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Take command of your life

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Hello dear virtual friends, how are you today? One of my favorite topics I like to write about is modern psychology. Over thirty books I have read and attending seminars entitles me to write freely on the subject.

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The articles I have written so far on this topic are:

Unleash your potential / Oslobodite svoj potencijal

Miraculous phenomena called sleep / Cudotvorne pojave zvane san

The power of positive thoughts / Moc pozitivnih misli - Part 1

The power of positive thoughts / Moc pozitivnih misli - Part 2

The power of positive thoughts / Moc pozitivnih misli - Part 3

If you haven’t read them by now, it would be nice to read them and leave your comment.

Today I will write how to take command of our lives.

  1. The biggest problems or sources of negativity you have in your life today. How are you responsible for such a situation?

  2. Think of yourself as the president of the company. How would you react differently if you owned 100% of the shares?

  3. Decide today to stop blaming others for anything and instead accept full responsibility in all areas of your life. What should you do?

  4. Stop looking for answers and start making progress.

  5. View yourself as the primary creative force in your life.

  6. Decide today to forgive everyone who has ever hurt you in any way. Get rid of it. Refuse any further discussion in this regard. Instead, focus on doing what's important to you, so you don't have time to think about it again.

Many people are still angry at their parents for not doing or doing something for them. They are trapped by the past and cannot tear themselves away from it.

Your biggest enemy is a negative emotion that hinders you, tires you, takes away all the joy of life. Be in yourself self-pity, envy, jealousy and anger. When you remove them from your thinking, your negative emotions will automatically disappear. Then you will be governed by love, serenity, joy and enthusiasm and your whole life will change for the better.

Stop making excuses

For some reason, people are constantly explaining and elaborating the reasons for their negative feelings. However, if you can’t justify your negativities you can’t even be human.

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Refuse to rationalize and find excuses

Rationalization and justification always require you to declare someone or something else the source or cause of your problem. You assign yourself the role of a victim while making another person a “villain”.

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Rise above the opinion of others

Psychologists say, "Everything we do we do to earn the respect of other people or to avoid that respect."

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Responsibility as an antidote

Responsibility nullifies negative emotions. When you get rid of negative emotions and take full responsibility then you reach the goal.

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Stop blaming others

"No one can make you feel less valuable if you don't agree to it."

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Control your emotions

Whenever you complain or criticize others, you evoke feelings of negativity, anger and rage. Then you are the one who suffers. Being angry at someone means allowing them to control your emotions and thus the quality of your life. Positive emotions such as love, enthusiasm and happiness contribute to being STRONGER. You choose, you decide!

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Develop a government strategy

You are responsible for personal strategic planning:

  • setting goals

  • making plans

  • realization of measures

  • work on achieving results

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Take the helm of your own life

Orient yourself towards the future and think about what you want and where you want to go. Above all, you think about your goals.

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Determine the place of your control

People with an internal place of control feel they are in complete control of their lives. With the right place of control, others control them.

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Golden triangle

The three elements go in a package of responsibility, control and happiness.

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It's in your hands. You have unlimited potentials, and it is only your responsibility to create your future. I wish you a nice rest of the day. @Jigglyspy

If you haven't read my new articles here are links to them:

Digital Euro / Digitalni Euro

A man with a big heart / Covek velikog srca

Breastfeeding - good for the baby but also for mom / Dojenje - dobro za bebu ali i za mamu

Unleash your potential / Oslobodite svoj potencijal

Her Majesty Milena Dravic / Njeno velicanstvo Milena Dravic

Miraculous phenomena called sleep / Cudotvorne pojave zvane san

Nikola Tesla settlement

One of the greatest people to ever walk the earth

A British lady who loved Serbia / Britanska dama koja je volela Srbiju

A voice that is not forgotten / Glas koji se ne zaboravlja

Naughty tricksters / Nestasni foliranti

Nikola Tesla on women / Nikola Tesla o zenama

Football legend of Eastern Serbia / Fudbalska legenda Istocne Srbije

Stop human trafficking

It's sleeping time ☺️ / Vreme je za spavanje ☺️

Be as humane as Serbia in 1885

Volunteer of the Serbian Red Cross / Volonter Crvenog krsta Srbije

Investing in cryptocurrencies / Invesitranje u kriptovalute

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Comments

Thank you for writing this. ♥️ You are the captain of your own ship. You must also learn how to positively deal with things and problems in life for you to grow.

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1 year ago

Thank you for reading my articles. I completely agree with you, Captain :-)

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1 year ago

Welcome. I really love reading psychology related articles. Keep on writing great articles! :)

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1 year ago

You write great articles on a psychological basis ... I used to think that we create our own destiny, but after some life events, I am sure that luck plays a big role in our lives!

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1 year ago

Happiness, and how we treat life and ourselves. If we believe that something will happen and we invoke those things, they will really happen, and everything that happens always happens for a reason. Whether good or bad, it is already a matter of observation. Both good and bad things are good for us. Bad to warn us that something is not for us, we will learn from them properly, and good as a reward for our good deed. Thanks for the nice comment, I really appreciate your opinion. There will be more articles on modern psychology, only for them I need a little more time, and at the moment I am very short with time :)

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1 year ago

Definitivno treba vežbati emocionalnu inteligenciju. Ukoliko je neko uzbuđen i sklon povišenom tonu, treba smiriti situaciju, ali se i pozvati na manire i da ta osoba tako postupi...

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1 year ago

Ko tebe kamenom ti njega hlebom... :)

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1 year ago

Svidža mi se kako pišeš. Opasno dobar post

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1 year ago

Bas mi je drago da ti se dopada :) Ima tu jos svacega sto cu napisati, a imas i napisano pa prosaraj malo kada ti vreme dozvoli :)

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1 year ago

koliko je to moguce ne zavisi na zalost samo od nas, samo je pitanje da li cemo imati manje ili vise srece da nas situacija pogura u pozitivnom smeru

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1 year ago

Nece nas situacija pogurati, mi moramo proceniti kada treba da mi poguramo nju :)

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1 year ago

definitivno zavisi i od naseprocene

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1 year ago

Ja sve mogu al nemogu da precutim na neku nepravdu i ponekad izbrzam al posle se kajem al kasno je , inace ne dozvoljavam da neko komanduje samnom nit ja nekome hocu da komandujem nit neko meni , moze da mi kaze svoje misljenje al na meni je dal cu da ga prihvatim ili ne, ciljeve imam i idem na tome da ih ostvarujem polako al sigurno.

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1 year ago

Samo sledi svoje zacrtane ciljeve. Imas ovde kod mene na blogu clanak koji se zove Moc pozitivnih misli, po meni su sva tri dela koje sam napisala dobra i korisna, ali bas treci deo govori o ciljevima. Eto cisto malo prosvrljaj, kada budes imao vremena :)

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1 year ago

Preuzela bih ja lako da mi drugi ne komanduje!

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1 year ago

Ne daj se Snezo :) Ne dozvoli da drugi upravljaju tvojim zivotom :)

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1 year ago

Kasno.

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