And I wonder if I crossed your mind
Do you guys still remember me?
I've been writing here for a few months or years before I got back to work. This community has been my support system since I gave birth. I met awesome, wonderful souls. Cousin @Lucifer01 is my FB friend.
I am glad that most of you are still here, and I apologize for leaving. Do you know that from time to time I think of the people behind read. cash? The friendship and bond that you guys have developed here go beyond the virtual world.
Update about my life: I am now going 3 years strong with Accenture, and I am so grateful for my company. No company is perfect, but I like ACN's leadership. I have been promoted as Senior Analyst and will be groomed for a leadership role. My efforts have not been wasted! I was acknowledged for my valuable contribution to the company.
My role as an Integration Consultant is very challenging, and I love that I learn every day. It's always a survival mode; I had to grasp information right away, otherwise, I had to learn slowly. Ha ha. It's actually fine, I am just OC when it comes to delivery. I've always been OC with deadlines and stuff. Who isn't?
If you read this post, please feel free to drop a line. Comment on how you've been, alright?
Cheers!
Glessa
I got a flu a day before my birthday and I was excited to go to the mall but I ended up staying at home. I pushed myself to work for 2 days and felt sicker. I have rested and will go to work later despite cough and colds
Hi guys, am so glad that you are still thriving here! I miss this community!
Hello! Been so long since I've been on this platform. I'm glad that this website has not been shut down!
Life made fun of me!
**Hello girls and boys of read.cash universe! How are you all doing? I miss this account- my first love in everything about BCH.**
When I went on hiatus in this account, I also had detox in noise.cash. I am just so busy with my toddler. She has this 2 M watt of energy and I couldn't keep up. Einstein help! Oh no, not you Einstein...Tesla help! It's an S.O.S! Not save my ship, it means to save our savings lol. Not earning the way before definitely placed me in a hot spot.
I recently joined a gig and just waiting for some developments- I discovered another earning website called Course Hero. It's a website where you can tutor or answer students' assignments. The time is flexible and the earnings are great. I tried applying this afternoon but I didn't complete it because I was busy. And one of the requirements is the transcript of records so I took it and asked my partner to take photos of my TOR. Man, I realized how hard it was to get those grades on my major subjects. Sweat and blood, literally. And I feel sad that I am not practicing the course that I worked so hard to attain. Computer Science is definitely not an easy course. I had a lot of Math- from College Algebra to Analytic Geometry, Statistics, Discrete Math, etc. I also had Physics, Electromagnetism, Chemistry, major Programming Languages and I was laughing to myself- where did all the knowledge go?
Where were those moments when I woke up at 2 or 3 AM just to browse my notes? By the way, since I started my major subjects I didn't most of my minor subjects seriously. I was already happy to get a 2.0 but to those subjects that I love, I definitely did my best. Not getting 1.0 was okay for me as long as I know I gave my all. For my major subjects- there were times I was given 3.50 and 2.75 because of my carelessness. I loved Probability and Statistics but I got 3.5o because of cheer dance! I didn't attend most of our Stat classes because I was the president and I had to be with the team all of the time. And the 2.75 came from my Work Experience or OJT subject because I missed our 1 and only quiz- no one will be left in the office (when I was a student assistant). Because of those 2 grades, I didn't qualify for the Cum Laude award as suggested by the Dean of Student Affairs. I still graduated with 6 awards in college but my parents could have been prouder if I got the CL. Sigh...
I am feeling nostalgic- sorry my friends. My TOR said that my graduation day was March 30 and the anniversary's coming up in the next few days. Reminiscing all the challenges I went through just to finish college.
Cleaning the computer rooms
Assisting Computer Science freshmen students in their laboratory work
My secretarial and admin roles
My nanny tasks
Going home late and waking up early
The belittlement and the insults of some students
The accusation that I stole a phone
And now, as I am typing this...I still have no job because I had a baby 2 years ago, no savings, full of debt...But I know it's gonna change soon, God willing. I am bitter, not to anyone, but to myself...How could I let this happen to me? Life has made fun of me!
Life, let's have fun together. I don't want you to laugh alone, laugh with me. I have dreams to fulfill and goals to reach- be kind to me. I have kids to support- bear with me. I have my own visions- dream with me. Don't let me go as I have faith in you.
I wanna show my grades in college, you know, but I am already tired. I'm gonna call it a day. Maybe one day, I am gonna tell you about Compiler Design, Data Communication, or Integral Calculus..Char...
I am a bit frustrated, yes but I know I have the choice to do whatever I want and make the most of my life. I want to live, not just breathe. I appreciate your encouragement and advice.
Thanks for reading and please take care!
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Fun things to do and see in Gate 1!
Banaba St. is just one of the streets of Amparo Subdivision where we live. It is just a jeepney ride away from SM Fairview and Ayala Fairview Terraces. It is near Lagro, Quezon City, and the famous La Mesa Dam. We experience cold temperatures from time to time as a benefit of being near the dam. Banaba Street is part of Gate 1.
When Bam was still in kindergarten, we usually go to our favorite grocery store, the 179 Grocery. It was one of the establishments where you can shop and have some snacks but everything changed when the pandemic started and the construction of the MRT-7 has taken place.
Our vicinity has now a livelier vibe. It started to attract people and businesses. More food shops, grocery stores, medical services were opened. Now we find it more enjoyable to see people on the street. Should you wish to visit our place, here are the things that you can do:
**Eat or food trip**
Yup, we have several shops that offer sumptuous food to fill your hungry like unlimited chicken wings, burgers, and fries, Shawarma, milk tea and nachos, pizza, etc. My family and I had our New Year snack in one of the food shops and my daughters enjoyed the fries and the drinks. Eating is number 1 on my list because you know, food is life. And just yesterday, another cafe opened called Food Crib. It's just a few meters from our house.
We also ate in the Shawarma food house, we got the promo: buy 1 take 1. The Shawarmas were a bit small so wanted more but there's no budget anymore.
Walking/Jogging
**Dudey and Saoirse.**
If you walk around Gate 1, you will see that it is being surrounded by huge trees. Their cool air and shade make walking or jogging pleasurable. We don't have parks near the area to just sit down and standby though, maybe someday. Our favorite street to walk in is Bangkal Street where Bam's kindergarten school is located. It is adjacent to Banaba. I love Bangkal Street because it has a peaceful neighborhood and a cooler environment.
Biking
**Bam and her friend.**
Since we are not on the main highway and the road is concrete, it is safer for kids to bike. My daughter Bam bikes every afternoon. If she doesn't want to bike, she scoots around the neighborhood and have fun with her friends.
Shopping
7/11 image source https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=3134492439991686&set=p.3134492439991686
Aside from the 179 All Stop Shop, we now have the Korean Store, Alfamart, and 7/11. 7/11 is Saoirse's favorite because it is the only shop that has an ATM machine. She already knows that she'll have a treat after I go inside the store. But Alfamart offers good products at a cheaper price. It is a little distant from our place but going there is hitting two birds with one stone: we could exercise and save.
Car wash services
Image source https://www.facebook.com/179mainstreat/photos/pcb.1143824766119621/1143824386119659
One of the areas called Main Streat not only offers food to its customers but also car washing. Why not have a snack while waiting for the washing to finish? It also has a live band from time to time. There are also other car wash services in the area but the one on Main Street is the most well-known.
Salons or beauty parlors
We have several salons in Gate 1. Just go to the main highway and you can choose from the cheapest to the most expensive service. I usually go for a haircut and pedicure and I plan to have highlights and a foot spa when my wallet permits. I'm dying for a foot massage but the salons that offer the service are full most of the time. I will keep on trying though.
Swimming
Casabriella image source https://www.facebook.com/CasaBriella/photos/a.109354157141744/656116782465476
Yes, we have resorts in Gate 1. We sometimes report them though for too much noise. We are just a meter away from one of the swimming pool resorts called Casabriella and we could hear people shouting and singing so loudly in the evening even until 12:00 AM. We understand that we also need to enjoy but disturbing people in the wee hour of the day is a different thing.
Medical clinics and diagnostic services
I am happy that we are near the Accucheck clinic, we can just go there and see if there is an available doctor whenever someone's not feeling well. They also have laboratories which make it more convenient. They have a clean, well-maintained space. There is also another clinic that opened somewhere along the road nearer us. I am pretty sure they will have a lot of patients when it is fully operational.
