to make money cause the level of money ritual in my country is so alarming, the worst part is that they will still claim the money came from God, haha, the truth are thatn some people fear brokenness than death, so they spend most of their time putting their hands in a place they know will cut their lives short.
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20-08-26
Watch out for a red flag
A few days back @Kushyzee wrote about ads that usually pops out on youtube when someone wants to watch a video, the ads is a video of a little girl that has cancer, she said she doesn't want to die and all other things, the video was so touching and I watched it to the end and deep down I felt bad for her because she was so brilliant and it turned out to be a scam, the full story is on Kushyzee article.
Just yesterday here, while I was checking trends on Twitter after posting one of my freestyle videos I did some days back, I came across a tweet of a young child that needs help to go for an operation, the user that posted it attached some pictures of the child, the amount they need for the operation, and also the account number that the money should be transferred to.
But there was a red flag at the tweet that made me just scroll past it, the post looks legit but why did the user block the comment section, what if someone wants to ask about the location of the hospital, and someone that has been scammed before won't want to offer help at all because the user that posted it might be a scammer.
On Facebook, some people still use old photos of other people that asked for support to do an operation some years back, they will repost the photo and start asking for money with the photo, I have come across so many and they usually off their comment section so the real people that know the owner of the picture won't comment on it, they will just open a fake Facebook account to dupe people of their earned money because they wanted to help.
I know it's good to help out in a situation like this but the best thing is to do a background check before offering help, some people disguise themselves, but in the real world, they will act like they don't have money for transport or they have physical challenges and you might just fall for it and help them because they melted your heart with there sad story.
The one about helping someone with transport money is the funny and at the same time you will feel used, person like me, when someone asks for help to pay for transport, I like to pay it for them myself, at least it will guarantee that I paid it, instead of me giving them the money, cause some will just come down for the bus and change direction, haha, funny right? Well, a normal Nigeria must have come across one or two in this life.
A guy narrated a story on how he was inside a bus and someone tapped him from back and asked him to help with transport so the driver won’t embarrass him, so the guy scarified his last 0.50$ and give it to him, only for the other guy to use the money and buy soft drink with gala, he said he was just looking at him as he was eating it, haha, there was nothing he can do but to just look away.
There was this man that was caught sometime back, he use to disguise like someone that can’t walk very well, he usually seat on a wheel chair at the market side, he will be there as early as 6 am and will be there till afternoon when the sun comes out, he was always there and every day, doing his normal routine, telling people that he can't feed because he can't work, and other things.
Not until one day, someone that knew him saw him and had to raise an alarm that the man is not who he said he is and he is a very rich man, they found out that the man has a house in his hometown and not only that, he has more than two tricycles and also cars that he gave out to people to work for him and more, what baffles me is that he still go out and beg people their own little money, that is no longer begging, that is ripping, and I think it sounds familiar to something that everyone knows in Nigeria.
All these are red signs, that's why we should be careful about who to help so we won't end up helping someone that will scam us.
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16-08-2022
People are waiting to take your spot.
Happy weekend guys, Saturdays are usually for weddings and I don't even remember the last time I attended one, that's not in my plans for now anyway, except for the food being shared there, maybe I should add mc to my career so I can be attending weddings, even if they don't pay me, as long as I'm being served well, haha, just joking though.
While thinking about what to write and I have written and also clear what I wrote cause it's like my mind is not in the right place now and I have to put it in place so I can write before going to sleep.
I wanted to write about a lady that wrote about mother inlaws but I had to read what she wrote again and stopped writing about it because I was the one that didn't understand what she wrote at first, haha, I laughed at myself because I was just desperately looking for what to write in the middle of the night, if only my network was good, I would have been done before now.
Now I have something to write about, all thanks to my cousins, especially the little one that is not asleep yet, it's kind of funny though and I learned a deep listen from it now because it's just life teaching us new things or old things in new ways.
I came back from work when three of my cousins came to welcome me, I was surprised to see one because I haven't seen her since last year if I am correct, we usually meet in church but I havent been to the church since last year, not that I haven't been going to church since last year, for now, I am attending my boss church because its kind of closer to me and I am attending it for now, though I am not a full member now.
She and her sister came to the house today and they were very happy to see me, me too as well, cause I haven't seen them since last year, after the welcoming and all, I just heard straight to my cave, I call it cto cave because I don't have light in my room, not because I don't want to buy light, but I just feel like its cool being dark, like what I need is some fancy colored light to make it cooler instead of the normal white light.
Fast forward to few minutes ago, it was time for sleep and all my cousins are already asleep except for the boy, that one doesn't normally sleep early and we both always sleep in my room, I would sometimes force him to sleep because if I am to allow him to seat with me all night as I am writing songs on my phone, he will stay all night with me without sleeping.
My cousins had to sleep on my bed while I sleep on the couch, which I am now doing while writing this article, the boy quick booked a space for himself by lying in the middle of the bed, though he's not yet asleep, the bed is not big enough for everyone, two was sleeping on the mat, when one woke up and went to the bathroom.
The boy thought that because he had secured that space in the first place, he can move around, so he went to seat on the couch, before he knew it, the one that went to the bathroom came back and slept on his spot, haha, we didn't even notice it, not until the boy came down from the couch and went to fold himself on the edge of the bed, haha, it was small but also manageable for him, he looked so humbled when lying on it.
He wanted to use the bathroom, so he stood up from the spot walked close to the bathroom, and came back again, he was just shouting he wants to use the bathroom but he don't want to leave there because he was afraid that the remaining one sleeping on the mat might stand up and sleep on the little spot he had reserved for himself, he had lost a big spot before and now he cherished the little one cause after there, he might sleep on the mat, ha ha.
This also applies to life in general, some people in a certain position believe that no one can do it better than them that is why they are in that position, not until they lose that position and discovered that they weren't special as they thought they are just privileged to be there.
Like the case of King Saul, he thought he was the mot special in the land of Israel and he can just disobey a direct order from God and ask for forgiveness and they will be all cool, that was when God looked for King David to replace him without thinking twice, may we not lose diamonds while searching for stones and end up with stones.
Like I said “there are a lot of people waiting to take over your position once you feel too big”
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13-08-2022
Fighting fire with fire
Hello, read cashers, it's been a while, felt like a decade though, hope we all are doing fine and great, if not, it's going to get better soon, today I would be writing about the danger of fighting fire with fire, I know we all know that is very dangerous, what it's more dangerous is that the innocent ones usually get burnt from it.
I believe we all are familiar with power rangers, avengers, justice league, and other superheroes movies, usually, when they fight, they destroy the city, though people like justice league and dangers usually try to save as many people as they can, still, they end up destroying a lot of properties as well, sometimes I wonder who use to pay for what they destroy, will the government handle the bills? Or Bruce Wayne or Tony Stark or Oliver Queen?
Imagine like you just bought a new car and decided to hit the gym with your car, while you are just there working out, a bad guy just show up from nowhere and starts taking over the city, the Avengers arrive at the scene to save the day, while everyone is watching and applauding the heroes for fighting back, Hulk just came out from nowhere, lift your brand new car throw it to the villain and still miss it, haha, that would be very painful for real.
Will the government pays for the damaged properties or you will handle it yourself, well I don't think the government will be the ones in charge of paying for damage because they would have banned the reign of superheroes cause they be spending money on rebuilding the city every day, haha, that means every man for himself, the ones that are affected will fix it with their insurance and life goes on as nothing happened.
That's one of the reasons I like Superman, he usually tries to take the battle out of the city to a well opened spaced that is far from the city, because fighting fire with fire means he will have to be as careless as the enemies mean lives and properties won't matter to him anymore.
Well, the worst we can talk about is power rangers, in the case of power rangers, I wonder if people actually d!es in the movie, like you will see them destroying a huge building and at the end of the day, no one would die, big explosions would happen in the city as they give the villain he final destruction, it was happening in real life, a lot of lives would have been ruined for real and people will end up hating the hero more than they hate the villain cause they are the ones that are being affected.
Being a hero means one has to stand for justice instead of violence, they have to know that they can't fight fire with fire because they might end up burning the people and properties they wanted to protect, I know it might sound fair when one tries to fight fire with fire, but one has to think about the lives that can be affected by it, it's so much easier to fight fire with fire but don't know, think about other people lives and properties and not just your own life and properties.
Conclusion
This article is not about fire or superheroes, it's about our daily lives, like it's so much easier for us to take revenge on people for what they did to us in the past, the best thing you can do is to forgive them and move on, forgiving doesn't mean you should forget what the person did, so you won't end up falling into their trap again, forgiving just means you are setting your self free and your mind clean.
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11-08-2022
The betrayer made her to do this
Hello, yeah, its me again It has been a while, so, hope you are good too, Let's jump right in.
A a few days back, there was news on social media about a lady that set her husband on fire and later committed suicide, the news was over everywhere, it was kind of a sad though, the man didn't survive it and that was how the both of them go just like that.
While-news was spreading over about what made the woman set her husband on fire, everyone one that it must have been about cheating like maybe the man was cheating on her and that made her do what she did, others were saying another thing, and rumors came and took the spotlight in no time and I think it sounds true, but I don't know sha.
It was gathered that when the both of them were dating, they strike an agreement because the man was very broke, that made him to go to a witch doctor, the witch doctor told him that for him to get money, he has to bring the womb of his girlfriend, which he went and told the girlfriend and both of them agreed that they won't have a baby at giving the witch doctor the womb.
The man became rich, he bought a lot of things for his wife and they were doing fine until the wife found out that the husband is going behind her back to get another lady pregnant because his wife won't be able to conceive again, when the Lady found out about the relationship, she felt betrayed by her husband that promised to stay with her because of the sacrifice she made for both of them to be rich.
She couldn't hold her pain anymore when she found out that her husband betrayed her, that was when she went and bought petrol, went to the house and set the man on fire, then she took off and run somewhere to later take her own life, the story is kind of sad though, and not a happy one.
Conclusion
Well, though I don't support what she did, we can't fully blame the woman for taking such a barbaric action, and also the man, we can't blame him for wanting to get a child after agreeing with the wife that they won't be able to have one, in both cases, I think the man must-have talked to one of his friends and the friend would've given him the advice, it was not bad advice though but not a good one at the moment.
If he had talked to the wife about it before proceeding, both of them would have struck another agreement that won't have affected her this much, maybe they would have adopted a child or either allow a woman to carry a child for them and when the baby comes, they will pay her off, I don't support buying of a child though, but desperate times calls for desperate measures.
So many people were blaming the woman for agreeing to it the first time, truth is that what we can do for love has no limit, and the things we hate to do, we might just see ourselves doing it for love because we don't want to lose the person we claim we love and what is love without sacrifice, I hope they find rest in the afterlife, it was never easy.
Quick one: Can you do the same for your partnerr if it was the option for him to be rich in this life, the question is for ladies and also to the guys, can you tell your partner to do it for you if it was the option for you to get rich in this life? Well, while so many of us might say no, I believe the best option is never to be given such an option in the first place and there might be other ways for one to get rich, the only issue is time.
The people don't want to be kept on the wait list for God’s time, what if it never comes? Those thoughts would be running through their mind on a daily and that will lead them to put their hands into illegal activities, like the man that wanted to use her daughter for rituals, the young girl was so brilliant, when the witch doctor saw her, he couldn't do it so he called the police and the man was later arrested.
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28-07-2022
You cheat on me
Hello readers, this question is for those that have been or are in a relationship, what happened to the relationship? Did he or she cheat on you? Well, I would like to know if you don't mind, lets get straight to the article, shall we? Already then.
Some months back, a friend of mine broke up with his girlfriend because of the chat he saw between the lady and her male bestie, the story was something else though, I got to know about the breakup after some days, the lady message me on Whatsapp and asked if I have heard from my friend because she has been calling him and he's not picking up, I told her that I will check on him which I did and at first, he never wanted to tell me what happened, but after much talk, he decided to open up.
