Solved! Yesterday, I ate my dinner alone and I was fine with it. The responses I got from other writers also urged me to settle the "spaghetti conflict" with my bf. Lol. As a matter of fact, he gave me money so we can cook spaghetti at home. Sounds like great because I can eat more than the usual. I also went to our home today because I just can't handle the longing anymore. I miss my family so much. To ease my longing, I decided to go home without them telling. Sorry for today's article, I am just going to narrate what happened to my day. I hope you will read it still. π I also do hope to hear from you about how your day went. When my bf was already home last night, I did not talk to him and he did not bother me to. He just knew how to handle me during my mood swings. He let me cool down my temper before talking about the root of the argument. So when he came, we did not talk and we just slept peacefully like we have not seen each other. This morning, I woke up early I think 6 AM and I gazed to the other side of the bed but he was not there. I rose from bed and went to the comfort room and saw him in the kitchen as I passed by him. Wow! He cooked something for breakfast and why so early? Haha! He just want to make it up.
I returned to bed and minutes later, he called me to have our breakfast and he acted like nothing happened. Well, I was really hungry too that's why forgot my pride and just ate what he cooked. By the way, he cooks good. I also have an observation that when girls are not in the mood, the best way to calm their anger is to give them food and more food. Lol. As we eat, he started talking and I talked to him for my mood was now okay. I asked him to drive me to our home so I can visit my family. He just agreed and took me there. At exactly 9 AM, I arrived at the farm where grandma and grandpa are working. They did not know I was coming so they were surprised when they saw me. My dogs were barking too even if I am still far from them. Aweee, I just missed them. When I arrived, my grandma asked me if I don't have work today since they really want me to sleep there and stay longer. I was also expecting to see my siblings there but unfortunately, they went somewhere. Well, it's my fault too since I did not inform them I am coming home.
So there, I spend my day with my family and pets. I told my mom that I want to eat spaghetti so I gave her the money my bf gave me. We went to the market to buy the ingredients and cooked them. I don't know but, Filipino style spaghetti is always a favorite ever since I was a kid and until now. The best spaghetti I ever tasted was at Jollibee's (one of the famous fastfoods here in Ph) but because we don't have that here near our place, we just have too cook our own and try our best to achieve the Jollibee-taste-like Spaghetti. My grandma's spaghetti is also my favorite.
Tadaaa! This is the finish product. Looks yummy and I can guarantee this tastes yummy too. My kind of spaghetti is sweet, creamy and cheesy. I like it more when there are a lot cheese. Cheese is life for me! How about you? What's your favorite food and how do you want it to taste like? Craving satisfied! After I devour the spaghetti like a hungry lion, I also looked for a very cold soda. Haha! Oh I am so nervous with my cravings these days. I want to eat most of the time especially cold drinks or any food as long as it's cold. My grandpa immediately rose from sitting and bought us an orange soda. This is what I really miss at home. My family provides me food I want to eat. No wonder I gained weight from being at 41 kilos to 53 kilos. Lol! But nevermind, what's important is I am still alive. Importante buhi! Diba mga dzai? Haha! Unlike here, in my boyfriend's place, I can't really let out all my cravings especially cold drinks and food. They don't like drinking cold drinks especially soda. My bf's mom doesn't like me to drink those too. So I ended up just drinking water. There was also one time when I bought spaghetti and end up eating it alone for they don't like spaghetti. I also bought roasted chicken but then they don't like where I bought it. I just felt like sad about it so I end up not eating what I like because I don't want to eat if they were not eating as well. This is also the thing I realized sharing home with parents especially if you're already married. Though we are not married and don't have a child yet, I already observed the pro's and con's living with parents when you already have your own family. In my own opinion, I would prefer to separate so you two, couple, can have your privacy and do things your way. My bf's mom doesn't also like me wearing shorts. Haha! She told me one time it was too hot and going out would burn my skin. When I also wore shorts at night, she also told me it's cold and I should wear pajamas. I couldn't disagree for she might think I'm being disrespectful. So I just wore pajamas everyday even though I was so used to wearing shorts. I need to adjust since I am in their place and it's still fine with me as of now. Haha! Kidding! Sorry for sharing too much. π But yeah, I just enjoyed my day with my family today and I am so happy. I got to eat spaghetti too and I settled the argument last night. You might find this boring tho, and I would understand if this is not within your interest. βΊοΈ Again, I just really want to share how my day went. Solved! **How about you dear lovelies, what are the things you miss at home? Let me hear you in the comment section.** Thank you so much guys for reading! You've been so kind to me since day one. Thank you so much again for your time! To my kind sponsors, upvoters and to those who comment, I am sending you my warmest gratitude! Let's talk and get to know each other well. Can you also help me welcome my friend, @Jeeeaaann143 She just started this morning. I hope you can do visit her and give her suggestions if there's any for she's very eager to learn. Thanks! You can also reach me at marianovylhyn@gmail.com
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Ang cute kaya ni Milo π
Sobra po. Katabi ko pa yan matulog βΊοΈ
Mukhang masarap namam ang spag conflict π€£
Hahaha sherep keye. Charot! Opo ms. Jane pero mas masarap talaga ang spag haha
Nairo nas Miloπ hahaha.
