So how's everyone after having a blast yesterday? Are you experiencing a body pain now? Just kidding, rawrrrrrrrrr. Surely a lot had a blast yesterday. As for me, it's just a normal day, really. I just greet Moms a Happy Valentine's Day then kiss them on the cheeks and that's it. See, so what if you're single, what's important is you're alive and still kicking chor haha. But anyways, past is past so let's forget what happen yesterday. Today is a new day and and off course with a different happenings and story hihi.
And because I don't have a topic again today, I'll just try answering these questions that I read to my marengs @Zhyne06 article the other day. It's just a questions about parents. Those experience that we had with them something like that. Like if they are strict to you or they love to compare you to your other siblings. I have story on my own about that so I'd like to also share it. I will start this right away yayy. Wala ng intro intro, Parot Pasok!!! Wait let me copy paste it first, lol.
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What do you want to feel from your parents?
If you will ask me this back when I was just a high school student who doesn't know a thing about life, I will answer this with a big "I WANT THEIR LOVE!! Coz that time, I feel like they don't really love me. They don't care about me and they don't give a damn to what I want. I feel like they just saw me as their daughter because I just happen to be there. But now that I am already an adult, now that I understand what is life, all I want from them is to be strong so that we can still be together for a long time. I know now that they love me, that they care for me and I do too to them. Even though we quarrel sometimes I know, I know that we love each other and that we care. And that's enough for me already.
What do you think is the reason why your parents are strict?
Now that I'm fully grown up woman, I'm not .a mother yet but I know that they just want the best for their child. Just like my Mom. She's really strict to me back then and I really feel mad at her to the point that I resented her. Those times that I can't even enjoy my teenage life because she's a KJ. She doesn't want me to go with my friends to bond with them because if this or that. I don't really know her reason that time. It's like she didn't experience the life of a teenager that shes so strict to me. I want to rebel but I didn't do it. I fear my Mom and that time I think more of my welfare that if I didn't do what she wants I'll be kick out on the house. And so, I just accept all of it and now that I'm an adult, those resentment is all gone. Love is all there is.
Have you ever experienced to be compared by your parents to your siblings?
Hmm, not to my siblings but to my Mom's Partner niece. I am being compared to her that she's like this or like that, a talented girl while I'm not. Duhhhh, I have my own talent, we are 2 different people so duhhh. I am so mad to her that time, I mean to her niece. But that's all in the past now. Even if I get hurt by all of it I'm still okay and it's all in the past now. I already forgot all of it. All I have right now is love for them
What is your dream for your parents?
To give them a happy and comfortable life. I can't do it right now but soon. I'm making a progress naman na on my goal so maybe soon I will be able to do it. I don't want them to stress over small matters and just enjoy life. That's all I want for them. To live in a house with aircon sana. Mom really want that but they are thinking of the electric bills so it's a no for it for now. One of my dream is to have my own house so I will grant wish of mine in that house. An air-conditioned house where I Mom can live comfortably.
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Yes very nice ..right dear mother duty is so strick ..follow your mom and help them and care about them