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Endure And Let Go Of The Pain, And You'll Be Far Better Off

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Written by   1926
8 months ago

September 13, 2021

Time of writing: 09/12/21 @7:00 pm

Pain and suffering are part of our lives, to make us grow as a person, to make us tougher and a better version of ourselves, to make us realize the negative things we've done in the past, and once we endure the pain and let go of it, we'll be far better off. -Jane

There are times in our lives that we face painful events, and we usually say to ourselves, "endure them, tough them out." Because it is engraved in our minds that sufferings and pain can be endured and all sufferings happen for a reason. To make us self-reflect and realize what we have done in the past and why we are suffering the pain. And this is part of our challenges in life.

There is no easy challenge in life. The meaning of the word itself implies how difficult it is to face. It is something that needs mental or physical effort to surpass the challenges. And to endure the pain, we need to tough ourselves. It will take a longer time to recover, especially if the pain subsides in our lives for a long time. Because we took it for granted and did not mind fixing our unbalanced well-being.

A patient undergoing cupping therapy

If only medicines can eradicate all the pain and suffering, our well-being should not have been compromised and remain balanced all the time. Unfortunately, even some aspirins can't heal our aching frame, even sedatives can't make us feel well all the time, because not all pills are worth taking, not all therapies are worth trying, and not all can afford to buy medicines. Moreover, they are only made to alleviate the pains but can't eliminate the suffering.

It's tough for us to maintain equilibrium in life and it sometimes leads us to a dark room that is inescapable and makes us lose track. The unavoidable path of pain is strenuous and inevitable, however, we are made to endure them to prepare ourselves for upcoming sufferings.

Needles on my body

We all certainly experience needles in life. They are like piercing our bodies. The longer they stay, the more pain they give to us, and often become destructive and bloody once we don't pull them out shortly. Those uncomfortable tingling and prickling sensations are sending stressors that are tough to deal with.

They're like paralytic drugs immobilizing our body for a moment, and once we move for an inch, we'll feel the pain caused by the needles. We are working hard to survive in this world and we are facing those needles in life that may cause permanent or chronic pain for those who fail to endure them, for those who fail to get out of the darkroom. Those substantial physical pain or mental distress caused by failures and uncertainties can be debilitating, can be distressing, and can even cause death.

Needles for acupuncture

But a person who wants equilibrium and minding the five Fs or important aspects in life will always find ways to endure the pain, to surpass the obstacles, and to escape from the inevitable perilous room. The pain, suffering, grief, sorrow, failures, and setbacks are the needles of life that are piercing and are something we need to deal with. And we also have to always bear in mind that there are things that we should prioritize more than any material possession.

Before they cause further complications and destruction physically and mentally, we better pull them out sooner, not later. The process can be painful and unbearable. However, we'll be far better off and comfortable once we get rid of the needles in life that cause pain and suffering.

Red spots after the cupping therapy

They will leave spots and marks in our lives that will always remind us to consider every single pain and the important aspects of life should always be on top. Some pain can cause wounds that will take a longer time to heal but with the determination to get better, those wounds can be remedied to heal faster. Some pain can even cause death, but that is inevitable and acceptance is what we need to apply to lessen the level of pain and suffering.

Needles in life are made for us to see clearer pictures of ourselves and for us to acknowledge the pain. Whether we are dealing with physical or emotional pain, we'll soon realize that there are more choices to deal with than embracing the pains in life. We can't just see them because we are focusing on the negative emotions and pains covering our minds and bodies.

Needles behind my glasses

Endurance is what we need to work out to fully get rid of pains in life. And we have choices on how to respond to it. We can let the emotions flow, we can cry, we can grieve, we can get mad, we can even laugh at them. But the better way to handle them is to withdraw them from our system, throw them out, or bury them in oblivion.

And if the pain comes back again, just endure it again. Do not stick those needles to others so we can free ourselves from the pain. @tired_momma

And always remember that the pain of today won't last until tomorrow, so we should let it get into our souls. @Grace97. We can embrace them, but not stay with them for long and we have to let go of them to avoid too much pain and suffering.

It is also worth noting that needle contact is painful sometimes to the point of bleeding. Sometimes we have to feel the suffering for us to be grateful for what is there and try to achieve what we want. We just have to keep our spirit and be strong to get something satisfying. Above all, we should always be grateful for everything. @Hafiza0407

(These are the comments in my noisecash post https://noise.cash/post/1m3n6vwv)

Needles in life are made to fix the broken pieces of ourselves, just like how it repairs damage clothes. Life is tough and full of tribulations. And we are not fully equipped to handle them without any help. We always have a choice on how to respond to the pain, and we have a choice to get help from others if we can't stand the pain anymore.

Remember that the strongest people we have known are those who have endured pain, those who have surpassed obstacles, those who accepted failures, those who have defeated enemies, and those who have found their way out of the depths and withdrawn the needles from their lives.

And every after pain comes joy and happiness. Embrace the pain, and pull out the needle that causes it. If we do this willfully, we'll be far better off and we'll enjoy the fruit of life.


