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Yasss! It's raining after almost a month without rain. I don't know why but these days, the heat was just too much that I changed my shirt 5x a day. Glad that it rained today and the weather seemed gloomy. I can already feel the coldness I long for.
How about you there, dear lovelies! How's the weather and how are you feeling about it?
Last night, I was reading articles to clear my notifs. I came across @Janz article which is all about in a relationship-questions. And, she tagged me to do the challenge too, so here I am writing about it. ☺️ You can read her article here, Random Questions: In a Relationship Status https://read.cash/@Janz/random-questions-in-a-relationship-status-91dcb6ce
Actually, I saw this challenge or article first on miss @Eybyoung's article which is, Random Questions for Taken and now I am writing my own version as well. https://read.cash/@Eybyoung/random-questions-for-taken-750f27f2
I only chose 6 questions among the random questions there. To get the questions, you can check it out here 👉 mantelligence.com https://www.mantelligence.com/relationship-questions/
To all takens out there, you may try this one too! Have fun!
Here are the questions I chose:
WHAT ARE SOME ANNOYING HABITS OF OTHER COUPLES THAT IRRITATE YOU THE MOST?
There are a lot, actually but I don't want to sound bitter so I will just have one. One annoying habit of other couples that irritates me most is when they are trying hard to show on social media that their relationship is perfect. Come on! There is no perfect relationship, guys. We do all have our storms and thunders in a relationship. I have a friend who's like that, I know personally that their relationship is shaking and just a few push, their relationship will be off already. But, what she's showing on social media was exactly the opposite. Well, maybe because she's trying to save their relationship by posting it and let the boy saw it. Who knows. It's their business but I just get irritated with that especially if the person involved is one of my friends.
I'm not against into posting couple pictures and all, but let's be real in everything.
HOW CONTENT ARE YOU WITH THE AMOUNT OF NON-SEXUAL AFFECTION IN THE RELATIONSHIP?
Very much contented. By simply giving me food is my type of non-sexual affection. I think most girls do prefer food. Am I right? Haha! When we feel good, give us some snacks. When we feel bad, give us some snacks and we will be okay.
I also like to be asked if how's my day or what's going on in me. For me, it can lead to open talking and letting out of my frustrations if I have any. With that, I build trust in him.
HOW WOULD YOU WANT TO SPEND A SPECIAL DAY WITH EACH OTHER?
With food. Every occasion or any special day. It should be with food. I don't ask for gifts or any expensive stuffs from my man. I just want to be with him and the food. Food makes us happy. Food lightens up my mood everytime. For me, celebration would not be complete if without food. Haha!
WOULD YOU RATHER TRAVEL AROUND THE WORLD OR HAVE A FAMILY?
I would rather travel around the world, for sure. Especially in Europe. Haha! In my dreams, but yeah just in case I will become a billionaire. I would really travel and find my favorite artists in every country and have dinner with them. Lol. And if I am pass over it, that's the time I will have my own family. I will tell my children about my travels too!
WOULD YOU RATHER BE PROPOSED TO IN PRIVATE OR IN FRONT OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS?
I would rather be proposed in private. I don't want any exposure even to my family. No offense to those who like the opposite. This is just truly what I prefer. I want just the two of us and after that, it's up to us when are we going to say it to our family.
I don't want my family to see me crying or being dramatic when my man propose to me. So I'm keeping it private.
WHAT LESSONS HAVE YOU LEARNED FROM PAST RELATIONSHIPS?
A lot. I learned how to love myself more than the one I am with. In that way, I will not get hurt if he will leave. I also learned to not show my affection too much because based from my experience, after I showed too much affection to that one man, he seemed to be overly confident that I will stay even if I will catch him cheating forgive him after. I don't want that.
I also learned how to deal with heartaches, if there's any. I will just go out, eat food and drink with friends. After that, I won't dwell on the pain anymore. I should let it over or else I'll make myself suffer with the pain. I am too strong to cry over a man.
I don't want to make this any longer. I'll just leave it here and let you guys answer these too! Let's share our thoughts and spend time laughing over it.
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Yesterday, I ate my dinner alone and I was fine with it. The responses I got from other writers also urged me to settle the "spaghetti conflict" with my bf. Lol. As a matter of fact, he gave me money so we can cook spaghetti at home. Sounds like great because I can eat more than the usual. I also went to our home today because I just can't handle the longing anymore. I miss my family so much. To ease my longing, I decided to go home without them telling.
Sorry for today's article, I am just going to narrate what happened to my day. I hope you will read it still. 😁 I also do hope to hear from you about how your day went.
When my bf was already home last night, I did not talk to him and he did not bother me to. He just knew how to handle me during my mood swings. He let me cool down my temper before talking about the root of the argument. So when he came, we did not talk and we just slept peacefully like we have not seen each other. This morning, I woke up early I think 6 AM and I gazed to the other side of the bed but he was not there. I rose from bed and went to the comfort room and saw him in the kitchen as I passed by him. Wow! He cooked something for breakfast and why so early? Haha! He just want to make it up.
I returned to bed and minutes later, he called me to have our breakfast and he acted like nothing happened. Well, I was really hungry too that's why forgot my pride and just ate what he cooked. By the way, he cooks good. I also have an observation that when girls are not in the mood, the best way to calm their anger is to give them food and more food. Lol. As we eat, he started talking and I talked to him for my mood was now okay. I asked him to drive me to our home so I can visit my family. He just agreed and took me there.
At exactly 9 AM, I arrived at the farm where grandma and grandpa are working. They did not know I was coming so they were surprised when they saw me. My dogs were barking too even if I am still far from them. Aweee, I just missed them. When I arrived, my grandma asked me if I don't have work today since they really want me to sleep there and stay longer. I was also expecting to see my siblings there but unfortunately, they went somewhere. Well, it's my fault too since I did not inform them I am coming home.
So there, I spend my day with my family and pets. I told my mom that I want to eat spaghetti so I gave her the money my bf gave me. We went to the market to buy the ingredients and cooked them. I don't know but, Filipino style spaghetti is always a favorite ever since I was a kid and until now. The best spaghetti I ever tasted was at Jollibee's (one of the famous fastfoods here in Ph) but because we don't have that here near our place, we just have too cook our own and try our best to achieve the Jollibee-taste-like Spaghetti. My grandma's spaghetti is also my favorite.
Tadaaa! This is the finish product. Looks yummy and I can guarantee this tastes yummy too. My kind of spaghetti is sweet, creamy and cheesy. I like it more when there are a lot cheese. Cheese is life for me! How about you? What's your favorite food and how do you want it to taste like?
Craving satisfied!
After I devour the spaghetti like a hungry lion, I also looked for a very cold soda. Haha! Oh I am so nervous with my cravings these days. I want to eat most of the time especially cold drinks or any food as long as it's cold. My grandpa immediately rose from sitting and bought us an orange soda. This is what I really miss at home. My family provides me food I want to eat. No wonder I gained weight from being at 41 kilos to 53 kilos. Lol! But nevermind, what's important is I am still alive. Importante buhi! Diba mga dzai? Haha!
Unlike here, in my boyfriend's place, I can't really let out all my cravings especially cold drinks and food. They don't like drinking cold drinks especially soda. My bf's mom doesn't like me to drink those too. So I ended up just drinking water. There was also one time when I bought spaghetti and end up eating it alone for they don't like spaghetti. I also bought roasted chicken but then they don't like where I bought it. I just felt like sad about it so I end up not eating what I like because I don't want to eat if they were not eating as well. This is also the thing I realized sharing home with parents especially if you're already married. Though we are not married and don't have a child yet, I already observed the pro's and con's living with parents when you already have your own family. In my own opinion, I would prefer to separate so you two, couple, can have your privacy and do things your way.
My bf's mom doesn't also like me wearing shorts. Haha! She told me one time it was too hot and going out would burn my skin. When I also wore shorts at night, she also told me it's cold and I should wear pajamas. I couldn't disagree for she might think I'm being disrespectful. So I just wore pajamas everyday even though I was so used to wearing shorts.
I need to adjust since I am in their place and it's still fine with me as of now. Haha! Kidding!
Sorry for sharing too much. 😁
But yeah, I just enjoyed my day with my family today and I am so happy. I got to eat spaghetti too and I settled the argument last night. You might find this boring tho, and I would understand if this is not within your interest. ☺️ Again, I just really want to share how my day went.
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**How about you dear lovelies, what are the things you miss at home? Let me hear you in the comment section.**
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I eat my dinner alone and it's okay
Because of my anxiety, being alone at most important time of the day is a struggle to me. I can handle myself alone in times I am working or doing something but there are just times when I need a company. Life is hard without anyone to call with but as I experience solitude most of the time, I got used to it.
**This time, I eat my dinner alone and it's okay.**
People where I live are like strangers to me. They're not my family because I am not currently at home these days. I am staying temporarily at my bf's place for some reasons. Being here resulted many of my realizations. I am comfortable in here but our home is where I feel belongingness. Nothing is better than we we felt at home. People here are nice to me but then I am always longing for my grandma's cooking, grandpa's jokes, my siblings' noises and even my pet's meowing and barking. (I'm not sure if there's a word such as meowing haha)
**I just miss everything I have at home**
This is also why I want to go back to childhood days. Real talk, I miss my grandma now big time than those times when I was still a kid. I don't know what's gotten into me for this sudden change of emotion. One thing I am sure now is, I feel incomplete without my family.
Well, who doesn't miss their family here, right? Sorry for being too emotional. I just missed crying. Haha!
So what's the reason why I eat my dinner alone? Well, this issue is not big though but still I wanted to share it. Why not?
It's been 2 days since my bf's little brother had a diarrhea. His mom gave him medicines and all that he used to drink when he has diarrhea. Since that kid is still 3 years old, his mom was worried and nervous what to do about it since they gave him all the medicine for kids to cure diarrhea. Unfortunately, nothing happened. Today, they decided to take him to a "quack doctor" since they are afraid to take him to the hospital because of today's situation. https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.filipinawives.com.au/yes-they-really-do-call-him-a-quack-doctor/&ved=2ahUKEwifoLayrJzyAhWCB94KHVj2D0IQFnoECDAQAg&usg=AOvVaw0F0L0dNv8xagyEnvj8C_o3
My bf's mom, dad and his little brother went there so me and my bf were left in the house. We had a small argument because this afternoon, I told him to buy me spaghetti but he wanted me to go with him. I'm too lazy to go so I said, it's better not to have it than to go with him. What made me even more mad is when he said why I keep on searching for spaghetti that is not available in their place but when there's spaghetti cooked by his aunt, I only eat a little.
Can't he just go there and buy? I don't want an argument. I don't want to fight over food. As a result, I told him to not buy it or else I will throw it outside.
An hour later, my bf's mom called him asking him to go where they are because the car has stopped working. He asked me to go with him but I didn't answered so he just went there alone.
And as of this time, they're not yet at home. I can't wait for them to get back so **I eat my dinner without them.**
**And it's fine with me.**
Not until I remember my family when we eat together. 🥺 In here, it's just me and my bf who eat together. They don't practice here eating together that often.
That's why I miss those times being at home and eating together with my family. I miss my grandpa's joke while eating. He always says he would like us to him car so that he and grandma would just take a trip everyday. My grandma always says to us that we should not be in a hurry when it comes to marriage. We should enjoy ourselves being single and spoil ourselves with things we want. Those are always the kind of scenarios when we eat together.
Unlike here, it feels like it's not complete. I am not complaining because who am I to complain, right? I just miss home. That's all.
But I am a strong, independent woman that's why I eat my dinner alone and it's okay.
