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It's been really quiet here. I have not seen any posts from a lot of people on here. I am wondering if it has something to do with several restrictions for several people.
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Industrial dancer, goth, and individual freethinker.
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IT FINALLY CAME! ππ¦ I had placed an order on a few items on a website that sells many different types of clothing and accessories called VampireFreaks. On my last post on world goth day, there was a special discount that was given and I decided to take advantage of the special offer. There were so many things I wanted but was not able to purchase. Even with the special discount, life is just too expensive nowadays. I ended up with a few items: Two candles π― with the aroma of pumpkin π A cauldron mug A spiderweb dessert plate πΈ Two pint glasses with one designed with bats π¦ and the other designed with skulls π Three tote bags Two air fresheners with the shape of skeleton hands giving the middle finger π An order of 50 stickers to finish my order amount. I have decided to start decorating my room and office with more dark-themed decorations. I really love my pumpkin-scented candle, the cauldron mug and spiderweb πΈ plate is perfect to decorate my desk, the pint glasses are my own personal drinking cups, the tote bags are used to store items that I do not have a proper place for, and the air freshners are really funny to me because I love imagining the looks on people's faces when they see the skeleton hand giving them the middle finger. I want to share more decorating posts in the future, since I have more plans to decorate my entire room until it is completely transformed into my dream Gothic lair. I cannot wait to see how it looks when I have completed my room transformation. VampireFreaks.com website: http://ref.vampirefreaks.com/OYyuLs68On/106839 π¦π€Stay spooky π€π¦
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If you do not water your plant, it will shrivel up and die. If you do not feed your pet, it will starve and die a slow and painful death. If you do not continue to add firewood to the fire that is keeping you warm, the fire will die out. If you do not take care of your relationships with the people in your life, they will also die out and will likely never recover. The second chapter of emotional resilience of the book The Resilience Breakthrough mentions how important it is to maintain a healthy relationship with friends or family: by working on it. Many people assume that if a relationship requires work to keep it going, then there was something wrong in the first place. This is the absolute opposite of what is required to keep a marriage together, a family with a strong connection, and a friendship with good people. For people to build strong connections, there MUST be open communication all the time to continue to learn about each other. Not only openly speaking with each other, but also that you feel safe to express yourself to the other person. If you feel safer keeping a secret because you are scared to say how you feel, then the relationship is not healthy and is most likely ready to fall apart. There are ways to improve or implement your relationship: 1. Don't isolate - stay involved in a conversation and do not criticize a person's opinion. 2. Look past an annoying behavior and remind yourself that you have your own which surely makes you less than the ideal company at all times. In each and every post of every chapter I go over, I want to share a link to the book which I have bought the book from. This is an affiliate link, which means that if someone purchased a book from the website using my link below I will receive a small compensation as a token of gratitude. It also supports the author who made the effort to write this book to help millions of people who struggle with their own personal problems. The link leads to the physical copy of the book, but there are other reading options as well such as audio or digital: read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B00M0R19RE&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_XJ8BVMBNG5D4ZAS88JQ7&tag=carnessial-20 Image by Ulrike Mai from Pixabay.
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Hey everyone. I have decided to visit a restaurant that sells a unique type of food. They call it a kolache. It is a type of food that is, according to their website, from Europe (no specific country). I had several of these about a few months ago when I worked at a job for a day and I thought that they were delicious. π I decided to order six different kolaches: three with meat and three with sweet. These are just as delicious as I remember. I will definitely come back for more.
