My Points Of View
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Hello lovely readers, hope you're all doing great?
I came across a post made @Olasquare some days ago, and I decided to put down my reply as a post.
**What do you hope to achieve this month on Blurt and Read Cash?**
Well, we are still in the first week of this month, if I'm determined I can still achieve something on my blurt account. My blurt account has been there for months, I've not been able to post anything there become of time and my nature,( I developed migraine quickly anytime I overwork my brain ) so I'm just managing my hive account and my read. cash account. so this month I'm planning to activate my Blurt account, even though I'll not be posting every day, I can still make it three times a week, just for a start, and as the time goes on, new goals will arrive.
For My read cash, I will try to build my new account, though I've made a goal on how to build my account..like posting every day, Yeah, I said I will be posting every day but my school is a typical example of stress.. lol. You could imagine the stress of going to school around 7 am and coming back by 5 pm and by the time I'm back I'm already stressed out, dealing with migraine as well every day, but yet I still try to do something online. This month, I'm going to give it all it will take to build my new account on read cash and I hope with time new goals will arrive.
**What are the challenges you are facing here in Blurt and Read Cash? (Someone might help you with tips)**
For now, I don't think I have any challenges on blurt, all I just have to do is to look for time to post there, my migraine can not hold me back.... lol
And for read cash, Well I don't see this as a challenge, because starting up a new account on read cash is not always easy.. there will be challenges of low upvotes, except if @TheRandomRewarder visit 🙈, But that's not my problem, for now, I believe as time goes on, there will be changes... So apart from that, I don't have any challenges, the only thing I can do is to be consistent in building my account... heheheheNot just posting and commenting, I will Make sure that everything I do is based on quality.
**Which would you like to keep as a pet? Dogs or cats?**
I will never think of keeping a cat as a pet, I don't like cats. Even apart from that, The mentality of some people in Nigeria is that anyone who keeps a cat as a pet is a witch ... hehehe. Some cats are beautiful though and I will feel like keeping them as pets but I can't..so I will rather go for a dog. A White one precisely, Dogs are lovely pets and they understand human being quickly. I just love the nature of dogs.
**Do you think technology has done good to mankind or worse?**
I will say technology has done more good than bad. It's not a crime for bringing in technology. Technology was brought for us to live a comfortable life. Unlike the olden day when you'll have to pass through a lot of stress before something will be achieved.
Take for instance, the way of sending messages in the olden days, it will take time before it will get to the receiver, but not, but now you can do that within a second. There's no need of trekking when you're going to a long distance because of the invention of cars, airplanes, etc. I will say the invention of technology is not bad, but it is human beings that I misusing technology in the wrong way.
**Who do you think serves the country most – A Teacher or a Soldier?**
This question is complicated, but as for me, I will be going for a teacher, before a soldier can be good enough to protect the country, he/she will have to pass through the teaching process. so if there's no teacher, who will teach them out to defend themselves and the country..so teachers play an important role in the country, they deserve more than respect.
**this is the end of the question, and I will love to know your point of view in the comments section.**
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Misconceptions: The Fallacy, And The Wrong Intuition Of People About My identity
`This article is going to be about a contest that is held on hive in which we are being instructed to write on the there misconception of people about us and I will love to post it here as well.`
**MISCONCEPTIONS......**
This is a nasty fallacy that people think about something or about who they are, their brain tends to jump to a quick conclusion without having a clear knowledge of the fact.
Some things aren't quite as they may appear. There are so many misconceptions that we have abothothings or the people around us. Nobody really knows who you are, our suggestions and intuition are not always true.
We all have misconceptions about people around us, even about the people we know very well, and I'm guilty about that too..lol. Here are some of the misconceptions that people have about me:
**Being proud**
I'm someone who doesn't like to talk too much, I talk when I have an important thing to say and I keep quiet if I don't have anything to say
So they will say **" you are too proud, you don't want to talk to us"** but I try to make them understand that's is not the way they think, is not mandatory to talk if I don't have any relevant thing to say. But there are some of my friends that understand me, but the majority take it for another thing.