How about you there? Have you eaten your dinner? What's your dinner story? 😁
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The glow up I want
Yesterday's article was very lovely. Hey, you might want to read it too! Check it out, 👉 Was there really a glow up? https://read.cash/@Marinov/was-there-really-a-glow-up-131802a4
I got positive feedbacks from that article which I never expected. Thank you dear friends for letting me know that I really had a glow up in my life. Thanks for motivating me to continue the glow even without a heartbreak. Yasss! I will!
The glow up that I am talking yesterday was all about the physical one or those that can be seen. There are actually a lot of things in us that we might consider as our glow up. Let me tell you a few.
Our attitude towards life
Back then, when we are still young, we think of life as easy as one, two, three because we have our parents who provides us with everything. All we did was play and have fun with friends. We didn't care if there will be food on the table the next day or if tomorrow will come for us. Everything was just happiness. But as we grow, our mindset changes along with the course of time. From being playful and innocent, we became aware of what life is and learn how to deal with life's complexities. And that for me is glow up already. Glow up of our mindset and attitude towards life.
How we deal with people
We can't deny that there are people who we are so annoyed with. Those kind of people who keeps on judging the way we live and trying to control us like they own us as if they have a perfect life. In short, mga chismosang kapit-bahay at perfect na kamag-anak! 🤣
But even they got an attitude that we don't like, we choose to deal with them professionally not because they deserve it, but because we know how to treat people nicely. Let them judge and say whatever they like. They won't get paid for it either.
Choosing respect over arguing is a kind of glow up I want.
Building relationship among the members of community.
Before, we are not that active when it comes to building camaraderie between people in the community. We don't think much of how and what we can contribute to the society we are in.
I used to be like that because I think negatively about those officials who serve the town. Well, I got a bad history from them too but I won't mention it 😁 I chose to be silent but vigilant. Charot!
But even though I got a bad history from those officials, I still did not go against them. In fact, they appointed me to one of the SK Officials. Even if I don't feel like it, I still agreed because if I did not, I'm sure there will be negative feedbacks about me not being active in our town.
And I think that's the kind of glow up I should maintain. Being professional in dealing with the people who I even don't want to be with.
Our goals in life
Sometimes we were once selfish for thinking of our own selves. Well, I guess making ourselves a priority is not bad. It's just that we cannot afford not taking our family together to our dreams. In search for success, we always don't want our family to be left behind. In fact, there are many of us here who provide for the family. Salute to all of you out there! ☺️ May you be blessed with more abundance.
I, personally, have changed my goals many times because my goals really change as I grow up. Before, I want to have everything I didn't got to experience when I was a child. I also want to have lots of money so I can buy everything I want. I even dream of having a nice car so I can comfortably travel to anywhere I would like. But as time passes by, I realized that those goals are selfish though they aren't bad. Those goals are just set for myself so I should change it and include my family along with my success.
I won't be here if without them and giving back to them is just so little compared to their sacrifices. I even put them first before myself. And this kind of thinking for me is glow up. Glow up in the sense that I become so inclusive of everything I had and I will have.
*These things to me are the kind of glow up I really want. Enhancing our outside look is beautiful but enhancing our attitude and ourselves as a whole is precious. Beautiful face soon will fade but our innate attitude and values will remain. We will not be remembered by how we look but by how we influence people.*
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Was there really a glow up?
Was there really a glow up? What comes into your mind when we say "glow up"?
Glow up or to glow up was once viral on Facebook and TikTok wherein anyone can show their old photos and the most recent ones. The old photos seem to be not appealing because we were just kids back then and we don't care about our physical appearance. All we care about is play and all the things we can do under the sun.
We don't care if we've been exposed to the sun's heat for longer time and we don't mind if our hair is not fully-combed. Who needs a comb way back then. Lol!
Seeing those glow up videos made me happy since it just means that the ones who are in there are proud of who they are before and what they have become now. I really envy those ones who can bravely show their old pictures because me, I hate it. I hate seeing my old pictures and showing it to others would be a bad dream to me. I just feel like my appearance before was way too ugly. Haha! But then there will always be friends who seem to forgot that you are friends.
My elementary classmates used to post photos of us during elementary and I really hate seeing myself in those pictures so I immediately removed the tag or hide the post from my Facebook wall. I even messaged them to stop it but then they kept on doing it because they look cute in those photos and they don't consider me being there, ugly. 🤣 But what can I do, even if I hide if or delete it, they will still have a copy of their own.
I remember that time my classmates used to tease me as "tomboy" because of my hairstyle. During elementary I always tie up my hair since it's so thick and I can't bear its volume. It's even hard to comb my hair that time. My classmates used to make fun of this pic until now.
When I was in High School, I felt like I change in appearance a bit. My skin got a little fair since I don't expose myself from too much heat outside.
I was in High School in the above image. A freshman if I am not mistaken. Look at that face! 🤣 I also learned to take care of myself after my first and last heartbreak. I was in 2nd year High School when I had a boyfriend. He was a graduating student. We knew each other since their classroom was just towards our room. He sat close the windows and I was too making us see each other always through the windows.
I don't know where he got my phone number but yeah, we communicated through text since messenger was not so used that time. Our relationship lasted for 8 months but we did not see each other like dating or going out. It's just through text. One day, he stopped communicating me and I don't know why. He did not even said goodbye. Well I just let him be and I never tried to contact him too though we sometimes see each other in the campus like strangers. One month after, I saw someone posted a picture of him on Facebook together with our neighbor and that neighbor was one of my close friends. Omg! They are hugging each other.
I just realized everything why he ghosted me. Maybe he became bored because I was too young that's why he searched for someone of his level. Or perhaps I am not appealing to him and the girl is. That girl too knows we are in a relationship but why she still get into it. Because of that, I did not talk to that girl anymore until now.
That heartbreak made me improve myself. I learned how to do skin care and put some make up. I become so curious of how I look and I can say, my appearance improved just a little bit. Haha! In short, I learned how to love myself. I don't need anyone to make me feel better.
We do have different story about glowing up and I don't think you would consider mine as reasonable for I just changed myself after heartbreak.
I have a lot to tell but my eyes are not cooperating. They got closed without me knowing. I will just have to write a part 2 of this tomorrow.
How about you? What's your glow up story?
Thank you so much guys for reading! You've been so kind to me since day one.
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I cry silently
It's not always everytime that we need to let others know we are hurt. I don't like that. I don't want others to always know how I feel especially when I am upset. Well, we have different ways of expressing and hiding our emotions. Each one of us has a unique defense mechanism. Mine would be silent. If I am happy, some will not notice but those who are close to my heart felt it. But, when I am sad, no one will notice because I try so hard to conceal it. I don't want anyone to pity me or see me condole over something. When something feels not right, I try to solve the issue alone and when I can't handle anymore, I just cry silently.
No one will know. No one will notice.
In life, not everyone we consider friends are really friends who will stay. Perhaps they're friends but when something's up, they will not show up because they don't want to be disturbed by others' dilemma.
That's why I taught myself to be ready when times like that happens. Actually I already published an article yesterday of how independent I am. You can read it. Just click this 👉 Strong, independent woman https://read.cash/@Marinov/strong-independent-woman-07bc12c8
Thank you if you spared some time checking on it.
*Who about you dear lovelies? How do you deal with pain or anything that pangs you? Do you let others know and help you? Or do you battle it alone, silently?*
There are situations that really tested our emotions. You have yours and I have mine as well. I am going to tell mine and maybe we do have in common.
**Arguments between family**
It's normal to have misunderstanding between family members sometimes. Happiness doesn't favor us always. One thing that hurts me most is when me and grandpa had an argument I think it was way back 2019. He was drunk that time and about to eat. I just told him to leave some food for us since we haven't eaten yet. I was surprised because he was mad, as in raging mad that he shouted in me and almost throw some plates on me. That was the first time I saw him mad at me. He kept on telling bad things about me but then I remained calm and seemed to be unmoved. My tears almost fell that's why I went inside our room and there I cried alone and silently. I did not say any word because I don't want grandma to know I am hurt and problems will rise between her and grandpa. I just want to self-heal. I want to show to my sisters how to handle pain alone.
Because of that, I haven't talked to grandpa for one a year. That happening also led me to go to Cebu so I can't see him and not get the chance to talk to him. I was sad but I'm not mad.
Glad that today, everything is okay between grandpa and me.
**Conflict between friends**
Because I am busy, sometimes my friends forgot to ping me whenever there are celebrations. They thought I don't have time to be with them so they did not invite me. I was just surprised when I saw posts from them on Facebook saying they had a good time hanging out. I was quite hurt because me, myself, I don't want someone in our group to be left behind but then here are they, just ignored me. Maybe this seems to be so little but this really hits me. But I didn't let them know what I feel. I don't want them to pity me. Actually I don't want anyone to pity me.
There are actually a lot to say but I can't focus since I'm in a family celebration as of now and the loud music is disturbing my brain. Sorry dear lovelies if this was way too messy and non-sense. I'm surely going make it up tomorrow.
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Strong, independent woman
**"Strong, independent woman"**
That's what I always say to my girl friends. Women as we are should have our own power in stock in case of emergency. Haha! And when I say **strong**, that means we are able to build the strength we need in times when we feel we are losing ourselves. Let's learn how to battle alone and most importantly, let's learn how to choose battles wisely. Not every battle is worth fighting for so don't waste your energy on it.
As what Selena Gomez said in the Pantene Commercial:
**Strong is beautiful**
Being independent has a lot of definitions depending on everyone's experience and perspective. Mine would be how I grow even I am alone. Sometimes, being alone is not bad at all. When we're alone, we can focus on the things we want to achieve and carefully set goals just to hit them. Though being with people is nice, I prefer being alone when I'm thinking of something for my future and self-growth. Let's appreciate being "alone but not lonely" idea.
Not everyone will stay and we can't expect there will always be someone who can help us. Even our family sometimes can't help us always. It is and always will be ourselves who can help ourselves too. With that being said, let independence live within us.
**If friends will leave, then fine.**
**If people change, then okay.**
**If no one will stay, then let it be.**
After all, we build ourselves for that and no one can break it. They may say, "no one is an island", yes that true. But not all the time people will stay with you.
And that's the reality.
I am not writing this to let you follow but I just want to share how I manage those times when no one was around. I saved myself alone and I believe you must, or everyone too.
I respect everyone here who prefer to be dependent. It's a matter of choice anyway. No hard feelings. 🥰 It's just that I want to be strong and independent at all times.
Hello lovelies! It's 2nd day of August and I feel like this is a good start to all of us. I have been reading few articles about their monthly reports showing their achievements. I was so happy reading those articles and until now, more articles about it are popping in my notifications. Congratulations to everyone! 🎉 More earnings to come for this month.
I can't let you see a documentation of my achievement for the month of July since there's nothing left in my wallet. Haha! But I already have my remembrance. One of it was the birthday celebration of my little bro. You can read it here if you have time. 😁
Click here 👉 Still, a Happy Birthday https://read.cash/@Marinov/still-a-happy-birthday-adec5493
I also gave some to my mom and some to my sisters and bought groceries for myself. We also repaired our ceiling but I forgot to take pics. But still I want to show you one of my achievements. 😁
Tada! I reached 1000 views. 😇 I was happy because that means have clicked on my article and read my content. For me, this is a great already.
Alright. Enough with the advertisement. Let's go back to the main gist. Ever since I was a child, I really wanted to do things my own. I remember one time when I was still in OJT (On the Job Training) one of my students offered me to let him carry my bag and books. He was so thoughtful for doing that but I can still manage so I refuse the offer nicely.
When I graduated in college, I took the board exam right away. While waiting for the result, I worked as a Chat Associate in a BPO company in Cebu. I don't want to be stuck at home waiting so I bravely travelled there and started my journey. It was so hard at first but then later on, I slowly adapt the kind of living there and finance my own. I was also able to send money to my family every month.
I don't want to depend everything to my grandma when I know I am able to earn. Financially independent, that's the term.