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Happy World Goth Day! π§π¦π·π For those of you who are not familiar with the day or the goth subculture, it is a day that was picked by a few DJs from the United Kingdom to make the goth subculture known to the world. The goth subculture is an alternative music-based following that enjoys music that was established in the late 70s - early 80s and continues to this day. Members of the subculture are famously known to be dressed in all black and take fashion inspiration from the musicians that they listen to. Members of the subculture are found all over the world and are known to include and are accepting of anyone regardless of race or religion. Some of us may even take the next step and decorate our living spaces with dark-themed home decor. It gets really exciting when the Halloween season comes and we get to seek the proper home decor that would otherwise not be available to purchase at any other time of the year. This subculture is also one of the most misunderstood because we - I include myself as a proud goth member - have a unique interest in topics that are mostly shunned by society in general such as the topic of death and dark themes. Because of this, many people would assume that we are into dark magic and even devil worshippers. Such assumptions have made the word "Goth" become related to "strange", "creepy", and "suspicious". Nothing can be further from the truth about the wrongful labels that have been given to us. We are just individuals who simply like to dress in all black and listen to a different genre of music. I enjoy many different types of music and I would like to share my personal favorites from the gothic collection in no particular order: Artist: The Sisters of Mercy Song: Lucretia my Reflection https://youtu.be/UoAs63R1cZM Artist: Drab Majesty Song: Cold Souls https://youtu.be/3-D4X8F9kEA Artist: Eyes of the Nightmare Jungle Song: Shadow Dance (some of you may know this one when I shared a post of a little girl dancing to this song a while ago) https://youtu.be/bQm_B5oJomc Artist: ΠΠ»Π΅ΠΊΡΡΠΎΡΠΎΡΠ΅Π· (Russian: electrophoresis) Song: Quo Vadis? https://youtu.be/f5NRP01G0js If anyone is interested, I may share more information about the goth subculture in future posts or in responses to this post. π¦Stay spookyπ¦
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In a conversation, it is always polite to talk to someone, not talk at a person without feedback. This is what the first chapter of The Resilience Breakthrough starts with: surrender the one-up relationship. The first of the seven tools of relational resilience is to have a discussion with someone with the intent to let the other person feel at ease and make them included instead of refusing to let them say a word. The way this works is by being on the same level as them or by letting them be a level above yourself. An example of this is if there is one other person that you are having a conversation with and there are only two chairs: one is a plain wooden chair and the other is a luxurious cushion chair. Offer the cushioned chair to the other person. It shows that you care about what the other person has to say, especially when the other person is distressed and deserves to be given a sense of comfort. There is normally a hierarchy in relationships, whether it is husband and wife, parent and child, boss and employee, or teacher and student. Our societies have taught us to be competitive and learn to be a bigger person than others. If we choose this route, it means that we think of ourselves as more important than we think we are. If there is someone who is either having a bad day and needs some support or someone who had just gone through a tragic event and absolutely feels like a failure, they are already feeling down on the hierarchy of success. If you truly love someone, you should never keep them in a low level of state of mind. There is a business company in which one of the co-founders, David Packard, introduces the "11 simple rules". These rules are as follows: 1. Think first of the other person. 2. Build up the other person's sense of importance. 3. Respect the other person's personality rights. 4. Give sincere appreciation. 5. Eliminate the negative. 6. Avoid openly trying to reform people. 7. Try to understand the other person. 8. Check first impressions. 9. Take care with the little details. 10. Develop a genuine interest in people. 11. Keep it up. These rules were meant to apply to his work culture where the employees were given more attention by the top executives, but these rules fit perfectly as "11 simple rules to maintain better relationships with people". A good way to implement this technique is to approach your family, friends, coworkers, and well-meaning strangers with the attitude of surrendering the "higher-up relationship". The goal is to make other people feel better about themselves. It will be beneficial for yourself and anyone who deserves praise instead of criticism. In each and every post of every chapter I go over, I want to share a link to the book which I have bought the book from. This is an affiliate link, which means that if someone purchased a book from the website using my link below I will receive a small compensation as a token of gratitude. It also supports the author who made the effort to write this book to help millions of people who struggle with their own personal problems. The link leads to the physical copy of the book, but there are other reading options as well such as audio or digital: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B00M0R19RE&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_XJ8BVMBNG5D4ZAS88JQ7&tag=carnessial-20 Image by Pezibear from Pixabay