Gate 1 might not be as luxurious and organized as other places in Caloocan or Metro Manila but I am starting to like and appreciate it because I do feel that my kids are safer. I will be glad to show you around someday.
While writing this article, my Saoirse cried thinking she was alone. I placed my laptop just millimeters away from the desk fan so my eyes got wider when I saw the fan's grill almost hitting my laptop's monitor. And the air became cooler- I just stared at the desk and exhaust fans wishing I could adjust them.
Moms should be given the power of telekinesis so we won't burden anybody to do stuff for us while we are holding or nursing the babies.
Anyways, that's all for tonight or today, my friends.
Thank you for everything. I am hanging on tightly.
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February 27, 2022
Cheers,
©jasglaybam
I pray.
When I type this letter, I am at peace with the ones I love
I pray that Ukraine will be at peace, sooner or later
I see my children soundly sleeping with their favorite pillows
I pray that the kids in Ukraine will be able to do as well
Sounds of bombs and guns, the sound of death and fear
How one can sleep when they know the end might be near
I pray that God will touch your hearts, oh dear leaders of both countries
Waging and winner wars will not benefit any of you
I pray, that the angels protect the homes of our dear friends
May they be saved from destruction, damage, and death
I could only pray and hope that no more lives be lost
Peace, love, friendship, freedom, treaty these I so choose
I pray for the soldiers who bravely defend their country
Who are the pawns of each political party
I could only pray and hope for the best
I am not sure whether my mind will be fully at rest
The war will not heal your soul, oh oppressor
It is through music, love, peace, and unity
One day, I pray that justice will serve you
In front of the Highest, the Lord Almighty
The horror, the trembling, the fear of those children
The cries, the weeping, wailing of the women
The father and sons who left their families and parents
Tears, blood, death, pain in the end
I pray for world peace, for me and you
I pray, I pray, what more could I do?
I send my love and light to the universe
I pray I am praying I will pray and it'll matter
Dear read. cash friends,
I hope you are all doing well today. I am publishing this article just to humbly ask you for a minute of your time. **Please include world peace in your prayers. We only do not need to pray for Ukraine alone but for all the world. Heartfelt prayer is what we need right now.**
I have experienced war and it wasn't easy. Those sleepless nights, the loss of power, the gunfires, the sound of sirens. We are lucky that we are sleeping and living peacefully. Let's share our love and light with Ukraine and the world.
Thank you and be safe.
Respectfully,
©jasglaybam
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February 26, 2022
BCH is now accepted in Fairview Terraces!
I needed to go to Fairview Terraces to buy some clothes for my daughters. I am so happy that their aunt sent us an extra money for shopping. And when I go out, I only bring 22 pesos with me. Kasi po mahilig ako magtricycle. Sayang din kasi ang 44 pesos- 2o pesos papunta at 24 pesos pabalik. Di pa kasama ang pamasahe papunta sa Fairview Terraces at pabalik. If nagShopee ako, shipping fee na yun di ba? May sobra pa.
Pero 22 pesos ang dinadala ko kasi pagsakto lang, baka di ako makauwi pag nagkulang ng piso.
"*Mama, sa Fairview Terraces po galing Gate 1*", I told the driver. When I checked my pocket, I only brought my smartphone with me. "Oh no! I didn't bring the cash with me". I said to myself.
I guess it's okay. I have my smartphone, I can use my extra money in my coins.ph wallet. I will just convert some BCH into pesos and use Gcash.
The mall has changed a lot since the pandemic. There are new shops and restaurants. The entrance is more beautiful because it has more ornamental flowers. Everyone did become plantitos and plantitas for the past 2 years, including the malls.
The first cafe that you will see in Terraces is **Starbucks**. Something caught my eye, I see a **BCH logo**! Kinabahan ako, "What is the meaning of this?", I said to myself. I went near the cafe and I was right, they are now **accepting BCH as payment**. Wow! First ime ko maexperience ito. So I went inside and ask the staff, "*Miss, totoo ba 'to? Tumatanggap na kayo ng cryptocurrency?*", sabi nya, "*Opo Ma'am, pero BCH lang po muna kasi matataas po yung gas fees ng ibang crypto eh, lugi ang mga customer*". I am so happy with her response. So I bought Avian water from them with my coins.ph wallet.
Fast, easy, hassle-free transaction. Mind-blowing.
My heart was already singing. So I went inside the department store and began to search for clothes for Bam and Saoirse. I only needed some casual clothes or "*pambahay* and *pantulog*" for them. Bam has already outgrown most of her clothes. Could you believe that her house clothes are 3-4 years already? That's why I wanted to buy the same brand of clothes because they are worth the price. I chose purple, pink, and red pairs for my girls. I went to the cashier and ask if they accept Gcash just to see that familiar logo again. "***Miss, ang mall tumatanggap na din ng BCH***?", I asked the cashier. "*Yes, Ma'am. Mga isang buwan pa lang po. May mga nagbabayad gamit ang* ***BCH through coins.ph***". I am so happy upon hearing her confirmation because I don't have to convert my BCH into pesos, pay the cash-out fee, and experience buy-back loss. So I immediately paid them using my BCH wallet. There was a dedicated line for crypto payments so I didn't have to queue. Wheeww. I can't wait to tell my partner about this amazing experience. I am excited to post this on FB and in Noise.cash when I'm home.
Before I go home, I decided to have some snacks because I can already hear my stomach growling. I went to **Tokyo Tokyo** because I missed the shrimp shawarma bento. Yup, it is my favorite Tokyo Tokyo menu. It's really worth it, you know, for less than 300 PHP I have a complete meal. And they too, **accept BCH**. Goodness, this is definitely one of the best developments during the pandemic. My tummy is content after burping.
I took several selfies during my payment using my BCH wallet. I connected to the mall's Wi-fi. I don't wanna wait anymore, I wanna tell the world that I got one of the best shopping experiences in my life. But something is happening with my phone..I think its battery life is almost drained! This is a nightmare, "*Bad trip, ano ba to! Kulang kelan...Hayysst...*"...I was talking with myself when...
"*Ate, ate sukli daw po*", the passenger in a blue T-shirt called my attention. Oh... We are stuck in a traffic jam. How long have I been daydreaming? Ah..The mall is just a few meters away. I think it's better to walk rather than wait longer.
"*Para po! Sa tabi na lang po.*", I politely told the driver as I go down from the jeepney.
Nadali kayo, ano po? It's just one of my hopes that one day, shops and stores will accept BCH as payment method. Given the chance I will have my own business, I'd gladly embrace BCH payments. The Philippines already is keeping up with the trend regarding cryptocurrencies but it's still conservative. Come on Pinas, you can do it!
Just serving you with one of my fantasies for today, my friends. I hope you are all doing well.
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February 24, 2022
System Analysis and Design made easy!
Happy Hump Day, my friends!
I was too excited about the dream catcher as a birthday gift for Bam so we gave it to her in advance. She was so happy. She placed it over her head but the tape was too weak that it fell. Good thing she wasn't hurt. She will be 8 years old on the 1st of March. Kids grow so fast, really. And please don't tell her that you know she has a crush already. She said she might blush. Lol.
And when she asked me who is my favorite, I told her that they are my favorites. She is my favorite ate and Saoirse is my favorite bunso. Fair enough, right?
**Talking about favorite, can you still remember your favorite subject?**
System Analysis and Design is one of my favorite subjects in Computer Science because I love improving things, whether a process or physical stuff. It is one of the subjects that I enjoyed the most, despite it being challenging and time-consuming.
System Analysis and Design, otherwise known as SAD is one of the fundamentals of creating systems, apps, websites, etc.
Why do we need to use SAD?
It can be used for personal or business purposes to create a new system or improve an existing one
It teaches us the proper way of system creation and implementation
It saves us time and effort in designing a system
What are the steps of System Analysis and Design?
**Hypothesis**- This is when you think about what project or system you're going to do or how you can improve an existing system. This also includes the scope and limitations of the study or project.
**Data gathering**- The stage where you gather data to support your proposal. The data should be coming from those who are directly affected by the existing system.
For example, you want to improve a school's registration system
You have to interview the registrar's office first on what challenges they are facing with the current system. You can either do a recorded interview or give them a questionnaire. The benefit of the written interview is you can submit it in the documentation and you can use statistics and give factual data about the system's issues and problems.
