Feeding The Flames

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A blessed Good Friday, read.cash!

I thought to still be taking some off today since it is still Holy Week, but I stumbled a short video on Facebook that kind of bother me.

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This is one of those topics online that will diversify people, but you know what? I will give my thoughts on this one and I am guessing, I would get some rebuttals here and some may not agree on what I am going to say, so let's begin the discussion.

TWERK IT

So, there's a little girl at 7 years of age dancing and twerking in front a camera wearing an extremely sexy outfit with a very explicit music (with drug and s*x lyrics) in the background that it's excessively unequivocal for her age. The person taking the video is no other than her mom and she was very proud for what her little girl's doing. That is kind of sad and disturbing to me. I'm guessing the type of mom who thinks it's cute doing that is isn't much concerned with appropriateness.

Alright, before you lash out and tell me "stay out of other people's business, it's their life", let me simply express what I felt watching that 30-second video.

I am a mother of 9-year old girl and there are numerous things not innately hostile that I actually wouldn't allow her to do. She can enjoy her hobbies, she can dance if she wants to- that would be awesome (unfortunately she's not into it), but I'll stand up and say "NO" when she goes beyond inappropriate. She's 9. Let a kid be a kid. Pass on the twerking to the grown-up adults, where I can see the value in it.

This kind of dance is a sexualized act. A young little girl should not in any way do it. Some think it is cute, silly and funny. So if you take a highly sexualized activity, and have a little girl do it, it's just cute and silly? I can't think anything of a good opinion as to why a parent should let their kid do it. Yes sure, they can. It's legal because no one is saying it isn't. It doesn't mean they're better off.

Okay, some ladies and women twerk just for fun, dancing, hobby or even as a way of their workouts. That's fine. I have no problem with that. Having said that though, I don't think minors (ages 12 and below) should twerk in public especially broadcasting it on social media. It's totally a different story. I am a little conservative and it makes me feel old expressing what I feel and so be it. I am definitely side eyeing a lot of young little girls nowadays, and looking at my daughter making mental notes. No and again, not in my house.

Feeding The Flame

If someone thinks it's cool to jump off a bridge and told you to follow because it's the trend, would you?

In this time of global pedophile rings, who in her sanity would take care of that sort of fire. You are feeding the flame and that is a clear child-abuse. Again in my point of view, that is not okay. It it never okay.  Parenting to me is a very serious matter. I'll leave it at that. Respect.

Let's show our best to people we truly care about especially to the young kids who rely on us so that they will get the best of us, not what's left of us. Wishing you all a decent Friday, my friends. Xoxo.

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Grabe talaga mga ganun sis, Kasi bata yun eh,mamumulat agad sa ganun Gawain kahit na sabihin natin na nakakatuwa pero Hindi ba nila naiisip kung ano magiging epekto nun sa bata. Kaya ako Hindi ko hinahayaan mga anak ko Ng ganun.

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2 years ago

makakuha ng ng views, sis hehe

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2 years ago

Omg, para lang sumikat at sa pera, dapat magulang Ang magturo ng tama, pero bat ganun? 🥺

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2 years ago

Correct, sis. Who's to blame? hehe

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2 years ago

Tapos no ada mangyari ta annak da sadanto agbabawi :(

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2 years ago

Ayna isupay ah.

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2 years ago

Gets ko yung point mo sis and I totally agree with you. Dapat talaga hindi ninonormalize yung mga ganong bagay.

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2 years ago

Common sense na lang, sis no?

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2 years ago

I feel sad about that, parents should be the one teaching what is right and appropriate for their kids :(

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2 years ago

I feel your sentiments, Lovely!

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2 years ago

I think if the mom took it privately and she did not expose it through social media, well that's okay. But she needs to guide, teach, and explain what she's doing.

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2 years ago

Nakakalungkot yung mga ganyang pangyayari, dapat yung ina ang magbabawal sa mga ganyang bagay pero kabaliktaran yung ginawa. What's their purpose, to gain views para maging famous? It's a big No sa akin yung mga ganyan sis

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2 years ago

Gusto nilang magviral, sis hehe

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2 years ago

I'm mother of four lovely kids sis and the eldest is a 15 year old girl but she Is not Into posting In tiktok and what so ever she's a shy type all she want is to draw and because of the pandemic she never did met her friends in her school amd I totally agree with you sis

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2 years ago

God bless you, sis. You're raising them well.

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2 years ago

Such a mother who encourages that should be dealt with cos she knows nothing at all about mothering..

