My realization after being married for more than 2 years

Blog 56-5th
Date :April 13,2022 
Time :3:33pm

Marriage life is tough as we know. It's not happy always. Marriage couples tend to experience struggles.

First of all, I was a single mom for 13 years before I got married. It was a big adjustment for me when I got married.

First, I have to consult or ask my husband first in every decision I will make which I am not used to. Just like when I have to buy things for the family even if I don't ask for any money from him to pay for it but still had to inform him as my sign of respect for him.

Second, my daughter used to ask permission whenever she wanted to go out somewhere and she only used to ask me my husband found it weird when my daughter didn't ask his permission. Of course to remind my daughter to ask permission also to her Papa. Lol, it's just hard for her to ask permission since don't use to ask me whenever he wants to go somewhere. If he wants my daughter to respect him he should be the one to show a good example as being the head of the family.

3rd, having a pasaway or sometimes immature husband is giving me stress. Sometimes I just wish I live as a single mom. Better that way I only think for my kids. It's like I have an eldest son hahaha. Just like when didn't know how to organize his stuff at home and I am the one who keeps cleaning his mess. I was like? I train my daughter to be independent and responsible for her things and arrange her stuff now that I have a husband I have to train him also but it's like it's just the way he is when he was still living with his parents and I don't like it. Sometimes I feel tired of reminding him over and over again

4th it's also about the expenses at home. When I was living with my Daughter I'm used to stocking stuff that we use every day because I hate buying every now and then like shampoo etc. I want to stock goods for a week but he likes buying every now and then. I think it's way better to buy in bulk than in pieces. What do you think? Well of course it depends on our budget.

Final thoughts

I think it will take time for us couples to adjust to our marriage life. Well, nothing I can do now but extend my patience to my husband and I will try my best to understand him. Anyway, my husband and I are doing well this time it's just that sometimes he's giving me stress. I hope that hubby will be more mature as time goes by so I can't be stressed because of him.

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