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Struggles Of Cesarean Section(CS) Moms! Some ignorant people keep mumbling that a woman who undergo Cesarean Section in giving birth are just exaggerating and does not want to have normal delivery to make themselves still fresh or does not want to experience pain of labour especially if it was scheduled Cesarean Section.
I experienced being tagged as “maarte, nag-iinarte” just because I agreed to my OB that I'll undergo CS. Someone said, I can give birth normally even if it was in breech position if I have the courage and be brave, that someone asked me “Can you do it?” I replied “I don't know, this is my first time giving birth and I am not in the situation yet, so how will I know if I can make it or not?” from that they treated me coldly. Like wtf? Should I oppose my OB?
During 3-6 months of my pregnancy my baby's position in my belly is cephalic, which means it is well positioned to have a normal delivery but when it reach 7 months my ultrasound change from cephalic to breech. My OB said that if the position will not change when it reach 9 months I will have to undergo CS operation to deliver the baby. We don't want CS, because my partner that time doesn't have a job yet. CS is costly and I don't want to endure the pain of the scar for the rest of my life. But sadly the baby didn't change position what's worst is that it is facing my back, we didn't even know her gender at first because in the ultrasound they can see her ass lol. Struggles of CS Moms for the rest of our lives Having scar for the rest of our life is something we didn't want to but we don't have any choice just to gave birth to the baby safely. What's more than having a scar is the pain we will go through. When the weather is cold our scar sometimes are aching, if there's a lightning or thunder it also ache. I don't know what's the scientific explanation that how come it is related to our scar. How come it is aching when there is lightning or thunder? Ughhh I don't know. We can't lift heavy things, we can lift slowly by slowly not so heavy stuff because if we force our force the scar inside will give us pain. We can't stand for longer period because if we stand for longer hours our scar will also ache. What's more terrifying is that once you are already Cesarian section on the first time giving birth the probability of giving birth next time will also be CS and not normal not unless the last child is already old enough but still it varies on the situation if a woman's pregnancy is risky or not. Are we maarti? Of course not, we don't want scar..as much as possible mom's likes to go normal delivery, once you are being operated it seems your life span has been shorten (well this is just my beliefs) unlike those who undergo normal delivery. Aside from that CS is costly than normal delivery, a practical woman who doesn't like to spend a lot doesn't want that. CS gives more doctor's fee than the normal delivery that is why it is more costly as they've done operation while in normal delivery they'll just assist the pregnant mothers and help them to release the baby. Plus I like going gym, I can't lift heavy barbells anymore since I became a mom because I've undergone cesarean section. I can't force myself to lift heavy stuff anymore because every time I do so my scar will ache reminding me not too lift. I remember way back on my in-laws house I have to put water manually on our washing machine because the water pressure is too slow.. after doing the laundry if feels like I am battered and my cs scar keeps aching. Being a CS mom is not being maarti it's just a way of giving birth safely both mother and child. Our cap of giving birth to a child is maxed to 3 only, maybe because that's our capacity of bearing pain or undergoing operation. P.S this blog has been on my drafts since last year, I just don't know why I just had the mood to finish and publish this now XD.
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Hats off to them. I have seen my sister. See needs to be more careful and forbidden to take heavy things. But still she does. Brave women are everywhere and they are not giving up.
Yep, CS moms are forbidden to lift heavy things.. we can do it slowly by slowly not in one go.
That's true sis struggle talaga. Lalo pagka malamig panahon. Masakit pa sa.likod at balakang kapag nakatayo. Tapos parang grounded ang tahi kapag may kidlat. Pati paglalaba subra hirap kasi di maiwasan na mag buhat kasi mabagal ang tubig. Ayoko talaga e CS. Kaso di ko mailabas ang baby ko gawa ng di open cervix ko. Napagalitan pa ko ng Ob ko kasi sabi ko magtatanong muna ko sa parents ko kung pwede e Cs kasi ayaw ko talaga. Pero sabi, mawawalan ako ng anak kapag di pa ni CS agad kasi inorasan na ko eh. Kaya ayun, nung nailabas baby ko, may lagnat na siya kasi naimpeksyon sa loob. 🤧 Inere ere ko pa yun nagbabaka sakali na mailabas ko siya. Kaso ayaw talaga.
