What consumes my money the most (my version)
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Good day friends, it's so good to be with you again today, I hope you all had a great day yesterday which was the beginning of the week, hope you all made your day productive? you can share below how your day went.
I was reading @Kushyzee article later when I came across his recent one which was titled **"what consumes my money the most"** you can check out his article here https://read.cash/@Kushyzee/what-consumes-your-money-the-most-6d7275ba
We all have different things that take money from us and some might be our favourite things like small chops e.g biscuit, gala and the rest just to mention a few, without any further ado let me get straight to the article.
Speaking of what consumes my money the most I'd say it's data subscription and also transport to my workplace oh my I forgot to make the announcement here that I've started learning computers with my uncle.
With this let's divide the article into two first would be "**what consumes my data the most**" and the second would be "**what consumes my money in terms of transport fare**", let me start with the first one.
**What consumes my data the most?**
***Removed apps.***
The first on the list is removing apps, most times whenever I feel bored I do uninstall some apps from my phone which isn't useful and don't make me focus on my goals some of which are (Facebook, TikTok and some games).
Uninstalling apps took a total of 11.25GB, that's more than I expected it to be, I was still expecting it to be around 2Gb but to my surprise, it is more than that, that makes it the top consuming thing on my phone.
***Google play store.***
I wasn't surprised anymore seeing 8.24GB of data consumption from the Google play store as those removed apps from my phone were all gotten from the play store so what more should I expect than high data consumption.
***Metamask***.
Many of you might not notice that metamask consumes a whole lot of data than Instagram which we all call the king of data consumption, if you think I'm wrong about this then try using your metamask for a few hours by viewing Nfts on oasis. cash and playing games also, take note of your data balance before doing this and when you've done it share your experience with me.
It wasn't new to me to see metamask coming third among the apps that consume my data most as I do use metamask a lot either to play games or find something to do there.
***WhatsApp***.
Look at who came fourth on the list of apps that consume my data, I'd say I can't still believe it that WhatsApp consumes data a lot though I have a lot of friends on there who post a whole lot of things and also a news channel to keep myself updated, I'd take it that way as there's nothing I can do about it than to mute some status to watch at night with night data subscription I think that would be better.
***Chrome***.
I'm not surprised to see chrome has used up to 1.92GB as I know that I use chrome a lot to make some research and connect with my friends here, I don't have any other browser than Chrome, Samsung internet browser and via but I don't use Via much as I still can't understand it very well though most of my friends use it so I'd try it out.
***Netflix***.
I couldn't create time to watch Netflix so I'd say it only took a small amount of data compared to last month's own which was nothing less than 5GB, I was spending a lot of time there watching different movies and episodes to keep myself busy.
The two movies I have I have on Netflix are the ones princessbusayo suggested to me to watch and I have created time to complete any of them, you can have a look at the two which are (***The invincible man and The hunt***), I'm sure you'd love it though most of them contain substances.
***Call of duty.***
This is my favourite game right from the time I got my first phone, though I'm still not perfect at least I know I can still win in some battles if I use some of my techniques like sliding to the back of the opponent and doing the needful to win.
It's not surprising to see 1.06GB used on call of duty as I play it a lot whenever I feel bored or lonely since it's an online game it makes me feel connected to people though we are not seeing each other face to face we have a special character to represent us in the game as we battle.
I'd like to stop it there for now so I won't bore you with the apps that consume my data, let me make a quick brief of the next part.
***What consumes my money in terms of transport fare.***
Many of you might not know I've started learning computers as I'd be going for a course in software engineering at the university soon so I'm learning it from now though I have a break of 3 days as my uncle isn't going to take his car so I'd have to wait for him to be back from the cross overnight which he is attending today.
Paying for transport fare from our house to computer village is nothing less than $2 a day for going and coming, I'm happy my uncle takes his car almost all the time so he'd drop me off in the computer village and head to his office which reduces my transport fare.
For those of you who don't know what a computer village is let me give a brief description of what it is, computer village is a place where you can get your computer accessories and gadgets from it is located in Ikeja, Lagos state Nigeria 🇳🇬, do you also have a computer village there, share with me if you have one.
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**Sideshift.ai** is a crypto exchange website where users can swap(shift) crypto currency and cross bridge for Smartbch and other chains. It accepts more than 50 different crypto currencies and tokens that can be swapped for another crypto currency.
**Did you know?**
Sideshift.ai is also integrated into the read cash system, allowing users to swap different coins and tokens in a safe and secure environment with no sign-up required, and they give the best rates so far.
Sideshift.ai just implemented a cross bridge for Smartbch and other chains, allowing users to easily bridge BCH into Smartbch in a user-friendly manner. Their support crew is one of the best I've seen so far, responding quickly to user complaints.
Let's me illustrate on how to use the cross bridge from BCH to Smartbch in simple steps.
***Note;The minimum amount to cross-bridge from BCH to Smartbch is 0.05 BCH.***
**Firstly**.
You must first go to their website and select the crypto currency you wish to exchange to and from. After that, you must copy your metamask address and input it when it prompts you to do so. You will then see a screen that looks like this: https://sideshift.ai/bch/smartbch
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After it displays something like this, all you have to do is copy the address and send exactly the amount you want to swap, which must not be less than 0.05 BCH.
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It will need one confirmation before it properly swaps, so be patient and give it some time. It should not take more than 20 minutes, but if it does, you can always call their support team, who are always online and ready to help.
While you wait, you can try linking your Sideshift.ai account to your Telegram account so you can receive alerts there when a transaction is completed, which worked fine on my end when I tried it: simply tap the "**Get notified on telegram**" button and it will connect to your Telegram account so you can receive updates there, as shown below:
I received my Smartbch into my wallet in a matter of minutes, which was quick and uncomplicated, with a minimal transaction cost for switching without the need of a third-party, which makes me prefer it to other exchanges.
Although there are many exchanges that work like it does, most of them may not have many crypto currencies, let me make a list of other exchanges that have a cross-bridge from BCH to Smartbch, we have:
Mistswap and http://App.mistswap.fi/bridge
Hopcash.
Sideshift.ai has a token called (XAI), which was created to serve as a future incentive for users, businesses, and other entities. Holders of Xai can earn 25% daily revenue if they stake their token.
For the time being, Xai can only be exchanged on a few sites, which would their primary website, Sideshift.ai, as well as other alternate websites such as Bittrex and coinex. https://global.bittrex.com/Market/Index?MarketName=USDT-XAI https://www.coinex.com/exchange/xai-usdt
**Note: Staking Xai entails locking up your tokens, which will not be used for anything until you unlock it, after which it will enter a 7-day cooling period during which no rewards will be given out.**
If you need more into about how the staking works you can check out their staking page https://sideshift.ai/staking
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**In conclusion.**
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Stop saying sorry for....
We've used the word "**sorry**" so much, and even when it's not supposed to be used, we've started to associate it with our personal lives which isn't the best.
You might be wondering what inspired me to write something like this; it came from a trend I saw a few weeks ago, so I just remembered it in my head and had to write it down. The trend was about a question asked by someone, and it went like this:
**Why do people say sorry for other people's mistakes?**
I'd been thinking about what the answer to this question was, and I finally came up with something that made sense to me, and I'd also be talking about things people should stop apologizing for.
In my opinion, people say sorry for other people's mistakes to make them feel like someone cares about them. I'm not saying that saying sorry for other people's mistakes isn't a good thing, but when it's done too often, it becomes "**obsequious**."
If you're unfamiliar with the term "obsequious," let me define it for you in simple terms. When you hear the word "**obsequious**," it refers to an act of demonstrating obedience to please others rather than oneself.
Let me discuss certain things for which individuals should no longer apologize for;
**Being busy (your own time).**
**Wanting to change your life.**
**Needing time for yourself.**
**Other's mistake.**
****1.Being busy (your own time).****
This has been the most recent trend; people say sorry for being busy, which is improper because you are doing so to please others and be obedient to them; you are in control of your time and can choose how you want to use it; being busy should not allow you to say sorry for not attending to others; it is our time, so we can use it to engage in whatever we want to do, and we should not apologize for doing so.
****2.Wanting to change your life.****
You don't need to apologize or say sorry for making a change in your life, which includes the people you surround yourself with and how you interact with them; you shouldn't apologize or say sorry for taking another step of change because doing so would only demonstrate your obedience to them and make you please others rather than yourself.
****3.Needing time for yourself.****
People nowadays often say sorry for needing time for themselves; however, the time is ours and not theirs, so why would we say sorry before using our own time? It sounds strange to the ear, and if you think about it, we are pleasing others rather than ourselves, which isn't the best. We don't need to say sorry for needing time for ourselves; instead, we should use the time because it is ours and not saying sorry to please others.
****4.Other's mistake.****
As we all know, we learn from other people's mistakes so that we don't repeat the same mistakes. We don't need to apologize for other people's faults because it won't remove the mistakes they made, though it does make them feel better. However, saying it frequently isn't the best.
**In conclusion.**
We become obsequious if we say sorry all the time to please others and be submissive to them, which appears to be the case. We need to realize our worth and not strive to make others happy while denying ourselves of our own happiness.
While making a change in our lives to become a better person, we should not apologize to others for changing our attitude or lifestyle from the person they knew us to be previously; our lifestyle change does not necessitate our saying sorry to others.
It's the weekend again, which means we can spend good and quality time with our loved ones. Since this is the only time we have with them, let's try to make the most of it by going to the cinema or doing anything else that will make them happy.... I hope you're all having a good time this weekend.
