My day by the pool !
My greetings! how's everyone today? How does it feel when you know that tomorrow is Monday again! Sorry for the reminder.
Anyway, how did you spend the weekend?
In my country the weather is now very hot where the highest temperatures throughout the year are in August, so you see that everyone on the weekend heads towards the mountains or towards the sea.
As for me and my friends we decided to go to the pool to enjoy some water and also sunbathe.
We left the house around 10:30, the distance is not long so it only takes 10 or 15 minutes by car.
When we arrived we booked a table to put our things, we didn't actually sit down but went straight to the dressing rooms, put on our swimming costumes, put on sunscreen and headed straight to the water.
The water was fresh and cold despite the temperatures. The reason for this is that the pool water is taken from a nearby well, meaning that the pool owner dug a well next to the pool to keep the water clean and fresh and he did not have to buy it.
I can't describe to you the amount of fun we had and the refreshment too, as we organized some games in the water and not just swimming, my favorite is throwing a penny in the water and trying to dive and find it, I can humbly say that I am the best in this game, which annoys my friends and makes them want to change The game, that's funny!
The second game was a race between young people who could cross the pool in the shortest time. We girls were standing at the edge of the pool watching who would arrive first and cheering. I don't like this game because I'm not fast at swimming even though I can swim very well but I don't have a chance in front of the guys.
After we got tired of these games and started feeling tired, we went back to the table and ordered some drinks, beer and some appetizers, and we sat rest, talking and laughing.
It was time for lunch and dinner, and then we sat down, since you can't swim with a belly full,
We swam a little after lunch and then continued our conversations until the sun started to set, and the pool became empty of people, we watched the place, how it was full of people and movement, then suddenly there was silence, we took a quick shower, changed our clothes and went home.
At home I was completely exhausted and wanted nothing but to go to bed to sleep, I put some moisturizer and sunscreen because sunburns are annoying, I put my head on the pillow and felt like I was floating. I can still hear the water in my ears and feel like I'm sleeping on the water, then fall asleep like this.
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Where are you?
Hello, my family, or whoever remains of it. Today, I am sad but grateful, sad because my family here is getting smaller and not getting bigger. I miss many of the friends that the read.cash platform brought me with, but now they are no longer here.
I no longer see articles for them, nor do I see their comments on my articles. I do not know if they have left this beautiful platform or if life keeps them busy away from writing.
My articles used to be full of comments from friends and we shared a lot here. I don't know anything about them now and I don't hear their news, they have disappeared and I have no way to communicate with them except read.cash This nice platform that kept me up to date with their latest news.
It is also sad that my articles were receiving the support of these friends, I now have 108 friends here, but none of them are active and I do not see them in my articles, and I do not think that the reason for my articles is because I am constantly developing them. My articles used to get 50 views and about 24 and sometimes more likes, and don't forget Rosti's generous generosity in advance. I really miss all of this. I don't know the reason for this retreat.
But I know that I will not give up, and I will not despair. I will try to make new friends while waiting for the old ones to come back and I will continue publishing and writing because it is something I love, something that frees me and gives me a chance to share what I think. I know that read.cash is a popular platform for me, and I prefer spending time here, interacting with others, reading their thoughts and exchanging my opinions and ideas. This platform allowed me to strengthen my abilities to express and write. I am a shy person who does not express with words, but after the read.cash platform, I became more able to express myself and my language and vocabulary became better.
I do not know the reason for this stagnation, but I know that although I am sad, I will not lose hope. The read.cash platform has supported me very much, and I know that it is my turn now to support it or not give it up.
I love read.cash and I love you all and miss you too.
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What should I do? Do you have this type of people in your life?
Hello my lovely family, it's the weekend again. How do you think about spending your weekend? In fact, I was thinking of visiting a friend of mine in the neighboring city because her mother underwent an operation and I want to see her and check on her.
Well that's not what I actually want to talk about. I want to know if you guys have come across this kind of person before because it's the first time, fortunately or unfortunately I don't know exactly, that I've met such people.
A few months ago I met a guy and let's call him Mr. V, Mr. V was a mutual friend of a group of my friends, he was kind and polite and our dealings were semi-formal. After a while, Mr. v called for my number and started to check on me and we talked intermittently. After about a month, our conversation became almost daily.
We talk about everything, daily events, friends, university and future plans for each of us. We laugh together, we grieve together, and we become very close. Become my best friend.
During my exams, he put up with my mood swings and was relieving my anxiety and tension, telling me that everything would be fine, sending funny things and helping me with my studies even with encouragement.
Of course he had exams too, he was having difficulty with studying and he had already failed before, I encouraged him and cheered him up and told him that things would be fine, and indeed he improved very much and passed all the exams that I was next to him in and I was very happy because we have a positive impact on each other.
Everything was going well, and things for both of us are improving. Any problem that either of us faces, the other will be there to help him.
When I finished my last exam he still had about 3 or 4 exams because he had already failed some subjects and she has to take these exams again in the summer semester.
I told him that it was okay and that I would be next to him to support him and make studying less boring. But when the day of my graduation approached, it seemed that the two parties had already changed their ways. And he made a problem out of nothing, when I asked him if there was something bothering him, he avoided the answer, but he hinted that I would graduate and he did not and that I still had a long time, I told him that it was okay, the important thing was that he would graduate in the end, but this did not change anything, he was upset. I don't know, he couldn't be happy for my happiness, he wasn't by my side on my important day, he didn't talk to me, he didn't reassure how things went, he just disappeared.
I did not lose hope and tried to talk to him again, but what I received was coldness and repulsion!
I don't know why guys are afraid of a successful girl or a girl who outperforms him. This does not necessarily mean detracting from it, and my success does not cancel out the possibility of its success. He couldn't accept that he was older than me but I graduated before him.
I'm really confused by his behavior and I don't know what I should do, I've already tried to communicate with him before but he didn't show a desire to, he was very impulsive to talk to me and told me that he would go crazy if a day passes or he talks to me about him. He made me feel that he wanted me to always lean on him, to be the sad person with whom I find my happiness only, and the moment I became happy and relieved of tension, he felt that there was no place for him and decided to withdraw. I did not discuss this with him, but I know that this is the reason, because he has been complaining about the last period that I will graduate and start a career, and he does not.
I don't know what to do and I think I will benefit from your advice, so would you tell me what you think about it? What should I do? And is he really just mail me a weak person leaning on him? Or does he feel that I need someone better than him and decide to go and get ahead of things?
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My day before graduation
Hello my beautiful family! Today is Friday, the weekend is here, everyone is counting time to go home and start the weekend activities, relax, go out with the great or friends, stay up and have fun. And loathing has accumulated things he wants to take advantage of the holiday and accomplished.
For me this weekend is a busy holiday! Sunday is the day to discuss my graduation project. This is an important day for every university student. After waiting for 5 years of fatigue and study, we are waiting for this day to crown our success.
I am also one of those people I am waiting for this day impatiently and very happy but also a little scared. I didn't know it was so confusing. So much to prepare and practice.
The first problem was that according to the distribution, the day of discussing my graduation project was the first day, and as you know, no time had passed since my exams ended, which means that I am not ready in all respects for this day.
I had finished the project in advance, but when the supervising doctor read it, he decided to make some modifications to it. I was not able to complete it during the exam period, so I have been working on this issue for the past two days.
Well it didn't end here I still have to write dedications, I think it's a bit difficult because I like to express my love and gratitude with attitudes and actions, I'm not the kind with words, I feel shy sometimes. I may ask my father for help in evaluating the gift to be written and whether it will need to be modified.
After that, I have to choose the design of the leather cover for the project and prepare 3 copies of it, one for the university, one for the supervising doctor, and one for me. I don't know how quickly the library can complete it, but I hope it will be ready for Sunday, otherwise the situation will be bad for me.
Finally, the most important part for me as a girl is the outfit! I had decided to design a suit for my graduation when sewing, and it is really expensive here, but I had decided on it and saved money from my earnings on read.cash and also hive. Unfortunately, I was a little late in securing the money, so I was late in buying the fabric and starting to tailor the suit at the seamstress.
And when I knew that the discussion was on Sunday, well, I started crying because I knew the suit was not ready yet and it would take time. I wanted the day to be perfect as I had planned it, but unfortunately things turned out otherwise. I wanted a light mauve suit but I ended up buying an indigo fabric, well I like that color too and thought it would fit.
When I went to sew, she told me the suit was impossible to be ready for Sunday, well I was worried and sad, I mean I don't know what I'm going to wear now, but she told me the pants and sweater would be ready and the jacket was taking time so I wouldn't be able to wear it on Sunday.
Well I just have to accept this and hope it looks decent but I have no other choice. It seems that the expected day will not be as perfect as I had hoped, and this added some sadness to me, but it's okay, I'm graduating, and this is enough happiness to cover up the imperfection of things.
I hope things go well and the discussion is good and the committee likes it. I will share the pictures with you if all goes well and I managed to take good pictures.
Wish me luck guys !!
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Are you bold enough to answer it truly?!
Hello my beautiful family.. How is Wednesday going with you so far.. I hope you are spending good times away from the stress of life.
Today I will answer these questions with complete honesty, far from idealism. I want to really test my humanity. This set of questions was created by me and was inspired by different stories, so let's start..
Would you choose to marry someone you love or a rich person?
We all know the importance of money in life, and we know that love will escape the window when it comes to life's matters and requirements, the situation will become difficult for love when there is no money to secure the basics. But a life with only money without passion and love will make you feel depressed and the money of the world will not be able to fill the void of passion inside you. I will choose love, but it is preferable that love be combined with money so that there is a balance. I will choose love with easy financial conditions and not necessarily obscene wealth, then life will be perfect for me.
