It is over

11 54
Avatar for ZehraSky
2 years ago
Sponsors of ZehraSky
empty
empty
empty

Over is a word she is infinirely familiar with. It has been attached to the many adjectives they have for her.

Overachiever.

Overbearing.

Overacting.

Overrated.

Over and over again they keep pushing her and dragging her at the same time. Her body is stretched too thin yet she can not do anything. She had to be someone like this to survive.

This was the only way she knew how to live. No one has ever shown her another life. It has always been "be the best, or do not try at all".

It used to not bother her at all. The words they whisper behind her backs meant nothing. However, hearing something over and over again is bound to have some effects on you and others.

Soon, she notices her friends joining in the whispers. Their chuckles at the mean jokes they threw at her broke her heart. And yet, she toughened up. She built up a wall so thick that not even her so-called friends could ever managed to glimpse what she is thinking of.

The fallout of that failed friendship was easier to deal with than she thought. For years, she kept the walls up never lowering them even for people who wants to be in her life.

She smiles, and still does everything right. The same kind of person she always was. And yet, the cracks are starting to form. She is overwhelmed bur has no support.

She felt like a dam so close to bursting. What would happen when the walls finally broke? How will she survive what follows after that?

For the first time in her life, she did not know. She is stuck in darkness with no hopes of ever finding light when she met him.

Him who gave her something to hold on to. A person so responsible that she had started to bring down her walls bit by bit.

She though she had finally found someone who will be able to see past what others have always described her as. She thought she will no longer have to feel as if her very existence is too much.

But she was wrong.

The person who gave her hope was also the one who crushed it. The person who showed her what it means to ask for help, is the one who turned away from her when she needed it. The one who made her think that maybe soulmates exist is the one who made her feel like a fool for believing it.

How could anyone ever believe such things?

She should know by now that the only way she will be accepted is if she cuts pieces of herself and hid it from the rest of the world. Take off the parts that are too much and maybe then she will be enough.

Maybe then, the people will stop whispering behind her as if she could not hear them. Maybe then someone will stay with her and not make her feel like she asks for too much. Maybe someone will be able to give her the bare minimum and not say a tbing about how difficult it is to understand her.

Maybe she will just believe it all someday. That she was nothing special, and all the hardwork she had been doing was for nothing. Her expectations are too much, so she should just accept what is given. She is not worth any extra effort afterall.

Who is she other than someone with exceptionally high standards?

And when she finally breaks free of the adjectives used to describe her over and over again, she will be nothing like her past self.

Her eyes will not shine like they used to. Her smiles will never reach her eyes. Her appreciation will be for all things given to her yet no one will ever know what she wants.

She will be stuck in the situation where she is unhappy but still has to smile. A life where she is loved but only if she is not herself.

And by the time they figure out something is wrong, her story will be long over.

Closing words

Today I was asking myself what to write but I could not decide so I just said whatever, let us just start writing what comes to mind. This is the result od that exercise.

It is a short story with no clear plot or anything. Just a vague sense of emotions that might be familiar to someone.

Also, let me just take this time to apologize about not interacting much. As you know, I am a student. And Manju who sometimes handles this account is also working.

So even with the two of us, it is hard to keep this account as active as it was back in the days where this was still my priority.

Anyway, I know you guys understand so thank you for your continued support!



Thank you for reading this article!

If you want to read some more articles of mine, I have monthly summaries here:

February 2022 Article Summary

January 2022 Articles Summary

December 2021 Articles Summary

November 2021 Articles Summary

October 2021 Articles Summary

September 2021 Articles Summary

August 2021 Articles Summary

July 2021 Articles Summary

June 2021 Articles Summary

May 2021 Articles Summary

15
$ 4.56
$ 4.35 from @TheRandomRewarder
$ 0.05 from @Jane
$ 0.05 from @MD_Tibro
+ 6
Sponsors of ZehraSky
empty
empty
empty
Avatar for ZehraSky
2 years ago

Comments

It is just so heartbreaking that the person who used to give us happiness is now the reason that causes our pain. Not their intention but it was just how it goes.

$ 0.01
2 years ago

Very good your story, there are people who are only in our life to support us for a while can be short or long, try to teach us what is best for us, but then can leave and take his words, making us crumble inside, we must be very careful with this type of people, because it is something that could happen to anyone. We must also be aware of those false friends who talk bad behind our backs, because they are not really friends.

$ 0.01
2 years ago

Human being feelings change every moments. Btw congratulation for your 300 subscribers.

$ 0.01
2 years ago

Hello zehrasky.. believe me or not before reading "closing words" I made the perfect assumption that it is a conversation of someone in her headspace. You know I also do the same exercise whenever I am confused and unhappy, disgusted with In one of the YT videos, a counselor suggested this as an amazing and effective to get focused. he said to write all in your mind. and then get back to work. I loved the article. I am grateful too. (it motivated me for strong moves)

$ 0.01
2 years ago

Thank God, at last it is over! Well I am confused about majnu, who is it actually? What kind of partnerships you guys maintain? Who is the owner after all?

$ 0.01
2 years ago

Manju is my older sister. This account is originally just mine and I used to publish everyday. But now, I am letting Manju post sometimes since she does not want to start her own account. Plus it helps free up some of my time.

$ 0.00
2 years ago

Yeah it really helps out I guess. You have got a helpful sister. I hope that you also gift her something from the BCH. It is hard to go on alone all time.

$ 0.00
2 years ago

Don't worry, she keeps the earnings her articles received her plus I give her some crochet items once in a while.

$ 0.00
2 years ago

Oh! Thats really great my friend. Hope sometime I also meet with her , what do you say?

$ 0.00
2 years ago

Majirap din rumely kapag may dumating tas ipapaparamdam sayo value tas bigla mawawaley. Medyo relate dun about sa friendship na iniwanan tas may dumating pero sana wag mawala aguuuy!

$ 0.01
2 years ago

everyone's way is different most of what happens in life is looking for excessive praise so overtingking is always a part of increasing self-esteem. stay humble for parts like this because life is like a spinning wheel.

$ 0.01
2 years ago