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Why is it always this way?
Good day everyone, I apologize for not being able to post on my blog for the past two days; I was preoccupied with my personal life and had to conduct some errands for my uncle; however, everything is now in order, and I appreciate everyone who reached out to me.
Allow me to explain why I came up with this topic today, which appears to be a bit unusual and difficult to comprehend: I was listening to the radio in my uncle's car while we were driving home from his workplace, and then something unexpected happened when I tuned in the radio to my uncle's channel, guess what happened?
Let's continue...
We were driving after tuning into his favorite station and listening to the news and what's going on around the world until they brought a question to the public's attention to hear their opinions, and it started to annoy me how people think and why things are always that way.
The issue they posed to the public was why girls can't lower their criteria when it comes to choosing a marriage partner, and why is it that men can lower theirs?share your thoughts in the comments section.
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When the figures were released the public to share their thoughts, the first comment made by a girl was that she couldn't go lower than her criteria (standards) in a male but that a guy could go lower than his criteria (standards).
You wouldn't be surprised to see a man who is wealthy in one city return to his village to find a wife, which isn't supposed to be the case all of the time. While I'm not against a fully grown man taking a wife from the village, it has become a habit.
Let me say a few words regarding the question that was put online; I'm not a motivational speaker or anything, but I'll attempt to offer some advice on the subject.
**Why can't girls lower their criteria (standards) when it comes to choosing a marriage partner?**
We all know that when it comes to finding a marriage partner, girls have their preferences. You wouldn't be surprised to learn that a girl is interested in a guy's six packs and that she wants the guy to be black, white, or chocolate in color. Though I'm not against girls having specs in boys,but it shouldn't always be that way. Body color isn't what a relationship is about; what if the guy has a good body shape but a bad character that you can't handle? Marriage is a once-in-a-lifetime event, so we need to be extra cautious when choosing a partner.
What's required to choose a life-time relationship (marriage) is understanding each other, being plain to each other, and speaking the truth always is what makes the relationship grow, sticking to standards may cause you to lose who you are supposed to spend your life with as he may be part of the people who approached you but you turned down.
Though women deserve better, this shouldn't cause them to fly too high without fueling them, nor should it cause them to come up with ideas that make them refuse to lower their standards. This is one of the main reasons for most relationship breakdowns, as the girl was after her standards, which most of the time included money.
****In conclusion.****
Standards should not be used when choosing a partner because if you use them to choose someone to spend your life with, you may miss out on the person who is meant for you, and you know what that means: the marriage may not work out the way it should. That is why standards should not be used when choosing a partner to spend your life with.
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Am i committed to my goals?
I was thinking of something to write about today but couldn't think of anything, so I went to Pinterest to hunt for a writing prompt. I'm glad I found one that I can do justice to.
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Before i begin this prompt, ask yourself this question: "**Are committed to your goals?**" Most of us have forgotten about our personal goals; either something came up that caused us to abandon it or we simply forgot about it.
Let's start the prompt without any further ado;
**1.Would i be proud of myself and my life if i continued to do what I'm doing now?**
This is a difficult question, but I'll do my best to answer it. In terms of what I'm currently doing, which is trying to learn programming and graphic design, I'd say that if I continued with it, I'd be proud of myself and my life. We never know what the future holds, but I'm confident that whatever happens, I'd be happy with the outcome and proud of myself and my life.
**2.Do i want to make a positive difference in my life?**
I'd say a big "YES" to that, I want a positive difference in my life, I want to change from good to better and from better to the best, change is something we all need in our lives, though change varies from person to person, as for me, I'd like to change my habit a bit, you might wonder what's wrong with my habit, well let me let the cat out of the bag, I have this habit of almost always joking which isn't a good habit.I've attempted to change, and while it's been difficult, I've managed to do so over time and in many areas of my life.
**3.Am i making the good use of my time?**
Most of the time I sit down on a couch and reflect on my life to see if I am truly making good use of my time; I do schedule my time for doing things, but I rarely stick to it, which has caused me to stop scheduling my time because i know I won't; for example, I play games a lot, especially Call of Duty, which is my favorite; I literally spent 3 hours playing the game without realizing it was afternoon; I just need to make better use of time because i believe i am not.
**4.Do i want my life to be difficult now and then become easier later, or vice versa?**
Without much thought, I'd prefer my life to be difficult now and then become easier later; it's always best to face the difficult times now and smile later rather than the vice versa; if we wait until after we've enjoyed to face the difficult times, we may not be able to cope; the best is to face the difficult times now and then it becomes easy later; what are your thoughts on this?
**5.Am i constantly,if not always thinking negatively?**
I virtually always think negatively since they say, everything that has a positive effect also has a negative consequence, therefore I think both negatively and positively continually before taking any action in life.
**6.What are my limiting beliefs?**
Let me explain what limiting beliefs imply to us for those who are unfamiliar.
**Limiting beliefs**, also known as false beliefs, are beliefs that prevent us from achieving our life objectives and ambitions.
We all have limiting beliefs, if not one or two. Let me discuss some typical limiting beliefs. Most people are terrified of failure, and when you are afraid of failure, you will limit yourself to trying new things in life.
**7.What is your biggest dream?**
My greatest ambition in life is to learn programming and graphic design, which are the two things on my mind right now. I've started taking some online courses, which have been very helpful, but I'd like to get a laptop and practice more, which will take some time but I'm confident that it will pay off.
**8.What brings you happiness?**
There are many things that bring me joy, but one of them is surrounding myself with positive people and giving is one of the top things that makes me happy. Putting smiles on people's faces is one thing that makes me happy the most.
**In conclusion.**
I literally forgot that I haven't discussed whether or not I am committed to my goals, so let me do that now. Setting a goal is simple, but ensuring that you achieve those goals is difficult, which is why most people find it difficult to set a goal for themselves. It's one thing to set a goal, but it's another to ensure that you achieve those goals, so I'd say I am committed to my goals.
My advise to individuals is to make acceptable goals that can be attained, and to not just sit back after setting goals; we must go the extra mile to achieve our objectives. Be sure to set goals today and work toward them.
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Types of intelligence,how smart are you?
Have you ever wondered why some people excel at mathematics while others struggle? We are all different, but intelligence plays an important role in our lives.
Before moving further what do you understand by intelligence? Let me explain intelligence in my own way.
**Intelligence**:People say intelligence is the ability to learn, comprehend, and deal with new or difficult situations. I believe it refers to the ability to alter one's environment or think abstractly as judged by objective criteria (as tests).
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Everyone in the world is intelligent, but our intelligence differs from person to person. For example, most of us are intelligent in math, while others may be intelligent in science.
We have different categories of intelligence, which I'd like to explain to you. Without further ado, let's look at the different categories of intelligence.
****1.Picture smart (spatial) intelligence****; Most people are born with the capacity to conceptualize, draw, and design. As we all know, most people are just so brilliant at drawing and developing designs that they would do it even if they were woken up in the middle of the night to draw or design anything. Consider drawing and solving puzzles if you wish to improve your picture intelligence.
****2.Logical intelligence****; Logical intelligence necessitates the ability to reason logically, analyze, and ensure that they achieve the conclusion of the problem. If you want to develop your logical intelligence, consider completing puzzles and attempting to answer difficult questions.
****3.Verbal intelligence****; Reading, writing, speaking, and listening are all examples of verbal intelligence. These individuals are capable of detecting and fixing grammatical errors, as well as learning as many languages as they desire in addition to English.
****4.Interpersonal intelligence****;This includes the capacity to comprehend people's actions as well as their social settings. It's comparable to intrapersonal intelligence, except that intrapersonal intelligence is concerned with people's feelings, thoughts, and so on.
****5.Auditory Intelligence****; This includes the capacity to listen to, perform, and compose music. You could use songs to remember a piece you've read before? What you only need to do is to improve your auditory intelligence.
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****In conclusion.****
Everyone is intelligent, however we may fall into different categories of intelligence. One thing I can ensure you is that if you use the category you are in, you will be OK. For example, you may be good with auditory, which allows you to recall passages you've read previously.
We are all unique in our own way, so let's figure out what works best for us and stick with it. We can improve our intelligence by experimenting with different categories. For example, if you have logical intelligence, you can experiment with other categories to see if they work for you.
So, ask yourself how brilliant you are, are you good at science, art, or commercial? Whatever sector you are good at, stick to it and make sure you good at it.
***It's a new week, so let's attempt to get organized and accomplish what we weren't able to finish last week. Time doesn't wait for anyone, so let's schedule our time and make the most of it.***
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Facts about the subconscious mind.
Have you ever heard of the term subconscious? If you don't know what subconscious means, let me clarify before we go into the facts concerning the subconscious mind.
**Subconscious**; is a component of the mind that most people are unaware of, but it has an impact on one's emotions and behaviors.
The subconscious mind is a component of the mind that acts without our knowledge. Examples of what a subconscious mind is the dreams we have at night; our subconscious mind operates without our knowledge at night, which is why we dream.
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****Let's take a look at some fascinating facts regarding the subconscious mind.****
**1.It records everything;** Our subconscious mind records everything we do on a daily basis, including walking, thinking, and other activities, but we are unaware of it.
**2.It speaks to you in dreams**; Have you ever wondered how dreams happen? They come from our subconscious mind, which communicates to us anytime we are sleeping or dreaming. This is the power of the subconscious mind.
**3.It controls 95% of our lives**; It controls 95% of our lives, including our blood pressure, heartbeat, digestive system, and so on...it controls almost every aspect of our lives, even if we don't realize it. Take your heartbeat for example; you can feel it beating while going about your daily activities, but you won't realize it until you touch your heart to check.
