I missed another opportunity to go out with my friends

Nung nag lockdown ate tapos literal na months almost a year akong hindi nakalabas, sobrang takot(?) Or you know basta kase nga hindi mo sha nagawa in such a long time so we or in my case i indeed forgotten how to interact with other humans xD pero ayun after sum weeks of warm up nawala din yung feeling na yunn. And true din atee mejo nakaka drain din minsan ang gatherings but most of the time it's also nice to catch up and be with your friends ganon

sobrang tamad mo talaga...sumubra na hahah

Go na. Dapat pag kain, kain lang walang mambu-bully hehe.

kung magkapit bahay lang tayo ate Ruffa, susugurin kita lagi sa inyo hahahaha o di kaya'y pipilitin isama sa labas 😂

sama ka na minsan lang naman mag aya eh haha

I think you need to go out din minsan. You need to find the courage to do so, kasi in my experience, you will really lose the confidence to face people if you stay at home all the time. That's what happened to me too, before ako nag work as a substitute teacher, stay at home lang din lagi dhil sa pandemic, tapos nung nag work naman sa office, wala din naman laging kausap kasi laging wala yugn mga boss ko, ayun parang naging introvert at dumating sa point na sobrang kinakabahan na ko makipag usap sa tao. Kahit nga maglakad lang sa market sobrang nakakahiya na. Pero nung halos araw araw ulit akong nasa labas, bumalik yung social skills ko. Kaya minsan kahit parang mahirap or you don't feel like going out, you have to. Para sayo din yan kasi di ka naman forever nasa bahay lang.

Maybe you are enjoying your me time pa sis. Okay lang yan pero if you badly need social environment, try mo din. Alam mo there was a time na ganyan din ako. I always tend to say no, di ako pwede , busy ako and so on until ayun, di ko alam unit unti na ko nawawalan ng friends and that's a bit sad. Minsan try natin pero kahit kamustahan is enough na. Ok lang yun.

Ateeee ruru you are so beautiful. Bakit ka naman nahihiya sa mukha mo? Hmmm. Sobrang mahiyain mo pala talaga sa personal ateee ruru nu ibang-iba sa dito. Hmm next time bawi ka naalng po.

Same Ruffa, actually today we will have a beach outing trip with my college friends I am fine with that but however we have eating sessions which I am embarrass to take off my mask, if only if I am clear skin I wouldn't be shy to go out. I told myself do not mind about it but when I look to myself sometimes, I will just say I hope I will healed so I don't have to hide hayss. God understands me I know.

Sis wag maging confident sa sarili friend. Lakas lng ng loob kaylngan natin. Hahaha

Ganyan na ganyan din po ako natatakot ako na kumain o makipag kita sa kaibigan sa labas o kaya kahit malapit lang dito kasi nahihiya ako sa itsura ko 😅 feeling ko ijujudge ako ng mga tao kahit alam ko sa sarili ko na wala naman talaga silang pakialam.

Same ma'am kapag AYOKO talaga umalis Ng Bahay d talaga ako aalis ma'am wahahaha just like BAHALA KAYU DYAN BASTA AKO DITO LANG🤣 NAG PAPAYAN🤣

Well I did spend my life till 19 like that same as you enjoying my peaceful lonely community. But after that I don't know what happened to me I am now a bit of extrovert type now. Somehow I gained confidence, I think I just wanted to experience what being extrovert feels. Now I am both, sometimes I don't go out in parties and sometimes I call and pick them myself. Lol everyone is a twisted soul here.

Haha ganyan ako dati sis nung nagkaroon kami ng problema ng mga frinds ko, childhood friend madlaang na ko lumabas ng bahay maya nung magaarak na ko ng college nandun sa utak ko na baka may sabihin sila. Ang igsi ng palda nun kung ano ano din iniisip ko. Haha ilang buwan din akong natengga sa bahay nun,nagbasa lang ng mga pocketbooks kaya bukay ko koon dun lang umiikot noon.

You are not a bad person my friend. Just you like to stay in comfort zone it's okay dear.

Labas labas rin ate. Kamukha mo talaga ate si Nayeon, yung bunny teeth hahahah. Minsan lang yan ate especially papayagan ka naman ng Mama mo haha

Maybe next time

Madam, ang gand a mo kaya lalo na kapag nakasmile. Bakit naman nawala ang self confidence mo?baka kasi dahil di ka na masyado naglalabas madam.

You're beautiful madam tandaan mo yan

Hooy lumabas ka rin naman pa minsan minsan haha wag puro si BCH inaatupag 😂

kain² na tayo sa labas my, hayaan mo nang masilayan nila ung beauty mo. sila na mag adjust 🤣

Labas labas din bka makasalubong mo na si MR.right

You need to get out of your comfort zone mare sometimes, but if you still don't like its okay, I am sure your friends will understand:)

Lhh ate ropa naiintindihan kita lalo na sa part na tamad lumabas ng bahay HAHAHA 😆 diko din nga alam ano isusuot ko e kapag niyayaya nila ako kasi puro na maisisikip tsaka wala akong bagong damit haha

I understand where this is going. Kahit ano, noon I used to go out with my friends almost every day. But because this pandemic, masiyado akong na attached sa bahay tas naging home buddy. Ayoko na din ng masiyadong tao. Gusto ko, kami-kami lang ng friends ko. Para kasing culture shocked kapag ganon na lalabas after months of staying in the house. Hahaha

Sis gumala ka pag trip mo talaga, may point naman siya pero mas maigi yung willing ka talaga pumunta. I do believe that you're beautiful sadyang nakakawala lang ng confidence yung pandemic hahah

Hooyst.. Labas ka naman minsan mare.

Pero yung totoo, ako din ganyan pag may nag-ayaya sa'kin lalo na kung wala din ako'ng budget for gala-gala talaga. Mas gusto yung sa bahay lang, chillin', watching movies or Animes, mga ganun lang. Boring nga din siguro life ko.. Hahaha

Boring tlga life mo madam. Labas2 din minsan 😁

some people degrade us that we are boring them but they do not know we want to live lonely. So, you should ignore that kind of peoples and don't feel bad.

Same tayo mare pag nagyaya sila to gala tapos ako hindi pupunta kasi tinatamad lumabas kay sometimes sinasabihan nila ako na KJ pero ignore ko nalang o kaya gawa ng ibang palusot hahaha

"you are so boring" is something I have heard a lotttttt of times in my life too but people do not realize I actually love being myself and enjoy it more than going out with groups.. am so glad to learn there are people out there like me haha.. good for you sis, when time comes, nobody can survive in life like we do, don't ever feel bad about it

Ganitong ganito ako sa mga nag aaya sakin ..lalo na pag outing ganun..ng mga classmates ko noon .. simula nung naenjoy kona ang saya sa pag iisa eh na addict na ako sa totoo lang ..kaya ngayon po eh madalang nalang ako nakikisama sa kanila ..pag sa family gathering nalang birthday ganun..pero limited din ang aking paglantad kasi ..maya maya ..nakaupo ako sa gilid eh tatanungin ako kung ano course ko which is undecided pa haha ..tas susunod naman ano na daw update sa buhay ko.. kaya mas better nalang na kabonding ang sarili..no questions, no hassle.

I feel you sis ganyan din ako. Ayoko na sumama sa old friends ko. Ang laki na ng gap. Parang ang buhay ay nakatuon lang sa pagtatrabaho at pamilya haha

It's okay. Madami pa naman time para jan e. Focus lang sa mas importante na goal.