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@Aalia
one day you'll realize that it's you who close opportunities not the world itself, when everytime you refuse the challenges of life. spending too much of your time wasting for nothing and lurking yourself in the darkness which the shadow of anxiety pulls you down. letting each uneasiness moment chew those strength you got for yourself or even the bravery you planted beneath your heart. time will come and you no longer spend time cutting your skin when it's too much to bear.…
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Sometimes, I wish we could capture all the moments we had and have them developed. It's just too surreal to look at one picture and everything will fall in reminiscent. Especially if it is about us. Just happy, adventurous, and looks nothing but a getaway couple. Because time will come, my mind weakens and I'll no longer remember them, but that's the thing— I don't want to forget them. So, if there's one thing I could promise you is that I will love you until I lost count of…
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Yes, it's hard to love an overthinker. But have you ever realize how difficult it is for an overthinker to love somebody? Imagine, you have to keep yourself in control because you might sound toxic. Decision-making is always hard for you. It's scary to try new things because what if they fail? You’ve been eating daily what ifs and midnight thoughts. You’ve always been sorry that your mind makes it hard to love you. You're baffled by the idea that there's something missing or…
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I pray that your November will be chaos free and offers you only the peace of mind that you long for the past 10 months. You deserved it, really. I hope that the amount of stress you'll feel whenever you'll see a bunch of school works coming will not affect your mental health anymore. I hope you'll have time to think about yourself, more on enhancing the good traits that you possessed and slowly eliminating those bad ones. It's okay to think that you're stuck on the process…
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To all the souls out there battling the silent wars within. To all the broken hearts who are trying to mend themselves piece by piece. To all the eyes soaked with tears of sorrow and are tired of screaming that no one is paying attention to. May you find a home in your own heart.
@Aalia
If you are in a relationship, you have two gardens: your own garden and that of your beloved. First, you have to take care of your own garden and master the art of gardening. In each one of us there are flowers and garbage. The garbage is the anger, fear, discrimination, and jealousy within us. If you water the garbage, you will strengthen the negative seeds. If you water the flowers of compassion, understanding, and love, you will strengthen the positive seeds. What you…
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one of the most priceless feelings in the world is knowing that there's someone who is truly proud of me even for the smallest of my achievements. knowing myself that i have been consistently failing and messing up recently, being told that someone's still proud of me means a lot. it's elating to see people behind me, believing in me and cheering for me even during defeats and downfalls. it keeps me going. it validates my efforts and reminds me that it is okay to fail at…
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"You're the saddest ghost I've ever seen. Why did you dress up if you're not gonna scare people?" "I'm not wearing a costume. I'm just...me. I have always been a ghost to people—they never see me no matter what I do. There's always someone smarter than me, stronger, more attractive... ordinary kids like me are treated like ghosts. We are invisible."
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The world does not magically decide that it will be softer on you today, tomorrow, the next day and sometimes it starts with a message from someone else, maybe a little bit of inner strength to pull yourself up and take a shower, maybe a bit of sunlight makes the day better. But it’s these small things, these soft things that make a day better. So be kind. Don’t ever think about being anything other than kind. Be a part of someone’s good day because you don’t know how…
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"Everyone has an extra baggage and untold pages. To be kind and to be compassionate are never hard to offer. You may have known some pages of someone else's story but you have never read through every detail of his entire chapter. You may have seen the path someone's taking in but you have never experienced every rough road he encounters. You may have heard that person laughing but you have never felt and knew his pain. Avoid telling a story out of the dense judgment you…
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Be true to yourself. Listen to your inner call and live life to the fullest. The flower focusses on the sunlight instead of the thorns that lie around it. Our life too is made beautiful by what we choose to focus upon ..
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Maybe you care because deep down you wish someone would care for you the same way you care for others. Maybe you give and give and give because, deep down, you know what it feels like to lack. And, deeper down, you get to at least prove to yourself that such pure love does and can, in fact, exist in the world. Yet be careful that, in your commitment to give, you don’t turn into: 💔 an over-giver; someone who gives more than they have and ends up overextending themselves to…
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YOU MATTER Just because someone doesn’t see your worth, doesn’t mean you need to adjust the way you perceive yourself. You are enough! Your value doesn’t decrease based on someone’s inability to see your worth. You can be the most amazing person and still have people who won’t appreciate you. That’s okay. It’s life. You are not for everyone. Nobody has the right to make you feel like you don’t matter or that you’re not good enough. You are not hard to love. You are not…
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I hope you give the same amount of love, care, and patience you offer to others to yourself. You've always been kind to people, but too hard on your own being—please, be gentle; you are doing all the best you could to improve. I hope you find it easy to embrace yourself, not just on your best of days, but most especially on your worst phase.
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Your breakthrough is on the way. Don't be discouraged if things are not working out right now. God is working it all out behind the scenes. It may not come when you want, but trust that it will be right on time. One day you will look up and say how did I get here. God is about to do some amazing things in your life to catapult you to new levels. Get ready!
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"There are times when everything seems easy, and times when it all seems impossibly hard. To make that manageable, we only have to remember that our present will one day become a past, and our future will be our present. We know that, because it’s happened before. The things we put behind us will often come around again. The things that trouble us now will one day be past history. Each time we endure the cycle, we ratchet up a notch. We learn from the last time around, and…
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Most of us don’t know how to interact with a grieving person unless we’ve experienced grief ourselves. I have absolutely been the person floundering and unsure of what to say. I have been the person who avoided bringing up the grief in fears of ruining things if they “were having a good day.” Grief is hard, and most people won’t know what to do. This will cause some to say the wrong thing. This will cause others to say nothing at all. To those who are walking alongside the…
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I want you to say no to anything that isn't part of your evolution. Your ultimate story, your horizons, your journey, your personal revolution. Say no to anything that doesn't feel like love or breath or magic or growth. Say no to anything that weakens or minimizes or slows your steps or only hurts or is no longer home. Say no to anything you have to hide from or feel guilty about. Say yes to what lights you up despite being uncomfortable, or hard. Say yes to beauty, yes to…
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Life is full of hardships. But know that it is a testing phase and there is no reason to give up. When things seem to be at their worst, you are closer to better times than you realize. Don't let this struggle dishearten you. Something worthwhile will come out of it. Keep trying. Good morning everyone, I wish you a very beautiful and peaceful day ahead.
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BEGINNING TODAY Beginning today, I will no longer worry about yesterday. It is in the past and the past will never change. Only I can change by choosing to do so. Beginning today, I will no longer worry about tomorrow. Tomorrow will always be there, waiting for me to make the most of it. But I cannot make the most of tomorrow without first making the most of today. Beginning today, I will look in the mirror and I will see a person worthy of my respect and admiration. This…
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Stay patient because everything has its perfect timing. You are down and lonely right now, but the next thing you know, you are already getting the happiness you deserve. You are struggling at the moment, but in a snap, you are getting the most significant break of your life. If something is really for you, everything will work in your favor to fulfill what you ought to have from day one. Keep going always!
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When I was young, I thought that the strongest people are the ones with the loudest voices, cruel decisions, unbeatable confidence, I thought that admitting your mistakes is a sort of weakness, that opening your heart is so vulnerable, I thought the ones with the harshest judgments are the ones who get it all, than I grew old and I realized that keeping your silence sometimes requires the most strength, that speaking ones heart requires courage, That the smartest people are…
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I know what it's like to wake up feeling worried, stressed and uncertain about what the new day will bring. ~ I know what it's like to feel that at any moment things could fall apart or that things are most probably not going to go my way no matter what I do. ~ I know what it feels like to be behind on my bills and my dreams and just feeling a deep sense of hopelessness because I just couldn't quite get my stuff together. ~ I've been there and I absolutely know so many of…
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"Everyone won't want the best for us as we change and grow. People are scared of change—and can be even more terrified of seeing the people in their circle choose a different path. That can sometimes lead to the people closest to us projecting their fears onto us in ways we may not understand. I've learned on this healing path to stop taking people's fears personally. They are not mine." #gentlereminder #notetoself
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"SIX LITTLE STORIES WITH LOTS OF MEANING... 1. Once all the villagers sdecided to pray for rain. On the day of prayer, all of them gathered but only one little boy brought an umbrella. That is Faith. 2. When you throw little kids in the air, they laugh because they know you will catch them. That is Trust. 3. Every night we go to sleep with no assurance of being alive the next morning, but still we set our alarms to wake up. That is Hope. 4. We plan big things for the future…
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Hello dear fellas GOOD EVENING well, its dinner time here in my country, so today, I for the very fist time i made my native dish whicj is known as Sindhi pulao gravi dish and second is "masoo dahi" both are famous dish specially in my area, well, going to do my dinner so if anyone wants to join me or or she can come and join me!! Can't wait more 😋
@Aalia
Choose a man with a good heart no matter what his financial status is.❤️ Inside the reality of married life you'll see that having a big house, huge savings accounts are only secondary. You'll prefer someone whom you can talk to about anything, someone who's also a good father to you're children, someone who's faithful, someone who you can trust. There's no price tag to a happy family. Don't be afraid to marry a work in progress man.