When I first got to his house, we chatted and I told him that his girlfriend had been asking about him, he said he doesn't have a girlfriend, I began to laugh because I know its a lie, I saw that he was serious about the statement, I asked him what happen and he said that they broke up some days back because of some issues, me knowing that the lady did something nice for me in the past, I just can't let the matter slide without knowing what caused the broke up.
He told me that some months back, the lady told him that she saw her old friend and they are now besties, that's when he became uncomfortable because he knows what he can do if he was someone's bestie, haha, he said okay and she told him, some days later while she came to visit him, she was in the kitchen cooking when a message alert came to her phone, the message was from her bestie and it wasn't a normal message (18+)
When he saw the message, he also read some of their old chats and it wasn't a normal friendly chat, after reading it, he kept her phone and continue with his own without saying a word to her about it, they were talking when he brought out the matter that he saw the message between her and the bestie, she began to cry and was begging him that it isn’t what it thinks, my friend wasn’t feeling her tears at all, he just went to sleep.
The next morning, the lady continue to beg him and which he decided to forgive her but on one condition that she cut ties with the so called bestie, she agreed that she will delete his number and not talk to him again, she went to work from the boyfriend place, some days later, she came to visit him again and she left her phone while in the bathroom, so this my friend went and check the phone and saw that the guy was still there but she has deleted all their chat, while he was checking it, a message came in asking her if she has gotten there from the bestie, that shows that she still keeps in touch with him very well and she just deleted their chats.
That was what caused the breakup, he also said that she has been here begging him to forgive her but he just can’t get back together with her because from the chat alone, it means that both of them have had s3x, he couldn’t sleep with the thoughts of someone else bending his girlfriend, she cheated on me, man, that’s when I asked him if he doesn’t cheat, his reply was “I am a man and it doesn’t matter” that statement made me to laugh.
I know this, my friend, some well that most time when I visit him, I see girls that are not his girlfriend, of course, he does cheat a lot and the girlfriend might have even known but he doesn't count his own because he's a man and as a man, it's okay to cheat, don't just cheat on me back, we began to laugh because he's othe only point is that he's a man and as a man, it's okay to cheat.
This was similar to a movie I watched today, not that I watched the whole movie though, but just a bit, in the movie, there was this guy that has a girlfriend and also a bestie that has been his friend since university, he was cheating on his girlfriend with an old friend of his, the girlfriend was very suspicious because every time the other girl will bring him food when she knows that he has a girlfriend.
Something happen and the girlfriend went to meet another guy at the hotel and they also had s3x, after the day, the next day when he was about to take the girlfriend out, she forgot something inside the room and quickly went to get it while she left her phone at the seating room, a message came in and he never wanted to check it but he was tempted to and when he opened it, he saw the s3x chats without his girlfriend and the other guy, he was so pained and he told her to leave his house.
The next day when he and his friend (male) was playing FIFA on PlayStation, he wasn’t hisself and the friend notice it, so he asked what’s wrong and he told him that his girlfriend cheated on him, the a friend told him that he also cheats on her and he told the friend that this is different, haha.
Well, for real, it's different though cause a lot of thoughts will be going through your head as a guy and you will feel like it's over for you, especially if you are faithful to her.
Stay safe out there.
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22-07-2023
She was betrayed by her family
I have heard a lot of stories about how people abroad come home and see that the money they have been saving and sending home for a particular purpose is being misused by the family members, I heard the story of a man that has been abroad for more than 15 years and he has been sending his family money to build a house for him in case he visits Nigeria so he can have a place to stay.
While he was sending the money, the family was using it for other things and they were sending other people building and they will be sending it to the man, not until the day the man decided to come to Nigeria unannounced, according to him, he has been seeing such things on the internet and people talking about it but he trusted that his family won't play him d!rty, well, he just decided to find out for him and he travels down to Nigeria.
When they first saw him, they were surprised cause they weren't expecting him, do they took him to an hotel to stay and they promised to take him to the house the next morning, he went to the hotel and relaxed, hoping to get to see his house the next morning, the morning came and he went to the family house and they offered him food and was entertaining him, they even say that this one he is s a rush to see his house, they said it's not good and he should calm down.
He stayed in the hotel for some couple of days, until he provoked and said that it's enough so he went to the family house with anger and even carried a cutlass for them to show him his house he has been sending more for, they decided to take him to the house, when they got there, he discovered that his house was covered by giant grass that we called elephant grass, the worst part is that they stopped building the house at window level, ever since then they have been using the money for their own needs.
Both the mother, the married sister, and the brother, them was just sharing the money for themselves, they all did him d!rty, the man was in pained cause he never expected that his family would do such a thing to him, especially the mother, the mother didn't feel a thing and she was still claiming that if they don't eat the money as a family, then who will? The man promised to leave and never return to Nigeria again, he told them before leaving that he won't have a family again.
Though that was a bit different from what the lady experienced, I came across the news this evening while scrolling my Facebook feed, according to the site that blogged it, the lady came was from abroad without telling her family that she was coming back, only for she to get home and saw that her child that she has been sending money for his upkeep is looking unkempt, she was so heartbroken, she recorded it and posted it online.
So many people were dropping comments on the post I managed to screenshot two that I found meaningful.
A Facebook name commented: ***First there is dust all over back home and the children play a lot as compared here in abroad, Secondly no one can take care of your kids like you, people can do only what they can, just appreciate them and learn to take care of your kids yourself***
Another user commented: ***People saying “nobody can care for your child as you do” or “what do you expect” should speak for themselves. I have seen people who take care of their stepchildren better than the mothers, I have seen Aunties taking care of the nieces and nephews more than the mother, I don't know which world you live in but you need to change your cycle.***
The lady left the child because she trusted who she left it with and also I know that from time to time the lady must have been calling the person she left the child with on video call and also talking to the child, maybe the person would have been dressing the child in every time she wants to video call her so the child would look good on camera but not the same in reality.
All money she must have been sending for his upkeep will be used for something else, I still believe they are genuine people in this world that has our best interest at the heart but the bad ones don't want to allow us to see it because of their character, may God help us all
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18-07-2022
Why do bloggers do these?
Good evening readers or should I say hivers, recently most articles have been reading is about the hive, first I thought read.cash has been sold to hive blockchain, hope you are all good, well today we shall be talking about how bloggers twist words to gain more engagement on their sites.
They are many popular blogs in my country, but I will just be talking about a few of them cause I can't start writing about all of them, though they are doing the same thing to gain traffic for their site, I wanted to write on this topic some days back, but the motivation wasn't complete so I just kept it in the daft that is in my head, not until yesterday Saturday when the same the thing happened when a blog twist the words that some said, let me drop the full gist.
It all started when a random Twitter user called out a rising artiste (Ruger) that his colleague (Bnxn Buju) is a better music artist than him, which he replied that he love his colleague but his colleague is not a better artist than him because all his hit songs are solo and his colleague is mostly found on collaboration, then another of the colleague (Omah lay) made a state which the blogger twisted.
This was the tweet he posted, but another blogger had to help him break the tweet down for people to understand it very well.
When I saw it, I began to laugh, like why are bloggers like this? When did he mention the age of both his colleagues? Well, I would have commented on the tweet, but we all know that this particular blog is not a normal person like the person likes to escalate little matters to big issues, that's why they got the name, haha.
Over the years, bloggers have escalated a lot of little issues into huge ones because they need traffic for their sites, some months back, a popular blog (Linda Ikeja) and some group of ladies were discussing a live show and one of the ladies started talking about how Linda Ikeja ruin her marriage with her blog, according to her, she wrote a wrong birth certificate for her in her blog and when she tries to reach out to her that what she was is wrong and she has proved, this blogger didn't respond because the article was giving her a lot of traffic, the husband of the lady saw it and that was how it all happen.
These are some of the things I considered and I decided that I can't be a blogger, because most bloggers do d!rty for traffic, they don't care who gets hurt on the way or not as long as it's giving them traffic, they are cool with it, even if some of them later realize that what they posted was wrong, they won't bother to delete it and apologize to the affected party, rather they will keep it there for more people to see.
There was a case of child s3x some time back, this same blogger posted the tape on her blog, the parents of the children tried reaching out to her and they begged her to delete it because it was child p0rn, but she didn't delete it because a lot of people was going to her site to watch the video, that was how Twitter users began to report her account which got blocked by Twitter and she lost millions of followers in that she ones had on Twitter all because she didn't take down the video of child s3x in her blog.
What bloggers can not do for traffic, does not exist, they can go the extra mile just to be the first to publish the story, well, according to some, you either go hard or go home, when one decided to focus more, he or she should keep the emotion aside and put on business mindset so they won't fall off because of too much emotion.
Tomorrow is over Sunday, let me be the first to say a happy Sunday to you and I hope it changes things for the better for you and you sha excel in your doings, I mean the good doings that don't involve you hurting other people, haha, let's try our best to be good to others because everyone has what they are going through, life is not easy for anyone, it's just less hard for some. One love🖤
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16-07-2022
How to stay sad forever
Recently, one of my celebrity crush, she's a well-known female music artiste, not only in Africa but also in other countries, she said something on a video that birthed this topic I am writing on, she inspires me every day, if I was to be given a chance to either dine with her or choose 10k$, I will go for the 10k$ and make good use of the money then go and ask her hand in dating,
In the video she posted, she talked about how to stay sad forever, which is to be following what you see on Instagram, norms, we all know that Instagram is mostly filled with fake people that pretend to be rich so they can impress their followers and others, some of them will take it to the next level by leaving their house in the morning well dressed just to go and take pictures at someone else house, haha, funny but true.
Some months back, a Twitter user posted some photos of a photo studio in lekki lagos, Nigeria, the caption, he said most people in lagos usually go to the studio and snap some photos there because the studio was designed like an airplane, inside looks like a private jet and some people will just come and take some photos so they be post it and say that they are leaving the country, haha, what humans can do doesn't have a limit.
It's only on Instagram you will see independent models, they will be modeling for the gram and they spend a lot of money on their wear just to look beautiful for the gram, which most of them usually get more than the money because they do it for some reasons, some do it for the followers while others do it for ho0kup, they're what we called digital runs, they don't need to stay on the road for someone to pick them, they will just be on their page waiting for someone to dm them with good talk.
Some of them usually claim they are influencers and that is where they earn their money, while the ones that don't know much about Instagram will just be feeling depressed because of what they see online, the internet is not for the weak, the none rich will say the rich are showing off their wealth, while the rich will say they are just being grateful by posting it and no hard feelings.
As for me, I don't like to let it get into my head, just because someone is gaining it big, doesn't mean I am losing, the sky is big enough for all the birds to fly, but sometimes it feels like I want to start overthinking because of what I see online, I will just switch off my data and find something else doing to whine away my time, because the more I look at it, the more I might start having this feeling of anxiety or not being able or capable to do great things.
I know life isn't the same for everyone and some people are more favorable than others, that's just life, looking at life from a different perspective will save one from a lot of drama and overthinking because you will be able to see that they the alphabet don't just start and end with A, they are 25 more alphabets, at least before we reach Z, one of the alphabets will work for us, haha.
That will be all for today, it has been a day, I hope you all are doing good, well it's not easy out here for real, talking about the country and the coming election, I hope the people make a better choice by choosing a president that will take the country from the bottom to the top and higher because the current president is still taking it from top bottom, I don't know how bottomed it will be before his leadership will expire.
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14-07-2022
Don't interfere with others' karma
During my time at work yesterday being Friday, we were to go to church and the rain was falling heavily, it took hours which we had to wait, after the rain, there was erosion because the gutter there doesn't lead to any place like a river, the water was erosion (rainwater) was everywhere and it covered Som part of the gutter if one is not careful enough to know where the gutter is, the person might just end up falling inside the gutter.
Some ladies that were on our side of the road wanted to cross to the other side that still looks okay because the was didn't gathered there, so one was trying to cross it first to know if there was a gutter there, she was like halfway in crossing it when some guys that were riding a Toyota car was driving past the road, they saw her that she was about to cross the road, the one that was driving it first slow down, the next thing we see is that he just drove fast towards the lady as she offended him in the past.