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So a while back I read an amazing book about building resilience from the harsh realities of life. It was recommended by my therapist, which was one of the best books I have ever read. I had promised that I was going to go over the book in more detail but I had put it off for a long time. I had recently spoken with someone about past trauma and she told me that she has a hard time with toxic people in the past who continue to haunt her with memories. I realize that I had let myself become dominated by my traumatizing past and it has pushed whatever joy I had out of me. I feel that it is time to take control of myself again and start going over the book again in more detail. This book has four different types of resilience: Relational, Street, Resource, and Rock Bottom resilience. The first type of resilience that I will go over is Relational Resilience. There are seven chapters that cover the topic of Relational Resilience. The definition of Relational Resilience is the ability and motivation to put effort into life because of the dependency on people who are counting on you. This could mean more than just family and friends but also people with who you interact and who depend on you for their own motivation and support. The biggest example in my case: my Noise.cash followers. When I mentioned that I was taking some time off for myself, a lot of people have voiced their support for me to get better because they enjoy my content so much. Now, I want to make regular posts because I know that there are people who want to listen to what I have to say. There is also a special friend here that is always wanting me to make sure that I am doing fine. This is someone who not only cares so much for me but is also dependent on me to keep our friendship strong. It is the reason why I need to continue to honor the people who are close to me for their companionship. In the next post, I will go over the first chapter and first of the seven parts of Relational Resilience. In each and every post of every chapter I go over, I want to share a link to the book which I have bought the book from. This is an affiliate link, which means that if someone purchased a book from the website using my link below I will receive a small compensation as a token of gratitude. It also supports the author who made the effort to write this book to help millions of people who struggle with their own personal problems. The link leads to the physical copy of the book, but there are other reading options as well such as audio or digital: https://read.amazon.com/kp/embed?asin=B00M0R19RE&preview=newtab&linkCode=kpe&ref_=cm_sw_r_kb_dp_RRJ8VE2QH1HC4VWD4NZZ&tag=carnessial-20
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It's been a week since I made my last post. It's funny that my last post was about me being so frustrated about not being able to make a post because of the glitches that was happening on his platform. I'm not sure if you know this about me but I feel I am suffering again from social media burnout. Whenever I feel social media burnout, I have no interest in wanting to talk to anybody on social media or even check on any updates. I feel like I am overwhelmed on having to be on here at least every day only because I feel like I am losing my energy into becoming an interesting person. I honestly don't feel like I have anything I want to share and I don't want to just make a post just to have something on my channel. Please forgive me if I do not make any posts more often, but if there's anything that I want to share is that I did let my health get out of control and right now I'm working to try to get into a healthy lifestyle again.
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It's good that noise.cash is working properly again. I was really starting to get frustrated that I was doing something wrong, I was ready to lose my temper. I (double-posted) a message about something serious and I thought that it was violating noise.cash's policy of promoting violence even though it was not promoting violence. But I am glad that the platform is working properly and is working for everyone now.
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I've been wanting to make a post but there seems to be something wrong.
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I've been wanting to share a post about a serious topic but I keep getting this notice not to spam even though I do not see my message being posted. If I keep trying, I won't be able to share it. I've been so frustrated I feel like I am ready to smash my Chromebook.