Ako scheduled cs ako sis eh, ayoko na suwayin yung OB ko since di ko talaga alam pano mag ere yung ulo nang anak ko nasa sikmura ko 🤦 grabi nga iyak at dasal ko na sana magbago nang posisyon kasi ayoko rin talaga ma cs pero di nangyari kaya tinanggap ko na lang na cs talaga. Grabi struggles natin noh tas sasabihan p tayo maarti, sila kaya katayin 🤣
True yan sis. Alam mo ba, dati kapag may kilala ako na nag deliver ng normal, naiingit ako kasi ano yung feeling na nailabas mo talaga. Pero natuto ako na di pala dapat mainggit kasi mas mahirap ang sa CS. Di naman sa pag iinarte eh, iba iba kasi ang experiences ng panganganak talaga. Good for them na normal sila. :( di tayo maarte, sadyang inisip lang natin anak natin.
Ako din sis yung malapit na ako manganak..naiinggit din ako sa mga normal na sana ganon din ako pero wala eh, di talaga natin hawak ang situation. Yun nga importante safe tayo at ang bata.
In third-world countries, such as India, Bangladesh, etc., many a time (many) the doctors deliberately go for caesarian operations for baby deliveries. Because the doctors want to make money, they do a little bit of caesarian operation even in normal conditions just to charge more bills!
Yeah, it became rampant on our country too since we are also third world.. so they can charge more doctor's fee 🤣
It was our third attempt after my better half had three miscarriages in a city near Delhi (India). When we got a baby under normal delivery, most of our family members, friends, and colleagues were surprised. The miracle was that the doctor owner of the nursing home, an aged lady of 72 years, was not greedy. So, the lady doctor instructed the nurses to try for normal delivery.
Oh, there are still doctors who are passionate with their job and does not want to milk money to all patient..
The doctor once visited our home when the baby was two months old to check if the baby was fine. When I took out my wallet to pay her fees, she refused! Her nursing home was one of the biggest in the city. I never came through a doctor like her.
Well, I don’t think those people understand the risks involved (both for the mother and baby)with opting for normal delivery even when CS seems to be the best option. If they did, they won’t say those things they say or act they way they do. All I can say is, you are strong and that is all that matters. Btw, Happy International women’s day.
Yeah they don't see the risk, they only think we're just exaggerating.. Thank you so much for the greetings ☺️
Most of the female goes for the normal delivery but when the case become complex they have to experience operation that has long time effects
Yeah the effects are lifetime unlike normal delivery.
I laugh at the part where you weren't able to identify your baby's gender first because they saw the ass😅😆 Anyway, I think that undergoing CS doesn't mean maarti. It's just that you can't force a normal delivery to someone who's in a situation where they got no choice but to do CS due to health reasons and all. It really takes courage to carry and deliver a child into this world. Salute all the moms and women out there, including you of course dear author. Happy International Women's Day! 😊
Thank you so much! Yes, they can see her ass on the ultrasound haha. Agree especially when the personal OB of pregnant woman will say that they'll gonna do CS you can't do anything but to follow just to sure safety delivery.
Good to know that you had a safe delivery, it's just sad that you can't be able to lift weights anymore as you said so.
I'm a man but many say that a woman's difficulty is giving birth because it is the most feared thing because childbirth is why I always respect women for this reason. may you be able to give birth in the right way and action and keep praying friends that you will always be strengthened by God.
Thank you so much.. yep giving birth means the life of the woman is 50/50 chances to survive or die.
keep holding on, your friend will face difficult times in life, I hope you can get through this and you can give birth safely, prioritize prayer.
Ako naman po kaya na immediately CS kasi si baby nakakain na nung pupu nya pagputok ng panubigan ko nagpupu na din kya un. CS agad bka kasi malason sya
Oo malalason kasi yun sila pag naka kain nang dumi.
Kya nga po mg 6pm yta pumutok panubigan ko then mga 10pm nakasalang na ako for CS Operation taz paglabas nya 7days na 3x a day may turok si baby sa legs nya dahil medyo madami na sya nakain
Luhh kawawa namn si baby non jusko.. buti di sya nalason.
