@Aalia 30 November 2022

Nowadays sometimes i thought of changing my ways. Changing the way i think, a change for myself that people will accept me because of the things i changed for them. But somehow I realize, For what reason i will change myself for them? What’s the purpose of changing myself for them? What will i gain? Until I realized that i was chained by myself. I locked up myself with the expectation of people will love me if i will change myself for them. Then finally i realized the thought of loving myself more and more, loving myself unconditionally —that finally i am awake with the reality that the only person who can love you is nothing but yourself. -It’s okay if people will unfollow you on social media, -It’s okay if they unfriended you. -it’s okay if they don’t like you for no reason. -it’s okay if they don’t want to be with you. I want you to know that you need to build walls for yourself to protect your inner peace. Build your own boundaries to people who don’t value you as who you are. You don’t have to explain anything to anyone nor try to prove something to people just for them to like you. Protect yourself from people who only see you as a material of their interest. Build a strong relationship to people who will help you find peace in your heart, be with people who will accept you as the way you are, the people who will carry you through ups and down. Treat them fairly, treat them as a family not just a companion, even if its short term relationship — but always remember, Yourself should be your top priority and always find worth. #Selfworth