When I was a lil girl, I am demure type.. I behave well, and that attracts bully on my side. I was bullied just because I act so innocent and naive, well I really am back then and I pitied my younger self every time I remember it.
Then when I reach 3rd year highschool, everything about me has changed. The way I act and behave, it's like my inner demons has awaken after a long hibernation. I am not scared with anyone anymore like I used to.. even my teachers and professors when I was still a college student. I answered them back whenever I find fault the way they noticed my mistakes or the way they scold me, I don't care if they'll going to give me failing grades or not. But gladly they didn't gave me failing grades haha!
Demure or wild?
The brand new me has come out and that applies to whenever I like someone. It's so funny how I got my partner right now, I did the first move..coz you know I like him the first time I saw him. So I am wild, but sorry to disappoint you, I'm not wild in bed. My partner thought I was and he find it funny after he knows I am not, lmao.
Love at first sight? No. It's more like, trip at first sight.. uhmm, trip ko lang talaga sya. Not to brag, my partner has looks.. he looks like a foreigner, he'll turn red whenever he got tipsy from drinking or if the weather is to hot. He said they have Spanish blood that is why. So ayun, crush ko kase ampogi din naman nya dati haha! Well, until now pogi pa rin naman sya, pero baka sa paningin ko lang naman din, kasi iba iba naman tayo preference. I am into handsome guys, I admit that coz I have my reasons why, and it's I like to have a handsome guy just so my offsprings has good genes haha!
He was my clanmate and I just met him through our eyeball. I was a drunkard back then, I was holding a glass of vodka when I approach him and said,
“Hey man, do you have a girlfriend?”
He said No.
“If no, then I can be your girlfriend”
He was silent and just raised his brows.
“HAHAHAHA! man you're so serious, I was just kidding, but if you'd take it seriously..I can be your gf for real”
He didn't answer. I was pissed!
“Okay, you're so boring. Why don't you just drink and have fun” while I gave him the glass that I was holding.
“Sorry miss, I don't drink”
“Fine, let me just drink it for you then!” I tossed the liquor and leave him with annoyance.
HAHAHA! That was our first encounter. I know my long time follower already know this one coz I've written about it already.
But I was determined to get him, I can't accept he snobbing me lol. So when I got his number, I continuesly teasing him.. he was really hard to get. So what I did, I halted.. and as if I don't care about him anymore, man that was effective. He looks for me and then told me,
“Hey, you still single until now?”
“Why you asking?”
“I was just interested, I was thinking if your offer is still valid”
“What offer?” me acting blindly.
“To be my girlfriend” eeeekkkkkk! Damn I was kilig hahaha, and said in myself I get what I want lmao.
That time, I turned the table and let him wait a bit for my answer.. but it's only three days then I said yes, I can't take any longer, coz I want to kiss him na.. landi ko man din talaga haha!
So that's all, I'm really annoyed today. I just write this impromptu after reading @Sydney2 article What if Women Will Court The Men, so I just told her, I was the one who did the first move, show my motives to the guy I like.
We are now 11 years in a relationship and planning to tie the knot this year. If you're wondering if I was pursuing him all the time coz I did the first move? Of course not, it was just a play to me, after that he's the one pursuing me, I also tested if he's into me or was just playing around.
Was I not ashamed I did that? Not at all, coz why will I restrict myself from wanting to get the guy that I like just because I am a woman? Of course, I also calculated everything, I don't do things I cannot sure I'll never succeed 😁
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Date Published: April 28, 2022
wild nga ate haha. ang kulit2 ehhh. Ladies out there, first move is the key hahahaa.