You know, I also love to listen into a sad song if I'm down and had a lot of thought in my mind. If some will listen to a lively music like Pop music to release all of their negative thought and to you know shake their world to wake them up from the reality that the love they have before with their special someone was long gone and the moment that they share together was already erased from the memory of that special someone.
Lol, kidding aside. Some who's having a hard time like for example in life. They are having a hard time because of what's happening now in the world. Or to those who's experiencing a heart ache because of their jerk of a boyfriend. Or those who's down of some personal reason. Also Some prefer silence to think and gather their thought so that they can think of a good solution to their problem. They just want peace so that they can function well.
As for me, I prefer listening to a sad song that is more meaningful and when I heard it, it will leave big impact on my system. Just listening to the heartbreaking message of the lyrics is already enough for me to release all of my pain tru crying. That is very effective to me, you know I can't just cry easily even if I really want to. That's why sometimes I feel like my heart was full because of those feelings that I can't release.
Or sometimes, even if the message of a certain song is good and just about love. But the melody gave a different feels to me. Like it's so solemn and just different, I can also use that to release my sadness and become emotional to the highest level. Crying is the best for me when comes to releasing these different emotions that I felt. If a sad song is not effective, I can just use my imagination and think of a saddest story that I can create in my mind where I am the main lead. It's very effective too.
I just don't understand myself sometimes because, when it comes to Anime or KDrama they can make me cry without a problem but when it comes to some things like those personal problems that I had, it's just too hard to release it all. It's like, it need a push before it came to me. I'm crying but only inside, the tears just wont fall. It's stubborn and as hardheaded as a steel, lol. I think I need onions in my side if I really want all of these out of my system.
It's not like I'm weak or what that's why I want to cry. You all know how effective it is when it comes to releasing your sorrow, pain and any other feelings that we have in our heart. Instead of keeping it to ourselves why not throw it, don't just keep it and cry if you must. That way we can move on, not easily but every small step that we can make has a big impact to our tomorrow. We may cry a lot today, but tomorrow you didn't notice it that you're crying less day by day.
I actually have a lot of Korean Songs that I get from watching KDrama and I can't really understand the lyrics of it but while listening into it, I cant stop myself from drowning in the pool of sadness. I don't know, some may relate to this or is it only me? I also have English song with a sad meaning but Korean Song has just big effect to me as in it will leave with a bang in your heart. You'll really cry ypur heart put because of it. Just like this Song.
Maybe it's because of the instrument the melody the tune or whatever it is but I find this song so sad. I didn't really bother searching the translation of it but I just view it that way.
Another is this, watching this drama is so heartbreaking because of what the main lead had to experience. And maybe because of that the effect of this song to me is just huehue.
And this, Lost and Found by a Rocket to the Moon. It's also has a good meaning. Try to listen into it and feel it and let see if you also feel the same way as to what I feel.
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So, if I have a lot of ways if I really want to move on from this awful feelings. I just want to move on fast that's why and I hate feeling weak just because of those problems, or it could be someone, personal issues and all. I'd rather cry the whole day and move on than to cry everyday and feel terrible because of this.
So how about you? How'd you cope up with your sadness or with that awful feelings that you have that you can't take anymore?
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When I'm sad I love listening sad songs. You know why? For me, listening this kind of music I felt that my problems or my feelings will lessen. The hurt is not that totally that much. It can cure also your emotion. That's my opinion about sad songs. 😊😊