If you are married to the love of your life, will you abandon him if he suffers a disability that prevents him from moving and taking care of himself?
I don't know, maybe as a doctor I will be able to take care of him, I mean that's what we do all the time caring for the needy, I may feel like I want to go home to someone who cares about me after a stressful day at work instead of pursuing care, in fact I can't make a decision now I need to know how much My love for this person and the extent to which I am able to bear this burden, I may at first bear it and then lose my ability with the days. I don't know if I was in the situation then I would really be able to make such a difficult decision. But I know I'm not one of those people who run away when things get bad.. through thick and thin
If your mother needed a kidney..and only you and your brother matched her, would you donate your kidney or would you let your brother do it?
Of course, I will donate my kidneys, I mean on the one hand it is my mother and on the other hand my brother, and I will not accept anything harm to happen to them while I am present. I will accept to put a part of me inside my mother to save her and to keep my brother away from the risk of surgery and its complications
If there is a cat on the side of the road that is run over by a car and she needs help, or else she will die, will you leave her to die or try to help her?
I think you all know how much I love cats and how attached I am to them so of course I won't let the poor cat die. I will help her get better and maybe adopt her. I have done this before and will continue to do, cats are wonderful, cute creatures and they deserve to be loved
If you are very hungry and only have the price of one sandwich and you see a starving child standing next to the store, will you give him the sandwich or keep it for yourself?
The best thing I can do in this situation is to share a sandwich with the poor kid. I won't accept my stomach being full knowing a small child is hungry and I can help him and of course I won't starve watching someone eat my food so sharing is always my choice
If your mother and father disagreed, would you stand with your mother or father?
Well, my mom and dad are two grown people who know what's right and what's wrong, and they're both older and more experienced than me. I love and respect both of them and I don't think I am in a place to choose between them, so I would prefer not to interfere with them and leave them to solve their problems on their own.
If someone offended you, would you repeat the same offense to him or what would you do?
No, I am a peaceful person by nature, I take offense and absorb it. I do not repeat the mistakes of others. I will accept the offense and be silent, but I may respond so forcefully that the other person will be ashamed of himself. Or I may go silently, because I will not lose a word in the face of a foolish person. Of course, I will not win if I fight his way.
Well, these were my answers. Tell me what is your assessment of it and also tell me what you would have done in such situations..waiting for your answers.
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How life was going?
Hello my dear family! I missed you so much, how is everyone? I hope you tell me in the comments how are you spending your days and is everyone okay here?
I've been away from the platform for a while, and from time to time I peep, say hello, publish an article, and then disappear again. I'm sorry for missing your articles and sorry for not being on the read.cash platform as I should. Perhaps you are starting to get bored of me talking about my exams, but believe me, it is more difficult than being an exam. I'm learning things that will save someone's life in the future and there is absolutely no room for error or hesitation.
In addition, medical exams are divided into several stages. There is a practical section where we meet and examine patients, and there is a written section on paper. Anyway, last Sunday was my last medical exam and soon the graduation ceremony will be, and I will share it with you in detail. I am so excited to share these details with you. I mean, I shared with you my tired days where fatigue from studying, anxiety and stress. but now it's time to celebrate success.
And what better place than the read.cash platform to share our thoughts, joys and feelings. Besides, I consider you my second family to everyone here. The read.cash platform brought me closer to you, despite the huge distances between us, but I consider you my friends and family. read.cash platform helped me a lot. Not only financially, but also morally, it was my safe place to express my thoughts and feelings and share everything that was on my mind with you. She introduced me to wonderful people and I am so grateful to have them in my life, although I have never met them, I feel that they are family members, the first of them is my wonderful friend @Jelena who supported me a lot and was like a sister to me, also my wonderful friend @Bilqees and my sweet friend @Aimure and not forgetting my wonderful witch @hermoni And of course my dear sweet sister and friend @Talecharm and finally my little brother @Captainrateful to read.cash platform that introduced me to you and made us have such affection, and I hope to be able to meet all of you one day.
I do not know how the time passed without writing something here, although it was always on my mind, but I would not have enough time, anyway from today onwards I will be here more and more and I will try to make up for everything I missed. I will not allow anything to prevent me from expressing and writing.
What concerns me now is the graduation project, preparing for it and discussing it with the supervising seniors. My project in general surgery about cysts in the pancreas and how to treat them and avoid their complications. In addition, I am busy with the outfit that I will wear on such an important day.
Currently, as a doctor, medicine and everything related to it takes my entire time, to the point that I miss being here and also missing being with my friends and family members, but as you remember before I told you the importance of time management and organization, I will try to restore balance to everything here and in my real life. I will compensate all friends and family for the periods I was absent from them, and this includes you as well, as you are my second family.
What I'm trying to say is that I have a great responsibility and I still feel that I am too young for such a thing but I will try to mature faster so that I can handle things properly. And I want to apologize for missing out on the developments of your life. I'll make up for it and fill in the blanks. I'm here and I love you.
Thank you for the love I have in my heart and you are its source and thank you read.cash for everything.
Hello ! I'm back! Show me some love
Sorry for not being around lately I had exams but now I'm done and won't miss your articles no more
Fried Cheese Balls & 2503 hearts
Hey my beautiful family. I miss you! Sorry for not being here recently. I still have some exams. I take advantage of some spare time from time to time to check on your conditions and check your articles. Forgive me, because I miss a lot of them. I only have two exams left and I will always be here..Wait for me.
Now I want to share with you this nice achievement that happened to me! I'm really happy, although I have been absent from the wonderful read.cash platform lately, but I managed to reach this number. You may say it is small, but to me it is important and big and I am proud and happy for it. I want to thank you all for all the support and unconditional love I receive from you. I love you all.
read cash is an important thing in my life, I have made a lot of real friends, I may not have actually met them but I feel like I've known them for a long time. I am so grateful to all who are here and to all my wonderful friends who are actually my family.. Thanks read cash.
I want to thank all my sponsors who gave great support and love despite my shortcomings with them.
But now I hope you are hungry because today's recipe is easy, quick to prepare and very tasty 😋
It's potato balls stuffed with cheese!
What we have to do in the beginning is to boil a number of potatoes in the amount we want, there is no specific amount.
Then we mash it well until it becomes a dough, add flour to it to hold together and a little starch.. You can estimate the quantities by the degree of cohesion of the mixture. Add salt, black pepper and any other spices or flavorings you like.
In another dish, sprinkle the kashkaval cheese so finely that you can use it for the filling.
In a third dish, bring some cake and grind it well to make it very soft. You can use toast instead of cake.
Finally the eggs! Just hatch it, beat it, and follow along.
Sorry, I did not take pictures of these stages. It was in the evening, and I was making them with my friend. I did not have time to photograph the steps one by one.
Now take a quantity of potato dough and stretch it in your hand, then stuff it with cheese and shape it into a ball, it's fun while preparing it.
Now that you have a ball stuffed with cheese, put it lightly in the eggs and then in the ground cakes. Then put them in the frying oil and wait until they turn golden and crunchy.
Thus, you have delicious potato balls with cheese. You can dip them in ketchup and you will get the best taste.. Bon appetit!
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A recipe for making perfect children (Lead by example)
The path of life begins with our birth. We are innocent children. We know nothing in life except what our parents teach us. We grow up and wonder if my parents taught me everything I needed in life? I went through a lot of pain until I learned things on my own that my parents didn't tell me about, if they did, things would have been simpler and less complicated.
Then we start thinking that when I become a father or mother, I will raise my children and teach them everything they need. I want to make them a better life than mine. I want them to be perfect children! And with the birth of your child, you begin to give him orders and instructions to become a perfect person who does not make mistakes, does not get into trouble, does not take risks and lives safely by your side.
But is this the right thing to do? To create a child who only lives by orders? He has no curiosity to explore and learn on his own! Not to try something and learn from his mistakes!
You will justify it that you do not want him to suffer as you did, and you do not want him to learn the hard way. You are enlightened by directing him and keeping him away from new unsafe experiences. You prevent him from smoking and tell him its harm, but he sees you in the evening next to a cup of coffee smoking a cigarette! You ask him to drive carefully and to always wear a seat belt, but he sees you when you go out fast, you drive fast if you are late and forget to put the seat belt! You ask him not to stay up late and come back early, but he wakes up to the sound of your footsteps and you sneak into the house after midnight!
Do you think that your child or teenager who does not act exactly the opposite of what you tell him to act will abide by your orders that you do not comply with!
No dear, he won't. Not because he wants to rebel against you, not at all. Rather, because in the eyes of each person, his parents are the best of all and they are his role models and he wants to become like them. So if you want your child to be the best version of himself, you have to be the best version of yourself.
You need to teach your child to do the right things by first watching you do them. You should lead by example, not by orders and exhortations.
You want your child to make his bed when he wakes up, he should see you making your bed, you want him not to scream or use profanity, you should speak quietly in front of him, not scream at him not to scream. You want him to stick to his school time and do his duties, you have to abide by your duties and work. You want him energetic Be energetic, you want him polite Be polite, you want him intelligent and caring Give him your time Talk to him Teach him that the best way to get something is to do it right.
Be a good role model, make your actions a mirror of what you want to see in your children, do not scold them, talk to them. Don't give orders for them to carry out, but do in front of them what you want them to do, and stay away from what you want them to avoid.
Make your actions a teacher for your children, not your words.
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A trip with me to explore Mashkita !!
Today I will take you on an interesting trip to explore a tourism area in my country. In fact, you are taking two trips, the first to the wonderful city and its tourist resort, and the second is a trip in my memory of this wonderful day.
