Breakfast:
*Remember that tour I gave you, making an assumption of the food places where I would take you if you came to Venezuela?*
*Well, today I will share with you the typical breakfasts of Venezuela, my country and my culture.*
*I will tell you a little about the traditions and special moments at breakfast, meal times, types of breakfasts and their characteristics.*
*This is a way to share a bit of me with you, and also to open an invitation to all those who want to share their typical breakfasts according to their cultures or countries.*
*Talking about food will always be a good topic of conversation, who doesn't like to eat?*
*So keep reading to show you the typical breakfasts of my country along with their different occasions.*
Arepas:
As I said earlier in the gastronomic tour article, arepas are our most typical food, it is like pita bread for the Arabs, rice for the Chinese, pizza for the Italians, croissants for the French.
Arepas can be eaten at anyone, in fact the most typical meals are for breakfast and dinner, and it is something that you can eat every day of your life.
I last a day without eating an arepa and I feel bad, it's my favorite food.
They are made from cornmeal, they can be roasted or fried and the number of fillings is infinite, but for breakfast, they are usually lighter fillings.
In this case, in the image I show you an arepa with ham and yellow cheese, all children in our childhood always take an arepa with yellow cheese to school.
So the arepa is more than a meal, it is our essence, it is what represents us.
It is food that will never bore you.
Empanadas:
You may have heard of them, but their appearance will surprise you, and they are different from the traditional empanadas that are known throughout the world.
Venezuelan empanadas are a combination of corn flour, wheat flour and a little sugar.
They are fried and stuffed with different topics, such as cheese, meat, chicken, ham and cheese.
My favorite is the chicken...
The most traditional way is to eat it with abundant garlic sauce, and a "malta" which is a Venezuelan drink made of paper and barley, it is like a kind of beer but without alcohol and sweet, it is truly delicious.
There are people who eat empanadas for breakfast more often, but I am more traditional and I find it hard to leave my arepas, so empanadas are usually a breakfast from time to time, since they are fried they usually leave a lot of fat and I don't like that.
Pastelitos:
Another traditional meal but that is usually from time to time.
I think that these breakfasts vary more than anything in children, who do not like to eat arepas every day, because honestly, this was the typical breakfast that they gave me to go to school.
They usually have a lot of fillings, such as chicken, ground beef, ham and cheese, and cheese.
The most traditional is the typical cheese, but my favorite is chicken or ground beef.
It is something very basic, it is just wheat flour dough, in very thin disks that come ready only to place the filling and fry them.
It is the typical breakfast when your mom does not want to cook and solves it in the easiest and most practical way.
Tequeños:
Here I know that it will be something that if you try it, for the first time, you will love it, I am as sure as that my name is María Fernanda.
And I know, because globally, foreigners love tequeños.
They are little fingers of dough stuffed with cheese, and they are normally appetizers at parties, but I saw quite a few classmates in class carrying a large cup where an arepa could be, full of tequeños with the cheese completely melted.
They are usually very addictive and if you try one, you will want to eat them all.
Cachito:
It is a kind of bread, stuffed with ham, but the bread is different, it is like a kind of croissant with a sweet touch that adds that special touch.
Honestly, I'm not such a fan, it's not one of my favorite breakfasts, in fact I think I haven't eaten one in years, since it's usually an option for when you're traveling and you have to eat and buy something light for the road.
At least that's how I see it, many people die for little pieces and enjoy having breakfast like this, but I don't change my morning arepas for anything or anything, they are my favorites and I would marry an arepa.
The cachitos usually accompany, with a girl, a very substantial typical Venezuelan drink, so take advantage of it.
***I hope you enjoyed this Venezuelan breakfast tour.***
***Please, I would love to read in the comments which one of them provoked you the most and what you think about them.***
***And I would also love for you to be encouraged to do an article showing the typical breakfasts in your area.***
***I got very excited making this post, I think we all love being patriotic and love the traditions of our country and better yet share them.***
***Without further ado, thanks for coming here and reading me, dear reader, I hope you're very hungry, lol.***
Emotional Intelligence III:
*Hello dear readers, I know that I have an eternity without showing signs of life, I am seriously trying to organize myself, but that does not matter so much now, does it? I am here for you right now.*
*Today, we will finish the series of three articles talking about emotional intelligence.*
*Today I will talk to you or rather, I will give you a plus of the last thing you need to start on the path of intelligent decision making by controlling your emotions.*
*So without further ado, keep reading so that you may learn things that you did not know, if so, I hope it has been helpful for you to read me today.*
Constructive criticism:
How many don't hate being criticized, and even worse, that many times they say they are "constructive" criticism but instead of having a good effect on us they end up leaving us worse off than we already were?
Don't worry, you are not the only one, in fact of all the points I have mentioned in my series, this is the one that bothers me the most.
Because before I was a person who had low self-esteem, I had to build an ego to strengthen my insecurities, what happens? That at first everything looked very attractive when my ego was through the roof, but later, I realized that this is just a glass bubble, that if someone breaks it, all the glass falls on you and ends up cutting you.
So today I work to not have a very high ego, just enough to lead a life with dignity ahead of me, but not enough to make me weak in the face of my insecurities.
Accept criticism, you are a human being with the right not to be perfect, so abandon the need to always have the approval and acceptance of people, there will be people who will never accept you as you are and that's okay.
Of the constructive criticism, analyze if they really are constructive, and if they are, take note and start improving.
A humble human being is one who exposes all his vulnerability to the point that no one can harm him because he is already exposed, so improve what you think is necessary, but do not take criticism very personally, you do not have to be perfect or you also don't have to torment yourself for what you are not.
Physical exercise:
Physical exercise will give you one of the best moments to think, when you are in a physical activity, there is only you in your world and focused on what you are doing.
That is why doing physical exercise is one of the most stressful activities of the human being.
If you have ever done physical exercise, I am sure that thoughts of understanding and enlightenment have come to your mind, I know that it is so.
So take your time of physical exercise to think about everything that causes you stress, anxiety, sadness, exhaustion, let's learn to use your emotions at certain times to enlighten you.
First it will give you a better sleep, since you will go to bed so tired in a healthy way that you will say goodbye to the world as soon as you put your head on the pillow, second there you will have drained everything you had to throw away and third it will help you make good decisions and think clearly.
Self improvement books:
Finally, my favorite, in fact it is the one that has helped me the most in my personal development.
Reading, even 10 minutes a day, a self-help book that is focused exactly on the branch you want to attack, will help you infinitely to improve both your understanding and your way of seeing things, I bet you anything that after reading a little piece of something that is happening to you with a solution next to it or another perspective of things will make you improve and feel better.
So I invite you to read, instruct yourself, build your personal mantras to be able to survive the emotions that hurt us.
You don't have to read for a long time, so there are no excuses, with only 10 minutes a day, on a topic that interests you or you want to attack, believe me it will be enough for you and your improvements.
If you want a list of books that I can recommend, tell me in the comments and I will gladly help you
Thanks for getting here...
**I had not been able to tell you before what was happening in my life, but now I tell you that I had a small personal crisis where I was unmotivated, depressed and disorganized.**
**Today I am not telling you that I am 100%, but I am 70%.**
**One of the things that has helped me a lot to improve is learning to control my emotions, remember that if you have complete control of your emotions and what you feel, nothing external can harm you, so take my advice from this series and apply them all, I wish you much happiness.**
**I love you so much, I hope I can be more active here :).**
Emotional intelligence II:
*Ok guys, let's go with the second chapter of this series on the way to emotional intelligence, to get closer, because we will never be completely owners of what we feel, our sensitive heart will always want to take center stage in different situations, and many times we must let it run so Free as a leaf in the wind, that will make us feel alive.*
*Before we start, how are you all?*
*I had a little vacation of disconnection that I will let you know soon, but for now, it is important to carry out this topic.*
*Today I will share three more points of the series, I am not saying that they are the correct ones, but if they can help you to have a more comfortable control with your emotions, so let's begin:*
The solution:
Focus on the solution, not the problem.
Many times, what makes us remain in endless cycles of suffering is that we only see the negative of things, the misfortunes that happen to us and we begin to carry out a role that we do not even want to fulfill, but it is easier to be unfortunate victims. and culiar others, than to take control of our feelings and go through our problems.
That is why focusing all our energies on solutions, on positive things, on experiences, on teachings is much better than falling into a loop of suffering.
What I do is let my feelings go by for a few days, I let myself feel the way I want to, after that I start looking for the problem but not to stay stuck there, but to look for solutions.
This will cause the motivation to come back to me, to find a new purpose to move forward in a positive way.
The frustration:
How many don't hate that emotion?
I think it's one of the worst, because it makes our self-esteem fall below the ground and we begin to think that we are no good or good at something we wanted.
But human beings have the ability to choose their emotions, and we can choose between destroying our self-esteem through frustration, or using frustration in our favor.
Do you know what drives us to change?
The fact that we don't like the way we are having our lives, so if you feel frustrated, don't stay there, don't fill yourself with hate and bitterness, use all that intensity of feeling as a gasoline engine to improve.
Over there I heard that the best way to take revenge on life, someone or something is by being the best versions of ourselves, so use frustration to your advantage and gain momentum.
The offenses:
Don't be easily offended... If I told you that the only way someone can offend you is by letting you create an offense yourself.
Over there I heard that true power is not money, it is not political or social power, nor intelligence, nor vividness, true power is one that does not let anyone dominate you in any way.
In short, a person who is difficult, to annoy, who is difficult to hurt, who is difficult to turn off their shine has more power than anyone.
So avoid feeling offended by anything, every time you feel in a situation that could make you feel offended, remember that no one can offend you if you decide what is an offense and what is not.
That is emotional intelligence, being able to make this type of decision that will make us feel better in situations in which normally everyone stops being carried away by their feelings.
Be very careful about showing your weaknesses, showing that it makes you feel bad, because others can use it against you.
So the less people there are that can bother you, the less they will have the objective of making you feel bad or enjoy your weaknesses.
***Finally, stop being aware of what others think of you.***
***Many times our insecurities have so much weight on us that we feel that others are aware of the least that makes us feel insecure, and perhaps no one is aware of our lives like ourselves.***
***There are still three points to go in my emotional intelligence series, so wait for the next chapter to finish the series.***
***If you are reading this series for the first time, I recommend that you watch part l, I am sure that they are tips that will help us all, and if we all help each other little by little to improve, I know that we will grow personally.***
***I love you so much, keep reading dear reader, until next time...***
Emotional intelligence l:
Delighted to have you once again reading my articles, dear readers, today is Monday and I am writing this article very early with great enthusiasm because the research I did to bring you the best information led me to enjoy the process of writing the article.
Well, today I am without internet, so but to add points to the organization of my tasks, I am going to dedicate myself to writing articles while the internet arrives during the day or week :(
Today we will talk about emotional intelligence, one of my favorite psychological topics, because many people lack it and it is necessary to build the foundations of good emotional intelligence so as not to give ourselves so many blows in life.
But well, do you know what emotional intelligence is?
If you know, wink at me, if you don't know, I'll explain in my own words:
"Emotional intelligence is that set of behaviors that make us act rationally instead of emotionally."
Ready, there is not much to understand, basically it is to let our mind dominate our feelings and that our feelings do not dominate our actions.
Today I will show you some tips that serve to be a person with better emotional intelligence, they are basic tips, but that we apply little to our day to day.
What are you feeling?
In order to attack the problem you have, you have to know what is really happening, in this case, what your feelings are, what generates them, why you want to change them and how you can change them.
It's that simple, but it's not that easy to do, many of us don't usually sit down and think about what goes through our heads, what has us like this.
We simply let ourselves be carried away by our feelings as if we had no power over us.
That is why self-assessing your feelings will be half the way to your emotional intelligence.
If you are a person who knows your feelings and knows how to control them, believe me you will be a person who can do little harm in different aspects of life, you will be strong and difficult to knock down.
Whose fault is it?
Yours, it will always be yours, whatever the context, after the age of 18, you become completely independent of your feelings, everything you feel will be solely and exclusively your responsibility, I repeat, whatever the context.
If you spend your life basing your feelings on what other people influence you, it will be very difficult for you to achieve peace and happiness, since the only person who can make you happy is you.
An example of this is that you can be in the happiest situation of your life, you can be surrounded by happy people with good vibes, but if your mind is not capable of being happy, you will not be, not because of Nothing external, but by you inside.
The same thing happens in the opposite case, for example, if you are witnessing a love breakup, and the relationship automatically ends, your life collapses because of it, you are choosing that feeling due to the laziness of taking responsibility for your feelings and thus blaming others for your unhappiness
If a person manages to dominate what makes him happy and what makes him unhappy, he has already won the way.
Take responsibility, it's nobody's fault how you feel or where you are, it's only your responsibility, not your parents, the environment where you were born, your ex-boyfriend who cheated on you, your friends who spoke ill of you, it's nobody's , is absolutely yours and if you take responsibility, you can make a clean slate.
Are you afraid to change?
This may be one of the reasons with the most weight when it comes to being a person who acts on their emotions.
Many times, knowing that you have to change, generates a mental weight on everything you have to leave in order to get going.
Many times, the fear of leaving everything that hurts you, makes you stay there and not move forward.
Do not be afraid to change, many times we feel that we can water it down, that we can be making a team decision, but my friend, many times all of this is in our heads, and after changing we find an improved version of ourselves, happier and more peace.
Remember that fear is often only in situations that your head creates and that are not real, so changing will always be a great sacrifice, because it is like getting out of an addiction, but it is what will make you get out of that hole in the that you find yourself and you don't want to be.