If you are wondering about the photos and this article about pain, this was inspired by my acupuncture and cupping treatment yesterday which you can find from this post https://noise.cash/post/1j3qvxr2.

Almost a year ago, I suffered the same pain and had my first-time Chinese therapy experience. But the pain keeps coming back and I just take it for granted and did not mind it at all. I was able to endure it but it's causing too much trouble and discomfort. I let the pain stay for long and now it's calling my attention and wanting to come out of my system. This is perhaps the most regretful decision I have ever made when I have the choice to let it go. Enduring and embracing pain is what we need to do, but we should not let it stay for long because it can affect other aspects of life. It also shut down our ability to experience true happiness and comfort.

So if you are feeling a little pain, you have to acknowledge it sooner, not later before it gets bigger and disastrous. And learn how to let go of it. I hope this will serve as a reminder to all not to ignore the pain in life.

Embrace the pain, but learn how to withdraw them from your life. Use the pain of the needles to fix the shattered aspects of life. It isn't too late yet. We always have a choice to do the right thing!

Thanks for your time.

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Cheers to the silent pain we have inside . Life throws many to mention needles , but yeah it keeps us more discovered how beautiful to live and breath despite of everything we gone through ♥️ Thankyou so much for this powerful words of encouragement ♥️

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8 months ago

Pain is part of life, and indeed the outcome depends on how you handle or react on it. Just don't let it ruin your whole being. Endure it for a moment but not that long, let go of it.

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8 months ago

we are made to endure the pain indeed... acceptance can be a key to freedom!

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8 months ago

The wounds of the soul we carry with pride. They are our most important credentials that make us worthy of the title of survivors. But the wounds of the body must be examined early as they become chronic and more difficult to treat over time.

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8 months ago

Embrace the pain and learn to let go of it. Tama ka talaga sa thought na ito miss Jane. We have to deal or face the pain and later on we have to move on and let go to free ourselves from it.

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8 months ago

Embrace the pain talaga kahit gaano kasakit we have to face it and deal with it. Thank you for the mention. 😊

Madam bakit parang ang sakit sakit ng acupuncture? Masakit ba?

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8 months ago

Masakit madam lalo na unang tusok at tumatama sa bones..tapus kpg gagalaw ka masakit dn 😢 kya pra akong paralyze wala galaw2

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8 months ago

Grabe!!!!

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8 months ago

Pain demands to be felt. Sometimes it is good to feel pain from time to time but when we cannot endure it and when time comes that we decide we don't want it anymore we should know when to pull ourselves back.

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8 months ago

Who wants to be in pain? Only who is a masochist? A rare psychological condition. Pain and pleasure is a duo that can harm equally if it is not interpreted correctly.

Pain is a body alert to greater danger. Perhaps, pain beyond the body is the most annoying and dangerous because it can destroy your essence if you do not react with resilience.

I don't like pain, and if you ask me, I'd rather avoid it. In this sense, preventing the causes and adopting a healthy lifestyle physically and mentally, is the wisest behavior.

Although you can't always run from pain or pleasure. Being prepared in spirit will help you get out of it. Perhaps pleasure is more dangerous than pain in the end.

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8 months ago

Nobody likes pain, but it will just come into our lives, coz we are meant to face and endure them...

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8 months ago

Emotional pain is more heavier than physical pain. Sometimes people doesn't open their problem to others because of some reasons, like they might just gossip on them, not actually sincere, or just gave some advice that is easier to said than to do. Agree with@hazifa0407 those pain we are experiencing are just a preparation for facing a bigger pain. We need to faced it rather than not minding it

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8 months ago

We need to mind them too so we know how to handle them and remove them from our lives

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8 months ago

It is impossible for us not to experience pain in life which can vary from physical, emotional, or mental pain but we must always let go of the pain.

I saw a movie lately about a woman inflicting pain on herself just to distract herself from her children's death but instead of easing, it got worse. I don't believe that pain can be harbored, it must be freed to avoid discomfort.

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8 months ago

That's so sad.. My mother experience an emotional fall when my brother died. But she never hurt herself .

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8 months ago

Good and bad days are the part of our lives, not we everyone face this problem. When you feel pain and suffering then we know the real meaning of pain. With pain we came to know what we have strength to feel it.

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8 months ago

Pain is a part of life and we must all go through it at one point. Life isn't a bed of roses, there are also torns attached to it. But what doesn't kill us will make us stronger.

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8 months ago

Agree with your words, no challenge is easy. because if it is, that is NOT a challenge. Challenges make us stronger, because these let us go beyomd our limits, and even become better version of ourselves.

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8 months ago

True.. Without challenges. We won't grow

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8 months ago

Keep smiling, keep fighting! Pain is easy? no way, but I'm pretty sure you get it over my friend! It´s inspiring to know how you deal with it

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8 months ago

Pain will makes us strong or makes us fall, but still, it's on us what path we'll choose.

Pero parang napakasakit Kuya Eddie talaga niyan Ate! Huhuhaha

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8 months ago

This made me realize that every pain is worth to be felt for everyone is going though pain. What's important is how we cope with it and be better after the pain.