When the results of the exam were out, of course everyone who took the exam were excited but nervous at the same time. Fortunately, I passed. Right after that, my grandma told me to go home and apply for a Teaching position in our place which I did. But applying for a Teaching position is not that easy. From preparing the pertinent papers down to the Ranking is exhausting not only your body and mind but your budget as well. The results will not be released immediately since they need to checked and validated so again, I need to wait. I hate waiting so I applied for an Online Teaching just near our town. It's great since I am earning while waiting. Better than doing nothing and not being able to give to my family.
And as of now, I still finance myself. It was just so good the feeling when you can live all by yourself and at the same time, you can provide to your family.
I also had experienced being left out by friends. Since I can't catch up with them because of work, they seldom contact me and invite me to any occasion. But still, it's fine with me for I teach myself how to deal when people leave me behind and I think that's power.
I also experienced being cheated before. I personally saw the evidence of cheating. It hurts but then I felt glad after since I knew that I'm dealing with someone who's not worthy. Isn't it nice to let go of the people who destroy you?
There are a lot of men anyway so why worry? 🤭
There are a lot of situations when we can say we are strong, independent woman but I just like to highlight those. I can't think more since I am hungry lol.
Let us all be strong and independent!
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What's missing?
There are really times when we just want to go back at life when everything seems to be okay, to be happy and perfectly fine. Those days when we don't think of what to eat every day because we got our moms who will prepare it for us when we wake up. Those days when we watched television until we fell asleep and the next thing we knew is that we are on our comforting beds because dad carry us while we are asleep. Isn't it nice go back to those days? Ugh, I just miss my grandma and grandpa. I want to go home and eat my grandma's cooked food. I want to go home and have a sip of grandpa's homemade coconut juice. I just missed everything I have at home.
Can we just go back to those memorable moments even just for a day? How I wish this would be possible.
I also missed those days when my grandparents used to wake us up early in the morning just to let us drink soy milk. Oh how I love that drink. I also missed those days when we have our dear pigs I guess 10 pigs. I and my sisters used to feed them and shower them through the high pressure of water hose. But after many months of taking care of them, sadness will also came when they are ready to be sold. I can just smile while remembering those days I used to cry when our pigs were taken by the buyer.
There are also times when we feel so relaxed during rainy days.
The rainy day memory
It was Monday and the rain poured heavily letting the cold wind live in every corner of the house. Your mom turned on the T.V. and there you saw the news that there's a typhoon that's why the rain is raging. You told your mom if it's okay to not go to school and she said yes. So you stayed there in your room watching your favorite cartoon as the wind blows and you chose to be under the covers. Meanwhile, your mom brought you a hot chocolate milk for a little warmth.
Awww! How gold are those memories! Admit it or not, we've been through that certain stage though the setting is different but then the feeling is the same.
It's just so nice to look back to those memories. If given a chance, I will stay long to those times so I can take care of my grandparents more and thank them for everyday care.
The afternoon naps
There are also times when we are asked by our parents to have an afternoon nap. During those times, it's really a struggle for us and we would do everything just to escape the nap. Of course, our loving parents let us understand that we must take a nap in order to grow fast and because we are still kids, we don't care of that. All we are after of is to play and have fun. Consequently, we cried as our mom or dad let us sleep. As we cried, little by little, we fell asleep and I can still imagine how great the feeling was.
Now that we are older, we wish for longer time to sleep. If only we can go back to those days, then we would sleep willingly because we already know the feeling of wanting to sleep but you have no time for it.
Our first doctors and nurses
We were home from school after long hours. Minutes later, we realized that we are not feeling well and our temperature was a bit high from the normal one. We told mom or dad about it and they immediately touched our forehead to feel the temperature. After that, they let us rest as the prepare hot soup for we don't want to eat. I remember one time my grandma used to put a towel on top of my forehead with a little bit of venigar and alcohol. That smelled yuck but then we would get a spank if we take it.
After a while, my grandpa would buy Royal (a kind of softdrink) and an egg. In a glass of Royal, my grandma would pud egg yolk and mix them together. The after product would be my drink. I don't know why but most of the Filipinos do that before when someone is not feeling well. I don't know if that is still practiced as of now.
So after an over night sleep, we got better and the the temperature would be back to normal.
Undeniably, our parents/guardians/grandparents are our first doctors and nurses. They don't have the degree for it but they know how to make us feel better.
*There are a lot of things to be grateful for when it comes to our parents or to any one who took care of us. Even we are living separately from them, the bond is still strong and we would always long to be at the place we called home.*
Family is home. Home is family.
How about you? What are those things you missed at home? What are those things you will not forget your parents/grandparents/guardian do to you? I want to know! ☺️
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Stay away!
I feel sorry to those people who only nurture hate within their hearts. Considering that those people they hate are just relatives. Yes, relatives. Aren't relatives supposed to support each other? I mean we share the same blood, same family, and same roots.
Sorry for this not-so-good-thought. I was just here, enjoying every bite of freshly-picked pineapple. As I take every bite and munch it, I am also scrolling on Facebook looking for some update about the missing "chicken cordon bleu". Do you have any update? Lol. Meanwhile, I came across a facebook meme about family/relatives. It was stated there that, **"as long as you are still poor, some of your relatives don't know you yet".**
How sad would that be. Well, that's somewhat true anyway. I am not against your relatives. I am just going to base these thoughts on my own relatives. Those relatives who seem to live a better life than us. Those who think they are highly because they have the means to spend much, a well-built house and a stable job. Okay, they have everything. But even so, I don't like what's theirs and they can't have what's mine.
It is fine with me if they got such attitude. They must be so hardworking during their early lives, that's why they're successful today and there is nothing wrong with it. Not until they make fun of someone's poverty and degrade someone just because they don't have possessions like those riches have.
If you happen to watch the viral video of the famous "food package" by the seller Marjorie and the buyer, Maria, you would also realize that some of the rich ones would just easily downgrade the unfortunate.
Alright. I would not talk much about that issue since I am not so knowledgeable about it and even if I am, still I should not get my hands on it.
Dear lovely friends, stay away from those relatives who hurt your mom or anyone in the family.
This is just an advice and I don't force you to follow this as we have different principles in life and I do respect that. But in my case, I chose to be away to those relatives who hurt my grandma or anyone in my family.
I came to this point because I have witnessed ugly situations between me and my relatives.
Insulting instead of supporting
My mom got pregnant so early at the age of 14. Because I am her daughter, some of my aunts already predicted that I would be like my mom, and that I would not reach anything in life. I was young back then but I already understood what they are trying to say.
"Kung ano ang puno, siya rin ang bunga".
In other words, an apple tree cannot bear an orange fruit.
That's so injustice to base your future from your mother's mistake.
I cannot defend myself because of toxic Filipino culture which is to not talk back to elders. Seriously? Even if they're wrong? I guess it's not bad at all if we defend ourselves in a respectful manner.
*Out of respect, I just chose to be silent. Not because they are worthy of my respect but because I know how to respect.*
There's also one time when I remember we went to a family reunion. The venue is at the place of my aunt who has successful children working in abroad. Because of that, she has a nice and wide place to stay in which is perfect for the reunion.
When it was the time to eat, relatives who are rich are placed at a different table while the ones who are not, are placed in other side too. Meaning to say, there's someway division or gap between the rich and the less-privileged. Isn't that disturbing? Is there really a need to create a barrier just because of social status? It was a family reunion but it turned out to be a distinction of who's rich and poor.
What a family reunion.
**Accusing the poor ones**
There was also a time when one of my aunts who is also less-privileged was accused by a rich aunt. The rich aunt accused her that she got all the excess foods from the fridge. My poor aunt defended herself because she really did not get anything from the fridge. But the rich aunt kept on accusing her knowing that there are many people around. My poor aunt cried and I so pity her that time. If that's what it takes to rich, I don't want to be rich.
It's a gathering right? So don't he surprised if the foods were all gone because they're supposed to be eaten and not to be kept in a fridge.
**Lastly, when I saw grandma cried.**
It was again a family reunion and a death anniversary of someone so dear in the family. Since my grandma cooks good, one of the rich aunts told her to cook so there's no need to order. Instead of paying other people, the payment will just be given to my grandma. My grandma told her that it's fine with her even without any payment ot exchange for her efforts but then the rich aunt insisted.
It was a big celebration so it was also expected to prepare more food and my grandma prepared all those. After cooking, the rich aunt said that the foods were just too small and accused my grandma, keeping the rest of the foods. And what's even worst is that they didn't gave any compensation for grandma's effort. It's fine that they will not pay because grandma didn't asked for it. What makes it not fine is when they accused grandma for the thing she didn't do.
**Are they worthy to be called, family/relatives?**
I don't hate them at all because I will get nothing for hating. I just don't like being with them. Social status made them change. Before when they are not yet successful, they used to have the proper attitude and compassion for us. I guess money and possession can really change some people.
**Family is still a family.**
Yes that's true. What I learned from this experience is that even when they wronged you, you will still forgive them even they don't ask. Those relatives who have such attitude are still welcome. Bad attitude doesn't get better with bad attitude. Instead, let them realize the goodness that we have and see for themselves that they got something to change.
If they will not, that's their problem. If they will still not, stay away!
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What makes you bleed?
When you search on the internet, you can find a lot of definitions when it comes to the word, **bleed**. You might find medical related meaning or any figurative ones attached to the word. In this article, I would like to use the term, **bleed as being sad or sorrowful. What makes you bleed? What makes you sorrowful?**
In life, we can't avoid circumstances that make us sad. Sadness is part of our lives. Without it, we would not know what happiness means. If without sadness or sorrow, I guess life would be boring at all. Imagine being happy everyday? Well it's still fine but being challenged is what makes us feel like living. Oh not like, but living.
I know everyone has struggles or things that are running in mind. Though we know we are happy, there are still thoughts that are disturbing our peace. I guess that's what they called there's no such thing as forever happy. As what the song entitled "With a Smile" said,
You can never be too happy in this life.
If you were to be asked? What makes you bleed?
**I bleed everytime I see my grandparents over-worked**
Before the pandemic, grandma and grandpa used to sell barbecues in front of a university just near from home. Of course, classes before were face-to-face so there are really a lot of students who will buy barbecue as their viand. Our products are sold like hotcakes. Everyday products are sold-out. So we don't have thay much problem when it comes to financial. Pandemic came and classes were suspended. Consequently, my grandparents will not sell barbecues in front if the university since there are no students/customers. Well if there's any, just few people who are residing near.
Because of that, they accepted someone's offer to be the manager of farm (bantay sa farm). Since they need to take care of the crops there, they spend most of their time under the heat of the sun. They even plant the plots with the seedlings even if it's too hot. I can't imagine the heat they bear just to finish the work. That's why I understand what farmers feel. I feel so sad for them. That's why I seldom visit them there because I can't control myself or my tears. It's just too painful to bear.
I promised to myself that someday, I will let them stop working there and put them in the situation of life they truly deserve.
**I bleed when my grandma cries**
This is a very heartbreaking scene for me. Mothers are tough and if we see them cry, that means they are really hurt. I remember one time my grandma and I had our very first argument. She told me stop being so close with my friends for they are bad influence. That's because my grandma doesn't know I drink and party. In her eyes, I was the proper and soft girl. Well she was wrong. I was not the one who she wanted me to be.
After that, I told her everything I was after of. That I am different. That I don't want the girl she's trying to build. I even raised my voice to her. And for that she cried and as much as I don't want to cry, my tears fell, non-stop.
My heart really bleeds that time and I regret that.
**I bleed whenever I see animals being maltreated or hurt**
I always have a soft spot in my heart when it comes to animals, especially dogs and cats. I can't imagine how animal cruelty is happening around the world. And what's sad is that I can't help all of them. My heart bleeds if I see stray dogs and cats in the street striving to survive. Imagine how poor their life is searching for food and enduring all the coldness in the street as they sleep. If only I was so rich, then I would adopt every hurt animals I see.
