@Ruffa
A Mother Like You
So how's everyone after having a blast yesterday? Are you experiencing a body pain now? Just kidding, rawrrrrrrrrr. Surely a lot had a blast yesterday. As for me, it's just a normal day, really. I just greet Moms a Happy Valentine's Day then kiss them on the cheeks and that's it. See, so what if you're single, what's important is you're alive and still kicking chor haha. But anyways, past is past so let's forget what happen yesterday. Today is a new day and and off course with a different happenings and story hihi. And because I don't have a topic again today, I'll just try answering these questions that I read to my marengs @Zhyne06 article the other day. It's just a questions about parents. Those experience that we had with them something like that. Like if they are strict to you or they love to compare you to your other siblings. I have story on my own about that so I'd like to also share it. I will start this right away yayy. Wala ng intro intro, Parot Pasok!!! Wait let me copy paste it first, lol. -- What do you want to feel from your parents? If you will ask me this back when I was just a high school student who doesn't know a thing about life, I will answer this with a big "I WANT THEIR LOVE!! Coz that time, I feel like they don't really love me. They don't care about me and they don't give a damn to what I want. I feel like they just saw me as their daughter because I just happen to be there. But now that I am already an adult, now that I understand what is life, all I want from them is to be strong so that we can still be together for a long time. I know now that they love me, that they care for me and I do too to them. Even though we quarrel sometimes I know, I know that we love each other and that we care. And that's enough for me already. What do you think is the reason why your parents are strict? Now that I'm fully grown up woman, I'm not .a mother yet but I know that they just want the best for their child. Just like my Mom. She's really strict to me back then and I really feel mad at her to the point that I resented her. Those times that I can't even enjoy my teenage life because she's a KJ. She doesn't want me to go with my friends to bond with them because if this or that. I don't really know her reason that time. It's like she didn't experience the life of a teenager that shes so strict to me. I want to rebel but I didn't do it. I fear my Mom and that time I think more of my welfare that if I didn't do what she wants I'll be kick out on the house. And so, I just accept all of it and now that I'm an adult, those resentment is all gone. Love is all there is. Have you ever experienced to be compared by your parents to your siblings? Hmm, not to my siblings but to my Mom's Partner niece. I am being compared to her that she's like this or like that, a talented girl while I'm not. Duhhhh, I have my own talent, we are 2 different people so duhhh. I am so mad to her that time, I mean to her niece. But that's all in the past now. Even if I get hurt by all of it I'm still okay and it's all in the past now. I already forgot all of it. All I have right now is love for them What is your dream for your parents? To give them a happy and comfortable life. I can't do it right now but soon. I'm making a progress naman na on my goal so maybe soon I will be able to do it. I don't want them to stress over small matters and just enjoy life. That's all I want for them. To live in a house with aircon sana. Mom really want that but they are thinking of the electric bills so it's a no for it for now. One of my dream is to have my own house so I will grant wish of mine in that house. An air-conditioned house where I Mom can live comfortably. -- ***Lead Image from Unsplash*** ***--*** **Recent Article** https://read.cash/@Ruffa/your-guardian-angel-415f8896#recent-article *↗️****One Ordinary Day*** https://read.cash/@Ruffa/one-ordinary-day-13297965 *↗️****How Bad It Is*** https://read.cash/@Ruffa/how-bad-it-is-9861c4af *↗️****How Naughty I can Get?*** https://read.cash/@Ruffa/how-naughty-i-can-get-a119db36 *↗️****The Power of Giving and How Great it Feels*** https://read.cash/@Ruffa/the-power-of-giving-and-how-great-it-feels-82fa8168 *↗️****Never Have I Ever: Valentine's Edition*** https://read.cash/@Ruffa/never-have-i-ever-valentines-edition-06cd0cac **Read these to Start in** **Club1BCH** https://read.cash/@Ruffa/memories-with-mama-and-aaron-2ea8bbe8#read-this-to-start-in-club1bch ***↗️******Club1BCH - The Genesis*** https://read.cash/@PVMihalache/club1bch-the-genesis-dbb27252 ***↗️******Club 1BCH 😱*** https://read.cash/@Eybyoung/club-1bch-df96508b ***↗️******What Is #Club1BCH?*** https://read.cash/@bmjc98/what-is-club1bch-914bdccd ***↗️******Club1BCH is Up!*** https://read.cash/@Eybyoung/club1bch-is-up-fbf69cde February 15, 2022 --
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You have two mothers.. I am certain you get love from either of them hehe... Samin si papa tlga strict lalo na nung kabataan namin. At least now mtanda na..d na masyado strict
Bale tatlo, sama biological mother ko eheee. Kaya nga ee no, nong bata talaga tayo wagas ang pagka strict nila buti nalang now di na gaano.