Some will even say, **" you are feeling too big to chat with me "** that's wrong, once I type the necessary I want to inform, then, and I get my answer, errrrrr, that's the end of my chat with you, but the majority takes it for another thing, even when I try to make them understand my nature, they still don't agree with me, so when they persist to tell me I'm proud, my response is **" yes I know"** ...lol😂, and they will laugh it out.
**I'm calm and I can accept anything**
My calmness can be so deceptive. people see me as someone who doesn't talk, so they think I should be quiet with them even when they trying to take my calmness about it.
This made me remember my primary school days, so there was this girl in our class that is always troubling me, she finally stepped on my tail one day, and I gave her a dirty slap she never expected, I could even feel the hotness in my palm... I'm not always the angry type, but not always good when I get angry and I'm always trying to avoid it, of course, the teacher cast the blame on her at the end of everything because they know me for my calmness and she must be at fault.
Yeah, I'm calm, but if you push me to the wall, I don't give a fuck, I'm calm but not dumb..😆
**Being rich**
Yeah, I claim that but I'm not rich, I just try to manage the little one have with me. People will always conclude with the things they see without knowing what's happening behind the scene.
Some of my friends will be like **"This girl is rich "** sometimes when they try to ask for something from me if I don't have, they will think I'm stingy and I don't want to give them, even when I try to explain to them from now till tomorrow, they still don't believe me. Sometimes I don't why some people have that misconception about me, I don't put on luxurious things, I don't live a fake life, I just live the real me. But still, they don't believe, perhaps maybe because some of them know that I'm a blogger and I make plenty of money from it, I never can tell..lol
Even though I'm not rich, I won't hesitate to help if I can, just from the little I have. Anyways, I claim to be rich, because I believe I will someday..😊
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There's always an alternative to everything in life
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hello my lovely readers, hope you are all having a great day over there?
So today, I was just thinking about what to write, then I remember that I came across @FashTioluwa 's post : What A Combination: Hard Choice To Make, and I decided to make my edition about the random question... https://read.cash/@FashTioluwa/what-a-combination-hard-choice-to-make-32f49011
let's go!!!
**INTERNET V TV**
I'm someone who watches movies or Tv shows once in a blue moon, I can stay a month without watching TV, I'm just trying to improve in the area of watching a TV show now because of my friends, if not, I don't care much about it, so it's obvious that I'll be going for internet, TV can stay aside 🤣
**MUSIC V MOVIE**
Just like I said initially, I don't love watching movies, but I'm a fan of music, music is life, no matter how sad I might be, music is there to make me feel happy, so my love for music is 95%
**SHOE V SOAP**
This question wants to twist my brain, but never🤣🤣. I don't know how it will look like bathing without soap or washing without soap, that will be so bad. soap makes everything to be clean, and free from germs. it will be too stinky if there's no soap to wash or take our bath... since it is a shoe I will rather keep it, instead, I'll be wearing sandals or slippers, then I'll go for my soap.. my hygiene is very important.
**SUNSCREEN V SUNGLASSES**
I rarely put on sunglasses, so I will be going for sunscreen because at times the hotness of the sun can even damage one's skin, the sunscreen will serve as protection from the UV ray.
**SUGAR V GLUTEN**
According to my knowledge, gluten are proteinous food and they are mainly gotten from cereal and it's good for people with a high level of sugar ... but I think I don't need it, hehehe, I will rather prefer sugar but just a small quantity to be added to my beverages, too much of everything is bad.
**COFFEE V ALCOHOLIC DRINKS**
Alcohol is not good for the body, because of the damage it will cause to the body, some people do take it for a personal reason, Maybe because of cold or other things. There's no pleasure I will derive from taking alcoholic drinks, certainly, I'm going for a coffee.
**CAR V PHONE**
A car can stay aside, I can live my life without a car, but I don't think I can cope without my phone. A day without my phone will seem as if the world is coming to an end.. don't mind me, I'm just too addicted to my phone, everything about me is inside my phone, I can't choose a car over my phone... hehehehe
**THE BEACH V SNOW**
I don't know how it feels like staying in the snow because, in my own country, there's nothing like Snow, so I will rather go for the one I know... so I'll be choosing the beach.
**TOILET PAPER V TOOTHBRUSH**
It's just a simple thing, I will use water to clean up if I don't see toilet paper, I will be choosing a toothbrush.