Humans, if you can't be kind to animals, then please don't hurt them.
**I bleed when someone makes a joke about my family**
My family is not perfect. I and my sisters are not living with our biological mother since she's too young when she got pregnant. So we are left with grandma and grandpa. They are the ones who took care of us. I admit we don't have a beautiful house to live in. It actually looks like a hut rather than a house. It's because we are not that privileged to build big ones. Our grandparents spend their money on our food and our education so renovating the house is the least priority for it can wait. One time our neighbor made fun of our home and said it's like a rat's home so we should not act like rich ones. I was like omg, it doesn't mean that we are poor, we should dress so poorly. And why is that our house became their business?
I can't really forget that one since I was hurt. For that, I promised to myself that I will build a better home for my family.
**I bleed when I see children begging for food and money on the street**
This really breaks my heart. Even here, in the province, there are a lot of street children. Isn't it the responsibility of the parents to give them a good life? Why they make an offspring if they can't provide? If they are able to work, then why let their children roam around the street not even having slippers or something to protect their feet? 🥺 Oh God please help them. That's why whenever I see one and asked me for something, I gave them food instead of money so will just eat it immediately.
This is so heartbreaking but then we cannot shoulder all the responsibilities for them. All we have is to pray for them to have a bright future and help them with what we have.
There are a lot of things that saddened me but I don't want them to reside in my mind for long. Even if life gave us this instances, I believe we can get through this.
Let us rejoice whenever we feel like it. And if we feel sad, feel it until it hurts no more. That's how life goes.
How about you? What makes you bleed?
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Don't come near me!
There are things that we like but we're scared of it to come. Can you think what are those? It depends on the individual's perspective. I have a lot of things which I like but then I don't want to have because I don't like commitment or any responsibility.
One example is being in a relationship for so long. Haha! You may think I am crazy because most of want long term ones but here I am, wanting the opposite. I don't know but as time goes by, I found it boring if it will stay long. Well except family relationships. Of course I want them to stay longer of even forever.
What I mean is the relationship between opposite sex. I had been to relationships and I can say I had enough experience handling one. I know how not to fall deeply because I have been into a relationship when I loved really hard but then I was fooled. After that, I promises myself I will not let myself hurt. I don't want to get hurt because I don't want the people around me to see me in my weakest point. I've been there and I cried a lot because of a failed relationship and I don't want that again. NEVER!
*When I am into relationship, I honestly love the person it's just that I don't want to fall deeply. So I just treat my partner as special friend. Whenever he's around, I'm happy and when he's not around, I will still be happy. Isn't it amazing?*
**I think women should have the power to be fine when men leave them. Learn to be okay when people leave. Don't beg because if they truly care, they won't even leave in the first place.**
**Us women should not depend ourselves especially our happiness to anyone. Nothing is permanent. Everyone leaves when it's time and when that happens, you'll be fine. Yes, we will cry and get sad but not for long.**
**We should not find someone who will complete us. Let us learn how to complete ourselves because we are able to do so.**
**Don't build a man. Build yourself. The right man will not let you build him because he, himself built it for you whether you ask him or not.**
**Don't ask for attention not even once. Based from my experience, men do not want women who keep on asking most of their time. Men have things to attend. His world doesn't just revolve for you. Admit it or not, you're not the only one who makes him happy.**
**Don't control him. Let him be. If he wants you, he will show it. Don't make him a puppet and complain later on that he only did those things because you asked. Though we have the right to control our partner, that should not be abused. After all we are not dogs.**
Actually there are a lot of things which I considered as learning. And I am not saying this also applies to everyone. This is just my point of view and I understand if yours is way too different.
I wasn't expecting myself to be writing this since I don't like to talk about it. But then I got nothing else to write. I did not even publish an article yesterday because something has been blocking my mind. I think I need a drink. Haha!
Look how cute that baby is. 😍 I like to have that baby but I hate babysitting. I just want to take care of him whenever I want and when I am tired, I can just return him. Lol. Even if I will have a baby soon, I don't want to get married immediately. I just want to enjoy life being single.
I guess I was not yet matured and not ready in life. I am not even ready to give birth, my goodness I will die because of that. I have heard many women who died because they didn't make it as well as the baby, or perhaps the baby was alive but then the mother didn't survived. I can't imagine the pain during the delivery considering also that I hate being hospitals. I am afraid to be in a hospital. I don't want to be in a hospital again for it can trigger my anxiety.
Am I thinking normal? Sorry! 😁
It's just that I am afraid of commitment. Because of this, I have talked a lot and most are non-sense. Haha! Forgive me.
This is just how I viewed relationships as my age now. I don't know if this will change soon, but I do hope this will change for the better. For me this is quite selfish since I am only thinking of myself. I don't want to get hurt especially if for a man.
**If self-love is a selfish thing to you, so don't come near me.**
I respect everyone so better keep it that way. Do things your own and I will also do mine. But don't think I'm not open for opinion as I am welcoming if there's any.
How about you? How do you view relationship? Let's talk!
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Wait, what?
*We have moments when we felt we are just a balloon swaying as the wind blows in any direction. Full of air and nothing inside but vacuum. Those are the moments when we also feel we forget to bring our brains with us, and in connection, we will somehow lose our senses.*
*"Yun bang lutang ka at di mo alam kung dala mo ba talaga utak mo o sadyang careless ka lang". Lol.*
I have experienced moments that are funny but quite annoying. I felt like I was an air-headed potato because everything that was said to me seemed like easily to be forgotten. Like when grandpa told me to buy salt, I would buy sugar instead. Like when I am about to get something from my bag but then I forgot what to get. I also wore slippers that aren't in pair.
I don't know but I am certain we all went through that moment. Maybe in different ways but still it's counted as one of our '**lutang moments' (floated moments)** as what was indicated in the challenge.
Thank you so much be, @OfficialGamboaLikeUs for tagging me to do the challenge that you initiated. You can read her article too. Here's the link: https://read.cash/@OfficialGamboaLikeUs/my-lutang-moments-floated-moments-fa871ff7
This is a kind of fresh air since this is new and fun.
Let's start and get to know me more!
**My lutang moments (floated moments)**
**I called my teacher "nanay" (mother, mom, mommy)**
I was in elementary when I accidentally called my teacher, nanay. Haha! My classmates really laughed hard because they heard clearly what I said. It was my Math Teacher and we are having Math class. My teacher called me to answer the word problem on the board but then I knew myself that I am not good in Math for heaven's sake. I was really nervou because why not? Lol Unconsciously, I told this to my teacher:
I can't answer that **Nay**. I need time to solve it first in my chair.
Though that's not really awkward but I consider it as one of my lutang moments. Haha! Have you also experienced this one?
**I put sugar instead of iodized salt**
I was cooking fried rice when I unknowingly sprinkled the sugar instead of iodized salt. It was for breakfast and I need to hurry my cooking since grandpa needs to be at work early so he needs to eat early too. It was still so early so I was really sleepy. I prepared the spices the rice and all. When it was the time to enhance the flavor, I put sugar instead of salt. I was so wrong because I did not tasted it before giving to grandpa. To my surprise, grandpa puked all the fried rice in his mouth. Only then I realized that I put sugar when he told me it's sweet. I feel so bad because grandpa just went to work without eating. After that, my grandma never let me cook again.
**Forgot to wear undies**
I was in college already when this happened. Oh dear batch mates who are in here, please don't laugh at me hard. Hahaha!
Every Monday, we need to attend the Flag ceremony which I think starts at 7:15 in the morning. Failure to attend shall have a fine of 50 pesos if I remember it right. Well, this doesn't apply to all students in the university. This is a consensus in one our subjects. If we will come to school early, then we will not pay, right?
Afraid of getting a fine, I hurriedly prepare for school which made me forgot to wear underwear. Lol. I did not even notice it not until I went to the comfort room. 😂 Sorry!
**I called my grandma "love"**
It was when I was so busy texting with my ex. He was so funny that even when the call was ended, I still about him. Our term of endearment for each other was "love". Just right after our call, my grandma called me and told me to cook rice. I didn't want to but she will get mad and we won't have something to eat too. So I hastened and asked her --
How many cups of rice shall I cook, love? (pila man ka takos dung agon love?)
That was so awkward hearing myself called my grandma that way. Haha! And I know she knows that's our endearment between me and my ex.
**I told my crush I like him**
I had a lot of crushes when I was in elementary but there's this one boy who kept on making fun of me like he wanted to get my attention. He was handsome, with big eyes but not so, he has also fair skin. What I like most about him was the way he looks. He wore complete uniform which is so neat to look at. One time me and my friends are having snacks under the pine tree. I was not aware he joined us too. My friends knew I had a crush on that man so they asked me who my crush was, so I answered them with that boy's name and everyone was teasing me because that boy heard it too. Omg!
**I almost kissed my god-brother**
I won't tell what happened but I was just like a grass that time who just went along as the wind blows. Haha!
I had a lot in mind but I am so sleepy. We went through a lot of trips today which made me tired. So I guess this should be the end for now.
Those moments even some of them are embarrassing are so wonderful to look back. Some of them turned into lessons and some just turned into jokes. Without those moments, we will not be who we are today for they are part of us. What's even nice is that we have something to tell to our kids and grandkids someday.
How about you? You can share yours too! Let's see how far you went with your lutang moments.
I want to challenge @Murakamii.7 , @gwapojohn , @Sequoia , @Eylz2021 and @mommykim . Sorry for the tag guys, I just randomly chose from one of my friends here and it happened to be you, guys. Enjoy!
Thank you so much guys for reading! You've been so kind to me since day one.
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*There are days we feel fine and free. Those days when we are just happy and feeling relaxed. Oh I missed those when I just lay in bed and grandma will just call me to eat. Those days when we don't think what would we be tomorrow or have we ever did our best yesterday. In short, I want to go come to the days when life was all about play.*
*There are also days when we feel so tired that we want to take a pause from everything only if we can. Like we just want to lay in bed and rest. Those days when we just like to eat ice cream, binge-watch our favorite movies or just do nothing.*
*Sorry if this is somewhat too random. Haha! I was just so sleepy as of this moment since we have just arrived from the market. Please allow me people to share my affairs today.*
Last night, I was not in my nicest mood since I was tired and sleepy as well. I don't want to sleep without giving time to read.cash for this has become part of my routine. Time spent with read.cash seems like my duty and I'm always on a night shift. I was also annoyed last night since the little brother of my boyfriend keeps on spanking me whenever I'm within his reach. I don't want to be rude since he's still a kid but then he continuously did it though I told him not to. And take note, I was so sleepy that time so I'm not in my best mood to deal with a kid. Haha! Maybe I am just not fond of kids, but I don't hate them. I just don't want naughty ones.
So there, the little kid kept on disturbing me as I am reading articles.
I don't know if I read the articles right because I did not read it well since I'm annoyed and sleepy. I just know that I made a mistake in comprehending one of the articles I read. Haha! Sorry dear, @zellypearl. Thank for letting me know 🥺❤️.
She's one of my friends here who write so well. You can visit her and read her articles. Go! Go! Go!
So here, she informed we in a very nice manner and I am so happy to learn from my mistakes. You know accepting that you are at fault should not be a big deal for everyone. We are not born perfect right, and we will never be. So I accepted my bad. Let us appreciate when someone educates us because that just means they care for us.
**Lesson learned: Love kids haha**
I was also happy today because my article last night has reached more views and received many comments. This is my most read and commented article so far.
Forgive me but this just made me happy for I met new writers there and made friends. This is one of my goals being here in the platform. To be one with the writers and get to know them through writing. I just hope my upcoming articles will also reach this views and comments.
