The Ugly Side, the effect of Diffidence and Envy

Gusto ko yung mga hugot mong yun talaga. Hehe. But I totally agree. We get to expand our knowledge with the people that we meet here. 🥰 pero hanggang ngayon hindi pa din ako nakakaulit sa Trust (Cake) or trading. Pero soon kapag wala na ako bayarin magagawa ko na mga yan.

I also become delusional that I am in their position, instead of them. natawa ko dito nung dumating sa puntong naenjoy mo gawin to. hehe.

Everyone naman may insecurites sa ktawan sis depende na lang kung paano natin yung ihahandle. Yung akin kasi sinasarili ko na lang then I prefer to be good and quiet na lang sa nararamdaman kong insecurities instead of entertaining my insecurities kasi walang mangyayari pag papairalin ko insecurities ko at magpakalunod sa inggit .

At tsaka sa position mo sa buhay sis tingin mo walang naiinggit sayo?haha. wala ka mang work na may mataas na sahod mas madami ka namang time to be with your mother and that's what matters now. :) ENjoy mo na lang muna sa online world with us :)

Lahat naman cguro ng tao may kinaiingitan pero wag lng seryosohin kasi yun ang masama. May mga hugot din na kapupulutan ng aral Hindi lng basta hugot haha. Akala ko parot din name mo mo dito yun pala ruffa na maganda. Yiee😍

Ayh biglang naging seryoso si Ruffa Mae Quinto but it's good to learn from your hugots and serious articles. Envy talaga is there and we should not allow it to consume us. we are all different and contentment and acceptance is the key.

Usapang Inggit Ate ruffa . Lahat tayo ay naiinggit talaga wag lang sumobra 😅 Ako man totoo naiingit ako sa mga kaibigan kong nag aaral ng college tapos sa private pa, samantalang ako ito hirap sa buhay hindi makapag araw dahil walang mag papaaral pero hindi ako nalulungkot , naiinggit lang ako pero masaya ako dahil nakikita ko naman sila na nakakpag aral ngayon sa college 😊 ang iniisip ko nalang palagi mapagtapos ko ng pag aaral mga kapatid ko. Masayang masaya na ako lahat ng inggit ko sa mga aking kaibigan ay mawawala dahil natupad ang aking pangarap na mapagtapos ang aking mga kapatid. 🥰

You are so crazy with the writing and I love it, Out of series. If you want to feel at ease without slacking and with goals, try to do things that are of some interest. Start doing them. To stimulate your desire to do new ideas. I am 60 years old and I always get wonderful things to do.

Being jealous is normal for one as human. It's inevitable, but our ability to snap out of it and take it as an inspiration makes one stand out. If one dwells on it too much,it turns to jealousy

Sometimes our imagination gives us pleasure until we realize that this is only Imagination.

Haha tulog na natin at bukas baka .agkakotse na tayo! Haha! Rawr.

Maya nga ayaw ko na mag scan2 sa FB eh.. . Maiinggit lng ako sa achievements ng classmates kon🤣

I kinda relate to "I also become delusional that I am in their position, instead of them" I know it sounds bitter and toxic but I can't just help myself not to think of those kinds of stuff. Whenever I see someone achieving something, there will automatically be "what if's" that will stuck in my head. "What if I was in that position", "what if that was me instead of her?" . I hate myself for thinking those kinds things , my toxic attitude that I hated the most.

But right now, I started to make jealousy as a motivation to grind even harder in order for me to achieve the goal that I want to achieve 😉

Thanks for this reminder.
We are not alone in this world and shouldn't ever think that we have no one, because we have millions around us. We should always seek for help, and be positive always.

Hindi ko din maiwasang mainggit noon Ate as in, Lahat ng mga kaklase ko eh nag aaral, yung nagkapindemic tapos yung isa kong naging kaklase dati inagawan pa ako ng trabaho as an Online seller tapos antaas ng tingin na niya sa sarili niya. Buti nalang nga ngayon mas madami na kinikita ko kesa sakanya tapos nung walang wala ako , di niya ako tinulungan. Tapos ngayon naman na alams na, nabaliktad ang mundo lol 😂 HAHAHAHA nagpapasalamat nga ako kay ate Cristy noon kasi tinulungan niya ako nung walang wala ako. Bago kita makilala doon diba, nagpadd ako then boom tinulungan niyo akong lahat ☺️ kung di talaga dahil sainyo di ako makakapag ipon ng ganto.