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2 years ago

Spot on, Mhizutty!

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2 years ago

kahit ako man kung ganyan mga pamangkin ko na sinasayaw nila sasawayin ko din kasi di naaayon sa edad nila. Mga kabataan kasi ngayon mas inuuna yung nakikiuso sa mga trend, di ko naman nilalahat ha, base lang talaga sa mga nakikita ko. dapat gina guide pa rin natin sila sa kung ano ang tama at mali

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2 years ago

trot na trot, mamshee. di naman sa nakikialam no? pero pag bata kasi, child abuse yan. we need to rescue them before it's too late.

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2 years ago

kaya nga and to think sariling nanay pa niya ang nasa likod niyan

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2 years ago

This is bad and unacceptable. It's even worse when you consider the fact that the scene is being recorded by the mother who I believe should be correcting her. Sometime ago, I saw a video of a little boy, with a bottle of alcoholic drink in his hand. The mother stood beside the boy and was all smiles, encouraging him to drink more. Which is very bad. The mother should be correcting and not encouraging such bad lifestyle. I love the way you correct your 9 year old daughter. She will definitely not depart from it when she grows up.

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2 years ago

Hi, Mekus. Omg, why would his mother let him hold a bottle of liquor? Crazy world. Smh. Thank you for the thoughts, my friend and I appreciate you stopping by. Nice to meet you :)

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2 years ago

I still don't understand till date. The truth is, most Ladies don't understand the essence of motherhood and before they realize, it's already too late. Nice to meet you too ma'am. 🙌

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2 years ago

Agree. And thank you to you too. You're welcome :)

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2 years ago

Parenting is a big deal and I get the impression not everyone knows this. How we bring up children will tell what the society will be tomorrow. I am liberal, but liberalism doesn't work take away my common sense

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2 years ago

Haha I agree with your last statement, Aimure. It does take away common sense at some point :D

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2 years ago

Sis yun ang nakakalungkot e, ginagamit ang katawan para sumikat. Ika nga ng kaibigan ko, magpakita ka lang ng sexing parte ng katawan instant famous ka na.

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2 years ago

Korek ka jan, sis. Pati mga gamers sa Fb kaya kung anu- ano nakikita ng mga bata eh.

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2 years ago

A parent should not tolerate his or her child to do stuff that is not appropriate for their age. I hope that parents should be more cautious of the trend and also they should control their child from using their gadgets.

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2 years ago

Hello, Alpha! Haven't seen you in a long time. You are right. Let the kids do what kids do and don't take those precious years out of their lives.

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2 years ago

Grabe naman yan ate at mismong mama pa yung nagvideo na sana siya yung magmentor sa anak niya ng mga dapat gawin.

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2 years ago

Di ba, sis? Baka need ni mother ng views :D

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2 years ago

It's truly fun to see our kids doing the trends these days, but twerking is an exception. A lot of pedophiles are just around thecorner. I hope the parent would realize it mybfriend.

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2 years ago

I do not think that anyone will criticize your words because it is the correct speech and your position on the matter is the correct position that every mother should take. There are many dances and songs that can be taught to children away from sexual overtones

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2 years ago

Oh how kind are you, doc Lara!

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2 years ago

It seems that the mother of the child herself, is not even aware of her actions. Promoting such acts on her daughter will surely bring them consequences for when the child grows up. She might even think that its a normal thing since her mom lets her do such thing at such a tender age.

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2 years ago

Things are happening! People are happily adopting n*onsense as life Pattern. From many observation on what's happening, I think that the mother of the girl recorded and posted that to gain influence on social media. Yeah, social media and money, that's what is pushing People astray

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2 years ago

Indeed, my friend. It's all about the fame and money!

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2 years ago

People have so much entertainment with posting videos they do not care about the implications. Tamo if that is shareable and some sicko starts re sharing those, aalma naman ng kung ano anong rights rights and abuse abuse.......

Ewan ko ang imbalance ng mundo...v

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2 years ago

Hello, Pich! Yass, nakakasad na ang Earth these days. How are you?

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2 years ago

Hello ate!!! Ty sa sponsorship! Eto... Sonfar enjoying the holiday ... You?

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2 years ago

Is this the influence of the media so that many people often offer videos to seek image but must in an inappropriate way? the issue of pedophiles has not yet been completed, now there are things that are contrary to minors. I pray that this will not be done again because it is a pity to see children who do not know anything.

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2 years ago

I really feel bad for those kids without knowing what they're doing :( I pray for them too, my friend.