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To my future partner in life. It's okay if your money isn't too good right now. I can finance myself. It's okay if you don't have a car in the meantime. It's okay if you still live with your parents currently. It's okay if you can't get a job at the moment. I can pay for everything until you do. It's okay if you can't afford to take me out or get me something nice. I can feed myself or buy myself the things I want. It's okay if you can't support me now. I can support and…
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Resilience is not about becoming so cold & hardened in order to withstand life’s challenges. It’s actually the opposite: having compassion, self belief, patience and the ability to forgive ourselves as we grow and learn better. Being “soft” is the greatest courage and an underestimated act of resilience. Good Night 💤🌙 😊 Sweet Dream 🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠
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I once asked a very successful woman to share her secret with me. She smiled and said to me.. "I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights for small fighters. I stopped fighting those who gossiped about me... I stopped fighting with my in laws... I stopped fighting for attention... I stopped fighting to meet peoples expectation of me... I stopped fighting for my rights with inconsiderate people... I stopped fighting to please everyone... I stopped fighting to…
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There is a certain person that we met unexpectedly and we feel comfortable, safe, and at peace, that every time we shared a conversation it flows perfectly as if we already met before. The energy you give was beautifully different. And you said it too. But then, sometimes the universe is so playful. They let two hearts fall and are meant to fall apart. I tried to cut that red string only to realize that not all moments have to keep perfectly.
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Do not be afraid of spending quality time by yourself. Find meaning or don’t find meaning but 'steal' some time and give it freely and exclusively to your own self. Opt for privacy and solitude. That doesn’t make you antisocial or cause you to reject the rest of the world. But you need to breathe. And you need to be.
@Aalia
In the very end, it does not matter how much we get from this life, it does not even matter what life has to offer. Because wether good or bad nothing is never enough. So amidst all the chaos of this world, we need that special time in our lives to always remind us how far we have come. It is the combination of the things good and disappoinment that makes us who we truly are" that quality time is essential even if its 30 seconds. We owe it to our ourselves -finding love is…
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Perhaps you should recognize right now that your journey is not about loving another person. Maybe right now you need to love yourself first and feel the inner peace of being alone. Maybe right now you need to figure yourself out and ask yourself why you're rushing things that can wait. Perhaps now is the time to learn how to sleep without expecting someone to say goodnight and to wake up the next day with a smile and forgiveness. You will value your personal space as a…
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Every single thing that has happened in your Life so far is preparing you for a moment that is yet to come. Just trust your inner voice and your Soul will lead you. I often look back at things that have happened me in my past and think "Oh is that why I had to go through that ? " We don't have to know the reasons why, as everything becomes clearer the more aware we become. Hence we can relax and know within that all we need on this journey comes to us at the perfect time to…
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As you go through life and all the pain and struggles that comes with it, you must know that the efforts you are putting in every day are not in vain. You will not always get the fruits as quickly as you wanted, but you are planting, you are building, soon you won't be able to contain the harvest. Don't stop watering and fertilizing the seed because of the time it takes to grow. Keep putting in the work, take no time off, soon all your efforts will pay off. Sacrifices never…
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Don't let the ugly in others kill the beauty in you. Repaying evil for evil, hating someone because they hate you, hurting someone because they hurt you is like going to wrestle with a pig in the mud because it threw dirt at you. In the end no one knows who the real pig is. Don't treat people as bad as they are, treat them as good as you are. The measure of your good character is seen in the way you treat others who don't have any. Learn to let go of hurt, Learn to accept…
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“We are here to create history, not repeat it. We are living in amazing times. Many people are awakening from their spiritual slumber and are seeking the deeper meanings of existence. Many are discovering that we are far more powerful than we have been led to believe—we are a direct reflection of creation; eternal beings of energy and light. It is a time of great growth in human consciousness, a time to reclaim our power and to align with the Divine. The cosmos creates…
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Most things are only a part of your life because you keep thinking about them. Stop holding on to what hurts, and make room for what feels right ! Do not let what is out of your control interfere with all the things you can control. In other words, say “goodbye” to what didn’t work out so you can say “hello” to what might.
@Aalia
Everything in life is a choice. You can choose to be happy , sad or miserable. You can choose to forgive or live with hate. You can do what you need to do in this life or live with regret. The choices you make are your very own. Incredible bad things happen to good people, but you and only you have the choice to make it right again. Say what you need to say. Love who needs to be loved and most importantly love yourself . Good Night 💤🌙 😊 Sweet Dream 🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠
@Aalia
Out of all the different heavy feelings that battles had made me experience, never thought of actually that it can be this lonely. When you're in a battle, sometimes, it gets too lonely, and that's when it turns to be more difficult 'cause even hope abandoned you while you're in a middle of a fight. "How can I win this?" Morning ☀
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So many people achieve their goals only at old age. A while ago I listened to a radio interview on a woman finishing her doctor's degree at 83 yrs. And some people seem to have a joie de vivre beyond all age ... Maybe a part of their secret is an attitude as described in these enthusiastic words of Robert Schuller ... "I will! I am! I can! I will actualize my dream. I will press ahead. I will settle down and see it through. I will solve the problems. I will pay the price. I…
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We all go through hard days and we have different coping mechanisms. You can read from the internet what the best coping styles are. But for me, it's very simple....PRAY, PRAY HARDER, AND DON'T STOP PRAYING EVEN IF YOU FEEL NOTHING IS IMPROVING. God's responses and ways are sometimes difficult to see and understand, but as long as you trust Him, you're definitely in good hands, and in His perfect timing, you will be able to come out from whatever situation you're into right…
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Give yourself 6 months.🌹🖤 Take care of your body, mind and soul. Give yourself 6 months to get into the habit of practicing in radical self care and self love. Delete the app, block the number, wake up earlier, get dressed up even though you're not going anywhere, eat healthier, journal, have spa days and exercise. This is your only life do what you can to love and enjoy every aspect of it. No more waiting. Be the person you've always wanted to be. This is will not be like…
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Your words are powerful, and what you say matters. It can lift you up, and it can put you down, it can create, it also can destroy, Whichever one, it's yours to choose. Before you speak your mind, ensure the words you find are true, loving and kind. What you say to yourself has a great effect on you, so never let how you feel determine what you say, once the words are out, they hardly fail. You may feel bad, but say something good and you will see how good things will…
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Start badly, start scrappy, but just start. You may win, you may lose, but you will never know, if you do not begin. Give it a try, take the first step, and start! At worse, you will fail, but failure also comes with an opportunity to learn and get better. The fact that you are full of faults in the beginning doesn't mean you should stop, the pathway to the top is filled with loads of mistakes. To run from mistakes is to never learn, to never learn is to never get better. It…
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You are constantly faced with different choices everyday, pressures within and without, the quality of what you do with all that confronts you will determine the quality of the life you will live. And that's why you must never act on impulse, subject every intended action to reasoning, consider the effect before taking a stance, it is far easier to destroy than to build, years of efforts can be destroyed by seconds of impatience.