Currently, I also have 51 subscribers. I may not be able to know all of them but whoever they are, my heart thanks them genuinely.
Aside from that, there are many things which I am grateful of today.
I shared some of my earnings here to fellow bloggers though sponsoring them. It may be little but they are very thankful for it since they gave thanks to me. I am so happy in return.
I just learned this from grandma that whenever we receive blessings, we should also give to others.
I will also show my sponsors who are at full support always. Please check out their works. Those are all amazing and you would surely learn from them. They are also my inspirations here and my guide in making myself better or even the best, I may say. I may not know all of them personally but, they treated me like they know me and even care for me. For that, I want to thank them again. 🥰
I was also able to have my affiliates. Some of them are active and some of them are not yet active. I was really happy because I was able to help them in my own little ways. I just hope that they will continue doing their best here.
You can also visit them and read their articles. Might as well support them. Hehe!
Do you any of them here? Lol. They are just few but I'm planning to invite my friends so they will also know about read.cash. Honestly, only few people know about it here.
These are the things that I am thankful for today. To some this may seem little but for me these are success to celebrate big time. Me and my boyfriend even went to a restaurant to celebrate. Haha! Yes, we did! It's just a small celebration tho but it's the thought that matters.
We had pizza, siopao which is my fave now, fried chicken with unli rice and ice cream. We love unli rice. How about you? 😁 That's why we grow big together. We also give box of pizza to neighbors. Just 3 neighbors. Haha!
I was really happy today though I'm sleepy since I woke up. Read.cash really had a great influence in me now and I can't imagine what would I be doing without it.
I learned to give more, to build camaraderie, dig dipper about the crypto world and respect differences of views among people who came from different places. I also learned how to appreciate everything that someone shows. My perspective is now wider.
**How about you? What are you thankful for today?**
**What makes you feel alive?**
**Or shall I say, what made your day today?**
Let us communicate!
Thank you so much guys for reading! You've been so kind to me since day one.
Thank you so much again for your time! To my sponsors, upvoters and to those who comments, I am sending you my warmest gratitude! Let's talk and get to know each other well.
You can also reach me at marianovylhyn@gmail.com
Ciao! ❤️
Who's afraid of what?
*We are not born to feel nothing. Even the strongest, hurt. Even the heroes, bleed. Even the powerful, became weak. As humans, it's okay be afraid. I don't know if anyone in here doesn't feel scared of something. Well, I salute you for that. 👏 I also wish I am not afraid or scared of something.*
Hello lovelies! It's Saturday funday! I wish you all the best today whatever you're doing.
Actually, I don't feel the willingness to write today. I don't know I just want to sleep. Maybe because I've been answering modules since last night until now. I haven't gotten enough sleep since I need to finish this today. I tried to do it as fast as I can but then I don't want to compromise the content quality. Can anyone do the last module? Hahaha!
Glad I came across @Eylz2021 's article. I enjoyed reading it since it's all about the things she's scared of. We do have things in common which we are afraid of and these are the frogs and thunder. Because of that, she told me to also write about things I am afraid of and I'm giving it a yes! Thanks, friend @Eylz2021 You're my angel today. 😁
Things that I am afraid of:
**Frogs**
Looking at it in the picture is the bravest thing I did today. I can't even dare to stare at it for long. I don't know but I just don't like the sight of any frog. No offense to those who like frogs tho. It's sill your choice and I'm not against it. After all, they are still creations of God.
I start to become scared of it when my grandma said I would get skin disease when a frog urinates me. I remember the day when I accidentally step on a big frog and I felt the softness of it's body. 😩 I just cannot. Some people here also eat frogs of a specific type. I don't know what to call those types but it's still a frog.
They call it "adobong palaka". https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://nhymbe.net/adobong-palaka/amp/&ved=2ahUKEwiluIXEkfvxAhUh-WEKHVv9CQ4QFjANegQIAxAG&usg=AOvVaw0RY7qnQLDawNQnHRx1bZuJ&cf=1
They said it tastes like chicken meat. How about you? Do you also have this kind of dish in your place?
Again, no offense to those who don't eat frogs. We have different cultures and ours happen to include this as one of our dishes. ☺️
**Thunder**
Since I was a kid, I am so scared of this. I like rain but it's not the same it it's accompanied with thunder. Whenever I hear thunder, especially when I see lightning as well, I just feel like I will be struck by it and turn to ashes.
**Strong Typhoons**
As I said, I like rain but not that bad like strong typhoons. It's because our house is made of bamboo and it's not as strong as the wind the typhoon may bring. During typhoons, I am always worried since I can feel our house will move with the strong wind. I'm also afraid that our roof would also go with the strong winds. There was a time when our roof was almost destroyed by the typhoon. Fortunately grandma and grandpa were able to do something about it while the typhoon is raging.
I don't want to see a scene like this that's why I'm working so we can build a new house.
**Drunk people in the street**
When I was a kid, I was afraid of drunkards who are wasted in the street. I just feel like they might do something bad in me or worse, rape me. Well, I guess I was just influenced with what I saw in movies. But now that I drink and also got drunk sometimes, I'm bot afraid of them since they are my friends now. 😂
**Cockroach**
That feeling butterfly animal is a big no for me. They stink and are dirty as well. They have that weird face. Lol. I just don't like to see them. I have traumatic memories with cockroach that's why I hate them but I don't want to kill them.
One time they creep inside of my blanket and got into my skin so I was awaken. I was curious what's crawling so I touched it and found out it's cockroach. 🤢
A cockroach bite or maybe sting my lips. I don't know what's the right term to use haha! But grandma said a cockroach bite my lips that's why they're swollen. Ew!
**Being alone for a long time**
I want to be alone but not for long. I have an anxiety and my panic attacks would kill me if I am alone. If I'm alone, my mind will create a scene which triggers my anxiety. I don't want that.
**Blood**
I love my own blood because that's what keeps me or us alive but to see blood coming out from someone's body is s NO again. I have this weird trait that I feel the pain of someone I saw bleeding. And that will cause panic in me making me have difficulty in breathing.
**Hospital**
I've been hospitalized battling between life and death so going back from it will just bring back all the memories. Even if I'm sick, I will not choose to go to hospital. Not unless it's severe.
**Dolls**
I love playing dolls when I was a kid. I actually had one and I even sew her dresses. I don't know what happened it's just so sudden when I got afraid if it. Maybe because my best friend who helped sew my doll's dress died because of bone cancer. Or perhaps another influence of movies again wherein I saw dolls from horror movies.
In one of my online classes, my regular student showed her doll and I freaked out but I didn't let it show because she might feel bad. Haha! But that time, I am avoiding the sight of her black-eyed doll.
I have a lot of things in mind but I will not be able to write all since I need to finish the learning modules today. That's all for now lovelies! I hope you find this worthy of your time. Lol.
How about you? What makes you scared?
You can write about that too! Enjoy!
Special mention to @Murakamii.7 Welcome to read.cash mamshy! I dare you to do this challenge too. Hahaha!
Thank you so much guys for reading! You've been so kind to me since day one.
Thank you so much again for your time! To my sponsors, upvoters and to those who comments, I am sending you my warmest gratitude! Let's talk and get to know each other well.
You can also reach me at marianovylhyn@gmail.com
Ciao! ❤️
Hello lovely people! How do you do? I hope you're doing fine wherever you are, whatever you do. 😁 Can you please help me welcome another friend of mine? She's a good writer by the way. She's new here and still on the process of exploring everything here. She's @Murakamii.7 You can also read her first article and give her comments there as well as suggestions if there's any. https://read.cash/@Murakamii.7/always-wanting-for-more-4a949be9
Thank you very much! 🤗
Auld Lang Syne
*I was just a kid then. And you were too. We've been through playful days where we we only think of how to get our favorite barbie dolls, or perhaps to race with toy cars for boys. These are the days when we don't think of tomorrow. No worries, no problems, no guilt. Just pure happiness and innocence. I remember one time when my grandma used to go to but groceries, I will always tell her to brought me some bread when she gets back. Oh how nice to look back to those memories.*
**Auld Lang Syne**
**When I was a kid:**
I got hit by a jeepney
For some who are not yet familiar with jeepney, you can refer from the photos above.
Yes, I got hit by a jeepney when I was 5 years old. This is an embarrassing for me since I was not wearing underwear when that happened. I was in the comfort room letting the bomb out when suddenly, my auntie who was 18 years old back then told me that we are heading somewhere and I need to hurry since the food was ready. Because of that, I hurriedly went out of the comfort room wearing my pink dress without wearing my underwear. I forgot. Geeezzz!
We went there by riding a bike. My auntie was the one driving and I am just riding on the front corner sitting on a metal. When we arrived at the place, we ate salad, cakes, leche flan and other desserts. That was my most favorite day that time since we seldom eat those kinds of food at home.
It's 5 o'clock in the afternoon when my auntie decided to go home since she forgot to tell my grandma that she'd take me there. We were on the street when she forgot about bike. She needs to cross the other side of the road because the bicycle was there. She left me on the other side to get the bicycle. As a 5-year-old kid, I thought she was going to leave me there so I crossed the street and got hit by a jeepney. My auntie said I did roll 3 times and after got hit, I immediately rose.
Luckily, nothing serious happened aside from the cut in my face. I did not felt any pain. But, the accident happened with me, not wearing underwear. 🥲
I was chased by a crazy and pervert man
There was this man who's known to be pervert and crazy. He lived in an abandoned house just near from ours. My friends and I happened to get inside his house one time when he wasn't there. We searched everywhere until my friend founds some coins. They put the coins in their pocket and we immediately ran.
The next day, my friends decided to go again. I don't want to get coins from that crazy and pervert man. I just want to go with my friends. But before that, we planned something bad. We put ashes inside a small box and planned to spread it all over his face. When we got there, the man was asleep. One of my friends slowly went near him and sprinkle the ashes all over the crazy man's face. He noticed it and went mad. He chased us with his axe making us run so fast. Lol. That's nerve rocking one.
I almost get drowned
The sea is heaven for kids like me. Whenever I saw my friends there swimming, I also want to swim with them but then my grandma won't allow me. I got so envy seeing my friends there enjoying so I hastened to swim with them without letting my grandma know.
I swim and swim until I didn't notice that I was far away from the shallow part of the sea. My feet can't touch the ground anymore and so I swim as fast as I can until I got tired. I stopped swimming and screamed for help. Fortunately our neighbor was there and he helped me out. I really can't forgot that day when I went home and my grandma already knew what happened.
I want to grow old
Back then, I always pray to get older so I can work and provide for my family. I even asked my grandma why my mother did not gave birth to me as early as she can. I remember also when my grandma was on her period and saw her put pads in her undies. I will also put mine after secretly getting pads from her cabinet. I also wore lipstick because my grandma is wearing one too.
Everyday, I would let my grandma measure my height so I would know if I grow each day. That's how crazy I went. But now, I want to rest from being an adult. Lol. Sometimes I want to go back as a kid.
I don't want to take afternoon naps
This is my most hated part of the day when grandma will call us from playing. At exactly one o'clock in the afternoon, she would let us sleep for she believed we will grow fast if we sleep during afternoons. God knows kids love playing. I don't want to take a nap since I want to play.
I pretended sleeping and waited for my grandma to fall asleep. When she's already snoring, I know she's asleep so I would slowly sneak out and play again.
I watched TV from outside of neighbors house
I really can't forget this since it just means how poor we are. Me and my sisters would go to that house where cartoons are played. We would just peep from the window. The movie was Lion King so we stood outside the house for long just to finish the movie.
But, unexpectedly, the owner closed the windows. Haha! So we went home sad. That's the time when I also promised to myself that someday, I will become rich and have everything I don't have when I was a kid.