Mashqita is located north of Lattakia in Syria and is characterized by a beautiful nature protected from human interference, where it still maintains its fresh air, permanent greenery and blue water, and speaking of water, Mashqita overlooks 7 lakes with legendary beauty.
This trip took place two years ago, and it was organized by the students in the Faculty Medicine in partnership with the students of dentistry and pharmacy. The agreed place for the meeting was the square in front of the university building. The students began arriving and when the number was full, the buses took off on the road.
The road trip took a few hours, but we spent it singing and laughing and dancing in the bus, well the music and enthusiasm can do more than that too lol. In addition to enjoying the beautiful landscapes that characterize Mashqita.
Our first destination was an open-front restaurant that overlooks the sea directly and rises slightly from it. We stopped for breakfast and caught our breaths after the long road trip. We had a beautiful time and enjoyed our food in front of these charming views. Breakfast couldn't be better!
Our next destination was the Royal Palace Tourist Resort, where we will stay for the evening, have lunch and DJ party and sing and dance until our feet can't carry us.
The resort was wonderful and very luxurious, it has several sections for dining, I chose the one that has a roof with glass walls open as windows because the weather is hot and the view is irresistible. Lunch while enjoying the view of the garden and the view of one of the seven lakes is priceless.
We certainly did not miss the opportunity to take a boat ride and go on a lake trip, for someone like me riding a boat and enjoying the water and sunshine equals the best part of the trip.
When we came back from the boat trip, we were able to rest a bit, change our clothes and take a shower to get ready for our DJ party. I remember at that time the party lasted until two o'clock in the middle of the night. The problem was that to get home we had to travel the same long distances by bus. We were really tired but definitely happy. This trip will remain one of the best trips I have taken, and Mashkita
will remain one of the best places I have visited.
I hope you enjoyed this nice trip and managed to get an idea of the beauty of the coast bride "Mashkita"
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Come and Play !!
Hello my wonderful family.. How is it going? I hope you are all well and doing well, I miss you so much and I miss readcash, my favorite platform.
I want to reiterate my regret for not being here in the last period, I have been taking difficult and stressful exams I didn't have the time or energy to write, and I was reading hundreds of pages a day but I did not have the energy to read more here, I hope you understand this situation in the Faculty of Medicine, it calls for this effort But it is worth it because in the end any line I read will be a way to save someone's life and help humanity and this is the ultimate goal of doctors, to save lives.
Now if you are bored or out of ideas for writing, you can enjoy my answers to these questions and the explanation as well. I want to thank my friend @el-flame for this set of questions. You can read his own version too, it's fun.
What would you do if you found a dead body in a hotel room?
The corpses do not frighten me, and the idea of death in itself is something that I have been reconciled with it for a long time. Like any doctor, I will make sure that the corpse is really dead, and there is no pulse or reflexes, and I cannot save it, then I will call the police.
Do you think if anything is possible, it's still possible for anything to be impossible?
Lol it's a tricky question and devoid of logical, if anything is possible then the impossible is possible and your ability to do something is possible and also your inability to do the same is possible, I mean it's like entering a whirlpool of wordplay. Please the next question
Have you ever attempted to swallow toothpaste?
Millions of times and not only when I was a little kid, I still swallow it sometimes lol I find it taste delicious and refreshing so I swallow a little of it to freshen my throat, this is unhealthy but I swallow a little of it so it's okay lol
If you punch yourself in the face and it hurts, are you weak or strong?
Neither this nor that, I would be an idiot. I won't try to prove my strength or weakness by hurting myself because the only thing I'll prove is how stupid I am lol
If you had the chance to invent a country, what would you name it?
I will invent a country and fill it with cats and call it Meow Land .. No one will be allowed to enter unless he is a cat lover and I will live my happiest days in this country lol
What do you think about while you are on the toilet?
I put headphones and songs sometimes lol and other times I write the best articles in it. I mean it is quiet without disturbance and I am alone with my thoughts, I will think about the most important issues in my life and write the best articles lol I'm sorry the bathroom is a comfort zone for me
When you know the battery is dead, why do you press harder on the remote control?
I don't and actually it has been long time since the last time I watched TV, phone is my new TV lol
How would you know if someone has manipulated your memory?
I will be able to remember it, I have a good memory but in terms of dates I am the worst lol, if there was a change in this and I remembered a date or time and I forgot the details of a specific situation that happened to me, surely someone had manipulated my memory lol
Which of the teachers would you prefer to have if you were a Hogwarts student?
Professor Snape! I can tell you that I've watched the Harris Potter series a million times, only to find that Professor Snape is the best. And off topic, I'd like to hug Hagrid.
Well, here we come to the last question in this article. I hope you enjoyed my answers. I am waiting for your copy of the answers.
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Things to do when sadness
We get a strange feeling of sadness sometimes, suddenly a black cloud hangs over our heads and causes us strange misery, no one here can help but understand what I'm talking about, we have all been in this situation before. So when this happens to me I try to get myself out of it in several ways. I will mention some of them next, so that they may help you overcome this situation as well as help me
1- listening to music
When I'm in a state of lethargy and frustration, I sit alone in the room, I put my headphones at the top volume, I definitely avoid sad songs and choose upbeat songs. I will choose songs that make every cell in my body want to jump and dance, music will always improve my mood. Sometimes I want to listen to calm and gentle songs. It will have a relaxing effect on the nerves and remove the sadness from me
2- Play with my pets
Playing with my pets, petting their fur and patting them will give me a great feeling of satisfaction and comfort, their cute shapes and warmth will succeed in bringing happiness and warmth to my heart, you can't imagine how much positive energy pets give you, they will take all the negative energy and sadness and replace it with happiness, contentment and a warm feeling
3- Go for a walk
Exercising in general, and hiking in particular, will stimulate your blood circulation and renew the blood in your veins. You will feel that every cell in your body is alive again. Sports rid your body of toxins and give you time to think and unload your negative charges with something useful, sports will be able to relax your nerves
4- Ice cream and chocolate
Regardless of it being a sign of great happiness for me, scientifically it helps raise the levels of serotonin and dopamine in your body, which are the hormones responsible for happiness, so when you are sad, a chocolate bar will raise the hormones of happiness in your body to the required level and draw a smile in your stomach before your face lol
5- Watch a nice movie
I will choose a romantic movie or a comedy movie and watch it, I will imagine myself living in the movie and I will feel happy by the end of the movie that makes me return to my real life with greater energy and happy feelings, the movie can make you laugh or give you joy, but choose movies with happy endings always because it will leave its mark on your psyche and adjust your mood.
6- Decorating a cake
Some find psychological comfort in cooking or preparing specific food. Either I am not a good cook, but I like to make cream and eat it with strawberries and biscuits, or I make a mold and decorate it with simple things available at home and in different shapes. I am not very skilled or professional, but garnishing with cream and chocolate will make me really happy and enjoy.
Well here are my simple steps to remove the strange cloud of sadness without the help of others, some small things to make yourself happy on your own.
Well tell me what do you do when you suddenly feel sad? What are the simple, nice things that bring you happiness without the help of others? Share it with me in comments
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3 things are more important than your mental health !!
There are many treasures in life, the concept of treasure differs from one person to another. Where do you find the reasons for your happiness is your true treasure? Some find their happiness in the family, so it becomes their treasure. He spends his life raising money, forgetting the main purpose of money, which is to serve us! You own the money you spend! Others see his happiness in the health of his body and its freedom from diseases. In fact, health is a priceless treasure, because all treasures seem ridiculous and of little importance if compared to health.
The health of the body is very important and can be maintained by following a healthy lifestyle, a balanced diet, a little exercise, and avoiding fast food and sugars.
With the diversity of these treasures and their differences, we forget a very important treasure that is more important than even the health of the body, which is mental health! We always neglect our mental health to get other treasures in life.
**So what are the three most important things than our mental health that I'm talking about?!**
1- Nothing, even the shape of your body
In the current era, the era of fashion and social media, the era of perfection and ideals, we put ourselves under constant pressure by comparing ourselves with everything we see on Instagram and Facebook, we live under the illusion that if we do not have the perfect shape, we are ugly or less beautiful than others, so we are at a crossroads, The first is to put ourselves under the pressure of a strict health regime and strenuous exercise to reach an ideal shape, or the other option is to enter into the cycle of depression, self-depreciation, and looking inferior to our bodies.
All of this harms our mental health, makes us sad and weak in character, let me tell you that you are beautiful in whatever form you have, the people you see on the communication sites are people who do not have any work but caring for their forms because it is a source of income for them in addition to many modifications to pictures and professional photographers to highlight the bodies The perfect shape, so don't be fooled by the perfect life and the perfect shapes you see on Instagram, you are doing better things in your life, you are a mother, father, student, employee. You have responsibilities and a role that is much more important than just getting in a perfect shape and posting it on Instagram to get support and likes, but don't neglect your health either, just take care of yourself and accept it as it is, don't live under pressure to keep up with others, do what makes you happy and love yourself with whatever shape you have.
2- Nothing, even your job
Again, nothing is more important than your mental health, we tire ourselves at work to get money and appreciation, we do our best, yet we remain dissatisfied with anything we offer and strive to be the best and do more, to limit our breathing in the end, we suffer from pain in the eyes and back, and we find that we We waste a lot of time concentrating on our work and neglect the things that make us happy. We neglect our time with our children, friends and family. Don't allow your stress at work to make you live in constant anxiety and competition. Learn to relax and do your duties without exposure to pressure that consumes you and destroys your nerves.
I love your work and sincerely do it, but do not forget that you are a human being and not a machine, it is okay to make mistakes, to be late or feel tired and bored, it is okay, always give yourself a chance to take a break and recharge your energy and you will see that you will return to launch with greater enthusiasm and energy.