Opo maaawa ka tlga, everytime tuturukan sya sa legs nya alternate kasi dapat ang pagturok s legs nya. Awa naman ng Diyos healthy naman sya ngaun at ndi rin naman sakitin
I completely condemn the wrong thinking of people. I have witnessed my sister, who pass through a pain just for Norma delivery, but still the doctors said, it wouldn't be possible due to the position of baby. Its not always women who avoid Normal delivery, because no woman would want to have scar on her body for life.
Yeah, who wants scar anyway right?.. but there are also doctors that really pushes cs even if it's not that risky because they want money.
Ako gusto ko normal kaso Hindi pwede Kasi breech si anak tapos cord coil pa. Sakit Kaya sa likod palagi kapag C's.
Yun nga din Ayoko rin talaga ma cs.. kasi di ka na makagalaw nang mabilisan kasi baka mabinat bumuka tahi jusmi..
Naalala ko ung hipag ko cs din kasi sa huling ano ata bigla nagbago position nong baby. Buti sa pangalwa kamo maaga nadetect na yong position ay maiba kaya nagawan pa ng paraan hilot hilot lang ata not sure din. Anyways, bat ba anong pake nola if magpa cs ka ee ikaw naman manganganak. Bat ba ang daming problema ng tao ano, lahat na niproblema nila ee aguyy
Yung sis inlaw ko dati yan..nung nalaman magpa cs ako ayon parang tingin nila sakin maarti kasi nga sila daw kaya naman nag anak nang breech kinokompara nila.. tssss naol na lang haha
Duhhh di naman kasi lahat diba same na pag gsnon ang sa kanila dapat gsnon na din sayo haha. I mean, nanay ma sila dapat knows nila yan 🥲🤣
Oo nga iwan ko sa kanila haha di naman lahat pare pareho.
Di nila malalaman hanggat di nila maeexperience yan naku
Nanganak nga ulit yun inlaw ko na yun.. last Dec buti nga normal lang din sya.
Puro normal pala ee, sana kamo haha. Pero badta iba iba yan.
As someone who had also undergone the knife due to ectopic pregnancy, I have high respect to CS moms... I was operated like of a CS operation so I feel the same way..
Naalala ko yun post mo sa noise about nga un sa low pressure ng tubig kaya ka nagbuhat. Di naman kaartehan yan, bakit mo naman ipipilit ang normal delivery kung malalagay naman s alanganin ang buhay ng anak mo.
Salute to all the moms out there especially those who go through CS. It is not being maarte, of course wala kayobg choice diba. Sino naman gusto magbayad ng malaki. Happy International Women's Day to you
Happy international day din sayo.. oo sino ba naman gusto magbayad nang mahal.
Halla ang hirap pala talaga. Bakit naman kasi ganun tingin nila sa mga moms na nanganak ng ganyan? 🙄 ang hirap kaya magbuntis akala naman nila napaka dali lang maging Nanay. Hay nako ngayon ko lang din nagets if bakit di pwede mag work Tita ko ganyan din po siya nanganak ate eyb eh. Salamat dito sa info about sa ganyan, ngayon alam ko na.
Pwd pa namn mag work kahit cs na.. di lang talaga magbuhat nang mabigat para iwas binat tsaka bubuka yung tahi pag di mag ingat..
Its not being maarte naman kasi talaga. That is just to make sure na safe mailabas si baby sa tiyan lalo na yung sa breech na sinabi mo sis. At oo, yung sa cold weather daw, struggle din sa mga nag-undergo nang CS, then bawal yung magbuhat nang mga mabibigat talaga kasi baka mabinat.
Oo nga iwan ko ba bakit pag malamig masakit yung tahi kahit sakin 4yrs old na anak ko masakit pa rin talaga. Di talaga pag inarte yan kasi sino ba may gusto lagi may masakit at mas mahal pa.
Mother should not be judged by their decision whether she wants to have CS or not.
Exactly!
Another hiwa na naman pala te pag nasundan yung anak mo HEHE 😅
My beautiful scars ka kung ganun 😁.. Sis in law cs din
di jud malalim kuno ang CS ay..pasalamat gani ko nga nakautong ko kay tinuod bisan galisod ka ang huna2 on jud kay ang gasto hihih
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