Miss @bmjc98 will be celebrating her anniversary this coming August 5. In connection, she initiated a challenge wherein she will randomly pick lucky writers through a random generator. Those who'll win shall receive giveaways accordingly.
So this is my entry in her challenge. The challenge was, Getting To Know You More Challenge: When I Was A Kid. Please read her article for more info. https://read.cash/@bmjc98/getting-to-know-you-more-challenge-when-i-was-a-kid-6c5daa12
To join, one must follow the rule:
Tag Miss @bmjc98 in your article.
Link in to your work the article of Miss bmjc98 about "Getting To Know You More Challenge: When I was a kid".
Here's the link:
https://read.cash/@bmjc98/getting-to-know-you-more-challenge-when-i-was-a-kid-6c5daa12
Comment down your article link to her article.
https://read.cash/@bmjc98/16-days-before-my-1st-year-anniversary-on-my-first-bch-platform-ever-52fd13ce
Thank you so much guys for reading! You've been so kind to me since day one.
Thank you so much again for your time! To my sponsors, upvoters and to those who comments, I am sending you my warmest gratitude! Let's talk and get to know each other well.
You can also reach me at marianovylhyn@gmail.com.
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Ciao! ❤️
Happy first monthsary!
*Today, I got to celebrate my first month here. I was then lonely and living without a purpose. But now, I become so alive.*
*Thank you so much, read.cash for making my days productive! I could not imagine how my life would be without you.*
*Today marks my first month here. Happy first month to me! 🎉 I made it through!*
At first, I never thought that I would be staying here for long. I never even thought that I would be noticed by the generous Rusty.
Why I did not join read.cash
I know nothing about this platform not until my friend, @Zhyne06 messaged me if I am interested to join in. She explained everything to me including the earnings. She also mentioned about BCH and other crypto-related terms which I don't understand yet. Since I am working as an online teacher that time, her invite did not interest me at all. I also had enough earnings from online teaching that's also why I am not really drawn to read.cash that time. I was lazy that time too!
If I remember it right, I think I did not respond to her last message. 😁 Sorry mamshy! I guess that was February just this year.
I file a leave from work
It was this month of April when I decided to rest from work for some personal reasons. Glad that the office owner and manager let me do so. Consequently, I got no source of income the following months. I do have savings but I spent it little by little until what remains is also little. 🥲
God really favored me that time since He did not let me live with nothing in my pocket. Zhyne06 or Flor messaged me again and invited me to join read.cash for the second time. She even gave me 100 pesos worth of load so I can register and start my read.cash journey. How generous that girl is.
I created my read.cash account and start navigating the site. It was my first time so I got a lot of questions which Flor answered without hesitation. I know she was busy because she has a kid already but then she gave time to teach me everything.
First attempt was a failure
I created my account and I slowly learned how the platform works. I am not so active before since I thought if I will just leave 5 comments a day and publish later on, that would be enough. As a result, I was not noticed by Rusty. I think I already published 3 articles in my first account. I was about to write my 4th article but then I can't access my account. The website didn't accept my username, even my email and password. I tried everything but can't retrieve it.
Thank you, read.cash!
I was determined that time to be in the platform again. I borrowed my boyfriend's phone and created another account since I can't access the old one. And this is it, the account I am using.
I tried to be active as I can. I spent my whole day reading articles and gave comments. As a return, few bloggers have noticed me already. They even gave me generous tips. My first article up to my third article were not yet noticed. I did not mind it. I still continue writing and spend most of my time reading articles. My friends, the BCH beauties are always motivating me too.
I published my 4th article and tadaaa! The visitor I so long to have has arrived. 😁🎉
Happy first month!
Today marks my first month in here and I am just so happy that I stayed. I gained subcribers and had kind sponsors. I already published 22 articles including this. But what I value most is the camaraderie I build with the amazing writers here.
Even if I am still in my first month, I felt like I already achieved a lot. I was able to celebrate my brother's birthday using the earnings from read.cash. I was also able to help my mom buy washing machine and gave funds to repair our ceiling. These are all great achievement to me. I made my family happy and so my heart is happy too.
I am just so thankful and happy today.
To celebrate, I treat my grandma to a restaurant just the two of us. Haha! My sisters were not at home and grandpa was working too so it's just me and her.
Of course, I also plan to save because I also dream of having or achieving that 1 BCH. If I can. Lol. It's not bad to dream of it so yeah, road to more BCH! 🎉
I also invited some of my friends here but only one made it through as of now. Some of them just registered and did not continue. Some also registered and published one article and then quit because they were not given by the bot. I told them everything. The process, how to publish, to interact and all but it seemed like they want an easy money without giving effort. Lol. There's no easy money. I was just so sad for them and I felt like I just wasted my time. Haha! But it's up to them.
I know this may not interest you since this is just all about me. You may find it boring but thanks for reading tho. Hehe!
Closing
*What I learned from my experience is not give up easily. Life will test you if how much dedicated and willing you are to pursue what you desire. You can't get what you want in an instant so work for it. Trust the process and don't rush your way to success. Are you not ashamed to long for success when you are just doing nothing? Move!*
Thank you so much guys for reading! You've been so kind to me since day one.
Thank you so much again for your time! To my sponsors, upvoters and to those who comments, I am sending you my warmest gratitude! Let's talk and get to know each other well.
You can also reach me at marianovylhyn@gmail.com.
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Ciao! ❤️
Who are you? Find yourself.
*Dig deeper.*
*Go beyond the surface and explore.*
*How much do you know yourself? Let's get to know each other.*
I was just reading articles in my homepage. I was hooked in reading controversial ones but I don't like chaos so I just didn't finish reading. I clicked the notification bell and found someone tagged me to do another challenge. Yay! Great! I immediately clicked on it and read the article to see how the challenge goes. The challenge was to say something about yourself depending on the question of your choice. And I was like, oh well, this is about my life again and wonder if it will interest others or if they will read it perhaps. But nahh, whatever, I will write according to what I like as long as it conforms to the rules and as long as it's non-hurting. Let's just all be happy. Shall we?
Alright. Thank you for the tag mamshy @Janz To you dear friends, you can try this challenge too. Just click, Find yourself. https://www.pinterest.ph/pin/708120741412256330/?fbclid=IwAR2LG5CCuZH2sppEyNdaUZ74Vp9GLXkSIks37E_lJK2StdT2O18T8heNrSc
Basically there are 50 questions to find your best self.
All of the questions are interesting to answer but I can't choose all of them or else you might be like reading a whole book. 🤣 I will just choose 5. So let's start!
What do I love about myself and my life?
*I just love myself the way I am. Since birth until now. My life is my biggest blessing and being me is the best choice I would ever choose if ever we will be given a chance to choose who and what we like to become before our mothers can give birth to us. Isn't it amazing? But yeah, I will never do that. Everything that's in me completes me.*
*I love myself for I am the granddaughter of my grandma and grandpa. I love myself for I am the elder sister of my siblings. I love myself because I am a friend to everyone who knows me real. I love myself for God created me. I don't want to be anybody else though I know they got the best life. After all they don't have what is mine and I don't like what they have.*
Am I practicing enough self care?
*Yes I do but I don't think that's enough. Lol. But I'm pretty sure that I am taking care of myself since this is where my soul lives. In every thing I do, I always think if this or that might hurt me or what is it for me. But there are sometimes when I forgot how to take care of myself accordingly. Those are the times when I stayed up late at night or not even sleeping because I was on party. And being on a party for me is to drink. I drink so hard and too much when I know it's bad for me. There are also some times when I chose to be sad rather than be with people who make me happy. I don't know but there are just some times that I'm not aware I'm not taking care of myself. My boyfriend even told me to have an exercise and get some heat from the sun since I am always at home, seldom going outside. The bottom line here is that I or we should practice enough self care for our body or our health is our real wealth.*
What am I grateful for?
*There are a lot of things to be grateful for. First one is my family. I would never ever trade them for a million dollars. They are my home and without them, I don't think I will be here, writing this article. We don't have a luxurious life but then my family especially grandma and grandpa don't let us feel that we are the poorest of the poor. Yes, they did not finish their studies but they manage to raise us with their dirty hands. And when I say dirty, it means that they are working through labor. My grandma always has dirty hands since she's a barbecue vendor wherein she needs to get in touch with the charcoal, the dust coming from it and the heat. My grandpa also had his hands dirty because he works in a farm wherein he needs to plow the field, plant seedlings, fed the swines and other things to do in a farm. Their dirty hands raised us well and for that, I would be forever grateful. 🥺*
How do I describe myself?
*I can't describe myself in one word since I am ball of attitudes. Haha! I am hardworking most of the time, char! And sometimes not. I am also easy to be with depending on the people also. If they don't like me, it's fine. I am also talkative and silent. I am friendly but most people say I'm not. Maybe because of my face. Not sure tho. My sisters also said that I am mean and caring at the same time. Some would also said that I think so highly of myself because I did not mingle to them. And I was like why would I mingle with the people who only say negative about us? No way. They think I don't know everything but little do they know I have someone who reports to me. Hahaha! Mga chismosang kapitbahay.*
*That's it. To sum it up, I think my attitude depends on the people. Who I am for them depends on who they are for me. Sorry but I don't tolerate or show kindness to someone who mess with us especially if they're hurting my grandma. I'm neither martyr nor saint.*
What can I forgive myself today?
*I forgive myself today for being the cause of pain to someone. To someone who only showed love to me. I wish to talk to him but I don't have my ways to talk and I'm much too shy to ask. You know it's really hard to forgive yourself when someone you've done wrong is out of reach. I mean if your are not sure if that person is okay now and is doing his life well. I just want to make sure he's fine now only then I can be at peace. But now, I'm slowly accepting that I cannot change what has been done and I cannot be guilty my whole life. I am letting myself free slowly and slowly. I am just really looking forward to talk to that person if time will let us. Maybe he has forgiven me but I believe it's really hard to forget.*
**Thank you so much, Steve. My heart still aches.**
Thank you so much guys for reading! You've been so kind to me since day one. Anyway, can you please help me welcome my friend? I guess he already published an article. He's @gwapojohn Just don't mind his nickname for he said that's just a product of his mistake. Hahaha!
https://read.cash/@gwapojohn/hello-readcash-e763242e
Thank you so much again for your time! To my sponsors, upvoters and to those who comments, I am sending you my warmest gratitude! Let's talk and get to know each other well.
You can also reach me at marianovylhyn@gmail.com
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Ciao! ❤️
It's not funny
I scrolled on Facebook. I was hooked by someone's post so I clicked on it. Her post was about pregnancy. She is stating there that she's so lucky to have her first baby though it was not planned.
**This was her post in Bisaya (Bisaya is our dialect):**
`"Kanang nag pa check up ka sa Doctor kay sakit ang imong kalawasan, ginaubo, tas sipon, sabayan pag sakit sa tiyan ug ulo nya mahibal-an nimo buntis diay ka 😩❤️ Lord, I’m not ready yet but I am so thankful🙏🏻. Mao diay mura kog malipong pirme ug init pirmi ang ulo, nya ginagutom pirme, murag tanan nalang pagkaon gusto nako kaunon.😘😘😘`
`#Blessing#1monthPreggy😇#2021baby"`
**Translation in English:**
`"That moment when you go to the Doctor to have a check up because your body hurts, you have a cough, a cold, a stomach ache and a headache, only to find out that you're pregnant 😩❤️ Lord, I'm not ready yet but I am so thankful🙏. Now I understand why I am always dizzy, I easily get irritated, and always hungry like I want all the food I want to eat.😘😘😘`
`#Blessing#1monthPreggy😇#2021baby"`
I knew that girl so I was happy for her. I am about to end reading, and congratulate her but, luckily I tapped see more to read more of what she wrote.
