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1 month ago

Bob Marley once said something very smart about relationships and partners. I would love to share that with you, and I would love to talk a lil bit about that to you.

He is not perfect. You are not either, and two of you will never be perfect. But, if he can make you laugh at least once, causes you to think twice, and if he admits to being human and making mistakes, hold onto him and give him the most you can. He is not going ot quote poetry, he is not thinking of you every moment, but he will give you a part of him that he knows you can break. Do not hurt him. Do not change him, and do not expect for more than he can give. Do not analyze. Smile when he makes you happy, yell when he makes you mad, and miss him when he is not there. Love hard when there is love to be had. Because perfect guys do not exist, but there is always one guy that is perfect for you.

In this Bob's quotation he is talking to a girl, but it is same for the boys. There are not perfect girls. There are not perfect persons. But, you can find one person, that is perfect for you.

We are making mistakes, because we are expecting from people more that they can give us. And, in the expecting, we do not notice how much are they already giving to us. If he is not quoting you poetry, that is fine, he is doing some other great things for you.

And, if you are not making the best cakes, that is also okay, you are doing something other better than any other person.

You need to find someone, who is making you happy, and if the person is making you happy, you should love that person. And, you have to give your best to make that person happy.

You will be angry sometimes, you will be sad, you will be happy, and many other feelings will appear during your relationship. But that is normal, there is not a perfect relationship, and you can not expect that your relationship will be perfect. Even, if you think that you deserve it.

Small things are making our lives big, that is why you should enjoy lil things instead of just be waiting for something big to happen to you. If you start paying attention to the little things, you will notice how good your partner actually is, and you will see how much love is there in your relationships.

And, you will become happy.

You will become truly happy. You will learn how to love and how to be loved. And that is extremely important for all of us. Even, if you are single now, you will be better person, if you know how to love.

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Perfekcionizam mnogi naglašavaju kao pozitivnu osobinu, što naravno može i biti ako se radi svesno , ali perfekcionizam je u stvari poremećaj – jedna vrsta prisile.

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1 month ago

jedno je slagati ves pod konac, slagati olovke po bojama.... a sasvim drugo je traziti savrsene ljude. Niko od nas nije savrsen, i nikada nece biti. To ne znaci da ne mogu da budu sjajni, da ne mogu da budu divni, i da sa njima ne moze da nam bude sjajno.

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1 month ago

Ko kaze da savrseni ljudi ne postoje, evo na primer ja sam zivi primer postojanja savrsenstva :D

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1 month ago

hahah, svako od nas je savrsen na neki nacin, ali savrseno kao takvo ne postoji, i nikada nece postojati. Zato bi ljudi trebalo da prekinu da traze to nesto savrseno i da uzivaju u onome sto imaju.

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1 month ago

Predobar tekst, a slike su vrh :) Bravo!

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1 month ago

Hvala puno! Drago mi je da ti se tekst dopao. Iskreno bih jako volela da se o ovome vise prica, pogotovu da mladi ljudi shvate da niste nije savrseno, da savrseno ne postoji. Jedino sto moze da bude savrseno jeste trenutak, a taj trenutak ce biti dozivljen sa nekim ko nije savrsen.

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1 month ago

Naravno, da perfektni ljudi ne postoje. Slike su gfantasticne, kao i ceo tekst.

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1 month ago

Hvala puno! Jako mi je drago da ti se dopao clanak. Mnogo ljudi zeli da ima perfektnu vezu, da nadju perfektnog partnera, pritom zanemarujuci da ni oni sami nisu perfektni. Pogotovu sto danas, u vreme drustvenih mreza mladi ljudi mogu na svakom cosku da vide ljude koji glume da im je sve idealno, i onda budu jako razocarani, kada shvate da zapravo to idealno ne postoji.

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1 month ago

No one is perfect, each of us has a flaw ... But those flaws must remain in the shadows, And let the virtues overcome them!

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1 month ago

Nobody is perfect, and nobody will ever be perfect. And there is not a relationship that will be perfect ever. We need to enjoy the moment and we need to try to make perfect moment, because moments are the only thing that can ever be perfect.

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1 month ago

Nice Post

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Thank you, your support means a lot to me.

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