***As this topic is long and I want to carry it out in the most complete way so that you do not lose a bit of these tips, I will section it by part.***
***This has been the first part, and I want you to take it as the starting point on the road to your emotional intelligence.***
***I would love with all my being, that you apply these steps, that you really commit to being a person who chooses to suffer less or suffer intelligently, because yes, not everything has to look rosy, in the following articles, I will I will teach how to find the path of emotional salvation in different situations that bring us down momentarily and that many times cannot be changed, so, without further ado, I say goodbye to you dear reader, I hope your week has started in the best way, I I wish you much success and wisdom.***
***I hope soon to be able to have internet and read each of your articles, I love you very much...***
All the colors that my hair has had lll
*Hello dear friends, how are you today? I know I've been away on the platform for a long time, I'm not uploading many articles and I try to read as many articles as I can, but my schedule of tasks to do has grown and every day it's more difficult for me to have time for everything.*
*I need to organize myself in the best way, since I don't want to neglect them, read.cash for me is a great blessing and I refuse to let it go by, so, I hope you haven't missed me too much, because my plans now are to get back with all for you.*
*Keep reading to see more colors that my hair has had, I love that I can show you part of me.*
My natural color:
Yes, after having painted my hair in multiple colors, all of 2020 and part of 2021, I let it grow with my natural hair.
As you can see, the color may look a little dark, but it is very dark brown, it is not black.
How's it going?
Does my color suit me?
I give this color 9/10 because firstly it is something authentic that I have, secondly that at that moment my hair naturally took on a lot of life because I have straight hair and it became very beautiful when I left it natural.
It was strange to leave my hair for so long without painting it, many believe it was because I didn't want to continue painting it, but at that time it was because I didn't have a good income, and well... Everyone knows how expensive it is to maintain hair with a color that not yours, lol.
First attempt at copper:
Drastic change right?
No and that you would leave it natural until you recover it?
Well no, I remember telling you that it became an addiction to paint my hair and change it very often.
Well, this color is born from the idea of being a redhead, red and orange are my favorite colors, and redhead has always been my favorite hair color, the problem is that if your natural hair is dark like mine, first it will take to have a nice red color, and secondly it will cost a lot of money to maintain.
That is why they always say that the color red is the most expensive, however, I am willing to work more to give myself this luxury, the color red suits me very well and makes me feel empowered.
I give this color a score of 8/10 because being the first time it didn't turn out as expected, however, I was fulfilling my dream of being a redhead:)
Wrong Coffee:
For not reading, I made that mistake, you may wonder why it is a mistake?
Well, I'll tell you that I asked my sister for the favor of buying me a dye in the market, and she got the wrong number and well, it was my mistake not to look at what she was going to wear.
Thank heavens it wasn't a black or darker color, because I would have cried.
I don't like the shade of brown in my hair, that's why I felt so sad when I saw my hair lose its red hue.
However, it was not as bad as I thought, many people liked it and well, I learned to live for a month with a hair color that I did not like.
I give this tone a 6/10, because losing the red tone that I had already achieved slowed me down in my process of becoming a redhead, they all agree that the more colors you have on top, the more difficult it is to tone a color so I cried a few how many seconds lol
***Finally, I wanted to thank you, dear reader, who always reads me.***
***Believe me I do too and I am delighted to do it, because I like our interactions more and more every day, happy weekend, I hope you have enjoyed it in the best way.***
***I don't know about you, but right now it's still Saturday afternoon and I don't think I'm going to any parties, I'm just going to my bed to watch a series finale :)***
***Bye bye...***
Bitcoin expectations for September:
*Ok friends, the year is almost over and we haven't noticed.*
*Although... August was eternal, I feel that many things have happened since August arrived.*
*But well, today's article will not be about the months, what we have done in the year or how little is left of the year.*
*It will be my opinion about it, how bitcoin has been working during these months, how I think it will be and above all, the expectations that I have in it, for this month.*
*I am not a professional trader, nor do I do the best analysis, but I have experience that I have used in my operations and that has made me know a little more about bitcoin every day.*
*For those who don't know, I only trade bitcoin.*
*All right, let's get started*.
**Not at all, it has been the best year for bitcoin, but it has not been the worst either, only that we are apathetic in seeking to find past information about what happened to it.**
**The only good thing is that learning to operate in difficult times should make you a great warrior, so you don't have to see everything in a negative way.**
September monthly closing in previous years:
Yes, gentlemen, this has been the method that I liked the most to get ahead of events with bitcoin or to wait for movements in it.
Very well, bitcoin had a monthly closing in September 2021 of 7.02% in the negative, that is, bitcoin lost 7.02% in that month.
Ok, but that's not enough right?
Let's see the monthly closing of September 2020, or see it for yourself in the second image that I attached.
Bitcoin had a monthly closing of 7.46% in negative or red, too, what a coincidence right?
Well, have you ever heard the typical phrase used by traders in any market "Markets repeat themselves" "Markets are cyclical".
That is why he studied a bit of his past, I only review the last two years.
This gives me an idea of more or less what could happen this month, so although it will not always be the same, it helps me not to get excited or have false expectations when it comes to starting the month.
In fact, last year I was already starting out in the crypto world, and I saw how September was a bit of a chaotic month, so this month I will give it to myself, since August caused me a lot of losses and I don't want the same thing to happen with September. .
Sections and trend lines:
My trading strategy is very simple, it consists of a trend indicator and a confirmation indicator, adding risk management from an ATR, so what I have to analyze is easy.
But if we go one way outside of indicators, I like to section my chart into 1-day timeframes, on the 1-hour chart, which is the one I'm currently trading, as it gives me much faster signals and keeps me on track. constant movement.
So, those sections, I use them to look for the high points and the low price points so that I can have a more lucid view of the market trend.
How can you see, at a visual level, without knowing much about trading and graphics, you can see that there is a slight downward trend, in the last three days of bitcoin, therefore, as long as that trend is not broken with confirmation, I am not going to trade higher for the time being.
This helps me know how to manage my trades and not go against the trend.
Advice:
**Normally, periods of indecision in the market are longer than the real big moves, so just wait and learn.**
**Do not want to be so alive, remember that it is a world of giant bulls and whales that know much more than you, you only have to learn from them and see how they move, so they will not harm you financially.**
**The good streaks will come, I hear many people say that bitcoin and cryptocurrencies are no longer useful or that they are dying.**
**I also hear that there are many people who are retiring right now where there is a lot of uncertainty, when they should do the opposite, it is where they should be more attentive, since this is where you really learn.**
**If you learn to master the bad, the good will be just a blink of an eye for your freedom as a trader.**
**I will take a break, but I will trade, since I have more than a year without resting, but my eyes will be very attentive to the charts seeing each one of the movements.**
Dear reader:
***Don't think I don't read you, don't think I forgot about you, I'm just having very busy days that leave me little time to do what used to be my routine.***
***Do not think that with this I am forgetting Read.Cash, it is just that now I am organizing myself as best as possible to be able to dedicate time to you.***
***I hope this article has been very helpful to you and that you have been able to find something useful in it.***
***By the way, if you want to make a constructive criticism about my article, feel free to do it, I promise I won't bother because I'm just a trader in construction.***
***Kisses and hugs for everybody...***
Process=Result
Hello again dear readers of Read.Cash!
**Did they think they were going to get rid of me?**
Well, no, I am here and I will be here for a long time, because Read.Cash represents much more to me than BCH, it is more the connection that I create with the page and what I can transmit with you, than the superficial that we can acquire in this platform.
But well, not to get sentimental, let me tell you what this article will be about, which I hope will be of great use to you.
That article will be like a very intimate talk between you and me, where I will tell you about some things that I have learned in my evolution process, and you will answer me through the comments or an article, your version, okay?
**Let's get started, dear readers!**
What is a process?
Explained in my own words, it is that set of situations that we have to carry out to achieve something.
The process has to do with everything you think it can be, from a simple gastronomic recipe, a university degree or simply a cycle of your life.
The process is all those moments before obtaining a result.
Normally, we all deal with the process, in a different way, some love the process and others suffer from it.
But what we do not know, that the magic of things is there, is where we are going to grow the most, where we are going to learn the most and where our lives are going to change the most.
The process is the magic of doing something, the process is what we will remember with more love when we already have the results of the things we want, the process is an important moment to take the steps.
It may take a short time, or it may take years, but without going through it, we don't get the other things we want.
What is a result?
You remember what I said about the process above, right?
Well, the result is what we get after the process.
Normally, it is the motivation for which we face the process, it is like the goal for which we go through all that, right?
The result sometimes looks so far away, that it makes the process eternal, that it makes it so difficult that it hurts.
Sometimes the result we want looks so great in our minds that it serves as a gasoline engine to drive us stronger to comply with everything that the process takes.
There are different results, many times it is not what we expected when we started, sometimes it ends up being totally different, many times this is good and other times it is bad, the important thing is that we find a good way to see the result.
Sometimes the result is our final goal, but sometimes it is the beginning of another process.
Process or result?
Which do you think is more important, the process or the result?
Well, from my point of view, both are.
The process will lead you to the result and the result will help you feel happy and proud of having achieved it.
But something happens...
Many people lose love for the process when they realize that the result they want to obtain has not arrived or is seen so far that it motivates.
Then it becomes a race of despair, demotivation and depression.
Happiness disappears from your life and you begin to feel frustrated, and it is that many of us do not know how long the process can last for us to achieve something, but we do not know that the true result is to love the process.
Has it happened to you that you get something that you expected so much, and you no longer feel hat it is so important after having it?
**This is because...**
Happiness is the way to it:
*That's right friend, there is no station that says "You just arrived at happiness".*
*Actually what will make you happy is what you do to achieve it.*
*So, to end this beautiful chapter that I feel so emotionally, I want to tell you something directly:*
**Embrace your process, no matter how difficult what you are going through, no matter how terrible the current scenario, what you are living, is forging what you will be in the future, so why waste being able to enjoy this moment, probably, when it is another result, you will remember with great pride and nostalgia why you got over it.**
**Do not let the years go by so that you can love the life you have, do not waste every opportunity to open your eyes and see this wonderful moment.**
**There is a phrase that I don't quite remember whose it is, which says**
**"Love the life you have, while building the life you want."**
**That is what you have to do from now on, do not wait for tomorrow to feel better, promise me dear reader that from today you will love your process because you will know that the result will be perfect and indicated for you.**
**Love you...**
**Thanks for reading me...**
Opposites attract?
Hello friends of Read.Cash, I have been super lost lately but not because I don't like being active on the platform, but because my daily schedule has been too busy, so much so that I have little time left to be here, however, every time I come to the platform, I enjoy it a lot.
Today I will talk about some tips that I have seen on tiktok lately about things that will make us look more attractive in the eyes of other people and I wanted to make them clear here because I wanted to see what you thought about it.
Before, I wanted to mention that in the right eyes you will always be the most attractive being for that person, without the need to use tricks or basic tips from the internet, so these tips are just part of the entertainment, lately my imagination is a bit off, like this I didn't want to write something so elaborate.
Let's start:).
Dress alike:
According to scientific studies (from tiktok sources) wink, people who have the same fashion style or similar looks are usually attracted to each other at first sight.
This is because if you see someone dressed similarly to you or in a style of clothing or look that you like, you will feel more comfortable and with that feeling of "Confidence" "Home".
This is where I give my point of view:
The truth is, I had never noticed the clothes of the guys I've dated, in fact, all of them, absolutely all of them, have had bad taste in dressing, or it's not really bad taste, they just wear the most basic and casual can get in clothes of their gender haha.
Actually, the one who always dresses well is me, so from my point of view, I deny that trick, maybe because I don't fall in love visually.
Similar tastes:
According to the videos I watched, people who have the same tastes are more likely to be attracted to each other than people who have nothing in common.
This is because if they have more things in common, they should have more topics of conversation, therefore more fluid conversations, which is what we all look for when dating someone, right?
Well here I must say, that this is true, when you have more things in common with that person you are dating, you have more topics of conversation, what if I do not know if it is true, is if it should be a requirement to have things in common with those people.
In my case, I have dated people with similarities and people with different tastes, and the truth is, I simply enjoy how different people are, it is not that it affects me that they are not exactly the same as me, on the contrary, it gives more spark to relationships and in my case, I like to learn what I don't know, and what better than my boyfriend to teach me?
Opposites attract?
How many times in your life have you not heard that phrase?
More than ten times in your entire life you must have heard it, you can't deny me that statistic.
Now, science disproves that theory, and so do I, because I live studying psychology, and the great psychologists admit that those types of relationships where there is nothing in common, do not last long, and that not necessarily, people who are not similar or not have anything in common are destined to be together, so let's get that idea out of our heads.
The same poles are the ones that really attract each other and not only that, they last much longer, so there is a percentage of similarities and differences that a couple must have and it is 75% similarities and 25% differences.
That is the balance that a religiones must have at least to be more fluid and lasting.
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*****So opposite poles attract or vice versa?*****
I've had hair of all colors III:
I'm still in my photo exhibit with my hair in different colors.
Do you think that each color was a stage of my life?
Well, if you thought that, you are not far from reality, because yes, each color represents a cycle of my life, and not necessarily loving, in many aspects.
Today I show you three more colors, so stay and see me showing off my other hair tones...
A bit of art:
That's what I call this color, because it was a league that today I don't remember what colors I mixed, I only know that one has to do with purple, the others I have no idea lol.