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YOU ARE BIGGER and STRONGER than ANYTHING that can ever happen to you, any problem, any challenge, any experience! You are the POWER! Always remember that! Stand tall to face your fears and watch them vanish like a cloud of smoke. Name your fears, know them, take away their control over you. Examples: "Fear of failure, fear of success, fear of rejection, fear of change..." Acknowledge and thank them, they are here to protect you but sometimes they can also stop you from…
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It's mesmerizing to realize how special some moments can become if we just look at them a little closer. You might think that my fondest memories of us would be of the grand things, but no. Not really. It's not the weekend escapes nor the fancy dinner, but instead of the nights when I got the chance to memorize every little detail of your face watching you sleep, or looking at you as you sing to yourself with your headphones on, without a care in the world. The bus rides…
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You seem to know how to comfort other people; how to help them stitch their cuts, how to engrave love and make them feel that they're not less of a person when they have wounds, scars, cuts —when they're broken and damaged. You tell them that they're enough, loved, and amazing, even if they go through phases. You remind them that they don't need other people's approval to feel sad or vulnerable. You carve their hearts with comforting serenades and lines that would lift them…
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Always remember, your focus determines your reality. You get more of whatever you focus on, so focus on what elevates you, neglect what depresses you, focus on what strengthens you, neglect what weakens you. Stop spending your precious energy on what you don't want, focus on what you do want, for what you focus on grows, what you think about expands, and what you dwell on determines what you experience in life.
@Aalia
A difficult thing, inevitable change. You know, the kind of life changes you have very little, but mostly no control over... The kind that can wake you up at nights, wondering for a confused moment, who or what has been trying to press the very breath of life from your chest. I don't like any change that much. I don't resist it either too much ... not any more. But I know for some people change can be extremely difficult. What I've learned through one of the hardest…
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Courage People often talk about others being brave when facing tragedy, but they don’t talk too much about the courage it takes some people to face another day. I believe the measure of this word is often misread because being brave (to me) means facing fears ... and there are many people that do this daily. Hiding their truth, burying secrets deep in their being ... their struggle is real and simply opening their eyes is excruciating. If you are one of these people, I bow…
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"Being at peace and being who you are, that is, being yourself, are One. The ego says: Maybe at some point in the future, I can be at peace — if this, that, or the other happens, or I obtain this or become that. Or it says: I can never be at peace because of something that happened in the past. Listen to people’s stories and they could all be entitled “Why I Cannot Be at Peace Now.” The ego doesn’t know that your only opportunity for being at peace is now. Or maybe it does…
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You have to be on your own—not because you deserve to be with yourself alone, but for the reason that sometimes, the people whom you can lean on will also have such hard times to face. They will feel empty, too, and will be needing some help. And if there will come a time when all of you are going through something at the same time and can't be of rescue for each other, you have to stand up on your own feet, get your own back, and be there on your own being without having a…
@Aalia
There is no such thing called "the right time". There is only time and what we do with it. To have a happy, fulfilled life, we have to start living and doing what matters to us TODAY. Even if it’s not perfect, even if we think we are not ready yet. The secret is to start before we are ready, and then learn a lot and improve with time. Motivation comes with actions. Actions build momentum. Momentum builds confidence. Confidence makes us feel unstoppable. Sometimes we're…
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DELICUOUS DINNER IS READY well, i my mommy have made delicious biryani, I its spicy one as i love sindhi biryani, do you know there are many types of biryani? But i like sindhi one! As its taste is better than other ones! Well if anyone wanna join he or she can! See you after dinner!
@Aalia
Do you ever step back and observe patterns in your life; cycles that occur over and over? an example is going through the same things in relationships? Being with different people, but things always end up being the same, or just the same partner but repetitive issues keep coming up. Some of these people give up, some get stuck in a vicious cycle of their own making, and others don’t even realize that they are basically chasing their tail, repeating the same situation over…
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i was told i should be braver. that i should not be defeated in everything i do. that i should not be affected on things that can ruin me. that i should not be a crybaby. i was told i should be tough. that i should be bolder. that i should be living fearlessly. that i should be someone i dreamed to be. they told me that i should keep going, but no one told me i can rest when things gets rough. no one told me that i can have their shoulders when i don't have anyone to lean…
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Never underestimate the power of small gestures. A simple hello or a shy smile you give to someone can brighten their day. An honest compliment can boost someone’s confident to work harder and try new things. A sincere apology can reconnect bonds, a “thank you” can make someone feel properly compensated. A gentle tap in the back can lighten the intensity of someone’s frustration. A sudden “how are you?” can start a long, meaningful conversation. A short warm hug can make…
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Am I the only one who wants to live on my own? like I want to be an independent person. Living in a simple small house or apartment. Cook all the foods i want to eat. Clean my own house. Reading books while having a coffee on my table. Watching anime and movies in my room and do the things i want to do. Then in the weekdays, I will spend my time on my family and after that, back to my house again. I badly want that. Other people might say that being alone is boring but for…
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The right people always find you at the right time, don't they? The right things. The right music. The right poetry. the right art. It always seems to find you when you need it most. When you need a sign. A moment of clarity. Perhaps, everything is, indeed, predetermined. Perhaps, we all are just following this path that has already been drawn out for us. Who knows! Because these things always tend to happen at our lowest points. the right people always find us at the right…
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I'm proud of you. Most people don't know your story, your struggles, your hustle, your prayers. Most people don't know you're fighting and losing some of your silent battles. If you don't hear this often, just know that I'm proud of you. Keep going, don't give up.🌻💛
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To be honest i have this feeling that sometimes my opinions doesn’t really matter. Sometimes my thoughts are not really heard And it really hurt my feelings deeply. Sometimes I’m asking myself maybe because my thoughts are loud or am i too loud on expressing my beliefs to people i really care about. And to be honest sometimes i really don’t know where to fit in. I wanted to say out loud that being ignored is the most hurtful thing i am experiencing right now. I hate it when…
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"When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door, that we do not see the one which has been opened for us." 🖋️~ Helen Keller ~ *** My life motto is, "Do not look at the 'seems likes', for almost nothing is ever only what it seems like. This goes for closed doors and missed opportunities as well. I can vouch for it personally. So can the great many people in NY who didn't make it to their office on time on that horrific day of…
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Don't let anything make you question your worth. Don't let anything take you back to old ways of life. It's time to step into power with hope in heart. You're incredible and meant for greatness. All your wishes are valid. Your dreams will come true. You can make it happen! Good Night 💤🌙 😊 Sweet Dream 🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠
@Aalia
What changes are you making? It is the obvious that we sometimes don’t see. It’s like the titles, material possessions, honors, and friends we try to attract by mentally carrying big signs saying “we are worthy”. The attempts for significance are the very things that weight us down in life and make our journey burdensome. When in reality, we just have to be our True Self to discover that is all that is required to be happy and fulfilled. Not everyone will understand. Not…
@Aalia
We all have our own stories. We all have suffered. We all are a little broken and a little shattered inside. Every one of us has suffered heartbreaks and gone through failures. But no matter what we have gone through it does not give us the right to disrespect or disregard others on the same journey. Respect others because you don’t know what battle they are fighting.
