Is Your Relationship Toxic?

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Some people cannot determine whether they are in a toxic or healthy relationship. Admit it or not, some behaviors are damaging us but we are in denial of these feelings. I am aware that one of us experienced being with a toxic partner.  They gave us physical and emotional damages that we did not notice after a long time. We all know that a healthy relationship with someone means having mutual care, respect, and contributes on our positive energy.

On the contrary, a toxic one is not a safe place for us. Some individuals craved for control and dominance, and some are self-centered. There are many types of toxic people or partner. When the relationship is already dysfunctional, maybe it is time to reflect on maybe it’s becoming toxic slowly. Your actions also matter in a relationship and they contribute to the complications within the connection between two individuals. But, let me focus on the point of view of the recipient of the toxic behavior.

In this article, let us tackle about the particular situations or behaviors that seem to be off and toxic. These are the signs that you are in a not healthy relationship with someone. Check the things mentioned below and let me know what you think about them.


Your partner belittles you.

Some partners are funny, but some will make fun of you in a different level. They will start implying that everything about you is stupid or not good at all. If your boyfriend or spouse does not hesitate on embarrassing you in public or in front of other people, then consider it a red flag. Yes, some people asked their partners to stop belittling them, but they only got worse. They may also tell you that you are lucky to be with them, and no one will ever like you aside from them. That is a 100% toxic behavior.

Your partner is possessive or paranoid.

It is okay to feel jealous once in a while, but too much is bad. Some partners are too possessive and paranoid especially when it comes to our friends with the other gender. We can feel loved when we know that our partner is feeling jealous over someone, but it gets bad when they start to control over you. If you tolerate this kind of behavior, it might turn into a more and more suspicious and controlling situations. Sometimes, your efforts in giving them assurance will not be good enough.

Your partner is using you.

In the first weeks or months, your partner might be courteous, caring, and pleasant to you. That is how it all begins. But you will notice if they are only using you for their convenience. There would be situations where they are only getting what they want from you and it becomes a one-way nature – you are not getting anything back, even affection and attention. They will only drain your energy. And they will slip away easily if they find someone who is willing to give more.

Your partner has very bad temper.

Most people have anger issues, but having a very bad one might cause a lot of problems. I tried talking to someone about being with a person who has a bad temper. And she shared that she has no idea what will trigger her partner’s rage. Because of this, she often adjusts and make sure to take everything gently for him. The outburst coming from this kind of partner can possibly affect an individual’s physical and emotional health. But the worst part is, if you start confronting them about this issue, they will get angry and blame everything on you. They will make you feel that it is you that causes their scream and yell. It is like disowning their responsibility on their toxic behavior.

Knowing everything I mentioned, can you stay with someone with this toxicity for years?

Let me tell you that you can decide on your own. Whether you stay, or leave. And if you are in a toxic relationship now, it is up to you. Do not settle for less and know your worth and what you deserve. Spread the love and kindness!


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Date Published: January 6, 2022


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I had this past relationship na kung saan I always think na ako yung mali. Everytime na mag eexpress ako nararamdaman ko about certain things, or kino-call out ko yung maling nagawa nya, susubukan nyang idivert yung sisi sakin. Parang ipapamukha nya na kasalanan ko din ganun.

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2 years ago

That's toxic. Huhu, you didn't deserve that. 🥺 Buti nakaalis ka sa relationship na yun. Good for you!

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2 years ago

That's when you need to find your way out of the relationship. I'm glad you found the right guy for you. ❤

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2 years ago

Tama ate. Kapag nararanasan mo na sya repeatedly, and walang changes, I think it's better to consider walking away na. Sa amin naman ni Darren, I'm so happy na nagkakasundo kami ate. Alam namin kung paano i-handle yung isa't-isa. 💚 I know same goes with you and your partner po.

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2 years ago

Gosh, wala akong juwa now Charmy Charmy peri yung dalwa jan pasok na pasok sakin kaya ayaw ko mag juwa. Alam kong di pa rin ako ready dahil till now toxic pa rin ako. Hindi talaga sakin pwd na ang makipag relasyon at baka pareho lang kaming masaktan. And, even if echange ko sarili ko naman wala pa ring mangyayari lalo na nagiging magulo ang isip ko pag may naramdaman akong kakaiba sa juwa ko. Yong kahit alam kong busy, so walang time sya sakin pag ganon diba. Magmamaktol ako na paranf bata and ibabalik ko din ung naging treatment nya sakin. I'm like that, di na maaalis. So better if umiwas nalang sa relasyon. I can't still handle it, sure ako jan.

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2 years ago

Awww. Maybe soon magiging ready ka rin ate. Ako rin talaga toxic before. Sobra akong selosa. Konting mali, nattrigger agad ako. Buti nalang si Darren ngayon, nagkasundo yung ugali namin. Alam namin paano pakalmahin ang isa't-isa. Grabe lang. Hehe. Sana kapag dumating na si the one mo ate, ready ka na. 💚🥰

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2 years ago

Not sure about that Charmy Charmy, I think si na talaga maalis to hahaha. Inborn na wari, kaya kung sino man ang gugustuhin ako naway di sila maubusan ng buhok HAHAHAHA. But well, I'll save them from the suffering nalang, no to relationship muna. Maybe after 50 years nalangs ☺️☺️☺️

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2 years ago

Hahaha. Yun lang ate. Ang tagal naman masyado ng 50 years 🤣 malay mo this year meron magtangka diba. Dapat kalbo para wala nang buhok na mauubos sa kanya if ever

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2 years ago

HAHAHA ay pwd pwd, pero ayaw ko sa kalbo pag di balbas sarado 🥺🤣🤣

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2 years ago

ANO BA NAMAN YAN ATE. HAHAHAHAAHAHA. NAG-IMAGINE AKO BIGLA NG ITSURA TULOY 🤣

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2 years ago

HAHAHAHAHAA HOT yon pag ganyan Charmy Charmy hahaha

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2 years ago

Thank you, next! - Ariana haha

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2 years ago

Hahahaha. Palit agad ate, ano.

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2 years ago

I knew someone whose in a toxic relationship but she never quit,instead ,she still love her husband,hoping that one day,he will changed ,and she's patiently loving.

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2 years ago

Awww. Maybe she's deeply and truly in love with him Ate. Isa pa, siguro pinapanindigan niya yung vows sa kasal nila nung husband nya. Sana magbago yung husband bago mahuli ang lahat.

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2 years ago

Sabi nya may changes naman daw na ,she's very hopeful talaga.

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2 years ago

Talagang mahal niya ate kasi grabe yung hope nya. Sana magtuloy-tuloy yung changes para worth it yung pagbibigay nya ng chances sa husband nya.

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2 years ago

I don't ever see myself being in a toxic relationship. If it ever happens, I'd quit as soon as I can.

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2 years ago

That's a good mindset. We need to step away from people and partners that are causing damage to us mentally, physically, and emotionally. What a great comment you got in there, buddy!

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2 years ago

Thanks For this article, maybe now I can define clearly what state of toxity we are now hahah. it is life lesson article thou

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2 years ago

Thank you so much for the appreciation. I hope to see you around!

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2 years ago

Those are some red flags indeed, better to cut your losses before you get too invested in the relationship and ended up sacrificing your happiness!

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2 years ago

Awww. You just hit a point. We need to learn how to walk away, especially when it compromises our peace of mind and happiness. ✨

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