Thank God the lady was quick to return, which left one of her slippers floating on the water, the guys then drove into the gutter, haha, we all started laughing, I know it might be wrong to laugh at someone or people that drove into a gutter but I believe that it was karma that came for them because they wanted to hit the lady and they end up driving into a gutter, they got what they deserved and I don't feel bad laughing at them.
Which birthed this article, I don't know if the title fits in well, but all I will say is that we should try and not interfere when karma comes for some people, I know that sometimes it's in our nature to sympathize with them and start praying for them to get better, but what if its karma that is coming for them and we are just interfering when they should have been watching them and not try to play hero.
Like, what the event that I wrote about at the beginning of the article, someone that didn't witness anything might just see the guys and felt sorry for them or even join then to lift the car out of the gutter, because he don't know what made them to land in the gutter, how they almost hit a lady for no reason and end up in the gutter, what the person did was interfering in their karmas, of course, he didn't it from his good heart, but sometimes it's better to know what actually happened before you start thinking of rendering help them.
In the society we have today, we have so many people that act like the holiest or the best when it comes to living a public life, they will do things that others will praise them for and they have a lot of dirty secrets in their cupboard, these usually get their karma in a public place but people will be thinking that they don't deserve it because of the public deeds they did, though most people won't know about the skeleton in their cupboards, well, that is up to God to judge though.
But one thing I know for sure is that at the end of life when we are being judged by God, there will be a big plasma tv that will be showing everyone's sin, haha, it's going to be a movie night, haha. Happy Sunday in advance and have a good day ahead.
*****A quick one.*****
Something happened today that has lessened my trust for women, like, I never thought it was going to be so, I trusted her with my all, and even left other people just for her today, I guess that's how life is sometimes, you will leave so many people for one person and at the end of the day the person will end up disappointing you, well if only I knew, I would have put my trust on her.
Yeah, I am talking about the woman that sells Akara in my place of work, if she knows that she's not going to be consistent, she shouldn't allow the whole area to be hoping on her, like, I was heartbroken, I passed a lot of Akara sellers just to get to the office and the woman that is selling close to us didn't show up, I think the government should look into this matter and every Akara sellers should sign an agreement paper to always be open from Monday to Sunday. Thank you.
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09-07-2022
Investment went wrong
I don't about other places but people in my country might be familiar with this type of investment, I remember some years back, someone wanted to introduce me to it but I decline cause my trust issues for this kind of investment is no go area.
I don't know how some people manager to trust others by joining it, even if the money is as low as 5$ or 2$, it doesn't mean one can't run away with it if about 50 to 100 people pay the sum of 2$ to one person, that will be huge money, the person can just run away with it and that will be the end of it, I know that back then when the investment was trending on Whatsapp, a lot of admin ran away with people's money.
After making promises like pay 2$ and pack 100$ in a day, people will be eager to join and see how it works, though some good admin doesn't disappoint some will just get greedy on the way and do what many won't expect from them, that's just how one can switch up because of money, they might feel like this is the time they have been praying and get greedy with it.
Wonder why I start writing about what happened a couple of years back? Well, a few days ago, a young lady was caught by the group members she made the same promise, the plan was that they all will send a sum of 2$ and at the end of the day, one person will take the total amount and they will do it for another person, so on till it gets to the last person.
I usually see some people in my Whatsapp contact list posting about it, 2k naira to pack 300k naira, sometimes it might be tempting to join them and see if he's true, what if he's not? How will I get my money back when they don't even know their location and we don't even know each other not to talk about getting familiar, I will just skip and continue my way.
Now back to the story, the young lady that ran away with the money was the Whatsapp group admin, she was the one holding the money, the money that the whole group donate wasn't small at all, the young lady used the money to host her birthday party, haha, every day we learn new things from these women, she didn't even do the birthday party around her house but she went to a high-class place (lekki) when she stays at the mainland.
For the looks of things, her initial plan was to use the money to host her birthday and the people that she will invite will give her double or even more than double of the money that night, in my country, there is another set of entertainers called hypeman, they are like the MC’s, these set of people are mostly found in the club or in a birthday party, maybe the hype didn’t do his job very well or the people she invited didn't tune up.
She wasn't able to raise the money, the members of the Whatsapp group located her and that was how it to the internet straight, they even found out that the phone she was using was iPhone XR and not iPhone 11 pro max, she just used the iPhone 11 pro max sticker to cover the back so it will look more I like it, haha.
So many have fall victims to these online donations, the truth about these donations is that the people who truly enjoy it are the admins, back then, the way they do it was that, you will find 10 people to join the group, and those ten people will donate to you, while the 10 people will bring another 10 people each to donate to them until people started using it to scam others as usual.
I don't know why some people (especially ladies) will go to just an extent just to act rich when they know that the money she is using to show off is other people's money and they won't take it likely with her when they find out about, I guess they want to fake it till they make, cause that's what they start saying now, faking something might cost more than making it, just someone buying a fake Nike shoe for 20$ when real one cost 200$ and the person has bought more than 10 times still they still fade away.
Well, I will end it here, for now, I hope you do what a wonderful Friday, my friends.
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07/06/2022
A deal that landed him in jail.
Hola People (that is a greeting in Spanish) haha, I just remembered the time I was to watch Dora the Explorer, it was very fun and also kind of a dump, haha, but who cares, the fun part is more relevant.
This is no longer breaking news to the people in my country, It has been on the ground for some weeks now, though they were different stories flying everywhere about it and so on and the court has not yet decided on the matter, so let me just brief it for you guys.
***The ex-deputy senate president in my country made a deal with a young man that the young man will give his daughter one of his kidneys (because she's in need of a kidney donor) and he will give the young man permanent citizenship in the UK (United Kingdom)***
The news that we chest heard is that the formal deputy senate president took the man who is 15 years old to the The UK and he promised him a better life there only for him to take the young man to the hospital that they want to run check up on him if he's for and as they were doing the checkup, the doctor asked the young man if he knows why he's in the hospital, he told him what he knows and the doctor explained to the young man, seeing that the young man has no idea of what is about to go down, the doctor called the police and both the formal deputy senate President and his wife were arrested.
Different stories were coming out concerning the case, it was done in the UK, so the Nigeria government can't just maneuver their way to bail the guy this time, haha, I believe this is karma coming for him and his wife, this man has been Deputy senate president for 20 years and there was nothing good to show for it, maybe if he had made sure hospitals in Nigeria were equipped well like the ones in the UK, he won't have flown the boy and his daughter abroad to do the surgery over there.
That's why it's not good to be interfering in some people's dip days cause it might be karma coming for them and trust me, you don't want to get in between, both of them are still in jail, not fully jail though, but detained by the UK government, someone claims to be the elder brother of the young man said that the young man is not 15 years old but 25 years old, well age or no age, that can't let the couples go because it's not Nigeria that they will just close the case and silent the young man if he had talked much.
Yesterday I watched another news when they were interviewing someone that is also a politician, which means he knows more about the guy that was arrested, according to him, the formal deputy senate president and the young man had a deal that he will take him to the UK and make him a citizen after he donates his kidney to his daughter, they both agree, they did his visa and other documents and they flew to the UK when they got to the hospital.
They checked the kidney and it was discovered that the young man's kidney doesn't match that of his daughter, he knew this after the check-up, and he told the young man the kidney doesn't match, which means he will have to take him back to Nigeria, (I can't go back to Nigeria, not after I have said bye-bye to all my haters and Nigeria) the young man said that in his mind, so he was thinking of a way that won't make the man to send him back to Nigeria.
That was how he called the doctor and told him that he don't know what he was doing here and he's just 15 years old, they told him that they brought him here for a checkup to know if he's fit to be a citizen, that was how the doctor alerted the police and they swing in, haha, the man and his wife were detailed and the daughter is still where she is, maybe if the man had built good hospital in Nigeria, he would have checked it here in Nigeria before doing the passports of the young man, well, it is what it is, they will definitely karma as I have said before.
Maybe if he had not threatened to return the young man, all these won't have happened, but it has been done already, who will like to return to Nigeria after going to the UK, haha, absolutely not me, he should have thought of that before evening promising someone such luxury, well, I think he did it to get into power but only for a young man to use it against it, haha, such a funny story, using his word against him.
My own is that, if he's not found guilty, let another case that he's guilty be opened.
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03/07/2022
Lesson learnt, I won’t dare it again
Hello, beloved people or read.cash, it's been a while, my Wednesday was almost frustrating, but thank God the frustration wasn't successful, haha.
It all was started when I woke up not early and I was still in bed when I checked what I was downloading to see if it was successful, caused I slept off while waiting for it to be successful, I checked it and decided to install it, that was when it first started, luckily for me, I was able to maneuver it before it escalate, though it has already consumed a lot of data.
I intended not to go early to work today because my boss took the equipment to the church, some going to the office early will just be that I will wait till he arrives before I can do anything, I was still in the bed when I got a Whatsapp message from him that I should come and carry the equipment from the church to the office, he told me to hurry up, me that hasn't taken my bath yet and the time was already 9, I downloaded what I was downloading and went to the bath, eat and went straight to the church.
I got there around 10 am and I left when it was almost 11 am, on my way to the office, the weather started changing like it's going to rain heavily, I wasn't with an umbrella but something else flashed into my mind, that was remembered that I forgot my power bank at home, I was like two streets away from my house which would have taken me 30 minutes to get the power bank and also get to the office, the weather was getting darker, that's when I decided that, not having a power bank with me for just a day won't k!ll me, I was heading to the office.
The street always have electricity and most times I don't even use my power bank when I am in the office cause, I felt like there was no need because it will only add extra weight to my bag, on my way to the office when the rain get to him, after a few minutes it was a bit calm, that's when I used the opportunity to reach the office, I got there and they were no electricity, well, it was taken long before they bring it because the rain was already calming down, I brought out my phone from my pocket and it was already 17 percent (it's this playing? What type of playing is this?) I was a bit calm.
We all know how iPhone battery is, It can't not powerful, unlike Samsung and others, I kept calm and brought out the laptop, hoping it was a charger so I can use it to plug my phone a bit before power can be restored, I turned it on and it was on, only for it to off because it was already low, my battery was about 7 percent cause I was online doing stuff, I decided to use it to 1 percent, at least the power will be restored soon, I was just using it and it became 1 percent, (oh lord, don't forsake your son) I was calling on God in my mind.
I kept the office and lie down, I was about to sleep when power was restored, (I knew God would come through for me) I plugged my phone, though the charger head was kind of misbehaving, not up to 5 minutes they took it, I was shocked, maybe they are fixing something, I told my self, they brought it again and I turned on the laptop when they took it, I thought the fault was from the office, I checked around and there was no light, I decided to lie down, they brought it again and also took, (what kind of playing is this)
I decided to not move when next they bring the light until it's up to 10 minutes, they lie down and they brought it, took it again, so they were doing it and I fell asleep, I was just hearing the fan moving and stop, the only socket that was plugged is the one I plugged my phone, so it was just there, I began to imagine why I didn't bring my power bank along when I had the chance, it's like these power supply company knew that I was not with my power bank, that was why they were toying with my feelings.
From office to my house and returning to the office will take about 1 hour, cause the place is not along the road that I can just take a commercial bus and return back, even if I decided to use commercial bus, I will still have to walk about 10 minutes each (going and coming) unless if I decided to use Bolt (Uber cab) that will be will cost me 3$ (Going and coming).
I decided to let go and try to manager the rest of the time, I wouldn’t collapsed if I am offline for hours, haha.
Thank God, I am here, writing my experience, that means I survived the longer hours of doing nothing because my phone was off and my power bank was at home, it can only be God, I have learnt my lesson to always put my power bank in my bag before my laptop, haha.
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30-06-2022
The sudden grace
There are some blessings that one will receive and you will just be speechless, though you must have been looking forward to it, before the moment it comes, you will have this joy in you, well, though I have experienced a a lot of blessings but not this particular one I am about to write about, without taking much of your time, let's dive right in.