Parang yung mga inggit ko dati nawala kasi parang gusto kong patunayan na hindi lang sa pag aaral nagiging successful kaha heto ako ngayon, Nagsisikap. Grind lang ng grind at ginagawa kong motivation yung mga naachieve na ng mga higher ups dito. Parang sinasabi ko nalang din na 'Pag kaya nila, Kaya ko din.' walang susuko ba. ,💚

What you feel is valid nman madam. It's normal to feel jealous sometimes but if you let yourself consumed by your thoughts, that's when it starts to become unhealthy. You will feel insecure and you question your worth. It will just serve you no good.

Na try ko din yung mang stalk nang ma acct nung mga classmates ko kasi nga diba di ako nakatapos nang college..grabe..I was so envious before di ko lang sinasabi sa iba kasi ayaw ko ma judge. and yes dumating din ako sa point na nag iimagine na ako yung nasa lugar nila at nilalasap ang tagumpay. But as I face reality na realize ko kaya ko rin maging masaya di man kasing successful nila but at least I'm happy with what I am doing and I am contented.

It is only when one do not have anything doing that they would have all the time stalking at people who have made it and doing this will make us get jealous and try hard to become somebody great too.

I call this an healthy competition because even when you are occupied with things to keep you going, though you are always seeing their achievement but at this moment, you are focusing on doing something which will also make you live the life you had wanted for yourself.

Hindi talaga natin maiwasan ang mainggit. Ganyan din ako eh, lalo na't palagi mong nakikita sa fb na yung mga kabatchmate mo noon, ang layo na ng narating. Like nakarating na sa ibang bansa o di kaya'y may maganda ng trabaho habang ikaw nasa bahay lang ( papagalitan pa kapag matagal umuwi )😅 Ganyan naman talaga ang buhay. Siguro hindi pa natin panahon. Pero soon, magiging successful din tayo.Claim na natin yan💪😊

Yes, we can't deny about it. Sometimes we feel that. We got jealous and I think it's normal. All of us can experience with that. But we should be thankful since it gives us a way to work hard, to reach our goals in life like the others. So instead of jealous, we must think of them that they are our admiration to strive in life.

Tulad ng comment ko Kay Eyb same feels haha. Minsan nga isang account Lang Sana titingnan ko tapos nakikita ko mga nakatag which is mga kabatch namin ayun na stalk ko na Isa Isa haha. Mostly Yung mga nasa section one iniistalk ko 😂

Ang madam kahit kailan di nawawala ang hugot. Pero in fairness huh, day by day improving ang artikol mu. Ayeee. Congratz!

We can't really stop ourselves from getting jealous especially if we keep on focusing on other people's life. We are so busy minding their business that we often forgot that we have our own business to mind. Hayys. I am somehow guilty of this.

"we will feel jealous but that will make us feel more motivated to strive hard." Ahhhhhh relate ako dito ih. Andami ko ng kabatch na successful na, pero ako ang layo ko pa sa mga naabot nila. Naiingit talaga ko, tbh. Pero yun nga imbis na mainggit lang, let's make it nalang as a motivation to strive harder. (Bat ampanget pakinggan nung last word.) 😂

Nag expect ako na matatawa ako sa article nato. Notification palang natawa nako eh. 😂 Pero yung nga, may onting hugot parin. Hahahaha 😂 May na learn na naman ako ngayon sa work nato. 😂

Yeah, you've grown just a fine lady, and some people will hurt you so you need Revicon Forte to be strong. Hahaha. Haynako ate. Hindi talaga nawawala ang patawa.

And you are right we will make our own story. We have different paths, times, and destinations. We must not be discouraged because some people are ahead of us. Instead of being demotivated let's make them our inspiration.

Hindi talaga natin maiiwasan mafall sa maling tao, kasi tsaka lang natin malalaman na mali pag nafall na tayo. And yeah, minsan talaga hindi magandang nagseseryoso. Pero ang ganda ko kahit seryoso.

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Ako rin te HAHAHAHA minsan naiinggit ako sa mga payat, oo sabpayat talaga bushet AHAHAHAAHAH

everyone of had what we called right time, maybe read.cash is the right time for you. Stop comparing yourself po kase you have your own way to become successful. There's a high possibility that read.cash is the way to make your daydreams come true.❤

Korek! Sabi nga nila ang umaayaw, ay hindi nagwawagi. Ang nagwawagi ay di umaayaw. Na experience ko din po yan, yung naninggit ako sa mga batch mates ko kasi akala ko may mas magandang buhay sila kesa sakin kasi yun lang pinapakita nila sa socmed. As I grow older, I realized not to be bothered by someone's success. Instead, I should be busy making mine.

I have no serious thought like you yet 😐 but lol i felt jealous with those people who feel pride their self only!

Ruffa napagoogle tuloy ako kung ano ang diffidence 😂🤣

How about now, di ka na ba talaga nagistalk? 🙈 Ako din uy because of read and noise my extra life na ako. Ayie!! my extra money pa san ka pa?!