3- Nothing, even your studies
Perhaps the most devastating thing that destroys our mental health is our anxiety about our studies and the stress that accompanies exams. You try to be the best in your studies at the expense of anything else. Stop all your activities and hobbies just so you can get as many marks as possible. I discovered that I am one of those people whose studies affect their lives greatly and take away their energy.
But I found myself in the last year of university with a lot of judgment on myself during the exam period, I was reaching the stage of crying and burning during the exam period, destroying my brain cells with my hands. I do not encourage anyone to neglect their studies, but in order to be successful and able to study and accomplish correctly, you must be fine first.
Believe me, after 5 years of fully dedicating my life to studying, I tell you that it is worth, but it is not worth neglecting your health, happiness, and secondary activities at the expense of studying. Take a little break, don't force yourself when you've used up your energy, learn to rest and then carry on.
What I'm trying to say in a nutshell, in order to complete your path, you need to be fine, and in order to be fine, your mental health must be fine. A good mental health is the essence of your life and a path towards true contentment and happiness.
****Stay healthy and go easy on your self ❤️****
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If Alcohol could talk !
Choose your favorite drink and see what it tells you ..
You have 7 drinks to choose from, choose the one you prefer to drink or the one you find delicious, and if you don't drink alcohol, choose one of the drinks randomly or the one you think you will like if you drink alcohol..
1-Tequila 2-Vodka 3-Whiskey 4-Champagne 5-Beer 6-Wine 7-Rum
Did you choose your drink? Let's see what he will tell you together ..
1- Tequila : trust me man, you can dance !
I can imagine you are at a party, sitting on the edge of the bar, trying to find a drink that will give you some enthusiasm, to gather yourself and start dancing, you have to Tequila my friend, it will pull you by the hand and make your feet walk you to the dance floor.
2- Vodka : you know whom you haven't spoken to recently? Your EX !!
I don't think vodka is a nostalgic drink but it will probably make you do crap lol, drink and call your EX that's the worst you can do, I mean you don't need any more problems and headache, it's enough for you the headache the drink will cause to you.
3- Whiskey : want to try how strong your fist is ? Against that man's face ?!
Yes of course, whiskey is a strong drink, it will give you great energy and more recklessness, you will definitely want to punch someone lol, I mean I was watching Vikings and I thought their favorite drink was whiskey and everyone knows how much Vikings love to fight, lol Beware of the wrath of whiskey
4- Champagne : if you keep talking the police will let you go
Champagne is a luxury drink. It is drunk by businessmen and people from the upper classes of society. Perhaps the best thing they do is talk. Their words can get them out of almost any situation. Now we know that champagne has a role in this.
5- Beer : go for it man she is a total ten !
No comment on this, I don't know if beer will make you braver in talking to women or will it make you rush to any girl you meet I don't know
6- Wine : boys love confusing texts at 3am
Yes wine will definitely say that with a wink at the end lol Wine will make you a naughty girl and love to play games or make you romantic in a mysterious way, I don't know but the thing for sure is that wine is a warm drink for hearts and the color of love
7- Rum : everyone wants to hear every detail about your recent break up
I don't know if rum makes you emotional, sensitive and open to talking about your feelings to others or if it just makes you so talkative that you will tell the details of your life to anyone you come across, regardless of its benefits if you want to keep your privacy avoid it lol.
It's been a while since the last time I was here, I miss you and your writing, I finished yesterday my last exam interview but the final exams haven't started yet, although it's in the coming period and it's more pressure, but I will try to be here more and not miss such periods again
**Thank you for reading ❤️**
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Which side will you choose?
Recently, all sites have been buzzing with the story of the trial between Johnny Depp and Amber Heard, and it is not the first time that they sue each other. , Public sympathy with Amber Heard against Johnny Depp. Johnny's life was completely destroyed as job offers stopped to him and his films stopped shooting, and many directors refused to deal with him anymore. This claim caused him a heavy loss and ruined his career.
Now Johnny is back and suing Amber Heard for $50 million for defaming him, accusing him of being an alcoholic, using cocaine and being a dangerous and violent person. Amber responds and files a lawsuit against him for 100 million dollars, and events are still escalating between them. After each court session, we see video clips of the session and an analysis of the body language and sayings of each.
I have always been a supporter of women's rights, I am a feminist par excellence, I reject any kind of insult to women, be it a look, a word or a beating. I believe that women deserve full respect and full rights, without gender discrimination, but to be frank with you, I did not sympathize with Amber Heard from the beginning, since the first lawsuit she filed against Johnny Depp, she did not find her words convincing and her accusations, the only purpose of her was to get his money and destroy his life.
Amber has always been known to be violent, rumors spread about the violence she practices against her ex-partners, pictures of her ex-boyfriend Elon Musk spread when they were together, and bruises appeared on his face, he triggered a beating and accused Amber of causing him to do so previously.
Now, during the court sessions, no one believes the tears she cries anymore, and they do not believe the stories she tells about Johnny beating her, as it became clear that she was a charade to get his money.
Recently, the organization Supporting Abused Women and Children Around the World issued a statement expressing its sympathy and support for Johnny Depp in his case against Amber Heard. Everyone expects justice for Johnny after all these disputes, and no one believes Amber's courtroom charades.
I really love Johnny Depp, he is a wonderful actor and loved in the art community not only by his fans, can anyone forget the wonderful roles he played, Captain Jack Sparrow in Pirates of the Caribbean, Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory, Alice in Wonderland and many more! An accusation from his previous partner put all this on the line and canceled his artistic career, and this is a great injustice, as many people have done the most heinous things, with evidence, and they are receiving the treatment that Johnny received. I hope the court will rule in his favour, especially after Amber's true intentions and greed to take his fortune emerged.
In the end, I know that it is a celebrity war, and it does not concern me personally, but Johnny Depp was a large part of my childhood and early adolescence. I liked him very much, although I had never met him before, but I know that he is a very nice person, from his dealings with his fans, paparazzi and colleagues in the artistic community. A wonderful person like him does not deserve to be deceived by the allegations of a woman who was his partner in one day and claimed her love for him, but she was harboring otherwise and caused him great physical, psychological and material harm.
Sometimes we give people the power to destroy us and we trust that they won't, but sometimes our choices are wrong and we give bad people a chance to affect our lives badly.
We cannot blindly trust others, when we choose the people to whom we give our love and trust, we must choose them carefully. Not everyone has a white heart and not everyone will love you as much as you love them. Not everyone deserves this trust and will not keep it. Some will use the love and trust you give them to destroy you and rob you of elements your strength, always maintain a line of safety in your relationships, put in your account a way to retreat and come out with the least harm in any relationship you enter.
A partner is a refuge, a support and someone who will love you in any way, he will stand with you and support you, even if you are separated, he will preserve the privacy that was between you, he will try to maintain love and mutual respect, he will not wait for the moment when he ends his relationship with you to expose your secrets and exploit the details you shared to hurt you.
We don't really know if Johnny Depp beat Amber or not, but we know that she even assaulted him once in one of the fights that cut off his finger, the details between two people who share the house, no one can know the truth except them, but we wait for the judiciary to resolve The matter is decided by justice, as indicated by the situation, and not based on tears and unsubstantiated statements.
ny is on top His anger was never subjected to, meaning that the video showed him in a fit of anger, and yet he was being beaten or abusive words, this video constituted an additional point in favor of Johnny. In the end, I, as a viewer from afar, do not hope that justice will be served, and that Johnny returns to the screen again, because we miss his creativity.
Finally, I want to mention that I watched a video clip that Amber filmed of Johnny Depp while he was angry. He was angry and was hitting the kitchen cupboard. Amber claimed that she was frightened and panicked, but the video itself exposed her, as a sound of laughter was heard from her in the video, which indicates that she is not really afraid, and Johnny is on top His anger was never exposed to her, meaning that the video showed him in a fit of anger, and yet he was not subjected to beatings or offensive words, this video constituted an additional point in favor of Johnny. In the end, I, as a viewer from afar, only hope that justice will be served, and that Johnny returns to the screen again, because we miss his creativity.
**In the end, I want to make it clear that this article is just a personal opinion and does not intend to offend or insult anyone, does not aim to defame anyone, and does not aim to bias any party. The final verdict is up to the court, the evidence, and the right is the one to decide.**
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How did I end up with Husky?
Everyone knows that dogs are man's best friend, they are loyal, loving and caring. Some even find dogs or pets in general a better friend than humans.
You will tell me, “But Lara, you love cats.” Yes, I have always been a cats lover, although some consider them to be mischievous creatures sometimes and unfaithful, but I find them to be cute and sensitive creatures and they can be a good friend like dogs.
Well, today's topic is not about cats, but about dogs, specifically the Husky.
Husky dogs are dogs that live in cold areas and love snow by nature, but your pet can be in your home in any weather as long as there is cooling and water, well I am not an expert with dogs yet but I am trying to learn more.
Well where am I going with this? I want you all to welcome the new member of my family, Roscoe.
Roscoe is a malamute husky dog. It is a strong arctic dog with thick fur, with a mighty appearance. It looks fierce and frightening, but in fact it is cute and loves to play a lot.
How did I get it even though I have cats?
It is a somewhat complicated story, and I will try to tell it with some brevity. A friend of mine wanted to buy a Husky and did not know where to get it. There are no shelters here to acquire dogs, but there are farms that take care of them and sell them, and I happened to know someone who owns one of these dog farms, so I contacted with him and told him to send me a Husky, in fact it cost half a million pounds , it's a really big amount here, but my friend who wanted it was ready to pay this amount.