A few days back, a well know user on Twitter posted a story about a young man, not long though, the young man has been at home since 2021 after scoring A1 parallel due to no money to further his education at the university level, the Twitter user took it to Twitter and tweeted about it and he also attached the result to it as a prove, a lot of people were surprised and they show support by retweeting it.
That was how one of the greatest music artists in my country (Davido) saw it and he couldn't help but re-retweet it and also asked the about the whereabouts of the young man, the person that posted it at first saw it and I believe they had some chat and news is breaking that the music artist (Davido) has decided to give him a 4/5years scholarship, accommodation and also allowance in the Adeleke university (The family university) that is a big blessing for real.
Sometimes I asked myself if there is a cheat code to all these, like how do they get such a huge blessing and it usually happen like a dream, of course maybe he would have gotten help for random people online but who would have thought that it will be from Davido, this is so huge, I need blessings like this in my music career, the one that will give me sudden promotion for all the efforts and works I have been putting in from day one.
They are some blessings that man won't be able to understand, I know he has a good result but trusts me when I say they are have been people before him that has the same result as him but they weren't given much attention as him, but why him?, all I can say is that it can only be grace.
Grace makes the difference, grace will make your what you do more special than others, even if you all do the same thing, the graces will make the difference, that doesn't mean you shouldn't put in your work, you have to put in your efforts so it can come and bless it bountifully, a lot of people do confuse grace like it will do everything and all they will do it's to just relax watch Netflix and chill, not in my country though, haha.
In a simple and easy understanding, I will explain how grace works, first you need to have something doing it, that will be where the grace will also work when it comes, let's say you are seed, let's say a corn seed, a corn seed can't be kept on top of glass without soil and grace is like water, there's no amount of grace that will be poured on the seed that will make it grow when you don't have soil (the soil will be your skill or job)
But when decided to put the seed in good soil and grace come to water it, you will see the growth will be fast and you will have to plant more and more and more because there's abundant grace that will water it, people will be asking what kind of fertilizer do you use but all you can say is that you use the average one any other farmer do you but your results will be different because it's backed up by grace beyond human understanding.
Grace has worked with a lot of people and had taken them to a higher height in life, we read, see, and know a lot of people that grace has lifted them from the struggle of poverty to become rich and successful, though some of them do fall back due to one or more reasons that might involve family, only a few of them were able to bounce back in because grace gave them a second chance to do better.
They are a lot of people in my country that see ready to build and know more about developing the country with their brains, but due to the economic situation, they can't because the country's hunger will turn their dreams around and some will end up doing fraud and other illegal activities that can give them quick money, Life is something else in this country.
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23-06-2022
Allow the young to grow
I know most of us must have come across the saying “The young shall grow” well, I don't think the young are allowed to grow any longer and this has led some people to stop chasing what they believe in.
Why u wrote about “allow the young to grow” I am not talking about the child that is growing, no, I am talking about people who are beginning to grow in business, career, or any other profession that brings money, so many people have given up on what they want to do because others that were there before them don't want to allow them to grow.
They are some people that ones they become professionals, will not want to see anyone learning around and trying to grow in the same field as them, they will gather and start laughing at the person, instead encouraging the younger one in the field trying to belike them (the pros) this will make the young ambition guy loses focus on what he's doing and just start wishing to become a pro over or just give up on it and find something else doing.
Now the pressure is put on people that are beginning to learn a new skill, some pros in the field won't even be nice to show them how it is done properly, but rather, they will just be waiting for them to make mistake so they can laugh, they usually forget that before they turned pro, they were ones upon a time a learner, that even did worse back then, they will forget the good energy someone uses to teach them.
These set of people are everywhere, they are like the ones that cross a bridge and also break the bridge after crossing so another won't pass, cause they feel the newbie might take their jobs for them once they start getting better in it so they will now start doing everything possible to make sure that the person won't get it correctly or get better in doing it.
Some pros understand that everyone can't be the same and they don't pressurize anyone to do better, rather they allow them to grow and learn from either their own experiences or the person's experience, for me, I believe this is the best type of learning, one will be able to see things from a different perspective and not just one side view.
Just a brief description of what I meant by grow in this article when one is allowed to grow it means the person should be allowed to make mistakes and learn from them without any regret, some people are drowning in regret for years now because of a mistakes they make and they can't stop thinking about it because people around them is reminding them of what they did in the past like an alarm clock.
No one is above mistakes and we all make mistakes daily, either big or small, all are mistakes, unless you are programmed to do the same thing everything and not to make mistakes, that means you are a robot then, haha, like I said, the mistake is part of life but they are some mistakes that can ruin someone forever, cause they will be constantly reminded of it, like sending a nud3 to someone and the person or someone else leaked it to the net, that's a very deep sh!t the sender has gotten his or her self into.
I know some of us here don't like watching tv series because you can't wait for a new episode, haha, well, if you are familiar with the tv series by CW, titled Stargirl, something similar happened and the parents of the girl were just seeing her as a disgrace and they kept reminding her of what she did, she can't turn back the hands of the clock and that is something she regrets ever doing because she thought, she thought that, well, she thought a lot.
I have realized that some people do want you to grow but not more than them, first, they will support your growth and when they see you growing more than them in the business, the same people will start looking for ways to pull you down, it's not easy dealing with humans every day, especially if your intentions are good, you might end up in the mud cause some people will do you dirty, especially the ones you trust.
Best way to grow in life is listen to criticism (not too much though)haha, cause some people do criticize because of jealousy or fear of you passing them in the field, at least listen to the valuable ones and also check if you are doing something not quite right, you will be able to spot it out and work on that area, that too is growing, it's just like using the stones being thrown at you to build an empire, *****I'm still testing the technique though, haha, if it works, i will update you guys, you can also try it too.*****
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20-06-2022
Ladies should go for money
“Ladies should go for money” was a statement made by a popular female music artiste (Tiwa Savage) in my country, she's has been in the music industry for many years now and she's still doing great, I wonder how she manages to keep relevant, like so many other female artists that started almost same time with her is no longer making the headline.
I guess she has a lucky charm that works for her, she's still one of my favorite female artists, though she's like twice my age, I still have a crush on her and if I am to make it to the spotlight this year, I might shoot a shot and take a try, though she already has a son, well, *****I might not be the stepdad, but I might be the dad that step up*****, haha, I saw those lines on a hoodie of a man and his stepsons, who knows, maybe I might be her happiness, lol, wished she knew it now, she would have looked for me.
Away from the crushing now and let's head to the article of the day, during the show in Dubai, while she was on stage doing what she does best (music) so, she took her to address some issues, that's when she said.
***I want to love yes, but I also want (she use her hand to describe it and the ladies shouted money) I am not encouraging wrongs, I am not saying you should go after a man because of his money, but it is sweet when you also spend your own money, because I have my own money as you can see, period! so I am saying is you need to match my energy, because they will still break your heart anyway, so it's better for you to cry with your Christian Dior Dior Dior and your private jet and travel around.***
At first, I heard the first line, I wanted to skip the video, but my love for her didn't let me, even if she calls all men $cum, I won't be angry with her, rather I will change my ways, even if I were good, I will become better, so she will know that real men that isn't $cum still exist and one is crushing on her already, lol, I know that when she began with those words, most girls in the show was just waiting for she to say, don’t date broke guys but I guess she took them by surprises, haha.
An Instagram user (female) commented **Hope y'all picked up when she said “******cos I have my ken money******” and “******i want him to match my own energy******”. This advice isn't for broke girls oh.**
Cause most girls will like to skip that part and just pick the parts that will favor them, so they won’t be feel guilty for demanding too much when they don’t have, she clearing means that a girl should not asked for what she can’t afford, she has her own money and most of these girls are just depending on their boyfriends to take money from his purse and spend it on her, well, that’s like a normal thing these days and we will see a lot of people encouraging them, which is not good.
Talking about demanding, a few days ago, a lady was trending in Twitter NG, because of what she tweeted, maybe she want everyone to back her up, but she got the opposite, what happened is that someone invited her on a date, which she went, to the restaurant, the guy made his order, while the lady also made her order, the guy wasn't expecting the lady to make such an order because he went there with a budget which he didn't tell the lady, the lady ate food worth 30$, the guy told wasn't happy so he told her to pay for what she ate, which he paid for his own.
After the date, he messaged her and explained why he told her to pay for what she ate because he wasn't having much money on him, he said he thought she would have ordered the same thing as his, haha, that only happens in the movies, I blamed him because he should have known that on a first date, some come just to eat what they have been craving for and they won't care about your budget, that's what he should have had in mind before asking her out.
On the second hand, I blamed the lady because why would she made such an order, eating spaghetti worth 30$, this is why some guys don't take ladies on date in restaurants or eatering, rather they will invite her to his home and just watch Netflix and chill, while the ones without Netflix will do something else and have a good time together, the luck the lady had is had she was able to pay for what she ate, if not she would have done the chores there, haha, that funds are what we call, in case of incasity (necessity) haha, I know incasity isn't a word, but few will understand the language.
A guy needs to know the lady a bit way before asking her on a date, so he won't be humiliated, have seen some walking out of the guy and also causing a scene, it never gets easy being a man, everything will be on your shoulder and you are not allowed to make mistakes or you will be doomed, haha, that's just a joke though, but still the truth.
To all real hustlers out there that are not into fraud or any illegal activist, soon the sun will shine on us, it may not be all of us, but I hope it shines on us. Happy Saturday guys don't have a good day, have a great day. I need to look for a wedding to attend today, it has been a long I ate wedding food, at least, I won't be for it, haha.
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18-06-2022
Not every struggle leads to success
Growing up in the hood wasn't easy for the none rich people, I remember back then when we only had Black and White tv, the antenna will be at the top of the tv and daddy will be tuning it for him to watch the news, we didn't even have a cd player back then, i and big bro sometimes go to our neighbor's house to watch tv, until when my uncle bought the first colored tv we had, though the sellers cheated him, it was all fine.
A few weeks later a Dvd player also came to the house which is good a the goal for us is at least we won't be going to our neighbors always, we shall be doing the watching from home, that was when a popular tv station were showing a drama series titled “Superstory” the 90 kids in my country will definitely know about it, not that they are not to showing it now, but the ones they are showing now are not worth watching again.
Back then, the drama they use to show in the super story was so touching, you won't even know when you will start crying, I remember when they were about to show the final episode of the super story drama that year and there was no power supply in the area, you will see people leaving their homes at 8 pm just to go watch the final episode, I elder siblings and neighbors went to watch the finally the episode, which I tagged along cause they can't leave this little kid at home alone, haha.
Though I wasn't paying much attention and the place that we were watching it was filled up like we were about to watch the world cup finals, back then, it was rare to see people that use generators, unless you own a business like a bar, that's when you will see the need to buy a generator, back then it was the small tiger generator (known as I beta pass my neighbor) that was on board as the whole street was there and they were just focused on it, I have never seen people so focused before.
After the final episode, everyone went home moody and some were even crying in the place cause it was so touching, I don't remember what it was all about but I believe the country people that are older than me here can remember it, that is if they watched it back then.
The series was about a girl, named Amaka, its like she and her mother has been suffering and something happened to the mother and they rushed her to the hospital, the doctor told her the amount, which she went in search of the money, on her way she stepped on a nail when she went back to the hospital, the doctor noticed the way she walks and she was asked if all is well and she said yes, she didn't treat the leg she used to step on the nail because she thought that they might charge her for it, she later died due to the nail injury, which made many to cry.
I don't know if that's actually how the drama went, cause I was very young when I watched it, so I don't fully remember, but one thing I know for sure is that she died because of the nail and she refused to tell the doctor because she doesn't have money to pay for treatment, after all the suffering she went through in the series, so many people was so heartbroken, but that's the fact about life.
Not everyone's struggles will lead to success, Some will get drowned in the struggle while some still excel in life, sometimes is not what about how knowledgable you are (but try to get knowledge so you can be an asset, no matter how small they pay for it) sometimes the battle might be from home or environment, I have seen some people struggle for so long and they are still suffering till today.