This color has a rating in my life of 9.9, because first, it was not a planned color, it was not at the hairdresser, it was one day that I invented painting my hair in various colors and this beautiful mix came out.
I remember that at that time of my life, I looked very rosy, everyone loved that hair color because they had never seen it, they didn't know what hair color it was either, so that represents my authenticity, I love being original and innovating in fashions close to me I don't like to follow all of them but to impose them, that's why I'm truly happy.
It was also a stage, where I was having bad times with my boyfriend at the time, so having a new look always makes me happy.
I was spat on by a smurf:
Folks, here's another color with a high rating of 9.9.
Gentlemen a smurf vomited on me and my hair was melted the long and smooth smurfs.
I loved this color, I was very happy to have it in my life, since it made me feel cool and Rockstar, as always, they all had to do with my hair and I liked that more and more, always being remembered with my different hair colors. hair.
Ok, this color represents a December without my boyfriend at the time, it was a pretty toxic relationship, so I remember receiving the year with a kiss from him, even though we weren't together anymore, lol.
December, despite the fact that I was single, has one of the best memories of December, that was from 2019-2020, I think that color represents the death of the personality that I had before the pandemic, so I did not know that that would be the beginning of a new María Fernanda.
rare green:
I don't know exactly what kind of green it is, but the dye packaging said green, lol.
This color was practically discarded, that is, I wanted a new color, but the truth is I had already had almost all of them, so I looked for that dye and my mom painted it for me.
I give this color a score of 7, because I liked how rocky and cool girl I looked, but it's not really a color that stood out completely on my color list.
That day, it was the carnival of 2020, that is, I see that photo, and a big lump enters my throat, because many times you do not know how much you are going to enjoy a moment, in that photo I did not imagine that it would last months locked up and that my life was going to have a drastic change that would mark me forever.
Final Thoughts:
***It's good that I always chose the path of being who I want to be no matter what.***
***Nobody dared to do what I did, all my friends dyed their hair conventional colors and I always made a difference.***
***Do not be afraid to be different, do not limit your essence, let it be sniffed as it is, without fear of what other people think of you.***
***Always have as a duty, live your life as you want it, do not be one more of the bunch that lives like a herd, notice what you love different from others, let it be noticed, perceived, the only thing that differentiates us from others. Others are our characteristics that nobody else has.***
To the moon:
Today I want to chat with you about many things, especially regarding money and how to make it reach the moon, if possible.
How many of us have not had a somewhat toxic relationship with money thanks to the lack of it in our lives?
Come on, I think I'm not the only one, because money, no matter how much you want to see it differently, will always be essential in our lives, so let's talk a little about everything.
Bitcoin to the Moon:
God, when will be the day I will be able to give myself the pleasure of dancing with happiness seeing my earnings in the clouds, over there on the moon.
But, bitcoin seems like a teacher of life that little by little is teaching you that you have to be patient and that it has not yet taken off from 20k to the beyond.
But removing that, I'm so happy, because I've learned a lot in these dangerous zones that bitcoin has been in, I was able to keep my investments alive when it fell to 17k, I was able to make money while Bitcoin fell thanks to derivatives trading, and I was also able to grow a lot as a crypto trader and investor.
Today I see things differently, I am no longer interested in doing things quickly, I just want to learn, learn and learn for each being more and more knowledgeable.
Little by little, I am achieving it alone, you don't know how difficult it has been for me to maintain a good relationship with the crypto market, but I am getting closer and closer :)
My finances:
I downloaded the best finance app I could ever download before, I promise you, you have no idea how many apps I downloaded before to be more disciplined, manage my money, save and none of them worked before because they weren't. visually appealing to me.
I am a very visual person and I wanted a very organized platform, so when I saw this I fell in love at first sight.
It is called in Spanish "Mujer Emprendedora" I don't know if it will be available in all countries but I highly recommend it, whether you are a man or a woman, I promise you that this application will be very useful to you.
If the interface has multiple options, some to save, others to see the flow of expenses and income, others to graphically see the current situation of your money, in short, many, but not only those options, but also instruct on financial education, which is very interesting, apart from saving your money they also give you tips on how to maintain it, manage it, save it, invest it and multiply it, it is a dream for me.
Mindset to the moon:
Just like Uncle Elon, my mentality is heading there, wow, I am so focused on my investments and ventures that I have very little time to dedicate to my loved ones.
This is where a great doubt enters my head, where sometimes I don't know why I should be governed, whether to be more disciplined no matter what or from time to time put things aside and do what I feel at the moment.
It's hard, and I usually choose what I should do before what I really want.
Many times I feel tired before sleeping, my eyes are easily irritated, I get some headaches that invite me to take breaks, my head fills with thoughts where I think about my goals all day and although everything looks totally gray, I promise you that for me, seeing everything I have walked and what it has served me to be like this and build that version of myself, fills my eyes with joy because I know that even if it is difficult and exhausting, it always ends up being worth it.
The best version of me:
It is about to arrive, or rather, it is being built.
Sometimes I like to visualize, to charge my body with energy and to continue feeling motivated.
I always visualize myself as a free and empowered woman, with many entrepreneurs working for her and always dressed in red.
****I want to get into the role well, ok?****
*The best version of me is going to wear a lot of red, because it's her favorite color and it suits her so well.*
*She will be a girl who will not give her a chance to feel bad, because she will always be working on her goals and ambitions, and that, as always, is what will truly fill her with happiness.*
*She will be a girl with great emotional intelligence, who will not be afraid of being alone, traveling around the world, imbued with a great smell of a successful woman who has worked hard to get everything she wants.*
*To then get home, take off your heels and see a beautiful sunset on your beautiful Italian-style terrace that will make you breathe in the aroma of the freedom you have achieved.*
*Come on, let me dream, let me visualize and manifest everything I want.*
**Have a beautiful and predictive Monday full of many goals achieved, and if not, an end of the day where you connect with the things you really want for yourself and for your life.**
**I felt bad all weekend, and today when I had the motivation to get up and do my homework, my self-esteem automatically started to rise again.**
**I also put music from the "Soul" section on Spotify and wow how it influences the style of music you listen to, so if you're having a bad day, put up some happy music and delight in a great energy rush.**
Your repetition is your reputation:
I don't know where I heard that saying before, but I didn't understand it until I became a disciplined person with good habits.
I have had many facets of my life, and precisely in this one where I am focused on building the future I want, I have had to adopt a large number of habits that help me reach the goal more easily, and I have had to eliminate all those habits that get in the way of the success I want.
But what are habits, how to create them and how to have a good relationship with that change in our lives?
What do you think if you continue reading me and analyze each part of it, but not only that, but you start putting it into practice from now on.
So that you can say with your chin up and a clear and firm voice:
"My replay is my reputation."
What is a habit?
Read the title of this article right now...
Yes, that's right, that saying has to do with that.
Habits are actions that we do consciously or subconsciously repeatedly.
But wait, here comes the good part of the cake, just as there are good habits, there are also bad ones, and many times these are the ones that make our days not have even a small dose of happiness in them.
Over there I once heard that the key to success has nothing to do with your academic level, your economic situation or your social situation, it has to do with how committed you are to what you want to achieve.
That is, you have a whole system of habits that are in tune with what you want to achieve.
If you have goals, then eliminate the excuses, because you can achieve them, what you need is to create a series of habits that help you do it.
Do not think so much, if you really want it, you will be willing to commit 24/7 with what you must do to win your little battles. What is a habit?
Read the title of this article right now...
Yes, that's right, that saying has to do with that.
Habits are actions that we do consciously or subconsciously repeatedly.
But wait, here comes the good part of the cake, just as there are good habits, there are also bad ones, and many times these are the ones that make our days not have even a small dose of happiness in them.
Over there I once heard that the key to success has nothing to do with your academic level, your economic situation or your social situation, it has to do with how committed you are to what you want to achieve.
That is, you have a whole system of habits that are in tune with what you want to achieve.
If you have goals, then eliminate the excuses, because you can achieve them, what you need is to create a series of habits that help you do it.
Do not think about it so much, if you really want it, you will be willing to commit 24/7 with what you must do to win your little battles.
Rescheduling:
As if you were a computer, your brain can be reprogrammed, yes, don't be scared, the effect you want to achieve will be in your hands.
Thank God, we all have the opportunity to analyze our attitudes, understand them and modify or even eliminate them.
So, the same thing happens with habits, come on, you can reprogram the list of your habits.
Come on, think about what you usually do repeatedly, what you usually do that you no longer want to do because you know what emains for you and what you want to start doing because you know it can add to you?
That's the trick, there are habits that we must implement, such as "Read".
Reading a good book should be a habit that we all should have, so you can write it down on your reprogramming list where you will write not only the habit of reading, but all the habits you want in your life.
Smoking is a bad habit, so without thinking twice, you should eliminate it from your life, on the cigarette box itself it tells you that you are going to die with its consumption, and even so you have it as a habit
If you don't know how to do it, then keep reading...
How to create habits?
You don't really need much, but you do need to be in a constant fight with your subconscious part that doesn't want to be disciplined or fight for what you want.
That is why you need the following virtues to be able to carry out the new habits of your life:
Commitment: You have to really want to change your life routine, you have to really want to give all of yourself for your objectives or goals, so make a commitment to yourself that under no circumstances will you abandon your new lifestyle.
Perseverance: Remember the saying in the title? Yes, your repetition is your reputation, nothing for one day yes and two days no, you remember that you are engaged, right? So your priority is to act with your habits.
Zero excuses: You may not feel like being productive every day, I know, nor do you have the same spirit, but the first thing you have to keep in mind is that you cannot fail, so eliminate everything else but your good habits cannot be eliminated or postponed.
Patience: It is essential that you know that nothing changes from one day to the next, you have to know that if you have not done something for years, in two days you will not adapt to it, so trust the process.
30 days of rescheduling:
That is, what your body and mind need to keep that habit in your subconscious and practically add these habits to your lifestyle almost unconsciously.
But how easy is it?
I don't think it's that easy, because if it's something you're not used to doing, there are probably a lot of excuses or limiting beliefs that keep you from being consistent.
Arm yourself with courage and have the willpower to continue until the end of those 30 days.
The first 10 days will be the easiest, because you will enter with great motivation and encouragement to carry out your new habits, there will be the euphoria of the new change and lifestyle, but the following will happen...
In the other 10 days, laziness, procrastination, low spirits will come because you want to get results now, so next...
In the last 10 days is where you will get more willpower, because you want to finish and carry out your goal, that is why in the last days your motivation will rise because you will be proud of where you have come and that you can achieve anything .
If you can do it, after that great battle in the 30 days, it should be easy to carry that habit in your day to day, remember to never stop doing it.
Modify your habits:
As the idea of eliminating a habit is very difficult, it is better to reconsider the idea of "Modifying it" that in the end will have the result of having eliminated that habit.
So what do I mean, that you are going to stop fulfilling the habit that you want to eliminate for the habit that you want to do.
That is, if you have the habit or the bad habit of falling asleep after 12am, then you are going to replace it with the habit of falling asleep every day before 12am.
In this way, little by little, you will be modifying your habits without drastically eliminating them, which makes your subconscious feel threatened by the change.
If you do that consistently, believe me you'll be filled with a lot of good habits in no time.
**Thank you very much if you got here, I made this article with all the love in the world, with the best intentions that you can create the life you really want, that will make you happier.**
**Thank you dear reader, for always reading me and leaving me your opinion about it.**
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I've had hair of all colors (Part 2):
Ok, I love these articles because I like knowing that I have painted my hair in many colors.
How is it possible that she is not bald?
Maybe I have good hair, a lot of luck, or it's a miracle from heaven.
Today I bring my other three colors, I don't know how many parts I'm going to divide this article into, but I'm going to try not to divide it into many.
I confess that with the same color I have had different looks.
let's start...
Blond:
In my plans, I definitely wasn't going to go blonde, but there was a moment where I didn't know what color to go to, so since I wanted a change, I made the decision to dye my hair blonde.
***What did I do exactly?***
Well, I simply did the famous "Highlights" so as not to bleach all my hair and it's good that I made that decision, since my hair was really affected after trying to become peroxide blonde.
It was the color that mistreated my hair the most, I remember that it got tangled horrible and every time I passed a brush through it, many fallen hairs came.
It was also very parched, and I remember bathing many times and leaving hair on the walls.
***Girls, how many of you do that?***
I give this color a score of 5/10 because even though I liked being blonde, my hair was very damaged and dry, dull and lifeless, so I quickly wanted to remove it.
Next, other photos with blonde hair.
All pink:
Yes, Lavagirl came back but more tender, she was no longer the girl with fuchsia hair but the girl with pink hair.
And as you can see, unlike my Lavagirl look, this time I had completely painted everything, great right?
I think this color made many people fall in love with my hair.
Absolutely no one in the town where I live would have dared to dye their hair all fuchsia.
I really liked this color, I felt very good about myself and I loved being conspicuous before other people, but the only bad thing is that these types of colors don't last very long in the hair so the charm died quickly.
I give this color 8/10 because I love how original it was when I had it, but I don't know how to get a full 10 because it fades so quickly and is very expensive to maintain.
Purple:
In the photo you can't detail it very well, but SO SO MUCH, it's purple.
This happened three months after having pink hair, so as you can see, I change hair color like I change underwear every day juju.
Choosing this color was very random, I remember that I didn't even tell anyone, I just went to the pharmacy and bought a fantasy purple dye, I said "In the name of the father, the son and the Holy Spirit" and without thinking twice I I dyed the hair purple.
