When You Chose A Woman
Finding the right person for us isn't that easy as we have to check if we are really match before we move forward on settling down stage. A man always longs to have a woman by his side that will help him build their home together, so as the woman. Everyone woman is distinct from each other and thus men has different preference as well when it comes to liking a woman.
For a man, before you settle down with your woman you have to consider things and that if you can stand her for the rest of your lives..all her strength and shortcomings.
Here are the things men should accept if they chose this type of woman;
If a man chose a working woman
If you let your woman works to help you on the financial needs of your family, you should accept that she can't handle the house. She can't do all the cleaning, cooking, laundry, house arrangements and most specially taking care of the kids, you have to hire some nanny or maids to do the works in behalf of your wife since she's also working.
If you can't afford to hire maid or nanny you have to do it yourself especially if your wife has better income or salary than yours. (We've experience this before, when my partner doesn't have a job yet he was the one who took care of our daughter while I work.) Some men can't accept that kind of set-up because it seems hurting their ego but if the situation is demanding and you don't have a choice a man should swallow his pride to compromise.
If a man chose a housewife
If you chose to have a housewife and don't let her work just so she can fully take care of you, your kids and the house you should accept that she can't earn money at all.
She can't contribute to any financial needs that the family needs. All she could give is her tender love and care for the family, shaping it especially the kids.
You must accept and respect her and never belittle her because it's never easy to be a full time housewives. She takes care of the house, kids, and husband 24/7, no day off even if sometimes she's not feeling well too.
If a man chose an obedient woman
There are woman that is so naive, innocent and is very obedient with their husband.. my mum in-law is like that, these type of woman does not argue with their husband and just say yes and obey whatever their husband likes. If you chose that kind of woman you have to accept and be responsible for her and ensure her life as she is very dependent to you.
If you are a responsible man, coz some are not and just taking advantage of their wives innocence and naivety which is very upsetting.
If a man chose a strong woman
If you chose a strong woman you have to accept that she's tough and that she'll always have her opinions over something. You can't just decide for the family if you have a tough wife, you have to hear out her opinions before making decisions to avoid conflicts as these types of woman does not just sit and obey if they think their opinions has valid points over the situation.
They are the opposite of the obedient woman, they don't like getting inferior with anyone may it be their husband.
If a man chose a beautiful woman
If you chose a beautiful woman you have to accept that you'll have bigger expenses than those not so high maintenance woman.
If you chose a beautiful woman you have to buy her all the cosmetics that she uses, all the fashion clothing, footwear, jewelry and etc. Chosing a high maintenance woman is costly, if you wants to have a beautiful wife you have to spend a lot just to maintain her beauty.
If a man chose a career woman
If you chose a career woman you have to accept that she has character, that she has her own ambition and goals. You have to accept that she can't focus on building your home together, as she is maintaining or chasing her career as well.
You have to accept that she can't take fully in charge in the house as well as looking out for the kids.
Those are the types of woman a man should consider especially if they are going to settle down, some men let their woman stop working if his income is enough to provide the family needs just so the wife can fully take care of their home and their children.
While some didn't let their wives stop working as they respect that it's their wives choice to work or if the financial support that a husband can provide isn't enough.
There is no perfect woman and perfect situation, everyone has their riddle and that makes every woman unique from each other.
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Date Published: April 19, 2022
Mainam na kung magjowa palang napag uusapan na yung ganyang bagay noh sis bago magkasal para hindi na sila magtalo in the next few years dahil sa arguements about sa wife.