After the dog arrived in a truck to the city, I called my friend to send the money but he made up an excuse not to receive the dog anymore, ouch now I am in a very embarrassing situation !! I mean the farm owner has already sent a man with the dog, and he arrived in the city, I told my father what happened and he didn't want me to stay In an embarrassing situation so he gave me the sum of money and I went to pick up the dog, when I came home with the dog, not everyone was happy to pay such a sum for a little puppy. But after a few hours the puppy managed to get everyone to love him, and my father decided to keep him and raise him on the condition that we teach him how to use the toilet and that's what happened.
I took the dog to the vet to give him his vaccinations and buy him some things like a halter, an eating bowl, shampoo, powder, and so on. He is now 53 days old, still a small puppy but he learns quickly, when he arrived at my house he was 45 days old and now within 8 days he knows where to eat and where to pee and he doesn't bark loudly but even learns some commands, he is very cute and smart and loves to play truly. I bought him a rubber ball and he really loves to play with it, he brings it to my bed in the morning to play with him.
I really liked him and I'm glad he became a part of my family but one problem is that he doesn't get along with cats, they had a fight since the first day he arrived, the only victim was me lol, I got two scratches on my hands from my scared cat. I've owned a cat and a dog before, but they were good friends, so I hope Roscoe becomes friends with my cats. It would be nice to see them together in harmony.
He is a pleasant and entertaining guest, a beautiful and intelligent fur ball, happy with the pleasant atmosphere he brings into the house.
Well friends, this was everything for today's article, but tell me in the comments what do you prefer cats or dogs? Do you own one?
I want to dedicate part of the article to tell my dear friend @Jelena who I know is afraid of dogs, I wish you were close to where I live, Roscoe would have helped you overcome your fear, because I have a friend here in my country who was able to overcome her fear of dogs within a week of visiting And playing with Roscoe. And your kids would really enjoy playing with him,he's still a little puppy, he's very friendly and doesn't bite 😅
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What a partner to choose !!
Every time my thoughts dry up and I find myself unable to write, my friend @Aimure comes up with one of the question articles to save the situation lol, thank you my friend and thanks for the renewed sponsorship even if I am a little late
And thanks to all my sponrors ❤️
Shall we start? Ok..
*****Would you rather your partner be a great cook and messy around the house or a horrible cook but neat?*****
It's simple for me, I'm not a good cook anyway so I would definitely prefer my partner to be a good cook even if he is messy because in the end he'll be forced to sort out the mess he made, lol I'm not that kind of commanding girlfriend for sure he will do it while he puts a smile on his face because I'll be there and we will have fun
*****Would you rather be balding but in shape or overweight with a full head of hair?*****
Maybe a guy won't have a problem with baldness, but I'm like a girl!! I think one of the things that distinguishes me is my healthy and thick hair, I love my hair and take great care of it so I will definitely prefer to have my beautiful hair with a little extra weight, I will be able to lose weight sooner or later but I cannot make my hair grow
*****Would you rather be with someone who snores loudly or has bad breath?*****
Oh the two things are so annoying, I mean for me as someone who can't sleep with normal breathing in the room how am I going to fall asleep with a snoring that shakes my brain cells! Also bad breath is unacceptable and disgusting, but the good thing is that both things can be cured, so I'll leave the choice to fate this time lol I hope neither of them exists in my future partner
*****Would you rather be with a partner who never shaves or one who never cut's their toenails?*****
I don't have a problem with long nails because I already have them, I don't know what it would look like on a man's feet, but it is acceptable to me compared to not shaving, I can't accept excess hair and I think it applies to women and men. Also I think that I will enjoy nails lol I can paint it or cut it lol, but honey, if you want to be my partner, shaving should be your friend
*****Would you rather your partner have a tattoo of their ex or have to tell your parents you met in Tinder?*****
I didn't know what the Tinder app was and I don't know if it was a good or embarrassing thing, but I think it's okay, as well as the tattoo of the ex-partner, I mean, the tattoo can be removed anyway, so if the app is not bad, I don't think I have a problem with any of them
*****Would you rather have a partner who hates pets or Love's them more than you?*****
If you hate pets then you hate me and I don't love you lol, I would definitely prefer him to love pets and if he loves them more than me, because I will definitely love my pets more than him too lol, it's ridiculous I won't compete for love with a pet, no comparison The two kinds of love are completely different, but I would definitely prefer a partner who loves pets like I do.
*****Would you rather share a toothbrush with your partner or have to wear your partner's underwear?*****
I'll go with my panties lol, toothbrush sharing is something I can't accept, I mean it's a personal hygiene item and for personal use, as for underwear lol I find it more acceptable and I think I'll go the extra mile for his sweaters and T-shirts too
**I feel sleepy while writing so I think I will answer the rest of the questions in another article, hope you enjoyed reading my answers.**
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There is no place for toxic people anymore !!
Sometimes the words get stuck in my throat and I don’t know how to express how I feel so read.cash comes and gives me a chance to express all this, so I want to start my article with a big thank you to this wonderful platform and to you my friends because you are always here to read this and leave your kind words, the reasons for my absence It became known to everyone, as the exams period approaches, the pressure increases on me, so I can't be here much, so forgive me for missing your articles in the past days.
Today is Friday and I hope you have a good weekend, I will try to take advantage of the day by being here more and reading as much of your articles.
Thanks ❤️
What I want to share with you today is the impact of toxic people on our lives, unfortunately none of us lives without such people.
They come into your life to teach you the harshest lessons, they negatively affect your feelings, your thinking, your work and your studies, they cause you a kind of anxiety and self-blame, because they always show themselves as the victim, and blame you for things that you will think are your fault and are in fact the result of the pressure they put on you.
I got to know someone recently and he made me live what I tell you, but because of the many toxic people I have dealt with in my life, I have the ability to handle the matter better and with less losses, so that the negative impact of these people on my life is minimal.
****how do I do this ? How do I deal with toxic people?****
Well I will tell you..
When I see the red flags I raise my white flag
You have to catch the red signals sent by the actions of this person in your life, in every situation that brings you together and in any passing conversation, there is a negative energy and an aura of tension that you feel because of this person, you do not know how to please him and you do not know how to act so as not to get criticism from him, and you remain cautious In every word and action you take in order not to create a problem with you or make a negative comment, these are red signals that you must pick up, and respond to them with a white flag announcing your withdrawal from the association that brings you together with this person
When you take this person out of your life don't start blaming yourself, don't tell yourself that you could have done more or made more, no, anything that puts you under this pressure and self-flagellation you don't need it in your life. Learn to give love and support to your self because ..
The more you like yourself, the less you'll need others to.
Never underestimate yourself and your importance, do not underestimate your abilities, you are the best version of you, and no one looks like you, you are special, do not let anyone tell you otherwise, and do not allow yourself to enter doubts that you are not enough and unworthy of love. You are important, worthy and wonderful, you deserve someone who loves you and every time reminds you how wonderful you are, someone who understands your importance and does everything they can to show you that.
If you don't find this person, be that person, be that person, give love and appreciation to yourself, support yourself, don't be hard on it, only you know what you've been through, only you know the value of everything you accomplished, appreciate this and give love to it.
You deserve to be loved and chosen don't you ever forget that ❤️
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The Best Sleep You Have !!
They say that there are 3 things that help to overcome the difficulties of life.. Hope, laughter and sleep.
Who among us does not like to sleep and wishes for an extra 5 minutes every time we try to wake up! Today's article I got from my friend @Aimure talking about sleep preferences, so I'll share my one with you too.
Let's Begin..
Light on or Light off?
Definitely prefer sleeping without lights, I can't fall asleep if there is a glimmer of light in the room. And did you know that this is very healthy, as the pineal gland, which is responsible for regulating our biological clock, needs darkness to function! So sleeping in the dark is the best sleep for our bodies
Light or Heavy sleeper?
Unfortunately my sleep is very light, any slight movement or a whisper can wake me up, my mother always tells me that if an ant walks in China, it will make me wake up lol
Fan or no Fan?
In the winter, definitely without a fan, but in the summer I can only sleep with the fan directed towards me, it may seem unhealthy but believe me a refreshing bath and a fan is the best way to get a comfortable sleep for me
One or Several Pillows?
Lots and lots of pillows, I like pillows and I like their shapes, they are very comfortable I can't sleep without a pillow under my head or more and another one I hug while sleeping, I don't know where my husband will sleep in the future he will find it hard to find a place for him between the pillows lol
Early in bed or Late sleeper?
I like to sleep early, especially after a stressful day, I mean that I like to sleep a lot and I like to get as much of it, in addition to that early sleep is beneficial for the body and cannot be compensated during the day or during the early morning hours, as well as better for the skin and delays wrinkles, so I will prefer a healthy early sleep
Thin or thick blanket?
Thick blanket! Even in the summer I like to cover myself while sleeping and I like to cover my face too, so I can't sleep without a blanket that warms my body.
PJ or Comfy Clothes?
Comfortable clothes for sure, and my definition of comfortable clothes is a loose T-shirt only with underwear without pants lol or maybe with shorts, I will always take one of my brothers T-shirt to sleep
Drink Milk or Water?
Water and always water, milk may help some to sleep, but I do not like drinking milk at all, I will prefer water before going to bed and upon waking up, as it has many refreshing benefits for the body
I hope you enjoyed answering the questions with me, you can always share and write your own version of the answers.
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5 steps to happier you !
Investing in yourself is the best investment that you can make, because it is the first step to achieving all your dreams and bigger goals, it is the most important and difficult task, and when you can achieve it all other things become simple and secondary.
Hello dears, how is my wonderful family? Hope you are doing well in May.