**4.Always alert and awake**; Our subconscious mind is always on high alert since it governs practically every portion of our body. While our conscious mind is temporarily inactive while we sleep, our subconscious mind is always vigilant and awake. Our respiration is also controlled by our subconscious mind.
**5.It can do trillion things at once**; Yes, as we all know, the human brain processes 11 million bits of information each second, which our subconscious mind handles. Because our conscious mind can only carry a few bits of information per second, what I'm stating in excess is that the subconscious mind can accomplish trillion things at once.
**6.It is 1 million times powerful than the conscious mind**; It is more powerful than our conscious mind in the sense that it accumulates knowledge and ideas that would be good to utilize, and it governs practically everything we do, making it more powerful than the conscious mind.
**7.It has no verbal language**; Our subconscious mind has no verbal language; it communicates with us through dreams and feelings. It also communicates with us while we are asleep and dreaming, which is why we often recall our dreams and listen to the message it has for us.
**8.It controls our idle thoughts**; Most of us can't meditate for more than a few minutes without our ideas destroying us; anytime we sit idle, we may believe that our thoughts are irrelevant to us, but they aren't; it's our subconscious mind providing us knowledge that we've stored.
**9.It controls our anxiety and phobia**; You might ask why most of us are scared of the dark or of heights; it all started in our subconscious mind. If you are afraid of heights, it's likely that you had problems climbing ladders as a child, which your subconscious mind records.
**10.It controls our physical manifestations**; The subconscious mind frequently requires our focus to handle an essential issue, which is why we often have headaches or body aches. Though this is not always the case, our subconscious mind frequently requires our attention.
Our subconscious mind is more powerful than our conscious mind because it stores information and ideas and communicates with us through dreams and feelings. It tries to catch our attention by sending us information that we need to use. Our subconscious mind is always speaking to us; the question is whether we are listening?.
**In conclusion.**
Let us try to pay attention to our subconscious mind, which sends information to us even when we are not aware of it, and which works harder than the conscious mind. When we sleep, the conscious mind passes the work to the subconscious mind and lets it do its job.
When you wake up from a dream, think about it and make time to find the message that the subconscious mind sends to us. It's always awake and active, and we use it every second because it controls our body movement, thoughts, and thinking.
Try holding your breath for a few minutes and see what message your subconscious mind sends to your conscious mind, which will easily tell you to stop holding your breath. All I'm saying is that the subconscious mind is a part of us and does a lot of things, so let's try to sit down and meditate to hear what it has to say.
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Where are you living?
I know you're probably wondering what I'm getting at with this title, which may appear confused at first, but take a seat and I'll explain.
Most of us try to remember the past and regret most of the things we did back then, which makes us unhappy and depressed wondering why we made such a mistake.
Before we continue, ask yourself, "Where are you living?" and try to find answers.
**The past.**
**Shame, guilt, and remorse.**
**Feeling gloomy or depressed.**
**Reproducing conversations or occurrences.**
**The present.**
**Gratitude.**
**Acceptance.**
**Clarity.**
The future.
**Fear of the unknown.**
**Worrying about what could happen.**
**Overthinking "what if" scenarios.**
**Feeling anxious for what is to come.**
**The past.**
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The past is filled with lessons to be learned, but thinking about those mistakes makes us wonder why we committed such a mistake, making us feel ashamed of ourselves and regretful for what occurred in the past.
We all make mistakes because no one is perfect, though everyone strives to be better, but mistakes are bound to happen so we can learn from them. We may feel depressed when we reflect on our past, but what is done is done; all we need to do now is learn from our mistakes.
Many people still live in the past, thinking about the mistakes they made and replaying them in their minds. It appears as if they should have control of time so they could go back in time and correct their mistakes, but this is impossible. All we can do is focus on the present and strive to improve our future.
**The present.**
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We feel calm after reflecting about the past and making good use of the mistakes we made back then, so we are appreciative in the present.
The present also teaches us to accept our mistakes and learn from them in order to improve ourselves; we acknowledge our errors and make sure we don't repeat them.
There is no set date for when we should cease learning, therefore it is a lifelong process. We are also bound to make mistakes so that we can learn from them and avoid repeating the same mistakes on our next experience.
**The future.**
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The future is unknown to no one, and we all fear what will happen in the future. Our future is in our hands, and whatever we do now will determine how our future will look.
We have the thought of "what if" our future isn't what we expected. We should try to keep our expectations as low as possible and just work hard to do our best and believe that our future will be great. It may not turn out the way we imagined it, but we can make our future bright by correcting our past mistakes and continuing to learn.
We shouldn't be concerned about the future; instead, we should strive to construct our future in the present. Accepting our mistakes and learning from them is the greatest approach to keep things moving forward.
So, where are you living? Please share your ideas in the comments area.
**In conclusion**.
Learn from the past, appreciate the present, and work toward the future, but don't get too worked up about it; let's keep it cool and not be in a hurry to see things work out.
It's the weekend, so let's spend it with our loved ones because this is the only time we have off. Let's attempt to find time for them and go to some recreational centers or restaurants or whatever it takes to make them happy.
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What a kind person can look like.
Being kind does not just simply giving to others; we must offer totally and from the heart; we should not give while simultaneously having a second thought; this is not how kindness works.
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**Kindness** is a heartfelt gesture of willingness to help others, whether strangers or people we know, by listening intently to what they have to say and attempting to assist in any manner possible.
Being a kind person can take many forms; it is the ability to help others willingly and without being forced. Let's take a look at what it means to be a kind person.
**An attentive ear.**
**A friendly grin.**
**Words of encouragement.**
**With whatever you have, put a smile on someone's face.**
**Help a complete stranger.**
**An attentive ear.**
It is not good to turn our deaf ears to people. A kind person must always be willing to hear what others have to say and listen to their pleas while looking for ways to help them solve problems.
Because kindness comes from within, we must be willing to listen to what others have to say so that we can find new ways to help them. We should not limit our help to just our family members; we can spread kindness to strangers all over the world.
**A friendly grin.**
A kind person must always be approachable and smile at others; imagine asking someone for assistance and having the person twist his face for you; I'm sure you wouldn't enjoy it, thus all we have to do is smile all the time.
A simple smile can bring delight to people's hearts, make them feel cherished, and brighten their minds.
**Words of encouragement.**
Being kind requires us to utter positive words from our mouths in order to make others happy and support them in whatever they are doing. Positive words go a long way in people's lives because they make them feel as if someone cares about them and is encouraging them in whatever they are doing.
Positive words relax people and make them feel as if someone is watching them and listening to what they have to say.
**With whatever you have, put a smile on someone's face.**
As I previously stated, kindness does not necessitate us spending all of our resources to show our gratitude to others; kindness can be expressed in a variety of ways. For example, you can help some random strangers with whatever you have on hand and be sure to put a smile on their face.
Nothing is too tiny to contribute; since it is kindness, we can give anything we have and always know that we are placing a smile on someone's face.
**Help a complete stranger.**
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Due to events in the world, most people have second thoughts whenever they want to show kindness to strangers or outsiders. Being kind is far more than we think; we can help anyone from anywhere in the world, regardless of their background.
We should try as much as possible to help others if we are in a position to do so. Remember, no amount of money is too small to give out; you never know what a cent can do in someone's life. The best thing we can do is to help others and make sure we put a smile on their faces.
**In conclusion.**
We can all be that kind person, I know you can do it. Try to put a smile on people's faces by being kind to them and also supporting them with what you have to offer; a cent can mean a lot to someone else. All we have to do is give within our means and try to smile as much as possible when giving things out, and always try to encourage them to keep moving.
Weekend has arrived once more; time goes so quickly that I didn't realize we were already in the weekend. My calendar saved me and I was surprised to find out that today was the weekend, which is the ideal time for us to spend with our loved ones....Happy weekend everyone 🥰.
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Things i can't control.
**What are the things over which you have no control?** We all have things we can't control, such as the past, the future, how other people treat us, and so on.
In today's world, we all have many factors over which we have no control, such as how other people treat us as i have stated earlier on.
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Let me begin by discussing things that I cannot control on my own;
**Change.**
**The future.**
**The past.**
**Outcome of my efforts.**
**Other people's happiness.**
**Other's mistake**.
**What other's think of me.**
**Change**.
We attempt to alter many things in our lives, but no matter how hard we try, we can't change people's minds from what they planned to do since they own their lives and are left to make their own decisions. No matter how hard we try to change their minds, they will still do what they planned to do.
**The future.**
Nobody knows what the future holds for us; we have no control over it. All we can do is try our hardest and hope for the best; no one can predict the future but we can make our future a good one if we put things in place by making our present life
**The past.**
I wish I could turn back time and correct the mistakes I made back then, but that is impossible because it is beyond my control. What we can do instead of crying over our mistakes is to learn from them and utilize them to improve ourselves in the future.
Mistakes are designed to teach us lessons; without them, we'd be repeating the same mistakes, which would be uncharacteristic of us. Instead, we should view mistakes as opportunities to learn new skills and improve ourselves.
**Outcome of our efforts.**
Limiting your expectations is a good thing to do; whenever we work and put in our efforts in our job, we shouldn't expect much from it or anything at all; we should just hope for the best and if it does well, that's great; but one thing we should try to do is limit our expectations as much as possible.
We cannot forecast nor control the outcome of our efforts; all we can do is set reasonable expectations.