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2 years ago

Twerking is fun. It is fun when you do it in appropriate way. But for this little girl you mentioned, it's a big no. I have two sisters, and I would definitely not allow them to do it in front of camera and upload it online.

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2 years ago

Exactly, Denn. Wag naman yung walang kamuwang-muwang na bata :(

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2 years ago

Anyare na sa earth sis? Dios MiO sariling ina pa talaga. Wla na bang ibang ma content kundi yan.. Big no din yan sa akin sis at mabash ka lng ng bongga.

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2 years ago

para sa views cguro, sis 😒

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2 years ago

Nku nman parang yayaman agad sis

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2 years ago

lol

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2 years ago

There are just so many parenting failures these days. But who am I to dictate what other parents should or shouldn't do. To each his own, they said. But I strongly concur with your view. I certainly think it is not okay for a minor to act in such a way or be exposed to such music/lyrics. I have a 12 years old daughter who is going through puberty and her school friends are all into stuff like that. Her dad and I monitor her WA conversations and if anything like that appears in the chat, we would talk to her about why such convo is not right and encourage her not to respond or just say no. We can't protect them from all the negative worldly things forever but we can teach them where to draw boundaries.

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2 years ago

You're doing a great job, momma!!

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2 years ago

Seryoso sa 9yearsold na nagtetwerk? Luh di manlang sya mapagsabihan o maturuan ng oarents nya? Coming 21 nako pero ung twerk diko parin alam until now. Ang hirap sa generation now ung iba napapabayaan na

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2 years ago

7 danda. kaya nga eh

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2 years ago

Allow me to express my sincere, deep gratitude for your support and help, for your inestimable attention and human warmth! May your responsive heart be rewarded with the most generous gifts of nature: love, faith, and friendship. I thank you for your continued!

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2 years ago

Hello, Belo. How are you, my friend?

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2 years ago

That's extremely irresponsible of the mother. But then again, that's how much moral has died in today's world

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2 years ago

Sigh! Sad reality, my friend!

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2 years ago

Actually the world is becoming like that, we can't protest on many things that is unliked by us. Not only for us, we can not let those things to appear infront of our closed ones or precisely can be said childrens, those acts can impact childrens future or at peast thinking capability. All we can report but if that goes trend we can no longer control because those things goes out of our hand. We can make awareness but it depends to them to obey or not. If the society welcomes these things then we can not move toward a bright future with our childrens.

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2 years ago

The the last option, my friend. It breaks my heart sometimes me when I feel helpless :(

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2 years ago

Being religious can bring changes. In our Islam there is many rules for girls and those are to protect them also teaching them the behaviors or how the life can be lead with. Don't be helpless, keep strength and don't allow those things to see your child. Make some strict rules which will be obeyed by childrens for their betterment.

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2 years ago

Thank you for your thoughts, my friend. I do appreciate it!

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2 years ago

You are most welcome dear, anytime!

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2 years ago

Yes sister, I totally agree with you, parents should be as conservative as you. Just because someone is eating poison does not mean that the poison is honey,,,

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2 years ago

Nailed it. Apex!!

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2 years ago

Funny how the society condones mundane things these days. I'm glad you aired your view, I for one, don't find a girl; twerking at ages below 12, awesome and I'll definitely train my daughter with this principle.

Happy good Friday to you.

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2 years ago

An unrelated question: can/do you twerk? 👽👽

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2 years ago

Forgive me, my fellowmen but in the Philippines, this is "almost" normal and I find it absurd! Happy Friday to you too, Ella :)

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2 years ago

I am fond of my daughter while dancing but not infront of the camera with that kind of background music, maybe they did not understand the lyrics.. Before I sing a song, I am surely listen to its lyrics, if its okay then be it, but if not .. I had to delete it..

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2 years ago

Indeed, Dawn. Make sure the lyrics are safe. Kids adapt things very easily and they memorize fast. I hope what they're memorizing are appropriate to their age.

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2 years ago

This is absolutely absurd, ridiculous and bizarre. Of a truth, I just think some parents are the ones who end up destroying their children's lives. How on Earth will a mother, (probably I should correct myself, she isn't worthy of being called that), How on Earth will some Lady , (better word) ask a 8 year old girl to start twerking. Imagine. Oh my God. Where exactly is the world heading. Damn. Where are those morals of our forefathers. I dunnot care if anyone's opinion is otherwise, I stand firmly with you on this. One last thing though, I will like to implore you to make sure you train your girl in a good way, cos who knows probably the sets of girls might be her school mates and might teach her other untennable bad morals. You know, peer pressure and all. Happy Friday though.