I was definitely crazy hahaha if you ask me if I have an addiction to something I would say to dye my hair.
***What do you think?***
I remember that the boyfriend I had at the time was surprised when he saw me because he said, wtf, I saw you yesterday and he had pink hair.
I give this color 7/10, I liked having it and increasing my list of colors, but it wasn't a color that I said "Wow, I love it", I guess because purple is not one of my favorite colors.
Let's talk a bit:
***One of the things I like the most about dyeing my hair is that I feel like another person every time I do it, it's like an escape route from my non-favorite versions.***
***Yes, I am that girl who closes cycles by painting her hair lol.***
***But wait, you don't know how exciting it is too, that people have that same perception.***
***My ex told me "Being with you is like having a new girlfriend every moment".***
***Where I live, I'm always identified as "The girl who always dyes her hair colours, and I love that.***
***Thank you for reading me, I am so happy to be here with you today!***
The importance of psychology: (My story).
It all started in 2020, when one Friday while I was getting ready to go out with my friends and my boyfriend, my dad knocks on the door of the room and tells me that he is not going to let me go out, because there was already the first case of COVID-19 in Venezuela and now we all had to quarantine and be aware of the damage we could do to our own family if we didn't take care of ourselves.
María Fernanda died there and another person was born, I had to be born again and it was thanks to that great year, which completely destroyed me, never before had I been as vulnerable as I was that year, but it was the year where I grew the most, and where more I changed.
So not everything was bad, keep reading to tell you this great story about how my 2020 went.
After spending a not so happy December, on March 4, after three months, I got back together with my then ex.
We were very happy, our relationship had had many ups and downs, but for some strange reason, always coming back and being happy together was an option.
After giving us the opportunity, everything seemed to have returned to normal, what we did not know was that a week later, the entire country would be totally immobilized.
Overnight, I had to quit my job at an ice cream parlor, stop going out and follow my routine, not seeing my boyfriend anymore, and living with the constant psychosis that I didn't know what could happen tomorrow, if we it could give covid, if my parents could die, if the world was going to be totally destroyed, it was totally a year that completely destroyed me on a mental level.
I had never experienced something similar, it's that I didn't even think about it, but imagine what it's like to be 20 years old, be unemployed, lose your relationship, and live with the constant fear of death for you or your family?
My routine had totally changed, I had gone from being an active girl who worked daily from Monday to Friday, and on weekends she went out with her boyfriend and friends, ate in the street, went to parties, shared with her family, to spending 24 /7 locked up doing nothing in her house.
I want you to know that at that time, I had no idea what I wanted for my family, I was simply existing in a piece of furniture next to my bed, watching how the hours of the day passed, wanting to live another reality.
The first three months I took better, I was still worried about the change I was going through, but three months later there was nothing to get me out of the anxiety I was going through.
I got up every day at 11am, had breakfast at that time, went back to my room, spent the whole afternoon watching Netflix in bed, then had lunch at 5pm, then showered and had dinner at 7pm and then spent the whole night awake , I fell asleep around 4am-5am.
With what I have just commented, you can imagine how my mental and physical health was due to so many bad habits that I was acquiring.
To that we add that my relationship with my boyfriend was ending, we hardly spoke anymore, since he did go out, and they wouldn't even let me stick my head out the window.
I was so helpless, at that moment all I thought about was him, I couldn't imagine that it was the end of our relationship.
The nights were the most annoying moment of the day, since we were my mind and it was destroying me, I can swear that tears come to my eyes just to tell about that dark moment of my life.
For the first time I experienced a panic attack, as it was so difficult to fall asleep, I had short periods of sleep, so I slept in sections, and in some sections I dreamed of very dark things and one day in a dream where I did not know if it was real or no, I didn't even remember what the dream was, it woke me up, then I started having a crisis because I couldn't sleep.
It was me, tossing and turning in bed trying to sleep, which triggered a huge panic attack episode where I had to walk barefoot out of the room at 3am and breathe out the garden window because I felt like I was getting sick. suffocating.
I cry right now thinking about those moments.
A little glimmer of light at the end of the tunnel:
One day, desperate to find a way to overcome that breakup that I had had to have with the person I was in love with at that moment, a person who had been unable to see, touch, or kiss for months, I searched internet a book to overcome a love breakup and that was one of the most important moments in my life.
I was not very confident about whether a book would help me or not, but I was still so desperate to read something that would help me release all that pressure I had in my body, I found a book by an author named Walter Riso, the book It's called "Fall in love with you" and that was the little flash of light I saw at the bottom of that tunnel.
Today he is my favorite psychologist and he has the best books if you want to increase your self-esteem and get over a breakup.
I did not get better overnight, but it was impressive how little by little I was understanding some things in life, I had understood that anxiety was a biological and natural process, that loving yourself first is the best decision, and that working on our health mentally was the best we could do.
It was there that my vocation for psychology was born.
After chatting with several friends and acquaintances virtually, I realized that I was not the only one who had lived through that hell during quarantine.
So I dedicated myself to helping the mental aspect of everyone who told me about their problems and they ended my chat feeling better and wanting to talk to me every time they felt their life was in pieces.
It was there, at that precise moment that I was good at it, that I enjoyed getting people out of their worst thoughts, encouraging them to come out of their holes, telling them that life is beautiful that we just had to know how to appreciate it, that everything changes when we make sense of it.
December came, the virus still existed in the country, but the quarantine had been lifted.
I was no longer the same person, I was totally another person, what meant the most to me was that I had had my healing process alone, I had found a way out alone, I had managed to gather the strength to do it alone, I was so proud of myself.
And not only that, the number of people who thanked me for having listened to them, for having understood them, that made me cry a lot, knowing that I was able to save many people in their worst moments.
It gave me a reason to exist, a reason to fight, if I have to go through hard times and show that if I can get out I will do it, if I have to bear witness to it I will do it, if I can show that with Psychology we can understand what I will do what happens to us, and if you are reading me, this is a sign that your mental health must be worked on, do not abandon it, there is always a way out, do not despair.
***I love you very much, try to understand the things that happen, look for a meaning, look for a reason, find it, create it, but don't let your life be seen as a misfortune.***
***No matter how strong the moment you are in, everything happens to make you grow, to change you.***
***Your life begins the moment you leave your comfort zone, I promise you that at first it's scary, at first your life gets messy, but always in the end, you will be rewarded.***
All about writing articles...
Yes friends, being all here, writing articles, in a certain way makes us writers, no matter how good or bad your articles are, you are a writer, so congratulations, have you ever imagined being a writer?
Well, if your answer is "No", I don't either hahaha, in fact before I was terrible at writing any type of text, I hated language classes, I didn't like poetry, I knew absolutely nothing about it.
And you know what?
Nobody taught me, the only thing that has taught me how to do things has been experience and discipline, the desire to improve every day and make the articles better and better.
Today I'll tell you a little about what it's like to write articles and what it's like to be a writer...
Be creative:
I start with the most difficult, since many of us have a certain percentage of creativity, some higher, others lower, others raise and lower it depending on how their lives are and so on.
I consider myself a creative person, but not all the time lol, I need a lot of emotional stability in my life to be able to create quality content, the rest I won't do much of, in fact I become completely null when I have a problem.
Being a writer requires a lot of creativity, especially because it is what will motivate you to continue writing.
When you create content completely yours and see how people from other places read you and sense everything you sent to transmit, it feels very good, even more so when you created it totally yourself.
But creativity is a great difficulty for many too, so many writers spend a long time writing without enjoying it, until creativity reappears in us.
Something that I usually do is walk away from the articles when I don't find something creative in myself, so I give myself a space, so that later I feel that something has come to my mind and I can transfer it to writing.
Another thing that I usually do when I have my dose of creativity, is to take advantage of when I am inspired to create several articles and thus be able to use them when I have no inspiration at all, take that advice, it will make your life easier, believe me.
Take your time:
When things don't work out, don't force yourself, when you have time writing, you realize when a text was forced, be it yours or someone else's, it shows a lot when you don't do it with the passion that characterizes you, then it's not convenient to write when you have no ideas or desire.
It is not a competition, writing is something passionate, of art, of liberation, it does not have to be a forced text just to comply.
Trying to write something that doesn't work for you will only frustrate you, and that's never good for articles, because if your audience perceives that you don't write with passion, they may not connect with your content.
Give yourself a vacation when you feel frustrated or without ideas, I promise you that when you have taken some time the ideas will come by themselves without having to force your imagination.
You don't have to compete with anyone, writing should be a manifestation of your thoughts, a way to express yourself, to free yourself, don't make writing an obligation that will make you hate it more often.
Remuneration:
I tell you that when I started on this platform, I lasted exactly one month without having a single penny in my account, and still I stayed.
I must admit that at first everything was for a monetary purpose, I stayed because I don't usually give up, because I knew that I could achieve it like everyone else, and because that would help me develop as a writer.
I managed to monetize, I found my audience, in fact, more than readers, they became my faithful friends of Read.Cash, I improved my articles and found my passion writing.
Now I enjoy writing, and each time I try to improve more and more.
About two months ago, my items started having problems with monetization, getting lower and lower price, but guess what? I never stopped publishing, on the contrary, I took all the passion out of me and greatly improved my articles and my interaction with all of you.
Now Rusty is back to me, but nothing like it was before, however I keep improving and trying.
So if you do things just to do them or for money, you're not going to enjoy the process and you're not going to grow as a writer.
Writer's Block:
Writer's block I described here, as several writers said they were going through it at certain times.
Writer's block is as its name says, something mental process or emotional situation that prevents you from writing, lack of creativity, motivation and fatigue to write something.
Like creativity, this moment of blockage only comes to tell you that it is natural, we all go through it and just as it comes only by itself, do not feel bad if you do not feel one hundred with your motivation, not all the time you have that being 100% actually doesn't even exist.
When that happens, for you to be more active on the platform, just interact, read articles, comment and do that kind of thing so that you are not inactive, but give yourself a vacation from writing.
Your community:
The great base of everything, I think that makes us all happy that after writing hard, we will have the reception of our reader friends.
Nothing fills me more with satisfaction than when I publish an article, people who are in different parts of the world take the time to read me, give me their opinions, criticism or advice.
It is really the best part of this, so focus on creating your community, so people who like to read your content come to you and you create for your own niche.
I will take advantage of this moment to thank each of you, who always read me, comment on me and support me, my eyes are often filled with happiness knowing that you read me and enjoy doing so.
I have no words to thank them all, they have been part of many beginnings and closures of the cycle, and I will never forget them, they are a great part of this stage of my life, I love them very much, and they are great people, every time I meet better people over here
@TheGuy thanks for your great advice, you let me know, that there are people willing to lend you a hand when you need it most, also thanks for staying on my banner alone lol, I will never forget you.
@Ellen.He Thank you for being so sweet, for being that virtual friend that everyone loves, thank you for always reading us all and for showing us your perfect blue skies artwork, we love you and miss you lol.
@Kacy01 Thank you for always taking the time to read me, you're amazing, I really love meeting people like you.
If I name all of you I will never finish this article, but I want to thank each one of you, excuse me if I did not mention you, but I have you in my heart.
****Thanks also to Read.Cash for giving me the opportunity to express myself freely here, for giving me this opportunity to grow and for supporting my content through @Randomrewarder, although I'm not here for the money, it helps me a lot in my projects, so I don't I have nothing more to say than gratitude, all those who are here, are of the best energies, thank you, thank you, infinite thanks...****
I've had hair of all colors.
This started when she was a 17-year-old girl, who previously said that she was never going to dye her hair, but come on, one day she had an urge to dye her hair, and after that I couldn't stop.
I tend to be very passionate and intense, that's why many times I prefer not to open doors from which you don't know when to leave, but I tell you that I don't regret a single minute of having dyed my hair in all colors.
I want a tattoo, but I'm afraid to get one, and it will happen to me like when I dyed my hair for the first time, I wanted many more hahahahaha.
***First of all, I want to say and clarify what it is like to dye your hair very often.***
***You have to keep in mind that not all reviews are the same, that is, not what worked for me, may work for you, or maybe it may.***
***It happens that I have an unproven theory, that the hair is not damaged by the dye, if you are born with good hair...***
***With this I do not want to offend anyone, I just mean that if you have hydrated, strong and healthy hair since you were a child, it will not be damaged by dye.***
***This is told to you by a person who has dyed his hair more than 30 times and has not gone bald nor is it ugly.***
***So you have to take that detail into account.***
***On the other hand, do not be afraid, hair grows, there are thousands of products so that your hair does not suffer so much from the impact of the dye on your hair, so keep reading.***
On the other hand, I already lost count of how many times I painted it differently, so there will be several articles showing my hair colors, here I will only show 3.
Silver grey.
Yes, what a strange color to dye your hair.
Yeah, hardly noticeable...
But wait, here comes the story:
That idea was born, from wanting to do something different to my hair, I always had dark brown hair, and the truth is, I never liked that color.
So even though I didn't want to dye my hair, because of the disgusting myth of "You're going to damage your hair" I still decided to do it and I wanted to start with something that wouldn't be too noticeable.
At that time, I was a very introverted girl who didn't want to attract attention, so I wanted something very inconspicuous.
Without thinking much about it, I made the decision and I did it, at first it was difficult for me to adapt, I think I didn't like that color very much, not because of the color, but because it didn't turn out as I expected, but obviously, it was the first time I dyed my hair and I felt weird.
