Bob Marley once said something very smart about relationships and partners. I would love to share that with you, and I would love to talk a lil bit about that to you.
He is not perfect. You are not either, and two of you will never be perfect. But, if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He is not going ot quote poetry, he is not thinking of you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you can break. Do not hurt him. Do not change him, and do not expect for more than he can give. Do not analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he is not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys do not exist, but there is always one guy that is perfect for you.
In this Bob's quotation he is talking to a girl, but it is same for the boys. There are not perfect girls. There are not perfect persons. But, you can find one person, that is perfect for you.
We are making mistakes, because we are expecting from people more that they can give us. And, in the expecting, we do not notice how much are they already giving to us. If he is not quoting you poetry, that is fine, he is doing some other great things for you.
And, if you are not making the best cakes, that is also okay, you are doing something other better than any other person.
You need to find someone, who is making you happy, and if the person is making you happy, you should love that person. And, you have to give your best to make that person happy.
You will be angry sometimes, you will be sad, you will be happy, and many other feelings will appear during your relationship. But that is normal, there is not a perfect relationship, and you can not expect that your relationship will be perfect. Even, if you think that you deserve it.
Small things are making our lives big, that is why you should enjoy lil things instead of just be waiting for something big to happen to you. If you start paying attention to the little things, you will notice how good your partner actually is, and you will see how much love is there in your relationships.
And, you will become happy.
You will become truly happy. You will learn how to love and how to be loved. And that is extremely important for all of us. Even, if you are single now, you will be better person, if you know how to love.
Perfekcionizam mnogi naglašavaju kao pozitivnu osobinu, što naravno može i biti ako se radi svesno , ali perfekcionizam je u stvari poremećaj – jedna vrsta prisile.