How did I meet my husband?

Blog 5
Date :December 07,2021
Time :5:29

This is a story of how I met my husband and how our love story started. Our relationship is not the typical type of relationship. So here's how it started.

I am working in a computer shop and he was one of my customers.

Since we also offer ID pictures, He went inside the Cafe and ask if I can take a 2X2 ID picture of him. He is a very friendly person. He was smiling while talking to me and the silly side of me was thinking like do I know him why he is acting like we know each other. Anyway, when I was about to take pictures of him he told if I can make him a bit lighter as he looks darker and I just smiled. Take picture of him and print it out then he leaves. A few days after He was back at the Cafe, He wanted to use a computer, I told him to wait and don't press anything but then he turn off the avr so I scolded him, told him that he was not listening, he was sorry for what he did, he even called me Ate(older sister). Later did I realized He was my customer the other day. I felt bad about what I did though.

Then few days after he was rushing to go back to the Cafe and told me to Laminate his ID. By the way, he just started working as a GIP(Government Intern Program) in our municipal hall. It's a short-term job only for 2 months. Anyway back to what happened. He was back after 3 days because after I laminated his ID He realized he forgot to sign it and write the important details at the back of the ID. He just left his ID at the Cafe at that time because he was in hurry to go back to work. That was the afternoon when he decided to Pick up his ID. After that, I added him to Facebook since I know his name.

Then we started chatting then sometimes he will drop by at the Cafe just to say hello. Funny about him is He used to talk to me in Tagalog and I don't like to speak Tagalog it's not that I don't know how to but I just find it OA when someone who literally pure Bisaya (our dialect) and they will talk to me in Tagalog.

Since we're already chatting on messenger He started courting me but I told him that I am in a relationship at that time. Yes, I have a Canadian boyfriend. He was been my boyfriend since the year 2013 (Another story about him LOL). So I told him if he is willing to take risks there will be us. He still pursues courting me. So after courting me for almost 2 weeks we are finally official.

That was September 20, 2019.

Three days after I said yes He invited me to visit their house as he wants me to meet his family.

LOL Imagine only 3 days. So I got the chance to meet his family. His mom knows me already maybe because I work at the computer shop. But I'm sure you will be shocked at what happens next.

Something happens to us that night (I go to their house after my work) At first I don't want to because it was too early but then still it happened. Fast forward to that night. He always visits me at my parent's house and we just love to spend time talking. His house is just a few minutes away from where I live but the road going to their house is a bit scary as you have to pass a jungle so I told him maybe he can visit me once a week so it won't be a hassle for him to travel at night then he agreed. But then I was the one who keep visiting and sleeping in their house. I wanted to be away from my parent's house as my dad was always drunk and too annoying when his drunk. In short, going to my husband's place was my sort of escape from all the dramas at my parents' house. It continues to be that way until the month of October.

Since my husband's place is just near to Bugwak Spring we use to spend our morning time swimming there.

The road going there is really rough and very stiff. I have my own motorcycle so it's easier for me to travel and my husband still has his motorcycle at that time. After going through that daily morning routine of going to the Spring I felt something strange in my pelvic area. It hurts a little bit but I taught it's just my period was coming so I didn't mind it. But then I realized what I am I am pregnant since it's been more than a month after my last period so I told my husband to buy a test kit because If ever I am pregnant I wanted to take care of my baby.

November 1 was early in the morning when I did the test and yes it's positive I am pregnant. My husband was really happy that time I told him the result. Then he told his family that He will be a dad soon. That's how excited he is. Then a few weeks after his family decided to (Mamanhikan) so my parents will know and they want to settle down. Wait wait. Hey, things happen so fast. We're just in more than a month relationship and they talking about marriage. Whew. The Pamamanhikan happened and was successful. We are just supposed to have a civil wedding because they can't still afford to have the church wedding. They agreed that the reception will be at my husband's place. But the plan was changed as my aunt who lives in Singapore wants us to have a church wedding. She was the one who ask my other relatives to help me with the expenses of the wedding yes it's not the typical kind of wedding though. My relatives sponsor almost everything from the cakes and desserts, decorations, whole entourage outfits, giveaways, the lechon, the wedding photographer. Food for everyone was taken care of by the family of my husband. We got married on January 18, 2020, just 4 months after we got officially boyfriend and girlfriend.

However, our relationship was never been smooth sailing, we almost broke up for how many times as we always had misunderstandings. We were still in our knowing each other stage in our relationship at that time. In the early stage of our relationship, my husband made a lot of mistakes and makes me decide not to pursue the wedding. But we still end up marrying each other.

In conclusion, it's not about how long you know that person or how long you are in a relationship with him/her but how willing you are to take the risk. We choose to love and accept each other's differences. We might not be a perfect couple, we fight and had misunderstandings but at the end of the day, we still choose to be together and tried our best to be the best for each other. Each one of us has a different love story. Mine was a bit unique though.
How about you? How did you meet your husband?
Are you also in a short or long-term relationship before you got married?

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