My aunts said "Wow, we paint our gray hair, and you put it on" HAHAHA I think that describes a bit of what my personality is like.
With this color, let's say I felt a 6/10 because it really didn't suit me.
Fuchsia tips:
What change right?
Curious for someone who was not looking to attract attention at all to dye their hair the most striking color, whatever lol.
One day I was bored with my silver color, because that was the beginning of the vice of dyeing my hair, which easily bored me and I wanted another color that would make me excited again.
So, I went to the supermarket in search of a dye, and the part of "Fantasy color dyes" caught my attention and that's how it was, gentlemen, right there I chose "Metallic Fuchsia".
My mom was not so in agreement with that color, since I live in a town where everyone is conservative and not used to modernism.
But it was me who walked through all the streets shyly showing off my fuchsia hair and getting everyone's attention.
From there, I began to be known as "The girl with the colored hair".
The truth is, I think that thanks to that change of look, I started to socialize more, and to be better known, so I give it a 7/10 in my favorite colors.
Besides, remember Lavagirl?
Well, it was born thanks to that color UwU.
Rose gold balayage:
That's how I'll put that color, because it was light pink, but very metallic, no idea why it looked like that, but that was at the hairdresser's.
That day I told the hairdresser (which is the only one I've had in all these years) to do something new and different.
So he mixed a lot of things and this color came out.
Already at this point, I was getting very interested in painting my hair several times and in various colors, each time the theme of my hair color became more popular and I loved being someone else every time I changed my look.
I remember that day, a person I liked saw me, and told me that he loved the color of my hair, which made me very emotional.
As you can see, there is a Christmas tree behind it, that's because it was Christmas 2018, that is, it had been exactly a year since I painted it for the first time and I had already had three colors in my hair, you can imagine the colors that they come next.
But that will be for another article, because seriously, it would be the longest article in history.
I give this color 6/10 because it was a color that bored me very quickly, however everyone loved it.
I hope you have enjoyed reading this article, you can get ideas if one day you want to dye your hair and if you want advice on how to live with dyed hair, I can leave you all of them (there are really very few).
Have a nice day, I wish you the best, Bye, Bye...
Satoshi Island:
Wow, when I thought that the cryptocurrency era could not impress me anymore, this project arrives, which unfortunately takes me without money to invest.
But hey, that's not why I get discouraged, on the contrary, being a great enthusiast of the cryptographic and blockchain world, it makes me very happy that we are taking great steps for the cryptographic future.
Read me to explain in a simple way and without very technical data about what this project will be.
What is Satoshi Island?
It is a PHYSICAL island, where everything will be paid with cryptocurrencies, it is located in a country of Oceania called Vanuatu, and today it has a great possibility of direct flights to Australia (its sister country) of less than 24 hours so you can go vacation without any inconvenience.
Well yes, just as you read it, it's real, it exists and if the project works it will be crazy.
You have no idea how exciting it is to read every news about this project, I usually don't read news, but I fell in love with it, it's so fascinating to imagine a city on an island totally based on decentralization and blockchain?.
Who can invest?
Well, in this case, the properties on the island will be sold through NFT's, which are already predetermined on the island.
Anyone can invest and you will only need the money to buy your NTF represented in real estate.
I was checking and there are many places that you can buy, such as soccer fields, shopping malls, apartments, farms among others.
The most exciting thing is that it is real, so you are really buying a physical and real good approved by the Vanuatu government.
The truth is, I don't know the purchasing methods, the prices, the Launchpads, but what I do know is that it looks great for the crypto future.
A futuristic island:
If you thought the cool and exciting information was over, you're wrong, the good stuff is coming now.
The city will have a futuristic design and will have the latest technology seen before.
So it will be like being in a city like action movies, divergent type or Maze runer, remember?
With absolutely all the technological advances you can imagine.
In this project, there are people seriously involved in it, like the architect in charge of the design of the island: James Law Cybertecture.
Plus the support of the country, its government and a large number of enthusiasts willing to do everything for this project to be carried out.
**Currently, the island has several villas for investors to stay to exploit the island and what is being done on it.**
**They can also generate new ideas and everyone can do their bit for the prosperity of the city.**
**The airport in Australia has direct flights to the island, from the island to Australia, from Australia to the whole world.**
**So there will be no excuses to get to that small island, which has plans to be the official capital of cryptocurrencies.**
**I am so excited and wanting it to be real, I can visualize myself in the future visiting the most modern island of all time.**
Recommendation:
*This article is not an advertisement about the island, nor is it an investment recommendation, nor am I an expert on the subject.*
*So be very concerned with how you take this information.*
*I recommend you investigate this project if you are attracted to cryptocurrencies, since if it is carried out it will mark a before and after in the cryptographic world.*
*If you plan to invest in it, be very careful, since investments in cryptocurrencies will always be more risky, especially when they are of this caliber and completely new.*
*But on the other hand, these are the great opportunities that you have to know how to take advantage of, if I had the money, I would be part of this project without thinking twice.*
I start my journey:
*I want to be more productive, more prosperous and more persevering.*
*Lol, that's three "P's"...*
*I must confess that last month was my least productive month of the year, I am not so proud of myself in terms of the goals I achieved, since they were very few.*
*But not everything was for me, but for family inconveniences.*
*In the area where I derailed the most, it was in the economic one, since I did not use my management strategy at all, I was not aware of the charts, I did not do almost any trading either, so that made me fall behind on my way.*
*But I already promise to give it all the desire possible to improve.*
Do not complain!
*What is done is done, and it can no longer be erased, what can be changed is the future, and coincidentally it is the tomorrow that awaits you.*
*Instead of wasting time complaining or regretting what you didn't do, take action now and modify your future, which is great what awaits you.*
*Sometimes, the things that happen to us have a purpose, and maybe yours is to improve, everything that makes us improve is of vital help, so instead of feeling bad, feel that this is an opportunity for you to improve .*
Set short-term goals:
***Short-term goals are great, as they keep you on track with what you have to do, keep you consistent and entertained in what will soon have results, and seeing results fast helps improve motivation.***
Start now!
*No, it's not tomorrow, it's not Monday, it's not next month, it must be already.*
*Today, now, this precise moment is what you already have, don't waste a second of it because of fears or super conservative and orthodox plans.*
*It's not worth waiting for something you can do now.*
*Thinking a lot or waiting a lot can make you doubt or regret along the way whether what you are doing is correct or not, so take action now, without thinking about it, without hesitation, and start your journey.*
Burn the ships:
*One of my favorite phrases, I no longer remember where I discovered it, but I know and I never forget what it really means.*
*And it is related to what in our trip, when we make stops or arrive at our destination, we have to burn the ships where we came from, so that we cannot go back.*
*That is why that saying is so great for me, it is like a way of saying that we should not leave anything that makes us return, just be looking forward and there is no turning back.*
Be a good conversationalist:
***Does it happen to you that you don't talk much?***
***That you are in a place and you want to talk to people and you don't know how to start a conversation?***
***Or worse yet, that you're talking to someone and there's an awkward silence and neither of you know how to get out of that silent space?***
*Well, keep reading and I'll give you some tips to have good conversations and that people are pleased every time they talk to you;).*
Why do you want to talk?
It is the first thing you should ask yourself, since you have to have different strategies for each type of end you have.
For example, it is not the same approach that you will have with a girl you like, than with a group of people or a specific person.
That is why you must analyze the situation well, and ask yourself what you want to obtain from the conversation that you are about to start.
If it is to sell a product, if it is to introduce yourself to a person, if it is to conquer someone, get someone's attention, make friends or simply be more sociable than you usually are.
With this, you are halfway there, now you just have to take action, and that is why you must:
Start the conversation:
That's right, you are the first.
A self-confident person with initiative likes you at first sight, so it is best that you are the one who approaches the person or group of people with whom you want to talk.
This will put you in control of the conversation, since you will have made the decision to start it and you will have the power of it.
You will look like the leader of the conversation and everyone will be attentive to what you say.
Show yourself in confidence and you already have planned what topic to start with.
what to talk about?
Well, this has to do with what was said before, planning beforehand what you are going to say or how you will start the conversation.
Try to greet first, be polite and classy, so people will not be intimate if they are introverted or conservative.
Try to start the conversation with something that you both like but above all that it is a subject that you dominate, in case the other person does not know anything about the subject or worse, knows too much about it, do not feel uncomfortable or intimidated by not mastering the subject.
Remember that you are the leader of the conversation and you must stay in control of the conversation and dominate it.
Do not talk about news, illnesses or negative topics, because what you want to look for will be the following:
Dopamine:
To make it simpler, it is a chemical and hormonal substance that is released in our body with the feeling of being a reward after having done something.
That is, it is that feeling of pleasure that we can get when we do certain kinds of things.
So that is what you are looking for after having a good conversation, to be left with great feelings that make you want to repeat that conversation again or talk to that person.
Always try to leave that feeling with the people you talk to, and believe me that will make them always want to talk to you.
Nobody wants to talk to a person who makes them feel bad, and nobody wants to talk about things that make them feel bad, so be that person who releases dopamine in people.
An example of this is talking to the person you like, that's why it becomes addictive, and you always want to see that person who makes you feel butterflies and takes you to an extreme level of happiness.
End the conversation:
That's right, just as you started, you also end the conversation.
This is what great leaders do, as I told you before, being the owner and controller of the conversation makes you have a higher rank in the conversation, so they will always pay close attention to you.
It is recommended that the conversation always end when it is at its best, when the dopamine has already taken effect, so you achieve an effect on people of not wanting the conversation to end and wanting you to continue talking or talk again.
End the conversation politely, and talk about how much you enjoyed talking to these people.
Always smile, hug, have good contact with people, create that close bond where people feel your company as "Home"
Believe me that after applying the above, no one will want to let you go in a good conversation that you started.
***After following these tips, you will be so good at conversation that you will have many friends and people who will always want to talk to you.***
***Come on, I know that many are fine alone and being lonely, but many times human contact is necessary and have that dose of dopamine generated by other people.***
***Follow my advice and try to adapt it to you, I wish you a great and comforting Sunday and I love having shared something with you today, I love you very much.***
Mr. Hector died.
*I think it's becoming customary to show you many images of the sky, but I can't help it, I automatically see a beautiful pattern that is completely sure that it will have an image captured by my phone.*
*The sunsets are beautiful, I won't get tired of saying it, because whenever I see one I am enchanted.*
*I think it's for the reason that I love warm colors, that if oranges, yellows, reds and browns then normally that's the way the sky is.*
*Taking this photo cost a lot of money, it is always worth it later to admire it on my phone and of course show each of my readers the sky that I see.*
*Mr Hector died :(*
*Yes, that man you see in the image studied with me at the university, and he was the best classmate.*
*A man who, since he arrived, showed us what kindness is, shared absolutely all his wisdom with all of us, many valued it, others not so much, the important thing is that he left us many teachings.*
*One of them is never too late to do what you really want.*
*Another teaching is that no matter how strong adversity is, it is up to you to know how to confront it.*
*That life will always be beautiful even if it hurts sometimes.*
*That youth will always fill the soul.*
*To not be selfish and share everything you know with the world.*
*If I put to name everything we learned from Mr. Héctor I cry, since he was my work and homework partner along with Nath, always doing the work with him and many times he helped us a lot to understand things, he was like a dad.*
*He never told us that he had cancer, and Nath and I found out four years later that he had already died, it was very sad and that day we didn't like the news, but what a great satisfaction to have coincided with great people.*
*I am grateful for the discipline I have had in terms of my exercise, my life has changed since I started exercising, but not only because of physical changes but also because of my mental health.*
*Feeling disciplined and meeting my exercise goals has made me feel my best all this time.*
*Here I will show you a photo from the beginning of my trip, to the last photo I took.*
*I'm too happy with how well I'm doing, I'm still not where I want but I'm getting closer to it every day.*
*My mind when it comes to exercising forgets all the problems, releases my stress and above all it does my body good, so I highly recommend it.*
*The color of my eyes, my look, the shape of my eyes, my eyes in general are always intense.*
*Have you heard that phrase that the eyes are the doors of the soul?*
*Well, I think so, the most beautiful moment when connecting with someone is when they both stare at each other and can see beyond the simply physical.*
*Yes, that's right, and I think it's one of my most striking attributes, because everyone always tells me, that I have eyes like a cat and my gaze is eternally satisfying for them.*
*But this has to do with the way I see people, I like to stare, pay attention and listen, it really fills me with satisfaction.*
*This is when I say, that eye color doesn't matter, because if you see, I have the most common brown eyes, so why would anyone say that they love my eyes?*
*Well, I'll tell you what it has to do with the form, the way of looking and what they transmit.*
*Show off your eyes, whatever they are, they are unique and special seen in the right people.*
The first time is free!
Has it happened to you that something you get for the first time is usually free or easy to obtain, and then has a price or is no longer so easy to obtain?
Well, I think everyone can raise their hands, because surely they have experienced that feeling.
Today I will talk about a delicate topic, based on some friends who unfortunately have been victims of addictions, and I will tell you some recommendations when having that dark being that will come into your life to make you lose your independence, because the first thing that happens at the moment to fall into an addiction, is that you no longer live for yourself, but for the vice.
Attention:
It may be a sensitive article for some people, but it should not go unnoticed because it is a subject that many fall into due to ignorance.
Alcohol:
I will not tell you about what it is made of or what damage you can suffer with large amounts of consumption, but I will tell you some anecdotes that can make you not want to depend on that vice.
