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I'm a just now visiting my read.cash and it's now past 5pm. My Saturday is a general and yard cleaning day, and also movie time in the middle of my chores.While enjoying some time off, I staggered on an old You Tube video which gone viral when it was first shown a couple of years prior.
This was a one of the scenes of the popular Series 90 Day Fiance starring Larry (American) and Jenny (Filipina). It turned out to be so famous on account of Jenny's "You're Road" remark against her life fiance Larry. I'm certain all of you have seen it and in case not, here's the video.
Watch and let me know what's your opinion on the response of Jenny (the girlfriend) and her family against Larry (American guy) who doesn't eat roasted pig.
There's a lot I could say about both the Filipina and the American guy in a harsh way. I'm curious though how Filipinos (and foreigners as well) feel about his not wanting to eat this special lechon meal (roasted pig) that was made just for him.
Was he rude?
Do they have a right to be upset?
Should they understand the cultural differences?
Did she (girlfriend) take time to find out what he likes?
Did he (American boyfriend) consider researching life in the Philippines, particularly in the province?
He should have been prepared for damn near anything. Also, I think the girlfriend should've asked the American boyfriend first before they set it up because I'd comprehend the person not encountering on having roasted pig previously.
So okay, 90% of the world eats pork, probably didn't cross their mind the method of preparation. The ideal situation would have been both educating themselves regarding cultural differences and talk about it.
"Maybe" (my opinion) Larry just has a weak personality. People who communicate well know how to turn down food without being disrespectful. People who are adventurous would take a bite. And he doesn't like it after one bite, then he can say NO! He just didn't know how to deal with it.
Cultural differences is an art.
Communication is a skill.
They sort of lacked both.
Just a short commercial break. My husband is also American city boy born and raised in Las Vegas, Nevada. He's been here in the Philippines and stayed for 6 years. During that period of time here when pigs see him, they run. He's always the first at the table grabbing the best crispy skins lol. And he goes, "If I die, I'll be smiling with a mouthful of lechon!". Silly white boy lmao. He has tasted frogs, jumping salad (raw shrimp salad) and most Ilocano veggie dishes like pinakbet. I noted pinakbet(mixed veggies in fish sauce) because he's not a big veggie mix guy.He doesn't like the bitter veggie (ampalaya/bittergourd) which is my daughter's favorite. He would not react as what Larry did though. He would say "NO, Thank You" in a heartbeat if he doesn't like the food or something you have offered.
A Little Lechon History In The Philippines
When we talk about lechon, this is one of our best food in the Philippines. Filipinos would consistently favor hosting lechon in their gatherings and social affair. In a family assembly, a birthday celebration, or in any occasions, lechon is constantly served on the table. Lechon is also consistently present in feasts and in thanksgiving.
Its name brings an unmatched cheer among Filipino visitors, and its essence quite often ensures a merry air. In the event that you drop in on huge social affairs in the Philippines or among Filipinos, from birthday events to celebrations or holidays, weddings to Christmas parties, it is practically sure that you will see it in plain view at the focal point of the table. So don't be surprised, my foreign friends.
Now, going back the main topic (Larry and Jenny), what is your opinion about what happened in the video? (link posted above).
I'd love to hear your thoughts. Please no racism. No insults. No bullying. Thank you everyone. I am now hungry lol. Good afternoon to all and I hope you're enjoying your weekend.
One love,
and I am a member of #ClubBrokeBCH
October 16, 2021
05:35 pm
Philippines
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Hahaha it became a meme during that time. I agree they should know the likes and dislikes of one another, it is free to ask anyway, but their story gave us a funny story.