Happy to see the market turn green again, and I hope the value of BCH will continue to rise more and more as it was before and even exceed $600
During this period, I think that I am the one who needs to invest more in myself and strengthen my confidence in my abilities. I was reading about the topic and watching some motivational videos every time I face a lot of pressure and think I can’t bear it, so I decided to share some of these things with you, perhaps giving you energy, confidence, and ability to face the vicissitudes of life.
1- take care of your look
For a moment you may think that it is ridiculous, but do you remember the days when you took care of your appearance, I think that they were days associated with some positive energy and confidence in the denial. Take care of yourself, your appearance, and your clothes, not for anyone but yourself, dedicate time to take care of your skin and hair, choose clothes that suit you, put a little lipstick, change a little in your hair style, all of these things will give you more energy and will increase your self-confidence and will make Surrounding you is an aura that sticks in the mind of everyone who sees you.
2- Think positive and forget the negativity
Your thoughts attract your destiny, so always make your brain a filter for negative thoughts and get rid of them, because in one way or another they will reflect on your look and on your life and leave an aura of melancholy and melancholy around you. Make positive thoughts like a lamp with which you face darkness and melancholy. The positivity inside you will reflect on your reality and give you brightness and joy that people will notice on your face.
Remember that life guides us with lights at the end of the tunnel, so that we may forget the pain we have lived.
3- Set simple goals and achieve them
Setting small tasks and accomplishing them will give us a feeling of satisfaction. Accomplishing simple successive things that do not take much effort from us, but give us a feeling of happiness and achievement. It is not only the great achievements that count, but those small ones that when you look at them you find a great ladder that has gone up one step by one.
4- Be generous and be friendly
Happiness is contagious, whenever you smile at someone, they will smile back to you, so you will spread smiles instead of sullen faces. When you help someone in need or give a helping hand to others, this will give you an inner feeling of happiness and you will spend your day more actively and more satisfied with yourself.
5- Exercise
Sport helps us to get rid of a lot of pressures that we feel and allows us to unload negative energy. In addition, it improves our health, our body shape and makes us fit.
Sports give us time with ourselves, to empty our shipments and clear our aura, activate our blood circulation and help the body get rid of its toxins, as it is said that a healthy mind resides in a healthy body.
****Just learn to love your self and appreciate it, enjoy every moment and try to be happy, we all gonna leave this life somehow so live a life you will remember .****
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To get something you never had you have to do something you never did !!
You can't keep doing things the same way and expect different results, Doing things the same way will not take you to a new places, but you will stay where you are.
If you are looking for a change in results, you must make a change in the way you work.
How are you, my beautiful family? I hope everyone is doing fine ! Are you planning to do something different today or trying to repeat yesterday's routine? If you are looking for a sign that will motivate you to change the way you do things, this is it !!
Get out of bed, and find the change you want to start with, don't wait for others, but be the change you want to see in the world, replace the things you are not satisfied with, change starts with small things, and ends with huge results. Change is a process of evolution that requires patience and time, but in the end it leaves an impact, like successive drops of water on a rock, with time the soft drops of water will dig a hole in the rock, and so are the small changes we make. The change does not have to be drastic, but it is enough to start with simple steps in our day.
Do not be afraid of change, and do not be afraid of failure, if you do not fail, it means that you do not try, failure is one of the stages of success, start by changing your view of things, and change your style, this does not mean that you are doing things wrong, but life is progressing and the river is running, you may You think the river you see is constant, but not that the river is a state of flow, the river you swim in today is not the same tomorrow, the water has changed and so do you.
Look for smarter ways to work, even if you fail once or twice or a thousand, failure is better than giving up, I once watched a movie, in which the little girl asked her grandfather who is the loser? He told her the loser is not the one who didn't succeed, but the one who is so afraid that he doesn't even try. This is where the real failure lies, in not trying.
If you want to achieve more than what you have, you must do more than what you are doing right now. The things you don't have are things you didn't work for enough or right, if you try and fail don't repeat the same way because the result is already settled, but try something new, you will get a new result.
I had a very smart math teacher who had an accident and her face was disfigured, yet she wasn't afraid of change, she made an entity for herself, and she was the favorite teacher of all the students, she always told us "work smart, don't work hard"
She meant that we look for new ways and change our method of study, she wanted to see a change in our way of dealing with issues that we look for new ways to find solutions, and this was not limited to mathematical issues but also to life.
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Fur balls .. sources of happiness !!
How can cute fur balls bring so much happiness and psychological comfort! I don't think any other creature is able to bring this reassurance to my heart. Yes friends it's cats!
First of all, how are you all my friends? Hope May is going well for you, you can leave your thoughts in the comments section, just make some mess lol I miss you and want to catch up with you
Maybe I'm not very good at expressing my love but when it comes to cats my love goes beyond the limits, no matter how bad my mood is, my cat's meow and a little burrr are enough to lighten my mood and cheer me up.
On exam days when I'm stressed just take a break and go play with my cat she can take away all the stress I'm feeling and put me back in focus, even when I want to cry she feels my sadness and comes to me and licks my head or licks my hand to tell me she loves me and is there for me It really brings comfort to my heart and makes me happy, and it really removes tears from my eyes.
My first cat was in the fifth grade of primary school. I was about 10 years old. A very strong bond of love developed between me and cats. Cats have always been my sweet friends and a source of relieving my stress. Just petting their fur and feeling their love while rubbing their head with me warms my heart.
I have raised a lot of cats in my life, I never imagined a day without a cat with me, for 13 years I have taken care of more than 30 cats, even street cats I used to put a bowl of water and food for them and fill it daily, I feel great satisfaction when I take care of these beautiful creatures.
I now have 6 kittens, in fact it is a male and female who are about a year and a half old and 4 new-born kittens, they are now one month old.
I spend a lot of time with them, in fact I help their mother to feed them as I feed them milk with a bottle, it is very nice and interesting.
Unfortunately, I will not be able to keep 6 kittens in my house because my mother will object to it but I will make sure that the new kittens get very warm and loving homes.
You see in the picture my mother cat and her baby, my God I am really amazed by the color of this baby cat, he is strange and his color is beautiful I don't know if I can let go of him, he is already close to my heart, he is cute and follows me everywhere even though he can't walk Well.
I really love cats, they are my spirit creatures with all the cuteness they have and their pink noses when they bring it into my life.
I even dedicated a gift to my cats in my graduation project, you can tell that I love it too much but I know how much positive energy my cats give me, it has had such a positive effect my whole life and I can't go on without it.
I was happy today to spend more time with my cat and wanted to express this here, I hope today's article does not bore you but I really hope that people will see cats in my eyes and realize how a small creature can provide so much love and psychological support to its owners.
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Randoms to answer !!
Hello my family, how are you? I hope you have a happy weekend. It's a new month with new goals and new opportunities. I think there is a new version of me with each month. We grow and learn with each passing day, and the constant rule is change. Anyway, I wanted to chat with you and check on your condition before starting today's article, it's my favorite type lol, I collected some questions from the internet and decided to answer them today, you can always participate in answering the questions too if you like the questions, Let's start ...
****1. If you could be born again with the same knowledge you have now, what would you do differently?****
In fact, I would change the idea of including some people in my life, some people we meet in our lives are lessons for us to learn from, but since I will have the same experience, I would prefer not to meet them and not spend time of my life with them, I would rather do other things and avoid wasting my time on things that are not worth
****2. What is the thing that most people think about you, that is actually not true?****
What I hear from people after a while of getting to know me is that they thought I was an arrogant person at first sight, I don't know why I look like this, but it seems that they confuse self-confidence with arrogance lol, the important thing is that after getting to know me well they realize that I am a nice person who loves to laugh and joke and of course I am not arrogant .. always a smiling face
****3. Is there something you’ve done in the past and you wish you could go back in time and undo it? If yes what is it?****
When I read the question for the first time I will remember all the mistakes I made in the past and will want to correct them, but when I remember that who I am now is the result of everything I have been through including the mistakes I made, I will not want to change anything from the past, I am reconciled with my past, and grateful for every experience I had
****4. If you could be an animal for 1 day, what would you be?****
I would definitely want to be a cat lol. I love your cat and want to understand how they think when they do funny or weird things. Plus the cats do nothing and take no responsibility just eat and lie in the sun and get free massages all the time lol
****5. How would you describe your ideal partner?****
He doesn't have to be handsome as in the ads I don't like this perfect kind of flawless beauty, he should be educated and smart, not only smart for study, but smart for practical life and most importantly he should have a sense of humor, kind, romantic, patient and doesn't get angry quickly .. (any one?? No! fine it's ok ) lol just kidding
****6. You need to spend $500 in 8 hours, what do you do?****
If it is destined to spend, I prefer shopping with it, buying clothes or cosmetics, skin care and certainly food and sweets, I need energy to complete the shopping process lol
****7. you needed to spend rest of your life in 1 place, where would it be?****
my house! I would definitely prefer the place where I spend the rest of my life to be my home, next to my family, my cats and the people who love me, in the end we are all looking for our safe place to settle in.
****8. If you could turn into any person or being, who would it be?****
No one but myself! I do not envy anyone in the world for what he is or what he has, and I will not want to be anyone but myself, this is me and I do not know to be but myself, and if I want to be someone else, this is not arrogance but, reconciliation with self and acceptance For the self, and I think that man does not succeed in being himself, you are the original copy of you, why would you replace it with a copy of someone else?
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What an accident !
I hear the brakes and then a big crash, my head hits and bounces back on the seat and the car starts spinning and then comes to a stop. Everything happened in a split second, I did not understand what happened, I was afraid and closed my eyes until I felt that the car had stopped completely, I was dizzy and could not open my eyes clearly, my head was hurting so much, but I was afraid, I want to get up and see what happened.