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8 months ago

If you feel sadness and if you feel you are alone because no one can understand us, just pray.. put our heart to the lord jesus christ. Yes! We never see him but i know or we know that god is always there for us.. he never leave us and he always listening to our prayers..

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8 months ago

As always an excellent and inspiring report. You are right when you say that you have to let the pain in but not stay with it, you have to cry and kick if you have to, but then you have to get up, shake it off and move on.

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8 months ago

Coz that is the only thing we can do

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8 months ago

Yan ang hirap na hirap ako.. Yung i let go yung greatest pain ko inside... Untill now.. My mind wants to withdraw na but my heart just can't...

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8 months ago

I went through so much in my life and let me tell you, every pain is a lesson... what a meaningful article sis, you explained pain in both literal and figurative sense so clearly... you are amazing writer :)

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8 months ago

Thanks

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8 months ago

The strongest people too go through a lots of pain but because they are able to endure it and never let it got into their soul like what Grace97 said we always think they are stronger

Pain of yesterday won't last forever I agree with Grace97

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8 months ago

Coz they really make us strong

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8 months ago

Yeah right

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8 months ago

Not just a physical pain but also those pain inside you na pilit kinikimkim na imbes na ilabas, at pakawalan ee pilit pang inaalagaan. Let it go and start a new and be happy 💙

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8 months ago

That's what I meant there too 😁

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8 months ago

Gusto ko matry yung acupuncture tsaka cupping massage. Kaso ang liit ng likod ko, ang liit ko pala din. 🤣 Baka di kayanin. Kaya tamang normal massage lang muna.

And truth ate, pain will make us stronger. We just need to let go of it and move forward.

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8 months ago

Msakt sa pagtusok..pro okay lng naman sya

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8 months ago

sobrang curious talaga ako sa dalawang yan, yung acupuncture at cupping massage. Pero feeling ko sobrang sakit nong acupuncture kasi ang daming needle tinutusok eh haha tas samantalang yung cupping massage para kang magiging human peperoni haha

I really enjoyed reading this ate

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8 months ago

Haha. Oo yung spot

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8 months ago

Pain? Yan yung ginagamit pang huli ng isda ang arte nong nagbabasa jokeeee 🤧😂

Seryoso na, Yap kasi yung pain na nararamdaman ko, diyan ako na toto sa lahat at matoto pa. Itinatama sa mga maling desisyon ko sa buhay.

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8 months ago

Glad to know you started something to ease your pain. I also had acupuncture before but never tried the cupping. Hope you will get better soonest.

Pain indeed brings out the hidden strength in us, it helps us grow too.

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8 months ago

This will continue for the whole month

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8 months ago

Yes, supposed to be. And I'm not sure if it's true, pero advice sa akin non, wag muna daw humawak ng malamig na tubig pagkatapos ng acu.

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8 months ago

Syete..nagpunas ako basang bimpo after

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8 months ago

Ouch, hindi ba sinabi sayo nung nag acu? Ok lang basta warm water kasi pag malamig daw papasok sa loob yung lamig.

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8 months ago

This is a wonderful article. The message it wanted to deliver really touches my heart. It kinda comforts me in a way that tells me it is okay to feel pain, to struggle, and to let go. What truly torment me these days are not the pain physically but the psychological pain. However, I am trying to fight with it because I know someday it will all heal and it will make me a better person.

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8 months ago

I remember when we were younger, my sister had to undergo acupuncture for two sessions or probably more. She had to do that while seated and there were needled all over her body. I am not sure what she was suffering from then but looking back, I was amazed how she endured that sitting position with minimal to no movement for how many minutes. It seems like eternity back then.

We have different tolerance of pain. Some can endure more than others. We have to find a way to "toughen it up" for that is how we deal with it.

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8 months ago

It's half to an hour lying with the needles.. Really need to be tough to endure the pain .but we have to remove them before they get worse

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8 months ago

I am just hoping that after this toxic environment that I am in somehow happiness will come.

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8 months ago

I haven't tried acupuncture and cupping treatment but I really wanna try it upon. And yes, we have to let ourselves feel the pain but remember to let it go to be freed from suffering.

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8 months ago

Try mo. Masakit 🤣

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8 months ago

Exactly, endurance is what we need to thug those needles out of our lives and live a happy life thereafter. You explained well with beautiful illustration of the needle. 👍

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8 months ago

Thanks mama

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8 months ago

Why I feel that this article is meant of me? Thanks to those pain I felt co'z it help me to develop my inner core strength. Thank you <3

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8 months ago

Yup exactly if we endure the pain and give proper treatment to it, either it's soul pain or body pain then we should soon become healthy and happy soon😘

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8 months ago

Such a deep & meaningful post! Only you can do this. I know your ability. Such a gem dear.

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8 months ago

I missed your post, madam! I almost tried occupunture but I decided to go to a therapist instead. I also have back problem and the pain is overwhelming.

Pain is never a bad thing. Hard, yes! Growing pains don't stop us. They just get deeper inside our soul and more more meaningful. Xoxo.

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8 months ago

My plan was actually to see a physical therapist when I get back home..but this visa was extended and so I opted to do this instead.. PT here is soo expensive

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8 months ago