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2 years ago

My thoughts precisely, Michael. It's sick! I mean, I could not handle it.

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2 years ago

Jusmiyo! Trend nga siya ngayon. Ginagawa ko nga yan minsan sa Tiktok ko Ma'am, pero hindi na ako masyadong nagsasasayaw dun, nood nalang muna. Pero yung mga bata pa, hindi talaga nakakatuwa yung parang wala lang sa mga magulang nila.

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2 years ago

Hehe pag adult parang okay lang cguro (sa kanila) for fun, renren. Pag bata, parang binubugaw mo na kasi. Opinion lang. Naaawa ako eh.

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2 years ago

For fun nga lang for me yun Ma'am. Tas yun nga, totoo yang sabi mo ba. Kaawa kasi yung bata na na.i.engage na sa mga ganito tas pangit pa yung music. Hindi akma para sa kanila talaga.

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2 years ago

taz kinakanta pa nila jusko huhu

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2 years ago

Oo nga eh. Na. LSS din sila. :(

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2 years ago

Dapat tlaga sis iyong tama iyong ipapakitang sayaw at angkop sa batang sasayaw sis.

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2 years ago

Yes, sis. Yung sakto lang sana for their age.

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2 years ago

Gosh, I feel sad for what my mother did, a 7 year old child who doesn't know and knows sexually why they have to be sacrificed when they don't understand things like that. maybe the purpose is just to entertain but the image is like having abused a minor it's true it's their right to do it but what about the fate of the children who watch the video will they be inspired? This is a very sad incident, I hope this will not happen again. Happy Good Friday, God has sacrificed for us human beings.

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2 years ago

My sentiments exactly, my friend. Poor little girl.

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2 years ago

Agree po ako sa inyo. Para sa akin po hindi pa dapat ginagawa ng mga minors ang ganung bagay. Conservative din po kasi ako. At pwede naman magdance ang mga bata pero yung dance lang po sana na maayos at wag po sana yung mga sayaw na hindi kaaya aya lalo na po sa murang edad nila.

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2 years ago

Tama, sis. Should be appropriate to their age.

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2 years ago

Opo kaso yung ibang mga bata po kasi ngayon kung ano po nakikita nila sa mga nakakatanda eh ginagaya po talaga nila kaya dapat napapaligiran po sila ng mga mabubuti pong tao o kaya naman iiwas na lang po sila ng mga magulang sa mga bad influences.

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2 years ago

This trend is getting widely spread all over the world. It's so sad to see innocent children getting strongly influenced by what they see other do on the media and their Parents think it's cool... The young shall definitely grow, and I can't help but wonder how they'd turn out to be.

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2 years ago

It is very sad, Bilqess. I dunno how to explain it, but my heart goes to those innocent ones who are clueless of what they're doing.

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2 years ago

Against din ako sa mga ganun sis. Kid is a kid pero pag ganung sayaw hindi na appropriate yun. Hindi na maganda yun sis. Hindi yung ikabubuti sa kanila. Sana maisip din ng parent sis at ma realize na hindi maganda sa mga kids yung mga ganun.

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2 years ago

Indeed, sis. Gawin na nila basta wag sa bata nakakaawa kasi :(

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2 years ago

Tama sis. Hindi maganda yung ganun sa mga bata. Di ako makapaniwala na ginawa yung ng mama ng bata sis.

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2 years ago

The mother should be more careful about what she let her kids do especially on social media. Such inappropriate acts allowed especially to the kids to perform could lead them to not be able to distinguish what is right or wrong anymore.

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2 years ago

Amen to that, Kendy. No because it is "uso" eh gayahin na. Isip isip din pag may time hehe.

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2 years ago

Tama po, sana maisip nila yun.

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2 years ago

So true sis. Just because it is what everyone's doing is it's right. I don't like twerking as part of the dance steps. I actually don't do it. When I join Zumba or any other dancing sessions with twerking, I don't do it. I am a bit conservative too, especially when it comes to my kids. I watched TikTok with Bam, I deleted it after that. I don't want them exposed to inappropriate stuff online.

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2 years ago

Good job, mommy! Much respect!!

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2 years ago

Actually not only in children I find it disturbing but also to ladies. I can't understand sometimes why they kept on twerking in the camera wearing that clothes that seems nothing to hide?🤔🤔 Bakat na bakat pa minsan

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2 years ago

Mapapa "sigh" na lang ako, sis :(

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2 years ago

Kaya nga eh, same here

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2 years ago