**FRUIT V VEGETABLES**
The two are good for their body system, but I will be going for fruit, we have different varieties of fruits I can go for... and all the good part of it, one can also make out juice out from the fruit.
Note:
**there's always an alternative to everything in life, we just have to blend with the things around us. We are human and we must learn how to adapt.**
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Thoughts: conception and feelings
Our mind is very powerful, that's why it's important to reflect on the way we think in every little time we spend because the way we think about ourselves turns into our reality, you'll limit your potential if you make inaccurate judgments about who you are and what you are competent of doing.
The connection between your thoughts, feelings, and behavior.
You are always influenced by feel and how you behave by what you think, Your thoughts are like stimuli for self-perpetuating cycles. So when you think you are a loser, you'll feel like a loser. Then you'll act like one, and this reinforces your conceptions that you must be a loser. When you think you are not good enough, you'll feel discouraged and this will make you put less effort Into what you are doing and the lack of effort will hinder you from making a difference.
Taking this to our social life, when you think that you are socially awkward, you will feel like staying in the corner by yourself when you go out for a social gathering, and no one will speak to you in that corner, this will reinforce your conception that you must be socially awkward.
Your conceptions get reinforced
You are likely to do things when you captivate a conclusion about yourself, always try to look for a positive indication that reinforces your conception and markdown anything that runs contrary to your conception. We should not see every mistake as if we are not good enough. Someone who thinks like a loser will chalk up every success as luck.
Most time, your negative conceptions keep you from attaining your peak, it is not your lack of skill or talent that is holding you back. Optimistic thoughts bring up a positive behavior, and this will increase the chance of a successful result, that is to say, When you create a positive outlook, it will lead you to a better outcome.
Challenging your thoughts
Which label did you place on yourself?
Have you thought and declared yourself as an incompetent person?
Thinking of something within you doesn't make it true, you don't have to allow your conception to limit your ability, the truth is that you can always change how you think by changing your conception.
**A few tips for you**
When your conception wasn't reinforced, try to take note. Remind yourself that your conception isn't always true by admitting exceptions to the rule.
Challenge your conceptions by doing something that will help you to feel worthy if you think you are not good enough. Force yourself to do something that makes you feel uncomfortable, don't label yourself too weak, this will hinder you from stepping out of your comfort zone.
Try to give up those self-hindering potentials and be prepared to reach your greatest aptitude. It is possible when you train your brain to think differently.
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Starting all Over Again
Hello, my lovely readers, hope you are all doing great?
**Sometimes a change is needed to fix up some things in the right way, and hopefully, a positive result will be achieved.**
I don't think I need an introduction because I've been on this platform for almost going to year but I decided to create another account. **You might be wondering why I created another account.** Just like I said initially, the only permanent thing is a change. The account I was using before is @Maryjacy but I seem to find one fault on it, it's nothing but the lack of my earning and when this happens, the enthusiasm for writing will be reduced but in all these, I'm going to cast the blame on myself.
Why?
I use to be active here before and then my account was doing great, Even more than my expectations. but as time goes on, I became so busy that I don't have enough time to be active here as I ought to be, but even that, I still try to do some little things online before going to bed, though I'm not feeling the vibe like before. At a time I wanted to quit but I still have to continue because of my passion for writing.
Gradually, I think my account lost its value and my earnings dropped to the letter, so instead of me giving up, I think about a way of making turning things around again, so I decide on starting all over again irrespective of how long I've built the other account. It might not be easy but I just have made the choice.
My new goals
Though it has never been easy, I just have to motivate myself that no matter the circumstances, I can still do this, gold is easy to get, and life will never be easy, so it's better I pass through the furnace now to achieve what I crave, and I hope with these, I can make a difference.
Make it my priority to post every day
I will try to engage with at least 10-15 posts in a day ( it can be more than that, but just in case I was too busy to engage, at least the target I make will trigger me).
with these things I've mentioned, I believe I will be able to achieve it just for a start, then as time goes on, I'm going to slide in more goals, may God help me. Amen 🙏
What did I figure out in all this?
it's all about consistency. it's is very important if we want to achieve positive results .. consistency is the key to all successful businesses either online or offline and I hope I'm passing a message across to someone.
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