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Warning: This post contains very sensitive content including a link to a YouTube video of actual murders taking place. I had wanted to show for a while the negative sides of being a gun owner. I want to state that I am a gun owner in America and there are many sides to American citizens like myself on whether or not we should be allowed to own firearms. The pictures are screenshots of a video that shows how anger can escalate to danger. It is about an analysis pertaining to the situation that could have been prevented if it was settled in a more, civilized manner. Two neighbors have been in very, heated arguments in the past and it is mentioned that they had never gotten along with each other. The man who shot the husband and wife is a widowed veteran who is living alone and deals with his neighbors harassing him all the time for a while. Those two had even gone as far to mock the man for losing his wife. At the time of the video, it has escalated to the point when the man snapped, walked back into his house, and proceeded to shoot both of his neighbors with his pistol and then with a rifle. All three ended up dead: the husband and wife were killed on the street while the shooter walked back into his home and took his own life with another gun he had owned. Situations like this can almost happen to everyone when there is someone who is dealing with very horrible people who have nothing better to do than to harass and even abuse others. As someone who occasionally deals with mean people, I cannot help but want to take out my anger the same way. But the most important part of being a gun owner is not only gun safety but trigger discipline. Trigger discipline is having control of stressful situations by not settling them with immediate action with a firearm. What has happened here was not planned or orchestrated but a result of the inability to settle disagreements. There were many different ways these people could have handled their problems but they took a route where they have paid the price for letting their problems escalate without a proper solution. Violence and hatred will NEVER cease to exist. Neither will hope. Link to video: "A Terribly Disturbing Ego Battle" https://youtu.be/Id9pd8zfQcs
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Reading has never been more important than ever before. Sadly, it is a declining activity as people for the past decade or two have been more consumed by social media. It is very ironic that I am complaining about the social media takeover using a social media platform but I do feel that I restrict myself from posting too much, which is why many people do not see me too much. I feel that reading good books is very important because one day when I felt very tired and I was certain that I would be falling asleep early, I started to read a book called "Outliers" by Malcolm Gladwell. Normally, reading books before bedtime has helped me with falling asleep but reading this book about extraordinary people who either put in about 10,000 hours into a skill or happened to be at a certain location to receive a position that has led them on a path that they would have never been if they weren't at a certain location has made me more excited and had made me forget that I was tired and ready to go to sleep. I ended up taking a walk and listening to some energetic, electronic dance music. If I hadn't chosen to read, I would have just laid in bed without any motivation that I would have gotten. I would say to trust in the power of books and let them inspire you to be a stronger individual instead of some social media model that only cares about attention. πππππππ
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Very soon, I will be joining millions of people around the world who are taking control of their lives by working in the comfort of my own home π» than commuting to some job that takes time and energy away from me. π§βππ For the past two days, I have been visiting an on-site office for training on my new job. I have never been more happy and excited about a job at any time in my life. My new job will be monitoring orders that go through an online store to make sure that they are not fraudulent. I will basically be a detective π΅ looking for suspected orders that could possibly be linked to identity theft. Here are the things that I will NOT miss about working an out-of-home job: 1. Commuting to work: any job that requires a half-hour drive on the highway π£ can be frustrating when you are sharing the road with A LOT of stupid and careless drivers. 2. When accidents happen on the freeway, it can add a lot of time to your commute all because of the same stupid drivers who not only ruined their own days but decided to ruin the commute of hundreds of drivers. π‘ 3. The on-site jobs themselves are not the most lovable places. The worst parts are the jobs that drain your energy and leave me unable to pursue my hobbies or activities outside of work. I've worked mainly at warehouses, so I am always exhausted by the end of the day and just feel burnt out because I know that I have to keep repeating the same stupid schedule for the next day and the day after next.ππ§ππππππππππ ππ« 4. The cost of gas. β½ Now, gas prices have never been as expensive as they were since 2008. π Traveling is now something I would consider a luxury and it looks like the price of gas is not going down anytime soon. The only downside I have about this job is that it is only part-time but with the less spending I will be saving anyways, I can finally focus on my hobbies and activities I've been putting off for so long. ππ€ Photo courtesy of pixabay.com.