Sometimes I wonder why life can be unfair to some and also be fair to others, well, I guess that's just life being life.
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17-06-2022
Family entitlement in Africa
This article is not about someone's family feeling entitled to their achievements, this article is about how some families feel when you decided to date from the family, which normally happens in my country, I think if some of us haven't encountered such family, we must have seen a friend encounter or it or heard of it somehow somewhere.
While reading @Kushyzee recent **article** about his family with his girlfriend, oops, I mean girl friend, she's a female and they are just friends, haha, while reading it I had a flashed back to last week when I went to fix the office generator, which also made me remember another one I read online few days before the week. https://read.cash/@Kushyzee/earn-money-while-doing-nothing-how-hard-can-it-be-0373e838
I don't know how it is in another country when a guy starts dating a girl but in mine, most of the ladies see it as an empowerment program, today is not for the ladies, but the family of these set of ladies, while I was waiting for my generator to be fixed, two friends (both male) were discussing their other friend, the way they were saying it like they have used kayamata (love poison) on the guy, cause they were both angry at the guy.
According to what I heard cause I wasn't paying attention at the beginning till they got to one part that made me start paying attention, according to them.
***This particular guy has spent a lot of money on the girl, not just the girl but also in her family, the worst part is that when I say the family, I didn't mean the parents and siblings of the girl, but also the cousins, they will just call the guy and tell him that they need money, he will give them positive feedback, even if he's broke, he will look for money to send to them, he's land is there and he has to complete his building, the worst part is that he hadn't gotten married to the girl yet, they are already demanding a lot from him, what will now happen when he gets married to the girl?***
***There was a time one of the guys that were talking advised the friend that he's spending too much on his girlfriend's family and he hasn't married her yet, the guy went and tell the girl, lol, the other friend noticed that after he advised the guy, the girlfriend has been passing him without greeting him and also looking at him somehow, that's when he realized that the friend told the girl, he just laughed and pass, another day the friend went to meet this guy for advised, he told him everything and all the guy could say is yes, he just doesn't want to interfere in his love life or perhaps bondage life, cause that isn't love.***
Some of these people think that they are in a good relationship until they lost their job and the lady will disappear, there's nothing you will tell them that will change their mind, they prefer to learn the hard way and later regret why they didn't listen to advice, I wanted to contribute to what they were saying, but, mhen, I thought about it again and decided not to, because they will want to know who asked for my opinion, lol.
There was another one I saw online, the guy was searching for advice, the funny thing about these set of people is that they are not searching for advice, they are just looking for someone to tell them that they are doing the right thing by spending more money on the girl and this advice, they are looking for is mostly said by other girls that belong to the same league as the girlfriend, haha, birds of the same feather can't betray each other.
The guy said that his marriage is in two weeks and his family and the girl he's about to marry are not on good terms, I know some of us might be thinking that the family of the guy dislikes the girl because she eats the boyfriend money like free food, haha, but it's not that, what occurs is that this guy went and tell his family that he wants to get married to his girlfriend, first they wanted to disagree, but because the guy claimed he loved her, they all agree to follow him to the girl family.
When they got thereThe girl's family brought out a list, lol, I think this list of a thing is one of the reasons some guys don't want to get married cause, Omo, lol, when they brought the listen, the elders in the family, first told them that in order for him to marry the girl, their tradition demands that the mother should be married first, which means the girl's father has not yet married the mother, so he will have to pay for the expenses parents to marry, which be spent about 1.5 million naira (3k$).
This 3k$ dollar he spent for the girl's parents' wedding wasn't among the bride's price, it was like a giveaway, still, his family stood by him because that's what they promised him, after the girl's parents' marriage, three weeks to his weddings, they gave him a list, the list was so huge like, these people didn't even reason him like he's a human, the mother of the guy called the girl outside and told her (calmly) my daughter, why can't you guys just have a wedding with 200 guest at least, to lesser the bills in the wedding, since she's not going to contribute to it, the girl told the guy mother that she should not tell her how her wedding should be.
She said some offensive words to her, which made the mother go back into the house, took her bag and left, the higher elder the guy followed her to know what was wrong so she can calm her down, she told her what happened and the sister followed the mother, he got home and was told what happened between his mother and his girlfriend, the father told him that he should call his girlfriend to apologize to his mother which the girlfriend refuses, its two weeks to his wedding and the girlfriend hasn't apologized yet and his family has told him that they are no longer in support of the union.
When I read it, I was thinking that how can your girlfriend disrespect your mother and she still won't apologize because she stood by what she said, you are willing to marry her, is it because he has spent a lot of money on her that's why he doesn't want to let her go or something else is playing that is holding him, I will leave it for you guys to answer.
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16-06-2022
People act good in public
Omo, all I can say is Omo, the rain that hit me today was something else while I was on my way home, my whole body was wet, I had to take off my clothes and had a good bath the moment I arrived home, felt cool and also cold, I think this is the time I wished I had a girlfriend or perhaps a bestie, cause I don't think I will be able to handle relationship as of now, my head is already full and I don't want anyone to add to it, haha, bestie will be better, at least there won't be debit alert unless if I wanted to act generous, haha, I would have told her the cold hit and I needed a warmer for the cold weather, lol.
I couldn't write yesterday cause I almost collapsed, haha, my head was just too fool which which made me to press the sleep button because if it was too working, maybe things would have been worst, thank God for pressing the button for me, cause I wasn't ready to press it myself, I'm fine now, though what was stressing me yesterday Sunday didn't work out, haha.
Now to the topic of the day, while I was on my way going home, I was stuck on the road in the rain and at first, I had to look for a place to hide, cause it was very heavy, I saw no other place than the traffic officer tent, I don't know the right name for it, but it's like a tent, where the people that control traffic usually stays, to make sure people or perhaps motorist obey the traffic light.
I was just there for the rain to keep calm a bit, the officer was closed for the day, the light was still active, that's when I saw a motorist passing it anyhow, which obeying it, it almost resorted to traffic cause they were coming from a different direction, I was just playing music in my earbud and was still observing them if anyone will at least obey the light at that hour, haha, well, we all know how humans are, haha.
Well, there was a car that stopped when the light was red, I was like surprise, like do good citizens like this still exist, I know that in other develop countries, there are Cctv cameras close to the traffic light to see people that will offend it, I don’t know of other states in my country though, but the state that I stay here don’t have the cctv cameras around it, instead the traffic officers are there to make sure people don’t offend it in day time.
While other motorists was offending the lights, this one car didn’t offend the light, the red countdown went and the green countdown too, the motor was still there, I was like, why is this driver not moving, he is thinking that I am one of the traffic officers and don’t what to pass the red light so I won’t go after him, but the green light has came twice and he’s still there, so I kept calm and watched when he’s going to move, after four counts, he decided to move when it almost green and he passed when it became green, that's when I cleared my head he was trying to be a good city.
The way he moved before it was almost green, shows that either his car developed an issue or he was talking to someone in the car and the conversation doesn't want to wave (allowing it to slide) away the conversation, we all must have been in one or more conversation that we didn’t want to leave the, haha) that’s what I believed must have made the driver to stop and not the light, there was another person in the car with him.
I guess the country is already gravitating, haha, the article is not about traffic lights but about what people will do in public because someone or some people watching them, but will do otherwise when no one is watching, they pretend to be good in public and they do evil in private, I don't know where the drivers were rushing to at night that made them be offending the light (maybe I will know soon when I buy my car and start driving) well, I still believe that it's also because of the insecurity that's why they were driving fast, so no one will hijack their car while they were waiting for the light at night.
Some people do like being good in public because others will praise them for their kind gestures and also give them accolades, I hardly see people that do things out of genuine heart, but instead, they just do it with the heart of being recognized by the public for their generosity when they're using it to chase clout.
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13-06-2022
Better safe than sorry
A few days back @Olasquare wrote an **article** about his cousin's wedding and he also shared his experience about the first time he drank palm wine which took him unexpected, haha, I was laughing at the bus when I read that part, everyone will be looking at him differently from that day. https://read.cash/@Olasquare/my-kind-of-humour-652d6734
While I laughing, I thought of the article differently, there was a lot of sense from it, and a lot of lessons to be learned from the event, which I am going to write here this happens every day, but some people still fall victim to it because they want to feel among, they don't want to be left out, they want to be among the dwags, lol.
As written in the title “Better safe than sorry” I think I have shared an event that occur sometime in 2020, when I and my old music crew (I call it old because the crew is on hold) went for a show and we weren't able to perform, that night, something happened and I just kept it to myself as if I didn't see anything, while the show was going on, there was this other artiste that we met at the studio one time, he came and we are were seated in the same table.
There was not much money on us there was no money with us, lol, we managed to donate and around and buy some plastic juice, haha, half bread is better than none, we were just using that to chill and let it not look like our table is empty, after some minutes, this other guy that is an artiste ordered for a packet of cigarettes, they gave him and he kept it on the table, he began to smoke one, he also told us to feel free to join it, join what? Lol, I just acted like I didn't hear.
Two of us four of us, took from the packet and they joined him in smoking, I kept calm, I and the other guy, three of them smoked the whole packet and the show wasn't even over yet, lol, they smoked it and continue talking, I was just put my earpiece and act like I was listening to music, though I wasn't even playing music from my phone, how can I even play music when the club music is very loud, haha, well this tactic has saved me from a lot of unnecessary drama and side talk.
They were talking and I was listening, without acting like I was listening, the show was over and everyone was leaving, the guy among us that is supposed to talk to one of his friends around the area to let us spend a night there, he didn't even tell the person, the other guy bought another pack of cigarettes, this time I know that the show is over and I needed some space if I don't want to join them, so I took my chair and walked a bit far from them, the other guy that didn't smoke first was seated with them, they were talking, I don't even hear what they were discussing cause this time I have turned on my music in my earpiece, the club has lowered their song.
Three of them were smoking it, one of them gave the other guy a stick of cigarettes, his hand was shaken at first, they taught him how to hand it and how to sip it in, that night I think he was able to smoke just that one stick, I was just watching from the other side, while the three experts waere just smoking it like a pro that they are, haha.
It's like I saw it coming, that's why I shifted my chair away from them and the other guy that stayed with them ended up joining them to smoke that night, what am I trying to say, sometimes it's not about how strong our faith is against temptation , is about avoiding the temptation at first, when we see that the energy that we don't like is dragging us, we just take a step back away from it, not because our faith isn't strong, but because it's better safe than sorry when satan told Christ to jump from the highest building, Christ would have jumped to show Satan that he's a liar, but he didn't because he knows that the best thing was to work away, the stress isn't worth it.
I have come across countless videos of young boys that went smoking because they see their mate smoking, some of them end up in the street running mad, the worst part is that the same friends that gave the person the substance he smoked will be the same friend to record the person and they all will be laughing over it and share the video online, I have seen countless videos, even @Kacy01 shared that when he tested weed for the first time because his roommate and his friends are always taking it, after that day, no one told him to return home, haha, I couldn't hold my laughter.
Peer pressure is real but how you react to it is what matters, I remember one time that some guys I know took me to the hoe house and they said that they will pay for me, I couldn't do it and that day I felt like a loser, but later I realize that I wasn't a loser at all, if I had done it, maybe they would have been using it to brag around that they took me to the hoe house and so on, though they were talking about it they also talked about it that I don't have the guts, I am still grateful that I didn't do it, cause the whole street would have heard about it, haha.
Conclusion
Better safe than sorry, it's better you don't do it than do it and regret it later, its better you walk away from that thing that will destroy you than stay with it while you saving that it won't destroy you because you have faith, that isn't faith, faith expects you to walk away while you have the chance then for you to just be there.
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11-06-2022
Why are women always like this
***Disclaimer: This is going to hurt, but is the painful truth we don't often talk about, before I begin, I will like to apologize in advance cause I might step on some toes, haha, just joking.***
I don't know how it is in another country, so I am going to write it based on what I observe about women in my country, this is something we don't get to talk everyday cause it might feel like is their nature but it has to change, I have come across some news about women backstabbing each other, even more than men, most times it's not about money, they might just do it because they feel jealous of the one they called their best friend or just friend.
