Golden Cage...

...is still a cage.

Today, I would love to talk about young people, mostly young women, who think that money can buy everything.

I noticed that there are more and more girls, who are trying to find a rich man for themselves. And, that is wrong.

Simply said wrong.

There are so many movies, many TV shows, many magazines, and many, many women, who are saying to us that they are happy because they have a rich husband.

Maybe not that simple "I am happy because my man is rich", but that is the point.

And, guess what?

They are lying!

All of them.

You cannot be happy, if your only success is your rich husband.

That is not a success, but in opinion of these women it is.

In my personal opinion, that is a kind of prostitution.

Those girls have their price! They are selling their love, their time, their bodies to someone. They are giving their bodies and in return they are getting expensive clothes, cars, bags, shoes, make up, trips... and many other expensive things that can be bought with money.

Everything, what can be bought with money is cheap, and everything, what you bought with your money someone else could buy. Even if that thing is original, unique and there is not another same thing, you need to know that someone else could buy that instead of you.

I know, now some of you will say, every single person has a price. That is true, but if your price are your parents, children, your pet, friends... that is okay. You would od anything for the people you love, and other people could blackmaill you to do anything in order to protect people you love. That is normal and okay. And that does not have a price expressed in money.

That kind of love is priceless. And, you cannot buy that love. And you need to have that kind of love in your life.

Not only that kind of love, you need to have other things that are priceless, that cannot be bought with money. For example, loyalty, friendship, respect...

RESTPECT, if someone 'bought' you, he will treat you like a thing. For that person, you are something what has price, but does not have value. For that person you are thing. As you already know, we can use, sell and destroy our things.

So, girl, be careful, maybe, your rich man will buy another girl, who is prettier and younger than you, he can leave you behind, he does not have to be gentle, maybe he can even sell you or give you to someone as a gift.

Now, let's talk a bit aobut person who sold herself.

How do the girl, who is with someone just because he is rich, feels? How she can watch herself in the mirror? What does she think about herself? Does she even expect respect from other people? Does she respect herself?

In order to be respected, you need to be a person with attitude, person with value, person who deserves to be respected.

Your man will respect you, if you respect yourself, if you are a girl who gives to people resons to respect her.

You need to have your own attitued, your own job, your own life.

You do not want to ask your man to give you money for coffee, for hygienic towels, for nailpolish...

BE INDEPENDENT!!!

When I say be independent, I mean be avaliable to live alone. Without partner. Have your own home, your own job, your own friends.

If you are a successful woman, you will find a successful man, who will love you and who will respect you.

When he know that you do not need him, he will be happy because woman like you have chosen him. He will be proud of you. He will appreciate you, your work, your attitudes. He will talk to you. He will listen to you!

That is what you want from a relationship. We all want that from a man in a relationship.

I have already written about Cher's legendary quote, where she says that men are like desert, they are great, but woman should not need them. You should choose a man because you like him, not baceuse you need him.

When you are with someone because you need him, you cannot leave him, you have everything, but you are not free to leave. You are in a golden cage. In a cage. And, that cage is usually in your head. You think that you cannot do better, and you can. Every woman can.

You do not need expensive bags, you need a great feeling, when you know that you earned money for your bag, no matter how much it costed.

Go ahead woman, be free!

YOU OWE TO YOURSELF TO BE FREE!!!