When No One Is There To Help!

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2 years ago
Date: January 20th, 2022
Thursday

Having first sip of coffee and started typing here. This is one kind of habit which grew while I'm being here. New days and new hopes. Everything changes so quickly. I'm laughing now but may have sad incident coming right through it. Who knows? You can't have the life to granted as you desire. It has full of surprises. Better you should act with it. Understanding the situation and working according it is the best part of human nature. We grief but we adjust. We shout but in the end anyhow we find comfort. That's our human nature. We must be ready for something new. But what will happen if something big comes out of nowhere and there is nobody to help you? How will you handle that? Any idea? That feel is the worst when you have plenty to share but no way to speak it out. That's the feeling of today's topic.

Hello family. Having my second sip. Already spoken something strange with you, perhaps the truth. I hope you are all well and staying safe in this pandemic which is must. Today I am telling about a feeling which breaks us from inside but we cannot explain those matter publicly. We all had that feelings and will have it more in future. Why this idea popped up? Yesterday I saw a post of @mommykim who is a hard working and one of the most admired person by me. Her situation which shattered my heart, actually inspired me to write down this. You can check her post by clicking here. It’s just a mom story but if you deep dug the feelings, you will see the world of anxiety, care and worry.

Felt like New Comer?

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Like that thing, we all had fallen once in that kind of situation when we felt that the whole world stood against us. No one there to help. Felt like a new comer in a big town. This is how we feel. People are doing their jobs and no one there to listen your words or minimum time to understand your feelings. You want to speak but don't know whom to talk and ask for the betterment of your situation. You are mature enough and just keep the pain inside which increase the inner pain. That's bad. Really bad. My third sip from coffee.

No one is there to Help

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Just imagine you are in an examination hall. The paper has given to you and here comes the question paper. But wait! You just mistakenly wrote something on name section. You know it is a mess and the teacher is busy in his work, your classmates are busy in writing, time is moving fast and you have no idea what to do! Ever happened? This feelings is one of the worst. Only those who lived these moments in life can tell you the situation and how it feels. Many people around you but no one is helping you. Like that day, you may face more critical situation in your everyday life. Those odd situations don't happen daily but when does, it lefts you speechless. The fourth sip of coffee which is more delicious.

How to handle?

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Ever seen a new comer in town who asks for things but shyness and guilt remain in his/her eyes? When you face these types of situation and you need help badly, just hold your feelings. The Almighty never pushes us to a limit which we can't handle. Just wait for it. You will see someone who can actually help. Just ask for it. When you ask help to random people and get rejected, your heart becomes more heavy and you stop asking for it. This is wrong. You may ask it to an appropriate person. All you need to focus. I know it’s hard but you need to focus on your problems, right?

Fifth and final sip of coffee. Dear friends, you, me, everyone have our own point break. We need help at that time. But it will be better if we help others too. Those odd situations can happen with anyone. Help them and for sure, you can have the return gift in your bad days. That's nature.

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Thanks for being with me.

©Lucifer01

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When I feel that no one listens to me or understand me I talk to my best friend "God" he might not answer me but I know he is listening and always willing to understand me.

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2 years ago

The best friend of everyone. You are right.

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2 years ago

Ye he is and I am always be grateful that I have him.

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2 years ago

awwwww mate I never know you'd be inspired by my ramblings..love lotzzz asking help sometimes cost too much for us, for me personally because I like to it on my own

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2 years ago

I always look after your works. Worthy one in my sense. Thanks dear.

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2 years ago

awwwwwwwwww you're really a sweet devil

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2 years ago

Always do it yourself, but if you feel that you can't handle it alone then you can ask someone for help. Not every day you ask for help, it can make other people irritated

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2 years ago

Yes it will. Ask when you need most.

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2 years ago

I totally agree Luci. The creator will not push us beyond the limit. However, if He did, I know for sure that His hands are ready to catch us.

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2 years ago

That's the Holy truth. I agree.

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2 years ago

Helping from your heart is really essential, as we don't know when we might also need help tomorrow

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2 years ago

That’s right. Who knows? It's for our own betterment.

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2 years ago

If there's one thing I battle with almost everyday of my life. It's asking for help. I'm so introverted that I don't like bothering people at all. Funny enough, people come to me for various advices, people count and lean on me because I make it easy for them to do so. But I find it hard to do that. Lol ironic ikr. But I hope as time goes on, I get better at being outspoken. So many bottled up feelings. They gradually eat one up if they aren't let out. That's the sad fact.