**Other people's happiness.**
We can't manage other people's happiness no matter how hard we try since our faces are different, and what makes one person happy could make another person bitter, which is why we can't control other people's pleasure.
**Other's mistake.**
Correcting others' faults is beyond our control; they must learn from their mistakes and correct them; no matter how much we attempt to manage them, they are always beyond our power.
**What other's think of me.**
You can't always control what other people think about you; they may think good or bad things about you, but one thing is certain: always be yourself. You can't always control everything in life.
No matter how hard we try, certain aspects of life are always outside our control, and we are confined to the aspects of life that we can influence.
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****In conclusion.****
"It's easy to take a horse to the river, but you can't make it drink from the river," as the adage goes. Certain things are simply beyond our control, no matter how hard we attempt to control them.
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Financial tips you need to know.
**What is financial tips**;Financial tips is a technique of teaching you on how to spend and save money wisely. It is preferable to save more than we spend.
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"**How often do you save**?" is a question you should ask yourself.
Most individuals spend more than they save, which is understandable for people who are paid at the end of the month since they have expenses to pay, but that shouldn't prevent them from saving at least a penny.
Saving money is a wonderful habit to have since it helps us when we need it the most (Out of cash). Saving at least a penny whenever we spend is a good habit to have.
Without further ado, let me discuss the financial tips we need to know;
**Save more than you spend.**
**Have multiple source of income.**
**Avoid customer debt.**
**Borrow money to make money or don't borrow at all.**
**Learn skills that can earn you money.**
**Save more than you spend.**
As I previously stated, most people spend more than they save, which is not ideal. We need to either level our spending habits to be equal to saving or save more than we spend. Most of you may be wondering what is the excess of saving, saving money is helpful in terms of emergency situations, which can occur at any time, and what would save you is the money you saved. The second reason why we save money is for plans such as building a house, buying a car, and all of these things.
**Have multiple source of income.**
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It's best not to rely on a single source of income because things can fall apart, and the other source of income we have as a backup will keep us afloat. Having multiple sources of income brings in more money and, more importantly, if one source of income fails, we have another to fall back on, which is something I'll encourage everyone to have.
Managing several sources of money is difficult, but once we start doing it, it will become second nature to us. Multiple sources of income have far more benefits than drawbacks, which is why everyone should have at least two source of income.
**Avoid customer debt.**
Let's attempt to avoid debt since it prevents us from saving and allowing us to grow. We need to make a specific plan to avoid debt. Let me produce a list of helpful recommendations to help us avoid debt:
**Save more frequently.**
**Cut back on your spending.**
**Prioritize your needs over your desires.**
**Only borrow when absolutely necessary**.
It would be quite beneficial if we could follow the above recommendations in order to avoid debt.
**Borrow money to make money or don't borrow at all.**
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Isn't it amusing? Well, it's the truth that some people don't realize, the purpose of borrowing money is to use it to make money, not to spend it on something that won't make money, so why borrow money if we aren't going to use it to make money? It's better to avoid borrowing than to borrow to use it for something unprofitable and then end up in debt.
It's better to avoid borrowing in order to avoid debt than to borrow for something else that isn't profitable and then struggle to pay off the debt. This isn't how to grow; borrow money to earn money, not for something else.
**Learn skills that can earn you money.**
Learning a skill is a great way to generate money that can be used as a numerous source of income. There are thousands of skills to choose from and learn in order to make money. Let me mention some of the skills that we can use to make money.
**Blogging (readcash,Hive e.t.c)**
**Programming.**
**Graphics designing.**
**And so on.**
Learning a skill and using it as a numerous source of income is a terrific method to make money. If one has the time, blogging is a great skill to learn and utilize as a side income.
**In conclusion.**
Saving money is essential since it aids us in times of need. It is ideal to save even a penny per day because it will benefit you in the long term.
Having numerous sources of money is also vital since something unexpected may occur, forcing us to rely on our other sources of income, which would be tough if we didn't have any.
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Have you heard of the cash bears Nft?
Cash Bears is an upcoming Nft collection on Smartbch that intends to capture all opportunities within the Smartbch network.
The minting period will begin on May 20th, which is two days from now in my zone, and the minting price per each cash bear will be 0.01 BCH with a total of 1,500 Nft to be minted.
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**Faqs.**
**What usecases does it have?.**
**What's their road map?.**
**What benefit do we gain from holding a cash bear in our wallet?.**
**What usecases does it have?**
The cash bear Nft may be used for staking and rewarding; we can stake our cash bear Nft to gain $Cbears and also get rewarded for keeping a cash bear Nft in our wallet.
Mistswap, the main Dex where you can buy, sell, and exchange $Cbears, is where you can get them.
**Note**;The Cash Bear Nft's usecase does not include gaming feature.
**What's their roadmap?**
Their road plan centers on a group of three (3) people working together to build and improve the Nft, which is the first item on their list.
They pledge to make it available on Smartbch so that Smartbch users can participate in the limited-edition minting phrase of 1,500 cash bears.
They intend to have only one fund manager to oversee the project's funds and ensure its success.
Before the minting begins, they will be allowed to create social media accounts, which will be the fifth item on their to-do list.
****Phrase two.****
The establishment of the $Cbears token and the addition of liquidity to it will benefit users who own cash bear Nft and stake it in the pool.
Heavy marketing would be implemented, including sponsored advertisements and influencers, to aid in the project's growth and attract people.
Their dashboard would be built on the staking term, in which holders of cash bear Nft can stake their cash bear to get $Cbears, which they can then trade on Mistswap.
They promise to make it available on three blockchains, one of which is Smartbch. The other three are still unknown.
**What benefit do we gain from holding a cash bear in our wallet?**
Holding a cash bear Nft entitles you to a little portion of the revenue.
Feel free to contribute to the project's success and be rewarded for your efforts; if you want to help, you may contact them on their telegram page. https://t.me/cashbears
If you are interested in the Nft you can check out their telegram page and feel free to ask questions there. https://t.me/cashbears
**In conclusion.**
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Top things i have learnt over the past years.
I've learned a lot in life over the years; I've made mistakes and learned from them in order to improve myself; without mistakes, we wouldn't grow and improve on ourselves; instead, we'd keep doing the same mistakes over and over again.
Without further ado, let me share the most important lessons I've learned over the years, including my blunders, lessons, and so on.
**Honesty.**
The first thing I've learnt in the last few years is that being honest builds trust between two people, which leads to a great partnership.
This reminds me of our school motto, "honesty is the best policy." Being honest is the most important principle we must have in order to be trusted. Honesty can take you places you won't believe, but people have testimonies of how being honest has helped them advance in their careers.
Speaking the truth is a characteristic that we all need to possess; a truthful person will always be true to his or her words and will always win others' hearts.
**Risk**.
In order to be successful in life, we must be willing to take risks. There are numerous benefits to taking risks that would not be available if we did not take them. Some of the benefits include:
It's possible that an unexpected opportunity will arise.
You have the opportunity to make a difference in your life.
You'll discover information that you wouldn't have known otherwise.
To name a few advantages of taking risk, risk can lead us to unexpected opportunities and also cause us to lose everything we have. All we need to do is "risk what we can afford to lose" though we may be tempted to put everything we have into it, it's best we ask ourselves this question: "What if it doesn't work out well?"
**Patience**.
There is always a time for everything, a time to sow seed and a time to reap from what you sow. For example, if you sow maize in the garden and it normally takes 60 days to fully mature so we can enjoy it, but you were impatient and harvested it when it was only 20 days old, the result would be different. What I am trying to convey is that patience is a valuable virtue that we all need to possess.
**Don't try to be someone else.**
Always be yourself and don't strive to be someone else; live your life the way you want it to be lived and hope for the best; don't initiate others since you might lose your individuality.
Everyone is born with a distinct personality and a distinct purpose in life; attempting to be someone else would result in our losing our identity.
**Forgive and forget.**
I've learned to always have a heart of forgiveness for people, no matter what they've done to me. Forgiving others is simple, but we would lose trust in them. Let's just strive to have a heart of forgiveness because it's a positive attitude.
**Make friends.**
I am someone who enjoys having a large number of friends around me, individuals with whom I can talk and share my thoughts. I have made a lot of friends here and am glad I got to know you all. Life would be boring without friends since there would be no one to talk to and share your thoughts with.
**In conclusion.**
We've all learned a lot over the years, and you may share your own lessons with me, and I'll be happy to check them out and learn from them as well.
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Is it possible for love at first sight to lead to marriage?
Many people have experienced love at first sight, where a man's gaze is drawn to a woman he has only just seen for the first time and is smitten without knowing anything about her (Name,age e.t.c).
In my opinion, love at first sight may or may not lead to a long marriage if both genders are unfamiliar with each other; nonetheless, let me explain why I believe it will or will not lead to a lasting marriage.
**Love at first sight could lead to marriage if**,
Couples get to know each other better and become acquainted before entering into a relationship that, if well planned, could lead to marriage in the near future.
When you fall in love at first sight, there are a few riddles to solve: first, get to know each other and study each other; second, don't rush into a relationship; take your time to get to know and understand each other well before entering one.
Second, you don't have to rush into marriage with someone of the opposite gender; take things slowly and get to know each other before moving forward; marriage is not something that should be rushed into,take your time to understand each other so you won't regret being with the person you love.
No matter how great the love at first sight is, getting to know each other is a positive thing that will strengthen and prolong the relationship.
**Love at first sight will not lead to marriage if**,
As we all know, everything has advantages and downsides, and love at first sight can lead to marriage or not lead to marriage depending on how certain things are handled.