@Aalia
Let’s talk about forgiveness because it’s misunderstood. It’s misinterpreted. And it’s something that can make you or break you. To forgive someone is: To make peace within. To let go. Too be able to move forward. To find closure. To set yourself free. We are all raised to believe forgiveness is a privilege we give to the person that hurt us and we win if we don’t forgive. We are strong if we don’t forgive. Not true. Forgiveness will bring peace. It’s about you and your…
@Aalia
Should we focus on our actions more than our goals? Our goals are basically the desires we intend to achieve in life. We need to plan, prepare, and take action to achieve these goals. When we only focus on our goal, sometimes, seeing how far we are from it, we get discouraged. This is why many people give up on their goals. When we focus on our actions, we see the little changes that happen with our effort, and these little achievements keep us motivated. You should have a…
@Aalia
You have to be on your own—not because you deserve to be with yourself alone, but for the reason that sometimes, the people whom you can lean on will also have such hard times to face. They will feel empty, too, and will be needing some help. And if there will come a time when all of you are going through something at the same time and can't be of rescue for each other, you have to stand up on your own feet, get your own back, and be there on your own being without having a…
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May your HEART be BRAVE, your MIND FIERCE, and your SPIRIT FREE! What would you ask for, if you knew the answer was - YES? "Most people never ask for what they want. A lot of good happens if you ask for what you want. First of all, you’ll be forced to define what you want. Second, you’ll be forced to think about how you might get it. The third step, is the easiest and THE LEAST utilised. JUST ASK." - Nick Crocker Asking always increases our chances of receiving. People…
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We all deserve a friend who listens to us without judgement. Someone who has the courage to correct us when we are doing something wrong, not someone who's going to tolerate our bad habits and attitudes. Someone who'll accept our flaws and imperfections and will still be there for us, no matter what and regardless of distance. We all deserve someone like that. 🦋
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Sometimes we look in the mirror and see sunshine happy bright eyes a soft smile calm, rested face ... But sometimes we see only a mess ... A strange face looking back at us ... An image that makes us sad. Dark circles under tired eyes, frown lines, lips curving downwards under strain and stress of whatever is baring down on us. What is ever invisible in our mirror though, but reality and absolute fact, is the hearts we have touched, lives even changed because of it. We don't…
@Aalia
Times don't stay the same. Pains won't last. The miserable past will soon be forgotten. Persistent storms will soon make way for sunshine and rainbows. Your fears will prove to be unfounded. Keep trying. Have some patience. Believe that you are worthy. It's just a matter of time. Have a wonderful and blessed day beautiful souls ✨💜
@Aalia
Life will break you. Nobody can protect you from that, and being alone won't either, for solitude will also break you with its yearning. You have to love. You have to feel. It is the reason you are here on earth. You have to risk your heart. You are here to be swallowed up. And when it happens that you are broken, or betrayed, or left, or hurt, or death brushes too near, let yourself sit by an apple tree and listen to the apples falling all around you in heaps, wasting their…
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Until we become totally at peace with ourselves within, those around us can have a huge impact on our lives. They can help raise our energy level or lower it, especially if we are connecting for the wrong reasons. If it's still important to get someone's approval, then our energies will be lower and unfortunately we don't realise this - until we're ready to stop doing it. Our energy levels will shift depending on who we are with. The more self-love and respect we have for…
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Just Let them. If they want to choose something or someone over you, LET THEM. If they want to go weeks without talking to you, LET THEM. If they are okay with never seeing you, LET THEM. If they are okay with always putting themselves first, LET THEM. If they are showing you who they are and not what you perceived them to be, LET THEM. If they want to follow the crowd, LET THEM. If they want to judge or misunderstand you, LET THEM. If they act like they can live without…
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Can spending time with yourself clear the confusion of the mind? The time spent in silence is the time of self-connection. When we connect with ourselves, we distance ourselves from the external stimulus, so things become clear, and we get to know what we truly want. Most of us lack clarity in life because we want to live the way we have been told is a successful way of living, even if we don't feel happy about it. So we are always a participant in the fast-paced life…
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You’re going to realize it one day — that happiness was never about your job, or your degree, or being in a relationship. Happiness was never about following in the footsteps of all of those who came before you, it was never about being like the others. One day, you’re going to see it — that happiness was always about the discovery, the hope, the listening to your heart and following it wherever it chose to go. Happiness was always about being kinder to yourself, it was…
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Dear self, I'm sorry. I'm sorry for the times i prioritize other people but forsaking your safety, and crossing your boundaries. I'm sorry for the times i didn't listen to you when you keep on saying you're already hurting, but i still stayed on the environment and with the people hurting you. I'm sorry for the times i failed to protect you just because i was settling for a little amount of attention and care for the people who doesn't really value you. I'm sorry that all…
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A lot of times, we don't recognize important moments in our life as they happen. We just realize their value when we look back. That's why sometimes, whenever I feel happy or complete, I take a second to pause and memorize the moment. You see, it's not always happy in my head, but there are moments when I feel like I could shine if I wanted to, like when I'm sitting by the sea and watching the sunset, or when I'm on the bus ride home and leaning my head against the glass…
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It’s very sad to see that there are people who always see the wrong in you. It is so sad to know that some people will already judge you without even knowing you. It’s very sad that there are people who is willing to destroy you or trying to tarnish your reputation as a kind person. It is very sad that there are people who unfollows you, unfriended you, who cut ties with you just because they see you as their biggest insecurity. It’s very sad that people see you as a threat…
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The most beautiful quality of all in a human being, in my humble opinion? The ability to listen deeply. To listen from Presence. From stillness. To listen without trying to fix someone, or change them, or ‘save’ them. The ability to allow another to be exactly as they are. Not giving unsolicited advice. Not lecturing them about the latest psychological research or the ‘most true’ spiritual teaching. Not trying to mould them, manipulate them into matching a concept of who…
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YOU ARE ENOUGH You are enough even when you don't feel like it. Even on your darkest days, you know the ones when you don't even feel like getting out of bed, you're enough on those days too. You are enough even when your heart has been hurt by someone you love and care about. You know those days when you stand in front of the mirror and don't feel like yourself, you're enough on those days too. When you're exhausted, run off your feet and didn't finish everything you needed…
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I feel like everyone’s progressing but me. I feel like I am always at the end of the line, always coming too close but never really get my turn. It feels like stars watch me on the land screen, like as if my life is a sitcom with a laugh track that plays on a loop. I never get the goal. I feel like everyone’s buses come and pick them up, while mine makes me wait longer. Until I’m the only one left at the station, as everyone passes by. I never get to move forward. I feel…
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When the fears of what other people think hold you back, take a look around you and remember, you won't be here for long, neither will they, everyone is living with his or her own fears, but never let yours stop you. Soon you will leave this world behind, decide today to reach your full potential and live your life to the fullest. In the end, others opinions won't matter, your fears won't matter either. What will matter is how you live today and every day. You won't be…
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How you see your problem is more important than the problem itself. Most times, the problems you face are not as big as they appear to be, it takes a change of perspective to see the light. Don't confuse what you are going through with who you are. Your problem is what happened to you, it is not you. Always remember, you are bigger than your problems. Don't get trapped in it. You can't solve a problem when you are overwhelmed by it. Answers come when you are able to elevate…
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Can being hopeful make our day positive? Being hopeful means that we trust things to work in our favour. When we start our day with this trust, even though things may not change, how we see and feel things changes. Our past experiences in life greatly influence our present. Sometimes, when we feel things are unfavourable, we may feel they will never change. With this mindset, we find faults in everyone, displeasure in every situation and dissatisfaction in everything. Begin…
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"Expecting things to change without putting in any effort is like waiting for a ship at the airport." It sounds funny but it is true. In all simplicity any SUCCESS IS... S - See your dream or goal. U - Understand the obstacles. C - Create a positive mental picture. C - Clear your mind of self doubt. E - Embrace the challenge. S - Stay on track. S - Show the world you can do it! “It's not about perfect. It's about effort. And when you bring that effort every single day,…
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Always strive to keep your energy field grounded in the present. It doesn't mean you don't work on your future it means that while you set goals and make plans, you ask yourself what you can do right now in this moment to reach those goals. Maybe it's making a list or making some phone calls. But you do those things in the moment. Don't get stressed about a future that you can't do anything about right now. We only have so much energy, I hope this week you try to keep yours…
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At some point, people will begin to expect you to return to what they perceive to be a normal life. Actually, your life will never be normal again. You will learn to be pleasant, productive, and functional but things will never be the same again because an integral part of what used to be you has been torn away. But....even in the earliest stages of feeling around for your land legs...the familiar moves and thought patterns of work can have remarkable therapeutic value.…
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"The older i get the more realize how being grateful for simple things make life beautiful: a cup of coffee, a smile on children's faces, clean laundry, waking up in the morning and just being in the here and now, not trying to figure out the whole life at once. The older i get the more realize how all the messiness in life taught me the most important lessons in appreciation and gratitude, and shaped me into a stronger, beautiful, perfectly imperfect person. The older I get…
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Have you ever tried looking back and found out you haven't gone far from where you started and then you feel helpless and disappointed in yourself? If yes, then, please don't be. This journey may have lots of twists and turns, but all you gotta do is to get along with the ride, and learn how it works for you. You will figure things out along the way—believe that you can. Give yourself the chance and time to grow and above all else, in between hustle and race, give yourself…
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One of the best feeling in my life is how i manage to handle my mental health, by means of setting my own boundaries. Taking full responsibility for yourself is a form of protection by setting your own limitations to all the things around you. It’s fine to set your own boundaries. Now i manage to learn how to filter people in my life, choosing the right people. People who will remind me to slow down, people who will remind me to push through for my dreams and goals. It’s…
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Everything you read and hear from other people—be it their own stories to share or the pieces of advice they gave—is not the exact blueprint that you need to follow step by step to be healed. Those are just your guides finding what fits your way of being cured. The only thing you need to do is to be patient in finding the right process to make you feel better—it may take some time, but trust me, it's all worth it in the end.
