A Total Self-Love This 2022

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Every each of us experienced the dark days. For some people, last year was a difficult and challenging one. Some struggled with their mental health or suffered with depression. And some of us felt empty for weeks and months. Looking back at how we survived the year, it was fulfilling.

As days kept on passing by this 2022, we are starting to think of how we will manage to feel better. People welcomed the year by tapping their positive energy. They are looking forward to feeling happy and well. Some learned the mantras they want for their self-care. Additionally, they adjusted everything to practice the habits they want to focus on this year.

Since I am a person who promotes self-love to everyone, I want to share a few things that you can do for yourself. In this article, let me pin point ideas and suggestions that you can follow in the next days if you want to embrace and practice self-care.


Do not compare yourself to others.

You can count on this one as a starter. We can be competitive, but make sure to avoid comparing yourself to others. It can turn out bad. Also, there is no point of doing it since we are all unique and different in our own ways. It would be best to focus on your journey and yourself. Start doing this and feel free.

Do not worry to opinions.

Everyone has a say always. Even if you are doing and being good, some people will always have their negative opinion on you. It would be best to turn your mindset into knowing that everyone will not be happy on your existence. Some will always throw harsh words or descriptions on you even if you are being kind to them. Mind your own business and do not let opinions slow you down.

It is okay to make mistakes.

Since we are young, we already heard and learned the phrase “everyone make mistakes.” But everything will change as we grow older. We become conscious and cautious on our actions. We are afraid to fail and that pressure is what keeping us slow. To solve this, always remember the lessons they taught when we were younger. It is okay to make mistakes as long as we learn something back.

People can change and have improvements. You can count on your mistakes, especially when they contribute to your growth. Enjoy the priceless lessons you will gain.

Embrace your body and flaws.

The society we have now will make you feel ugly or reduce your self-confidence. Do not let this come in your head. We all have values that are not defined by our body. You can wear anything you want, especially when it makes you feel good. Embrace everything about you and confident, comfortable, and happy.

Let go of toxic people.

It would be best to remove toxic people in your life. Some of these people will not take responsibility on their toxicity. Make sure to walk away from them and prioritize your inner peace. It may be painful at first, but you will learn how to live with it sooner. Choose to protect your energy and walk away from situations and people that causes you drain.


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Date Published: January 5, 2022


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Do not compare yourself to others

There will still be people that no matter how much you keep away from comparing yourself to them, there will be people who will compare yourself eitht the success of others. So the ending is that we will compare ourselves even if we do not want to. 😔

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2 years ago

This is the sad reality here. Sometimes people around us do the comparison, and we end up thinking like "Totoo ba? Ganito ba ako at ganito si ano?" Hay!

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2 years ago

May typo pala ako. Hahaha. Yup, ayun na nga. And ang masakit pa doon ay minsan ang mga magulang pa natin yung magcocompare. They would compare us to our siblings, cousins and/or friends. 😔

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2 years ago

"Let go of toxic people." That's definitely one of the key aside from all mentioned. . . Because if we were being surrounded by such kind of people we will be full of insecurities that may cause us not to have self love.

Great article by the way ☺️

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2 years ago

True. ✨ It is like being with the wrong people that will lead us into making mistakes, comparing ourselves, listening to opinions, and not feeling confident towards ourself. Glad you realized that. 😍 Thank you for reading and dropping such comment. Appreciated.

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2 years ago

Exactly, that is why we should and must let go or be away with those people that brought toxicity in our surroundings.

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2 years ago

I totally agree!

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2 years ago

Embrace your body and flaws.

Kahit gawin ko to ng bongga Charmy Charmy di pa rin talaga maalis sa system ko ang insecurities ko ee. Yong alam ko naman na di nila ako ejajudge peri sumisikit pa rin talaga like what if they don't like it. See even their opinion sometimes is important to me na para bang may say sila sa buhay ko. Di lang talaga maiwasan, di ko sya kayang eerase totally 🥺

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2 years ago

Hindi naman yan madadala sa isahang pitik lang, ate. It takes time. Ganyan na ganyan din ako before. It's like I am living behind my own shadow, kasi grabe ko kimkimin yung opinyon ng iba. Pero, unti-unti kong natanggal at na-embrace yung flaws ko. Sana mawala na yung insecurities mo, ate. 🥺💚✨

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2 years ago

I don't know, I've been working on it since forever and ang hirap talaga. Ayaw ko pa rin tuloy umalis sa kung asan ako now. Mas gusto ko lang magtago. Ewan ko ba, naiinis din ako sa sarili sa pagiging ganito ko ee. Ang galing ko mag advice sa iba ng ganito ganiyan pero sa sarili hindi maeapply 🥺🤦

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2 years ago

Ganyan na ganyan ako sayo before ate. Sobrang conscious ako sa paligid ko. Parang lagi akong nahihiya ganun, pero recently, okay na ako. Siguro malaki din talaga yung naitulong ni Darren sa confidence ko. Kahit wala akong ligo o ayos, or kahit naka-pajama lang ako tapos need namin pumunta sa palengke or somewhere, wala lang sa kanya. Hahaha.

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2 years ago

A good reminder for everyone :) Thanks for this sis. May we be wiser and have a better 2022.

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2 years ago

Correct, ate. Tayo naman this year. Let this year be our time to shine. ✨

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2 years ago

Nung binasa ko Yung title akala ko e break na kayo ni Darren jusko.

Anyways , more self love this 2022 💕

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Hahaha. Sorry na ate 😁

Oo nga, self-love talaga this year. Anyway, kamusta na yung husband mo ate? Yung sa eye medication nya, okay na ba?

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2 years ago

May improvement Naman Yung Mata nya. Balik sya after 4 months to check lung healed na tlga

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User's avatar Yen
2 years ago

Mabuti naman ate. Sana maging okay na. 💚 Yung tito ko naman sa leeg naman, thyroid.

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2 years ago

I've made a lot of mistakes which I've learnt from. In fact I'm grateful for the mistakes I've made because they made me stronger.

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2 years ago

That is good to know. We need to learn from our mistakes — for us to grow and be better. May this year be good to us. Happy New Year! ✨

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