Mario:
*Mario is a friend who once was at a family gathering, and while everyone was talking about many family things, he entered the kitchen and took a leftover glass that was on the side of the kitchen, the glass had a purple liquid that it smelled amazingly sweet, so he didn't think twice about drinking what was left in the glass and drank like there was no tomorrow.*
*Mario left the kitchen completely different, he felt a great adrenaline rush and everything made him laugh, he felt very happy, so while everyone was careless he went into the kitchen for more of that purple liquid.*
*Within hours, Mario fell asleep in a chair, and when he woke up, he no longer remembered much of the previous day, no one realized that Mario had completely loved that feeling, and from now on the rest of his days would be at night. waiting for a next time.*
*When Mario grew up, he began to buy many bottles, the effect it left on his body and mind Mario loved, he forgot about his problems, he was happier in those moments, and that made him do it very often.*
*However, Mario used to get out of control, when he exceeded, he used to make a fool of himself when he couldn't control his body, and when his stomach couldn't tolerate any more alcohol, he went to the bathroom to vomit and it was a complete mess, not to mention the headache the next day, and the hangover that would accompany him all day.*
Cigarette:
Lucía
*Was in her classroom one day that the math teacher was late in arriving, most of her classmates were out of the classroom, but Lucía stayed with Ruth, who had some cigarettes in her bag.*
*Lucia didn't like it at first, but over time she would find calming anxiety in the moments where she smoked, what Lucia didn't know is that the days when she didn't smoke she would feel anxiety about not smoking, so it wasn't a solution.*
*Lucía lost weight noticeably, her clothes no longer fit her, she always looked tired and exhausted, with dark circles under her eyes, she always had a cough that never went away, she always smelled of cigarettes and the worst, she had bad breath and her teeth had turned yellow .*
*Lucía tried it only once, but paid the price of that free cigarette for the rest of her life.*
Drugs:
Pipe
*Was in a club for the first time, and that day, he felt that it was not his day.*
*But it wasn't until he entered the bathroom, and there was a boy dressed completely in black with a large bag hanging on his shoulder.*
*Pipe goes in to urinate, but she heard everyone talking to the guy who was at the bathroom door, when he went out to wash his hands and the guy came over and asked if he wanted to spend the night in a different way at the club.*
*Pipe agrees, because she really wasn't having a good time, so she makes a little line with the white powder the guy in black gave her in the wash.*
*Pipe sticks it up her nose and she feels a big sting in her head, but she quickly starts to feel different, it was a completely different feeling, but she didn't like it.*
*Pipe went out on the dance floor and was the center of attention of the place, he became a star dancer, he had girls everywhere because he finally dared to look for them, he felt the best.*
*But the effect was gone, so he wanted more of that, when he went to the bathroom looking for the black guy, he told him that there was what he wanted but now he had to pay and it was at that precise moment that Pipe entered a Hell from which it would take him his whole life to get out.*
*Now he was a depressed, tired, anxious boy, and he did not live happily if he did not consume that white powder and the worst thing is that he had finished with all his spheres, educational, family, social all, now he only lived for vice.*
Conclusion:
**Do not fall into that type of vices, people will always come to you who will invite you to try new things, but not everyone will have good intentions in what they are inviting you.**
**Be very careful about experimenting with things you don't know how you're going to control.**
**Remember that many times the first time is free and easy, but then it becomes expensive and expensive in multiple ways and can be the opening to hell.**
**Do not feel bad if everyone does it and you do not, that means that you have the reins of your life and know how to classify what is good and what is not good.**
**If you are currently in any type of dependency, I do not judge you, but I hope that at the end of the tunnel you will find peace and freedom, that you can lead your life to independence and be a free being like a leaf in the wind.**
**I love you so much and thank you for reading me today.**
Eliminating beliefs:
*When we are born, we are completely pure beings, but as we grow, we become the product created by our environment, family, social or religious.*
*Regardless of the environment where you are formed, it is not until you grow up that you realize that all this time you have been a product created by anyone but you.*
****Do not do this!****
****You should not do that!****
****You can not do it!****
****People like you shouldn't do it!****
****You should respect that person!****
****Do what I tell you!****
****You are punished for defending your opinion!****
*I could go on with the list but I don't want to fill myself with negativity lol.*
*Where I want to get to with all this is that we have to look in the mirror and see if what we have been doing has to do with what we want or with what society wants in us.*
*If the answer is the first option, I congratulate you, you are a free person who travels for your happiness.*
*If you answered the second option, start to remove all those beliefs, go to China and start now to create your belief system regardless of whether it is the right thing, what your parents want for you or without obtaining approval.*
*Be happy without intentionally hurting anyone and build the life that you and absolutely you want.*
Habits:
Something that will help us create our new belief system, let's call it: "Reborn" is the initiation of new habits into our lives.
But they will not be any kind of habits, they will be only those necessary for you, for the life you want.
So sit down and think about what kind of habits you think can help you grow personally and physically in what you love so much.
For example, if your goal is to lose weight, sit down with a pencil and paper and start thinking about what a skinny person does to look skinny.
Or without traveling so far, think about what you should do to lose weight.
Your list should look like this as an example:
******Improve my diet.*****
******Exercise, especially cardio to lose weight.*****
******Sleeping more.*****
****** Go to a nutritionist.*****
******Avoid junk food.*****
*****Etc...*****
And so you can extend the list, the important thing is that you start writing down the habits you want to acquire to start becoming the person you want to be.
You will be the product of the habits you are willing to repeat, so start now.
Can we have new beliefs?
Of course, and the human being is really lucky to have the opportunity to change and master our mindset and emotions, so yes.
Of course, it is not easy since there are beliefs embedded in the deepest part of us, thanks to all that we learned from our family, society or religion.
But that doesn't mean we can't hit our reset button and have our new belief system.
I think that as we grow, we adopt new beliefs, so you don't have to be orthodox and never change your new beliefs, the idea here is that you get to believe in things that make you grow, don't worry if as the process you change your mentality or beliefs, it is also part of the process.
Think about the person you want to be:
Spend the rest of your days thinking about the person you want to be, don't waste another second on what you weren't.
One of the best things about being optimistic about your dreams is that it eases the process with anxiety and stress.
It is useless to think about what you did not do or the mistakes you have made, that only serves as experience, now think about what you want to be, I promise you that you will be much more optimistic and you will have more motivation.
Now, sit down with a piece of paper again, and write on a piece of paper that person you want to become.
***Be totally honest, forget about your family, forget about what they want for you, forget about society and what it says you should or shouldn't do, forget about religion and start loving God in your own way and may He be with you in your process.***
What person do you have to become to achieve your dreams?
Now comes the hard part, which is to write down everything you have to become from now on in order to achieve your dreams.
It is the most difficult moment because it is difficult for all of us to leave our comfort zone, but come on, believe me, it will always be worth it.
Eliminate everything that does not serve you and hold on with all your strength to everything that leads you to achieve it, as long as it is about you and your dreams, it will be worth it.
You not only have to try to do it, but also be disciplined with it, so that even if you don't feel like doing it, you keep doing it because they are your dreams and your dreams cannot be put at risk for anything or anything. any.
Now that you have changed your mentality a bit, it is time for you to start believing that you are already that person that you want to be so much, because the mind can be so powerful that when you believe you can do it, it will be so. .
Believe in everything that leads you to achieve your goals and forget about the easy and basic, about yourself and run for your dreams.
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I'm getting back to being me.
I am becoming myself again, I have been focused on my dreams for several days and that is what has encouraged me the most.
This is where I come with a little reflection, we all have difficult days, boring, pointless, discouraged.
And many times we do not have to sit and wait for them to pass, many times we are the ones who have the duty to make our situations improve.
**But how to do it?**
Simply looking for something that motivates us, being in constant activity towards a goal will surely make you feel better about yourself.
Feeling useful in the things we do raises our self-esteem, completing a task that we have to do gives us peace, all those kinds of things are what will get us out of the dark and empty hole where we are.
So, what are you waiting for to take charge of your happiness?
As my colleague @TheGuy says "If it doesn't work on one thing, try it on another".
That's what our lives are about, not waiting for the flame to come to us, but lighting it.
Innocence is something that is lost and cannot be recovered, that is why I say that regardless of the circumstances, the moment where we are happiest is when we are children.
I have shown my brother before, and it is not because he is my brother that I describe him in the following way, it is because several close people also say so:
"It's a Boy, Boy"
You say, what the hell does that mean?
Well, just as it sounds, he is a completely innocent child, we as his family have always tried to raise him that way, since many children his age (6 years old) are a little more mature than him, in the sense that they do not believe in magic, fantasy worlds, and that kind of thing and my brother yes, but it is because that is the most beautiful thing about being children, imagining a different world, which unfortunately as he grows up he will realize that many things are not they exist, it doesn't matter but long live its full stage.
A funny anecdote is that recently I made a somewhat evil joke that I saw on tiktok about making him disappear, and then I told everyone in my house to pretend they didn't see him and he cried very sad.
My dad didn't last many minutes and made him see what a joke was, the beautiful thing here is that he has his innocence intact.
Who remembers Lavagirl and Sharkboy?
Well I tell them they are there in that photo lol.
I found on Google photos this relic from when I was studying at university.
As I related in my Lavagirl and Sharkboy story, I was extremely happy in college, it was my favorite time that I would love to relive.
That day we were presenting a partial, of which the only one who approved it was me.
If you're wondering which one I am, well if I'm half from left to right, I'm the second person in the photo, the girl in the navy blue uniform, with a fuchsia sweater underneath because that day she was suckling lol.
The guy coming out first, left to right, next to me is Sharkboy, and the little girl on my other side is Nath, my friend by the way.
I loved writing that story, maybe by September I will release the story of my second love.
Bearish or bullish market?:
*Hello dear friends of Read.Cash, I am pleased to be with all of you for another month, I also wish you a happy start to the week and of course I also thank you for having been excellent people with me, giving me all your support.*
Today, I am telling you a bit about my technical analysis where I have a lot of chances to discuss with you.
I also want to give you some tips on how to make money in a bear market or a bull market, so read me until the end so you can understand.
Fear and Greed Index:
We are in the fear gap again, but let's not panic, because even though the fear and greed indicator indicates that there is fear in the market, for many this is all bullish sentiment.
Bitcoin in the month of July gave us great surprises, it was greener than we expected for the market.
Now I want to remind you how we were in June, scared to death after so many falls.
I came to read so many things, that there was one in particular who said that it was the end of Bitcoin, I don't remember his name but he left me shocked, because his arguments were that bitcoin had had the biggest drop in the market in the month of June.
I know that while there is money involved it is difficult to maintain sanity, but we have the facility to study bitcoin cycles thanks to the past, so we can see that bitcoin has had this type of crisis much before and in a similar way, and apart He has been receiving FUD for over 10 years and has risen.
We must remain calm people, we know nothing about the future of Bitcoin, because no matter how much there is news or things that are believed to modify the market, the future will always be uncertain and unexpected.
So we better study the past since in Bitcoin it always repeats itself.
Monthly closure:
If we look at the closures according to the months, we can see that the colors are repeated in some.
If we travel to July 2021, we can see what had a monthly close of 18.63%.
Coincidence of life and cycle, Bitcoin this month of 2022, had a green monthly closing of 17.15%.
Ah but let's go to June 2020, negative monthly candle closing, with a loss percentage of 6.09%.
And if we go back to June 2022, we can see that the monthly candle close was negative.
But ok, let's not only look at that, but losing streaks repeat themselves.
Let's look at the months of April, May and June of last year and let's also look at April, May and June of this year.
Cycles, that's what this market is about, stories repeat themselves and help us understand what is happening and the future is coming completely just leaving us crazy.
So August will be a green month like 2021, I tell you that it can be, but it can also be different, there is no security at the moment of knowing what will happen.
But so that you don't get caught off guard, let me tell you what you can do to take advantage of a green month or a red month:
Green month:
How we all like it, a month where there are no fears, cryptocurrencies are the best investments, thousands of good-looking projects are heard, etc.
How to take advantage of that?
Well, basically it is the month where you will make the most money in trading, you will have many long operations that will leave you good profits, trading is much more beautiful when it is green.
Have your coins saved hard, if you see that you have a good cryptocurrency, do not sell it and leave it holding, if you see that it is a not so good coin, do not wait any longer, the green months are a good time to sell.
Take things patiently, do not get carried away by good streaks remember that everything that goes up must come down so stay cool.
Do not invest in all the projects that are recommended to you, do not go crazy with operations, with leverage or abusing your capital, grow organically.
Red month:
A month where everyone hates cryptocurrencies, they sell their assets out of desperation, everything goes wrong for them, you want to quit.
But hey! Not everything is bad, there are actually more opportunities to do things in these types of markets, like buying a cryptocurrency you like at a good price, shorting and trading the market, learning about markets, studying bear markets and how they work, earning cryptocurrencies , etc.
If we see the opportunities of when the market goes down, we would spend hours, so if you don't make money in a bear market it means that you are not cut out to work with cryptocurrencies, because the big traders make money with these types of markets, you can too but you won't dare
Conclusion:
**Have your own conclusions, both bearish and bullish markets are what will give us experience and that is what will make us a much more profitable path in this world.**
**Unfortunately we cannot learn without doing anything, without experiencing our emotions to the fullest, so I invite you to fill yourself with courage and do what you want so much, remember that life is one and it is too beautiful to waste it wanting to do things and not doing them.**
**Happy Monday everyone and great start to the week for you.**
Venezuelan Food Tour:
I think that one of the things that we all like the most in life is eating, and I really make it difficult for someone not to truly enjoy it.