The interview should have a deadline so you are following through with the project's timeline.
**Data interpretation**- The part where you make calculations on how the existing system is performing and how it affects the productivity of the people using it. It can also impact the overall financial status of a business.
**System improvisation and proposal**- After interpreting the data, you have to provide the steps on how to improve the existing system or what your new system is. You have to be specific about the benefits of your proposal to convince the people who are using the existing system.
**Semantics**- This is the step-by-step process of how the new system should be coded or programmed into the computer. This will help you track the system's errors when running the program. You can easily make a correction and document all the steps you've taken about the project.
There is also a need to use Use-Case diagrams to show the relationships between entities and the objects including their functions and limitations.
**Coding/Programming**- This is the technical part of the project. A system can be programmed using different programming languages. There are two types of programming:
*For the front-end or the graphical user interface- This is what you see every time you see the app or the system. It is the "face or looks" of every program. In websites, the front-end can be designed using Javascript and HTML, CSS, etc.*
*For the back-end or the database part of the program- It can be Access, SQL, Python, or any other database programming language.*
**Implementation and Feedback 1st round**- When the new or improvised system is done, it will be run for the first time. The programmers and the system analyst will then check if it is implemented according to its purpose. The user testers will use the system and will provide feedback about how it looks and how easy it is to manage and navigate. Depending on the feedback, the system can either be improved or a new one needs to be created.
**Final implementation**- This is the last stage where everything is officially implemented. The program works and that all the requirements have been met and the business approves it.
System Analysis and Design is easy, you just need to focus and ask the relevant questions to gain deeper understanding about the subject. You also need to be resourceful about it. Believe me, once you get used to it, you will enjoy it as well. And do you know that those who are good in this subject can create different systems and earn a lot?
I know you have experienced doing some research as a college student. Did you have a subject like System Analysis in Design? Did you like it? Did you make a system and how did it go? Let's talk about your experience, my friend.
**Disclaimer:** **All the content about System Analysis and Design are based on my understanding. Any mistakes and corrections are welcome and the intention of this article is to provide the basic understanding about the subject not a professional instruction.**
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February 22, 2022
Ps. Happy Birthday Mama Edna in heaven. I love you, please forgive me, thank you, and I miss you!
Ay, ano yun? Biglang nagred yung notif ko...Thank you so much sis @Bloghound sa pagrenew ng iyong suporta at pagtitiwala. Pagpalain ka nawa :)
Starting all over again- you deserve a second chance!
Break-ups
You are alone again. You wake up with the other half of the bed empty. You eat alone, wash the dishes alone, shower alone.
You feel that familiar pain in your heart when you open your eyes. You curse the sun for shining or your heart for beating. Sometimes you'd say "I wish I was dead!". It's just too much for you.
But aren't you glad that you're still alive? What was your previous relationship like? Was it perfect or toxic? Either way, do you believe that you should be together forever? Are you really meant to be?
Because in life I learned something: if that person is not for you, then it will never be. But if it is meant for you, any temporary separation will not last long. And you will, in the end, be reunited. That I trust. That I know. The question is, are you willing to wait? Or are you going to move on and let go?
You deserve to start again without that person- should you opt to move on. A fresh and new beginning is a blessing. You got something to hold on to which is your fond memories. But when the time comes that destiny brings you back together with your old flame, go on. Embrace your past, continue where you left off. Follow your heart and your bliss.
Losing or leaving a job and searching for a new one
I experienced losing a job. I was afraid because I didn't know what to do because I have a kid to feed. But I trust that I can make it, I can go through the ordeal. I prayed that I won't struggle too much and I have faith that what happened to me is a blessing in disguise.
It was because I became sickly when I was still working. The loss of my job gave me the chance to recuperate. I had more time to rest, sleep, eat, talk to my friends, get in touch with my family.
And I started job hunting again. I was excited. I searched for the companies that had job openings for the position that I like. I prepared for the interviews. I made it.
My new job is easier than the previous one. The people were friendlier.
Losing or leaving a job isn't all that bad. Separate your emotions and you will be able to see them from a different angle. Perhaps this time you will get your dream job, or the offer will be more competitive, you will get better benefits, etc. It is not the end rather a beginning of a new adventure.
Moving into a new place
When you get so familiar and comfortable with the environment and the people around you, moving into a new place might not be the best idea.
You got to deal with new people, unfamiliar and unfriendly most of the time. You will need to figure out whom to trust and not. You got to find out who will be your new friend. If this person is tidy or you're gonna wash that dishes again. Or if you live alone, if the neighbors are friendly and considerate, or are you going to hear that loud karaoke, fighting, etc. It's not a good experience to start with but- who knows?
Go out, try to meet the neighbor, take a walk outside, there might be a park or a place where you could get fresher air. Maybe it is nearer to the mall, grocery store, hospital, food store, or a police station.
Why you shouldn't be afraid to start again?
Because you deserve it, dear, just like everybody else.
You are definitely wiser, stronger, more determined to do the right thing.
Your experiences made you a better person.
Positive change will only happen if you apply a positive attitude.
The Universe, God, or the Higher Power got your back- trust and have faith.
My final thoughts
We always hear that change is the only constant thing in this world. We may not be comfortable with it but do we have a choice? Starting all over again is also a part of the process of change- do it for the best, if not, for the better. If you can't do it in one go, then do the baby steps. Do it gradually, do a little bit more every day, and one day you'll realize you've already succeeded without even knowing it.
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**Hello, my friends! I missed you**. I haven't been on hiatus for such a long time but it feels like forever. Writing has always been one of my passions, not publishing an article is like not drinking water. Though I have read and commented on some articles, it is really different sharing your own experience for the day.
I was busy today, my eldest, Bam moved into our room again because my partner needs a dedicated space for his job searching and stuff. And I am currently having a stomach ache because I ate a lot of sushi yesterday, it must be the yummy mayonnaise. I wish I took a photo so you will see how gloriously many they were.
I am happy to see my girls in one room.
I greatly appreciate your support guys. And if you are new to my page and you liked what you've read- you may click that "Subscribe" button so you will be notified whenever I publish new stories.
Thank you very much!
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February 22, 2022
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I wanna give up but someone keeps on believing in me. In fact, I have a new sponsor and 145 subscribers. How could I let you down my friends? I can't.. So I will continue my journey here come what may. But lessons learned. I'm gonna be very careful next time.
And for that, I wanna thank my newest sponsor @LeticiaFelize- you gave me hope and strength to go on, my friend. To the rest of my sponsors- thank you so much!
My dear Rajpoot and dear Eliana, thank you for the sponsorship renewal. To Zain- thank you for the support. More blessings to each one of you!
Good evening or good morning rather my dear friends in read.cash!
I am just gonna have some detox for a day or two.
I apologize if I couldn't upvote your articles, the past few days have been a drought in my wallet.
Have a great weekend guys!
Uh oh, Rusty has not visited me during the past 24 hours. Is someone out there who has the same experience?
My top 8 personal romantic date ideas and gestures.
Hello, my dear read friends! I can't help my excitement on the 14th because it is not only Valentine's Day but my daughter's 1.8 years on this Earth. And since BCH is on an upward trend which I prayed will stay like that for long, I am planning to buy her sneakers and socks. I already added them to my cart, just waiting for the perfect timing to check them out :D
And since I am a romantic person, die-hard indeed, I will share my top personal romantic ideas and gestures with you. I am a practical person, splitting the bill is okay with me. But I did experience an ex who pretended to pay for our food because we were with our team and then asked me for my share when we were alone lol. Minus "pogi" points.
You wanna impress me? Here are what I find romantic:
Holding hands while walking
I love to hold hands, it's not that I am too clingy. I just love feeling the person right next to me. It's like when I hold hands with the person I love, I feel secure and protected. It doesn't matter where we are.
Date in a cafe
I do enjoy talking and getting to know someone over a cup of coffee. I don't like an overcrowded cafe like Starbucks though. I want a relaxed environment where the two of you can just sit down without thinking of distractions. I remember the cafe we passed by when we were horse riding in Baguio. It was beside a cliff. It looked elegant and peaceful. I'd love to visit it one day.