There are days when we cannot do our duties properly, we are rigid in nowhere, or we make a mistake in organizing our times, some things dominate over others. I know you're wondering why I've been absent for the past 4-5 days. First I want to tell you that I miss you very much and your words, and I promise to try to be here more like before and read all of your articles.
We have had a week off for Eid Al Fitr after Ramadan, I intended to spend more time here with you on read.cash but unfortunately I couldn't, the holiday period was busy for me, visiting relatives and spending time with friends, I mean this is the essence of Eid, family and friends get together.
The holiday period was really nice, I met many friends and we had a good time, but on the second day of the holiday I decided with my family and friends to go on a trip to a resort to spend a day or two there, it was about a two hour drive.
We were very excited to go to the resort and have been planning it for days before Eid , But unfortunately, things did not go well, after we organized everything and collected our luggage to travel, and we set out on the road with 4 cars, we were about 18 people.
We took off on the road, everyone was happy and singing, after about an half hour of driving, everything was fine, I hear the brakes and then a big crash, my head hits and bounces back on the seat and the car starts spinning and then comes to a stop. Everything happened in a split second, I did not understand what happened, I was afraid and closed my eyes until I felt that the car had stopped completely, I was dizzy and could not open my eyes clearly, my head was hurting so much, but I am afraid I want to get up and see what happened.
I finally open my eyes to see smoke rising from the front trunk, a truck hit us!
When we got off the car everyone was in good health and no one was hurt, but the shock was when we saw that the person who was driving the truck is a 13-year-old only!! A child who does not have a driver’s license and he is still young driving on the road without supervision, I do not know how parents can allow their children to drive at this age, we called the child’s father and he came immediately, they lived in a nearby area, he was very afraid for his child and worried that we would call the police,.
He was a friend of one of our group members and promised us to take care of the whole damage and said there was no need to call the police so that the situation would not be difficult for him and his child.
My father's friend agreed to this because he knows the father of the child very well and persuaded us not to call the police. I did not agree to this behavior, but I didn't say anything, I just wanted everything to end so that we can continue our trip to the resort even with a damaged car.
Unfortunately, after this car did not take off, I do not know what happened, but it does not take off anymore, we had to go back to the nearest house and it was the house of my father's friend to spend the day there. We were agitated and worried at first, our trip was ruined, I've never been to my father's friend's house before and I don't know his children very well, he had two really beautiful young men, the old one was on my age, and by chance, he is a medical student too, but he studies at the Capital University, and the other was very nice, he had long hair and tied it in a way that really suits him, he was two years younger than me and he studies mechanical engineering.
but to be honest we had a good time there. The house was spacious and in a nice village, the weather was nice and the air fresh, we barbecued and had drinks, played badminton and had so much fun.
It was a really unforgettable day, despite many problems in the beginning and things not going as planned, but in the end it was a good and happy day.
So it has been a very busy week for me from meeting with friends and having family members from other cities, we spent wonderful times and made unforgettable memories, but now after this holiday a lot of work awaits me, the deadline for submitting the graduation project is approaching and I have not finished it yet, in addition to the interviews And many more tests in the coming period. I'm feeling stressed from now, wish me luck.
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Don't stuck in the past, the future is waiting.
****"The future is scary but you can't just run back to the past because it's familiar."****
I was watching a video from the series "How I Met Your Mother" when a character in the series was telling her partner this phrase, the story of the article was actually inspired by her, because her phrase affected me very much.
In many cases, we prefer remembering the past over discovering the future, because man is by nature afraid of the unknown. The future is unknown to us, so we fear adventure and discovery. We prefer to stay on the known and content past, even if it is sad or painful.
I know a friend who applied for a job and was rejected. The following year, she refused to apply again, because she was stuck in the past and afraid of being rejected again, so frightened that she didn't even try because for her the outcome was settled, which is rejection. But this is completely wrong. Destiny gives her a second chance to try, but she is afraid of what will come. She judged herself based on the past, and did not give herself a chance to discover what the future holds for her.
Another friend, who is experiencing a very toxic relationship, had a good relationship with her boyfriend when he was trying to get her attention, he was doing many nice things to make her fall in love with him, but after I reciprocated his feelings and said about it, he changed and became rude and neglectful, and mistreated her always calling me crying because of his neglect Tell her to move on, tell her she deserves a better person, but her heart is stuck in the past only in the beautiful moments and neglects the present because of the fear of the future of being alone or not finding someone else.
We often refuse to be freed from the past, because we fear the future, we fear the unknown. Let me tell you that discovering the unknown is better than living it, because staying in the past is neglecting the present and the future.
****Some times you need to go through the fear to see the beauty on the other side.****
Who knows, maybe the unknown to come is better than the past that we hold on to and refuse to let go.
Do not be afraid, calm down, take a deep breath and go to your destiny. Free yourself from all restrictions and embark on the journey of life to explore the wonderful future.
Make the past your teacher, the present your friend, and the future your goal.
Do not allow the past to cancel your present and your future.
Learn to let go of the past, accept it, forgive it and let it go.
The past is gone and cannot be changed, the present is here, enjoy every moment of it, the future is unknown. Go and try to discover it but don't stress yourself about it.
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Answer it with me
Hello my family at read.cash how are you doing? I hope you are well and having a great time. Well it looks like I missed my goal of posting a daily article here on read.cash, perhaps because of the busyness in everyday life or perhaps because of a lack of ideas to write about. Anyway I'm here now and the idea for the article was inspired by my friend @Aimure
Do you make up a list or do you make it up on the go for daily tasks?
Certainly, I cannot sleep without having planned in advance what I will do the next day, what tasks I must accomplish, with which I will begin, and how long each one will take. I think I'm a very organized person, but that makes it easier.
What's your favorite thing that is homemade?
Meat and grilled chicken, my mom has a special recipe for preparing meat before grilling, and also I prefer all meat without fat so my mom removes it, but in restaurants they don't have Mama's magic recipe and they don't remove the fat because many people prefer to eat it and find it delicious
Would you say you have good Karma?
Maybe I have, I try to always be positive and choose to do the right things and try as much as possible not to hurt anyone because I know the power of karma, it's a spinning wheel, what you give you will receive
What city you can see yourself living in?
London, Dubai, Switzerland .. I will really want to experience the wonderful atmosphere of London, the experience of living in it, and I want to enjoy the modernity and development in Dubai for sure, then I will want to relax and the quiet life in the countryside of Switzerland with its beautiful scenery and amazing nature
****Dream Big 😁❤️****
What was your childhood dream job?
My dream job when I was a kid was to be a teacher. I loved my teachers in school very much and we had a strong bond, so I wanted to grow up and become a teacher like them, but I am a doctor now and I am very happy with that
What is your spouse's ideal height range?
There is no set range, the important thing is that he is longer than me and that he stay longer than me when I wear heels lol
What is the best thing to say to break up?
The best thing I can say to a breakup is for the other person to learn to be happy without the relationship, not to get bogged down in sadness, but to move on with their lives because that's what I'm going to do.
First celebrity crush you remember?
It's Johnny Depp, I love this actor very much and I love his series of films Pirates of the Caribbean, Willy Wonka and many of his other films.
What is the cutest dog breed?
If I had a pet it would be a cat but I like dogs, and I think they are all cute and smart, it would be a golden retriever or a poodle I like the way they look. Although my brother has now bought a pychon and bring it home which is very cute
What is your favourite Greek god?
My favorite greek deity is Zeus, for special reasons lol. I also love Venus, the goddess of love.
Do you have more girl or guy friends?
I have a lot of boys and girls friends, but lately I think that my female friends are more, it's more comfortable and fun
What's your favorite part about your house?
Actually I have two favorite places the first is my bedroom, because it is comfortable and quiet and it is my private place, and also loves the terrace because it has a nice view and a nice atmosphere in the evening where I sit, listen to music and watch the stars.
What's your favorite chore? Least favorite?
My favorite routine is walking and listening to music, and my least favorite routine is to get up early, although I don't force myself to get up early, it happens spontaneously.
What do you need to sleep at night?
What I need to sleep at night is a comfortable pillow, absolute calm, complete darkness. Any glitch in this will cause me insomnia
What's your thought on pranks?
I love pranks very much, but to be honest, I like to be the one who makes pranks with others, I do not prefer someone to prank me lol even that it is not that easy, because I can detect pranks quickly.
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Why Now ?
She was waiting for her turn to receive the vaccine, she knows that the vaccine is just a way to reduce the infection if it occurs and will provide a good protection in the face of the new wave of the epidemic, she is bored waiting for the nurse to call her name, suddenly a young man sits next to her and says hello, a tall, skinny young man but With broad shoulders, he's a familiar face to her, she doesn't quite remember his name but I'm sure she knows it from somewhere. Oh yeah I remembered, she's her language classmate. They do not have a strong knowledge, and most of the time he passes by her and does not greet her, but this time he greets, perhaps because he will sit next to her. He always stared at her in class with cold eyes, the stare in his eyes was bottomless.
A situation brought them together before it was the end of the language class, she was gathering her things to leave when he called her name, she saw him approaching her to talk to her, but suddenly he stopped in his place and turned, and went.
She didn't know what he wanted from her at the time, but she didn't ask him either. His voice interrupted this chain of thoughts, asking her what kind of vaccine she was thinking of receiving?
"It doesn't matter, the important thing is that it's an effective vaccine," her response came.
Silence returned to the place, she turned to him to see that he was looking at her, her eyes quickly faded, she felt that fire was running on her skin where he looked, she began to feel a heat and tightness in the chest and the room was getting smaller and smaller.
I decided to go out to the hall, get some fresh air, and evade his reluctant gaze.
