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Random Questions For Taken

There are a lot of trend topics going on in read.cash, there is this challenge thingy where we answer a different random question, would you rather and also prompt article given by **JonicaBradley**. It's a good way to produce a topic especially for those who are having a hard time what to write.

It's also a way to get to know each other by answering different questions or telling about yourself by answering. As for me, I am always out of place because I seldom participate with those trend topics as I have my own world lol. I mean I still have a lot in the draft and don't have enough time to write about the challenges.

**Why make this challenge for taken people?** I don't have plans to write about it but @Pachuchay posted that she read an article from @dziefem about questions singleness at noise, and she said *“Wala ba para sa mga katulad kong taken?”* then I jokingly said, *“should I write one for us?”* she responded yes, as she likes answering questions haha. So here it is. https://read.cash/@dziefem/emotionally-taken-cc3ce182 I find these questions from this site, mantelligence.com, check out the site if you want to see more questions. I picked it randomly as you can see below the numbers are not organized. https://www.mantelligence.com/relationship-questions/

I like these questions as there are habits from other couples that irritate me. The habit of other couples that irritates me the most is when they broadcast their quarrels on social media. I don't like couples who do that as they don't practice privacy in their relationship, that's a sign of immaturity. What annoys me more is that when they are on good terms they'll post sweet photos and then curse each other if they fight again like wth? Lol.

If you are in a long-term relationship already, romance is slowly fading as it is more on commitment already but you can rekindle it anytime to maintain the love on fire. Valentine's day happens once a year only and I don't find it corny as it *celebrates* love not just *for* opposite sex but for family and friends as well. Love should always be there even without valentine's day, but celebrating valentine's day is another special thing.

The best advice I received from a friend is *“Always give room to understand your partner and forgive his mistakes if he meant it”* this is when I asked a friend if ever her partner will cheat on her as we are the same, our partners are seamen. I find it the best because we all know mistakes are inevitable, and nobody is perfect. It's the best because it's hard to accept and forgive but when I did it, my life became more peaceful.

No, I don't have Exes or even flings on my friend's list even in person. My partner as well to avoid misunderstanding. I don't think I have to be friends with my ex, they are not relevant to my life anyway haha!

This question is like your having conversations with your partner, but let's just crash the “I CAN” to “Your Partner”. To have a strong bond in a relationship your partner should be your best friend, this is one of the reasons why my relationship with my partner is even stronger and hard to let go of because he is my best friend and vice versa. Best friends in a sense you can talk about anything with them, and they'll always be there to listen. He is my best friend and my lover at the same time, I tell him everything or every little detail that made our connection deeper. Do you like your partner to be close with other person (opposite sex)? If not then, make them your best of friends.

Well, I prefer to be proposed in front of family and friends so there are witnesses that he propose to me, that I didn't force him to marry me hahaha! And it did happen that way, you can read **The Proposal** article, when he proposed to me last February 14, 2021. https://read.cash/@Eybyoung/the-proposal-27b68b65

Uh, can I have both? Haha. But if I have to choose one, I'll choose to be known by my partner for my intelligence not for my good looks. I want him to know I am not easy to fool with lol. When you are a wise woman your partner will not underestimate you and do stupid things because he knows he can't fool you easily.

I have my partner's password on his social media. He is chatting with some of his female friends, like casual chatting and I don't interrupt them as long as it is not crossing the line. As for me as I do here in crypto, he does not meddle too. He is open-minded. So how will I define cheating? It's when he started to hide things from me. Like talking to someone and delete the conversation lol. It's already cheating.

Well for me I was open with him, how many men I kissed before him but if the secrets from past relationships can affect our relationship then I think it's better to keep it forever. It's already in the past, there's no need to dig into the past to avoid conflicts in the present and future, well this is just for me.

My biggest fear in a relationship? Well, I think mostly it's about cheating because whatever trials a relationship may experience it can be handled but cheating is hard to deal especially if it happens several times. It is mostly the reason why some couple break up. The cheating that he will choose the new ones over me, it's frightening. I am too cool to be replaced with, my ego cannot accept it hahaha!

Hmm, I didn't have lessons with my past flings. I don't even call it relationship because we didn't build any intimacy as I am just playing with them haha. My lessons that time is that *“play hard until you became a varsity player, you can retire or try harder and go for Olympics”* hahaha. Sorry, I don't take men seriously before not until I met my partner now. I just added the question, it's interesting to read other people's lessons learned from their past relationships, if ever some taken people will take this challenge.

Closing Thoughts Anyone who is already taken or in a relationship can participate to answer these questions challenge. Just tag me, I'll be interested to read your article as this is my first ever challenge Ek. ek article haha! If you don't like the questions you can find other questions from the site I provided or find another random questions generator but make sure to mention the site, to avoid stealing ideas. Have fun! With this I'll tag of course @Pachuchay and @Yen then you guys tag everyone you like haha! Tabi mga singles, mga taken mag-ingay!! 😂 Thank you for reading! `Date Published: August 7, 2021`

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