Dinner date
I like trying different kinds of food except for the exotic ones and having a dinner date is a plus to me. If you are good with what's new around the city and you invite me to check if the food is worth the visit, then I'll like you. Just tell me if you can't pay the bill, I'd be happy to split. My last dinner date was in a restaurant on Ayala Avenue, it was on New Year's Eve. I tasted the most delicious mushroom pizza in my life. I was surprised that it was more delicious when it got cold.
Staycation on a beach or a mountain resort
Do you like going to the beach and watching the sunset? It would be great if we could walk on the seashore while holding hands and look at the horizon together. Nothing beats a good talk on a beach while staring at the starry sky. Or perhaps in a mountain resort, or somewhere high like Tagaytay or Baguio. As long as it's a stress-free date outside the Metro, I am good with it.
Receiving flowers
Now, what are my favorite flowers? The top 1 is Hibiscus, then rose, then carnation. I love receiving flowers in general because I love planting and gardening. I believe that a man who also likes flowers is more romantic than those who don't appreciate them.
Receiving chocolates
Did your date refuse your chocolates? Give them to me instead! I love chocolates, especially dark ones. I don't have anything in particular. I even had Lala, local chocolate from Batangas, if I am right.
Walking or dancing in the rain
It is one of the most romantic moments a couple can do. I love the rain, its serenity, its pureness, the calmness it brings. Wouldn't it be romantic if you dance with your special someone with the raindrops as your background? While you're hugging to the rhythm of the rain, staring at each other, listening to each other's heartbeats.
Receiving love letters
I only had one love letter way back in high school. The rest of the declaration of love to me was through SMS or email lol. Reading a love letter really flatters a woman. The effort, the emotions a man puts into his letter is more special than an SMS or email. It is something that a woman can keep forever and can share with her grandchildren. A treasure that she can be proud of. I'd like to receive more love letters lol. If that is still possible.
After my hot confessions my friends, I am now sharing with you my romantic side. I only put the top 8 because I believe that the number 8 is a lucky number lol.
How about you? How romantic are you? What are your romantic date ideas and gestures? Share them below and let's get giddy together.
To everyone: THANK YOU VERY MUCH AND ADVANCE HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!
Love,
Glessa
P.S. I wanna steal Cupid's arrow. Who's up for an adventure with me?
And yep, let us keep our fingers crossed that our dear BCH will go to the moon!
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February 8, 2022
20 random hot stuff on a manic Monday!
This article is dealing with mature content, parental guidance is strictly recommended. Char...
I guess we are all legal here, right? I hope so because this is not "for kids".
I hope you are all doing great, my dear read friends. I am typing this now while my other arm is swollen. We don't know any "hilot" or masseuse here who can fix my arm, I hope it will heal on its own. If you have suggestions on how to take care of my painful arm, I'd greatly appreciate it.
And I apologize if I didn't upvote and commented on some articles. I had to make sure I am not overusing my fingers and my arm.
I was reading an article published by a dear friend @Jelena sorry for tagging you, my dear. It was kind of intriguing hehe and I got challenged by the questions. I am a little conservative and it's awkward to open up a little bit my kinky side. But hey, who doesn't have one? And this is gonna be just for fun. So let's begin.
**Would you rather always initiate sex or have a “needing” partner?**
I don't always initiate it, I am the "needing" one but I do send some signals when I am "into" it.
**Would you rather have kinky sex or romantic sex?**
Can I have both? But if I got to choose one, it will be romantic. I don't "make love out of nothing at all".
**Would you rather** ****go on a romantic getaway together**** **or go on a short vacation by yourself?** https://www.scarymommy.com/spotted/best-romantic-mountain-cabin-getaways/
Can I be selfish this time? I want to go on a short vacation by myself. It refreshes my mind and my soul, it revigorates me, and it makes me happy.
**Would you rather have** ****car sex**** **or** ****shower sex******?** https://www.scarymommy.com/how-to-have-sex-in-a-car/ https://www.scarymommy.com/shower-sex/
I haven't tried car sex and I am afraid that the police might knock on the door. The shower is safer.
**Would you rather we** ****sext**** **or** ****Zoom sex******?** https://www.scarymommy.com/sexting-examples/ https://www.scarymommy.com/skype-sex/
I like we sext because I like imagining things. If you want to turn me on, the first spot for you to go is my mind.
**Would you rather bring food into the bedroom or props?**
I like eating after doing it. I don't like a lot of props, I like chocolate and other sweets to be put on the body and you know what's next.
**Would you rather cover me in edible body paint or have me wear edible undergarments?**
I would prefer edible undergarments, I might get hungry, and having something to "eat" is nice.
**Would you rather get a tattoo with my name in a secret spot or get matching tattoos?**
I want to put a lover's name in a secret spot so I could have it erased when we are no longer together. Matching tattoos for me is so high school, like matching socks, T-shirts, etc. Sorry. It might be cool and romantic for other people.
**Would you rather know my romantic fantasy or tell me yours?**
I wanna know your romantic fantasy, who knows I might be able to fulfill them?
**Would you rather be blindfolded or have me wear the blindfold?**
I want to be blindfolded. Not seeing anything and not knowing what happens next, excites me.
**Would you rather have someone who is** ****vocal in bed**** **or who likes to keep it in?** https://www.scarymommy.com/erotic-quotes/
I want to have someone vocal in the bed because I need to know whether I am doing the right thing or not.
**Would you rather be snowed in with your crush or lay on the beach with your crush?**
I love the beach so I would lay on the beach with a crush because it's more romantic.
**Would you rather go watch a movie or go watch the sunset?**
I would rather watch the sunset because I have a lot of good memories with it. I also feel happy and hopeful, sunsets promise a better tomorrow.
**Would you rather kiss me in public or kiss me in private?**
Kissing in public is nice but I am shy so I want to kiss privately.
**Would you rather let your spouse date your best friend or your arch enemy?**
I would let my spouse date my best friend so he would also enjoy, why would I choose an arch enemy?
**Would you rather be with a jealous hardworking partner or a lazy but trusting partner?**
I don't like a jealous person because it's annoying and childish for me, I would like a lazy but trusting partner. Would you like someone who wants you to check in all the time, ask whom you're with, what time you're going home, etc?
**Would you rather have a lover who’s obsessed with pets or hates pets?**
I love pets, I want someone who's obsessed with pets because it speaks a lot about his character. I am not sure how obsessed he should be though.
**Would you rather date someone with no emotions or date a compulsive liar?**
I have been with a compulsive liar, and been with a friend who seemed to be a robot. Both were bad, but I'd rather have that boring person than be with someone who lies because if he does lie compulsively, he definitely does cheat too.
**Would you rather** ****fall in love**** **with someone who’s allergic to all your favorite food, or someone who makes embarrassing dad jokes?** https://www.scarymommy.com/am-i-in-love/
Aw, I would rather fall in love with someone who makes embarrassing dad jokes. Atleast he is trying his best to make me laugh. Corny jokes are silly and funny.
**Would you rather follow your heart or your head while making important decisions about your love life?**
If I want to make the right decisions about my love life, I rather use my because the heart is blinded when it is in love- all it's logical reasoning definitely gone down the drain.
It is fun answering these random questions, I wish I could answer all of those but I might expose myself too much lol. If you want to share some of your naughty side too, my friends, here is the link: https://www.scarymommy.com/dirty-would-you-rather-questions/
I hope everyone's safe and sound. Have a Happy Monday!
Love,
Glessa
To all my sponsors, subscribers, commenters,upvoters: THANK YOU VERY MUCH!
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February 7, 2022
5 reasons why I wanna decrease my sugar intake! 🍞🥞🍕🍰🥤
Happy Sunday, my dear friends in this wonderful read dot cash universe :) I am so glad that everyone here is on their road to success. It is really true that if one perseveres, learns, and be determined, and has the dedication, success is just around the corner.
You can achieve your goal, believing in yourself is the first step. True or true?
I know I have listed some of my goals for the year and one of them is having a healthier lifestyle. I haven't started even one yet! Yeah, punish me if you must. But the other day, we went out to buy some treats and I had a cheat day (Every day is a cheat day for me lol) I bought a donut for myself. I felt something weird after eating it, I got dizzy and I felt sleepy, and some other sensations I couldn't describe. I could hear my conscience shouting at me, "See? I told you so!". So I'm gonna state the reasons why I had to cut the sugar off.