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Day by day, it gradually dawned to me that I am not remarkable. Friends often lose their sight of me as I can be easily ditched off — be replaced with no sweat, and each time it happens, I force myself to believe that it is okay since that's how I live through after being abandoned. Oftentimes, it made me ponder that maybe I am as good as gone — disappear in this world without a trace, and perhaps that would benefit everyone including myself. Sometimes, it is terrible not to…
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WAYS TO GAIN PEACE OF MIND. 🧘♀️ 🌻 Cut all your communications from Toxic people. 🌻 Kill the mindset that all people who loves you cannot leave you. 🌻 STOP trusting words, Trust actions instead. 🌻 STOP being available to all. Start being available to yourself. 🌻 DON’T Rely your happiness to others. 🌻 STOP responding to texts or calls thats giving you mixed signals.
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Fruits only give their juice when squeezed, you can never know how strong you are until being strong is your only option. . . Life is filled with tests, and sometimes those tests weigh you down, they make you weak, you feel burdened, you get tired, sometimes you cry, and sometimes you are discouraged. . . But what if these tests are meant to make you better and not bitter, what if they are meant to bring out the best in you and not the stress in you? . . Like it or not, as…
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i find myself being okay to be left behind, to be the last person in a queue, to be someone who walks behind a crowd. many people have asked me why i am not keeping up with them, and i don't understand that idea for the past years until recently. i love walking through every corner of the street, i venture some unknown routes and sometimes i get lost but i eventually find my way back and discover new perspectives. i love observing motions around, how the rain drops on the…
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And you wonder who can be named a favorite person, maybe someone who left the whole world and came to be there for you, someone who wouldn't speak big words yet he would do big actions, maybe that person you would fight with sometimes, you'd hate in many, but you know nothing will change between you two, maybe someone whom you can share with anything even if it's dark, foolish or repeated, someone who knows you at heart, knows the things you don't say, your fatal weaknesses,…
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I have loved. I have lost and I have changed. It has been difficult but I have learned so much from it. I have learned that people can hurt you so deeply and not even worry about you. I learned that good people can change in a minute when their hearts have been broken. I’ve met great people, but mean people as well. But the most important thing I have learned is that every person in this world is strong enough to let go, when they need too.. People come and go and that’s…
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Affirm this: “I will finish school. I will get a stable job. I will invest my own money. I will build a successful business. I will have my own place. I will spoil my love ones. I will have my own loving family. I will be successful.” 💤💤💤💤💤 ☁☁☁💤☁ ☁☁💤☁☁ ☁💤☁☁☁ 💤💤💤💤💤 ☁ Sleepy ☁ Good Night 💤🌙 😊 Sweet Dream 🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠🌠
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I have no intention of giving up. But I hope, this won't sound selfish If I'll tell the world today, "I just need one day." One day without pain and fear of what's going to happen if I pursue my dreams. One day without failures and expectations. One day without the pang of my past that still haunts me. One day without fake smiles and only pure happiness. One day without shooting stars and only millions of gleaming chances. I want that. I am deeply longing for that. Just one…
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Don’t you think it’s unfair for ourselves to ask other people if we’re worth it or not? Like when they fail to check on us throughout the day we’d think we aren’t worthy of their time. If they try to hide us from the world we’d think we aren’t worthy enough to be proud about. If they run away before we could even hold their hand we’d think we aren’t worth the risk. When they refuse to know us deeper, we’d wonder if the things they saw from the shallows weren’t worthy of a…
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Are you living every moment of life? Living a moment means that you embrace that moment of life and are fully present both physically and mentally. One of the reasons why we lack joy in life is that our minds and body are not in the same place all the time. Thinking of the past or worrying about the future is why we never make it entirely in our present. When we are not fully present, we neither enjoy the moment nor the company of the people we are with. Learn from your…
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Here's why you should not GOSSIP. In Ancient Greece, Socrates had a great reputation of wisdom. One day, someone came to find the great philosopher and said to him: - Do you know what I just heard about your friend? - A moment, replied Socrates. Before you tell me, I would like to test you the three sieves. - The three sieves? - Yes, continued Socrates. Before telling anything about the others, it's good to take the time to filter what you mean. I call it the test of the…
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"Don't change so people will like you; be yourself and the right people will love you." To find true happiness we must be true to ourselves, live our own dreams, and be proud of what makes us unique instead of feeling the pressure to follow the crowd. When we are comfortable in our own skin, we are not fighting against or with anyone, as we've discovered our own true nature and are living in accordance with it. We are courageous enough to live our own truth. The ancient…
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Have you ever felt your life is broken beyond repair, have you ever thought there is no way to get out of the mess you are in? We are humans and sometimes we feel that way. We tend to doubt all possibilities of light at the end of the tunnel, we see problems or pain as what might put an end to our lives. During those moments in your life, when you are down, when it seems it's all over and there is no chance of survival, all you have to do is Give it all to God. Give Him a…
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You never have to prove yourself or explain yourself to anyone. Never. Ever. Simply be true to yourself, of course without harming others, and wish people well who misunderstand you. 🌿 It's okay. Let people misunderstand you. The person who matters most in your life is the one looking back in the mirror. 🔍
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It's okay to take some time to rest your body, mind and spirit as you continue on your journey towards your ultimate destination. ~ Yes, it's important to hustle, grind and push but sometimes the best thing you can do is just sit still for a few moments, take it all in...gather your own thoughts and feelings and prepare yourself for your next battle! ~ Don't get discouraged because you are feeling tired or need a rest, that is all very much a part of the journey of life and…
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Reasons why you should Read Books; 1. It helps you to travel around the world in the cheapest way. 2. Develop your communicating skills. 3. Books help you build literary talent. 4. Books entertain your mind. 5. Books bring about a 'personality change'.
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I didn't stay on "what ifs" for so long; if I did, I would be drowned already—it's too much to bear. I didn't wait around "what could have beens", too; if I chose to, I would have been long gone. But that didn't mean it never crossed my mind—I think about those, too. It's just that, I don't dwell on it, for it will never change the past. Regrets of the past will just torment my present self, so I let it stay on the part of my life where it happened. Instead, I look forward…
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Stop replaying the past in your mind. It's gone. Use your mental energy to manifest something new. Don't waste your precious life force being stuck on what didn't work out or what you could've done. Do something new today. Each moment is another chance to recreate yourself.
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Sometimes peace comes in the form of accepting that life isn't turning out the way you thought it would....By accepting this you aren't giving up on anything necessarily, but you ask yourself deeper questions. Is what's happening simply a life situation or is it my life? Most often the things that upset us are life situations. They are challenging and they are of relative importance but no situation is of utmost importance. Ask yourself if you need to do anything or is this…
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Pat randomly on your shoulder & tell yourself that "it's okay." Even if you don't know what it's for or what is going to be okay. Sometimes all we need is a pat on the back and someone to say— That it's okay if we sometimes fall for the wrong people, That it's okay to lose trust in someone but not entirely in everyone. That it's okay if sometimes we fail at certain things in our careers and lives. That it's okay if sometimes we have no idea how we're going to live our entire…
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"Your future self loves you. they will look through old photos of you with affection, not disgust, nor embarrassment. they wish they could tell you stories of your future, of how much you’ll change, of the people you’ll meet, of how you’ll eventually learn to accept yourself, then love yourself. They will read your diary entries and poems and favourite lyrics, heart aching, tears in their eyes. if only you knew... Your future self loves you. If only they could show you. they…
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“Happiness doesn't lie in conspicuous consumption and the relentless amassing of useless crap. Happiness lies in the person sitting beside you and your ability to talk to them. Happiness is clear-headed human interaction and empathy. Happiness is home. And home is not a house-home is a mythological concept. It is a state of mind. A place of communion and unconditional love. It is where, when you cross its threshold, you finally feel at peace.”
