When You're Angry, Be Silent!
We know the fact that the tongue has no bones, but it’s definitely strong enough to break a heart and your mean words can absolutely scar a person for a lifetime. So you need to be careful with your words.
Anger is an emotion toward something or someone you feel has deliberately done you something wrong. It’s an emotion that is normal to feel and always a part of human life. All the people have their own triggers that make them angry. And it arises from how people interpret and react to certain reasons.
Never utter mean words when you’re angry.
Yes, we are all capable to feel mad and angry especially when someone and something triggers us and upset us. But we need also to understand that we need to be careful in expressing mean words out of anger.
Your anger will pass, but the damage that you tell to someone with the use of your tongue can deeply wound them so hard. Hurtful words can greatly cause traumas and anxieties that lead to someone’s depression. This is because, words are powerful, and kill like a knife.
Words are powerful.
Words are powerful. It can heal, and it can ruin someone’s life. It shapes beliefs, contributes to our behavior, and ultimately can create our world. The power of words arises through our emotional responses on how we speak, read and hear the words.
Even a single word can change everything. Words can somehow build you up or tear you down. It causes you sometimes to stumble or to get up.
So choose to be silent.
People may respond to anger in their own ways. But there are still people who choose to stay calm in the midst of anger. This is to avoid making things even worse and stop everything into violence.
Because sometimes, when anger takes over to our mind and heart, it doesn’t only hurt someone’s feelings but also makes everything unhealthy and leaves the feeling of unsatisfied, guilty, misunderstood, or even more frustrated about everything. Learning to shut up is not just being quiet, but rather the best way to stop ourselves from speaking with negative and toxic thoughts.
Silence is not a weakness.
Silence is not a weakness; it’s a sign of great self-control. It can yield more power than words. Sometimes silence or fewer words can allow us more to be heard especially when it matters.
It is somehow a source of great strength. It can make you think calmly and effectively in any kind of situation. You can be more aware of yourself and the situation especially if it’s a battle not worth fighting for.
In silence, you can also have a lesser chance to feel guilty afterward. Because when we are angry there are a lot of chances that we lose our perspective which leads us to say unkind and unpleasant things that can ruin someone’s life. It can give us more reasons to think of more suitable solutions in any troubles or in every argument.
Choose to be in silence, and be silent! Everything comes better with calmness and peace!
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Well said sis. I try to practice this too. Rather shut up my mouth than say sth I will regret later. Some people told me though that my silence is worse than 1000’s of words.