The need to control my weight
Artificial sugars and sweeteners can make us fat if they're not being burnt and since I don't walk a lot or exercise, I am fat and I am sad about it. I am not yet obese, thank goodness but I will be anytime soon. I think it's gonna be a farewell to the cake, Milo drink, iced tea, soft drinks, and ice cream. But how could I live without them?
For better health
Having a normal weight according to my height is healthy. I am a small woman, don't ask how small but I can't be like 60 kilos! I have to cut the sugar off or I might experience symptoms- if I am not having it already, of diabetes. I looked at my neck and armpit, they kind of get a little darker, a sign that my sugar is high. I had to act fast.
To bring my confidence back
I never had a decent pic or a selfie since I gained a lot of weight. I feel so ugly. Sweating during running or jogging makes me feel sexy and beautiful, now I am just a bitter, ugly woman with a big baby pouch. I am proud of my pouch but not the extra layers of fat. Imagine, I could no longer fit some of my clothes. How could I be confident?
So I could finally take a selfie
I love taking selfies from time to time, but how could I do that showing my double chin? Or my big tummy? I want to feel younger, fresh, and healthy but indulging in too much sugar's a hindrance to those dreams. Take me back to my sweet, old, sexy me lol.
To be happier
Being fat with all of these chronic pains every day is torture and to be honest, I am kind of depressed. Perhaps having a healthier lifestyle will free me from this misery. I do think I can still eat sweets but in moderation and remember what I want to achieve to be happier and confident again.
I wanna have a body like this again, my friends. I wanna wear a dress again. I did eat a lot of sweets on this occasion but I didn't add more weight because I walk my way to work.
I need discipline and the determination to really achieve my dream bod. Do you think I can do it? How about you? Have you started living a healthier lifestyle- eating consciously and exercising? I hope you did, if not, it's not too late to start :)
Have a great weekend, my friends! Do something silly or adventurous today.
Love,
Glessa
To my awesome sponsors, subscribers, commenters, upvoters- THANK YOU ALL, VERY MUCH!
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February 6, 2022
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Hello, my dear friends. Please meet my newest sponsor @Saadaziz120...I am humbled that he chose to put his trust on me.
Thank you!
It has been more than 3 years!
How are you, my dear read friends?
I was daydreaming, or shall I say, recalling the past and I just realized, there were a lot of things that I have missed. You know, pre-pandemic and stuff. Ever since I live with my partner, to be honest, some parts of me have been locked away. When you live with other people, the freedom is no longer the same, I had to adjust and consider my actions. Not that I want to impress them, I just want to show I respect their rules in the household.
Have you ever wished you could pull back the hands of time and do things all over again? That is what I am feeling right now.
You know:
It has been more than 3 years since I had a formal job in the BPO and I still haven't got my certificates and other forms from Telus.
It has been more than 3 years since I had a job as a Virtual Assistant
It has been more than 3 years since I had the title Customer Service Lead
It has been more than 3 years since I graduated from e-Commerce University
It has been more than 3 years since I got the Certificate in eCopy Writing
It has been more than 3 years that I had worked the night shift
It has been more than 3 years of going through a lot of stress with my boss
It has been more than 3 years since I talked to my former boss, Arshad, and his family
It has been more than 3 years of not receiving my salary through PayPal
It has been more than 3 years and I missed having my own money
It has been more than 3 years of not working with anyone else
It has been more than 3 years of not paying my taxes and loans
It has been more than 3 years since I stayed at home, the longest
It has been more than 3 years of not receiving benefits and compensation
It has been more than 3 years of working in different gigs and micro-works
It has been more than 3 years of being an Appen member with no regular projects
It has been more than 3 years of being a full-time homemaker
It has been more than 3 years that I am in the same roof with Bam, my daughter
It has been more than 3 years of not seeing my friends at work
It has been more than 3 years of not seeing my friends in Kalayaan and I miss them a lot
It has been more than 3 years since we had our staycation as a family and I wanna do it again
It has been more than 3 years since we went to the beach in Eagle Point, Batangas
It has been more than 3 years of missing Tingloy, watching the shooting stars, and making wishes
It has been more than 3 years since I had a brick-oven pizza from Gino's
It has been more than 3 years since I had visited Jazz Residences in Makati
It has been more than 3 years since I had been to a posh restaurant on Ayala Avenue
It has been more than 3 years since I got drunk and wasted with my friends
It has been more than 3 years since I bought jeans and new clothes
It has been more than 3 years since I used my Timezone cards
It has been more than 3 years since Bam edited a pic of a white rose
It has been more than 3 years since we joined the Trick or Treat in my partner's company
I am feeling nostalgic right now, my friends. Things have changed and I do miss doing the normal activities where I had the money, time, and freedom to do all of those. In God's time, I will do them again, we will do those things that we long for, again. I trust, and I hope, I have faith.
I wish you have a wonderful weekend with yourself and/or your family.
TO my sponsors, 137 subscribers my gosh! commenters and upvoters: THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Love,
**Glessa**
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The vulnerabilities of the heart and the cryptocurrencies!
Hello, my dear read friends! Have you found yourself a date already on the 14th? The show that I watched a few hours ago said that we should watch for some earthquake on that day and a population explosion in November lol.
I also read on the news that singles who have invested or who have cryptocurrencies on their portfolios are likely to get a date rather than those who do not. Now you know what to put on your dating profile so women will be more interested in you. Good luck!
Just be alert, do not be too vulnerable, and be too trusting on your date, okay? Get to know each other first before you show your soul.
Anyways, I also have learned that there were $320 Million stolen from the crypto platform Wormhole. Since De-fi promised low transaction fees and high investment returns, it is not surprising that hackers got their interest in it.
The heist didn't happen only once but more than twice already, it is already becoming a concern. I wonder what the platforms are doing to prevent this from happening again and I hope they won't be too complacent and not underestimate those hackers.
I mentioned that cryptocurrencies are vulnerable, do you agree? Well, first, all you got to do is download a crypto wallet and voila, someone can transfer money from anywhere in the world without questions about whether the source is legit or not. Money laundering, anyone?
Here are some vulnerabilities of the cryptocurrencies:
**Cryptocurrency transactions cannot be reversed-**
I am kind of disappointed with this feature because one cannot get his money back after it's being sent. If it has landed in a different wallet or non-existing wallet, it can never be returned to the sender. Despite tracking the money in a public ledger, you can only see where it goes, but it doesn't have the capacity to be rerouted. Perhaps, I could be the one to create the very first reversible crypto lol. In my dreams!
**Cryptocurrencies can be used in money laundering-**
Since there is no KYC or know your customer on crypto wallets, they can be used for money laundering. Or in layman's terms, the money obtained and used illegally appears as coming from a legitimate source. Just like what happened to me, when my PayPal account was used for money laundering. It's simple to launder, don't you think? All you got to do is use your fiat in buying the crypto, place it in the wallet, and use it in purchasing whatever you want in merchants that accept crypto as payment. But since most merchants only accept fiat, the user doesn't have a choice, for now, but to cash it out through a platform that will require identification. This is where paying other people for their service comes in.
**Cryptocurrencies can be used for terrorism-**
It is only a matter of time until we hear of crypto-funded terrorism. Who says it is impossible? We are now in the digital age where everything can happen. If a regular person can use cryptocurrencies, why not the terrorists? Phones or cars can be tracked using GPS or IP addresses and stuff, but how do they track someone who bought chemicals for bombs when they use their crypto-wallet?
**Cryptocurrencies can be a payment for illegal drugs-**
If one can make a purchase or make a legal transaction with cryptocurrencies, it is also possible to use them for illegal drugs. A drug dealer can just use his crypto wallet in accepting payments, and voila, he is a little safer from those marked monies. Oh, my bad, I am giving them an idea.
Now, let's talk about the vulnerabilities of the heart:
**The heart can be easily swayed by simple simples and thoughtfulness-**
If someone makes you feel special like sends you cards, texts, or gives you flowers, won't you fall? Especially if you've been alone for quite some time and are looking for that friendship and companionship. Be careful with whom you trust your heart.
**The heart can be fooled a thousand times yet forgives in one "sorry"-**
We all are fools when it comes to love. We become too blinded by our emotions, our judgment is clouded by those wonderful memories you shared, despite being played and cheated. And only the heart knows when it wants to move on.
**The heart loves like there's no tomorrow-**
It strengthens a person and makes him or her feel like a "superhero" and goes into "you and me against the world". And it loses its logical reasoning, all it cares is about now, how it feels, may hell break or loose, and come what may. Regrets always come in the end.