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Sometimes peace comes in the form of accepting that life isn't turning out the way you thought it would....By accepting this you aren't giving up on anything necessarily, but you ask yourself deeper questions. Is what's happening simply a life situation or is it my life? Most often the things that upset us are life situations. They are challenging and they are of relative importance but no situation is of utmost importance. Ask yourself if you need to do anything or is this…
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I know some people just won't understand, but some days, I prefer the silence. The lack of conversations. Moments where I can allow the thoughts to drown me so I can sleep at 2 AMs. The sound of the rain. Sometimes, I wonder how the world could be so busy yet quiet at the same time. I sit somewhere random and just let the world spin without me moving, not an inch, as if I'm stuck like it always seems. You see, some days I just want to stay still. To feel. To assure myself…
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Even if the world won't treat you any better, never do the same treatment towards yourself. The universe may punish and beat you to pulp, but do not torture yourself more. Take good care of your being—there will be times that your best comrade will only be yourself; do not take her for granted.
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“There's no need to rush. Whatever is meant for you will always arrive right on time.-Mandy Hale” Be comfortable in your own skin. Know who you are. Understand deeply that what people do is never a reflection of you and is always their perception of life. You are not for everyone and they are not always for you. When you are not included, invited, or considered, whisper to yourself, “Thank you for the space necessary in my life for the people that matter most to me. I am…
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I am a true believer that life always gives us what we need. Perhaps it's not always what we would like to receive but if we respect life's gifts and let them be with us, it will certainly guide us to something worth travelling to. Resisting our reality only creates struggles and misery. If we accept what we've got and choose to do better, we can achieve much better results and happier life. I always remind myself that it's not where we came from, but where we are going to,…
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Everyone has insecurities. When you show yourself in the world and display your talents, you naturally stir up all kinds of resentment, envy, and other manifestations of insecurity. This is to be expected. You cannot spend your life worrying about the petty feelings of others. With those above you, however, you must take a different approach: When it comes to power, outshining the master is perhaps the worst mistake of all. Do not fool yourself into thinking that life has…
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“There's no need to rush. Whatever is meant for you will always arrive right on time.-Mandy Hale” Be comfortable in your own skin. Know who you are. Understand deeply that what people do is never a reflection of you and is always their perception of life. You are not for everyone and they are not always for you. When you are not included, invited, or considered, whisper to yourself, “Thank you for the space necessary in my life for the people that matter most to me. I am…
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You have to be on your own—not because you deserve to be with yourself alone, but for the reason that sometimes, the people whom you can lean on will also have such hard times to face. They will feel empty, too, and will be needing some help. And if there will come a time when all of you are going through something at the same time and can't be of rescue for each other, you have to stand up on your own feet, get your own back, and be there on your own being without having a…
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There's more to life than suffering of the past. Don't let anything that happened make you feel insecure. Show yourself unconditional love and allow your mistakes to add to your wisdom. Life is a journey with ups and downs. Hold space for yourself through all the lows. It will get better.
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You’ve been through a thousand things in your life people don’t even know about. You’ve experienced things that shook you, changed you, broke you, built you and taught you to be stronger than you ever thought you had the ability to be. And you are who you are for all of it. So the next time someone judges you based on a small part of what they see and how they interpret that, remember who you are, remember how much you’ve overcome and smile and keep walking because you don’t…
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How do we keep ourselves motivated when our goal is far? Motivation is the driving force to achieve every goal in life. To consistently have the same level of motivation, we need to open our perception to see possibilities in life. When the goal is far, sometimes we may if it is even worth continuing. We need to remember that reaching our goal is not about achieving one thing in life but creating more possibilities when you reach your goal and even along the way. Look at the…
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What do you understand? It is funny how so many live their lives searching for that acceptance from others. Just wanting to be understood. But what if we finally acknowledge that no one really truly understand us? What if, right? What I mean is people only understand us to a point because of their own experiences. Their own perceptions. Their own understanding. You can’t make someone completely understand you if they don’t really know the life long experiences you have had…
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Why is it important to heal emotional wounds? Every wound hurts, but some emotional wounds leave a scar that hurts too. Sometimes, we experience heartbreak, loss or a traumatic event that leaves us emotionally wounded. When we allow ourselves to heal, we are able to move on without being dragged back into old memories. But when we move on unhealed, carrying deep pain inside us, we feel wounded every time we think about it. If you have ever experienced a deep emotional wound,…
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At age 17, she was rejected from college. At age 25, her mother died from disease. At age 26, she suffered a miscarriage. At age 27, she got married. Her husband abused her. Despite this, her daughter was born. At age 28, she got divorced and was diagnosed with severe depression. At age 29, she was a single mother living on welfare. At age 30, she didn't want to be on this earth. But, she directed all her passion into doing the one thing she could do better than anyone else.…
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I have no intention of giving up. But I hope, this won't sound selfish If I'll tell the world today, "I just need one day." One day without pain and fear of what's going to happen if I pursue my dreams. One day without failures and expectations. One day without the pang of my past that still haunts me. One day without fake smiles and only pure happiness. One day without shooting stars and only millions of gleaming chances. I want that. I am deeply longing for that. Just one…
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And some days when things get too hard, when people are breaking my heart over phone calls and texts, when my Mother says the same things she has apologised for before, when the best friend I have known has turned into a stranger, when the boy I loved has become a ghost of the past— on those days, I take the remaining piece of my heart and go outside. I throw my phone on my bed, I tell no soul the agony I am carrying. I put my boots on— the one I bought in a sale— and start…
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People always say that life isn't a race or a competition. That we shouldn't be comparing our progress with others' because we all have different privileges, goals, timelines. And while I know it's true, a part of me is guilty—the part that usually keeps me awake at night. I guess I'd like to believe that it's fair to long for the good things, too. For the rewards and the comfort after a long day. I think it's perfectly reasonable to expect that after braving up and trying…
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“Do not allow others to diminish your light due to their own fears and insecurities. Instead, let your light shine so brightly, that you illuminate a pathway for others to find their way out of the darkness!” - Dr. Stacey A. Maxwell, Peace Love Wings “The more light you allow within you, the brighter the world you live in will be.” - Shakti Gawain “Just be yourself. Let people see the real, imperfect, flawed, quirky, weird, beautiful, magical person that you are.” - Mandy…
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Whether you are aspiring for greatness or settling for mediocrity, you will inevitably face challenges in life, you will encounter problems, there will always be some kind of mountains to climb, obstacles to overcome, battles to fight. When greatness is your goal, and you have the burning desire to live the life of your dreams, you start to see what confronts you from a superior perspective. When you look closely, you will see inherent in the stumbling blocks are stepping…
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Everyone has the gift of time, but only a few really utilize it. Our time is our life. “Until you value yourself, you won't value your time. Until you value your time, you will not do anything with it.” - M. Scott Peck "Understand the value of time. Life ends up being really short, no matter how long you live. You can recover money, you can rebuild houses, you can re-buy glassware — but you can’t get back time." - Nick Crocker Sometimes we have to accept the truth about our…
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forgive yourself for those failures that cage the genuineness you once had. you shouldn't dwell yourself in things that shattered you—that sometimes, it makes you forget how to live with those lining wings as well as the desire to grow and heal, by the thought of you're wounded by yourself. let yourself teach you, how to step your footprints onward out of the line beneath those smallest fragments that cause you to bleed, as well as, may refuge be your pillow, at times you…
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We see in the world what we carry in our heart, we see it as WE ARE. What we choose to see, creates the world we see. "The world exists as YOU perceive it. It is not what you see, it is how YOU see it. It is not what you hear, but how YOU hear it. It is not what you feel, but how YOU feel it." -Rumi We can change our thoughts and it will change our experiences and our reality. We can allow ourselves to be and have anything we want. It is our birthright to have an abundant…
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Your purpose in this life isn't tied to some goal you have for a future achievement....Maybe read that again! Try not to equate your purpose with a goal that you one day hope to achieve. Your purpose is in this moment. It's in how you love and care for others. It's in the quality time you spend with loved ones and on yourself. A goal for the future or a plan to learn something new so you can do something else is awesome, but don't forget the most important things are what…
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BEGINNING TODAY "Beginning today, I will look in the mirror and I will see a person worthy of my respect and admiration. This capable person looking back at me is someone I enjoy spending time with and someone I would like to get to know better. Beginning today, I will cherish each moment of my life. I value this gift bestowed upon me in this world and I will unselfishly share this gift with others. I will use this gift to enhance the lives of others." *** I wish men will…
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What’s holding you back? It’s easy to just say “I hold myself back in life”. And usually that’s a good place to start. The responsibility of acknowledging you truly are the one that holds yourself back. But what is it about you that holds you back? The two major examples that I experience working with others is the same thing usually for me too. The inability to accept new ideas and information at times and to let go of the things that I have no influence over and weight me…
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"Beginning today, I will take a moment to step off the beaten path and to revel in the mysteries I encounter. I will face challenges with courage and determination. I will overcome what barriers there may be which hinder my quest for growth and self-improvement. Beginning today, I will take life one day at a time, one step at a time. Discouragement will not be allowed to taint my positive self-image, my desire to succeed or my capacity to love."