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Nothing is more annoying than having a phone that does not work properly. Today, my phone stopped working properly. The screen is not just cracked but is also no longer touch-sensitive. I had visited a large library the day before yesterday and had only taken one picture of a giant-size chessboard setup. I have to casually bang my phone on the table to make it work again. I can't even take any more pictures to share on noise.cash until I get a new phone. The good news is that I am receiving a large tax return by the end of this month and I can purchase a much more expensive, but better-functioning phone. In the meantime, I use my own Chromebook to make and read posts on noise.cash. Photo credit: https://pixabay.com/images/id-2222010/
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Being nice to others all the time can lead you to heartbreak and betrayal when the person or people you are giving the consideration of being a friend decides to harm you when you are exposing your vulnerabilities to them. I came to accept that the society I live in will never be a happy place no matter how much people are calling for an end to racism, hatred, violence, and discrimination. The idea of being kind to others and they will return the gratitude sound good on paper and in films, but being applied to real-life is nothing short of a fantasy. I believe that preparing for a dystopian future is more useful and realistic than hoping and praying for a utopian paradise. I feel that people are always seeking mystical comfort than facing and overcoming the uncomfortable difficulties in life. Some people still believe that being nice to everyone will mean a nicer world. It will lead to being taken advantage of and a more unpleasant realization that the world will never be as kind as it should be. Below is an excerpt from a YouTube video that illustrates my point of why everyone does not deserve the courtesy of being treated nicely. βItβs natural and beautiful to strive to be a nice person. In a world full of cruelty and thoughtlessness, nice people are committed to being generous, sympathetic, and gentle. They never want to cause anyone to feel defeated or to lose sleep. They will go to great lengths to spare others tears. It sounds especially lovely. Nevertheless, it seems impossible to go through the whole of life being nothing but kind. Sooner or later, we are all called upon to make decisions that, even as they protect things we very much care about, will ruffle feathers, generate upset, and may lead us to be (at least for a time) violently hated in some quarters.β ~The School of Life~ YouTube video "Stop trying to be nice all the time": https://youtu.be/-TxzW4eklEU
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Just enjoying some Chinese food at a restaurant near my house. I got out of work about an hour earlier and I decided just to walk to this restaurant. I've ordered takeout several times when I've eaten from this place, but today it is actually open to dine in. For the past couple of years, you can only order food to eat out of this place. One thing I can't help but notice: and the many different locations where I've lived, there's always a Chinese restaurant nearby where I can just walk and order some Chinese food. It's pretty cool and a bit too much of a coincidence, but I feel like there is a reason why I always happen to live close by a chinese restaurant. It is one of the cool things about living in america: you get to try different types of food without having to travel to other countries. But one thing that definitely needs to be considered is that the food can be very drastically different than if it were to be made authentically in the country of origin.
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I had a chance to visit my local cemetery yesterday. The weather was a little bit too cold for me to go on another hike through the mountains β°οΈ, but it was not too bad for me to take a nice walk. I do not have any loved ones that I know that are buried here. I just enjoy visiting cemeteries because I am also interested in the topic of death whether it is in fiction or nonfiction. I do not have any loved ones who I am close with but all these Graves remind me that they are buried by someone that truly misses them. Some of these graves are clearly not people who lived to old age but some are ones who have tragically died young and in different times. Some of them had even been born around or after my birth and they have died younger than I have. These are people who are dearly missed, but I just can't help to think that I would not be able to be buried in a grave because no one would know of my absence. If you can relate to not having any friends or family and the fact that you will die with no one remembering you, the most important part is that there is always a reason to enjoy life and that death is the final resting place where both the good parts and the bad parts of life no longer have any more meaning. With the inevitable presence of death, life should be more celebrated with more days of happiness and excitement. There's always different options for those of you who do not have any families that will remember you when you were gone: you can have a life of adventure without the responsibility of having to maintain a family to hold you back. In other words, just as yourself, "what is worth dying for?" What is worth your life to remember until the day you are no longer breathing? To me, learning to overcome the negative parts of life has been life-changing and has made me appreciate life a whole lot more.
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I had a chance to visit Clark's planetarium after I got off of work yesterday. It is located in my capital city of salt lake City. For those of you who don't know, planetarium is a museum that is dedicated to exhibits of outer space. They share facts about planets, stars, and other outer space facts. I had a chance to walk around and enjoy the few kinds of exhibits. One exhibit I enjoyed it is controlling a robotic vehicle that moves balls around a certain area. The planetarium is free to enter, but they do have some extra options that requires payment. The free exhibits are great by themselves, but the paid exhibits are such things as 3D movies and planetarium merchandise. I believe it is very important for children to enjoy and learn about the universe that we live in. Even if I never had a chance to visit the planetarium when I was a kid, I remember reading a book that had many different facts about Earth and the size of the universe. Even though my interest has waned over the years, my interest and fascination about the size of our universe will never go away. Even if we live for an infinite amount of time, we will never truly see everything that the universe has to offer but I believe that the best reason for our existence is to discover and improve our species.