Both are important, a special part of us, and yet, vulnerable. We better be wise on how we handle them and to whom we trust our hearts and our cryptocurrencies. We might be fooled and get scammed. The brain has been placed on top of the head so it could think first.
To everyone- THANK YOU VERY, VERY MUCH!
I will catch up with you later!
**Glessa**
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February 4, 2022
Lucky 13! A poem for my sponsors.
Hello, my dear read friends! The sky is cloudy today, I am kind of enjoying it because it's not too humid. And I pray that it won't rain later so we could go out again and enjoy the view of the sunset and the flowers around the neighborhood.
**I wanna offer this composition to my sponsors, both old and new because I won't thrive here without them.**
I hope they know that I try to support them back as much as I can and I try my best to follow in their footsteps. They are my great mentors here on read and I look up to them with much respect and admiration.
Here it is:
A poem for my sponsors- old and new!
Thank you, you were the first to believe in me
Sis MJ, one of the most industrious in the community
She broke the curse of my desperation
Gave me hope, a chance at redemption
Then there was this great woman who owns a kingdom
Like me, she loves gardening and has a green thumb
I don't like it if I miss her story
When it happens, something's missing in my day
Oh and dear sis BlogHound
A friendship was formed and found
She is a gypsy, an empath, moon lover
She's pretty but her daughter is prettier!
Then a talented man from the north called ARTicLee
Who is such a pro in writing and in photography
He shares his experiences with the wonderful places he has been
Both abroad and here in the Philippines
And I got sir Ed, the Swanta
He's a funny Scottsman who loves the swans, I tell ya!
Behold, read his articles and learn a lot
And in the end, you would want to be a Scott
I also have my dear Eliana
A beautiful, generous friend from Venezuela
She publishes articles about personal stuff like her country
Her culture and traditions are extraordinary!
How could I forget you my cousin, Luci?
Who just lost his dear doctor, Chloe?
Just kidding, she has a different name
I know my, I know, my joke is just so lame
I got King Ghozie sometime ago
And I am thankful for his support too
I visit his profile from time to time
Commented on articles, shared a dime
I then have my youngest sister Expelliarmus
Whose charm and sweetness was never lost
May this person reach success one day
Because she deserves it all the way
Sis Yhanne, I am happy to have you
Because we are neighbors and both moms too
I love it when you share about your daily life
About your food trip and adventures as a wife
Sis Eylz, who I think, is one of the celebrities
I was surprised we had a number of commonalities
She loves to have coffee in the morning
I bet she looks great on those dangling earrings
She makes me laugh and I love her cooking
My dear Belozariana, you are so amazing
Cheap and healthy home-made recipes
With lots of joys and great memories
And dear Talecharm, the inspirational and mighty wanderer
Whose columns pushed me to be creative and better
She's mysterious, friendly, and warm
No wonder her name is Talecharm
Yup, the last but not the least
These 3 wonderful guys are the nicest
Tomix-Ajax, Rajpoot and Rehi
With high hopes that they'll stick with me
Lucky number 13, don't you think?
Read is the bridge, friendship is the link
Whether I'll have more or less, I'll still be happy!
But I got 13- most stayed, some went away,
for me it's too many!
This day is gonna be an appreciation day for my sponsors and I wish that I could also compose a poem for my subscribers one day.
I hope you like it, my friends.
I had to tend to a cute baby, perhaps we will go outside again and have a walk because my eldest has to study. I will catch up with all your articles later part of the night, when the babe is already asleep.
It's a cloudy day, a nice day to be spent outside. Go! Just make sure you follow all health protocols.
Cheers to a lovely week!
Glessa
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February 3, 2022
BCH, Read, Noise- a poem!
Hello, my dear read friends! It is the 2nd day of Feb. It is 02022022, I do think this is a special day, isn't it?
I wasn't able to publish an article last night because we lost our Internet connection and I am glad it's back today. The break gave me time to refresh my mind. I admit, writing every day is challenging, I barely made it in January because I felt that I am losing my inspiration. A breather was all I needed, now I am kicking. I hope it's gonna be the same throughout the rest of the month.
Know what, I am happy because my dear cousin Luci found me on FB! Now I have another great friend aside from him being my cousin:)
Let's get back to what I am going to share today. It's another poem and I hope you will like it. Here it is:
BCH, Rusty, Read, Noise, MarcDeMesel
Up and down again and again
Sometimes red, sometimes green
I wonder what is going on with the crypto-verse,
Will it end give us bulls rather than bears?
BCH, oh BCH
When will we again, celebrate?
You were supposed to go to the moon
Were we too late, or is it too soon?
Rusy, oh Rusty
I wish you could oftentimes visit me
I have satisfied you, haven't I?
Is it gonna be a hi, hello, or goodbye?
I am complicated just like you
Perhaps we'd make a perfect duo!
I shall make a better story then
So you could give me a dollar worth of ten
Read, oh Read
My butter and my bread
I wish you'd stay forever, my dearest friend
I will pray you will flourish, thrive, and never end
You are a part of my life now
You got great authors and writers here, wow!
They are my great inspirations
In creating my columns and publications
Noise oh, Noise
The social media of choice
You make my peers cheerful and alive
You give them reasons to earn and survive
They said the hearts no longer have value
We gotta use the free tips given by you
How could that happen, why oh why?
Valueless heart, such a shame, it makes me cry
I never expected to see him in Odysee
This blue-eyed man is so really pogi
I'm pertaining to sir MarcDeMesel
More handsome than cousin Luci, the devil!
He is the man behind noise and read
A good and generous man indeed
I hope he knows he's got a great community
Thankful and grateful for his charity
There you go, my dear friends. I realized that whenever I write something, it should be MarcDeMesel worthy. Not that I am after the tips, I wanted to set a standard of writing to push me in creating quality content.
I got more to tell but I totally forgot about it all I know is that it has to do with quality vs quantity and stuff. Maybe, I should write every day and compromise the quality of my work or do it every other day and make it a lot better. Which is which? But practice makes perfect so skipping a day will not help me in the long run in harnessing my skill. What do you think? I do try to write unless there are hindrances like a teething baby, too much tiredness, no Internet or power interruption, etc. Things that are beyond my control.
Anyways, please enjoy your day no matter what you do. Life is too short to wallow in negativities. I will do my best to keep up on the articles that I've missed.
To my sponsors, subscribers, upvoters, and commenters: THANK YOU VERY MUCH, AS ALWAYS!
Again, Happy New Year, and may you be blessed all year round.
Cheers!
Glessa
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Feb 2, 2022
Saoirse's favorite CocoMelon songs!
I was writing my fiction story, can't seem to get my brain and heart to cooperate. I need both for the story to be effective and enjoyable.
Kamusta, mga kaibigan sa read?
I am happy that I found a new friend by the name of Jelena. We had a mutual friend, the dear devil my cousin, Luci, and I am glad that we get to know each other here in read. We are both moms and are struggling with our teething babies lol.
Parenting is hard, to be honest, but rewarding when you see your child happy, healthy, and tidy.
And I admit, I am guilty because I needed the help of gadgets to rest for a while, reenergize, and recuperate. Thanks to YouTube for being there. My Saoirse loves to listen and dance with her favorite channel, Cocomelon.
The parents, especially the mothers can totally relate to this one! This digital nanny is so effective in making the kids behave during their mealtime and of course, it also teaches them good conduct and proper table manners.
Before I go further, please allow me to introduce to you, my 13 wonderful sponsors. I am so lucky! 13 is a lucky number, isn't it?
Guys, not only they are my sponsors, most of them are my great friends. I never thought I could find such people on this platform but the Universe has been so gracious.
Check their profiles and read their stories!
And oh, yes, I just wanna share my little Saoirse's favorite Cocomelon songs, I tell you, at 1.7 years old, she memorizes 4 steps of a Cocomelon dance.
Here they are:
**"Funny Face"**
Are you familiar with this song? It's where JJ and his classmates were to act funny faces. They are taught to move the eyes, the nose, and the mouth to create such a funny face. They got to choose a card that has a facial expression on it. They had to show either a happy, sad, angry, surprised, silly, or cute face. It's really fun and we all laugh every time Saoirse makes a cutie face. Soo adorable.