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People may know what you've done, but only a few know what you've been through, they may know where you are, only a few know where you came from, they may see your smile, only a few know your pain, they may see your scars, only a few know what stories they tell. Everyone is going through something you know nothing of, it's easy to look at them and make quick judgments and give opinions on something you don't understand. If you can't make someone smile, at least don't make…
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Is hard work required to achieve success? Working hard means you are willing to put effort into achieving your goals. You are willing to fulfil the roles and responsibilities that come along with it. One of the reasons why many people feel disappointed is that they want to see the results but are hesitant to put in the effort. They look for easy ways to achieve success. We need to remember that success comes with sincere effort. If the effort is not wholehearted, we cannot…
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"Whenever you find yourself doubting how far you can go, just remember how far you have come. Remember everything you have faced, all the battles you have won, and all the fears you have overcome." - N.R. Walker “The best day of your life is the one on which you decide your life is your own. No apologies or excuses. No one to lean on, rely on, or blame. The gift is yours - it is an amazing journey - and you alone are responsible for the quality of it. This is the day your…
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Once you stop denying that life isn't supposed to be difficult you come to realize that challenges are inevitable. There's a ying and yang, a balance to everything. Use your challenges to make you more aware of how you respond to them, cause that's always in your control. Have an amazing beautiful 🌃 night
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7 Habits That Will Help You Develop The Growth Mindset : 1. Deep Work Your Focus is your currency How you spend your time is your biggest investment • Block of few hours everyday • Focus on one thing that's most important • Remove distractions. This will get you ahead of most of the people 2. Optimize your Time Our time is the most expensive asset that we have Create systems to save it and use efficiently • Task delegation • Email automation • Logic based frameworks 3. Look…
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Why do some people always feel happy? The joy in life comes from how we feel about it. When we are grateful, we see and appreciate what we have in life, so we feel blissful even with the little we have. Most people are discontent with their lives because they always see what they lack. With this attitude, they feel inadequate and see inadequacy even in the people around them. Being grateful, we feel content with our lives and those around us. Be grateful for the life you…
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It's been so long since the last time I visited myself, my mind, my heart, and the dreams I built over the years. It's been a while since I said 'hello' to the person that I used to be. I keep forgetting about the smiles I loved to wear. I keep forgetting about the blue sky, how it looked during the summertime. I have accidentally thrown unto my unconscious the reasons why on May afternoons I had this desire to collect different kinds of flowers, why I loved writing on a…
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Focus on yourself, please. Don't let your wolrd revolve around someone else because people are temporary. Do your own things, have your own likes. Don't do things for them. Do things for you. Don't stick around waiting for them, don't give up your all for them because i guarantee you they will leave, please. Live for yourself. 🦋
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Sometimes, all you have to do is to believe that one day, all the sadness in your heart will disappear. I want you to know that it's okay not to be a fighter sometimes. You don't have to be strong all the time. When nothing seems to give you reasons to be positive in life, you just have to go with the flow and stay alive. I don't know where you came from, and I don't know what you've been through in life. But I know you're one of those sad souls who wishes to be saved. It's…
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What are you thankful for? See, it even happens to me. The last couple of months have been a bit stressful because I have lost focus on the abundance in my life. Been dragged through some events that have occupied my mind way too much. Diverted most of my attention to lacking or crushed expectations. Then in a split moment I reminded myself of all the abundance that was in my life. Being back home with family that I have missed. Huge special surprises that absolutely made…
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"Beginning today, I am responsible for my own happiness and I will do things that make me happy . . . admire the beautiful wonders of nature, listen to my favourite music, pet a kitten or a puppy, soak in a bubble bath . . . Pleasure can be found in the most simple of gestures. Beginning today, I will learn something new; I will try something different; I will savour all the various flavors life has to offer me. I will change what I can and the rest I will let go. I will…
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Never Beg someone to be in your life. If you love and your emotions are getting ignored learn to walk away. You’re worth is more than what you think it is. Try to be with someone who is proud of you, someone who is there to support you and your goals. Someone who knows your worth, someone who will treasure your kindness, someone who admires you for being genuine. Someone who’s there through thick and thin with no regrets. Because that’s what you deserve. That’s what your…
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You are limited only by the walls you build around yourself, nothing can stop you, only you. Know your limits, but never stop trying to exceed them, you are stronger than you think, yes, more powerful than you can imagine. All limits only exist in the mind, there are great abilities within you that you will find, if only you choose to try. Once you try, and discover how true this is, there's no telling what you can do or who you can become, for the limitations have been…
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Why do, at times, we lose motivation in life? Our Motivation to achieve is greatly driven by our needs. We always feel motivated when we do something to fulfil our true needs. Sometimes, we begin something with a lot of enthusiasm but soon find it hard to continue due to a lack of motivation. We tend to lose motivation because we choose to do something that is not truly needed, doesn't add value to our lives, or we are not really passionate about it. To keep yourself…
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Here are some things you should do to truly live your life: 1. Do the things that will make you happy. No matter how big or small it’s effect on your life will be, for as long as you’ll be happy without aggravating anyone, do it. 2. Take chances and don’t be afraid to take risks. You will never enjoy your life if you’re always hiding behind your fears. If you want to do something, as I have read somewhere, “You have to want it more than you fear it.” Taking chances means…
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No one has the right to judge you. They might have heard your stories, but they didn’t feel what you were going through. No matter what you do, there will always be someone who thinks differently. So concentrate on doing what you know in your heart is right. What most people think and say about you isn’t all that important. What is important is how you feel about yourself ❤ 𝓗𝓾𝓰𝓼 & 𝓚𝓲𝓼𝓼𝓮𝓼 𝓶𝔂 𝓫𝓮𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮𝓭 𝓯𝓻𝓲𝓮𝓷𝓭𝓼 ❤ ❤ ❤ ❤️
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Our life is controlled by what we focus on. Happiness is an emotion we feel when we focus on the best in our life. Positivity is a mindset. Positive mindset is a trained mind that focuses to see the good in every situation. "The more you feed your mind with positive thoughts, the more you can attract great things into your life." - Roy T. Bennett "Miracles start to happen when you give as much energy to your dreams as you do to your fears." - Richard Wilkins If you want to…
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TRIGGER WARNING I don't give myself too much credit, but there are times I wish I could acknowledge myself more. I wish I could see how passionate, industrious, and jolly I am in the eyes of other people. I wish I could watch myself happily smiling while helping others. I wish I could touch my heart when it feels pain. Right now, all I want is to be the version of me that cares for herself. Because that's what i need to survive. That's what I need to live. To be someone who…
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Imagine standing in front of a clean canvas, with a paintbrush in the one hand and a palette of paint with a full range of colors in the other. Your instruction is to paint your life story with the available colors in the available space of the canvas. What would your painting look like? If you should stand back and look at it from a distance - as is done in art galleries - would you be inspired by your piece of art or would you be discouraged? While alive you can always…
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"No one will love you before you love yourself" is a really bad way of articulating "if you don't see your own value you're more likely to allow other people to mistreat you, so be extra careful when entering relationships if you're struggling with low self worth."