Hahahaha chismis
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I am glad you both solved the conflict π that spaghetti looks delicious π
Yeah, thanks! βΊοΈ Oh so you like spaghetti too?
Yup
Haha haven't read the spaghetti conflict. Didn't know spaghetti can cause conflict to relationship haha. Anyway your bf parents are kinda scary, I mean you can't be yourself with them neah.
It's fine, dear you can read it whenever you want. Oh haha yeah, because i told him I crave for it but then he just won't buy if I won't go with him. Hahaha slight lang naman pero makaka adjust rin sguro
Hala memsh basin lahi na ng craving nimo hah π
Aguy kulbaan mem π€£
Hala, tagam.hahahaha
Na unsaon ta man ug mao na jod mem π€£
Awww, ana jud na meem, blessing nuon
Ang kyutkyut ng Milo ehhh π€
Kaajo βΊοΈ
Sana all may Juwa π, di naman ako inggit ee π€§π€§. Pero ahahaha, ang kyut kyut ni Milo, ganyan din ginagawa ko sa pusa namin ee nilalagay ung lalagyanan ng apples sa ulo, pinakang headband ng pusa namin bwahahahaha. Anyways, para palang dika masyadong makagalaw jan sa bahay ng bf mo kasi ung mother nya aguyy. Pero, baka naman kasi iniisip nya lang talaga ikaw kaya ganong pinupuna nya minsan ang sinusuot mo.
Hahaha kung pwede lang wag na mag jowa ms Ruffa eh haha. Oo ang cute talaga nyan kaya namimiss ko mga dogs ko lahat. Hahaha cute no? Pero ayaw na ayaw nilang may nilalagay sa ulo nila. Oo nga eh, haha! Iba talaga sa bahay nagawa ko lahat ng gusto ko. Pero masasanay rin sguro
Well, it wasn't boring to me because I love reading personal stories. It's a good thing you settled the scores with your bf. Also, trying to adjust to your bf mom's ways is also good. Obeying them would give them the idea that you are a respectful wife to be to their son and that is most important. Thanks for taking us through your journey and moment. I don't think I have favorite foods because I love them except for some kind of foods I don't eat at all.
Awww thanks, Princess. You are such a sweetheart. Yeah, I do obey my mom's bf though I am really against what she said sometimes. I don't want to create conflict between us so I just followed. Thank you so much for reading and enjoying my work, dear. π₯° Oh that's fine. i also love most of the food I just prefer spaghetti as most favorite
Kacute naman po ni Milo..π And may mga ganiyan po talaga ..naiiba na pag sa ibang bahay lalo na pag sa bahay ng jowa or partner mo..π ..
Ay oo ang cute nya lalo na in person. π Yes, at kailangan nating mag adjust hehe! Kaya mas mabuti talagang bumukod.
Milo is super cuteπ The spag. Looks delicous...tama po kayo jan pag dapat kung maried couple na kayo dapat magseparate na kayo sa ibang bahay
Thanksss! Cute talaga milo kong yan hehe! Kaya nga eh, narealize ko talaga para makagalw ako ng walang matang nagmamatyag.
You are mature enough to learn to get along. You have learned to maintain the peace. Maybe if you talk to them about some of your wants then they may understand. Anyway, it's good that you have visited your family.
Yeah, because I am the one who's new here, I should adjust and learn how to get along. I just don't have the strength to express what I want hehe baka sabihan akong maarte eh. Yes, ang saya ko kahapon.
Hehe yun lang. Hirap talaga pag ganyan. Malaking adjustment yan.
kamukha nya si browie HAHAHAH
Hahaha may kahawig pala Milo ko ah
Once you decide to settle down, tell your husband to be about living separately... it is very hard for a woman to live with the in laws
True! I am just here for two months yet I really do like to separate. Hehe! It's not that I don't like them. It's just I want to move freely.
i understand how you feel