**"Animal Dance"**
I love this song because it can really make you dance and the steps are easy to follow. It also teaches the kids the different sounds of each animal. When this is played, Saoirse then sways, turns around, claps her hands, and points. She doesn't know how to dance the different animal dances yet but she'll get there in no time.
**"The Wheels on the Bus"**
This taught Saoirse the concepts of open and shut, blinking, swishing, up and down, etc. She likes the upbeat tone of the song. I know it when she's excited because she runs to and fro giggling showing her cute dimples.
**"Thank You Song"**
I like this song because it teaches kids to be thankful for what they have. The kids in the song said they are thankful for their toys, parents, animal friends, teachers, etc. It's a nice way to teach our babies how to be grateful at such an early age.
**"Sharing is Caring"**
This song teaches kids to share the things they have like toys or food. Of course, we have to respect the child if they refuse to do so but it's good to teach them the concept of generosity by sharing. The song itself says, "Sharing is caring and sharing is fun".
**"Sorry, Excuse Me"**
When someone is offended, or their privacy is invaded or disturbed, one should say either "Sorry or Excuse Me". Not only this song teaches humility, but it also shows how to say it in sign language. It's like hitting 2 birds with one stone! The other song with the same tune is titled, "Please, Thank You" which also encourages a child to use polite and respectful words whenever they need help with anything.
**"Jingle Bells"**
She loves the merry tune and the dance steps as well. I remember her dancing the whole song on her dudi's desk last Christmas. And whenever we are outside and she sees the lights, she always remembers the song.
**"There was 10 in the bed"**
This song should really be called "Rollover" but I don't have the right to change it. Saoirse kept on laughing whenever she watches the video with those cute animals rolling and falling off the bed because of the funny sound effect. I do hope that she'll grasp the concept of counting with this song.
Believe me, my friends, there are a lot of songs that your babies would love but I suggest you carefully choose them. CocoMelon has wholesome but repetitive songs, I am good with them anyways. Just make sure you don't overexpose your child to the gadget. I am not very familiar with most of them but it does help to learn the song as well so you can apply it in some situations like when it's time to take a bath, brush their teeth, nap, eat, etc.
And today is the 1st of the 2nd of the month! How was your January, really? I wish this month will be a lot better if not, the best to all of us.
Happy Chinese New Year and thank you for going this far in reading my story for today!
Gratefully yours,
Glessa
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Feb. 1, 2022 -020122
Some Valentines' or singlehood quotes, etc!
Today is the last day of the month of January 2022.
How are you coping up, my dear read friends? I heard that it's cold in some parts of the country today, ours was hot. Anyways, we will be on alert level 2 starting February, I guess that's a good sign because the cases are going down and my babies can officially go outside for a walk just like before. I do miss it. Aren't you getting crazy looking at all the corners and walls of your house?
I am supposed to write a fiction today but I guess that will wait. This will be just a random topic about Heart's Day. I think I sound bitter because I kept on talking about it lol.
Just wanna share some funny Tagalog quotes/"hugot" about Valentine's Day or being single in general. Filipinos are really good when it comes to craziness, yeah? Here they are:
Ihi na lang ang nagpapakilig saken
-In English, it means love doesn't make someone giddy anymore, urinating does. Have you observed it when nature calls and you really had to go to pee and when the hot, yellow liquid comes it, isn't like the best feeling in the world? Those who don't have partners can relate to this.
Kulangot na lang ang malagkit
-A romantic relationship should make you feel wanted, loved, and valued. The person should be sweet. Since a partner gets cold over time or you both get too comfortable with each other, the sweetness or "stickiness" has already faded in the relationship. One could only complain that his booger is stickier than his partner, otherwise, he should find a new lover.
Butiki na lang ang kumakapit
-Loving should be holding on to your promises. But nowadays, due to cheating and all that stuff, nothing is worth holding onto anymore, as per the brokenhearted folks. The lizards are good at grasping and holding on tightly so as not to fall- this is how a person bitterly describes loyalty after losing someone because of trust issues or being single for a long time.
Kape na lang ang nagpapainit
-Of course, there should be "moments" in the relationship like kissing, hugging, cuddling, etc. Those sweet gestures do make us "hot" and want to do more. But for those single people, the only thing that makes their bodies warm is coffee. Nothing is wrong with drinking coffee though. I love coffee, don't you?
There are more quotes about being single or not having someone on Valentine's Day but that's enough for tonight, feel free to add more in the comments section though, my friends.
**And know what, this month is a nerve-wracking month! I now have 132 subscribers, how cool is that! And from 8, I now have 13 sponsors. I am so happy and thankful for the trust, support, and friendship that you're all giving me. And I wish to do the same to the community as well. I feel loved :D Thank you, thank you, thank you!**
I am so happy too that my baby discovered that she likes carrots, she ate a handful of them. I was getting crazy because she doesn't want to eat anything except Milo- a chocolate powder, and rice. It's not healthy but it's her comfort food. I've been thinking of praying to the gods and angels about this situation. You'll definitely laugh at me, wait until you become a parent.
I hope I made you laugh in some way my dear, if not, I will try harder next time.
Please keep safe,
**Glessa**
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January 31, 2022
Love doesn't cost a thing!
Hello, my dear read friends. In just a day, we will be saying goodbye to January and soon will welcome the month of love.
Do you have any plans with your family on where and how to spend the day? Personally, I don't know yet. But I am kind of feeling excited about that day, not because there is a special activity in the house but I want to make something different you know. Maybe my kids and I will go on a date or I will buy them special treats. We'll see about that.
And I am not sure if you can go out because of our current situation, perhaps our friends from those places that aren't so congested can sneak out and celebrate outside.
One of my wishes for February is to celebrate Valentine's Day with the BCH being green. It's nice to think of it pumping making all of us happy.
Since it's love month next month, here is another poem I am sharing with you today:
Love doesn't cost a thing
Yet here you are overthinking
It doesn't cost a thing really
Yet we fall into its trap desperately
Love doesn't cost a thing
Yet you give your all
Your body your heart your soul
It's free if it doesn't cost a thing
Yet you're willing to sacrifice your wealth
Diminish your money in the bank and your wealth
It doesn't cost a thing
Yet it could start world war three
If the love of your life is cheating and guilty
Love doesn't cost a thing
Yet it makes the world go round
It goes beyond leaps and bounds
We worship our lovers and follow them blindly
For the heart loves and knows nothing
And yet let love doesn't cost a thing
Tell me have you tried logical thinking
Why we all root for love
When it doesn't cost a thing
Well it has no monetary value you see
But it takes away your clarity your sanity
Self-worth, pride, and dignity
Yet it doesn't cost a thing
It leaves you breathless, leaves you hanging
And we keep on wondering and pondering
The best thing in the world is to love and be loved in return.
Please take care of those who love you truly, don't neglect the affection they are giving you. You are so lucky to find true love, a true friend, a good mom, and dad, or to have wonderful kids. Show your love and admiration in return.
Every day is Valentine's Day, a great day to celebrate and spend with our loved ones. And if you're not alone, date yourself. You deserve it, my friend.
Thank you very much for your time and effort in reading this article of mine. These days have been a little bit challenging for me because of this teething baby.
I hope you'll all have a wonderful day or evening. See you in my next article.
Love,
**Glessa**
To my sponsors, subscribers, commenters, upvoters- THANK YOU ALL, VERY MUCH
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January 30, 2022
My Saoirse
My Saoirse, your eyes are the light of my life
They twinkle like the brightest stars in the sky
Whenever I am lost, when I have nowhere to go
Your hugs pull me and guide me back home
I love the sound of your laughter
Whenever we play and do silly things
I love your voice, they are the cutest ever
You make my heart swell with happiness and pride
I always discover something new about you every day
It makes me feel blessed and lucky
I sometimes wonder if I deserved to be your mom
Because you are such a wonderful, heavenly creation
No one makes me laugh the way that you do
You also annoy me and make me crazy
But whatever you do to me
I love you still, at the end of the day
I love it when we hold hands
Especially when we climb up the stairs
You trust me that I will take care of you
That whatever happens, mommy won't let go
Rearing you is such a challenge for me
And I am trying my best to fight my worst
I am impatient, grumpy, and cranky
Just like you, my precious little baby
Your cries are torture whenever you are sick
And I pray to all the angels and the saints everytime
I'd rather suffer the discomfort of the disease
Rather than see you being tormented with such pain
Your smiles are the cure for all my loneliness
You made me believe in sunshine and flowers
In lollipops and chocolates, and Candyland
Of cotton candies, and all the sweet treats there is
They say I am spoiling you
Why wouldn't I when someone's as cute as you?
