Let's be okay...

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Ala eh, Henlo? Kamusta kana ga? Ikaw ga'y ayos laang? Sana'y oo. Kasimple na tanong pero wari ko'y mahihirapan pa ang ilan ng sagutan yan Bat ga nga gan-on? Sana okay kalang nga? Alam mo ga? Ang sikreto para dika nalulumbay dyan? Meron akong alam at ngayon nga ay ibabahagi ko sa inyo. Simple laang naman ang inyong kailangang gawin. Simple lang areh huwag kang mag-alala. Ganire lang o - HUWAG MAGKAGUSTO SA TAONG DI'KA GUSTO - o ano? Diga'y simple laang. Inasabi ko na sa iyo. Kung ika'y may gugustuhin piliin mo yong ika'y sigurado na gugustuhin din. Kapag hindi ay huwag ng ipilit ang sarili, ay ano kana. Kainaman ng simple nalang nyan...

HAHAHAHAHA. Mammamia, Corazon, Felicidad namaste konnichiwa? Hooray haha, seriously speaking ARE YOU OKAY? Three words but some are having a hard time answering it. Some can give their answer in instant but deep inside? They are screaming for help. But who can hear them right? No one! Because they are keeping it to their self. Come on, seek for help now. There's nothing wrong in asking for help, what's wrong is you are keeping it to yourself to look strong. You just can't accept the fact that if you told them your problem, they will pity you. You are trying to look cool to everyone but why not talk now my friend?

Well, I know naman that it's really not easy. There are problems too that's better just to keep. But then again, you will fight for it alone? Are you okay with that? Can you still handle it? Can you still go on? Can you still carry the weight of it? Or just like a sand in a broken sack it is continue pouring - it becomes heavier and heavier day by day? That no matter how hard you tried removing some of it's weight, it's still heavy for your shoulder? It is already giving you a back pain, it is aching but you can't totally heal it? Why do you think? Because you're doing it alone. You don't ask a hand to someone or to Him. Or have you even tried?

Problems every problems, isn't it too much? Some will question the heavens if why they are giving them that much of problems. But we can't get an answer coz who will answer it right. But one thing is foe sure though, it was given to us because He knows that we can solve it and we can face it head-on. It's hard at first, you all know that Basta first time, it's hard, it's painful, it's long but it's heaven in the end - oops I mean sa una lang masakit. No! I mean, it's really hard in the first time but in the end you can still solve it and even learn something from it. So if you have this heavy heart because of your problems please talk.

If your heart can't take all of the weight of it then ask now for help. You don't need to literally ask for it. Just say you piece, say what's going on, say what's making you gloomy and what's making you sad or if it's a big problem then scream it. It'll help, that can help me when in times of hard times. So I hope it will works on you too. Battling alone with it is hard, I know - just base in experience but you can survive it. Yes you can, it will really take time but the most important is you survive it. It's easy said than done,bit can't be erase in instant, it will give you a deep scar but at the end of the day it's still the battle that you have to face.

So gan-on lamang nga. Mahirap sa umpisa. Alam naman ng lahat na walang madali sa buhay. Pero kung pipiliin mo naman maaari kang sumaya. Huwag paka dibdibin ang problema dahil may likod kapa. Subukan mong gamitin ang likod mo huwag puro dibdib. Huwag laging pairalin ang puso subukang mong maging matigas katulad ng hard boiled egg. Sa totoo laang ee wala na akong masabi mga friendship. I'm just trying to be funny here just to ano ba - para ma forgot din nong iba ang problema nila o kaya yong ex nila na nang iwan sa kanila. O kaya naman yong crush nilang never sila ika crushback. Cashback na nga lang sana ang meron tapos nawala pa sa coinsph. Tsk.

Hanggang Sa Muli kaibigan, I just hope you learn something from this kahit yong kaberdehan ko nalang ba. Hahahah. Sorry for the nonsense article again. Na drain utak ko nong mga nakaraang araw ee huehuebels.


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Aigooo ateee hahaha. Bakit kasi kailngan pa magkagusto sa taong wala namang pake sa atin. Naghahanap laang ng sakit sa puso eh haahha

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2 years ago

iba talaga pag si baby gerl na...hahagalpak ka talaga nang tawa,,,,at magkakaroon ka nang mixed emotions hahah

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2 years ago

buti nalang talaga gusto ako ng gusto ko hahaha. Yesss po in a funny way you're spitting facts and reality. May mga times po talaga na sinasarili natin ang mga problems natin it's okay po Kung kaya talaga natin. Di na natin need humingi ng tulog sa iba. But there are problem that we can't do alone. Kaya need natin ng hello Nila. Wlaang masama po dun. The merrier your supporyer the easier and faster the problem to be solve

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2 years ago

Shana owl 🤧 wala namang polebel huehuebels hahaha. Basta let's be okay always

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am a bit okay now because of your fun intro hahah but seriously speaking yeah we should seek help whenever we felt we need it.