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I take the issue of mental health seriously. There are people who suffer because they either were born with mental limitations or suffered trauma from abuse. I was one of the many unlucky who was born to monsters that called themselves parents. It was not until last year that I realized that I was full of self-hate because I never experienced love from either of my parents, even when they told me that they love me. In the year 2019, I had developed, battled, and overcame serious clinical depression. I had overcome it because I knew that it was holding me back from my friends who I have made when I moved away from my father. But I had cut off contact with them during my early and severe stage of depression because I felt really hopeless. But I overcame depression because I knew that I missed them. Fast forward a year and I felt much better after doctors and therapy, I ended up contacting my friends and the biggest disappointment had happened: they did not care that I overcame depression. But I also understand that even though I had pushed them away a long time ago and I am responsible for the friendship being broken, I still felt betrayed and forgotten. Because of that, I no longer wished to be friends with anyone anymore. But a certain circumstance has happened to me where I have learned to overcome my past pain and over several months, I have learned to stop hating myself and start learning to overcome the negative parts of my life. One of the keys to a happy life is not thinking positively, it is learning to overcome the negativity. Even though I do not wish depression on anyone, I felt that it has taught me about learning to overcome the negatives. There are many different types of mental illness that cannot be described in one short post, but the purpose of this post is that I hope it inspires people who are struggling with their own struggles of either mental illness or toxic family situations to seek help and assistance. Image by <a href="https://pixabay.com/users/darksouls1-2189876/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=image&utm_content=4606997">Enrique Meseguer</a> from <a href="https://pixabay.com/?utm_source=link-attribution&utm_medium=referral&utm_campaign=image&utm_content=4606997">Pixabay</a>
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Sorry for deleting my last post but I have been given a reason. I'll make another important post about mental illness sometime soon.
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I worked at a new location a few hours ago and it was located right next to a bookstore. I visited the bookstore after I finished the job (which went very well) and I happened to find an interesting book that I have read when I was a young child. It is an entertaining and bizarre type of book that I have many memories of checking it out from the library and reading it's very funny content. It is a nonfiction book that has brief descriptions of certain topics that are considered disgusting such as gross human anatomy, diseases, animals, and disturbing cultural practices. I decided to purchase it (I felt overcharged but whatever) because I was in complete awe that I had a book that I thought I would never lay my hands on again. I feel that the real joy in life is to just continue to enjoy what you liked when you were young and not think about being too old to still enjoy childish humor.
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Today, I read a very interesting article about an optical illusion. There are three possible things that you would see from this photo, but the first thing that you see reveals your best strength. The first thing I saw was a skull, but there are three different possibilities and each different interpretation means something: If you see the skull it means that you are very intellectual. Not to brag, but I do enjoy reading books on knowledge. I will admit that I'm having a hard time applying everything that I'm learning to become a much stronger person. If you see the little girl it means that you have a strength of moving on from a difficult past to a much stronger future. If you see the background it means that you are able to trust your instinct. Here's a link to the article in case if you want to read it for yourself. I don't want to plagiarize the entire article word by word. https://nypost.com/2022/03/15/what-you-see-in-this-optical-illusion-will-reveal-your-strength/
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So I do not have any plans or any interest in having a family in my future. But watching this video of a little girl dancing to an awesome song makes me want to have a daughter like her. This is the video of a song that was made by a couple of fans that uses the video of the character Wednesday Addams dancing to the song. https://youtu.be/bQm_B5oJomc