Ayy abahh the good daughter naman pala ang batang ere. Hihihi pero true marengs, ganyna mga pangarap natin sa mga magulang natin nuh? Bale pagja patanda tayo ng patanda, yung feeling natin na gusto natin makasama ng matagal ang magulang natin nagiging strong lalo.
Good daughter pero sa isip Hindi hahaha, dun nalang ako bumabawi wala naman akong magagawa na iba hahaha. Oo nga mareng, sana lang makasama pa ng sobrang matagal. Actually mas gusto ko na ako ang unang aalis haha.
Hahaha sinabi ko na rin yan kina mama at papa ko, ang galit nila sakin nun hahaha ayoko kasi ng naiiwan.
That's good you greeted your mother yesterday like me, as we are single...lol I am glad to hear your love for parents and you want to give them comfortable life.
Hehehe yeah, i think everyone wants that 🥰
Ako madam eh sumakit lang ng slight, hahahaha! Ganyan talaga mga parents, strict lalo na kapag lablab namin ang mga junakis namain.. Pero mas maiintindihan mo kami kapag naging mudrabels ka na din..
Kaya nga madams. Kahit naman di ako strict nagegets ko na din kung san sila nanggagaling. Lalo sa mga nawiwitness ko until today sa mva nangyayari sa ibang kabataan jan.
I am a bad son. I know for my wrong decisions my parents suffered & were sad. But now, I only want their happiness. At any cost.
Awww, at least say your sorry to them and show them that you're a change man now Luci
They knew. They are so happy now.
Even though I didn't totally grew up with my parents when I was still a little kid. I feel like they are also strict when I am with them but my grandfather who I was living with when I am still a child is really strict I am restricted in many things like going out that's I became a quite a just a house person but I don't feel any hatred about it because I am grateful that they watched over me when I was still a child and I like the way I am now.
Ohh, good thing you didn't resent them. As for me, even if I resent thrm to what I experience to them, I still hel myself on doing thinhs that I know I will regret later. I didn't just make a decision that time. I just hate them in silence while doing what I have to do
I quite hate them at first when I go to live in my grandfather's house house when they got separated but my Lola that past away said that I shouldn't be angry with them because they are still my parents.
My parents are not perfect, but I know for sure that they love us all, sincerely, and willing to give everything for us. Try ko nga itong challenge hihi.
Same with mine, they just want the best for us lang 🥰
Though sometimes parents compare us to others at the end of the day they still prefer us to those they compare us with it 😅
Yeah, we are their kids anyways, lol
Same tayo ate ruff sa part na strict yung parents. Kasi kahit 22 na ako grabe may curfew at pinagbabawalan parin ako sa mga bagay.x pero minsan ko na ring naisip bakit lage nlng akong sunod ng sunod sa mga utos at pinagbabawal nila nung highschool gusto kong itry magrebelde pero hindi eh mahal ko sla at cguro kung naging disobedient din ako baka maging katulad ko rin yung mga pinsan ko na maagang nabuntis at nagasawa. Grateful parin ako kahit papano❣️
Diba, same grateful akong nakinig ako sa kanila. Sa takot talaga ako sa kanila ee haha. Bukod sa takot may nga dreams din kasi tayo na want maabot
What I dreamed for them is still they could see my success soon, achievement and of course, see their apo's from my genetics haha. Well, being a parent is no easy task for sure but we were still lucky that do their part in raising us hehe.