The initial intense attraction to the opposite gender is insufficient to progress to an ideal relationship or even marriage.
Love is the most important aspect of a relationship/marriage, but it isn't enough to keep it going. Relationships also require trust, good communication, honesty, and respect for each other's goals and desires in life. All of the aforementioned can only be achieved through dedication and hard work; it won't happen overnight.
Love at first sight can be overwhelming, leading you to believe you've found the perfect partner to spend your life with. However, love at first sight is simply a physical attraction that attracts you to the other gender. You may see some people who met outside, perhaps on a bus, and fell in love at first sight, leading to marriage. However, keep in mind that what works for one person may not work for the other.
Love at first sight isn't enough to keep a relationship or a marriage going. It's preferable to get to know each other better and work things out in a positive way. Love is a crucial aspect of a relationship, but so is trust, honesty, and excellent communication between partners.
To have a flawless connection with your spouse, you must first understand each other's strengths, baggage, red flags, and other characteristics. With this in mind, the relationship is almost certain to succeed.
**In conclusion.**
Love is a gradual process that takes time to develop into a strong relationship that leads to marriage; we shouldn't be fooled by love at first sight because it isn't enough to keep a relationship going; we need to spend time getting to know each other better and becoming familiar with each other before entering into a relationship or marriage so we won't have problems understanding each other.
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When you feel angry.
Most of the time, we get furious about a minor issue or a conflict between you and another person, but instead of getting angry, try to find a technique to calm down.
Allow me to prepare a list of things you could do to calm down and be yourself anytime you are furious.
**Write your feelings down.**
**Express yourself creatively.**
**Go for a walk .**
**Do something productive.**
**Do yoga.**
**Find a way to relax.**
**Make a soothing playlist.**
**Plan out how you'll** **~~attack~~** **react.**
Those are some simple things you can do whenever you are upset (furious). While not all of them will work for everyone, some will.
**Write your feelings down**; Writing down your feelings is a terrific way to relax, express yourself in your diary or any other book you may write in, and comprehend how you feel. It can help you reduce your anger and better understand yourself.
**Express yourself creatively**; This also aids in the control of anger; there are numerous ways to express ourselves artistically, such as creating an art design, writing a poem, or writing a short tale, all of which make you feel better and more at ease.
**Go for a walk**; This also aids in the control of anger; whenever we are upset, we may try going for a walk outside the garden or simply jogging around the neighborhood; this will help you calm down and relax.
**Do something productive**; Doing something useful to keep yourself busy aids in the reduction of anger. We simply need to find something to keep us going, such as acquiring new skills such as cooking, sketching, and so on.
**Do yoga**; Yoga is a mind-body exercise that involves meditating and relaxing our minds in order to focus on ourselves. Yoga may be done whether we are furious or in our spare time.
**Find a way to relax**; When we are upset, the greatest thing we can do is find a way to relax our minds. There are many various ways to relax, such as connecting with nature, listening to music, and so on, to name a few. We simply need to find what works best for us.
**Make a soothing playlist**; Make a playlist of music that will help you relax and quiet down anytime you are furious. Choose songs that you enjoy and that will speak to you and calm you down.
**Plan out how you'll** **~~attack~~** **react**; When we are upset, one of the things that can help us is to plan how to respond to the person who has made us furious rather than trying to retaliate for what they have done; it is better to resolve anger amicably rather than making it worse.
When we are angry, it is best to take a walk through the garden and embrace nature, which will help us calm down instead of regulating it to others.
Embrace nature and its beauty; it's a terrific method to alleviate anger and calm yourself down. Also, go to a fun area nearby, such as a museum, to make yourself happy and relieve anger.
**In conclusion.**
Find strategies to regulate your anger instead of retaliating against others. It's better to calm your anger rather than passing it on to others, which isn't the best strategy to minimize anger.
Do something useful. When you're furious, you may do art or read a pleasant book to calm yourself down so you don't retaliate your feelings on to others.
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When you struggle?
Many times we feel like giving up because we don't see any results from our efforts, but it's usually a good idea to give up and proceed in a different route.
When you struggle;
**Don't expect quick results be patient.**
**Reach out to someone and ask for help.**
**Rest;You need time to build up strength to face tomorrow.**
**Make different choices for different outcomes,keep the choices healthy and positive for your life.**
**For positive living tips, read a self-help book.**
**To disengage from social media comparisons and pressures, turn off your phone and disconnect from technology for a few hours.**
**Stay hydrated because dehydration can negatively impact your mental and physical wellbeing.**
**1.Don't expect quick results be patient**; Many people are constantly in a hurry to see the rewards of their hard work, but this is not the case; we should always be patient in waiting for the results of our hard work; the results may not always be immediate, but they will always be impressive.
**2.Reach out to someone and ask for help**; When we are anxious or exhausted, we may always reach out to someone for assistance. Humans will always require assistance in life, which is why we must seek for assistance whenever we are tired or stressed.
**3.Rest;You need time to build up strength to face tomorrow**; We must constantly take a break anytime we are fatigued or stressed from our struggles so that we may gain strength to tackle the next one. It is not advisable to utilize all of our strength today to confront the challenge; we must reserve some for tomorrow.
**4.Make different choices for different outcomes,keep the choices healthy and positive for your life**; Make diverse choices for different outcomes and maintain it in line with our lives; you own your life, so do whatever you want with it, but make excellent choices that will lead to different outcomes and always be positive.
**5.For positive living tips, read a self-help book**; Make yourself at ease by reading a good book that will keep you motivated all day. Positive novels will always motivate you and will greatly benefit your well-being.
**6.To disengage from social media comparisons and pressures, turn off your phone and disconnect from technology for a few hours**; Most of the time, it feels good to disconnect from social media for a while to avoid comparisons and pressure. The internet is often full of pressure, which can negatively impact our lives. It's best to disconnect from the internet if we can't handle pressure or comparisons for an extended period of time.
**7.Stay hydrated because dehydration can negatively impact your mental and physical wellbeing**; Eat in between the battles to stay hydrated because it has a significant impact on our lives; dehydration would badly impact our lives if we choose to do so, so all we need to do is stay hydrated and keep going.
Expect results to take time after our hard effort; be patient; the hard work will pay off in the end, no matter how long it takes.
We will always be rewarded for our efforts; all we need to do now is wait patiently for it.
**In conclusion.**
Motivate yourself by reading books that will have a positive impact on your life; restrict your time on social media to prevent being depressed; be yourself and don't compare yourself to others.
Don't put pressure on yourself with material items; instead, attempt to find a method to achieve what you want by prioritizing yourself and putting your needs ahead of your wants.
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Different types of book reader's.
When it comes to learning, there are several types of readers, each with their own reading style, preferred reading position, and other characteristics.
I've met a variety of readers and their reading styles, but I'm going to concentrate on book readers.
Let us discuss the many sorts of book readers we have;
The book collector.
Finishes too soon.
Buys only for the pretty cover.
Never completes ( But still buys more).
The bookworm.
The borrower.
Lives in the library.
Takes forever to choose a book.
Let's take a closer look at the many types of book readers so we can better understand them.
***The book collector**; Many people i've met are book collectors; they only collect books to retain and read when they have free time, but they are more concerned with continuing to gather to keep and read on any given day.
***Finishes too soon**;To me, these kind of people are fast readers; you might see them open the first page and read it, but before you can move an inch, they'll be on the second to last half of the page; I have a buddy who reads like that and knows everything in the book.
***Buys only for the pretty cover**; This group of people I'll refer to as "lookers" rather than "readers," because they are more interested in the book's gorgeous cover than the content it will convey to them, so they bought it mostly for the fancy design the author employed to entice them.
***Never completes ( But still buys more)**; This type of reader buys books to read but never finishes them before discarding them and buying another. They find it difficult to finish one book before moving on to the next, so they buy more to keep instead of reading them one at a time.
***The bookworm**; This group of people are true book readers; they buy books and enjoy reading them before moving on to the next. I consider myself to be one of these people because I enjoy reading intriguing books and finishing them rather than discarding them to buy another.
***The borrower**; This group of people borrows books to read, albeit I'll divide them into two groups: those who borrow books to read a preview of what the book is about without reading the complete context, and those who borrow books to read what the book is about.
***Lives in the library**; This group of people is typically found in libraries trying to read different books, page by page. They spend more time in libraries reading books to understand them and are rarely seen outdoors doing nothing.
***Takes forever to choose a book**; I consider myself to be in this category of readers as well, because I often find it difficult to choose books that I can read; it takes longer to find a book that is interesting because when I look at a preview of what it is, I may not be interested in it, so I'll keep looking; this group of people takes time to choose books.
**Quote of the day;Find your greatest path and stick to it; do things that satisfies you rather than others; we only have one life to live; let us live it the way we want it, not the way others want it.**
**In conclusion**.
Find the greatest way for you to read books, whether it's in a library or somewhere else; just make sure you're a good reader.
Reading is about gaining knowledge, so let's strive to read more in order to obtain more knowledge when we read.
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What phycological manipulation looks like.
Most of us may not be familiar with the term "**phycological manipulation** " so let me clarify what it means for those who are unfamiliar with it.
**Phycological manipulation is described as when a manipulative individual seeks to obtain control over another person by being dishonest and looking for ways to gain it from them.**
Phycological manipulation, often known as "**emotional manipulation** " is the practice of adopting tactics to gain control over others.
Let's have a look at physiological manipulation in action.
Making you feel guilty for speaking up or setting boundaries.
When you refuse to do what they say, they issue ultimatums or threaten you.