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2 years ago

Don't be shy. We need to speak up.

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2 years ago

It has always been hard for me to ask for help, and it's not because of pride, it's because of shyness, so whenever I can, I offer my help without being asked for it; everyone at some point needs help. But now, I want my coffee drink, Luci ;)

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2 years ago

On your way dear. We will have that together. I respect your attitude and I know you are a helping soul

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2 years ago

We all need help. Alot of untold worrying feelings bottled. Anxiety and pain but lack the courage to voice out. May God help us

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2 years ago

We need help. We need that courage to speak out. That's necessary.

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2 years ago

I remember when I had anxiety problem, I got to a new work place and I wasn't too good at the job then, the person put to supervise me gave me a work on the laptop I haven't done before, did it little by little, something I could do in 2min, but I didn't know how, when it was time to go home, he refuse and shouted at him, tears almost drop that day, but I over came it and I'm better. Now

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2 years ago

Big hug. Patting your shoulder. Sorry. I didn’t mean to hurt you to memorise those days.

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2 years ago

Its OK boss, I really love the write up

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2 years ago

Why are we shy about asking for help? We just feel like losers. And who wants to admit it? No one! Hence the shyness. It's so much easier to put your shoulder to someone else than to ask for help yourself. It is much easier to act as a rescuer than it is to act as a person in need of that rescue or help. The rescuer is always in a strong position, the beggar in a weak position. For the same reason, it is much easier for us to ask for someone else than for ourselves.

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2 years ago

I agree with you. Some people really feel shy. I personally know their nature. ' what people may think '.... That's their excuse.

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2 years ago

I tend to help someone in need if it's in dire need with urgency but never to someone who is clearly taking advantage to the kindness you give. Be wary of such people. Nice read in here Luci. ☺️

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2 years ago

Everything has a bad side dear. Thanks for that dear. I honoured your care.

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2 years ago

I don't like it when I see people suffering, especially when I have the ability to help them.

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2 years ago

That's why I say that you have a good soul. Search the truth and make your life worthy.

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2 years ago

I'm the kind of person who tends to get shy to ask help from anyone. As long as I can do it, I will do it myself. But sometimes I wanted to be as brave to ask help from others.

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2 years ago

We need to help others. We need help too. It's ok to ask for help.

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2 years ago

Sometimes we fail to trust that God is handling tnimgs and we ask the wrong person for help. I'm learning to believe and wait for him. I try to help people when I can. It's the right thing to do. I will feel bad if I don't.

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2 years ago

Have faith on Almighty dear. You will not be disappointed.

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2 years ago

Great one Luci. It's nature's law and those who abide by it are greatly rewarded but we don't really look for the rewards before helping, do we?

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2 years ago

Human nature. We have soft hearts. Look, whom I talking? A girl with soft heart.

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2 years ago

I don't know but seeing someone who needs help I don't think twice and just help that person in anyway I could. I felt guilt whenever I ignored someone who needs a help. That's my parents always lectured me to give others a hand if they needed one.

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2 years ago

They told the precious words. Thanks to them.

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2 years ago

I felt that too when I was new in this place where we live. I don't know anyone and have no one to ask for help from. There was a situation where I need to do something but I don't know where and how it should be done. Alhamdulillah, someone whom I just met for the first time, guide me through and I am thankful to her

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2 years ago

SukranAllah. You just made it right.

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2 years ago

I don't have any problem about "helping" because I don't ask for help hahha, I struggle on my own and do success by my own

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2 years ago

You are a strong woman. Take a bow.

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2 years ago

One thing I've learnt growing up is that Karma comes back two times,so helping someone who needs help has been a great opportunity for me and would always be. Every day we should do good.

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2 years ago

People should follow it. It is worthy.

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2 years ago

Yes it is

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2 years ago

Mother Theresa once said"_ being unlove and uncared for is a feeling that is worst than hunger it self". A lot of people may seem as if they have it all in real life, but there is an invisible inscription in their minds amd hearts that always yell "notice me"!

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2 years ago

Big hug for that line. So true dear.

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2 years ago

The sad reality of life is, you lend help to those people who asking your help before but once your in verge of struggles, you asked help but no one of them lend their hand. It's very sad that makes human trust fades towards the person. In the end our own self is our own ally and the only person that can accompany us until the end.

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2 years ago

We know some people turn their backs. But we still need to help one another dear.

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2 years ago

I've been in that situation before, times that no one is there to help, and it feels awful. That is why I always extend my help to anyone who needs them..