**Her Conclusion (Bisaya)**
`"Ps. Sana all tsismosa Gi COPY PASTE LANG NAKO NI`
`Mao diay pirme lang ko maglagot, init ug ulo ug murag malipong pirme kay`
`WALA LANG DIAY KOY KWARTA!!"`
**Translation in English**
`"I hope you're all gossipers! This is merely a COPY AND PASTE.`
`That's why I'm usually angry, heated, and brash, and I always appear perplexed`
`I JUST DON'T HAVE ANY MONEY!!"`
Omg I was pranked! I almost message her and send my congratulations but then it's just for fun. Why didn't I think of that. Haha! I just laughed how I was fooled. But, something came out of my mind. I was thinking,
"What if I repost this one?"
"Would my friends believe?"
"Will my chismosang kapitbahay found this interesting too?"
"What if they will not finish reading it and think that I am pregnant for real?"
I don't know what happened but I just found myself on Facebook, navigating my way to **add to story button. Copy, paste and click!**
**Copied, pasted and posted**
Tadaaa! I just repost that girl's post to my Facebook story. I don't but I became a fool and dumb that time. I was just curious what reactions I will be getting. But I'm still nervous too because my relatives might see it and not read it fully. Omg! 😁 There's no turning back!
After a minute, I just received comments and messages regarding about it. Even @OfficialGamboaLikeUscongratulated me after seeing that. Sorry be! Haha!
Actually I divided the first part which is the pregnancy revelation to be in the first story, and put the "it's just a copy, paste" at the second part of the story. So if someone will just view the first one, they will not read that it's just a prank. They must also view the second one.
First part
Second part
And I was right! There are a lot people who congratulated me because they haven't seen the second part. 🤣 I was just laughing while I read the messages but then I immediately informed them that it's not true. I was also surprised because there are also some of neighbors who don't like me but duhh, still sent a congratulations. I didn't mind them. They are just waiting for something to be spread to other gossipers as well. I don't mind, let them think what they think.
Apart from that, my story also received more views compared to my usual ones. Some of my close friends didn't believe because they know me already.
Night came and still, messages and viewers are still popping. Some said, congratulations and some said, I knew this was a joke. I just felt so much fun in it. I also tried to joke around saying that what if it's true? 😁
It was the next day that the story has been deleted since it will just last for 24 hours. I checked on it and it's gone already. I also did not responded to some messages I got. I just went through my way on read.cash, read articles, give comments and publish mine. After that, I went through Facebook again. But after some time, I just realized that what I did was very wrong. I shouldn't joke about pregnancy. No one should take it as funny. How insensitive I am to not think about it.
*I realized that pregnancy is one of the hardest part of girls' lives yet a big blessing. I was insensitive for not thinking of those woman who wishes to have a child but can't. I was insensitive for thinking that pregnancy is just a piece of cake. Lastly, I was also insensitive for not being able to think that babies are gifts. I should not make fun of them.*
After that, I visited the story which is now in archive. I realized that I fooled a lot of people just for the sake of fun. I am so mean. I was planning to make another story to apologize but then I realized it would create a fire again so I decided not to and never do it again.
It's not funny
When I went home, my sister said something to me which made me laugh and annoyed a bit. She said that one if her friends who's my friend too say something to her.
"Wow! Congratulations, Nik. You are now an auntie".
I cannot complain. This is what I get for being dumb.
I learned my lesson.
Hello lovelies! How have you been? Sorry for this article. I know some of you might don't like what I did but yeah, let me learn my lesson.
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Everyone thinks I am unconcerned
***"When an accusation is thrown at you that does not fit you, when it doesn’t capture what you know to be true about yourself or your behavior, mentally flip it back on your partner. He is likely accusing you of what he is doing or feeling. Accusations can be about the narcissist’s own vulnerabilities and weaknesses."*** - Ramani Durvasula, Should I Stay or Should I Go?: Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist
The words you receive from someone might not reflect you at all the time. It might be the true reflection of that person who relay you the message. Or maybe sometimes, neither of both. The accuser just wants you to be perfect and so he throws words to make you do so.
I was not born perfect and I will never be one.
I woke up at 5 AM. Yes, it's early than my usual time of waking up. I just feel like it to wake up that early or perhaps it's because I slept unhappy last night. That's also the reason why I was not unable to publish anything. Yesterday I was okay. I was with my family and spent over my day with them. I also had a quick hang-out with some of my friends.
We had snacks and talked about things that are new for us to catch up with each other's affair. Until I reach home and rest.
Evening came and I receive such discouraging words from someone. I will not drop the name but this person is so much close to me. **He said that I looked like I don't care about everyone else's opinion about me wherein fact they just care about my welfare. It seemed like I just disregard the words from the elders and do everything I want. I should have been talking to them, bond with them but then I was just spending my time alone in one room. Locked myself in there and kept sleeping. He also said that I should go out and exercise. And not to act like I don't care.**
Actually I'm not shocked about it because this is not the first time I heard this. This has been always the cause of arguments. I don't like being questioned of what I I'm doing. I'm at the right age and I'm still in the right frame of mind. Yes, I won't deny that I'm always in the room, locking myself in there but I am not lazy. Yes, sometimes I may not be able to socialize to people but that doesn't mean I don't like to be with them. There are just days that I just want myself to be alone to have my **"me"** time.
Little do they know that I'm not sleeping all the time I was in the room. I answered the modules I was tasked to do so and it's not easy because there are a lot of modules in every course. Every module also has different tasks that are not easy to do. I spent my time in the room just to finish it as soon as I can. The time frame to finish the module is 4 months but then I'm almost done in just a month. And they don't know that because they are not asking. They just conclude based on what they saw on the outside. Should asking be the first thing to do before passing judgment?
Little do they know that not temporarily working does not make me less of a person. I asked for a leave from work because my eyes are not in condition. Since my work is online teaching, I can't avoid not to face the computer. My work doesn't also allow us to have our day offs during weekends since those days are peak hours and we are obliged to work from 9 o'clock in the morning to 10 o'clock in the evening. Imagine how much radiation would I get from that. We couldn't argue since we are center-based, not home-based and we should follow the set standards of the center. Unlike those teachers who have all the equipment and facilities at home that they are the one who control when to work depending on their availability. We don't have that equipment and all to teach online so I settled to being in the center where in they provide all and ready for teaching but then 30% of your salary would go to the center. If you have a salary of 1,000 pesos, 300 of it would be auto-deducted. For me I think this is too much. It's okay if your salary will be deducted once every month but no, it's twice. Our salary is deducted every cut-off and there are two cut-offs in one month. But then that's still fine than not having a job during this hard times.
I worked for 6 months there and after, I decided to have a leave just to rest and to prioritize first my health. I would just get back when everything is fine. I miss teaching but then my health is more important.
Even though I'm not yet working again, I still earn just being at home. Glad that I met read.cash. Thanks to @Zhyne06 for always giving me a push to join in and encouraged me everytime I feel like this platform is not for me. Though I felt I must give up, I didn't because I am thinking of the future. That I should he financially independent working or not. That I should be able to provide because I am the eldest.
Thanks to read.cash
Slowly I am able to provide for myself and to my family. And this is one of the reasons why I chose to stay inside my room. I am writing. I am writing to earn, I admit that. But that's not the only reason. I am also writing to communicate and to be understood.
People who don't understand what I am after of would think I'm unconcerned of everything. That I only think of my own and it hurts me. That's why before I sleep last night, I let out all the heartaches that have been compiled like a wall. As a result, I feel better. I feel better when I woke up.
*As early as I am awake, I decided to have a walk from home to somewhere. As I pass by, rays from the sun touched my skin like patting me, telling me it's fine. The wind also soothes me like hugging me to stop from thinking.*
*The birds, the dogs, and the cats that I saw on my way comforts me like they are smiling sweetly. Consequently, I came back with a happy heart.*
They only saw one side me and that's why ...
Everyone thinks I'm unconcerned.
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How this day tested my patience
Thoughts for the day
*There are days that turned out to be our favorites and the ones that turned out to be burden. That's life. Not everyday is our day.*
*We can't control the situation but at least we can control how we respond to it.*
Good evening friends from everywhere around the world. It's glad to be back here. Even if I'm just few hours inactive today, I missed talking to everyone here. I feel like I have more articles to read and comments to reply. Honestly, I don't like to be late for everyone here. I feel like this is my second home. Whenever I feel away and unattended, I have this feeling inside that I need to be online here on read.cash. Haha! Do you feel that too? Even if you don't have something to write, you urged to navigate the website and click "write article". I am feeling that too, as of now. Though I have nothing to write, I still want to publish something and get in touch with you all. All right! Let me apologize first for this writing. My brain is not with me these days. "Where are thou, my brain?" I miss you big time.
So today, I just want to share what happened to my day. This day is testing my patience. And glad that I still managed to my maintain my patience despite the odds. I woke up early this morning so I can take a bath early too. They said taking a bath early is good for health and so I tried. It was just 5:00 AM. As I take a bath, when I'm about to get the shampoo, unfortunately there's nothing inside of the shampoo container. I am all wet and already at the comfort room so getting dressed again just to buy one is really a hassle for me. So what I did was I took all the small amount left on the container and rinse it with a little bit of water so I can have even just a small pea. Oh geeez! It was not really enough for my thick and long hair. But still, be patient self. This is just a bad shampoo day. Tomorrow is another day and I'm going to buy shampoo today.
As I was done taking a bath, I dressed up already. I also planned to go to my friends today and that's one of the reasons why I woke up early. It's breakfast time! My boyfriend didn't woke up early so there's no one to prepare for our meal. I will prepare though but he told he's going to be the one to do it so I didn't mind. But, what I have found out is he was still sleeping. He has work so he needs to get up! So because of that, we ended just buying canned goods which is Tuna and we don't have time to cook it (it's ready to eat tho). Ughhh! That's just so bad to eat during breakfast.
But then again, I have to be patient.
After eating, my boyfriend went to work and I also look for tricycle so I can go home and go to my friends. I found one in just a minute. On our way, I noticed that the motorcycle keeps on stopping and the machine sounded like bubble. I didn't mind it at first until the motorcycle stopped. Oh God! Not this time please. I have been unlucky since I woke up. The driver took some tools and fixed the machine but he was not able to fix it. Consequently, we have to get off and wait for another motorcycle to pass by. Most of the motorcycles are full so we waited for almost an hour. 🥲 Patience, Maria. Patience. It was longer time waiting but I still managed to ride on another motorcycle.
When I was at home, I checked on my phone because I have to checked read.cash. I was annoyed again when I saw my battery at 5%. I looked for my charger but I left it in my boyfriend's house. I asked grandma so I can borrow her charger but then she said her charger is not working. 🥲 Patience! Patience! This was the reason why I was not able to go online during daytime.
This has been my worst day for this month so far. I wish this was the last one for this month. My mind is not stable these days and the high temperature is contributing to it too. I just realized that my bad temper rises if the temperature is high as well. I easily get irritated and I felt like my mind is always floating. It's been three days now since I can't feel where my brain exactly is. Sorry for this article if you may somehow found this nonsense. Haha!
As of now, my thoughts are not in tacked and my motivation to do something is very very low. I need to recharge and I guess I need to sleep early too. Wait, is it still early? Haha!
How about you, how's your day? I hope it's not the same as mine. I would be glad to know if you're doing well. I am also excited to read the articles I haven't read for today. I just miss you guys.
Today's article just talk about PATIENCE. Everyday, we are not expecting it to be perfect. There are some days that are favorable to us and there are some days that are not. It's just a bad day and not a bad life at all. Those bad days just measure how vast your patience is and how far can your goodness go as a person. They said patience is a virtue and yes, it's true! If you won't be patient and just get mad, still you can't change the situation so better accept it and think of something amazing on how to not make the situation worse. BE PATIENT and everything will go smooth.
