It Hurts, Not Being Accepted For Who You Are
Date: January 29th, 2022
Saturday
We all have different identities and we belong to different families. We have separate statements about life. That's ok. We get introduce with each other, express and share our life with others. But what if our this open minded nature becomes the hell on earth for us? What if our super cool image becomes the reason of someone's anger? What if we start getting rejected for our own personalities? Well, I must say, this is already happening in this world. Some of us have already faced this criticism. But why this? Let's find out.
Hello my family. This is your desired Devil. How are you after yesterday's ramblings? I know some of you had passed away your day while working hard or doing household works. Some of you remained in offices, took orders from bosses while others remained lazy at home including me. So, hell yeah, count me in also. I was little bit upset and I didn’t know why but now I'm all ok. So, back to the topic now. When you are honest with your persona and it becomes problem for someone, it has nothing to do with you but make you feel odd. It really hurts when people judge you with what you are already. It's up to them. You or me, no one can help about it. People have their own imaginary world where they decide how to react.
For example, someone work as a clerk. It's completely ok. He works as an honest person. In a public place or in a ceremony where different types of people gather, that guy is there with others. Somehow they know that his profession is being a clerk. Within a moment their respect and attitude will change. Their vision will change as they will start looking at him like a clerk. That guy didn’t do anything wrong but the world couldn’t accept it and maltreated him. It hurts.
The world is too much judgemental. It accepts a criminal so easily & place him high position in the society because of huge money & power but it has no place for honest cobbler, clerk or farmer. The people around them know that they have less desires and want and that's why their act changes.
No one has done anything wrong but the world couldn’t accept their true identity. When you come to know about it, your heart will shatter into million pieces. You want to face the ugly truth? Fine. Just ask these types of people around you. There innocence smile & the pain behind it will explain the harsh reality.
When people acts weird after knowing your true identity, you have two things to do. Either accept those criticism or choose another path of life. Depends on you. Your abilities and moral deeds are knowingly unknown to them. What you will do? Recheck or reexamine? No. Let them think whatever they think. You cannot change their perspectives but you can definitely be your own. That's what you should do. No more cross checking about your facts. It’s you who matters to your life, your family and nothing else can change the truth.
I have seen some beautiful posts here about self acceptance. They are right. I know it hurts when people reject you for what you are but probably this is the same thing you can do it for them. Just ignore them who ignores you. Be honest with yourself and never compromise with your morals. Why should you? For those fake peoples who judge you, criticise you for what you are today? It’s time to reject all those people from your life. Enough disrespect you have seen in their eyes. Now it’s your time to uprise and show them that you don't even give a crap about thier mean words and narrow thoughts.
When people disallow you & fail to accept for what you truly are, then the problem is with them. I know it hurts but at least you have the guts to show up with your true identity.
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No matter how good you are inside and outside, there are still people who will criticize. It's actually an advantage, we can differentiate good and bad people:)