Although we all have different tastes, different food traditions, different cultures, there is something that unites us completely and that is the fact that we love to eat everything that is typical of our cultures.
And not only that, we also love that foreign people consume our typical foods.
That is why, today it fills me with happiness, to take you on a virtual tour of typical Venezuelan food, so if you spent the whole day with me, you would eat the following meals:
8:00 AM
I'll come looking for you very early, because honestly I'm hungry, so I'll take you to eat, the most important food in all of Venezuela, I don't know if you've ever heard about the "Arepas" but if you haven't heard it before, let me tell you What are they and how do you eat them?
Arepas are made from corn flour, and are only mixed with water to form a soft and moldable dough.
Then you make some little balls that will later be flattened in a "Budare" which is something similar to a kitchen griddle or a completely flat pan.
There they are placed in an extended way and turned until they are golden.
There are many ways to make arepas, they can be fried, roasted, yellow corn, white corn, wholemeal flour, with all the fillings you can imagine.
The arepa is our most important food because it is like our bread, it is breakfast and dinner for all Venezuelans, being so versatile we can eat it with everything you can imagine.
Today I will take you to try the most famous, which are the famous "Arepas peludas", do not be scared, they do not have hair, but they are called that because they are stuffed with shredded and seasoned meat, so it gives the impression that they are hair of hair.
I know you'll love this arepa, and as I write this I'm getting hungry haha.
10:00AM
It is time for a snack, and what better than in the tropical climate of Venezuela, where at around 10 in the morning there is a hot sun and a blue in the sky that makes you eat something very refreshing, so I will take you to drink the famous "Tizana".
The "Tizana" is basically like a fruit salad with orange juice and a little cola.
In it we find the most common fruits from here such as bananas, watermelon, melon, papaya, grapes, pineapples and in some cases apples.
She is served in a plastic glass, where they put a lot of condensed milk, then the Tizana and on top more condensed milk.
They usually sell them at stalls on the street and they are always close to a school or institution where there are many people, so that when they leave they go for their Tizana.
I hope you have refreshed yourself a bit with the citrus and sweet juices of this drink.
12:00 PM
Ok, I know you guys are hungry, so I'm taking you out to lunch.
If you are like me, that eating sweet things makes you hungry, then go quickly to a place where they sell "Cachapas"
Cachapas are another typical food of the country, in fact I think it is exclusive to Venezuela, and it is like a kind of sweet yellow corn pancake, which is usually filled with butter and cheese, and there are also other variations, of which my favorite en: Cachapas with butter, hand cheese, and fried pork.
I swear to you that there is no better combination than combining the sweetness of Cachapa with the saltiness of fried pork.
If I had to choose a typical Venezuelan food, I would choose the Cachapas a thousand times, marry them and eliminate the whole world.
I warn you that you are going to be very full, they usually fill a lot, but you will be like the famous saying "Full belly, happy heart" trust me.
4:00 PM
We were so full with the Cachapas, that we fell asleep all afternoon hahaha but now we are ready to continue exploring Venezuelan food.
In this case, I will buy you another snack, here this type of food is called "Chucherías" and it is that type of fried food that comes in bags, like Doritos and Cheetos, but this time I will bring you a completely original one from Venezuela and it is the " Cheesee Tris"
They are cheese-flavored puffed corn sticks, and they are perfect to eat when you are watching a movie or just bored, they are delicious and you will not regret eating them, what if you can regret it is that once you try one, you will you will eat the whole bag.
8:00 PM
Heck, it's been a really long day full of meals, our tummies are full and happy.
But it's time to close with a flourish, so I'm taking you out to dinner.
You're thinking it's going to be a special dinner, right?
But you're not wrong, because that's how it will be, with the difference that it won't be in a very elegant place, since we'll be eating on the street.
I will take you to eat something that you may be used to seeing, but surely the touch you will find here will be unique and unrepeatable.
I'm talking about the "Hot Dogs", but not just any, but the Venezuelans, which are stuffed in a very different way.
I'll tell you how they go stuffed:
They have hot dog buns, a sausage of course, here they put a kind of cabbage and carrot salad, it also has onion and green dressing, french fries and a lot of cheese, parmesan or yellow.
But not everything ends there, then comes something that cannot be missing in a Venezuelan hot dog and that is what makes it different, and that is the rooms.
A Venezuelan hot dog has abundant sauce, but not only the three typical ones (mustard, ketchup, mayonnaise) but other typical ones such as garlic sauce, corn sauce, tartar sauce, bacon sauce, cheddar sauce, BBQ sauce, and even spicy .
So get ready to fill your face with sauces and eat something very special and unique like a Venezuelan hot dog, yes, after eating one you will want to eat another.
I hope that you have been very full in this gastronomic tour, that above all you have liked having traveled virtually through food, that you have been able to savor each meal that I described and above all that one day you will have the opportunity to try some Venezuelan food, I promise you that you will not regret.
Please tell me what has been your favorite dish?
Tips for getting up early:
Getting up early is almost necessary to bring your routine to maximum productivity, yes, a person who wakes up before 8 am every day and does important tasks at that time in the morning is more than halfway there, so that getting up early is more than a habit, it is a necessity if you want to be disciplined and productive.
But Mafer, isn't it hard to get up early every day, do you know what that is?
I sleep late Mafer, I wouldn't be comfortable getting up early if I haven't slept enough hours.
Stay and read me dear reader, and I will give you the best tips that I have been able to apply, because if someone was undisciplined and fell asleep every day at 2-3 in the morning and got up after 10am that was me.
Good attitude:
The first thing you should do is have a good attitude, I know what you will say, how can I be happy if I am sleepy and want to continue sleeping?
Well, basically it's about programming your body and mind as quickly as possible before too much time passes and you ruin your day from the morning.
Smile in the mirror, move fast, look around with a big smile, look at the sky, the new dawn, let the good vibes show.
Have a full glass of water:
When you wake up, before doing anything, you need to have a full glass of water.
You have been asleep for many hours, therefore in all those hours you did not drink water, that is why your body vitally needs to drink at least one glass of water when you get up.
Do not snooze the alarm:
Here are some tips with alarms.
First, if you normally get up at 10am, start by setting the alarm 15 minutes earlier, until you reach the time you want.
It is important that you do not do everything at once because our body is not normally prepared for that, so everything is better little by little.
But yes, you are prohibited from postponing the alarm, from the moment you do it you are making your body irresponsible with what it should do, so you will start the day without fulfilling your first obligation.
Sleep early:
Yes, calculate the time you plan to wake up and subtract at least 8 hours if you have a tight routine.
If you want to get up at 5am, your fixed bedtime should be 9pm, overwhelming, but you need to sleep 8 fixed hours every day.
I used to skip this step before, I've always been an early riser but it's always hard for me to fall asleep early, but that happened when I realized that I spent the day like a zombie doing my homework wrong because I was sleepy.
Meditate and do yoga:
One of the best things to do to have a super relaxing and comforting sleep.
Before I didn't know about these two things, but when I started to suffer from anxiety, I tried it a few times and at first it was difficult to concentrate, but today it is one of my best pleasures.
Meditating makes me sleep as if I were on a cloud, so I sleep better and it also helps me get sleepy when I really don't have it, also for those days where anxiety doesn't let me sleep and I have to resort to that little stimulant for it.
Doing yoga also relaxes, the body is soft and wanting to sleep all night.
Have a morning routine:
I've said it before, if you have a good reason to get up it will be much easier to get used to it and enjoy waking up early.
I explain to you, if you get up early and do nothing at that time, it will not do you any good to have gotten up so early if you do not use it to your advantage.
Besides, it will be boring and it can make you sleepy again.
So find something to do every morning, preferably good habits, and watch your life begin to change.
My morning habits are:
*Pray.
*Read.
*Make affirmations.
*View my Vision board.
*Write in my journal.
I hope all this information will help you to start one of the best habits of productive people.
The sky is a work of art.
What did I think of Stranger things 4?
It was definitely totally crazy, I started watching stranger things when I was about 16 years old, and now at 22 I had the opportunity to see the fourth season.
Stranger things fans know how hard it was to wait for the fourth season premiere, but I can say that it was totally worth it.
It wasn't my favorite season, it was very dark to what we were used to seeing, I didn't really like the fact that all the characters were divided into groups, but you can't take away that the scenery and music that this season had was magnificent, we were all very shocked by what happened this season.
My favorite season was definitely season three, it seems to me that everyone was at their best and in that season with Hooper's death I did cry.
Elegant hairstyle lol:
I'm not a person who usually styles my hair, I just wear it low and natural, but I've had weeks full of events where I can't look so casual.
So I found that all I have to do is pull my hair up really tight and put a bun in the back.
It doesn't fit me that perfectly, but I can look a little dressier in a matter of seconds.
If they asked me how I am normally, I would say that in flip flops, with old clothes to be at home and with hair like a lion hahaha I love comfort and I would not like to have a lifestyle that requires me to be dressed to the nines all day .
But I am not going to deny you that every time I get dressed, I really like the result, I usually do it with pleasure and patience, since it takes me a while to get dressed and get ready but I can know that the result will be worth it.
In the process of liking my nose:
I always wanted to have a small, upturned nose, but come on, I don't have it at all like that.
At least I discovered that in certain poses I can take advantage of it, but in most cases it is a long nose with a deviated septum, also a little oval at the tip, aesthetically it is not the prettiest, but for some time now I have learned to love all those imperfections that make me unique and wonderful.
Have you noticed that having traits that are not the "aesthetically correct" sometimes makes us even pretty?
I have many things that used to generate insecurities in me, like my front teeth, that if they see my smile, they realize they are crooked, nowadays I love to smile and they tell me that they love my smile after many times I stopped doing it because I thought they looked bad.
Another thing that used to make me anxious was my body, I am a petite girl, I am very thin and have small breasts, before it made me insecure, but now I love my body as it is, despite being thin and small, I receive a lot of compliments saying I'm "Sexy" hahaha sometimes I believe it, because I have nice hips and a nice butt (wink).
A natural work of art:
I think I've become obsessed with sky photos on my phone, I have a lot, I don't stop doing it, because every time I see the sky I fall in love with its pattern more and more.
I can't stop admiring every detail, it seems that @Elle.He painted with his brush.
Clouds always look like cotton wool, with my favorite color tones that are warm like fall.
On the one hand orange, on the other reddish tones, without forgetting the light blue tones that are yet to come.
Friends, I'm in love with the sky, it's crazy to say it and not feel bad.
Please tell me I'm not the only one...
How have I been lately?
On a roller coaster, my emotions are like a mixer, every now and then they stir and make me want to throw up.
I am facing truly difficult situations every day, especially because they are personal and everything that makes us grow in a certain way hurts.
I have to let go of many things, I have to focus more on others, sometimes I can't find balance I swear, or I spend sad days and or I spend happy days but I can't find a balance.
I have many things to tell you, I think a love story is coming, but it bothers me that I always have some fear, you know it's not easy to expose your heart but it's worth it because I always grow after a love break lol.
Do you think I should let someone in just when I should be 100% focused?
help lol
Three indicators you should use for your trading system:
Yes, in this article we trade with indicators.
I know that many people have a different style of trading, but the truth is that I have done very well with the use of indicators.
1) It is a much easier system to analyze.
2) They will be much more specific and analytical.
3) They can be tested on past charts to test their profitability.
4) You just have to wait for the signals to enter the market.
5) They are very profitable.
Of course, not all of them will be like that and the worst of all is that on YouTube you will find too much information, which will make it take too long to get what you really need.
Be very careful with the strategies you get on the internet, before placing money, first test how effective it is by backtesting previous charts, cryptocurrencies are technically analyzed with the candles of the past, so that is what history and trading cycles are for. .
What are indicators?
Practically, they are tools that are configured or ready to be configured, which automatically launch the signals you need to enter, exit, see the trend or range of the currency you are analyzing.
Basically it is to build a system, so that when you enter you only see your indicators and you already know what you should do.
This makes the process much easier for you, when someone hears about trading they get scared because they think that we are mathematical kings that through formulas and equations we manage to enter an operation and the truth is that it is not like that, many times we only receive a signal from a indicator and we do what it asks of us without hesitation.
But not everything is rosy, the most difficult thing in trading is not technical, since it is always almost the same.
The most difficult thing is the psychology of trading, since you will not find a strategy that has a 100% win rate, that does not fail, that does not generate losses and that is not a bit tedious.
That does not exist, to trade you have to know that there are good operations and others not so good and in some you will lose money.
But all this can be reduced and improved if you create a perfect system for you.
So I'm going to show you the three indicators you need to build a profitable and grounded trading strategy.
First I want to clarify two things:
1) I am not a professional trader, I have only been trading for a year and I have not taken courses, nor paid for courses or strategies, nobody has told me the indicators that I should use, all this has been built through my research regarding trading, so if you find any errors don't hesitate to correct me and please don't judge me, I try to share everything based on my experiences.
2) It is not a strategy recommendation, it is only for you to look for information on this type of indicators and if you dare, build your own strategy based on your needs and capital.
3)Take good care of your money and remember that not everything you see on the internet is real, on my way I saw a lot of information that ended up being false and made me lose money, so with all my heart I give you these tips so that you can make your own research
Trend indicator:
This indicator has the purpose of doing what its name indicates, "It will make you see the market trend".
Why is it important to know the trend of the market, well, simple, so that you do not buy when the market is bearish, since the candles will always be negative, so you will go against the market.