Using phrases like "**If you truly cared about me, you would** ".
Rentless in their pursuit of their goals without regard for the consequences.
Instead of taking blame for their actions, they make sure you take responsibility for your own.
These are examples of physiological manipulation in action; let me go over each one individually for a better understanding.
***1.Making you feel guilty for speaking up or setting boundaries***; They look for ways to control you and make sure they do, then make you feel guilty for any activities you take; such people are considered to manipulate our emotions.
***2.When you refuse to do what they say, they issue ultimatums or threaten you***; They threaten you if you don't do what they say, and they give us ultimatums; an example of an ultimatum is when a boy proposes to his girlfriend and says, "**Marry me or I'm gone**".
***3.Using phrases like "If you truly cared about me, you would "***; They use lines like "if you actually cared about me, you would____" to try to coerce us into activities we may not be interested in. Such sentences drive people up the wall and force them to do things they don't want to do, resulting in emotional manipulation.
***4.Rentless in their pursuit of their goals without regard for the consequences***; They make sure they get what they want at any cost, regardless of who gets hurt or the consequences; they set a goal that they want to reach and look for ways to achieve it, regardless of the consequences or the suffering it would cause the other person.
***5.Instead of getting blamed for their actions, they make sure you take responsibility for your own***; They try to avoid taking responsibility for their acts by making sure you take responsibility for yours. Instead of sorting out theirs, they find ways to transfer your duty on you and blame you for your actions without first working out their own.
**In conclusion.**
We must try to distance ourselves from those that manipulate us since they cause us more harm than good. They tend to influence our behavior by pressuring us to do things we don't want to do.
What good would it do us to have someone who manipulates our lives and wants to take control of it? They try to threaten us, which isn't a wise thing to do because it will negatively affect us.
How is everyone's weekend going? I hope you all had a wonderful weekend and spent it with your loved ones, as this is the only time we have with them. Feel free to share how your weekend went.
"**Avoir un merveilleux week-end**" is a French phrase meaning " **Have a great weekend**." I hope to see everyone tomorrow.
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What love looks like in action.
Love can be defined as a strong attachment to someone, but how do you believe it would manifest in action? Love is said to be blind, but is it as blind as people believe?
As they say, love can blind individuals; when two people love each other, they are unable to recognize each other's flaws. This occurs frequently in some relationships.
Without further ado, let me describe what love looks like in action.
It's vital to share your world with someone you love.
Committing to sorting out problems together.
Making decisions together.
Your ambitions and goals are both equally vital.
Learning and growing together.
Being consistent and reliable so you both feel secure in the relationship.
Love is something we do,how do we see it in action?
***1.It's vital to share your world with someone you love***; When you fall in love, you have the relief of being able to share your entire world with your spouse since you both have faith in each other.
***2.Committing to sorting out problems together***; In a relationship, you both agree to work through difficulties together since that is the point of having a partner; this is what love looks like in action; you would constantly attempt to help your spouse solve problems.
***3.Making decisions together***; Yes, in a relationship, both partners have a predisposition to make decisions that benefit them; this is love in action because they make decisions jointly rather than separately. Love bonds them together to become one and also makes them do things together.
***4.Your ambitions and goals are both equally vital***; That's right, in a relationship, each partner's objectives and ambitions are important to both of them because they are linked by love. They may share their goals with each other and assist each other reach them, which is love in action.
**5.Learning and growing together**; Both partners develop and learn together, and they share their knowledge because they are bound by love.
***6.Being consistent and reliable so you both feel secure in the relationship***; They make an effort to maintain good communication with their partners; building trust takes time, but it is well worth the wait to feel secure in a relationship.
Relationships don't happen overnight; it takes time to build trust between partners and secure the relationship.
I've seen relationships fall apart owing to a lack of trust between partners; to have a healthy, long-lasting relationship, we must build it ourselves and witness love in action.
**In conclusion.**
To be able to put love into action, we must be open to our spouse as they are our world, and we must build trust with them, which may take time but is well worth the wait.
When two people (male and female) fall in love, they are blinded by love, making them unable to recognize their partner's imperfections and seeing them as a perfect person.
To put love into action, we must always stick by our spouse and strive to understand and listen to them, especially when they are going through difficult moments.
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How to recover from emotional abuse.
Let's define emotional abuse. We can define emotional abuse as verbal abuse, such as insulting, rejecting, and so on.
When it happens from someone we love and care about, emotional abuse may be extremely painful, and witnessing them reject and criticize us can trigger emotional collapse.
Let's look at how to recover from emotional abuse. It's difficult, but I'm confident that the things I'm about to write will help someone who is suffering from emotional abuse.
Make yourself a priority.
Don't blame yourself.
Take care of your needs.
Set boundaries.
Try not to change the abusers.
Stay away from abusers.
Let's look at them one by one so we can have a better idea of how each of them can assist us in recovering from emotional abuse.
1. ***Make yourself a priority***; Making yourself a priority is one helpful thing that anyone suffering through emotional abuse can do to help themselves. They must set aside time for themselves and concentrate on their goals in order to overcome emotional abuse.
2. ***Don't blame yourself***; When you are experiencing emotional abuse, try not to blame yourself; instead, say positive things to yourself so that you can recover. Positive thinking goes a long way in recovering from emotional abuse.
3. ***Take care of your needs***; Take care of your needs and give yourself more time to reflect on your life, as well as the things that make you happy, in order to recover from emotional abuse.
4. ***Set appropriate boundaries***; Set boundaries between yourself and the abusers so you can heal from emotional abuse and avoid putting yourself in their position again. Simply be yourself and establish a boundary between you and them.
5. ***Try not to change the abusers***; Don't alter or change your abusers since their bad remarks will bring more harm to us; instead, isolate yourself from them and talk positive things to yourself; this is the greatest approach to heal from emotional abuse.
6. ***Stay away from abusers***; We should strive to give them space and stay away from them because they are not helpful to us and instead insult us and cause us emotional distress.
The mouth has tremendous power, and the words it utters can either motivate or depress us. Let us attempt to avoid abusers because they cause us more harm than good.
Give yourself the help you require and focus on your top priorities. When you're dealing with emotional abuse, stay away from the abusers because all they do is belittle and reject your sentiments.
**Let's know our worth so we wouldn't discount ourselves for other's, knowing our worth also applies so we wouldn't go through emotional abuse from others.**
**Emotional abuse can come from a variety of sources, including friends, siblings, relatives, and the entire family. We simply need to be cautious whenever we come across these individuals, be aware of their movements, and stay away from them** **so they do not do us emotional harm.**
**In conclusion.**
Allow yourself time to mend if you are experiencing emotional abuse; it is not advisable to continue such a relationship with them because they only say bad things that cause us emotional discomfort.
They prefer to blame you for the difficulties you have, which makes you feel unhappy and emotionally down. Emotional abuse can take various forms, including jealously, insulting, rejecting, and accusing.
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What makes argument worse?
Disagreements occur when two parties disagree on a topic; most arguments are the result of minor misunderstandings between two persons.
Let's take a look at what can make argument worse;
Using the other person's past against them.
Using generalized words e.g always,never.
Using silent treatment or guilt tripping.
Focusing on unrelated issues and comparing.
Using the person's insecurities against them.
**1.Using the other person's past against them**; When two individuals have a minor misunderstanding, they frequently use each other's past against one other, which is not appropriate; such friendships will lose trust if you both bring up your past to settle a quarrel.
**2.Using generalized words e.g Always,never**; These two words (always,never) have a lot of power. As we all know, the words we speak have a lot of power, so we need to be careful what we say during misunderstandings and in life in general.
**3.Using silent treatment or guilt tripping**; For those unfamiliar with the term "guilt tripping," it simply refers to the act of making others feel guilty without accepting responsibility for any mistakes you've made.
**4.Focusing on unrelated issues and comparing**; Most times during any argument the two parties focus's on unrelated issues which makes arguments grow worse and can't be handled amicably.
**5.Using the person's insecurities against them**; During a disagreement, one party may want to use the other's insecurity, which is similar to exploiting someone's weakness. During a battle, which would exacerbate the conflict.
Let's look at how to conduct a courteous argument now that we've looked at what might make disputes worse.
Listen to the other person without interrupting.
Seek to understand and solve,not win or be right.
Validate the person feelings and viewpoints.
Keep your focus on the subject at hand and employ the I statement.
**1.Listen to the other person without interrupting**; During a dispute, we should strive to listen to each other's appeals as much as possible without interrupting each other; there should be space for each other to speak so that the situation can be resolved amicably.
**2.Seek to understand and solve,not win or be right**; We must endeavor to understand and resolve misunderstandings inside ourselves in order to resolve them in a courteous manner; we must not strive to win in any dispute, but rather to understand each other and recognize the errors that lead to the misunderstanding.
**3.Validate the person feelings and viewpoints**; Examine each other's perspectives and feelings in order to have a calm and amicable disagreement.
**4.Keep your focus on the subject at hand and employ the I statement**;In any argument, we should aim to keep our attention on the issues that lead to the disagreement between the two sides and also use the "I" statement to maintain a courteous tone.
**In conclusion.**
We should not attempt to win in any disagreement, but rather to identify the flaws that led to the misunderstanding and correct them. Disputes can be resolved amicably if we listen to each other's mistakes and give each other the opportunity to express ourselves.
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Love yourself enough to?
Many individuals love others more than themselves, which is incorrect; we should love others the same way we love ourselves, not more.
Let me get right to the subject, without any equivocation or further ado.