She doesn't know why she gets this feeling every time he sees her. She remembered when they were in elementary school, when there was a school activity and the students came to see a play on the school's outdoor stage. She was sitting on the chair and waiting for the play to start, when she stood up a little to talk to her friend in the front row and when she sat down, someone had pulled the chair from under her, and she fell to the ground and tears filled her eyes. Another violently, some students told her that he hit the boy because he pulled the chair and caused her to fall. But she ignored the matter because George is not her friend and she does not know him, how someone would be beaten for him.. He is a mysterious person and has his reasons. This was her response to this rumor.
She sighed audibly, "He's a strange man!"
She didn't finish her sentence when she heard his voice saying to her, Do you see me like that?
Oh my God, the echo in the hall revealed her, she swallowed her tongue as she stared at him silently, the words didn't come out of her mouth because she didn't expect him to be behind her.
When she remained silent, he grabbed her and put her on the wall, getting close to her until his face was right against her face
This was not the first time he did this, at the beginning of the language lessons, she was standing with her friend and telling her that George is very strange, he follows her every day to the way home even though there is a shorter way to his house, and that he quarrels with a salesman sitting on the road, he is a violent person Cold in heart, you think for a moment that he is a serial killer and I am his next victim, to see during her words strange expressions on her friend's face, she turned to find George standing behind her with his cold features, but the anger was clear on his face, he grabbed her and put her on the wall, and told her that the seller deserved what happened to him because he tried to look under her skirt As she passed by, he uttered some abusive words about her, then approached her frighteningly closer to her face and said, "Don't be afraid. The serial killer doesn't hurt girls."
Last time she mentioned his name and wronged him with her words, but this time she didn't mention his name and she didn't say anything why did he push her to the wall while he was not sure if she was even talking about him.
Still pushed against the wall when I approached her ear and told her I know I meant, but know that this stranger for the past 9 years has been dreaming of you.
He dreams of the moment when you hold your hand, the moment he caresses your hair and imprints a kiss on your forehead, this cold features, his heart is burning with your fire.
I was always hesitant to confess, I was afraid to approach you and you would refuse and I could not get away, so I watched you from afar. Your guardian angel and I will always be.
She is still silent, shocked, and stares into the void. Is what she hears real or is she dreaming? You can feel it holding her and holding her to the wall.
He continues, "You wonder why now? Because I will travel, I will leave the country, but I could not leave without confessing, I would regret it all my life, now you know that you have my heart, keep it, I will come back for you, believe me, I will remain your guardian angel."
He prints a kiss on her forehead and leaves quickly. She froze in place, her heart would come out of her chest, her feet could not hold her anymore, but a slight smile formed on her lips, as if she had been waiting for this confession for a while, she takes a deep breath, and tries to gather herself to catch up with him, when she hears the nurse's voice saying Miss Christine, you are next please come with me...
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The one who was always there for me!
In my happiness and sadness, in my anger and joy, in my success and failure, in my strength and weakness, he was always present, for the same amount of love and support, with the same look of pride and admiration, circumstances did not change his love, but increased it with the days.
My Father! My first and lasting love, steadfast as the days go by, 23 years of my life and he is the one who gives free of charge to me, my mother and my brothers.
I remember when I was born he was not in Syria, he had to go to the United States of America, and my mother was not allowed to board the plane, there were no modern means of communication at that time, but he insisted on making an international call to be present at every moment of my birth.
Since I was born I was his favorite, yes my father preferred me as a girl over my boy brothers, he did not even allow my mother to scold me, he was the biggest supporter of me all my life.
I do not deny the love of my mother and my brothers for me, they are wonderful, but I know that their love stems from my father's love for me.
I remember my father had a friend from Brazil, he was very old, about 80, every time he came to visit us, he would tell my father that his fortune in this life would be his daughter's love for him, his words never leave my mind, I am sure that my share in life was my father's tremendous love me, but I will work hard to be my father's share of luck too.
My father suffered during his life and built himself up by himself, but this did not change him for the worse, did not make his heart hard, but remained tender, loving and giving.
So if you are looking for the most important person in my life, he is my father. One article is not enough to explain my love for him, but I do not want to make the article long or boring. I woke up in the morning feeling a great deal of feelings and love towards him. I went to him, hugged him, kissed him, and started writing the article. It stopped for several hours because I was preparing the food, so I invited My girlfriend is eating with us, and now I put nail polish on and waited for it to dry, I decided to end the article here.
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Have A Glance !
" Find Your Soul Before Your Soulmate "
Soon we open our eyes to life, mixed with others, we start looking for a partner for our life, someone to complete the road with, trying to find our other half! Admitting that we are not perfect but half people! We make two or three mistakes here. The first is that we try to find ourselves in others, instead of looking for ourselves within us, instead of building ourselves, we look for someone to complete us.
Do not admit that you are imperfect, this is your second mistake, you are not imperfect, you are perfect in a different way, a way that concerns only you.
Don't look for someone to give your love to, but give your love to yourself first, fill the void inside you with love from yourself for yourself.
****Wear wings and FLY ( First Love Yourself ).****
" Never Be Ashamed Of Being Yourself Because Who You Are Is No One Else "
Don't underestimate yourself, don't be ashamed of who you are, don't allow anyone to underestimate you, even you!
Don't compare yourself with others, love yourself as you are, you have a special strength that no one else has, you are you, no one is like you, that's what distinguishes you.
Be proud of who you are now, whatever you have achieved, be proud of! You are not the same person you were yesterday, you are always improving yourself, just compare yourself to yourself and be proud of every achievement you achieve. Because no one is you and that's your strength.
" Disappear Where Your Existence Is Not Valued "
Anywhere you find less treatment than you deserve, leave! Be proud of yourself and don't allow anyone to make you feel unwanted or unappreciated.
Make them feel a great emptiness where you are, do not stay anywhere that reduces your importance and does not appreciate your presence. Carry your pride and leave! Don't allow anyone to make you feel that your presence is heavy, people should be grateful for your presence, they should feel happy and proud to have you, and anyone who gives feelings other than this, he does not deserve your stay.
****Set limits, NOT everyone is worthy !****
Put your red lines and don't allow anyone to cross them, not everyone will appreciate your transgressions for them and they will consider it weakness and they will take advantage of it.
Do not allow anyone to encroach on your feelings and areas of safety, no one deserves to threaten your inner security for him, if he loves you, he will respect you and will respect your choices, decisions and feelings.
The person who loves you will not allow themselves to cross your limits, so whoever does this is someone who uses your love for them to penetrate your endurance.
*Save your lines because no one will let you cross their lines!*
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A day in pediatrics ( what kind of mother is this !!!! )
I know that all parents love their children, especially mothers. A strong relationship between a mother and her child, and I wrote an article in which I talked about the sanctity of a mother’s love for her children.
But what I met at the children's hospital two days ago, well, shook that belief!
A while ago, I read an article saying that “parents don’t deserve this.” I’m sorry, I don’t remember exactly who wrote it to refer to. In any case, the article talked about the fact that the children when they were raised and married abandoned their parents who spent their lives raising them.
**Well in my article here I will say, "Kids don't deserve this"**
I had an interview in pediatrics yesterday and things went very well, but the day before the interview, I decided to go to the children's hospital and see the cases in the hospital, in order to get an idea of the most common diseases during this period and perhaps my interview will be with one of these cases.
I entered several rooms, some cases were simple and will be released soon from the hospital, and some cases require more treatment and care, everything is normal like any hospital.
In the last room I entered, I found the mother sitting on the bed with her child next to her. I entered and said good morning and started asking some questions to the mother.
The first thing I noticed is that the baby is very small, measuring less than 35 centimeters, which is the normal length in which the fetus is born, as well as a very low weight of only 3 kilograms. The normal weight of the fetus at birth is 3200-3500 grams.
The thing that shocked me is that the child is two and a half years old, from his looks, this will be the last thing you expect, his height! his weight! They never show this. At the age of two years, his weight should be more than 10 kg, at least!
After asking several questions to the mother, I found that he has a twin sister who has the same condition, and that the companion is not his mother, but his father’s wife, the woman told me the full story, that the two children were born with a low weight of about a kilo and a half only, on the day of the birth their mother looked at them and told her husband that she did not She wants us and that he should send them to the orphanage, the father did not accept this and insisted on keeping his two children and taking care of them, but the mother refused to breastfeed them, and she kept them in a dark room all day long without talking or playing with her, feeding them only rice water, and they never tasted the taste of milk.
When they were a year and a half old, the mother left, filed for divorce, and left her husband and children, whom she had never treated as children.
After this, the father married the woman who told us the story and told us that she has cared for them since that time and they have improved for a while but their weight has returned to decline, the children suffer from some problems since birth and they have malnutrition, they have growth failure and failure of spiritual and motor development.
Because of their mother's neglect from birth.
The image of the child does not leave my mind, a fixed piece of wood that does not have the strength to move, walk, sit, or even speak. This is the most inhumane state I've ever met. Or does this to her children!!! I thought this was only in soap operas and not real, what is her heart made of? What kind of mom does this??
She destroyed all notions of motherhood, severed the sacred bond with her children, failed as a wife and mother, was selfish, preferred herself over her children and her duties.
I did not expect in my life to see a mother of this type, what is the fault of this child that you brought to life to receive such treatment?
My heart is praying for this child and his sister, as a doctor I know that he will not last long but I know that he will live in my heart and in my memory, what I saw will never be forgotten.
What is the fault of the child to be deprived of love and tenderness? To be deprived of his right to a normal life?
Do kids deserve this? He is your son of your flesh and blood! How do you do this? What kind of mom are you? How did you manage to abandon your children? How did you??
*****I'm sorry, I'm just too mad of the mother, the heartless mother, did you hear about such story before?*****
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The lead image was taken by me.
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