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I had just finished reading another book. Unlike the one that describes the art of war, this one is teaching how to overcome boundaries by learning how to use negative experiences as a reason to continue to seek a positive future. This book was recommended to me by my therapist (thank you Rachael)π and I had made promise to a friend of mine that I would finish it so I can talk about it ππ The whole book is very big and was not easy to read in a quick amount of time but it mostly deals with four different types of resilience that can help a person overcome their boundaries: The first one is called relational resilience. It's about learning how to overcome the negative boundaries in order to make the bonds in your relationship with your family and your loved ones stronger. Some examples to help make a strong relationship is to engage emotionally, never take friendship for granted, putting down phones when you are out on dates or out on a family activity, and connecting with something that is bigger than yourself. The other one is called Street resilience. Street resilience is channeling your emotions by guiding them, directing them, and using them for a productive purpose, instead of letting your emotions use you. Such examples of these are: channeling your pain into a good cause, reframe your limitations with potential strengths, focus on what you're doing right, and looking fear into the eye. Third type of resilience is called resource resilience. This type of resilience tabs into the abilities that you have at your disposal in order to get through the special situation in your life. Some of the more detailed examples of resource Brazilians are cultivating a worthy mindset, fight resignation with spontaneity, get some production therapy, and not accepting no. The 4th and final and perhaps the most important type of resilience is called Rock bottom resilience. This is the type of resilience when all hope seems to be lost on whatever situation is going on with your life. Some important factors to make sure that when you are at the lowest part of your life is to remember to: radically accept your circumstance, don't make things worse, go for a small win, tear off labels, discover the power of future promise, and forgiveness because it is the only option. This post would be the size of another book if I would go into even more detail of each of the four types of resilience. Which is why I will go into much further detail with my future posts now that I feel like I have an actual purpose to start posting again because I feel that there are people who could use some support and encouragement. Also, since I enjoyed this book so much I will definitely read it again so that I can continue to allow more positivity in my life.
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Hey everyone. Sorry I haven't been active in making posts lately but I have been simply unmotivated because I was working a job I hated so much but provided me with health insurance. I was just fired from that job last week when I just simply stopped caring about doing a good job. I will say though that I feel happy and liberated now that I'm no longer stuck to something that was not rewarding me but was punishing me. Anyways, I had just read a book called The art of war by Sun Tzu. It is a very short book, but a very important book to read especially in the times where warfare is now starting to become very likely. Even though the book is very short and I read it in one sitting, I will admit that I have not truly understood everything. It is a book that is meant to be read and looked over to be applied in real life. This version is very interesting to me because it has the original Chinese spelling right next to the English translated pages. I may read it later again and go over some important topics that it refers to and why it's important to apply them to everyday Life.
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Last week when I was shopping at the mall, I had walked into a used bookstore and she was surprised had discovered a comic book version of Niccolo Machiavelli's work The Prince. I had studied and learned about Niccolo Machiavelli's idea of becoming an effective leader whether it is governing a state or being the owner of the business. It is a pragmatic philosophy on life that focuses on being successful at the cost of morality. This comic book that I purchased made it much easier for me to visualize the concepts that the book had otherwise was only told. Even though the actual book was very short, I actually never completely read it. This book made reading the prince much easier. If you're ever wondering more about Machiavelli and his philosophies, I will just start out searching on YouTube of people breaking down his philosophy in modern sense.
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A long time ago, I had a family vacation to a beach in Mexico. It was a moonlit night where the moonlight was the only source of light on the beach where I was walking once and I was able to spot a sea turtle. I saw that the sea turtle was on the beach burying its eggs and due to the fact that it was really dark I almost ran into it. I just stood there and realize that I was up close and personal with a creature that I have seen many times both in fiction and in wildlife documentaries. Even though I could barely see, I knew that the turtle was more focused on just burying its eggs and less about my appearance. I was not too sure whether my presence made me think that I was a predator or a threat, but I just simply knelt by watching it burying its eggs. Without notice when it finished it actually scampered off as quickly as it can into the ocean. When I said quickly it actually moved so fast that I was actually running just to keep up with it before it entered the ocean and disappeared from my life forever. This is one of those memories that I come back to remind myself about wishing that I was there again. π΄ππ ποΈπ¦π And thank you for everybody for being patient with me for not uploading any posts. βοΈπ