There are a number of things we must love ourselves enough to do, and I'll offer you a list of them.
Cut of people that drag you down.
Be the better version of yourself.
Believe you deserve all the good things.
Realize your potential and keep growing.
Allow yourself to get enough rest.
Feed your body with healthy food.
**1.Cut of people that drag you down**; Everyone in our lives serves a purpose; they are either there to help us complete our plans or to derail our plans; they are either there to say positive things to encourage us or negative things to discourage us from pursuing our goals. It is important for us to be aware of the types of friends we keep; friends have a significant influence on us in many ways, so we must be careful who we associate with.
**2.Be the better version of yourself**; Instead of comparing ourselves to others, we should strive to be better than we were before, to improve and to work on ourselves to become better than we were.
**3.Believe you deserve all the good things**; Aim for the best because you deserve the nice things that are waiting for you; what's holding you back? Strive harder to get the nice things you desire, and believe that your hard work and patience will pay off.
**4.Realize your potential and keep growing**; Define your goals and strive toward them; never accept defeat when failure occurs; instead, embrace your loss and learn from it in order to improve; enjoy your victories and continue to progress.
**5.Allow yourself to get enough rest**; Make a good schedule for your daily task and give yourself some rest also, don't overstress yourself between tasks, whenever you feel tired rest and make sure not to spend too much time on a task you are to complete.
**6.Feed yourself with healthy foods**; Eat foods that are high in carbohydrates, protein, and other nutrients that nourish our bodies and keep us going; create a daily food schedule that includes carbohydrates and protein; and don't stick to just one food.
Love yourself enough to make yourself happy and to hold no grudges against yourself; make yourself joyful and comfortable all of the time without allowing others to ruin your mood.
Friends are supposed to help each other grow up, not the other way around, and friends should be happy for their friends achievement rather than envious of their advancement.
**In conclusion.**
Love yourself enough to be able to resist problems that come our way since they are there to test us and push us to new heights. Hope for the best and see things work out for your good.
Love yourself enough to aspire to be better than you were yesterday and to grow in whatever we do. Strive to be better and cherish every small step forward.
The holiday is over today, and everyone will resume their tasks tomorrow. Let's get ready for a fantastic week this week, as this is a new month to be productive, so let's make it fruitful by properly utilizing our time.
"**jusqu'à ce que nous nous revoyions**"(French) which in English simply means "**Till we meet again**" I'm slowly learning French.
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Five hobbies we need right now.
We all have different hobbies that we do for fun or in our spare time, but I'm not going to get into that because there are some hobbies that we all share.
Let me discuss the ones that we all require at this time; our requirements may change as we grow older, but we continue to require them.
To make money.
To keep you in shape.
To keep you creative.
To build your knowledge.
To grow your mindset.
**1.To make money**; Yes, you read that correctly. It's also a hobby for everyone to be wealthy and respected; we battle every day to make ends meet and fulfill our responsibilities as men and women; money is also a hobby if you don't know it; we strive every day to obtain it and fulfill our innermost wants.
**2.To keep you in shape**; Many of us desire to keep our bodies in good shape by doing things like jogging, going to the gym, and so on. Keeping our bodies in good form is also a hobby; we all need to keep our bodies active, and a 30-minute jog is a fantastic exercise to do so.
**3.To keep you creative**; Most of us can make drawings during our leisure or find something that makes us creative like doing experiment and findings just to keep ourselves busy. We all need something to keep ourselves busy.
**4.To build your knowledge**; Building knowledge is also a part of our interest because no one is perfect, thus we conduct research every day to obtain information and stay informed about what is going on in the world.
**5.To grow your mindset**; Growing our mindset is also a hobby that we all need right now; we need to build our mindset to learn and become intelligent, and we need to improve our mindset so that we don't believe our intellect has a limit.
We all need money right or who doesn't need money,hands in the air? No hands then we need money but we shouldn't be in a haste to make money, let's take things easy and hope for the best to come forth.
I would choose money and maintaining myself in excellent form from the list. I have a rationale for choosing both for the money since I need it to sort out some things that are needed, and for the physical portion because I want to balance my body.
What's yours?drop your suggestions in the comment section, let's hear your thoughts.
**In conclusion.**
One of the hobbies I stated above is required of us in some way, whether it is to balance our bodies and keep them in excellent health, or to seek knowledge and be clever.
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Frugal vs cheap.
In this world, there are two types of people who have various ways of accomplishing things, such as spending money and so on.
Let's take a look at the two types of people we have without further ado;
**Frugal**
Care about value.
Spend money wisely.
Focus on long term value.
**Cheap**
Care about price.
Unwilling to spend money.
Focus on short term cost.
Let me break them down for you one by one for a better understanding; I'll start with the frugal kind of people.
**Frugal**.
**Care about value**:Yes, they worry about the value of things without pricing them because they focus on the long term value of things rather than the short term value of things, thus they spend more money to get valuable items that will last.
**Spend money wisely**:Yes, they spend money wisely by purchasing items that will endure rather than items that are cheap and will not last long, therefore they are more likely to spend money wisely than those who are cheap.
**Focus on long term value**:Yes, they consider the long-term value of the items they buy rather than the short-term value that won't last long and will cause them to spend more money.
**Cheap**.
**Care about price**:They are more concerned with the price of an item than with its value, which make them to spend more than they intended because they are looking for inexpensive items that will not last long.
**Unwilling to spend money**:This is related to the previous point; they prefer to cut corners in order to acquire products that are less expensive, but they never take the time to consider the value they will receive.
**Focus on short term cost**:Their focus is on buying low-cost items that won't last long since they only need anything to serve them for a short time; they never realize they need to focus on long-term value so they don't have to pay additional money to replace what they already have.
This two types of people can be seen on a daily basis. I have a friend who is a cheapskate; he buys low-cost items without considering their long-term value. E.g He bought a $4 cloth and didn't look at the quality, so after a few days of wearing it, the cloth started fading off and he wasn't happy with it, so he had to buy another one, which was a waste of money. He should have bought the quality one, which was $7, but now he had to buy the quality one after wasting money on the cheap one.
When buying items, try to think about the quality and long-term value so we don't have to spend money on a specific item we've already purchased, which would mean spending more money; instead, it's ideal to buy a quality item that will last for a long time and save us money.
Choose which of the two categories you belong to and tell me in the comments area; I'd love to hear from you.
**In conclusion.**
Spend money wisely because money is hard to get. It's great to choose frugal people because they spend money wisely to buy goods that will endure for a long time rather than a short time, allowing them to save and plan ahead.
Hopefully, you will pick the type of person you want to be. Don't be like the cheap individuals who spend more money on cheap things that won't last long; instead, choose to be like the frugal people who value quality over quantity.
Let me take this opportunity to wish you all a happy new month. Time flies so quickly that i can't believe we're already in a new month. Maybe I didn't keep track of time, but this month flew by. I hope you all a fantastic new month filled with good news.
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Six (6) categories of toxic people.
A toxic person is someone who through their actions causes negativity into people's life, they use negativity to act in ways that would affect others.
Let's take a look at the six (6) categories of toxic people.
The energy drainer.
The Fake complimentor.
The Pessimist.
The Criticizer.
The manipulator.
The victim.
****Let me make a brief explanation to the following.****
**1.The Energy drainer**;These toxic individuals have a tendency to make people feel uneasy, can put you down for no reason, and exhibit no joy for others' achievement or prosperity.
They have a tendency to take little pleasure in other people's success, which means they are unhappy anytime they watch their friends succeed.
**2.The Fake complimentor**;These toxic people are prone to offering phony compliments to their pals, lack empathy for others, and are easily frustrated.
They put you in uncomfortable situations which might be unpleasing to their pals.
**3.The pessimist**;They talk down to their friends to make themselves feel better, and they say hurtful things to make their friends feel uncomfortable.
They are solely concerned with themselves and are unconcerned about their pals; they talk negative things about their friends' dreams in order to demotivate them.
Toxic friends do more harm to us by saying things which are unpleasant to hear and make us feel unhappy.
**4.The Criticizer**;They don't back their friends in any decisions constantly made, and they criticize everything they do.
They make you believe that you can't make any money while making the greatest decisions for yourself.
**5.The manipulator**;Toxic people make decisions for their friends and continually act like you and other people in their surroundings.
They also want to use others to influence decisions for themselves and others.
**6.The victim**;They blame others for their misfortune/catastrophe and speak negatively about their pals to demotivate them.
They make excuses for their own failures while blaming their pals for their misfortunes; we simply need to avoid them because they are toxic and have nothing to offer than negative things.
Toxic people would cause us more pain and leave us with nothing; it is essential to avoid them at all costs so that they do not wreck our lives.
Friends are supposed to be supportive of one another in times of need and to motivate one another by not speaking negative things to one another and making them feel like nothing they do would turn out well.
Avoid toxic people since they just serve to make us feel uncomfortable and to say bad things that will harm us.
We gain nothing from toxic companions, thus it's better to be alone than to have friends who constantly criticize us.
****In conclusion.****
Know what kind of friends you maintain; most friends are there to harm us and make us feel like we have nothing to give; they say hurtful things to make us feel uncomfortable.
It's best to avoid toxic friends who make us feel uncomfortable and say hurtful things to us, as this isn't healthy.
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Things you don't have to do.
Our reactions to others are quite significant; the way we respond to other people's complaints or situations is crucial in a person's life since it will help them remain calm at that particular time.
Reactions to people's situations when they come to us with a complaint are very important in their lives if the comment we make is a good one.
