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Never Let It Hold You

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Everyday we are facing battles within ourselves, if you end your day feeling good about yourself then that means you are victorious. Not all days are the same, we have better days and bad days but what matters most is how we deal with every situation we are facing, how our attitude reflect on it.

There are things that will give huge impact how we deal on every situation in our lives..if you are aiming to be victorious and likes to step up you should cut ties with everything that's holding you back.

What are the things that usually holds us to do better?

Negativity

Negativity is the number one thing that holds us, we are scared to take a step because our negative thoughts already consume us. Being a pessimist does not do good on us but only feed ourselves with all the negativity. There is power on how we think, whatever we think usually reflects on us so we should not let our negativity consume us.

I don't like people who always comments negative whenever there are some discussion plans, I know some people are futuristic but being a nega thinker can ruin the vibe.

Some people are scared to start what they like because they were listening to the negative opinions from others or from themselves alone. We should always not let negativity to overpower our capabilities because we will never know what will be the outcome of the certain things we like to pursue unless we try.

Never listen to negativity, if you want to pursue something always absorb the positivity for you to move forward.

Failures

Failures sometimes gives us traumatic feeling not to try again anymore especially if we already failed many times but it should not hold us back to go on, instead we should make it a stepping stone to success.

If a person can't handle failure then they don't deserve success.

Some people are afraid to try something because they are afraid to fail without them knowing, not trying is the greatest failure they've ever had.

We should not let failure hold us to pursue what we like, we should not let it hinder us from doing more.

Failure is inevitable but if you are focus with your goal failure can never stop us. Focus on your goals not on failures.

Regrets

Regrets always comes last, it doesn't comes first..

I always regret why I let my emotional problems drive me when I was younger, if I just tried harder to be thougher than I was now, I should've achieve something that can fill myself fulfillment.. this regrets always haunts me but I didn't let it consume me. Instead I used my regrets to gear me up in going further so I won't regret more in the later.

Regrets are there to reminds us not do things the same anymore so that it will not give us more regrets in the future.

Never let your regrets holds you back to start up, if you think you're late, no it's not ..nobody is late to shine as long as we keep going without turning back.

Comfort Zone

Comfort zone are beautiful, it's a place where you can be yourself freely..but there is no growth in there.

If you'd like to grow as a person you should get out on your comfort zone, never let it hold you to do more.

People who are successful are usually explorer and leave their comfort zone. Although leaving comfort zone will give us a lot of pressure but in that way we will grow and learn.

Never let your comfort zone hinder you to explore, it's peaceful but will limits you.

Letting go of these things is always applicable even on our daily routine, if we let go all of it we will have a lighter day ahead. We would always be more optimistic if we don't let those things holds us.

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I've written this long time ago, as I was scanning my drafts, no more left.. so I think this will do. I was out for at least three days without proper internet connection so I wasn't able to write.

P.S sorry to all un replied comments, as I had holiday off this holyweek haha. Just got back though I did my Copywriter assigned topic as tomorrow is the deadline.

Hope y'all are doing fine! Belated happy easter!

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These are indeed everyone's downfalls. Now I'm reminded again not to fall into these traps.

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3 months ago

Glad, it helps you remind not to fall on these traps.. I always remind myself too with these.

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3 months ago

Negativity and comfort zone strikes me the most...for I am a person who doesn't like to explore as it will lessen my time table over many things

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3 months ago

Parang asa akin tu lahat ah Kaso di ko basta basta mabitwan ee. Pano yun 🥺🤧

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3 months ago

We should always try never to let the bad days hold us back. In life there’s always good and bad days and it’s natural but we have to keep putting all our best.

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3 months ago

Exactly, we should not focus on the bad days but think that it isn't permanent and we can overcome it.

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3 months ago

Mahirap lumabas sa comfort zone natin but if we will not able to try hindi natin mararanasan ang dapat nating maranasan ay hindi tayo mabubuild ng husto. Kaya even though mahirap kailangan nating magrisk

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3 months ago

Tama, without overcoming the four we will never be built and we'll never grow...so we should try our best to overcome it day by day.

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3 months ago

Whoever is afraid to fail isn't fit for success which is very true. In life, if we must succeed, we must get away with negative thoughts, regrets of the past and leaving our comfort zone if nothing good is coming out from it. Thank you for sharing.

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3 months ago

Thank you Princess your comments means a lot :)

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3 months ago

Iyan talaga na apat na yan ang mahirap kalabanin sa life esp. If may dreams and goals ka. 🥲 lalo na yung Failure. Once kasi na nafail ka, mahirap na ulit sumubok kasi andon na yung negative thoughts. Huhu

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3 months ago

Kaya nga pero dapat talaga e overcome lahat yan...mahirap pero dapat subukan at kayanin for our own good.

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3 months ago

Everything you mentioned are valid. This is a good article

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3 months ago

Thanks, your comments means a lot because I was thinking.. this piece is not that really good at least your affirmation that this is good made me feel at ease haha

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3 months ago

This word came in today to strengthen me, cuz I use to let myself fall into the negative spectrum… and I need to be better always, staying positive.. like you have written it’s always good to come out of one’s comfort zone.. thank you for a great message dear

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3 months ago

I'm happy to enlightened you :) don't focus on negativity as it will only consume you.. whenever negativity comes to you try to divert your attention by seeing the positive side of the situation.

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3 months ago

The best thing is when one is feeling all this negative emotion, the best place for the person to be is the comfort zone, where they can feel relax and get their sh*t back together

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3 months ago

If people keep going back n fort in their comfort zone whenever they have a bad day, they can't let go of this comfort zone and they will not grow literally..

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3 months ago

Hmm.. This is also true, so they have to adapt to the new condition they find themselves?

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3 months ago

Regrets always comes after. We wouldn't learned if we weren't regret but we should not always think more about instead life must go on. Truly, coming out from the comfort zone we had will open to us with lot of opportunities and great experiences.

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3 months ago

Yes, sometimes regrets is what other people's weakness.. like they keep on focusing regrets that made them stagnant and can't move forward..

Agree, if we go out in our comfort zone we will be shape sharply..

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3 months ago

Also, add overthinking about other people's opinions. Sometimes, we are boxed and we can't let loose because we are scared of what other people might think.

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3 months ago

It's part of 7 cardinal rules of life..if we come to think of it, it belongs to negativity aspect.. thinking about other people's opinions about us is part of negative thinking.

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3 months ago

Negetivity always down us.If we want to be success at any work then our first task is positive mind set-up.

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3 months ago

Yeah, though we will not be successful right away.. at least we overcome negativity everyday is already good thing

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