In my last article I finished my series about people in society, and about how modern society, with all the pervesrion in it, affect to young people. What are they becaming because of living in this kind of society. Influence of society is something what we cannot avoid, because of that human being sometimes is making horrible mistakes. Human being wants to fit in, wants to be loved, to be appreciated, and sometimes is choosing wrong ways for that.
You can read my articles about human being in society, and about society here:
What Happened to the Dream of a Girl President?
You do not talk about Fight Club
People who live in Glass Houses
Patience, and what does it gets you?
Here you can see some my attitudes about how young people form their own personalities. I was writting about bed things that young people are doing, about bad influence, and about way how we can fight against that. We need to learn some things and we need to forgive about some things.
Now, I would love to start new series. I would love to write about finding ourselves in ourselves. About finding out who we are. In order to be successful in what we are doing, in order to fight against all the bad things that society is full of, we need to know who we are. We need to learn how to accept life.
First of all, I would love to talk about desitny.
I know that many people do not believe in destiny. For some people that is funny, for some other people that is superstion...
But, I would love to give you a couple examples here, that will show you what I am talking about.
First of all, Frida Khalo stared painting while she was recovering from her traffic accident. In one way, that accident detroyed her life, but on the other hand, that brought her painting. If she was not hur, maybe she would discover her talent, but she would maybe be doing some other things doing her life. Her mother was against painting, so maybe her mother would have stronger influence to her life. We cannot know what would happen to her.
Second example that I have for you here, is Fedor Vasilievich Tokarev. He was one of the most successful weapon constructor. He made some very famous guns, and he was supposed to be cossack, because his father was cossac, everyone in his family actually. Because of that his father was thinking that for him is enough to finish only elementary school. And, when he got to hig school he was not styding course for constructor, he was styuding to be mechanical. And, that was not enough to stop him from being one of the best constructors ever. Even his son was constructing weapons.
From those two examples I wanted to show you that we should not force something what is going to happen. And, if we are forcing something what is not meant to be, that will not have any effect.
Some people are just supposed to be something in their lives. That cannot be stopped. They cannot avoid that. In my opinion that is destiny. That is something what is written in the stars. I cannot be sure what that actually is, but I am sure that it exist.
You need to see what is for you. To see what you love, what you do not love, that is for you and what is not for you. Everything is not for everyone. If someone else is good at math, that does not mean that you will be good at math too. Even if you like that person, you would love to be like that person or that person is inspiration for you.
Find yourself. Find what you love. Find what you are good at. And focus on that.
Focus on what is for you.
When you see what you are good at, and when you are sure what you like the most. Focus on that. It is not going to be easy. You will have ot do things that you do not like in order to get where you want to be.
And, no matter what is happening never move your focus from your goal.
If you move your focus you can lose everything.
Find focus.
Stay focused!
Never swear...
...that you will not beg or serve a sentence.
This Russian proverb is explaining unpredictable side of life.
Some things you can predict, but some things will happen no matter what you are doing.
Many, many, many things can jappen to you and you cannot predict them. In this proverb they wanted to say that you can easily get into the situation where you have nothing. And, when you have nothing you can steal, and end up in jail or you can beg others for money.
I know, now you can say that you are working, saving, that you have everything what you need, but you cannot know what can happen tomorrow.
War, temblor, strong storm...
Many things that do not depend on you.
Of course, even if you lose everything, you can try again.
But, you can never know how much it would take to get where you were before those bad things happened.
What I wanted to tell you in this article is that you have to find out who you are. And you should not force what is not for you.
Find out who you are.
Find out what is for you.
Focus on what is yours!
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