Let's take a look at five (5) things we don't have to do;
React to every comments/situation.
Hold grudges.
Change yourself to please others.
Stay perfect 24/7.
Solve everyone's problem.
**1.React to every comments/situation.**
When people come to us for help, our reaction is important because the words we say at that time can add to their pain and cause them harm. When someone comes to us with a problem, the best thing we can do is listen carefully before making any comments so we don't add to their problems.
The words we use have a big impact on people's lives; the word is a powerful weapon that may both injure and calm people, so let's strive to use it correctly so we don't add to their troubles.
**2.Hold grudges.**
Grudges should not be held for extended periods of time; someone may have offended us in the past for anything they did that was unpleasant to us; instead, we should let our minds wander and forget about what happened in the past or present.
Someone may have wronged you in the past, causing you to be angry, but let's relax and not carry grudges; it's pointless to hold grudges.
**3.Change yourself to please others.**
We should not modify ourselves in order to please others; instead, we should stay true to ourselves and live our lives as we see fit; it is our life, not theirs, so don't waste it trying to please them.
Instead of living your life to impress those who may someday reject you, be yourself and be true to yourself..f..
**4.Stay perfect 24/7.**
What comes to mind when you hear the phrase "stay perfect"? It has a lot of different meanings, but let me explain the one I'm talking about.
Nobody is perfect, so staying perfect means striving to be the best we can be, even if we aren't. We just need to stay perfect and do our best to live our lives the way we want.
**5.Solve everyone's problem.**
**(We can't cure everyone's problem, but we can always be there for someone),** you may read it again to grasp the statement, we can't be there for everyone, but we can always be there for someone.
We don't have to force ourselves to be there for everyone, but we can try our hardest to be there for someone. It's impossible to solve every problem that arises, so the least we can do is solve the ones that we can.
**In conclusion.**
When individuals come to us for help, we should be careful about the comments we make since they can either exacerbate or alleviate their difficulties.
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This or that questions;My version.
I was going through my WhatsApp status today when I came across a post that caught my eye. It was a series of questions, and I'd like to respond to them here.
These are the questions I'd want to respond to; feel free to share your thoughts.
Money or First class.
Money or love.
Science or Art.
Leader or follower.
Salary or hourly.
No company or bad company.
See the future or travel back in time to correct your mistakes.
**1.Money or first class.**
Choosing between these two can be extremely difficult for someone who is in desperate need of cash. If I had the opportunity to choose between money and a first class degree in my course, I would not hesitate to choose the first class degree, which may result in the school rewarding me, but I would not rely on it. Having a first class degree is one of the things I have been pursuing, so if I had the opportunity to choose, I wouldn't think twice about choosing first class over money.
Although most people would choose to fly first class over money as they may be in desperate need of cash when they hear the amount they would be given.
**2.Money or love.**
If I had to choose between the two, I would choose love. Some people believe that money can buy love, but this is not the case. Let us look at the definition of love.
Love is a deep affection for someone.
Money can't buy everything in the world; let's say it can buy 90% of things, but it can't buy love. Most wealthy people fall into the clutches of gold diggers who are just interested in spending their money and providing them with fake love, which they will abandon when the money runs out.
**3.Science or Art.**
I enjoy conducting research and all of the other activities that make us fall in love with science. I enjoy mixing chemicals together to see how they react. This reminds me of a practical we did in secondary school where we turned blue litmus paper red and red litmus paper blue.
**4.Leader or Follower.**
Being a leader is one thing, but being a follower is another. I think I'd prefer to be a leader for a change; I've been following people for so long that I believe I can now stand and direct them as well. However, a leader must possess a wide range of qualities in order to lead his followers in the right direction.
**5.Salary or hourly.**
Working and being paid hourly would be preferable to people who can't wait for the month to end so they can sort out their bills; I'd also love to be paid hourly and not monthly so I don't have to wait for 30 days.
Though getting paid monthly as salary is also good but most people can't wait long to collect their salary so they can sort out the bills they have.
**6.No company or bad company.**
I'd rather be alone than have a bad company of people who do things that are unacceptable. It's better to be alone than have friends who do dirty things like drinking or smoking since they will try to draw us into the act if we follow them, so it's preferable we be alone.
Having a lousy group of friends wouldn't help me; I'd rather be alone with no friends than have people I can't take out with me or who will most likely try to get me to do things I don't want to do.
**7.See the future or travel back in time to correct your mistakes.**
This question appears to be a little difficult for me to answer; I'd like to go back in time to correct those mistakes I've made in life, then return to my current position; seeing the future is also a nice thing, but correcting the mistakes we've made in the past is something we all want to do.
**In conclusion.**
`Choose what is best for you rather than following others; remember that what works for one person may not work for another, so think twice before making a decision.`
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Risk it for the biscuit.
"**Risk it for the Biscuit**" is a great phrase, isn't it?
While searching YouTube for some odd films, I came across a video titled "Top 10 Prison Escape Fails."
It was amusing, and at the same time, it served as a lesson to the prisoners who had escaped because they were eventually apprehended.
I believe the main video was of the inmate who escaped through the garage window while the officers were distracted by other inmates. He escaped and ran into the woods, but he was apprehended a few days later thanks to an anonymous tip to the police.
The inmate was being sentenced to a different ten years in jail, and it appears that he will regret it for the rest of his life.
The most recent video was about two inmates who escaped through a ventilation hole in their jail cell. The funny thing was that they recorded their escape on camera, and when they got out of the prison, a bus was waiting for them outside with new clothes, so I guess their escape plan worked out.
They were apprehended after 48 hours in an abandoned apartment within the jail's housing; yet, if they were wise, they would not have stayed so close to the prison.
So, at the end of the film, the announcer stated something that caught my eye: "I assume it had been A Game Of Risk It For The Biscuit".
To be honest, the phrase "risk it for the Biscuit" appeals to me, so that's where I got this idea, and I'd want to discuss my own version of it.
****TAKE A CHANCE ON THE BISCUIT****
Life is all about taking chances; don't be afraid to take them because if you don't, you won't be able to earn the prize...
Most of the time, the greatest risk is you not taking any risk. I understand that most risks appear to be more dangerous than they appear, but who knows if that will be a stepping stone for you???
We only live once, and no one ever comes back, and we never know who will be the next to go... it could be anyone, so this is often the only chance to take a risk, so don't take any silly risk.
Consider selling your house to see if chance is on your side, and don't misunderstand frivolous activities as risk.
That's not a risk; it's a foolish decision... the majority of human history's achievements have come from people who were willing to take risks in order to achieve their objectives; these people see past their limitations and remain optimistic about it.
You don't have to worry about the outcome if it doesn't work out because you're still alive and breathing, so you have the opportunity to try again, and if you keep taking such risks, you'll be in a much better position.
Who knows what kind of risk Elon Musk took to get to where he is now; no one would have heard of him if he hadn't been ready to take the danger life threw at him.
Don't let obstacles limit you; instead, view them as a challenge. If you stay positive, you'll lose a lot of times before you win, and when you do, you'll realize that all your losses were sacrifice.
**In conclusion.**
Remember that each time you fail, you are one step closer to success because you would have learned from your prior errors.
Put your risk on a scale and make sure it's not higher than the other side; be willing to take chances; who knows, you might come out on top.
The wealthy people we see today took risks to get to where they are now, and they made sacrifices along the way, one of which paid off and helped them become who they are today.
We must take chances in order to achieve our goals, but try not to accept 100 percent of the risk; you may make the risk 70/30 and not feel it; risk what you can afford to lose.
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Do you believe that cryptocurrency will pose a threat to global financial system?
To be honest, I am still surprised that some people alongside the government still regard cryptocurrency as a threat to their country and financial system.
With more retailers accepting cryptocurrencies as a payment method, cryptocurrency is on its way to becoming the default payment method worldwide.
Governments fear that crypto will take away their authority over us and give us the freedom we deserve; they perceive crypto as a threat to their financial system because they will lose control over us; nevertheless, the truth is that crypto will expand and governments will be compelled to accept it.
"**Satoshi nakamoto**" created Bitcoin, the world's first cryptocurrency, but BTC didn't follow the roadmap as it was hijacked by blockstream. BCH is the true Bitcoin, describing the vision of the actual Bitcoin in terms of P2P transactions, cheap transaction costs, and secure payment.
****Freedom****.
Speaking of freedom, cryptocurrency has provided its users with the freedom they deserve; we no longer need a third party to govern our money; we are our own bank and have complete control over it.
Governments fear cryptocurrencies because they know they won't be able to control us, but the truth is that cryptocurrency will continue to develop and more merchants will accept it, forcing the government to make it a default payment option.
Because of the rapid development of acceptance, cryptocurrency holders will be able to spend their cryptocurrency in any store and pay their employees with it in the coming years.
****Bitcoin cash the sound money.****
The value of Bitcoin cash and its characteristics is immense and cannot be overstated, Let's have a look at the advantages it provides;
Instant payment.
Safe and secure payment method.
Low transaction fees.
There is no need to go through the KYC process.
P2P transaction.
With all of the benefits it provides, governments would be obliged to adopt it as a standard payment mechanism that can be used on a daily basis.
Bitcoin cash is here to give us the freedom we've been yearning for. In the coming years, Bitcoin cash will be accepted worldwide, and holders will no longer have to go through the process of converting their BCH to fiat because they'll be able to use it directly from their wallet.
**In conclusion.**
The government sees cryptocurrency as a threat/danger because it gives us the freedom we want while also removing their ability to regulate and monitor our accounts.
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