If you have noticed, lead images from my recent articles are all animals. I love animals and seeing them as my lead image radiates positivity and calmness. I also chose of course the scene of them that's somehow suited to the context.
And hey! To everyone who might want to join the recent challenge called "This and That", you can read my recent article as reference. You can also find the random question generator there.
"Which one? I'm lost" https://read.cash/@Marinov/which-one-im-lost-3fc62865
Try this guys and find yourself lost in the questions. Haha! @Momentswithmatti try this one, mamshy!
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Which one? I'm lost.
Mountains or beach?
Digital watch or analog?
Sitting or standing?
Family or friends?
Facebook or Twitter?
What’s up or Viber?
Fire or ice?
Straight or curly hair?
Frozen yogurt or ice cream?
Blue or green eyes?
Hello lovelies! Are you not yet familiar with what I wrote above? Well, that's a new challenge again and I'm up with it now. Honestly, I struggled 2 days from now what to write since my stomach was aching (glad it was gone today) and my mind is not in its right frame. Suddenly, I felt sad and sorry. There was someone in my mind I can't get rid of. He's that someone I did a big mistake and up until now, it haunts me every night knowing that he's a very good person I know but I still managed to hurt him. It was the same man I already wrote in one my articles. Here you can read if you have time, Am I a cheater? Again? https://read.cash/@Marinov/am-i-a-cheater-again-d2aac738
I still don't know how to free the guilt I'm feeling. I want to ask for forgiveness again, but can't. All I can do is to watch him online and let him pass in my timeline.
Oh G! I talked a lot again. Haha! So let's go back to the challenge. I was then challenged again by my dearest friend, @Zhyne06 to do this fun. You can read her article about it too! 😉 This challenge is the **This and That challenge.**
In this challenge, you will be given two choices to choose from. It's either you choose from things you both like or choose between things you don't like. This is fun! Let's do this!
Just click this to generate your questions. **This and that questions** https://lifehacks.io/this-or-that-questions/
Mountains or beach?
Oh my! God knows how much I love to be in these two places on earth. Mountains and beach are my safe havens! Hmm, this is hard for me but, okay. I will choose beach. Why? Because I easily get tired especially when hiking. Even it's just a short distance, I would literally grasp for our and lose my breath. Before when I was that healthy, my friends and I would always have a hike and to stay over the mountain over night. That's one of the most memorable moments in my life. It's an over night and I really haven't gotten any sleep because we just keep on talking until morning. 🤣
But now, since I can't hike, tho I can but it's too hassle for me so I'm staying at the beach for I am always telling my boyfriend to take me to the beach because I want to be refreshed in this oven-like world.
Digital watch or analog?
Is it watch or clock? Well whatever it is I would choose Digital. I found analog watch or clock so confusing. 🤣 Or am I just too dumb or lazy to learn it. All my watches are digital so it's easier to tell time because you can see immediately the time without counting. My grandma is always the one who buys that analog watches but then I sometimes wear those kinds as displays. Haha! I remember one time someone asked me what time is it but I don't know how to recognize time using analog watch so I looked for my cellphone to see what time is it. I was quite embarrassed since I was thinking maybe that person found it obvious that I can't tell time using a watch. Well idc anyway. She must buy her own so she can tell herself what time is it. 🤣
Sitting or standing?
During what? Kidding aside! Sitting and standing for too long are both tiring but I think standing would be much more tiring so I choose sitting. I can be relaxed when sitting than standing.
Family or friends?
Of course, family. Without my family I wouldn't be here writing this article and I would not meet my friends if not with my family. Family for me is everything for they are my life, my home. Friends may leave but family doesn't. ❤️
Facebook or Twitter?
Hmm, I like Facebook more since I am on it most of the time. I have my Twitter account but I seldom visit Twitter nor post something on it. I feel like it's not for me.
What’s up or Viber?
I haven't tried viber so I would go with Whatsapp. Whatsapp is a messaging app just like messenger but you're using your number so that someone can contact you. I remember before when it was the very first months of lockdown, I was drawn to mobile dating apps. I was looking for a foreigner, a decent one who I can be friends with. Most of the sites are asking for whatsapp number but I don't know where to find that number. The foreigner from Morocco taught me to install Whatsapp and to use register my number there and send my number to him so we can talk thru whatsapp for they seldom use Facebook or Messenger. It's a nice app, you can send messages easily but has limited features than Messenger.
Fire or ice?
I don't want something hot especially now that the temperature is really hot even it's late at night. So I would choose ice. I want to feel the cool wind so I can sleep on time. I want every noon and afternoons to be cold. I don't know but everyday feels so hot.
Straight or curly hair?
In a hair category, I would choose straight. I have a curly hair before but it's so bad too look at. I'm not saying curly hair looks bad it's just mine that is so dry and dull. I'm like the Lion King when I will not tie my hair so I decided to get my hair rebonded to make it straight. There! I was happy with the result and now I'm loving to have straight hair.
Frozen yogurt or ice cream?
Ice cream of course! I need it right now, like everyday. Frozen yogurt or yogurt itself is healthy and delicious but I found it so soury. Ice cream excites me most especially the new strawberry creme' variant of ice cream of Selecta. I want to try that.
Blue or green eyes?
Blue is my favorite color but when it comes to eyes, I would prefer green. I think blue eyes are common for I have seen many having that in movies or anywhere else.
One of my chat mates before in Whatsapp has green eyes. He is from Paris and his name is Dev. I was so attracted with his eyes especially when we video call. Oh heaven! I was always lost of words because I can't focus if he's staring. He's a good man too and offered a lot of things to me but then I refused because I don't want to abuse his kindness. His motivation towards me is already enough. Actually, I was planning to write about him too since he became a part of me.
That's it. This is my entry for this challenge. I hope you had fun reading this as much as I am. I am so sleepy as of this time while I am typing this so I'm so sorry for any typos. 🥲 Dearest friends, you can try this too! This can relax your mind as you are just saying things about you. Let's get to know each other more.
Leanings for this challenge: I get to know myself more of what I really want. We should always know ourselves and what choice would we make before making any decision. Think of the consequences! Be smart because you are.
For this, I want to challenge my friends @zellypearl, @Princessbusayo, @tine07 , @OfficialGamboaLikeUs and @FarmGirl . Enjoy guys! Sorry for the tag. 😁
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I'd rather. I'd rather not.
Have you ever been asked about the things you've done and why you've done it? Or perhaps someone asked you to choose between things you really want.
Or it might also be choosing between things that you don't like both. Which one would you choose?
Let's talk. Come on! It's time for some fun!
Hello again! It's @Marinov passing by your homepage. 😁 Is everyone busy earlier? What did you do then? Well whatever it is, I'm sure it has been productive. Mine is not so productive I guess because I just laid in bed, sleep and rest. My stomach is not yet okay. I've been eating fruits but I guess it's not working.
Do you know what's the home remedy for upset stomach? Please let me know lovelies!
Earlier, I was challenged by one of my friends here, @Zhyne06 . I thought it's just the same challenge which is the **"Never have I ever".**
As I read her article, only then I realized that it's not. The questions there are so cheeky and funny so I decided to join the challenge. This is actually life-saver since I don't have anything in mind what to write for today. I was also not able to think well because the carpenters are repairing the ceiling of my boyfriend's room. As of now, it's not yet done so I was just here in the living room, making myself busy with read.cash.
Without further ado, let's now start!
I used the random word generator for the questions. To try it, you may click here: **Would You Rather Questions** https://randomwordgenerator.com/would-you-rather-question.php
I am sure you will enjoy the questions there too.
Number of Questions: 10
**Would you rather give up pizza or give up coffee forever?**
God knows how much I love coffee. 🥺 I love pizza too but not as much as coffee. Though coffee is life, I need to give it up since my doctor advised me to not drink coffee. Why? Because there was one time that I got palpitations because of too much coffee. I can't breath and can't move my body so I need to stop. I never drink coffee 2 years now. So I would rather give up coffee forever.
**Would you rather talk like Donald Trump or look like Donald Trump?**
I think this question is so rude. Haha! I respect Donald Trump but then I need to answer this one. Lol. Donald Trump is smart. There might be times that some may not like what he said, but for me he's a well-spoken man. Also, I love what I look right now and there's nothing I want to change. So, I would rather talk like Donald Trump rather than look like him.
**Would you rather only be able to tell your food is rotten by tasting it or have all the food you eat smell rotten even though it's fine?**
Sense of smell is very important because it affects your sense of taste too. I remember when I had my sinusitis and I can't smell anything and everything I ate was tasteless. I did everything to get my sense of smell back because only then I realized that life is so boring without smelling anything. You won't be even excited though the food is your favorite. As I gain my sense of smell back, I became so sensitive to smell that I would puke whenever I smell something I don't like. Because if this, I would rather choose to tell the food is rotten by tasting it (just a bit) rather than tolerating its smell while eating.
**Would you rather always drink bad coffee or always eat stale bread?**
As I said, coffee is bad for me so I have no choice but to have the stale bread. Haha!
**Would you rather spend a year on an island with someone who never stopped talking or completely alone?**
Sometimes I like to be alone but not completely especially if it's for a year and knowing it will be on an island. I would be crazy if that happens. It would be boring and scary. I would rather spend a year on an island with someone who never stops talking than being alone. This way, I will have someone to talk with because I like talking too.
**Would you rather eat all your meals with someone who eats loudly or someone who eats with their mouth open?**
I think I can bear to listen than to see something so gross. I would rather eat all my meals with someone who eats loudly but neatly.
**Would you rather be burned alive or buried alive?**
First of all, I don't want any of these but I need to choose. This is so harsh for my body and soul. Oh my! Okay so I would rather be burned alive atleast the suffering would be not that long unlike being buried alive and the suffering would be gradual. I can't imagine myself being covered with the ground and I'm slowly loosing my breath. With fire, I guess I would just die quickly. 🤣
**Would you rather eat nothing but burnt food or nothing but leftovers from people you don't know?**
I don't eat leftovers even from people I know so eating leftovers from people I don't know is a BIG NO for me. Yikes! Especially now, it's not safe to eat leftovers. I would rather eat nothing but burnt food atleast I know it's clean. I just need to scrape off the burnt parts so I can eat.
**Would you rather spend a week in the wilderness or one night in a haunted house?**
I am sure I will get a heart attack if I stayed in a haunted house and see some ghosts there and all that might haunt me. I would not stand watching a horror movie how much seeing ghosts with my own eyes. So to make it less scary, though wilderness is scary too haha but I think I can manage it. I would choose to spend a week in the wilderness and see some animals than ghosts.
**Would you rather always have a slow Internet connection or always be in traffic jams when you drive?**
I don't drive and I don't go anywhere very much often so it's fine to have traffic jams. I spend most of my day at home with internet connection. So I would rather be in traffic jams than to have slow internet connection. That's just so frustrating. And I'm sure you don't want that too.
Tadaaa! The end of the challenge. I'm so proud of myself because I was able to answer these. I hope you'll enjoy reading this as much as I do when I wrote it.
*For this challenge, I just realized that life really gives us choices that sometimes it's hard for us to choose. But whatever choices we made, let's make sure that we are happy of it and it doesn't harm anyone. Life is better when everyone is happy.*
Of course I want to mention some friends randomly to take this challenge too. I challenge @Niknik , @Bloghound , @TengoLoTodo , @Chor06and @ARTicLEE . Have fun guys! And to everyone, you are welcome to do this challenge.
Thanks again dearest sponsors for the never-ending support. You are my pillars in here! And to everyone who supported me through comments, I am always grateful for that burning passion of you all. Keep going!
Lastly, to all those amazing people who helped me welcome my sister, thank you very much! 🥺😍
Ciao! ❤️
Good evening lovelies! Can you please help me welcome my sister, @Niknik
She's a bit shy so I want her to meet all the lovely people in here. Thank you so much!
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