The only time you see women trying to stand for other women is when you hear about abuse or so (I am not saying it's a bad thing) but can't the stand continue, like supporting each other without a heavy heart, the sky is wide enough for all women fly, you won't have to bring someone down for you to be able to fly, I asked my self these questions **Why can't women be like men and be happy for each other?** Hardly you will a man being jealous of his fellow man progress.
So much for women supporting women, The heat between women in my country is something else and the worst part is that they don't talk about it like they might see each other on the way and they will greet each other like there's no tomorrow, calling each other love when the word didn't pass the stomach, haha, I keep wondering how women can be able to hold grudges for years, men hardly hold grudges for a day, the next thing, they are cool but women is the extended, haha.
The music industry isn't excluded from this, hardly you see two female music artists doing a song together or promoting each other, both of them will sing the power of a woman in separate songs but they still won't vibe together, I don't think they fought, but maybe one is waiting for the other to say Hello followed by Hi, haha, maybe that's the reason they haven't linked up and do some collaborate.
I guess by now some of us will already know where this article is going, yeah, I am talking about the lady that began to trend some few days back, though I am not a fan of hers the hate she receives from her fellow female gender is something else, if she isn't mentally strong, they would have reaped her apart through negative words, hate, and bad energy, it hurt me to see women ganging up against another woman because of something that is not supposed to cause a fight.
A few days back, a young lady started trending on TikTok and other social media like Instagram and Twitter, because of the way she use to shake her bum bum (what a man wants, haha) she does it very well and I can't lie, it was like she was not from Nigeria, but she is from Africa, she had a lot of videos on TikTok, but there was that trended the most and what most guys liked, some were just sharing the videos, when I said some, I mean the guys, they began to share the video and were praising her bum bum and the way she shake it very well in a Pro style.
It's like most of the ladies felt insecure because of the way her videos were trending, that was how jealousy start kicking in, firstly, some ladies started replicating her videos, while some was using the caption that ”**she's aren't that cute” “Her bum bum is not even bigger than mine” “She aren't worth the hype”**
They were just saying different things but that doesn't stop people from watching and sharing her video the more, haha, men can do the undo, lol, most ladies felt insure of her videos, so they went and reported her TikTok account which got suspended yesterday, that's so not fair, how can women do this to their fellow women, instead of them to be happy for her, they took it as a competition and some were just trying to do what she did to get the hype, they forgot that she has a lot of Nike Shoes in the background, haha, hope they can buy it too.
But seriously, I know they are going to say that she was disturbing their relationship and their boyfriends has her videos on their their phones, let's not forget that these same women (I use women to reprint all female gender) had crushed on **Lee Min Ho(The South Korean actor), Justin Bieber (The music artist), Madura Okoye (The Nigeria good keeper) and etc,** they were even using them as their wallpaper and profile picture and the men wasn’t moved about it, they laughed it out even though it hurts they can’t attack their fellow men cause it’s not their fault.
I remember in 2020,Nigeria women, like almost 70 percent of them used their money to buy gifts and sent it to the actor on his birthday, he posted the pictures of what he received and it was a whole lot and most of the gifts are from Nigeria, funny he has a wife already, haha, but that didn’t stop them from sending him gifts, most of the ladies took the money from their boyfriends or husband to send him gifts, the men might know but they won’t say a word.
This young vibrant, gorgeous and beautiful lady that knows how to use what she has just came on to the spotlight and most ladies has already hated her, Women supporting women in the mud, I have come to realize that most women will only be happy for their fellow woman if she is not bigger than them, if she become back, they will start hating her, like I said, I am not a fan of her but what they did to her is not fair, at least they should have been happy for her, instead of hate.
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10-06-2022
How I met my girlfriend on read.cash
It was started as a normal day, I woke up in the morning, said my prayers, and do some other chores that I needed to do, I got ready and went to work, I was creating a new instrumental (music beat) but I was lacking some inspiration to spice it up, I needed to take a break because my head wasn't in the right place to do the work.
Good thing my boss was around to take over and work on his unfinished project, I told him I was true and went to take my phone, I switched on my data and just as expected, messages started flying in, from different Whatsapp groups, that's why I always put my phone on vibration mood so the notification tone won't start making noise, in total, I met more than a thousand messages, I just opened and close them so it will leave my notification without checking what they were talking about because most of them will just be arguing in the group chat, haha.
Sometimes I do read their arguments, especially when it leads to vawulence, I do like to read the whole gist from genesis till when the admin will now lock the group for there to be peace in the house, after that I checked my Instagram and other social media like Twitter, as least Twitter carry most of the news in my country, though some people do spread fake news sometimes, haha, the reason I like checking my Twitter is to know if they have sold the country already, Cause I don't want to wake up one day and find out that everyone has left the country, remaining me, lol.
After there I opened my read.cash in my browser and I started going through the articles and also read comments in my notification and I came across one comment on my previous article that caught my attention, it was from a well know username and she compliment the article, we have a bit of conversation in my comment section and I asked for her Instagram handle so we could talk more.
She gave me and I started following her, she followed back, we began to chat, she seems really interesting to me, like we are compatible, she said that she love the way I write my articles and I was like Awwnn, haha, I blushed in reality and told her thanks, we began to chat more and from there she called me on a video call, I had to quickly put my earpods on so I will be able to hear and see her well.
She seems to be more beautiful than in her pictures, it's like I have known her for decades, and she was so open-minded, I felt this continue between us but I just couldn't tell her yet because it might seem like I am taking her willing to chat as love, so I held myself from talking about relationships until she asked about my relationship status, I told her that I am single and the girls here doesn't like me enough to be that boyfriend, she couldn't hold her laughter, though she apologizes that I sounded funny, it's the truth “I told her”
I ask about hers and she said she hadn't found the right one yet, I was like, hmm, you are joking right, cause you are so beautiful and I know a lot of guys must asking you out, she said that's the thing, how will I know the one that actually loves me for me and not because of what he sees in the physical appearance, I told her some of my few lines about what I understand in love, she smiled and said that is so sweet of you.
I felt good inside, I felt this connection between us but I don't think it might work because of the distance between us, the time zone was different and I don't think online dating will do me any good as of now, but I still wanted to take a shot at least, there's no harm in trying and what is the worst thing that could happen? So I summoned courage and I told her that I wanted to discuss something important with her, she told me that she will call me in 15 minutes and that she needs to finish up with something.
I was waiting for her while also trying to engage in read.cash cause the calls took a lot of my time, I was to calculate it right, it took about 57 minutes, aside from the time used to chat, she called back but this time she has changed her clothes like she was ready to take her nap, she asked what I wanted to talk about and I froze for some seconds because it was like she became more beautiful, or maybe she went to spray her beauty enhancement perfume, haha.
This is it, it's now or never, I told myself, so I began to tell her how I felt about her I have also been reading her articles since I got here and since then I have had a crush on her, I never knew you will notice me when you did, I had to take that chance and put in more efforts to have this one on man talk with you, I said a few more words and she was just smiling, she said she never knew that I have so much to say about her, unlike other guys that have come before me.
She wanted to talk about the distance between us and I told her that when it comes to love, there's no place that far, love will always find a way, I knew all that she will say and I had the answers with me, she felt convinced and she told me that she won't take much of my time by telling me to give her time to think about it, the age might be an issue but love is not about age, it all depends on who you find your happiness with.
She said that she heard all that I said and she felt the same way too, but she couldn't say it for she has to be sure that we are on the right page, I told her that we are on the right page, haha, she said that its fine by her but we have to at least date for a month first and see how it all turns out, that's fine by me, it's a fine step for me (I said in my mind) I was about to ask for the first official kiss.
That's when my boss woke me up that my phone is ringing, checked who was calling and it was from the network provider, I opened my phone and found out that I fell asleep when I was about to comment on an article and all these love things has been a dream, haha.
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09-06-2022
Personality is the best mask
***Lana: You are Superman? How did I not see this? How did not people put this together?***
***Clark: People see what they want to see***
For so long, I mean since when I was very young, I had this thought in my mind, whenever I watched a movie like Superman (let me use Superman as an example)
I believe most of us have watched a Superman or animation, I started watching the story of Superman for a long time and I can't help but wonder why is he not wearing a mask? Like he will just show his face to everyone in daylight and people still won't recognize him, unlike Batman or The Flash that always put on a mask to protect their identities, Superman put on eyeglasses to feel among with humans, funny right and no one seems to notice him.
For some of us that haven't watched a single scene in Superman, let me just brief it here, Superman whose original name is Kal El (El is the surname), he's from a planet far far away named Krypton, and he didn't have much time to know about his people because his parents decided to fly him on a spaceship to earth because their planet was about to explode, when he got to earth, the couples that saw him has been for long looking for a kid but unto no avail so when he came in a space ship, they decided to take him as their child and named him Clark which he was answering before he began to know more about where he came from and his biological parents and his destiny to be earth's greatest Saviour, I will recommend you watch **Smallville** for more understanding.
He kept his ability secret and told few people he could trust with it, which kind of made him weird to some people in his school and also the office when he grew up, he knew that he was going to be a hero but how will he start living doubt life is one thing he thought off before he started showing his face as a superhero, that is kind of hard for him because everyone wants to see superman and he happened to be watching as a journalist, that makes things better and also dangerous.
Good because he will be able to know what is happening the around him and be quick to save the day, dangerous for him because everyone is the watching waiting to see the face of the red and blue hero and also revail his identity to the world, it wasn't an easy task for him though his hologram father told him to give up his human life and become a full-time hero with no break, but he couldn't because he has bonded with humans already.
He thought of wearing masl like Batman or The Flash, in the case of Batman, he's a hero with no ability but with a lot of gadgets and money, he's a billionaire playboy by day and a hero at night, living double lives but with a mask, The Flash, on the other hand, is a speedster, he runs very fast and sometimes even faster than the light, haha, he wears a mask to protect his identity because he's a cop, not just any cop, a scientist cop by day and na hero by night.
Superman would have worn a mask like the rest of them but he didn't, rather he wears eyeglass on a daily and started acting like a noob, always asking questions and doing as the most lazy person you will every meet,haha, he does it very well and he changed his personality.
I know you must be saying that the glass won't change a time and you would have discovered it if you were there, but one thing fact I will tell you is that you won't know if he was Superman if you met him in one work.
There's a saying that goes, ***if you don't see the hero in a person, you won't believe the person is a hero***
No one was ready to connect the dots with him because they see him as an ordinary guy that looks like Superman but can never be Superman, even when he told his sons that he was Superman, they said that he was lying because they have seen Superman and their father can't be superman because of the way he acts sometimes like someone who doesn't know anything, no until he lifts the truck.
https://youtu.be/NPJyLxi2dBY
Personality can change everything about a man, if you have watched the series called **Moon Knight** you will understand more about how personality can make one person look like they are two.
**Image source** https://images.app.goo.gl/MjUgUqD7rPaqQdv2A
Superman knew that if he wears a mask, someone might someday spot his face, rather he change the way he act and that gave him the chance to be among his husbands without being spotted, all these things that can make a man look different and not believe they can what others thought they can, it's just like having twins, identical twins, when you get to know them you will be able to differentiate why they look different.
Of course, people wanted to find the truth about Superman and where he's from, they know he's living among them but how can they find him, Superman went to the place people won't think he was and that is being a journalist, haha, its a man that is wanted by the police for a long time, so he decided to stay in the house very close to the police station, haha, you won't even notice he's there cause that's the last place you will think about or maybe of thinking about the place at all.
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08-06-2022
See what she did for clout.
About the recent killings in my country, there is different news that is following everywhere like the cause of it, who are the people that did it, that's deep for real, some people said is herdsmen while the governor is saying something else, let's just keep calm for now, the truth will be out soon, I believed if the country was more developed, they would have caught the perpetrators cause maybe a CCTV camera would have to caption their face or car plate number, I hope they get them soon and let justice takes over.
