If I'm smiling, I must be going against the Tide
Date: 2nd March, 2022
WednesdayI'm tired of making people happy without reasons. Too many people around me, think that I can do anything. Well, hello! Yes, I can. But that doesn’t mean I will do anything you want. Just have some common sense. If I'm smiling that doesn’t mean I'm happy with you. Maybe I have some other plans in mind. Maybe I am thinking about the curse I'm bearing on my shoulder. It's not necessary to make people please at their own ways. Sometimes you need to stop of being a pawn of people. Ask me, I will show you the ugly side of it.
I am actually sick of people with nasty desires. So here my people, take a lesson. Stop pretending that you can handle the unnecessary pressures that people giving you or I must say, oppressing you. Stand against this cruel rules & burn them with your smile. Yes, it will be enough for them as I think so.
I am doing so. I have stopped pleasing people. Why? Because they started demanding more than they can actually have. I know their worth, I know their abilities and I refuse it. I know they can't go back from here. So I stepped back. This is my policy now. Will you listen to your host, my friends? Then here are some tips.
Stop Listening People
When you fail to bring smiles on their faces, they will smash you here and there with their words. Now if you start listening them, it will make you feel awkward. Because those words are enough to make you feel down. You may start judging. Look at me. This is totally different situation. Stop listening to them.
Step Backward
Does the Devil really want you to step back? Aren’t we inspire others to move forward? Yes, we do. But now I'm telling you to step back. When you don’t want to be a pawn or doll in other hands, you need to step back. You have nothing to prove. Just let them think that you have feared. Just pretend that you are scared so that they will not bother you again.
Burn them with Your Smile
This one is my favourite. Let me tell you something brother. When I step back from them and let them feel that I have failed, I start making my own path of success. I wait for my perfect moment to rise. Then on a very blessed day, I rise. People around me, shows their doubts, questions & negative vibes. I smile at them as an answer for their equations. That's what I do & now I am suggesting the same to you.
Make Notes
Just write down the points that people are making about you. Make the notes. There is a positive thing too. Not always people do harm to you. Sometimes they truly want your success. That's why I am asking you to mark the points. Then work on it. Let's reengage our life. Their will be some progress. I hope for the best.
Be clear about Goals
Never set a blur goal in your life. Be specific and march forward it. You know better about your world. So I highly recommend you to be sure about your dreams and then start making path towards it. This is the high time you make the perfect choice. No one us going to set it, no one will be there with a garland. It is & it will be always you who will walk over the thorns & win the streak.
Be successful in life and that’s the wish we really need. If you are unsuccessful, people will show interest in your bad luck. Otherwise they will feel jealous with your success. I can feel it. So remember, if I am smiling that means I definitely must be going against the tide. I am doing my best & I have stopped pleasing as I told you. I hope you have understood my concerns. I'm happy without their cares.
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Thanks for being with me.
©Lucifer01
Heyy stopping by here the title was so interesting that's why I'm hear now reading your article. Relate you when your good on that people they take advantage our kindness like my classmates because they know I'm that good they always ask me to make their Activity reason of they don't know how to make it. Of course I refused it I have more to do in school and I need to relax my mind from answering modules.