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What makes a good life? Undoubtedly it is your own perspective of life. How do you see life happening? See, so many people live in a world where their perspective keeps them from even being grateful for the life they have. They become enveloped by catabolic energy and the focus on trauma, lacking, and even loss. This is how we become programmed on every thing we experience. If we are catabolic then we see catabolic. If we are anabolic then we see anabolic. The…
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My grandmother said: 'Don't let your pans shine brighter than you do. Don't take house cleaning so seriously. Life is short, have fun! Dust when you need to, but also take time to paint a picture or write a poem, take a walk or visit a friend. Cook whatever you want, water your plants.... Take time off to drink a beer, swim at the beach (or pool), climb mountains, play with dogs, listen to music, read books, spend time with your friends and enjoy life. Dust off if you need…
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Dear Life. A confession. I still cry when things get really tough. I live in a hustle culture and being busy is the new norm. It feels like I'm cramming as much as I can into each waking moment, the world tells me I'm not living my true potential. And when I feel like I'm failing and falling behind, this is when it's hard to stay inspired and difficult to find steady ground to stand on. I apologise for creating my own heartbreaks through expectations because of all the…
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Whatever you do, whatever happens with you, never ever treat yourself as unworthy. A lot of people are waiting to take advantage of your lack of self-worth. They are willing to judge you, put you down, abuse your loyalty if it serves them. Don't let them succeed. Embrace selflove.
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The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person—without possessing the other, without becoming dependent on the other, without reducing the other to a thing, and without becoming addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom, because they know that if…
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If I’ve learned anything from life, it’s that sometimes, the darkest times can bring us to the brightest places. I’ve learned that the most toxic people can teach us the most important lessons; that our most painful struggles can grant us the most necessary growth; and that the most heart-breaking losses of friendship and love can make room for the most wonderful people. I’ve learned that what seems like a curse in the moment can actually be a blessing, and that what seems…
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I tremble at the thought that the universe has a way of bringing two souls together and by owning a heart that has a capacity to love, we fall in love fiercely, repulsively, and carelessly—sometimes, we even abandon ourselves completely and become an entirely different person just to say that the love we have truly fits us. Do we really, though?
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Do you worry? Of course you do. All of us have some worry within us. It is part of being a human with a conscious. But how much do you worry? Is it too much? We don’t ever ask that question. We only ask questions that leads us to believe that we just shouldn’t worry at all. But I’m here to tell you that will never happen. It is just a part of us to worry some. The key here is manage worry to a level that we can live with without affecting our life in a negative way. So how…
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Why do we judge others? Judging others means we form a firm opinion about others without knowing them enough. With a preset mind, we treat them to fit the notion we have about them. Most of the time, we judge those struggling or doing too well. By letting them down in our minds, we create a sense of superiority over those we feel are behind us and find faults in those ahead of us to satisfy our ego. Try to look beyond a person's appearance, situation or state of life.…
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God's love for you is so great and unexplainable in that He loved you even before you were you. Your mistakes don't surprise him. He has already known your end from the beginning. He knew every mistake you would make, And He has already made a new route for you, He called it 'the way of escape'. Strange but true, that's how much He loves you. Your sins are great, but His love is greater. No matter what you've done, He loves you still. You can still fulfill all of His plans…
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When we focus only on what we want to feel and happen, and nothing else, we provide a clear path for that physical reality to come to life. What we focus on, we find, what we focus on grows, what we focus on seems real and what we focus on we become. "You don't have to be brave, you just have to keep trying. You don't have to be strong, you just have to keep going. Maybe your superpower is refusing to give up, even on your weakest days when you feel you're not enough." -…
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Why should we never feel defeated in life? Life is full of ups and down. Some days we feel like winners; some days, we feel we have lost the game of life. How we handle defeat greatly influences how worthwhile we feel in life. There are times in life when even with our best try, we are unable to achieve what we want. We start to doubt ourselves and feel like a failure in life. Self-doubt affects our ability to stand back on our feet, and the more we underestimate ourselves,…
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If you are not going to respect yourself, then how can you expect others to respect you. It’s all up to YOU. When you are good to yourself then you are showing others how you like to be treated. It's not being selfish to care about yourself, in fact it's actually a requirement on the way to enlightenment. It's about remembering how valuable we really are as Spirit within. A Soul having a human journey. The main thing is remembering how valuable you are and having self worth…
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Why should we never fear the challenges we face in life? We all face many different obstacles, even in our everyday life. As we overcome many of them unknowingly, we don't see them as a challenge. When we face a challenging situation, the ease with which we overcome it decides how we feel about it. When the situation is difficult, requires patience and perseverance, and brings us to the verge of giving up, it might seem like the toughest life situation, but once we get…
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There are those who love us and hugs us with no conditions, no matter what, through all the storms and drama of our lives. These people are a treasure and the best way to attract one into your life, is to BE ONE of these humans. Forever can mean forever, if our Souls are connection in unconditional Love..
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People know your name, not your story. They’ve heard what you’ve done, but not what you’ve been through. So take their opinions of you with a grain of salt. In the end, it’s not what others think, it’s what you think about yourself that counts. Sometimes you have to do exactly what’s best for you and your life, not what’s best for everyone else ❤ ☆* May the Angels shine light on your path today ❤
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Maybe you can't understand what's happening in your life right now, you don't know what's the journey behind every sunrise but I hope you pick up your broken pieces and stitch them, I hope you still hold in that little hope inside your heart that sunsets lead us to beautiful endings. I hope you manage to live despite of having an urge to disappear, keep going, maybe today we can't understand the process of life but someday, hopefully we will find happiness and peace that our…
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When you run out of stories to tell, When you don't have the energy to speak, When you can't explain what you're feeling and you don't wanna talk about it because you're afraid I might get offended. Just stay. Coz I love doing nothing with you, —and you don't have to be an interesting person every single day.
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We are always told to be strong and to be brave but somehow, no one tells us exactly how. Perhaps, we never travelled the same exact roads, we never knew what there is in front of us and we never have to follow the same trails that are left for us from people who were ahead of us. But there are these people who believe in us, that whatever hurdles and detours we get to experience along the way, either it's in pursuing our passion, fulfilling our dreams or whatever the thing…
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Can we find healing through our purpose? Deep pain often draws us closer to our purpose because we want to know the actual reality of life. In search for the truth of life, we find the reason for our existence. At that moment, the experience of pain changes into healing. Some situations leave us deeply wounded. We are unable to understand why it happened to us. We then connect with ourselves and are led to our higher self; this is when we experience the bliss of life and all…
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Your existence isn't about pleasing people to be attracted in you, because you have that perfect glass figure. you are here, to learn new things that makes you drive into the peace that only yourself could ever give, so does seek for something that your soul desire to be eaten at. you are here, to discover and fight for your own life despite of bulky mountains, to conquer the madness of thunderstorm, and to swim in the bashing waves of uncertainties. you are here to grow and…
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“Death is not the opposite of life, but a part of it. We all die.” "The worse death is the death of our hope." Once I was awake and fully aware of my childhood memories, I no longer feared physical death. Life and death is personal, as is our own life changing journey, both are walked on a one way street, we are born alone and we will die alone, it’s the in-between life and death that matter.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is a quiet voice at the end of the day saying, "I will try again tomorrow." - Mary Anne Radmacher “The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity.” - Amelia Earhart “If you don’t risk anything, you risk even more.” - Erica Jong "It always seems impossible until it's done." - Nelson Mandela "The doors will be opened to those who are bold enough to knock." - Tony Gaskins “He who conquers himself is…
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What’s missing today? No matter where you look, you will always find so many dodging responsibility now days. And what makes it worse is there isn’t a no accountability for this lacking of responsibility. Essentially we have lost so much accountability and responsibility in this world that it isn’t a wonder that things seem to be worsening as time goes by. Think about that. What is you see every day? Someone always looking to blame someone else. Always looking for a way to…
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Nowadays sometimes i thought of changing my ways. Changing the way i think, a change for myself that people will accept me because of the things i changed for them. But somehow I realize, For what reason i will change myself for them? What’s the purpose of changing myself for them? What will i gain? Until I realized that i was chained by myself. I locked up myself with the expectation of people will love me if i will change myself for them. Then finally i realized the…
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When we speak truthfully from our heart, we avoid unnecessary misunderstanding and drama. The thing is we don't need everyone to agree with us, as many won't. Neither do we need them to understand us. We're like pioneers on a new trail and there will always be those who will not understand any of what we're doing. Just listen to your inner voice and walk your own truth, it is the only one that will serve you, and avoid being swayed by the opinions of others even if they mean…