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2 years ago

You are a pure soul dear. You will be rewarded soon.

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2 years ago

that's so sweet of you to say MrDevil,, thanks

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2 years ago

If we will do good to others, it will surly come to us back. These difficult situation make us more strong, if we only try to handle them with positive mindset.

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2 years ago

That's right. Help someone & you will be rewarded.

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2 years ago

Whenever I see someone's struggling or whenever I saw them having a problem, I'll asking them right away to know if they're okay. I hate seeing someone struggling because of their problem, it was reflecting ne

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2 years ago

That's so kind of you my dear. Thanks.

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2 years ago

Dear Lucifer, your article at the same time as drinking your coffee made me feel very good, I felt like I was sitting and my dear and kind friend is giving me some advice that I really need. In the same way, when you do good, in times of hardship and sorrow, many kind hands reach out to you...

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2 years ago

I will be so happy to have a cup of coffee with the most beautiful woman. It will be an honour.

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2 years ago

Thank you dear Lucifer, you have a beautiful inwardness that you see everything beautiful... 🙏

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2 years ago

I experienced this kind of circumstances and believe me it's hard knowing the fact that we know no one can help you but we need to keep going as the situation does not stay forever may we have difficulty today but for sure tomorrow is another day just believe in yourself that we overcome all those things that we encountered.

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2 years ago

Perfectly explained dear. Love the way you narrated.

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2 years ago

It can't be helped. There are times that we will fall into this situation. That's why we must develop our skills in resolving problems on our own

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2 years ago

That's another valuable point. Well said dear.

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2 years ago

These words make me calm. We all have difficult moments in life when we lack support and when it is difficult for us to even talk about our problems. But we must find a way to find our inner peace.

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2 years ago

Told you, I can be your answer. You know this. Thanks.

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2 years ago

You always have the right words for the people here. Like an angel Devil. 😊

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2 years ago

Sometimes I experience that there are some people who could really help you out of the darkness of life. They just give motivation to you and providing things that can make you forget what's behind on you. But it is not all who are willing to help you can only count on them

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2 years ago

Absolutely dear. But we can't let them down.

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2 years ago

You know, such feelings do deprive us of our desires, nonetheless, we ought to braze up and catch the vibe for a successful life and feeling.

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2 years ago

Indeed dear. Hey, good to see you here.

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2 years ago

It's really hard in this situation especially for the person who is shy in front of people, but it is also one of the reasons why we become more courageous and we become independent. . :)

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2 years ago

Failure makes us strong. Well said.

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2 years ago

It's really hard when you are in the middle of nowhere. The time you want some help. You want someone to lean on but there's nobody you can call. I experience with that Luci. It's really hard. It's really painful. You are having a lot of thoughts that bugging you always. You can't focus. You will feel hopeless. I wanted to run and finding someone to listen to me but no one exist even once. It's so much painful.🥺

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2 years ago

Sorry dear. Hey, you can count on the Devil.

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2 years ago

I know how it feels my dear cousin. That's why I learnt doing things by myself so it won't be so hard for me whenever I am in a new situation.

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2 years ago

You are a warrior girl. I know your abilities.

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2 years ago

I do wish I am my dear cousin :)

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2 years ago

That's why I believe, we should be there for us. There's always a return gifts.

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2 years ago

That makes the society more balanced. Yes, you are right.

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2 years ago

I feel you luci that you have lots of thoughts that keep you bothered but you don't have words to speak. Been in this situation too🥺😔

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2 years ago

🥺 you understood me dear. Thanks.

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2 years ago

At the darkest time, unexpected help will come. I still believe that everyone has kindness within them. Had the same experience when I moved out. I was new to the neighborhood. Thank goodness the people that surrounds me are kind. ~Manju

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2 years ago

You were lucky. Best for you. But not everyone is as lucky as you.

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2 years ago

When there is no one to help me, there is one. That's what I have to believe. Such a situation comes in everyone's life. Everything is handled again.

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2 years ago

That's right. It's our duty to help others.

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2 years ago

As much as possible, I don't want to ask for help from anybody. If I want to learn, achieve or cope up with something, I do it all by myself. But if someone would offer, I'd so so very grateful.

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2 years ago

Iron lady, you helped so many people. Even the Devil.

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2 years ago

Allah subhanAllah Ta'ala always there to help. So always says NAMAZ and ask for help to only Almighty Allah.

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2 years ago

Absolutely dear. Appreciate your words.

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2 years ago