I lost my patience and broke his phone
Blog:131-11th
Date :July 18,2022
Time :2:42pmLast Saturday we were at my parent's place because it was our town fiesta. We also visited my Grandma's place. After we arrived at my grandma's place my husband was gone for a couple of minutes. I don't know where he goes since he doesn't tell me where he goes. My family was asking me where he was but I don't know where he goes. I feel like stupid you know. I am the wife but I don't even know where my husband goes. When he returned he just told me he goes to the volcanizing shop to add some air to the tire of our motorcycle. I know that he was lying to me. I know he playing mobile legends again.
However, I didn't make any scene at that time since we were at my grandma's place. Yesterday when we arrive home he told me that he will just be in his parents' place to help them prepare for the birthday celebration of his youngest sister. So I expect him to be in his parents' house. I was busy at home cleaning and trying to make our laundry dry since the sun is so hot yesterday. I got the chance to see his uncle in their house so I ask if my husband was there and he said, hubby, is not in my in-law's house. So I was wondering where is he going. All I know is he is just in his parents' place. Luckily one of his friends pass by so I ask him if he saw my husband then he said my hubby is in the house of his best friend so I told his friend please tell him that I am looking for him. It takes a while before my husband goes home. Well, the house of my hubby's best friend is just a walking distance from where we live.
When he arrives I ask him why he is acting that way again. Going anywhere without telling me where he goes. He told me He was buying mineral water. Oh common! I know he was to me. I know he was playing mobile legend again. I felt disrespected again. Again and again. I told him he will never change. He will disrespect over and over again. I kept on talking and he told me I was so annoying and noisy. I won't be noisy if he will just respect me as his wife. I really hate dwelling on the same reasons over and over again. I lose my patience and I pick up his phone and drop it on the floor and kick it. He was not around when I did it. He came back I told him I wish his phone will be broken then he said then he will break my phone too. Seriously? he will break my phone? He didn't know if not because of my side hustles online, but did he think we will survive financially. The nerve of him to say that. I got so mad that made me cry. I felt so disappointed with him. I know our marriage will not work anymore so I decided to write a letter, it's a kind of agreement that I am giving him the house we started to build, though I spend more money on that house I need peace of mind since he can't give me peace mind I rather leave him for good. I can't take it anymore. I wanted to start my life again with my two kids, away from him. I've been giving him a lot of changes already but I don't see any hope for him to change, the more chance I gave him the more he is doing it over and over again. He is abusing me. there is no point in living together when there's no peace and love anymore.
When I check his phone this morning I found out that it was not literally broken, it's just the power button had malfunctioned. It will take time to turn it on and the tempered glass protection was cracked a bit. I know he was devastated because of his mobile legends. But I don't care. We didn't talk since last night and I am planning to move out of the house as soon as my parents' place will fix their electricity. From there I will slowly build a small house near my parents' place.
Ending thoughts
I know what I did was not good but you can't blame me for what I did. It's the result of my husband's actions. Anyway, I hope God will guide me on the decisions that I've made. I just really needed to have peace of mind. I have to think about what is best for my kids and for my mental health.
I got an anxiety attack yesterday so I can't focus on writing. I am so irritable and didn't want to hear any loud voices. I am trying to be okay this time. I am still emotional this time.
Anyway if you have more time you can read some of the related articles about me and my husband and why we ended up this way.
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My realization after being married for more than 2 years
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Hey Alice!!! I don't blame on you obviously a wife's right ro know where his husband going??? And what's he doing??? What you did is just due to pressure, stress because he doesn't told you directly. I really feel sad to read your article