Also, so that you do not make sales, when the market is bullish, since the candles will go up and you will be operating against the market.
Something that I have learned in this time is not to be rebellious, no matter how much it seems that you can predict the direction of the market and enter earlier, if the trend indicator shows you a trend, pay attention to it, do not go against it, it may one day you will be lucky but then it will take its toll on you.
Confirmation indicator:
After detecting the trend in which the market is, it is not a sufficient signal to make an operation, since many times there are changes in trends that turn out to be false or manipulated by whales or bulls.
Let me explain, the trend indicator may be bullish, you enter the market on the rise but one or two candles change the trend again because two negative engulfing candles came out, then you will most likely lose the trade.
For this it is necessary to use an indicator that measures the strength with which the market is and thus be able to confirm that the trend is coming strong and it is safer to operate.
After seeing the trend indicator and knowing what trend you are in, you need the confirmation indicator to send you a signal to know at what exact moment to enter a trade that goes hand in hand with the trend.
Remember!
Never go against it, many times there is a temptation to do what your emotions want to do, but you have to be cold and always respect the strategy as it is.
ATR
In order not to make this article longer, I will only tell you that this indicator measures the volatility of the market, it calculates the way in which the currency you are analyzing has moved in the number of periods that you configure.
So with it, you will know where to place the profits and where to place the closing trades in case of losses.
Trading without having a stop loss can be the riskiest thing you do, as everything can go well, but a long candle of a large percentage, depending on the leverage, can take you out of the operation liquidated.
So it is better to have a fixed price that when touched the operation closes automatically.
Regarding profits, many people tend to price take profits, but I usually go with the trend, but that is a matter of the strategy you have and the way you manage risks and positions.
Besides, having a Take Profit and Stop loss, will make you operate in a relaxed way, since the electricity can go out, you can lose internet, you are busy or you forget to enter the operation, it will automatically close in case of profit or loss.
Conclusion:
**I want to emphasize that with these indicators you can have a great trading strategy, but you must combine it with other things related to emotions and the psychology of trading.**
**Like how many times you will make trades, the schedule you will have, how much money you will risk, at what time you prefer not to trade, know how to overcome losing streaks, maintain control in winning streaks, not get stressed, in short, many things.**
**It is not the same to practice a strategy on a demo account as when you are already in the market, more emotions are completely different.**
**I am pleased to have come this far in this article, I enjoyed it a lot, I hope all of you can learn from it.**
**Leave in the comments the doubts or what you would like to read soon, I want to help as much as I can to all those who are interested in entering trading.**
**Remember that everything can be done with the desire to learn, perseverance and patience, nothing comes easy from one day to the next, my path has been long and slow, but always uphill.**
**I love you very much, and I always read them, but I cannot express myself so that you can see that I read your articles because the friend you already know forgot about me, but I am still here to contribute what I know and nurture myself with the knowledge of all the great people I have met here.**
At what age do you discover that you want to be?
If you know the answer, feel free to tell many of us in the comments, which I'm sure is completely difficult exactly what is the perfect age to discover what we want in our lives.
It is something very relative, for some it is a long road, for others it is shorter, some never get it and others realize that it was not what they really wanted.
If you think that in this article you will find a magic formula to achieve it, I am sorry to tell you that unfortunately I do not have the solution to it, but I will tell you many things that can make you see your path in a different way.
Don't you know who you are?
Me neither, the truth is not what I'm looking for either.
I am not going to deny that years ago, I had a great obsession with wanting to be a doctor, graduate at 23, and from then on pursue my career.
But the truth is that not even half of all that happened, since I didn't even finish my medical degree.
Then I lost interest in university studies, since I did not stay in bioanalysis, nor in cardiovascular.
But you know what?
About two years later, I found out that I want to be a psychologist, yes, that's right, and it's not that I want to study psychology because there are no other options, it's because right now it's what I love to be.
However, it is uphill, since the race is completely paid, and it will not be easy to finish it, but it is definitely something that I want to do 100%.
How do I define myself?
Well, basically at this moment I define myself as a person who passionately does everything he sets out to do.
That is, my goal always in every area of my life is to do things with passion.
Many times we are very square and we think that we have to be exactly the same all the time, but the answer is that it is not like that, we can be good at many things, things that we cannot even imagine.
So why be the same all your life?
If we can evolve whenever we want?
I'm random:
*Yes, before it filled me with insecurity to be like that, because I saw some people being really good in one field, and well, it was very random.*
*After graduating from high school, I started studying at the university a career called Health Records and Statistics, I didn't like it at all, since it was studying to be a doctor's secretary, and it's not that I judged it, it just wasn't Own.*
*Then I worked in an ice cream parlor, where the first year I had a great time since I started to have a salary, so I earned a lot of money, I was only 18 years old, my parents were in a good situation and all that money could be spent on me.*
*Then the next year, I realized that I didn't want that in my life, my boss wasn't treating me that well so I had to quit.*
*I started working at my dad's hardware store, and well you know how difficult it is, working with your dad, I think they demand twice as much of you, however I love doing it since that will be my hardware store.*
*Then the pandemic came and we had to close the hardware store for 6 months, and it was there that I discovered that I loved psychology, since I spent too many months suffering from anxiety, at 20 years old I thought that my life had passed.*
*But in that 2020 that everyone hated, I discovered that I was good at listening to people, not only listening, but that I was really interested in their problems and also committed to helping them.*
*That year I saved a friend from committing suicide and also many people said that I was a light in their lives so I decided to be that in the lives of others.*
*Then the doubt began as to how I would be able to pay for my degree, so I decided to invest in my dad's hardware store, but of course with little investment and in a short time, nothing is easy.*
*Then my job came online, which opened up a great world of possibilities for me, where I could work with my own boss and work at my own pace.*
*But working online is not easy at all, however I have been evolving in such a way that I started when I advertised on ptc pages, to later work on micro-task pages, then Noise, which I earned by making posts, then making more elaborate articles here in Read .Cash and finally I started trading thanks to the profits generated here.*
Moral:
**If you still haven't got what you want, you don't identify with anything, you feel like you don't know who you are, don't worry, it's part of life.**
**Just because your path is different doesn't mean it's bad to be, allow yourself to experiment and be what you really want to be no matter what you do with passion.**
What to do if he doesn't answer you?
How many times has it happened to you, that you are talking to someone, and that person takes too long to respond and your mind begins to awaken the monsters of insecurities, dependencies and all the red flags that you can imagine.
I know that it can be something that can make you desperate to the point of driving you crazy, especially if you know that it is at a time when they usually talk or worse yet, you see the famous "Online" every time you enter their chat.
It usually leaves a big lump in the throat and you begin to imagine great scenarios where everything has already died.
But wait...
I will give you some tips that may work for you if you do not want the aforementioned to happen to you, everything has a solution and you can put it to the test right now.
This goes for both men and women, so don't hesitate to read me to the end.
Try to change the mood
Immediately you start to have or fill yourself with negative emotions, it is the perfect time to quickly change the mood you have.
But María Fernanda, that is not easy, there is no magic button to do it.
I know, dear reader, but you can try to do something that makes you happy or gives you peace at that moment.
You need to change your mood almost immediately, because our brain works aggressively when it comes to negative emotions, so look for something like meditating to lower your anxiety level, reading a good book to distract yourself, watching a series that enjoy, watch a stand up online to laugh, take photos, just do something you like, so you kill any negative emotion that it gives you when that message you long for doesn't reach you.
Meet several people:
When you are single you have the opportunity to meet all the people you want under your own criteria and values.
It is not bad to meet several people when you are starting to look for your better half, because first you have to know the pros and cons of the people you date in order to know which is the best option or the indicated one.
Besides, it will help a lot so that you do not despair if that person does not appear, because go, you have other options which will be there for when one is not there.
Mathematically, meeting and dating multiple people will make you choose smarter and less likely to fail.
When your level of preference is already reduced, it will be easier to realize which person is the most worthwhile, do not be afraid, be free to choose and let them choose you freely.
Finally I contribute to this tip, I advise you to focus more on who likes you than who doesn't like you, many times you can't do anything to make that person like you, so don't waste time.
Focus on you:
It is what really matters, a person who is focused on his goals, objectives, in being disciplined with the habits that give him more productivity, dreaming, aspiring or thinking about his future, does not get depressed if the person he likes is slow to respond or does not respond.
Focusing on you will make you feel individual, if you are individual, you know that you have your routine to fulfill, your priorities and productive habits and perhaps that person also has them.
So focusing on yourself will not only make you think little about what that other person does, it will also make you understand when you analyze that we all have priorities and goals to achieve, so we will not be 100% for that other person all the time.
Conclusion:
***Everything is in you, in thinking of you, in first you.***
***Life can't stop the day you don't talk to that person you're with.***
***Get used to your healthy habits, the ones that help you meet your goals every time you work hard at it or for it.***
***It's not worth losing focus for anything or anyone, believe me it's better to spend your life working hard for your goals than spending all day waiting on whether that person is online or uploaded a story and hasn't seen your message.***
***There are no solutions for that person to respond to you when you want, but there are solutions so that you do not go crazy or go into despair.***
***Happy friday to everyone...***
Every effort brings its reward:
*I started last year, in search of building the body I want.*
*At first I wanted only physical results, at first I did it for physical reasons, at first I wanted it to be quick and easy.*
*Over time I ended up falling in love, not only with exercise, not only with how disciplined I became, not only with the amount of stress and anxiety that I drain when exercising, but I ended up falling in love with my body.*
*Such a point is that it is no longer interesting to have physical changes, in fact, I no longer remembered them, until I measure myself at the end of the month and I realize that all the effort has been worth it and the results begin to be noticed every faster time.*
*My intention was to gain weight, since I was always a skinny girl, and I succeeded.*
***Measurements and weight in January 2021:***
*Height: 1.58cm*
*Weight:44kg*
*Chest: 80cm*
*Waist:66cm*
*Buttocks: 80cm*
***Measurements and Weight in 2022:***
*Height: 1.58cm*
*Weight:48kg*
*Chest:81cm*
*Waist:62cm*
*Buttocks: 87cm*
*As you can see, they are not big changes, what cost me the most was to lose weight in the abdomen, since my body type stores fat in the abdomen and in the buttocks, for that reason it was easy to increase 7cm of buttocks in a year hahaha.*
***My expectations are:***
*Unfortunately the breasts won't continue to grow haha so I don't expect much of that, it doesn't matter anyway.*
*I want to have the waist at 60cm and the buttocks at 90cm or more, but 90cm will be a good achievement.*
The relationship with my grandmother:
*My grandmother is one of the people with whom I am most sure that she would put her hands in the fire for me.*
*But the truth is, my relationship with my grandmother is really difficult, I love her very much, but I always have a hard time showing her.*
*But it is not because it has been like that, but rather because my grandmother is a complicated person at the level of coexistence, many things happened to her as a child and in the course of her life she became a somewhat bitter person, so she always had a bad relationship with me breast.*
*So many times I witnessed fights between my mother and my grandmother where they said very ugly things, and as much as I love my grandmother, I will always defend my mother, since every problem she has hurts me.*
*But for the rest, I love my grandmother very much and I take great care of her, I also admire how strong she is despite having a strong history.*
My favorite typical food:
*This photo was uploaded by a comedian named "Gabo Ruiz" and as you can see, he puts a broken heart because he currently lives outside of Venezuela and it is very difficult to find this food in other places.*
*That food you see above is called "Cachapas" and it is my favorite food typical of my country.*
*I'll explain what it consists of, the closest comparison that I can make but that has nothing to do with it is the pancake, it's similar to the pancake, but it's made of sweet corn, milk, and sugar.*
*It is really delicious, and it can be accompanied by various fillings, but my favorite is as it is in the photo, that's why I took cap.*
*It is a Cachapa, with hand cheese that is really tender and delicious, and fried and crispy pork, even richer.*
*You cannot imagine the spectacular contrast that the sweet Cachapa has with the salty cheese and the seasoning of the pig.*
*If you ever go to a restaurant or have the opportunity to try Venezuelan food, try the cachapa.*
What is it like to live in a town?
*One of the best sensations, the tranquility and natural landscapes that exist where I live, generate peace and magic to your days.*
*Living in a town can become boring if you are a person who finds it hard to enjoy the pleasures that life gives.*
*But if you are like me who loves nature and tranquility, living in a town is a good option.*
*This photo was given to me by a friend who is in practice every day climbing mountains for a bicycle competition.*
*But what I want to show you is that we can enjoy all those landscapes whenever we want.*
*They are very close to us, really only to streets and it is very safe to go, to camp, walk, jog or rest and disconnect.*
As time goes:
*I sound like a grandmother talking that way, but I still remember how when I was 16 my mom sat next to me and told me she was pregnant.*
*I am not going to deny them, at that age I never imagined that I would have another little brother, but it was the best news and the best thing that could have happened to us.*
*My brother is almost ready to graduate from kindergarten to soon go to basic school, that is, it has been 6 years since then.*
*That photo you see above, is my little brother with only 1 year, today he is so big and intelligent, that I remember that photo and I could not imagine that time would pass so quickly.*
*Now I can understand my parents, how time overwhelms and you want to stop it to enjoy them more, but it is part of life and life is always worth enjoying.*
*Without further ado, I say goodbye to you with the best of vibes, I hope you liked this article and that it was entertaining to read random aspects of me.*
*Thank you for always reading me and being there for me, you don't know how lucky I am to be on this platform and to be able to consider you my friend.*
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