Now to the topic of the day, I wanted to write n this before hearing the news of the massacre, so I decided to write it today and it’s about a TikTok celebrity in my country and it made me wonder what people can do for clout, I know a lot of my country people might have come across the videos cause she has been trending for two days now, enough with this, let me write the full details.
A A few backs ago, some nud3s videos of a TikTok celebrity started trending, though she's wasn't h!tting a guy in any of the videos, she will just be videoing herself when she's nak3d and also making out with a dildo, though some of the videos she does wear a mask and while others she didn't, like she did it to send to someone or something else.
When the videos went viral, people started posting them, the videos were everywhere, and the funniest thing is that it wasn't one or two, but so many of them, just her in the video sometimes with her toy and sometimes not, the videos were like more than 6 if I could it right (don't ask me how do I know the numbers of videos, haha).
After her videos went viral, she went to do a live video on TikTok and was crying that it wasn't her, I don't even if she meant it wasn't her that was in the video or it wasn't her that spread the video cause she was just saying her name in the video, so she was the one in the videos, she was crying that she began to say that her dms are full with a lot of people calling her p0rnst3r, she was just sharing tears in the live video and I was almost feeling for her like who did this to her, not until I came on Twitter and she was still trending, that’s when I went to her trends and check people tweets on her.
Some were saying she was the one that shared it herself and she just did it for clout, some were still trying to support that people should stop sharing her videos that are not fair, and were saying some other things, I was just reading tweets to know why some people believe she was the one that leaked the videos to the Internet.
I had to thought about it and let my mind go off the thought that she was innocent at first for me to be able to check if she really was the one that sent it, as a Wiseman once said “**When you love someone too much, you will be the last person to know about their demands**” not that I love her, lol, I was just giving an example, I don't even know her until that day that her videos were everywhere, most people that know her on TikTok already know how she dresses.
***How did I know she was the one that posted it and she did it for clout? Here few dots that I put together and it connects very well***
***Firstly, I came across a tweet and it was one of her previous live videos on Instagram, she was wearing a transparent black shirt with no bra, I mean she wasn't wearing anything inside, you will see her B00bs and N!ppl3 very clearly like she wasn't wearing a shirt at all self, they were four that was connected to the live video and the viewers was about 3k+ live viewers.***
***I don't know what they talked about, so this girl placed her camera on her bed and took off her skirt, which she wasn't wearing any undies, she took the skirt to her kneel and her bum bum was fully open, she then started doing d0gg¥ style on her bed, like she's teaching her viewers and doing practical, it was on live video and she didn't even try to hide her face or something, she was just doing it like a pro. Lol.***
If someone can go completely nud3 on live video without minding who will come to the live video and see her nak3d, don't you think that same person can use her hand to spread her nud3s so that she can go viral and gain more followers, talking about followers, that was exactly what she wanted and she got it, yeah, after doing what they did, they will go on live video and started sharing crocodile tears like their whole life is over and other stuff and people will be taking pity on them.
If you watched her live video and you felt sorry for her, I have to tell you that you felt sorry for the wrong person, ****take a closer look at the these two photos and also look at the top left I cycled****
**Source** https://www.instagram.com/reel/CeZj1EiI-6K/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
**This first the screenshot has 3k+ likes on her live video when her nud3s first came out.**
**Source** https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cea1gVBoTv9/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
**She went live again the next day after the first one and you can see from the top left that her views boosted to 40k+, she was even smiling like she got what she needed and her plans are falling in place.**
I hope she doesn't regret it in the future though, cause some people do like thinking about the present and what they can from it without thinking of the consequences of their actions, the internet never forgives, what if she decided to run for public office tomorrow, don't you know that her opponent will fish out the old videos and use them against her, well, she did what she did anyway and she must have had it all planned out, the funniest thing is that this girl might come out tomorrow and start talking about how she made it alone an entrepreneur, haha.
That’s it for today guys and don't forget to hit the upvote button.
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07-06-2022
Should the government legalize guns for all citizen?
just as everything disadvantage has an advantage, so does every advantage has a disadvantage, what I saw online yesterday Sunday almost broke me down, kind of painful, I never thought people still have the mind to do such evil.
Happy Monday guys, hope your Sunday went well and not stressed as mine, do have a wonderful day ahead, though people always say the only day that is stressful more than Monday is the day after Sunday, haha, take care guys.
Yesterday Sunday, there was an attack in a church in one of the states in my country, the gunmen who we believe to be unknown for now, though some people start pointing finger, the source didn't mention names, so I can't write what people think that cause it, the gun men went into the church with guns and explosives, they opened fire on the members while the service was going on, about more than 50 people died, some died in the church while some gave up the ghost in the hospital.
No place is safe in the country again, hardly a day goes by that we don't hear one or more bad news, especially killings and kidnapping, kidnapping has been the most popular crime in the country now, especially when traveling from state to state, one needs to save up money for ransom before traveling so when he or she gets kidnapped, the family will be able to pay up quick.
This reminds me of @Kushyzee article when he talked about citizens of united states having the right to firearms or perhaps guns, he also talked about a man that went into the church and wanted to start gunfire but unfortunately for him, he was gunned down before he could start gunfire because the members of the church have their guns too, this is called, **trusting God but handling my battle.**
If guns were also legalized in my country, won't it be better? Though they will be disadvantages and people will start misusing it, especially those that have some unfinished business to settle (quarrel) it might just end up with gunfire, and some innocent people might die in the process as well. Just like they say goes “**When two elephants fight against each other, the grass will be the one to suffer**”
There are so tribes that are free to carry guns and the police won't do anything about it, like the Fulani herdsmen, there were times when these guys were killed in the east and the government didn't take their guns from them, if these guys are still holding guns freely till today, don't you think everyone should at least have theirs at home for safe defense? Cause we can't trust the security agency to show up on time, most times they might not have fuel to move their vehicle, before they will arrive at the scene sometimes the robbers would have done what they came to do and leave.
As much as I don't want firearms to be legalized, I believe that people should have the right to protect themselves, cause the country is kind of getting worst every day, is anywhere safe? That's a deep question, if Americans that always preach one nation has legalized firearms to the citizen, what are we that are not even united as a nation, do you think we can survive like this for long? Do you think we will have one united nation in Nigeria?
My condolences go to the family of those people that lost their lives while praising God, a lot of people will be blaming God for what happened to the people and they might call the church fake because people were killed in it.
A Twitter username posted a picture of both her parents that was murdered in the church, so sad, like you just speak with someone and the next thing you hear is that they are no more, the wins these people brought to the citizen is so unbearable, where will the ones that lost their loved ones start from, what is now running through their mind as of now?
Another Twitter user wrote that, if they can legalize guns for safe defense, at least churches should have armed guards, that will be watching over the church when the service is going on, there was one time I went to the stay in an area close to the University of Benin, someone invited me to their church and I went to the church that Sunday, it's a very popular church in my country and the branch I went to is very big when I go there I saw some security men with heavy weapons, my first thought was that maybe government personnel is around and that's why they are security everywhere, now I realize that they are there to guild the place, not everything needs prayers, some needs physical battle.
I believe this coming election is the one opportunity we have to vote for someone that can make the country better, we all know the ones that are killing us in the country, let's do something different this time, I don't think there is any better candidate than Peter Obi, the media has nothing on him, for me, I believe he's more qualified than the rest.
One question I asked myself is, does Nigeria have missile defense? What if something was to happen and another country want to start a war against us, hope it's not what I think will be though.
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06-06-2022
What if women are to be blamedd for this?
It saddens 💔 me that another citizen in my country has lost his life due to religious blasphemy, I hope God is still seeing what is happening here.
Continuation from my previous **article** that I wrote yesterday, I had to cut it short so it won't be too much, well here is the other part that most ladies don't take the blame for, cause its easier for some to put all the blame on men only. https://read.cash/@Cogamedia/a-lady-died-because-of-this-8f6b7b24
This Twitter user here gave her the reply she was looking for, I thought it in my mind as well cause hardly you will ladies don't talk about money in their Whatsapp status these days, not that I am against it but at least if they are talking about a business that brings money, it's better but they always talk about guys that will dash the money, as some will openly say it that “If you say you love me and you don't spend money on me, that love is fake and I don't need it”
Some always insult broke boys in their status too and they might call it catching cruise but that sh!t isn't funny, some will post a screenshot of what a guy wrote and also give the person a savage reply, like the one that was trending a few months back, I know most of my country people surely came across it, there was a Dj (DJ YK) that used it to create trending sound, what came about the reply is that a guy asked a lady out, they were both at the same school.
The lady a voice note replied with started with **broke, short, black, and so on**, people started reposting it sounded funny to them, well, it is always found funny when you are not the one that is being mocked, there are like 99 ways she should have rejected the guy without insults, but she choose the 1 that she feels like it will touch him very well not to message her again.
Does men's mental health matter? That alone leads to depression and anxiety, but he's expected to dust it off because he's a man, and men are not supposed to cry or show witness, so many men have died in silence because of all these because they will be tagged as lazy if they were to say what they feel, what is bothering them, how's life going, in my country now, hardly you will see a genuine female friend that just wants to be there for you, they do exist but, just have money first, that's the number one rule we were thought.
According to the tweet above, who should I blame for the evil things young guys are putting their hands on these days, I guess we all know who to blame if were are given a chance to speak, but still, a man has to take the blame for what he did, even if he did it for someone, that. becomes none of the person's business if it didn't work out.
A lot of young guys have gone and some others are in the street running mad, some are kept at home and are receiving home treatment cause of what they did to make money early, some regret their decisions but it's already too late for that, some are being carried from church to church for them to be healed but as the saying goes, ***when the devil gives with a left hand, he takes back with the right hand.***
The devil comes with different tricks, the guy's story that I narrated on how he was embarrassed by the lady for liking her, it's easier for the devil to just enter one of his friends and the friend will tell him about joining fraudster so he can become rich and no one will ever embarrass him like that again if he's faith in God is not fully solid like a tree planted by the waters or like Dangote cement, he will give him to what the friend said and then from there the devil might come again and talk to him about ritual, he's already halfway there, why not finish it and have a lot of money, which most of them does and they will start calling it grace.
Young promising guys that should have been studying hard or perhaps smart so they can develop the country with their knowledge are now into cyber fraud because they want to make money so quick even if it means to steal from others, some even go to the extent of using the victim card to take a loan and the victim will use the rest of his or her life to be paying for what he or didn't do, these guys usually, say that ***All the hustle is for their mother***, but we all know that they use the money for, lol.
The girlfriend will be putting pressure on them that they need a new phone, new hair, new clothes, and money for upkeep, if the guy doesn't have enough, some will insult the guy while some will low key look for other guys that can provide for them, which we call Hookup, lol, when the guy finds out about it, he will have the urge to make money too by all midst necessary and some will even use their mother for the ritual so they can impress the girls and show off their wealth, when they enter the club everyone will know their names, the big money spender, lol.
What women are to blamed for all these things young guys are putting their hands, how would they feel?
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04-06-2022
A lady died because of this
I think blaming men for her death is not fair, they didn't send her to do butt surgery, she decided to do it herself, I know you might be confused about what I am talking about, I saw a tweet some days ago, which I wanted to write on but I forgot about it, then when I saw this.
As seen here, you might be thinking what brought about that made this lady write this about men, let me tell you about the tweet I saw some days back.
A few days ago, a lady took to her Twitter and wrote about her friend that died after doing surgery for her butt (As$) according to her,
***The lady went to the hospital and the surgery was successful, only for she to get home and she started bleeding, she called the hospital and they told her that is normal and it will stop after a few days, few days passed and the bleeding was getting worst, she called the hospital and they told her to come over, she went to the hospital and that was the last time they heard from her, the friends were worried cause it was like two days and they haven't heard from the lady, they went to her apartment and she wasn't there.***
***I believe they did some calls but unto no avail, one of them now suggests that they should check the hospital that she did surgery from cause she was complaining about bleeding some days back, the friends of the lady went to the hospital to confirm if she was there, only for them to be given a letter that her body has been deposited to the mortuary, the friends contacted the family that are also worried and they all came to the hospital to demand to know how she died and also demand justice for her, the hospital called the police on them.***
Some will say, she was foolish for trying to enlarge her butt (bum bum) why isn't she contends with her she was created and so on, well, things like this sometimes happen and she trying to enlarge her butt is not a new thing in my country, most of the female celebrities did it and they are showing it off in social media and I know she also has friends that did it and that's why she decided not to be left out.