Now you always want mommy around
Despite her constant wailings and frowns
One of the greatest moments with you my love
Was when we were playing on the table
We smiled at each other and then you kissed mommy
Heaven is when I am with you, my Saoirse
Dear Saoirse,
I wish read is still thriving when you grow up. I can't wait to tell you about the poem I made here just for you. Don't tell me your Ate Bambam is going to be jealous because she knows how happy I am when she was a baby too. You both have given me different kinds of joys, each was unique, each was special.
I am watching you sleep while I am typing this with a painful tummy lol, yeah again. And I am glad that your daddy was able to put you to sleep. Why have you been a little rascal lately, my darling?
I hope you know that I love you, always and forever and mommy always prays that you will grow up a wonderful, responsible person. I don't care whether you will excel in school or not, I will not pressure you to give me medals and trophies. That is up to you. As long as you do your best, then mommy will be proud of you.
Your biggest fan and forever love,
Mommy Glay
Hello, my dear read friends!
I wasn't able to go online last night because there was a trapped Cicada in our ceiling making a terrible noise. We thought they were wires waiting to explode lol, so we removed our light and tested our lines.
Anyways, I thought of creating a poem, this time, for my baby Saoirse and I hope you will all like it.
It's the weekend again, it will be February in the next few days. Happy Chinese New Year and advanced Happy Valentines Day!
I hope that you will enjoy your weekend and thank you very much for everything again.
Spread the love!
Glessa
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January 28, 2022
A poem with no title!
**Hello, my dear read friends**. I couldn't believe how fast the days have gone. We have just enjoyed the weekend and right now, we are almost done with the hump day. Wow, just wow!
I wanted to make a poem for my daughter, but it seems like my emotions have been driven by sentimentality. It is nice to read something about happiness and love, etc. but what I am going to give you for today is about what I feel and what I think will happen to it.
I write poems since I was in elementary. I usually stay late at night because that's where the Universe pours its grace on me. Some were sad, inspirational, romantic, funny, etc. and I believe that poems can only be created when either you're too happy or too sad. There's nothing in between as per my experience.
So here's a poem for you:
Where and when will I get this inspiration?
To sing once again, to laugh once again?
I am like floating in limbo, lonely, alone
Trying to smile, hiding my pain.
Perhaps I should live forever like this
Because of the bad choices I made
Haven't I learned, what did I miss?
Has the tree lost its shade?
There are reasons for me to be happy
Yet, deep in my heart, I am drowning in sorrow
Sadness, pain, melancholy
Shall I wish for a better tomorrow?
I wanted to create something gleeful for you
But I guess my true colors can't be denied
It's like blue all over, no other colorful hue
I tried to forget about it, to bury it deep inside
I shall get better, this I know, this I trust
The sky will bless me, the Heavens will hear me
Everything is temporary, this will not last
I'll get over this, I'll have courage and bravery
Trying to be strong, trying to do the best
I have done this before, I have no doubt
I have to let it go, get this off my chest
Maybe cry alone, or pray, or shout
Don't judge me unless you've been in my shoes
Listen to me, learn, and don't make the same mistakes
Think wisely, do not be afraid to choose
What's good for your soul, for your life is at stake
Regrets always come in the end, my friend
There is no peace, no consolation if you're not smart
So choose to be happy and peaceful in the end
Be wise, seek solitude, a graceful start
This too shall pass as what they always say
I'm not an exemption, I will patiently wait
Until the day I smile, I laugh, I sway
A new chapter in this life, I will create
Holding on, holding on, I will
Like a tree strongly attached to the ground
Desperation, weariness, heartbreaks, fear won't kill
My faith and hope I wear like a crown
I hope you like the poem. What shall the title be? I don't know, my friends. When I write poems the titles are usually a struggle. Do you like writing poems, what's your drive?
Sorry for being an emo-girl for tonight.
I would like to shout out to sis @Expelliarmus30 for the renewal of your trust in me and to my newest sponsor @Tomi-Ajax for your belief in me. I will try my best to entertain all of you guys and I will also be a light to others here.
To my sponsors, my 129 super wow subscribers, commenters, upvoters: MARAMING SALAMAT PO AKO AY LABIS NA NATUTUWA.
Keep on fighting,
Glessa
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This is for January 27, 2022
My worst habits, what do I do first thing in the morning..I am not a morning person!
"Some things need to be broken for other things to fall into the right place". I am not sure if this quote is comprehensible but it just popped out from my head at this very second.
**Hello, my dear read friends. It's almost Valentine's Day and I think there's an anti-cupid entity who stole cupid's arrow so I won't be able to celebrate it. Lol.**
Sigh, my partner and I had a fight because of what happened last Saturday. And I did ask for a break because I thought he no longer sees me as the woman he used to love and respect. What happened was, my tummy got so painful, I've tried to keep it myself so I could put my baby to sleep. But I couldn't contain the pain anymore so I went to him to ask for help. He first refused and asked for a couple of minutes because he was assisting my eldest in her lessons. It was an emergency and I had to beg him to get the baby, and I couldn't forget the look on his face. For me, it was below the belt already. It was like I had to beg for my life. Should I have just let go and see what happens when the bomb explodes?
I don't wanna talk about it further. I am glad it happened though because we were able to pour my hearts out, those thoughts that have been nagging us all this time have been released. We shall see what happens next.
Anyways, this is just gonna be random stuff for today/tonight. I wanted to make a poem, perhaps next time when the inspiration visits.
Here are some random questions for today:
If you knew you only had 24 hours left to live, what would you do?
If I have 24 hours to live, I will spend it with my daughters. First, I will write them love letters that they can read over and over again telling them that I love them and my love will guide them in their lives. Then, I will watch movies with them, walk with them, eat with them. I will tell them stories about my childhood-all the fun and lessons. I will then message my sisters and close friends to be there for them as second parents. And thank everyone, especially my partner for all the wonderful memories we shared.
Do you like to cook?
I like cooking, in fact, my papa inspired me to cook. I do wish I have my own kitchen so I could experiment every day. I know I have the potential, I just need to harness it.
Do you prefer to travel or stay close to home?
Know what, I experienced traveling every day when I was with my grandma and it was too tiring. I still prefer to travel because of the sceneries I get to see and the people that I meet and their interesting stories. They are treasures.
What is your favorite day of the week?
My favorite day of the week is Friday, Friday night. It's like the week has ended and it has to be celebrated with a beer with friends or just by watching movies alone with my popcorn and chips.
Where did you go on your last vacation?
I was with my partner's family in 2018. First, we went to Batangas, we stayed at Eagle's Point resort. We went on island hopping. Then, we went to La Union. I didn't get the chance to surf and we went to Baguio, unexpectedly. They got the best strawberry ice cream. And we had a quick stopover to Manaoag.
If you could give one piece of advice to the whole world, what would it be?
Plant more trees! Come on, we are already experiencing climate change and all we do is deny that the world is melting. We got to do our part in saving this planet, or else, we will all live on the moon.
Are you a morning or a night person?
I am a night person because I wasn't taught how to appreciate waking up in the morning when I was a kid. I was forced to wake up so early. They should've told me that God blesses those who wake up early and I would have been happy to do so. No offense. I needed positive scripting!
What’s one of your worst habits?
Always saying yes. Worst, right? Saying no is healthy, especially when the request is crossing the boundaries of your privacy or belief.
As a child, what did you want to be when you grew up?
I wanted to become a Scientist, specifically an Astronomer but it changed to wanting to become a Botanist so I could study the plants.
What is one thing you would change about your home?
I want our own bathroom so we could enjoy taking a bath. Plus, I want to keep it clean.
What is the first thing you do in the morning?
The first thing I do in the morning is pray. We all should be thankful for another day, for a new beginning to make things better.
There it is, random things about me that say a lot about me. I am not a religious person but I do pray. How about you, what's your worst habit? Did you try to stop it?
I, **Glessa**, would like to thank everyone- from my sponsors to my subscribers, commenters, and upvoters for their kindness, support, and love.
Stay cool!
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January 26, 2022
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