When No One Is There To Help!
Date: January 20th, 2022
Thursday
Having first sip of coffee and started typing here. This is one kind of habit which grew while I'm being here. New days and new hopes. Everything changes so quickly. I'm laughing now but may have sad incident coming right through it. Who knows? You can't have the life to granted as you desire. It has full of surprises. Better you should act with it. Understanding the situation and working according it is the best part of human nature. We grief but we adjust. We shout but in the end anyhow we find comfort. That's our human nature. We must be ready for something new. But what will happen if something big comes out of nowhere and there is nobody to help you? How will you handle that? Any idea? That feel is the worst when you have plenty to share but no way to speak it out. That's the feeling of today's topic.
Hello family. Having my second sip. Already spoken something strange with you, perhaps the truth. I hope you are all well and staying safe in this pandemic which is must. Today I am telling about a feeling which breaks us from inside but we cannot explain those matter publicly. We all had that feelings and will have it more in future. Why this idea popped up? Yesterday I saw a post of @mommykim who is a hard working and one of the most admired person by me. Her situation which shattered my heart, actually inspired me to write down this. You can check her post by clicking here. It’s just a mom story but if you deep dug the feelings, you will see the world of anxiety, care and worry.
Felt like New Comer?
Like that thing, we all had fallen once in that kind of situation when we felt that the whole world stood against us. No one there to help. Felt like a new comer in a big town. This is how we feel. People are doing their jobs and no one there to listen your words or minimum time to understand your feelings. You want to speak but don't know whom to talk and ask for the betterment of your situation. You are mature enough and just keep the pain inside which increase the inner pain. That's bad. Really bad. My third sip from coffee.
No one is there to Help
Just imagine you are in an examination hall. The paper has given to you and here comes the question paper. But wait! You just mistakenly wrote something on name section. You know it is a mess and the teacher is busy in his work, your classmates are busy in writing, time is moving fast and you have no idea what to do! Ever happened? This feelings is one of the worst. Only those who lived these moments in life can tell you the situation and how it feels. Many people around you but no one is helping you. Like that day, you may face more critical situation in your everyday life. Those odd situations don't happen daily but when does, it lefts you speechless. The fourth sip of coffee which is more delicious.
How to handle?
Ever seen a new comer in town who asks for things but shyness and guilt remain in his/her eyes? When you face these types of situation and you need help badly, just hold your feelings. The Almighty never pushes us to a limit which we can't handle. Just wait for it. You will see someone who can actually help. Just ask for it. When you ask help to random people and get rejected, your heart becomes more heavy and you stop asking for it. This is wrong. You may ask it to an appropriate person. All you need to focus. I know it’s hard but you need to focus on your problems, right?
Fifth and final sip of coffee. Dear friends, you, me, everyone have our own point break. We need help at that time. But it will be better if we help others too. Those odd situations can happen with anyone. Help them and for sure, you can have the return gift in your bad days. That's nature.
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When I feel that no one listens to me or understand me I talk to my best friend "God" he might not answer me but I know he is listening and always willing to understand me.