But for the lady in the top tweet blaming men that they are the cause is something else, yes she wants to look good to be attractive to men, I mean rich men, the ones that she can go out with and they will spend a lot of money on her in one night, the ones that will be craving to see her after spotting her picture on Instagram and the men will be ready to pay for her flight to come over, a lot of things are happening in Lekki, Lagos, Nigeria oh.
I have heard a lot of stories about some butt surgeries that went wrong, some the butt will be as strong as stone, and some others, some fake surgeons don't know about how the surgery goes but for the sake of the money, they will say they are professionals and they will end up destroying the patient life, a lot of young ladies life has been ruined because they wanted to do less costly butt surgery, so they will end up with the surgeon that doesn't even know how to do it very well.
A read of a guy that his girlfriend walked to him and asked him to give her money to start a business, the guy being a supportive partner gave her the exact money she asked for which is about 5 million nairas (9k$) the lady took the money and thanked him, only for him to letter find out that she used the money to enlarge her butt, he was like, where's the business you open with the money I gave you and she told him her this is it right here, haha, was dumbfounded but still he likes it though, lol.
A lot of crazy things are happening, most of these ladies that are working on their butt usually get the money for their sugar daddies, they get the money from them and use the money to work on their butt for it to draw them more clients, hardly you will see a young decent lady that has a vision in life, hardly you see such a lady using such a huge amount of money to enlarger her butt.
Like I said before, most the female celebrities did it and that doesn't mean she should also do it too, but I guess she will say “her body, her choice” this word has put a lot of ladies in a deep mess that they can never come out from, some are leaving in regret, some are still doing what they are doing because they believe that they can never have redemption.
If the lady died because of butt surgery were to be asked by one of the angels, how she died, what will you think she will say? That she didn't like the way she was created? And she wanted to add what God forgot to her for her? Most of these celebrities that did butt surgery didn't just do it in a hospital that doesn't have a professional surgeon, they go for the best of the best and they are ready to spend millions on it, you shouldn't be contending with them, so you can feel among the big lady team.
That was what that lady thought and now she's gone, she wanted to look s3xy for God knows who, maybe her sugar daddy but ended up in the mortuary, she can't undo all everything now cause she went, I would have like to drop the video here but I think it will be too, I don't know what words to use, but I will just drop the **Twitter** **link** for some that want to check it out but I must warn you 🔞🔴. https://twitter.com/lilbarrbie/status/1532103774923378689?s=21
**To be continued.**
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04-06-2022
Evil has no gender
I read **article** of @Lhes on some celebrities that had a divorce after a few years of marriage, I think the longest one was 5 years, most of these men married their best friend and was even crying on the alter when they see her coming, but did it stop them for cheating, of course not, the painful part about it is that they don't throw small weddings, how can they spend millions in wedding and ended up breaking it all, it's not funny at all. https://read.cash/@Lhes/does-a-crying-groom-during-the-wedding-a-curse-7ee8d197
The article made me reminisce about a post I saw a few days ago, a Twitter user (a female) wrote that there is nothing men will do that can shock her again, she forward said that her uncle, cheated on his wife and the lady he cheated with had a baby, he wasn't ready to let his wife know, so he kept the baby away from his family, he kept it for more than 20 years until something happened and it was discovered, that the wife must have been pained after discovering that the man she thought she knew, become a shadow of his self and she lost him a long time ago, I don't know how it feels but the thing I know is that she will be in pain for long.
Another Twitter user (a male) wrote that it is in the airport that a man discovered that 3 out of his 5 kids are not his own, this is so worst, how do you think he will feel when he discovered that they are not his children, so he was raising someone else child all along, calling someone child his own, I never expected it, the user now wrote that evil has no gender.
This is so true, it's easy for women to start blaming all men for one man failing to give them what they call love, or maybe the guy breaks up with her and you will see her start saying all guys are the same and they are doesn't deserve love, the rest of her friends will surely join her in her quest of calling me scum, they might not know what actually transpired.
A boy that break a girl's heart is evil but when a lady does the same, they will blame the guy too for not showing love to the lady enough, someone once wrote that if you give a lady everything in the world, she will still cheat, which I believe is not fall but the bad ones always cover the good ones, same goes to the guys as well, like me now, I am a good guy, lol, no jokes though, but most ladies I come across will always tell me that all guys are the same and some will end up with the worst, haha.
There's a saying that goes like this, **Partners are like beans, no matter how long you select, you will still eat stone**, lol. it sounds funny but it's the truth, I think this is not the first time that I have written that love doesn't have time, like you can meet with someone and bond with them ans relationship will start, then follow marriage, while I have seen some best friend that get married and they split ways from that day.
A partner shouldn't cheat on each other with someone else, of course, the a lot of people will come your way, beautiful ladies and handsome guys will come your way, it will be up to you to decide if you want to cheat or you respect your partner too well to cheat.
Just as men cheat, some women do the same but at the end of the day, will only see though that are caught, the ones that aren't caught will always act as if their innocent of the crime.
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03-06-2022
Why do humans turn so quick?
Once again, happy new month guys, and I hope the first day of the month wasn't so hard on you? How's life going over there, how are you holding up? Hope you are well, well keep doing you and never let go of your wheel, you got this, and you can do what you set your mind to.
Talking about the wheel, this evening when I was coming back from work after a stressed day, I was about to enter the road that leads to my house when a car was about to come out of a bank building, the driver just relaxed on it and wasn't ready to enter the road fully, this guy was riding a bicycle from the other side, I guess he was just looking the car from ahead if the car is coming out but the car didn't move when he was close to passing the car, the car just moved into the main road and the guy on the bicycle manage to dodge him.
Though the car hit the bicycle and the guy was just controlling it not to fall on the road, luckily the road was kind less busy and there was no car coming from ahead, so he was still struggling to control it and managed to hold the break in the bicycle, I thought the driver of the car will come down and talk to the guy, either to apologize to him or checked the scratch in his car, but to my surprise, he zooms off, I guess he knows that he was at fault and before the guy that rides the bicycle could look back, the driver had already gone far.
The wheel of the bicycle was kind of damaged a bit, but think God he didn't fall on the road and sustain injuries, I don't know why some drivers are just like that, it wasn't a commercial bus driver, I believe this driver doesn't use the car from transport, maybe more like a personal car, he also hit someone to the ground, but he just zooms of immediate without looking if the guy fell or not, what if he had fallen and the road was kind of busy when the event occurs, so he would have just escaped, humans can be unpredictable.
Talking about humans, I was watching a movie yesterday, actually, a series, the title of the movie is ***Superman and Lois***, I guess we all know superman and we have watched one or more of his movies, which they are so many of it and I am not here to talk about it now, but I was just brief about what the storyline of the series movie, the storyline is about Superman and his wife Lois, building his family and all the challenges they faced with both their sons (Johnathan and Jordan) they are twins, not identical though.
After his earthly mother death (Martha Kent) they decided to move back to Smallville and start a new life there, cause the Kent family is a well-known family in Smallville and they just can't abandon it, the earthly father (Johnathan Kent) died a long time ago, even before Superman became fully Superman, he learned a lot from him before his passing away, there's so much to the superman story though.
Yeah, the twins were named after his fathers, Johnathan was the earthly father and Jordan was the biological father, there's no cheating, after all, haha, they faced a lot of challenges and the children still don't know that the father is Superman, not until they moved to Smallville and the father now reveal why he was always to them, they were shocked causes they have seen superman on the tv many times but how come they didn't know it was their father, well that's an article for another day, you might say it will be easy for you to connect the dots, well wait till I write about why you won't have known if you were in their shoes.
Now to the topic again, Why do humans turn so quick, like they will appreciate all your 99 good doings and immediately you made one mistake, they will easily forget about all the good you did in the past, not all humans though, but most of them.
In the season one of In the movie, there was this wealthy businessman that was well known, he came to the town (Smallville) and he wanted to build industry and empower the people there, a well-known citizen of the town helped him to gain the trust of the people and they are was now benefiting from the investment the man-made, he employed so many of them and they were enjoying he's staying.
Until he now starts making known his true intentions and why he came to the town in the first place, he did a lot of things and luckily he's plans didn't fully succeeded for be was stopped by Superman and Steel (John Henry Iron), I think you should watch it for yourself to understand it well, cause I don't want to start writing it here, haha.
The people now turned on the person that made them trust the wealthy man in the first place and they all forget about all the good things the person once did and ***I think I should split the article in two, cause it's getting too long.***
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01-06-2022
Can you sell your toe for 40k$?
Happy new month people and I hope this new month provides most of our needs if not all, I have a listen in my head right now, just in case God decides to ask me in person, I don't need to think far, lol, I will just write it down or send it via WhatsApp to him, lol.
Still talking about needs, someone posted a picture of people selling their toes in a particular country in Africa in one of the WhatsApp groups I belong, the bigger toe is about 40 thousand dollars while the The smaller one is 20 thousand dollars, when I first saw the picture, I thought maybe is a joke and people were just using it to catch cruise, as usual, not until I came across the video of a man selling his toe to buy a Lexus car.
The man was fully ready and the person was cutting the finger with an object that looks like a player, he was just bearing the pain while his hand was on the car that he wanted to buy, I can tell that it was indeed painful but his zeal to buy the car is way stronger than the pain, the person cut the finger off and blo0d was on the floor, but that still didn't bother him, he bought the car and the video ended.
First I was curious like why will he even accept such an offer to let one of his toes go for money, then another question popped in what are the people going to do with the toe they bought from him, you know in Africa, especially Nigeria we believe that everything is spiritual and nothing happened just because it wanted to happen, we always try to connect the dots and sees what is the cause of it all, even if it was natural, we will still look for the trace to village people, haha.
But seriously, what are they going to do with the toe they bought, I guess maybe the man must have asked them and they gave him a reply or the man didn't bother to ask them when he heard about the amount they are going to pay him for it, sometimes get carried away by the profit of a thing and forgets to ask how it does work.
Just as most people that claim they teach crypto trading always say when they are looking for students that will pay for their teaching about cryptocurrency, they mostly talk about the profit they make and they don't tell the students about the risk ahead, what they will tell them is to buy the dip and sell when it pumps, they will say is that simple and some of the students will end up losing a huge sum of money because don't even bother to ask about the risk involved, they just see the profit and that's enough for them.
Back to the topic, someone said what if they wanted to use the toe for ritual, I guess I saw that coming, haha, living in Nigeria is something especially now that we hear about ritual killings every day and one have to be stay safe not to fall victim to these sets of people, but if these people that buy toes are legit and they don’t use it for ritual, what then are they using it for? It’s any medical personnel in the house? What a toe be worth thousands of dollars? I will like to know.
The situation in Africa has also contributed to the reason people sell some of parts of their body, like I have heard of some people that sell one of their lungs, eyes and even kidney, but I am hearing about toes for the very first time, I don’t want to believe that it’s needed in the hospital and that’s why they are buying, like how will they now use it after cutting it off the person's leg, these questions I need to know before considering selling mine, haha, just a joke though, but if true it's needed in the hospital to save someone else life, well, I will like to know how it works like how does it even save someone's life.
The amount is tempting sha, 40k$ for just a toe and not the entire leg, haha, one might just forget to ask what they are going to use it for, maybe the person might end up selling his 10 toes and use the money to live life and enjoy as much as he can before departing whenever the Lord feels like.
With 40k$ dollars, I can do a lot of things that I need right now to forward my music career, well, I don't feel like selling any part of my body, though the person is not yet in Nigeria, haha, God knows best.
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31-05-2022
@Cogamedia