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HAHHAHAH nako powww talaga naman natatawa ako dito sa unang paragraph niyo atee, at may pahugot ka na namn hehehe

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2 years ago

Ano ba sis hahaha. Tawang-tawa ako sa wag dibdibin 😆 Tama ka nga naman. Kahit ano pa mang problema, malalampasan pa rn yan. Magiging okay lang din lahat 😊

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haynako ate rupa ano nanaman nakain mo? AAHHAHAHA pero ayos, ayos naman ako. maniwala ka. hahahaha. sana oks ka din

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WAHAHAHAHA ewan pero literal talaga na binabasa ko sa ganoong way na pagka sulat mo ate HAHAH anong dialect yan, yung sa batangas? Ala eh

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Hahaha batangas nga ahahaha. Ang ganda ga nf accent nila ano

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Yung sa first paragraph sis habang binabasa ko naalala ko yung babae na sikat sa TikTok, may similarities the way siya nagsasalita. Natatawa nga ako lagi pag napapanood ko yung TikTok niya.😅

Oo nga sis wag seryosohin yung problema. Relax lang at go with the flow lang talaga. No need mag pressure.

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Hahaha sinong babae ga iyan 🤧🤧🤣.

Yes naman, kaya naman ata diba. Just go and be easy on yourself

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Di ko maalala name niya sa sis.😁

Yes sis. I enjoy lang basta wag lang mag stop..

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It's not always easy asking for help because if felt like it was seen as weakness asking help, at least to me but I'm learning these days that it actually takes strength to do so. Anyway, I've learned it's okay to ask for help regardless.

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Well that's true but doing it alone for years is exhausting right

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Hindi ah, ganda nga eh.😅😅nakakainspired ang iyong mga sinabi. Tama ka,huwag sarilinin ang problema dahil ika nga ng kapatid ko kanina,chilax and easy lang teh. 😅😅kaya kapag may problema o may dinadamdam dahil hindi ka crush ng cerush mo eh sabihin mo lang sa mga taong pinagkakatiwalaan mo. Huwag lang kay marites dahil alam na.😅😅

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2 years ago

HAHAHAHA dilang sa crush aba. Sa lahat ng problema dapat yarn 🤟🤤🥴

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Truth. 😅😅kaya ako dito ako nagbrag or sa noise cash ng mga hinaing konaksi may mga virtual friend ako na mababait at nakakatulong, financially and emotionally. 💚💚

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2 years ago

Abay. Hugot naman today. Haha

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Hahaha lagi lamong hugot

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Hahaha ang galing naman ng first paragraph sis. Natatawa ako sa isip ko habang nagbabasa. Tapos serious at motivational naman pala in the end. May ganun ka palang side? Haha

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Bwahahahaha, kaya naman mag swryoso if gugustuhin kaso sya lang gusto seryusuhin ee 🥺🥺🤣🤣

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Kaya mo yan kung ano man yan 😊

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Hahaha yes naman, pero para sa lahat yan 🤟

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Ay ikaw ba'y okay lang? Okay lang namang magtago ng nararamdaman o problema. But don't let them stay too long. Baka mamihasa. 😂 If you don't want to share to look strong, okay lang din naman, pero minsan ilabas mo din, baka mamahay na hindi ka na iwan nyan. 😂 Anyways, let's all be okay... Okay? 👌

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Yes naman hahahaha. Let's all ne okay ang be happy ganern lang

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2 years ago

Tama. Happy lang dapat.

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I'm the type of person who keeps my struggles to myself because I don't want to be a burden to other people and like you said, to look strong :)

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User's avatar sc
2 years ago

Same sakin pero minsan may time talaga na ang hirap nya ihandle mag isa oi. Pero ayiehhhhh active sya rawrrrrrrrrr

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Sumasaglit din ako dito kapag walang ginagawa masyado o kaya gusto ko magpahinga sa school works 😁 Breath of fresh air kumbaga hehe

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User's avatar sc
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Pfffttttt😂😂😂 "huwag mong dibdibin ang problema dahil may likod kapa" hahaa ewan ko ba ate ruff namomotivate mo ko with your words of wisdom at the same time natatawa ako sa kakulitan mo jusko hahahaha

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2 years ago

HAHAHAHA, sana okay lang ikaw jan ha 🤟🤣🤣

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Having headache. Need to learn filipino soon.

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Hahaha, it's just a few Pilipino, the rest is in English.

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Tell me how to read your article 🤣. I hope it would be good but damn sure would be crazy one. Hahaha. I am not going to translate it than read hahah excuse me sister.

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Hahaya, but the next 4 paragraph is actually written in English

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Haha really? Oh my poor mind. 😹

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2 years ago

Its okay not to be okay sometimes, grabe napaka husay niyo po gumawa ng artikulo, akoy natutuwa sayong mga gawa.

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2 years ago

Tama naman, kasama na sa buhay yan ee. Salamatttttt hehe 🙈

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The burden it's not for one to carry alone, it’s good to share it with the right person that is ready to listen

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2 years ago

Yeah true, do you have that someone now? Are you okay?

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I don't have that someone. But I think I will be okay dealing with it myself for now.

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Nakakalunod ang hindi humingi ng tulong mare kahit anong tapang ng tao kailangan talaga ng someone to open up all.

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2 years ago

Diba diba, pwd naman kasi ee a helping hand.

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Yung first na pagkabasa ko palang para yung babae sa tiktok, nakalimutan ko kung saang lugar siya nanggaling. Hhehehe it's actually cute to hear. Anyway, ahahahah I'm having fun reading it. (Hindi na ako bitter no ahahhaha)

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Hahahaha, why naman di na bitter mas masaya maging bitter kaya charowtttt hahaha

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Kung Ganon Lang sana kadali Ang lahat. Kung pwede lang sana na isipin Yung sarili natin bago Yung iba. Ano daw? Hahahaha

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Hahahaha, pwd naman ah kahit one time lang sundi ang sigaw nf puso hahaha

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