Different Types of Men Who Courted Me
Most women met different types of men who courted them. As for me, I believe that this part is a memorable one. In my recent article, I want to talk about my experiences in courtship in the future. I could not elaborate more on this part, so I decided to write a different article regarding the men who courted me before.
I am not a beautiful woman, so I am still curious why some men got attracted to me back then. One of my guy friends told me he once had feelings for me because I was smart. Some said I am simple yet pretty, though I do not claim it’s true. Anyway, I will describe to you the different men who got involved with me before. And no, I only have three exes. It means that these men did not get the chance to win my heart. You will know why.
The Basketball Player
I already mentioned in my past articles that I am attracted to men who are good at playing basketball. And since I always watch basketball games with my brother, some players took chances to court me. I remember when someone messaged me before and introduced himself as the player from the other team.
Also, when I had a crush on one of my brother’s teammates, I could feel the butterflies in my stomach whenever he was playing before. He tried to ask if I would allow him to court me, but I said no. I felt he wanted to court me because he knew I had a crush on him.
The Materialistic Rich Guy
I always talked about this guy who courted me before because he is materialistic. He thought he could win my heart because he got plenty of money. I once said yes to him for a date. We went to the city and had a quick date. I did not want to judge him yet, so I gave him a chance. But he always flaunted his money and luxury items.
He was an only child, and his parents are both working abroad. He even showed me that he bought an extra phone just for texting. And what pissed me off was when he asked me if I wanted his iPhone since he would repurchase a new phone. I said no, and decided to cut off ties. I don’t like men who flaunt their money in my face.
The I-have-a-car Guy
Of course, I would never forget the two suitors who always mentioned having a four-wheeled car. One of them is already a company manager, and he always asked me if he could drive me home. He even told me he could pick me up and drop me off during my school days since I was studying in the city back then.
The other one also told me the same thing. But I said no on both of them. I don’t care about their cars because I can still afford to ride a bus going to school and going home. I wouldn’t say I liked how they flaunted their cars on me and even sent me pictures of them car-washing.
The Professionals
I even asked myself why most men who wanted to court me were older; some were already stable. My friend told me that maybe because I look mature and have an old-lady-like mindset. And here is the part when men with jobs and professions courted me. One of them is already an engineer, and he even mentioned to me that we could live together after I graduated from Senior High School. And since I am an independent woman, that’s already a no for me.
The next one is a DJ and an IT back then. He was older than me, but he did not mind since I talked like an independent and intelligent woman, according to him. When he got an offer to be a DJ at an October Fest, he asked me to go with him. But I told him my parents would not let me, and he asked me to spend the night with him since his performance was already late. I am the type of person who has this advanced thinking and imagination. I said no, and it’s when I started to stop talking to him.
The Family-Oriented & Career-Driven
I could not forget the family-oriented and career-driven man who courted me before. We talked for months, but we decided to cut ties when he chose to focus on his career. He already has his On Job Training as a Seaman, and I am so happy for him.
He was a family-oriented man and loved to pursue his career – even if it meant being single for a long time. And I admired him for that. His family is already enough to motivate and inspire him.
I know that most women here also have stories about courtship and the different types of suitors they had. As for me, these are the description of the men who tried to win my heart but failed. Some of you may be curious about what type of man my partner is right now. And that will be in my next article soon.
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Dear sis, beauty they say lies in the eyes of the beholder. I want you to know that if you are not beautiful those who courted you will not have come in the first place. I will rather advice you work on your inner beauty that transcends the outward beauty.