Yes naman apo talaga, kanino ba kay expert writter? Ayiehhhh ahahaha. Push na boyyyy hahaha
Keep that love for them. It will saves you one day
Oh yeah, keep on loving them
Same thing, Ate. I also felt that they don't love me back then, and even now. Hahaha. But they're loving my child so much right now, so I guess it's fine.
Mga pag hihigpit kasi talaga noon no aakalain na walang paki sayo mga magulang kasi parang satin lang nangyayRi ang ganon aguyy
Our parent are one of the best gift God has given to us. And we should love them no matter what. Yeah I also witnessed being cleared to others. But I was focused on myself instead and continue doing what I love to do That is just the definition of parents to us
Very true, they just care for us and they are just doing the thing that they know will be best for us 🥰
I pray God continue to guide and bless them for us
I avoid to answer those questions because I don't have a complete family haha. 🥲 but well, narealized ko din ate ropa noon na para din sa best ko kung bakit sila strict saken. Haha nagpapasalamat padin ako dahil doon, madami akong natutunan.
Yon na nga ano, buti nalinawan din tayi. Pero may timr lang talaga na ang hirap nilang egets ee
Napakabait mo pala ate Ruffa kasi you chose to stay at home kaysa lumabas with friends. Ako matigasin ulo ko eh, ako lage nasusunod kay laging napapagalitan haha
Hahaha ayaw ko mapalayas ee aguyy. No choice lang ako. Mas mahalaga na makatapos ako noon kesa sa kung ano pa man. Hahaha matigas man ulo mo noon ikaw naman ay usang awesome na babae na ngayon 🥰
Don't be sad ate you're different from them, you have your own capabilities. Swerte mo po dami mong mothers hehe nababasa ko sa mga post mo e, while me i miss my mother so much. Yung love at care nya miss ko na.
Oo naman hehe. Where's your mother na nga?
Ayt apaka good girl naman pala ni ate hehe. Di naman masyadong stricts parents ko pero my brothers are haha. Actually mas takot ako sa mga kuya ko less parents ko ate ahhahaha. Sila yung may pa curfew eh. Anyways, sana lang talaga magkaroon pa ng long life mga parents natin especially our Moms💚🤗
Haha yan pa any isa pag may kapatid na lalaki. Di ko lang ranas sa kuya ko yan, may sariling mundo un ee hahahaha.
Soon ateee, you will have your own house hahaha. Well, mas importante parin yung amraming BCH kaysa jowa ate AHHHAHAA. And ahhm, you are more than talented ateeee.
Hahaha truth! Bitcoincash for thr win. Walang makakapantsy. Chorrrr hahahahs
I really think it is unfair for parents to compare their children to other children. I remember the first time my mom did that, I blatantly said to her that it should be the last time she ever did it. Though, I was rude about it because I was angry at that time, that's the last time I remember her doing it
Tru, it's unfair. I mean even if you two are siblings still you two are different people. You have your own, that's why some kids really rebel to theor parents because of that too tsk.
I don't understand why parents will compare their child to someone else, I am glad my parents never compared me to another person
Maybe because they achieve more that what others achieve. They can see a good future to the others while to their kid, there's none 🥺
Oh it Mr potbelly with his big pot belly on the pot table . Nice meeting you once again mam please do I need to achieve 1 bch before I became a club 1bch member . I am glad and happy to know you have a better plans for your family I pray you achieve them
No, you can join while achieving your 1 bch goal 😁
Haha, relate. I grew up having a really strict father who is so workaholic and is KJ to everything. It was only when I had a recent job and he was starting to loosen up, and would stroll around without the questions being asked.
When they saw that you can finally go on your own, that's where they loosen up. That's good. They just want a better future for you.
Same dream for my parents. Soon, magagawa rin natin yan. Saklap lang talaga pag cinocompare ano? Naimmune na rin ako sa ganyan. Magawa nga rin 'tong prompt.
Our parents only want the best for us but sometimes they are just too strict, lol! But thanks to them, we are good, yeah? hehehe
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